Alan is giving faking for the camera. How are you so into cousin Joyce on camera but then not returning her texts? I don't like it! Joyce don't fall for his shenanigans
Chillllle the amount of times I heard "I've just been going through a lot and wanted some time by myself" only to find them messing with other women 🙄🙄 it's giving emotional manipulation & these type of people love to target empathetic people. I do hope he is being genuine and honest with Joyce.
I didn't get my first boyfriend until I was 34 and to be honest...I'm so glad I waited to share that love with someone who is loving, supportive and open. We shouldn't compare our timeline to anyone else's and visa versa. Sending lots of good vibes on your journey, Joyce!
Alan is not the one for Joyce. While he experienced a recent passing, this does not explain his previous ghosting antics. The therapist who is gorgeous and funny btw, lowkey want her as a relationship therapist, was spot on with her breadcrumb analysis ❤️🔥
I was just about to type the same thing. It seems like her lack of response was due to him not following up for an extended period. She didn’t want to seem thirsty.
Yeah he comes off fake and doesnt seem to like you Joyce. I get your friend is trying to encourage you but I feel she's inadvertantly giving false hope with this guy. I'd leave him alone personally.
Alan is not interested in her. He likely sees her as just a friend and he needs to be honest with her about that. It’s very obvious he’s not feeling her as a romantic interest. She needs to pick up on his cues. If his communication is sporadic & he’s not actively pursuing her, he’s not interested.
I love this series! Her and Alan would probably make good friends but looking forward to seeing how more of her dating experience turns out! Also love Monique and her sound advice.
Agreed i feel he only shows interest when filming is involved but with Tyson, Tyson shows interest on and off camera. Chemistry does not equal compatibility
She asked this man why communication has been spotty over what I would assume has been weeks (not days), and his response was “my friend was passed yesterday” 😂🤦🏾♀️
I love this series. Can we do an open call for sincere single men who may want a relationship with Joyce? I need to see more dates/options. The friends and the therapist can "interview" and filter in just the ones that maybe the right fit. 🤷🏽♀️
“Every man’s love language is physical touch” if that ain’t the TRUTH! Scrolling through profiles on these apps have me rolling my eyes every time I read that!!!
I really wish y'all would stop playing in Joyce's face. Him doing the absolute bare minimum to be "vulnerable" only after Joyce brought up his inconsistent behavior is nothing to swoon over. Like, that's below the bar. He's clearly not into Joyce. There's no actual chemistry here which she deserves. Next!
Take your time. It’s a process. I am so proud of you for being yourself. You keep it real. Don’t ever be a man’s second thought! You should always be his first thought when it comes to a relationship.😍
This was slightly embarrassing. Not for Joyce but him. He’s not at all into her. And it’s such a shame that he’s forcing interaction for whatever exposure he’s seeking.
I'm a bit weary of Alan. If he's not that engaged you with you when the cameras aren't around that's a problem. His job title was listed as 'Actor, Producer'. Maybe he's using the cameras to add to his portfolio.
Alan is a NO. He can’t show up for your bday shindig but is here and present for the production 🎥. He’s on this for his own personal reasons, not Joyce.
Men with beards stay getting us caught up! Your friend died yesterday (and my condolences), but what happened with the party, bruh?! Joyce just get away from him- he aint serious.
I've been in that kind of situation before. A guy that never bother to anwers and leave you hanging...only to come back when it's convenient for him. It's a heartache really, you loose way mor than you win. If he really wanted to keep the bond between you two, he could have left audios every two day and asked you to audio back. Audio are faster than writhing. He could avoid audios the days the grief hits the hardest. My point is, if he really likes you, there are ways to keep touch. Even one long audio(10 min minimum)a week would have been good. Some way to keep your relationship going. Moving slow is okay. Ignoring people isn't.
I love Joyce. Her demon voice is scary but I think it's because you don't expect that sound to cone from her. Beautiful singing voice. Keep dating both guys. Everyone on her says he is messing with other women but from someone who has depression and anxiety it can seem shady to other people when you are going thru shit.
I love these comments. All the thick, Black, or woman phobic people don’t watch it so that the people who this content is for can actually enjoy without being trolled.
First of all I love Joyce. I love her quirkiness her sence of humor, how she's not afraid to be open and honest. But I'm going to say something that will piss some people off. & As a black woman who's been married to a black man for 23yrs. She needs to think outside of her race in regards to relationships and dating. I grew up and went to school with black women with "unconventional looks" they were a little nerdy a little bit more attached to earthy things, hella into comic books, anime and Star Trek.. and for some reason our fellow black boys shun them & called them weird..BUT the white guys stuck to them like flies on sh!t. Joyce to me fits in that category like Gabourey Sidibe, Whoopi Goldberg & Alfre Woodard (look at their husbands) & Lesli ( can't think of last name). Very beautiful women but have a different look about them which men who date (black women) outside of their race are more attracted to. I'm just telling you what I've seen in my 44 years of life. This is not to stereotype or say all situations are like this but I've seen it too many times... even in my own family. Joyce think outside the box... and don't exclusively date one race of men honey.. your prince charming might just be of another race.
And gitty, she just seemed more in her feminine energy but I think that’s because he’s showing her that he is romantically interested. Alan just seems like a friend
Joyce has grown so much as a person and I love how she is valuing her time and really realizing what she wants and needs from a partner. Even opening up and asking those questions of where are you at in terms of this relationship is such a huge step. Im so proud of her progress and her journey she is blossoming into such an inspiring strong woman. I love this series and being able to watch her find not only herself but what qualities she needs in a partner it is so important.
Joyce you deserve better. I don’t like Alan at all! Super phony and had every excuse to miss your bday but showed up bright and early for TH-cam! If my friend passed away the day before I would have to reschedule. You deserve so much better Joyce, your amazing… even Mo said no ma’am 😅.
I like that Alan and Joyce have things in common, but based on my own past experiences having similar values and perspectives on life are much more important for a sustainable relationship than having interests in common, like art and demon voices (even though it's fun to have those too 😂)
Joyce is beautiful and genuine and TALENTED! Alan is not the one-cute though. lol We must not forget, the episode she picked his fit and he said,” I’m still in these streets though” 👀😂
Joyce is in love with an Artsy Boy who was on a dance team? Excuse me but is this ‘Save The Last Dance’ and is Joyce playing the role that Julia Stiles did? BRB Screaming 🗣️
I love this I have watched a few episodes and they had me smiling big for Joyce. I probably need to go back to earlier episodes because I'm watching this one like Joyce looks like a great person to spend time with as a friend and in a relationship. I think she will find her mister sooner than she thinks when she is ready. Go ahead Joyce do your thing.
Alan is giving faking for the camera. How are you so into cousin Joyce on camera but then not returning her texts? I don't like it! Joyce don't fall for his shenanigans
I 100% agree!
I agree with you
Yes he must an aspiring actor.
he using joyce for cloutttt. ion like his ass.
The most clear sign was when she said “I really like you” and he just nodded…
The fact that he only shows up when a camera is there is all you need to know, no? 😒
Fr
I didn't want to say that but.....
😬 This guy is not interested in her at all. I truly hope she finds someone who adores her, and not a lukewarm loser.
I think Alan is an opportunist. He's more interested on getting clout than Joyce. I thought he was disingenuous from the jump.
Chillllle the amount of times I heard "I've just been going through a lot and wanted some time by myself" only to find them messing with other women 🙄🙄 it's giving emotional manipulation & these type of people love to target empathetic people. I do hope he is being genuine and honest with Joyce.
Alan does not take her seriously.
Alan seems like the kind of guy who has a lot of situitionships and uses his charm to emotionally manipulate a situation.
right on the nail!
Agree!!
you seem like the type to plant a 20million dollar crystal in your forehead
You said it best!!!
Yasss, we have to look out for our good sis Joyce! 💛
My favourite part about these dates is that Joyce is herself and has a great time while Lindsay gives us prompts for the Fan Fic.
I didn't get my first boyfriend until I was 34 and to be honest...I'm so glad I waited to share that love with someone who is loving, supportive and open.
We shouldn't compare our timeline to anyone else's and visa versa. Sending lots of good vibes on your journey, Joyce!
🧡
Alan is not the one for Joyce. While he experienced a recent passing, this does not explain his previous ghosting antics.
The therapist who is gorgeous and funny btw, lowkey want her as a relationship therapist, was spot on with her breadcrumb analysis ❤️🔥
yep was thinking the same thing
I was just about to type the same thing. It seems like her lack of response was due to him not following up for an extended period. She didn’t want to seem thirsty.
Yeah he comes off fake and doesnt seem to like you Joyce. I get your friend is trying to encourage you but I feel she's inadvertantly giving false hope with this guy. I'd leave him alone personally.
Alan is a vibe BUT if she wants an actual relationship I say continue pursuing Tyson or other candidates.
Alan is not interested in her. He likely sees her as just a friend and he needs to be honest with her about that. It’s very obvious he’s not feeling her as a romantic interest. She needs to pick up on his cues. If his communication is sporadic & he’s not actively pursuing her, he’s not interested.
I love this series! Her and Alan would probably make good friends but looking forward to seeing how more of her dating experience turns out! Also love Monique and her sound advice.
Mo told her straight up “you being played boo!” Joyce is there like “yeah, but!…”
@@rhodabaruch4 Ik lol but sometimes that's how it is unfortunately definitely a learning curve...especially if she hasn't seriously dated much
Joyce’s Opera Singing AND the Demon Voice? What vocal range 👏🏽
I do demon voice too lmaoo! I never thought I’d see another grown woman (bw) embrace it as well. 😈
Alan could be using this opportunity for Clout. 🤷♀️ The previous date at Milk seemed far more promising 👀🙂
I didn’t know how invested I was going to be in finding Joyce a boyfriend but I’m hooked. You deserve the absolute best Joyce and I hope you get it 💜
Yea, am I the only one that thinks he’s full of it? Is it the camera for him? 🤔
Agreed i feel he only shows interest when filming is involved but with Tyson, Tyson shows interest on and off camera. Chemistry does not equal compatibility
Someone passed YESTERDAY but he’s been bread crumbing her for weeks…boy bye😂
She asked this man why communication has been spotty over what I would assume has been weeks (not days), and his response was “my friend was passed yesterday” 😂🤦🏾♀️
MY SISTER JOYCE FULL ON ASKED HIM!!!! WE LOVE OPENNESS AND HONESTY GIRL IM SO PROUD OF YOU ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I love this series. Can we do an open call for sincere single men who may want a relationship with Joyce? I need to see more dates/options. The friends and the therapist can "interview" and filter in just the ones that maybe the right fit. 🤷🏽♀️
I was bread crumbed by this one guy then when I got my bf who is now my husband he popped up to ask me how serious we were 😒 run Joyce.
Sounds about right 😅
Alan is very LA man = here for the camera
He doesn’t like you girl… don’t waste anymore time
“Every man’s love language is physical touch” if that ain’t the TRUTH! Scrolling through profiles on these apps have me rolling my eyes every time I read that!!!
Something is off, I can’t put my finger on it. Date someone else Joyce.
I really wish y'all would stop playing in Joyce's face. Him doing the absolute bare minimum to be "vulnerable" only after Joyce brought up his inconsistent behavior is nothing to swoon over. Like, that's below the bar.
He's clearly not into Joyce. There's no actual chemistry here which she deserves. Next!
Preach!
Take your time. It’s a process. I am so proud of you for being yourself. You keep it real. Don’t ever be a man’s second thought! You should always be his first thought when it comes to a relationship.😍
This was slightly embarrassing. Not for Joyce but him. He’s not at all into her. And it’s such a shame that he’s forcing interaction for whatever exposure he’s seeking.
I'm a bit weary of Alan. If he's not that engaged you with you when the cameras aren't around that's a problem. His job title was listed as 'Actor, Producer'. Maybe he's using the cameras to add to his portfolio.
Alain is giving you cool to be the homie but not my girl.Joyce keep it moving people make time for who and what they want.
Joyce selling the hell out that black-grey background was the highlight of the video. It was beautifully done.
Tracy is such a lovely Art Teacher.
The way Joyce CARRIES this channel 😍🥰🤷🏽♀️💯💅🏽
Alan is a NO. He can’t show up for your bday shindig but is here and present for the production 🎥. He’s on this for his own personal reasons, not Joyce.
Men with beards stay getting us caught up! Your friend died yesterday (and my condolences), but what happened with the party, bruh?! Joyce just get away from him- he aint serious.
He's not the one.
I don’t think Alan is the one. He seems he just wants to be here for the camera
i feel like he only asked you on another date for some clout.
Joyce and Monique need to have a podcast where Monique reviews Joyce’s dates because I love their vibe together 😂😂😭😭
yess, i love joyce’s dating journey.. ☺
Omg Joyce is back being fabulous gain! I love Tyson but I’m excited for this pairing 👏🏽
I've been in that kind of situation before.
A guy that never bother to anwers and leave you hanging...only to come back when it's convenient for him.
It's a heartache really, you loose way mor than you win.
If he really wanted to keep the bond between you two, he could have left audios every two day and asked you to audio back. Audio are faster than writhing. He could avoid audios the days the grief hits the hardest.
My point is, if he really likes you, there are ways to keep touch.
Even one long audio(10 min minimum)a week would have been good. Some way to keep your relationship going. Moving slow is okay. Ignoring people isn't.
Tbh....Joyce was great and honest. Alan seems to want to go slower and keep coming the show
I’m not relying this liar
The way I am hooked into this journey 😂😂😂...I really love Joyce🤎🤎
Quote of the Day: “…and guess who loves Joyce the most? Joyce.”
I love Joyce. Her demon voice is scary but I think it's because you don't expect that sound to cone from her. Beautiful singing voice. Keep dating both guys. Everyone on her says he is messing with other women but from someone who has depression and anxiety it can seem shady to other people when you are going thru shit.
best series on the internet. joyce is an icon!
A whole Icon 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Definitely giving me hope. It’s hard out here man 😂🤦🏾♀️
I love this for Joyce and this entire series 🥰🥰
Joyce thank you for teaching me how to love myself as you are on your own journey to self love
The demon voice OMG 😂😂😂🤣🤣😂 Joyce, you're amazing
I love you Joyce! I'm so happy you're sharing this journey and lessons with us.
I’m eagerly waiting to see Lindsay enter her Jessica Fletcher Era where she lands up at Alan’s house with a Magnifying Glass and or Binoculars.
I love these comments. All the thick, Black, or woman phobic people don’t watch it so that the people who this content is for can actually enjoy without being trolled.
joyce needs to leave that man alone not only cus he wears white jeans but white jeans with knee rips.
😂😂
Joyceeee girllll you looking goooodddd. I adore you sooooo much!
He aint the one, NEXT
Alan is a bread crumb man
Joyce's makeup looks so cute in the scene on the bed.
I'd love to see her in a curly texture wig.
This is the best thing to ever happen to buzzfeed. I AM ALL THE WAY INVESTED!!
Gurl. Da one would have called or texted on the regular... be patient
The hug was so churchy lol. CUT HIM OFF SIS!!!
To all the woman that don’t have their first boyfriend…Joy gives us hope 🥹🤌🏾🤌🏾
I’m 31 years old and still haven’t had my first bf 😩
Indeed she gives us hope😭🫶🏾
Guuuuuurl same!!!!
I can promise it ain’t all it’s cracked up to be 😂
@@logicalhuman249 nah y’all be grateful for that lol having a boyfriend is why I’m in therapy now and on meds
First of all I love Joyce. I love her quirkiness her sence of humor, how she's not afraid to be open and honest. But I'm going to say something that will piss some people off. & As a black woman who's been married to a black man for 23yrs. She needs to think outside of her race in regards to relationships and dating. I grew up and went to school with black women with "unconventional looks" they were a little nerdy a little bit more attached to earthy things, hella into comic books, anime and Star Trek.. and for some reason our fellow black boys shun them & called them weird..BUT the white guys stuck to them like flies on sh!t. Joyce to me fits in that category like Gabourey Sidibe, Whoopi Goldberg & Alfre Woodard (look at their husbands) & Lesli ( can't think of last name). Very beautiful women but have a different look about them which men who date (black women) outside of their race are more attracted to. I'm just telling you what I've seen in my 44 years of life. This is not to stereotype or say all situations are like this but I've seen it too many times... even in my own family. Joyce think outside the box... and don't exclusively date one race of men honey.. your prince charming might just be of another race.
She's dated outside of her race. I just think we haven't seen much of it on this show yet (if it does happen). But we'll see.
I thought the same thing fr
Wow so nice to hear Joyce sing! I didn't realise she could
This better be more than content because I’ll be devastated lol
This gonna be crazy
I love you Joyce 🇭🇹 one of these men will too!!
Gurl, he bailed on you at your birthday party, don't bring him back👏
I need a Monique in my life 😭
We love you Joyce!
Yeah he's hot but the relationship with Tyson seems very genuine and amazing.
And gitty, she just seemed more in her feminine energy but I think that’s because he’s showing her that he is romantically interested. Alan just seems like a friend
@@tammyg8659 or a FWB type
They should just be friends at this point..
Inconsistent asf , nahhhhh sis pass!!!
Joyce has grown so much as a person and I love how she is valuing her time and really realizing what she wants and needs from a partner. Even opening up and asking those questions of where are you at in terms of this relationship is such a huge step. Im so proud of her progress and her journey she is blossoming into such an inspiring strong woman. I love this series and being able to watch her find not only herself but what qualities she needs in a partner it is so important.
Joyce you deserve better. I don’t like Alan at all! Super phony and had every excuse to miss your bday but showed up bright and early for TH-cam! If my friend passed away the day before I would have to reschedule. You deserve so much better Joyce, your amazing… even Mo said no ma’am 😅.
Bingo.
Exactly I’d could care less about a date after the passing of my friend
I like that Alan and Joyce have things in common, but based on my own past experiences having similar values and perspectives on life are much more important for a sustainable relationship than having interests in common, like art and demon voices (even though it's fun to have those too 😂)
Joyce is beautiful and genuine and TALENTED! Alan is not the one-cute though. lol We must not forget, the episode she picked his fit and he said,” I’m still in these streets though” 👀😂
I also do the demon voice!!!! Hahaha
Just protect your peace and happiness Joyce - love to see you grow!!
I hate how y'alls energies match so well cause I don't think he's good news. He's flakey😭
Joyce is in love with an Artsy Boy who was on a dance team? Excuse me but is this ‘Save The Last Dance’ and is Joyce playing the role that Julia Stiles did? BRB Screaming 🗣️
We love you so much Joyceeeeee 🥰
I think he is hiding his past. Also i think he might be gay. I don't know.
I AM INVESTED IN HER LOVE LIFE NOW COME ON GIRLLLLLLLL GO GET WHAT YOU DESERVE
Alan gives the Idris Elba Energy we need more of: Calm, Charming and bonus points for Baritone.
I love Joyce! She's just so great!! I love seeing her dating journey. Also omg she sings too, So much talent!!!
On my journey for love I realized this about me…. I’m attracted to women emotionally but physically I need a man. No one asked. I’m just sharing.
So maybe when you do find a guy you’re interested in, make sure he’s in tune with his emotions because that’s probably what you’re looking for.
Thank you for sharing! 🤗
@@daye.8022 ❤️
I love this.
IONNNN like him... the sketchy texting is definitely a red flag.
They actually have great chemistry but Alan doing his own thing and that’s okay.
I hope his other women have TH-cam and sue him out😂
Joyce is the BEST. I hope she doesn't date him. He seems sketchy.
If he was into her they would have been dating ages ago, not just when the cameras are on
I love this I have watched a few episodes and they had me smiling big for Joyce. I probably need to go back to earlier episodes because I'm watching this one like Joyce looks like a great person to spend time with as a friend and in a relationship. I think she will find her mister sooner than she thinks when she is ready. Go ahead Joyce do your thing.
Aww man they must’ve taken down the episode where she went on the date with Tyson!!
"Are you guys sure that's just apple cider?" 💀