We need more people like you online giving advice sister! You give real advice in its reality and totality. Allahuma barik Jazak Allah Khair I don’t usually comment on videos in general but just wanted to show support and thank you for talking about real issues hard to find in 2024
Wa iyyakum. I try to be as transparent and real and raw as possible to perhaps encourage other Muslims to do the same. Yes it is difficult to find people talking about real issues without trying to either love in a victim hood reality or glazing over problems without directly addressing them as if they will go away on their own somehow. The support is much appreciated. I'm out here alone all on my lonesome just trying to make a difference even if it's small and for a small amount of people.
Alhamdulilah for this information... I am Philly and from Jersey and sisters be trying to discourage me by saying if you marry someone over there and he abandons you it is hard to get a divorce.. and once I come there i am stuck there if I dont haave a mahrum.. All the negative things that you can possibly imagine was said to me.. But with me having the faith that I have in Allah knowing he is my Wali.. I over look all the negative responses for me wanting to make hijrah.. This video came right on time to enlighten the na sayers negativity.. I love your character .. May Allah bless you and your family and give you all good in this life and the next .. Ameen.. love you fisibililah ❤
Keep your head up sis . Allah will facilitate you in your Hijrah so no worries. Philly Is a negative place so I'm not surprised. Fear mongering is their thing.
I despise those men that made the situation horrible during hijrah.. makes good brothers like myself be second guessed and denied a possible good marriage… Allah is the Wali.. naam
This only happens if the woman is bitter, and didn't learn anything nor can she judge character correctly or is not asking the potential spouse the right questions before marriage and then finalizing everything with making Istikhara. there is nothing to fear if a person consults their Lord about a potential spouse.
Im going back to that talk you did on the harms of living under the non muslim society as a Muslim… I need to continue to boil my blood of reality and save every nickel and hit outta here
I told at least 2 sisters that I’d set them up over there in UAE 🇦🇪 EGYPT 🇪🇬 or any Muslim country to live, being that they were AAW, they declined and still here in America single, struggling, and being led by desire, this why I say sisters don’t wanna leave America and live amongst the Muslims.. at least not here in America. Divorce is permissible, true, but this one of the main reasons problems are present in the AA Muslim culture.. where’s the practice of Islam??? The sunnah?? all lip service. Knowing you can get divorced quick in Islam. This has been abused and nobody fights for the family(not you) ..smh
Tell me about it. They claim they want to leave but then get cold feet when you actually put pressure and words into actions. Oh well. What can you do....
@@hijrahemiraat2990 I’m not gonna knock AAMW, but y’all have utilized y’all game playing methods, curved bros after they came clean, was gonna put her in Egypt, but a no go.. soooo, I’m gonna go foreign,
The problem is I was always forced to take care of the family. My money was always drained financially. I actually set him up to stand on his own two feet to do business in that two year process . After all he needed to be able to look after the kids.
And he owes me thousands upon thousands of dollars from all the years I had to pay rent. Never bought me anything or the children. However there were times he was employed and we put money together towards leaving the U.S. It's been a mess. When you're in a mess with children connected then you have to plan carefully before getting divorced.
@hijrahemiraat2990 : subhannallh, I didn't know but kind of picked up on several times especially when you said that you want to marry an Emirati. May Allah make your hijrah full of blessings, ameen.
I don’t like this video in part, you say you not a matchmaker right, but you thurl in your explanation of your divorce experience, how about talking about all the single women there that want husbands, successful stories, encouraging words of living in the Muslim country PRACTICING the deen. and you suggesting documentation, speak on polygyny over there, keep it balanced now.. and keep the content coming
I hear you brother. Nope I'm not a matchmaker anymore. I used to do that a lot back in the day but people turn out to be crazy and you don't want to be blamed for hooking someone up with a lunatic be they male or female.
What about Salvaging the relationship..TRULY!!!! we give up so quick (not you) and we (as Muslims) are all that we have, we must make divorce the last act … this lack of practicing the sunnah is crazy
Usually the woman does everything in her power to make the marriage work and even gives warnings to the husband that the marriage will go down hill if things don't change. However when a man who doesn't fear Allah regarding marriage is so used being treated well and the woman dealing with him fairly and with etiquette, they take everything as a joke until you make a move. In my case he understood and said that it was long overdue and that he knew that he was starting fires the entire marriage. I was doing all the marital work while he blamed me and tried to hide his problems by always starting fights with me. However when I didn't participate in the craziness after 19 years then he was caught out there looking crazy. You can't hide behind no responses from a person you're trying to fight.
@@hijrahemiraat2990 I agree ☝️ communication is key and lots of it.. that first part about fearing Allah..smh.. may Allah increase or iman in him.. Ameen
@@hijrahemiraat2990 this is true.. but 19 in??? Shame on a mane that HADa woman that long and wasn’t her friend at ANY point… typical AA drama.. imma become a short movie director of a movie called “The Lustful and the Reckless”😩 a real inner city tale of the Muslims
We need more people like you online giving advice sister! You give real advice in its reality and totality. Allahuma barik Jazak Allah Khair I don’t usually comment on videos in general but just wanted to show support and thank you for talking about real issues hard to find in 2024
Wa iyyakum.
I try to be as transparent and real and raw as possible to perhaps encourage other Muslims to do the same. Yes it is difficult to find people talking about real issues without trying to either love in a victim hood reality or glazing over problems without directly addressing them as if they will go away on their own somehow.
The support is much appreciated. I'm out here alone all on my lonesome just trying to make a difference even if it's small and for a small amount of people.
Alhamdulilah for this information... I am Philly and from Jersey and sisters be trying to discourage me by saying if you marry someone over there and he abandons you it is hard to get a divorce.. and once I come there i am stuck there if I dont haave a mahrum.. All the negative things that you can possibly imagine was said to me.. But with me having the faith that I have in Allah knowing he is my Wali.. I over look all the negative responses for me wanting to make hijrah.. This video came right on time to enlighten the na sayers negativity.. I love your character .. May Allah bless you and your family and give you all good in this life and the next .. Ameen.. love you fisibililah ❤
Keep your head up sis . Allah will facilitate you in your Hijrah so no worries. Philly Is a negative place so I'm not surprised. Fear mongering is their thing.
May Allah make things easy for both of you.
Ameen
I despise those men that made the situation horrible during hijrah.. makes good brothers like myself be second guessed and denied a possible good marriage… Allah is the Wali.. naam
This only happens if the woman is bitter, and didn't learn anything nor can she judge character correctly or is not asking the potential spouse the right questions before marriage and then finalizing everything with making Istikhara. there is nothing to fear if a person consults their Lord about a potential spouse.
@@hijrahemiraat2990 this statement contains facts
Im going back to that talk you did on the harms of living under the non muslim society as a Muslim… I need to continue to boil my blood of reality and save every nickel and hit outta here
Excellent. Whatever reminds you to keep going then do that.
I told at least 2 sisters that I’d set them up over there in UAE 🇦🇪 EGYPT 🇪🇬 or any Muslim country to live, being that they were AAW, they declined and still here in America single, struggling, and being led by desire, this why I say sisters don’t wanna leave America and live amongst the Muslims.. at least not here in America. Divorce is permissible, true, but this one of the main reasons problems are present in the AA Muslim culture.. where’s the practice of Islam??? The sunnah?? all lip service. Knowing you can get divorced quick in Islam. This has been abused and nobody fights for the family(not you) ..smh
Tell me about it. They claim they want to leave but then get cold feet when you actually put pressure and words into actions. Oh well. What can you do....
@@hijrahemiraat2990 I’m can leave them rat deer!!!
@@hijrahemiraat2990 I’m not gonna knock AAMW, but y’all have utilized y’all game playing methods, curved bros after they came clean, was gonna put her in Egypt, but a no go.. soooo, I’m gonna go foreign,
So the complete opposite of the United States?
Basically
Did you take nafaqa from him whilst planning to divorce him for 2 years?
Nope. And he doesn't give me anything. He doesn't follow court orders. But I don't want to get him in trouble.
The problem is I was always forced to take care of the family. My money was always drained financially. I actually set him up to stand on his own two feet to do business in that two year process . After all he needed to be able to look after the kids.
He never gave me my rights as a wife. Which was the reason for the divorce.
And he owes me thousands upon thousands of dollars from all the years I had to pay rent. Never bought me anything or the children. However there were times he was employed and we put money together towards leaving the U.S. It's been a mess. When you're in a mess with children connected then you have to plan carefully before getting divorced.
Even when you take blks out of dar kufr, you the same results Subhanallah
Yup unfortunately. Allahu Musta'an
Purification of the self is what's vital to successfully practicing Islam
So you're currently single?
it's been two years sis
@hijrahemiraat2990 : subhannallh, I didn't know but kind of picked up on several times especially when you said that you want to marry an Emirati. May Allah make your hijrah full of blessings, ameen.
I don’t like this video in part, you say you not a matchmaker right, but you thurl in your explanation of your divorce experience, how about talking about all the single women there that want husbands, successful stories, encouraging words of living in the Muslim country PRACTICING the deen. and you suggesting documentation, speak on polygyny over there, keep it balanced now.. and keep the content coming
I hear you brother. Nope I'm not a matchmaker anymore. I used to do that a lot back in the day but people turn out to be crazy and you don't want to be blamed for hooking someone up with a lunatic be they male or female.
@@hijrahemiraat2990 I hear you sister, I completely forgot understand, no lies detected here.
What about Salvaging the relationship..TRULY!!!! we give up so quick (not you) and we (as Muslims) are all that we have, we must make divorce the last act … this lack of practicing the sunnah is crazy
Usually the woman does everything in her power to make the marriage work and even gives warnings to the husband that the marriage will go down hill if things don't change. However when a man who doesn't fear Allah regarding marriage is so used being treated well and the woman dealing with him fairly and with etiquette, they take everything as a joke until you make a move.
In my case he understood and said that it was long overdue and that he knew that he was starting fires the entire marriage. I was doing all the marital work while he blamed me and tried to hide his problems by always starting fights with me. However when I didn't participate in the craziness after 19 years then he was caught out there looking crazy. You can't hide behind no responses from a person you're trying to fight.
@@hijrahemiraat2990 I agree ☝️ communication is key and lots of it.. that first part about fearing Allah..smh.. may Allah increase or iman in him.. Ameen
@@hijrahemiraat2990 this is true.. but 19 in??? Shame on a mane that HADa woman that long and wasn’t her friend at ANY point… typical AA drama.. imma become a short movie director of a movie called “The Lustful and the Reckless”😩 a real inner city tale of the Muslims
@@hijrahemiraat2990on behalf of the BAMM that ARE striving and fearing Allah more each hour, we sorry for one of ours wasted ya time
@@yadtransport1609 That's hilarious 🤣