4-Month-Old Abducted from House During the Night | Sabrina Aisenberg Case Analysis
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- This video answers the question: Can I analyze the case of Sabrina Aisenberg?
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It's such a myth that you can't smile or laugh if you are truly grieving. When my mom died, I remember times when my siblings and I would remember something funny about her and we'd all laugh. Then minutes later we could be crying. It's not all or nothing, grief and humor can coexist.
Yes, and no. Depends where your all at I suppose but humour is needed to deal with grief for sure at some point.
Agreed!
I couldn't smile, let alone laugh after losing my mother who had just turned 66. I can't imagine being able to do that so soon after literally losing my infant.
I totally agree with Jaelzion. When my grandma died my mom, brother, sister-in-law and I went over to her house to get clothes for her to wear for the viewing. My grandma always wore many layers even in the summer. My brother came into the kitchen with a hanger that had a ridiculous number of layers of shirts and a cardigan on it and he said, “Look, she already had an outfit ready to go!” Even though we were all absolutely exhausted and devastated from the loss of my grandma, the glue of our family and our only constant safe haven in the storm of life, we all laughed and smiled at the thought of her putting this together as a real outfit she’d wear.
Some people laugh to relief the from tension. In this case, the parents were not only grieving, they were being investigate for murdering the one they were grieving for. Add to that, they were probably feeling guilty for leaving their door open all night long.
Not all dogs bark at strangers, and the intruder also may not have been a stranger.
Teach your dogs to bark at strange noises.
That's what I was thinking, people living in the suburbs like to pretend everything is safe but you never really know your neighbors.
My pomchi barks when someone enters the yard
@@nancyfahey7518 Three huskies and unless a cat or squirrel gets through the door, they aren’t making a peep. Lol No teaching them to do it, huskies have their own minds. I love the breed but watchdog/guard dog is not in the wheelhouse. Not any of my previous huskies either. Don’t even have to bribe them with treats. They woo like crazy when it’s dinner time or when one of us leave the house but coming in? They may as well be cats. 😂
@@rondamorris3550 you go girl - my neighbors' dog is huge - when people walk past the house he viciously growls, barks and bears his teeth at them - if someone dares to open the gate and come into the yard, he rolls on his back and pees - go figure 🤗
You can live in the safest neighborhood in the world. Lock your damn doors. 🤦♀️
I lived about a half mile from the Aisenbergs at the time of this tragedy. We also had a 6 month old baby boy at the time. I never so quickly moved my sons crib into our master bedroom for a month or more after that happening. Personally, after hearing so very much about the case and I actually knew someone who knew the mom…these folks could not have done it. They were genuinely wonderful parents and a decent normal family. My heart goes out to these people to this day. Our son is 25 now. Sabrina would be 25 y/o this June. So so sad
@@arribaficationwineho32 the mom's?
@@tennysonparks2059 I misposted so will delete. Mother did not have a boyfriend
My mom lived nearby too, so I was often home and learned about them. I was certain they were guilty because of the news reports & police actions … but as time passed, I learned what actual evidence there is and isn’t; so now I have no gut feeling at all. I didn’t like the parents or their affect, but that’s not evidence.
How amazing would it be if a gal who just didn’t feel genetically connected to her family would have her DNA tested, to find out she was Sabrina?
I remember this case. I also remember a judge blasting the police for making up what was on the tapes.
i dont think they made it up from thin air , maybe it was hard to hear but i dont think they made it up.
😢😒
Deuteronomy 32:4
A 4 dog investigation is _exactly_ why you need a lawyer because sometimes when the cops have a bone, they just don’t want to give it up.
Exactly. Well said.
Yeah. They sometimes turn into pitbulls holding on to a bone
Omg Dr. Grande you crack me up! “A four dog investigation.” I can’t stop laughing 😂
You're right! Isn't he smthg. He has a great sense of humor. He is really comical smtms. Never out of meanness, just funny. Good guy.
Bungled investigation. Could Andy of Mayberry and his deputy cohort done bettah???
That one got me too! I want to make it a saying. 😄
“This one’s a real 4 dogger.” That just might be what the cop said that made them laugh.
Low key he’s funny asf that’s part of why I keep watching
I have an almost 5 month old. I think I'd literally die. I hope she's out there and ok.
Little Jessica was also kidnapped, and their dog didn't bark.
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how is this relevant
This case came out when I was pregnant with my son. I obsessed on it.
I thought you meant you hope your kid is out there and okay... I was like “wait what?”
Jokes aside this is a really sad case, I also hope she’s fine and living a happy life somewhere.
Every time I hear "lie detector test" I cringe. Just remember these so called tests are funded by taxpayers. Such nonsense! Also, you're so nonchalant with your humor. I love your channel, Doc.
Watching the x-files with the kid the other day and they were using a lie detector and I begin to say, "you know that's" and the kid says, "yeah, not real, I know!" 😂 My job is done here. 😂
If polygraphs were a real and legitimate science, every parent in America would own one.
@@chad3232132 Definitely, without a doubt, or at least me anyway
@@audralynn7454 that is great, hahahaha
Same. Like, I would hold a tarot card reading at the same level. The only way it is valid is to guage a suspect's reaction to taking it. Otherwise, throw it all out.
The terrible case where we don't know where is the infant and what has happened to her and why? Your analysis is great as always Dr. Grande! Thank You!
Someone ate the baby, it`s absolutely clear. Someone ate the baby `cause the baby isn`t here.
Her body was found in the rafters of the garage
I’ve always wondered about Sabrina and hoped that she was alive and cared for. I hope that is true but I am doubtful. Thanks for covering this very sad case.
I think she's still alive.
I think they sold her to get outta debt…so they know she’s ok!
@@addicted367 Why do you think?
I lived in Denver and it must have been fifty years ago something similar happened. Door open, left unlocked, baby gone. In that case they found the baby where she was left on a neighbor's lawn. It was an opportunistic burglary, teenagers, and I guess one of them thought they could sell the baby? There wasn't much follow up after the child was found. With today's security cameras, ring cameras, etc, I would hope this kind of thing would happen less often.
I think it does happen less often… Sabrina went missing in 1997
@@saskialolita True but in the area many had video cameras in use. It's one of the reason that the police focused on the Aisenbergs. Reviewing others videos, they didn't find anything to indicate outside involved. But as he stated in the video, the kidnapper may have been living in the greater neighborhood. If that's the case, it's not likely that the movement of neighbors cars etc would trigger as anything out of the ordinary.
We have accident our garage door open all night. And also left house doors unlocked and even sometimes not quite clicked tight. Our new puppy doesn’t bark hardly at all. If they told her how to act in the tv interview, and she wasn’t used to being on tv, that’s pretty understandable… and if someone did know that they had a baby and wanted her, and saw the garage door open, wanted to go get her, why would they steal other things?
I think a thief may have simply seen the garage open, went in to steal items, but came across the baby in a crib and took the kid instead.
right
@@chad3232132 right people are sick
@Jen Agrippa improbable doesn’t mean impossible
@@chad3232132 ok but why would some run of the mill thief walk in thinking they were gunna pawn some jewelry and electronics and go "Oh cool a baby" and just walk out with her????
The fact they are still married says something.
It's a rare talent to be able to mix humor and tragedy and actually pull it off. You've got that talent Dr. Grande
That’s one reason I really enjoy listening to Dr. Grande. He can lighten the mood in a totally appropriate way. That’s an important skill when the material he discusses is so often heartbreaking.
I hope Sabrina is okay and found some day.
That Bassett hound was our dog. Murphy always got my husband up in the middle of the night to go out. He always wanted to go out front but that night he insisted on going out the back door. That is when my husband heard the baby crying. We lived about ten houses from the Aisenbergs.
What?!
Damn, his hearing must be really good 👍
Fascinating! Murphy probably wanted to save the baby but couldn't tell you exactly that.
What do you think happened Mrs McDonald?
Wow that’s very interesting thank you for sharing
This case always stayed on my mind. Poor little Sabrina
We have all accidentally left something opened at some point & time. One time I woke up, went downstairs and my front door was partially opened. I must have accidentally not shut it all the way and, after a long day, went upstairs to bed the night before. These police officers were reaching and had the audacity to lie (again) to fit their own skewed narrative. SMH. I hope the parents were able to move forward with their lives. Poor baby girl.
It happens to me quite a bit. My front door handle was very rusty at one time and would get stuck. I few times I got up the next day and the door was wide open. Simply the wind blew it open because the know wasn't really turned all the way. With a garage, people are even more likely not to notice.
Exactly true. A documentary I just watched on this had so many comments bashing the parents. It really pisses me off because just like you said, we all forget sometimes. I hate the way they were treated. If the police weren’t so close minded then maybe they would have found her or who did it!
I have come home many times to find the garage door open. Always thankful to find that nothing was taken, including my kids! I'm lucky to live where theft isn't too big of an issue.
This was 40 yrs ago, but I never worried much about locking up. We live in a small town where everyone knew everyone. Not so much anymore.
@@crazymimi6061 Well, not *quite* that long ago. More like 25~ years ago. Crazy thing is most of America was *not* safer 25 or even 40 years ago. The violent crime and murder rates were vastly higher in the 80's-90's than today. People just believe it's worse today because in those days you didn't have the 24/7 news cycle, social media, etc. publicizing every missing child.
But I get what you're saying, that might have been different if you are in a small town. The opioid/drug issues of the past decade or so have taken a toll on small town/rural America as far as crime goes.
I've accidentally left my garage door open dozens of times, and I NEVER lock the door that leads from my garage into my house. My dog never barks. If someone came in in the middle of the night, my dog would probably lick the intruder or totally ignore him/her.
Argh, same!
Same 😣
I've had a few drinks and gone to bet and left the whole house open lol. It's stupid how that could mean I'm a murderer or blamed for murder.
Same here
Stuck home in a snow storm... so this is extra appreciated 😁
Meanwhile I'm at work, listening to this within Arizona, even though I should be working.
Left my snowy wonderland to visit family in CA. It's going to be 70°F here today, lol! All I have are my Ice Maiden snow boots though. Whoops! Enjoy your cozy stormy day!!
I’m on vacation from Detroit in Vegas 😎
I thought it was over. Where do you live?
About the garage door being open - did the Aisenbergs find out their garage door was open and then actually remembered leaving it open or did they find out their garage door was open and then just assume that it must have been them that left it open? I’d be curious to know which it is because if neither of them specifically remember leaving it open then maybe they didn’t, maybe it was a crime of opportunity by someone who knew a baby lived there and had a device like a code grabber that allowed them to open the garage door themself.
Just my thoughts.
I heard somewhere that they usually keep their garage door open so that their other 2 children could get their stuff easily or sumthng
My husband was always leaving our garage door open.
garage openers are often quite loud and some shake the house a bit
Very good point. Our neighborhood watch group has been telling us that burglars getting into the garage and then getting from the garage into the house is often far too easy, so purses and car keys should be in secure places (not left on the kitchen table, for example). I wondered, too, if they really forgot to close the garage or only assumed that they must have forgotten.
Or a garage door opener in an unlocked car...
I never sleep 🛌 faraway from little ones until they’re almost 18months
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That was my worst nightmare. I was never far from my babies
Agree. A 4 month old baby will wake up during the night plus the dog would have barked.
My shepherd-Lab used to bark after raccoons on the deck overnight all summer long. Eventually, you just don't hear it, especially if already asleep. Brownie may well have barked but no one paid attention or even noticed.
Had a chocolate lab that barked at wind, a killer could have been walking up the stairs and I would have slept through it.
@@crazymimi6061 the only scary thing about Labs are their farts.
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My shepherd Timberwolf mix taz loves my pet raccoon lol he lets bandit the raccoon ride him like a horse. They’re best friends and taz wouldn’t make a peep and would probably lick an intruder to death.
Remember this case very well. ‘Statistically’, this scenario would point to parental guilt. Still, With lack of any solid evidence against them (and the fact that they appeared to be good parents ) they should be treated as innocent by society and not outwardly judged. If My child was stolen and I didn’t know where they were , who had them, or if they were dead or alive and then on top of that have people misjudge me and treat me as if guilty, that would be unbearable.
Absolutely unbearable. I can’t even imagine. It makes me feel legit panic.
I don't know if you're local to the case. The media showed several photos of Sabrina. One of them she to have a lot of hair missing and a tiny bruise. Therefore, they were bad parents. This was harped on by the media and everyone locally. Even at the time, I thought in every picture her hair looks different. I think the difference was when her hair was last brushed. When first brushed it seemed to cover her whole head. But after awhile, it'd kind of clump together like the picture shown. I don't think there was ever hair missing, just my explanation. I think the bruise could have been a shadow. They had two other children. No incident of child abuse was ever filed regarding these children.
Very true its reminding me of the summer wells missing child. Idk what to think anymore
Dr. Grande, I've watched a lot of these shows (sadly too many) and as a retired RN I take note of the family person (usually the mom) and their demeanor when they make an appeal. I also know that ppl, esp. women are often medicated when something like this happens, it's how they get thru their day and be of any help to law enforcement. But the police never say that when they comment on someone's state of mind when they are put before microphones and TV cameras. I believe mom was medicated.
Yes, ive noticed they look placid and people question why they are not crying and seem emotionless! Its because they put the Mothers on sedatives isn't it
@@taniaearle4457 And it's not always the MDs that do it. It's sometimes a helpful neighbor or friend, "here, take one of my happy pills, it will help you". As a retired RN, I know that shouldn't happen, but it does, I've seen it.
even if you were medicated, if you were “crying” and “sniffling” would it be a tearless and dry cry?
@@birdie9240 It can be if the person is dehydrated, etc.
@@susanp102 great point. Not a nurse or professional in any field that would give me that type of knowledge. I am just using my own deductive reasoning. If she was perhaps dehydrated, I guess my gut is just telling me it’s very odd in general for a person to cry without tears. Plus, having seen so many cases where these dry eyed crying people turned out to be a fake liar, I would tend to lean towards the dehydration theory. But interesting, didn’t actually think about that possibility.
I live in Florida and knew of this case through the tv. I never thought the Aisenbergs were guilty.
I remember this case so well. The couple were very poorly treated by the media and law enforcement. Baby Sabrina’s disappearance shows how vulnerable we are in our homes. No one wants to believe his or her baby can be snatched from his or her crib. Thank you Dr. Grande.
i think they did it, often police have a good reason to be suspicious if the stories dont make much sense
I think someone had been watching them and their house for quite a while and pounced when they saw that garage door left open. The only thing I think the parents are guilty of is their lack of Safety and Security.
I think it might have been a thief who had been casing the for an opportunity crime. He may not have even known there was an infant, and went in to steal items, but came across the kid and took her instead.
Sometimes makes you wonder are their networks of people rather than just isolated pedophiles who cruise thru neighborhoods nonchalantly looking for such open invitations n are prepared to sieze it. Frightening but not really far fetched
Yes and IMO the same thing happened to poor Madeline McCann years ago. Culprits kept watch for a time until the right victim and the right circumstances occurred. Incredible that people who are just living their lives can be so victimized by cunning crooks. But it's a different world now.
@@susanjoycesabo8450 Right about Madeleine McCann. Pretty close to 100% certain Christian Brueckner murdered her. The guy has killed and/or raped several other children and women. Can't believe that monster still hasn't been held to account for his crime. At the very least, he's currently in prison, albeit for different charges.
@@enjoyslearningandtravel7957 yes that happened to my family members they were robbed I broad daylight house ransacked broken items not one person on blocked saw anything
Why would a kidnapper come in through the laundry/garage door and leave through the rear sliding door? If you've snuck into a home and you left a door open behind you are you going to bother looking for other exit doors, especially a sliding door? Sliding doors can be noisy. This makes no sense.
Very interesting point
People lawyer up and almost always are looked at as guilty by the majority, yet the first thing you’re taught by anyone intelligent is to lawyer up and don’t talk to the police.
Exactly! It’s for your own protection ESPECIALLY if you’re innocent!
Yep.
Whats funny is they still did the "lie detector," neither "failed" and Steve "passed." And yet the police still insisted they heard Steve admit to killing his kid. I realize lie detectors are pseudoscience, but doesn't this confirm the police know polygraphs are a scam?
YES I can't stand when someone uses a person getting a lawyer as "proof" that they're guilty and/or hiding something. like where did this idea start?!?!
Your analysis is spot on. Hopefully we have learned from our mistakes in these situations. Unfortunately more times than we can count, it is the parents who have done something. It happens way too often for any of us to be comfortable with.
The police failed Sabrina and her parents, for sure. Imagine, on top of having your child kidnapped, being accused of doing it just because you’re not expressing emotions like people think you should.
I hope Sabrina’s alive out there, and just unaware of her true identity. Given how young she was, she may well have been the subject of a black-market adoption.
@The Wraith no way. There’s zero evidence of that. And people who knew them- and I knew a few at the time- these were good people.
@The Wraith Oh my goodness I can’t count in the 30 years I’ve been in my house how many times we have accidentally, or kids have accidentally, left the door unlocked or the garage door open. And these people had a good reputation and in hindsight people can see the weird things about mass killers and murderers and these people do not have that reputation. To think that they set up a sale of their daughter to the black market is a huge huge stretch.
@The Wraith To call that evidence is beyond charitable.
@The Wraith ever heard of people killing pregnant mothers for their babies so they can keep them? Or watching parents who have a small child and seeing their routines and finding an opportunity to take them for sex trafficking. But to say THEY planned it and sold her- no way.
@The Wraith I’m going based on what I remember at the time because I lived in the area and had mutual friends with them. The majority of people do not believe the parents were involved for multiple valid reasons. You can think it’s ridiculous all you want.
Afternoon Dr. G! Your canine commentary at the end was hilarious…thanks for finding a bit of daylight in an otherwise woeful story.
I live in Tampa, FL. This case was a way big deal when it happened. I never believed that the parents were guilty. I appreciate you finally covering this case like only you could. Cheers!!
I was living in Brandon. This case is just baffling
I grew up not far from Tampa and I remember this case. I was a freshman in high school.
Same here.
@@carolannpacificadam1944 same….I remember seeing the mother at the bank…
I live then and now not far from tampa. On taxi and medical transport company. My infant son was never out of sight Gates closed doors lock. These people were a cluster mess of a nightmare. Who lives your infant youngest child closest to a garage door and unlock security system in the door open. It's just wrong everything about this is wrong. Those people were neglectable and most likely responsible for the death of their
Dr Grande, as a West Australian I think this could be an interesting case to analyze,
A very young girl went missing in the north of Western Australia for 18 days just a few months back.. did you guys hear about that in America?
She got taken from her tent in the middle of the night and the whole country was freaking out... So lucky they found her unharmed but apparently given very little to eat.
Cleo her name was...
The "Perth now" website has a big podcast series on it..
He kept dolls but had no kids and locals saw him buying nappies and knew he had no kids. Never let anyone in the house and was a bit of a loner etc...
Already covered.
I came across Cleo's story a few months ago on TH-cam. I think I saw the story on Australia's version of TV show 60 Minutes.
What a scary story. But thankfully this has an happy ending due to some good police work.
Yes it as covered
I left my garage door opened one night. The next morning I was horrified thinking about what could have happened.
Me too; a few times a year it just randomly happens, and I thank the stars that nobody stole my car. Luckily, my garage is separate from my house entrance...but it is a little inconvenient. I also have to resist the urge to not set the security alarm; all it takes is one time and I did get robbed about five years ago. That was before I had the hard-wired security system. Robberies and thefts happen in all demographics of neighborhoods; no place is immune.
This was definitely at least a four dog investigation. Just so many oddities. But I'd say your thorough and objective analysis made for a good eight or even a nine squirrel presentation of this case. Great job! 😁
Our 90 lb Hound/Great Dane mix wouldn't bark. He'd be more likely to help the intruder haul stuff out.
I have such a “watchdog”. He LOVES dudes and would gladly leave with any service guy.
I didn't think the parents had anything to do and I still don't. I love ur humor...u slip stuff n there without any change n ur voice! Hysterical!
Really scary and horrifying the way the police reacted. Did they try to get DNA analysis of hair left in crib? They tortured these poor parents.
You would think, since it was in use by then. It sounds like the cops were more interested in closing the case than solving it
the story did not make sense , the police have reason to suspect them
I would agree with Dr. Grande that the police did a very poor job. They were convinced that the parents were the perpetrators to an extent that their judgment was clouded. However, I would point out two things: In cases like this, it IS almost always the parents who are the perpetrators, just as when a husband or wife disappears or is killed under mysterious circumstances it is usually the other spouse's doing. Also, most or all the occurrences and the timeline stated here were provided by the Aisenbergs themselves. How much of their story about anything that occurred or did not occur this night is independently substantiated? Do we know for sure that the baby was even alive at the time they claim she disappeared? If we don't have independent substantiation of their story, then the baby's disappearance and/or death and concealment of the body did not necessarily even take place during the time period they claimed it did.
Good points
@@samjam2376 I listened to this a second time, and he definitely mentions no corroborating evidence supporting the parents' story. He says "what could they have been doing between 11 p.m. and 6 a.m. that would have resulted in the death of the baby?" They could have been doing things that generally result in the death of a baby, such as shaking her or slamming her head against something. It is very easy to injure a baby. We also have no corroborating evidence that Sabrina was even in the house when they claimed she was. She could have died earlier. Basically, he seems to conclude that since he strongly disapproves of the tactics and thought processes of the police, the couple must be innocent. Ridiculous. Also, I recently saw a program on Discovery ID that reviewed this case, and was very sympathetic to the parents and largely covered the couple's contention that they were treated unfairly. This may well have influenced him.
Agree - very good points. Lots of bad things happen in the middle of the night, particularly if substance use is involved, which could have been. As a parent, I would like to give these parents the benefit of the doubt, but I am very skeptical of their story.
I am shocked how easily people can be convinced of the innocence of these parents. Dr.Grande himself uttered the literal content of the conversations between father and mother of the poor child, when they spoke about the man killing the baby when being on cocain. Poor baby being killed by those who should have protected them. They will be confronted with their deed at threshold of their own deaths. Sabrina's soul is looked after on the other side. She's with God.
@@Bridget51-Z Ok, you need to listen better. I think there is a high likelihood of the parents having killed the child. But what Dr. Grande said was that these conversations recorded by law enforcement were unintelligible. Law enforcement claimed that all kinds of things were said, but the tapes were so indecipherable that what law enforcement claims was on them was not able to be verified by literally anyone else.
Oh yo. I miss my black and white bird dog. Pointer mix. Loyally, and without condition, she slept right next to my daughters crib, then her bed every night, until she couldn't make it up the stairs anymore. My daughter has epilepsy and moderate autism. She does not like animals much. Never pet the Molly Dawg. But that dog wasn't in it to receive her love. She gave 100%. She was born in February and always has a cold nose kiss for anyone who wanted one. She died, at 16, in the month of May and will be forever young. 😢 damn Dr. Grande... trigger much?
I did not expect that doggy salute.
Cool stuff.
When my eldest daughter was 2 a neighbor girl (7) kidnapped her. She saw my daughter looking out the front window of our house and got my daughter to unlock the door for her. My husband was supposed to be watching her while I got ready for work. The police were called and every neighbor was out looking for her. The 7 year-olds mom found her in a closet and the police took me to their house. The little girl was lonely and wanted someone to play with. The police officer told her she can't just take someone's baby. I was hysterical on the inside but trying to keep it together on the outside so I could find my baby girl. My heart breaks for parents who never know what happened to their babies.
OMG! That's a terrifying story. I'm so happy you got you're little girl back unharmed.
Thank you for sharing this. I tend to be pessimistic but your experience offers hope.
Good morning Zaddy! I'm sorry digging your shirt, the contrasting blues are soothing.
I remember hearing about this on an episode of Unsolved Mysteries and it’s quite a peculiar case. One hand, the behavior of the parents seems odd, but due to the fact their child is missing people grieve the loss of their child not being with them. I tend to go in the direction of them not having anything to do with her abduction, but we won’t ever know what fully happened. Thanks for the analysis Dr. Grande, keep up the great work.
My anxiety is always on high for your type of stuff. I check the kids windows at least twice a night and the front and back door 3 or more times before going to bed. I think of all scenarios of what if something were to happen, how quickly I can unlock the firearm safe, etc. It is hell living like this sometimes BUT sometimes I wonder if it is a positive. I know, statistically, the chances of any of that being an issue are very low, but my mind won't let it go. These types of stories make me so sad because I hate to think of the things children go through. I hate when bad things happen to adults as well, but with children....it makes me so angry.
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@@rosefritchman7829 Wtf are you trying to say with this comment? It’s completely incomprehensible.
Dr. Grande, THANK YOU for saying what you did about polygraphs. I had a horrific experience with them and, while God and I know I didn't do anything, the police put their faith in a polygraph that made me look guilty. I came close to a nervous breakdown and wanted to commit suicide, due to the stress and fear of all of the suspicion and facing a trial and a possible long prison term for a felony, with my name all over the papers, and the reputation I'd built during my lifetime destroyed over this whole experience. As a felon, I wouldn't have been able to return to my career after conviction, so I would have lost that, in addition to everything else. I can't express the trauma of this chapter of my life, which has had long-term effects. I used to trust LEO, but no longer. I feel that they just wanted to pin this on someone ASAP to look good. I was/am innocent and I know it. I'm ashamed to say that, prior to my experience, I had believed that someone was guilty if they had "failed" a polygraph test or if it was inconclusive. Now, I know the truth. I wish they had never been invented. God knows how many innocent people have had to endure the consequences of "failing" a polygraph. I wish police could be convinced of their fallibility.
Thank you for covering this incredibly sad story about Sabrina Aisenberg. I hope that the truth is discovered and those who took/harmed her are brought to justice! It's easy to judge and pronounce guilt from the outside, but sometimes things aren't what they seem. One day, perhaps, vindication will come.
Some of these larger dogs can be "wusses" when it comes to protection especially Golden Labs (I used to have one). And I have a very brave and courageous cat that "growls" and "barks" whenever someone knocks on the front door 😹
Here's to brave and courageous cats everywhere who freeze and alert to footsteps in the hallway, the doorbell or knocking on the door, bugs on the ceiling, moths around porch lights, cars pulling into the drive, even a phone ringing.
I'm the proud owner of this stealth detector and can't tell you how many times our feline sleuth has alerted us to potential problems and insisted on flushing out the prey before returning to business as usual.
She freezes, alerting to suspicious presence or untoward events and I have more confidence in her instincts than any motion detector.
@@kathyclark8274 yep, Cats sense alot of things & freeze and often run to check it out, often before the dogs sense something! Great ain't they, need both to deal lololol Ours used to work together.
It's perfectly reasonable for police investigators to keep alert to the possibility that the parents may be involved when a child disappears. It's unreasonable to jump to the conclusion that "the parents did it" without some evidence to that affect. It is also reasonable to think that parents' retaining a lawyer is proof of guilt when investigators do things like, say, demanding that the parents take a polygraph.
What I want to know is if the police looked for any signs of forced entry when they arrived. The parents may have only assumed that they must have forgotten to lock up last night when they found the doors unlocked in the morning. 99% of the time, that's what happened when people discover their doors unlocked when they awaken.
There's another possibility for Sabrina's abduction-- she might have been taken for adoption trafficking. That would explain why she wasn't to be found locally; she was transported to another state (or another country) with faked documentation. There's a lot of skeevy stuff that goes on in adoption.
Police are allowed to lie to get confessions! You damn right I am getting am attorney!!!
I left my front door Open to be awakened by the police. My neighbor saw my door open and feared someone broke in. Nope just me, phone was ringing when I came in and thought I closed the door. Went to bed and 2:45 am a flashlight in my eyes and a cop shaking me!
My dog didn't bark at ANYTHING but coyotes and the deer. (Not even the cops scaring the crap out of me)
yeah no, it's definitely not "reasonable" to think that anyone accused of anything (in this case, the parents) retaining a lawyer is proof of guilt. if you have the means, it is 100% in your best interest to hire a lawyer if you're accused, directly or indirectly, of anything. police and the judicial system can absolutely steamroll you, regardless of innocence. look at how many ppl (the vast majority of them black men) are exonerated after spending entire decades on death row for crimes they didn't commit. I could keep going on about the pattern of low income accused --> jail/prison time, and high income ie. ability to retain legal representation --> avoiding jail/prison time but I won't, I just had to say something about you thinking it "reasonable" to assume someone's guilt bc they hired a lawyer. that's an absolutely ridiculous and uninformed stance.
Congrats on one million subscribers Dr. Grande! You have been my favorite channel for a very long time and I want to thank you for your wonderful content.
Thank you for your thoughtful presentation Dr Grande. You have given us important information to consider in reference to this case.
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As always my good Sir, you are the best, very entertaining and informative. Cheers 👍
"In the middle of a heavy metal concert being struck by a tornado" -- have to remember that one! ;)
Thank you for covering this case Dr Grande!! So thorough and brilliant as usual!!!!!
What about DNA on the hair and fingerprints?
Good point. Running the prints again seems reasonable. Though, if I'm remembering correctly, the full hair including it's root must be present to test for a DNA match.
I remember being fascinated by this case, and how terrible the investigation was.
it wasnt terrible , the parents are very suspect here. they also plead the 5th. doc did not mention that part.
@@tankthearc9875 I don't know why so many people choose to be in denial about this. Of COURSE it was the parents.
@@maxalberts2003 I’ve thought that too bc maybe an accident but so many different stories from neighbors..the dog was quiet..the dog barked constantly..etc.
Well the amount of fuel used to launch a space shuttle is measured in elephants so why shouldn’t mysterious cases be measured in dogs?! I think you’re on to something Dr. G!! 😉
Great video as always! Thorough summary and analysis.
I love your humor! I hope your channel continues to attract subscribers and that you are always on you tube for us to enjoy and learn from. Thank you Dr. Grande!!!
I got burgled once the dog was a sleep on my bed with me he did not get up to have a look or protect the house. (bull terrier)
💚 love the videos, thank you!
What a tragedy. Thank you for and interesting and meaningful analysis, as always, Grande. It means a lot to me every day.
That's so sad this family had to go through this, I'm pretty sure she was killed right at this night, blanket could be used just so it was easier to move or hide her when walking.
Good Day, Dr. Grande. Perfect timing.
Thanks for the analysis, this is a sad case. I do like the dog rating system! 🐶 🐕
Hello, Dr Grande! 🙋🌵🪴🌵🪴☺️ I hope you're doing well! Thank You! I remember this heartbreaking Case!! 💔💔💔🙏🙏🙏 Hi, everyone! Happy Tuesday!🌞🌞🌞
Dr. Grande is the only person I want to listen to when it comes to a cold case. I want to hear his analysis and don’t feel greatly bothered with disappointment because a case has not been solved.
Everything in this case is unusual! The parents behaviours have been very disturbing to say the less . When you lose a baby (child ) in that type of circumstance you will be absolutely devastated ,unable to comprehend what happened to you’re baby “INCONSOLABLE”.not having a giggle the very next day 😡
The most suspicious thing in this case is they 'accidently' left the garage door open. That seems a little contrived.
Yes, also, a random person would have to have known exactly where the baby was located inside the house, and just wait around until he/she got lucky with the open garage door...Also, the Mom didn't check on the baby until 11am? For such a young baby, that sure is a Lot of crib-time without peeking in on her or anything.
Pay attention.
Dr. Grande!!
I love the dog level of the investigation! I was just talking about how dogs are more helpful than police!!!
That was the best! Thank you for that bit.
Love from Canada 🇨🇦
Excellent analysis. Thanks.
Looking forward to hearing your analysis, Doc🌷
Thank you for covering this! I’ve never thought the parents were involved. I’d love to hear your thoughts on the Lisa Irwin case. They have a lot of similarities. Unrelated, the Springfield 3 would be a great case to get your input on. I always look forward to your content.
Good analysis. Methodical and good accounting/weighing of the facts. Balanced.
This is so sad. I can't watch this video. Thank you for having a strong heart and mind to talk about it.
Never heard of this case. Hard to believe someone just walked in & got her....I tend to disbelieve those theories. Sad regardless. Thanks Dr G😊🤎🤎
Zena, I totally agree with your comment. 😜❤💙
@@cottontails9003 Thanks friend😉💟💟💜💜🌼🌷
You should check out the recent case of Cleo Smith in Australia. Man abducted her from a tent; her parents were only separated by a thin partition and they slept through it! The police rescued her from this creepy dude's house 18 days later!
@@karenhenderson3868 Thx will do. Glad they found her!😊
Polly Klass… Elizabeth Smart… Jessica Lunsford…
Hi Dr. Grande, this was a great video! I would love to see you talk about the death of Elliott Smith
Didn't he stab himself in the balls?
'...the more dogs, the more mysterious..' in every case I listen to you never fail to make me smile in the midst of such tragic and serious situations. You have such a gift Dr Grande. Thank you
A smile in the middle of this. Thank you.
Good morning Dr Grande. Why would the parents, leave the garage, and security system off. My dogs, will bark , at their own, shadow. I believe the police , really made a mess of this case. Some of the things the parents said seems too be suspicious. I believe Sabrina , will never be found. Thank you Dr Grande. Brilliant analysis and sad topic. Love your comment on the dogs
Such a sad case, and like the Maddie McCann case, the police are only too happy to blame the parents. Meanwhile, the real perpetrators are getting away with it.
I cannot imagine how painful this must be for the Aisenbergs. Their lives will never be the same, and the not knowing must be horrible.
Oh yes and we have accidentally left our front door open and gone to bed, it is shocking when it happens but thankfully our children survived!
I love the " Heavy Metal Concert Hit By A Tornado" mash up😂 Thank you Dr. Grande😉
You always use your gift for helping people. And to you I say thanks.
This is another super sad story ....where is that sweet baby??!! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🌈💕❤️✌️
Thank you for your All these analysis vids Doc. I love and have watched almost all ur videos. ❤️
How do you leave the garage door open, the door between the garage and laundry room open and also do not turn on the alarm? Was that something they did often? I’m not saying they did something but if they didn’t, their actions partially led to Sabrinas’s disappearance. The police definitely only focused on them. That’s too bad, whatever chance Sabrina had of being found was lost because of that. I hope the parents have found some peace. The siblings as well. Great analysis.
Exactly my thoughts on everything you said. If only they were in the habit of alarming their house every night. I do believe Dr Grande said they had one but never used it. So sad.
Lots of people live their lives thinking "it won't happen to me" to the point where it becomes subconscious.
Good analysis Dr. Grande!
I've kept up with this story. Very interesting and sad.
Always interesting.
Thank you.
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Hi Dr. Grande! Can you do one on serial killer Dean Corll. Love your channel.
I laughed @ the heavy metal concert struck by a tornado comment. I have attended a lot of them when I was younger (e.g. mid 80's/early 90's hair band glory days-yes I'm showing my age). Keeping in mind the era of this case, I was horrified to hear they bugged the house to get evidence, including the bedroom. What a despicable invasion of privacy! I can imagine the back lash that would generate today! Leaving the garage door open? We've all done something on this order at least once in our lives. Many of us have dogs that are friendly to everyone so they can't be relied on to warn us of intruders. I honestly can't imagine what losing my now adult daughter at that age would've been like, then to have law enforcement focus on me because I didn't grieve right? Wow. Just wow.
Sorry for my rant.
Your not only smart, Dr. Grande, but I do enjoy your sense of humor!! 😂😂✌🏻
Ok I crawled out of bed this morning as usual in a stupor (I am NOT a morning person), started listening to Dr. Grande videos, and suddenly I'm awake and laughing 😅 and ready to start my day! Thanks for the therapy (especially the four-dog comments)!
I was just reading about this case the other day. A very strange one.
Thank you so much for your coverage of this emotive subject Dr. Grande. Hopefully one day this case will be closed, Sabrina will be found, and the perpetrator dealt with appropriately. A similar case in Australia, that of an older girl named Eloise Worledge , scared me so badly that I lived in fear of one of my babies being kidnapped.
Very interesting case, thank you for the video.
It is hard to say here as law enforcement must look at all possibilities. Shaken baby injury could be an additional explanation of accidental death, however I have accidently left my garage door open many times and the transcripts verbiage do not seem to be in a natural speech pattern. All in all, I have to agree with you Doc, no guilt beyond a reasonable doubt. It is sad either way. Great job.
I remember this case! I was in St Petersburg Florida it was on the TV constantly. Sad case.
This case is sad. I hope Sabrina is alive and well and will one day know who she is, but she was likely abducted by a sex offender. Law enforcement’s mishandling of this case was criminal.
I've followed this case since it came out. Cannot wait to watch this.
Your the most interesting person on utube . I always look forward to your analysis just fascinating