I had a man who i let get his cake and eat it to back in the 90s. I used to act a fool, knocking on his door at 1 00 in the morning. I knew after years of off and on with him this was not the dude for me. I had the last laugh, because i left like a thief in the night. Because i knew telling him i was done wasn't going to work. I left and never looked back. 3 weeks after i left him alone for good my husband showed up. We have been married 25 years in August. Ladies know your worth. Q is spot on!
Same boat I’m in with my “man” we’re off again and this time I’m going to leave it off and for some reason this time around I feel happy and hopeful like the weight of the world has been lifted
Unfortunately it's as a result of her childhood abuse and Trauma!!!! Let's 🙏🏾 pray for her stabilization and strength mentally, spiritually, physically and financially.
This man stay embarrassing her, and she continues to allow it. Tommie told you how he was. But, Tamar wanted to prove something. Here she is looking crazy.... again!
It does when the individuals are mature. However both Tamar and Jeremy are very immature. Tamar acts like a child. Jeremy grew up poor, was able to make it out of the ghetto, but still has a ghetto ass mentality that he tries to cover up by flashing material things.
If you allow a man to tell you he doesn’t want you and you stick around he’ll never respect you. He knows your self esteem is low and whenever he feels like getting his ego stroked he’ll call you up and once he’s satisfied he will go on about his day.
She didn’t give him a card her card was on file at the hotel where she frequently goes too so instead of him giving his card out he had them charge the card on file under her name smh 🤦🏾♀️ that’s how she found out she explained it on her live hun
@@msmarquitaw5 I don’t watch or follow her. I didn’t listen to her part of funky’s video because she’s problematic. Now I understand it was on file, when the relationship ended, she should have limited use of her card at the hotel - especially if she knew or knows he’ll keep going there.
I learned in my early early 20's that pain and embarrassment was not for me. I love me. And the man I've been married to for 30 years loves himself. And everything we bring into our lives we love. So that's it. Love you first.
That man has been using her from the beginning. He knows she has some emotional wounds, maybe some mental health issues but he was okay with being with her for clout. I'm no Tamar fan but that guy JR appears to be a narcissist and a jerk.
Jeremy is both book smart and street smart. Tamar is not ready for someone like him. How the heck do you go from being husband and wife to just "friends". That sound like some bullish*t.
Thank you! Tamar is too old for this type of behavior. If she want to be a sugar mama, then be that & don't complain. Why did that man have her card to start with? He saw a sucker & licked it!🤷🏾♀️
It’s an age ole thing, this happens a lot. Women think they can make a man stay, when they want to go, don’t embarrass yourself. Every woman has to learn. Once Jeremy knew he didn’t want her he did what ninjas do. He’s also a lawyer that furthers his skill. BUT we cannot be surprised if they get back together. Tamar move on and if he returns (cause that happens too) don’t go back, he has shown you who he is and how he feels about you now.
6:49 so she wants us to believe that he “changed” after they got married in February and he filed for divorce in April?!?! Sweetie, whole time, he remained the same.
He never acknowledged him being married to her even when Tamar was slipping little hints out there! Chileee he said “friend” And she was his whole wife! My GAWD ON TUH DAY!!!!
The ultimate no-no is the fact she exposed her son to this unhealthy, toxic relationship and all her previous toxic relationships. Now that is the real shame. She allowed this man to bond with her son. Shes calling his kids her kids and calling her son his son. All after 5 minutes. Sick. ..smh
I've been the one to say I didn't want to be married or have kids and this man tried to say I wasted his time after YEARS of us bein together. 😒 umm, I SAID IT DAY 1!!
@LilithTheAquarian369 wrong! There was no using. I feel he thought I would change my mind. We ended up better friends than lovers though. Which is why we can still be cool now.
Man, I’ve been exactly where she is. No one loves pain intentionally. That kind of brokenness is deep and unconscious. If she goes and really heals, the glow up will be something. 💕
Que please tell Tamar that she cannot be happy with somebody else until she loves herself. He only married her to get on the show and when Toni stopped that. He divorced her
@chloeisme8783 there have been various reports that toni said only husband's or in the industry people will be allowed on the show. She has the finally say of cast.
I was in New Orleans the same week for a conference. I stayed at the JW Marriott Hotel. On one occasion, I observed him seated on the couch near the elevators, seemingly waiting for someone. On another occasion, I encountered the same person at the bar, accompanied by a person who was not Tamar.
MARRIED!!!! Wowww. Prayers for Tamar and family. I don't like anyone putting this type of info out. Let Go Tamar, and let God!! Don't say anything else, give it to God.
The first and last time a guy tried to play in my face like JR doing was in my early 20s and all I wanted to do was L. Bobbitt his azz and I learned that day I wasn’t built for that level of game playing. I was very demure in my actions and never answered another, call, text and when basically stalked for a response kept it short “I am sorry you feel that way, I have to go have a nice life”
Where’s that old lady sitting under the tree when you need her. “What is the man trying to tell you? Sometimes Flowers means ‘“maybe we should just be friends,’ if you get my drift. Hang if you can hang? No pain no gain!” 😂😂😂
Funny, one moment, she's giving gifts celebrating his bday then the next day, this, next time she and Snow Beau or whatever he is to her go through this, many are NOT gonna care.
Never let a man show you more than once, that he doesn’t want you
That's right sis! I remember Judge Toler saying this on Divorce Court.
🙌🏾 Facts this is a code to live by!!!
Frfr
Whew say that!!!
I learned this the hard way. It will never ever happen again.
Tamar is an embarrassment to herself.
💯✔️
facts
That man used her
@@LatonyaDickersonShe allowed it period
It's so sad. she is to damn old to be dealing with this~
Never love a man more than yourself!!
Right there
Things is downheel every since she wrong Vince
Yes!
Best statement said 🫶🫶🫶
@peggyhunter9499 she did. What did she do to Vince?
She snuck off and got married because she didn't want anyone telling her she was making a big mistake
That means she knew herself, let’s be real.
In the same way, she didn't want her family to come visit/meet him on the show.
@@mrsa6925 Exactly 💯
Tommie tried to school her!!!
Facts ❤
✅️✅️✅️
Right.
What Tommie say
@@cnope2444yeah, what she say
Tamar( Sweetheart)…
YOU ARE NOT A VICTIM, YOU ARE A WILLING PARTICIPANT!!!
🛑STOP THE MADNESS!!!
Not only is Tamar too old.. her son is watching.. she's selfish and imo.. she has a mood disorder and tries to treat everyone like she did vince
🎯🎯🎯🎯
Yes!! I fully agree.
Her son is watching.
That part she has a child come on
Google Vince. He was trash
I had a man who i let get his cake and eat it to back in the 90s. I used to act a fool, knocking on his door at 1 00 in the morning. I knew after years of off and on with him this was not the dude for me. I had the last laugh, because i left like a thief in the night. Because i knew telling him i was done wasn't going to work. I left and never looked back. 3 weeks after i left him alone for good my husband showed up. We have been married 25 years in August. Ladies know your worth. Q is spot on!
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
🙏🏾💕💯
Same boat I’m in with my “man” we’re off again and this time I’m going to leave it off and for some reason this time around I feel happy and hopeful like the weight of the world has been lifted
that part!
Yessss sis yessss 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I bet Kandi and Todd in the bushes cracking up 😂😂😂
hell yeah. Laughing at Tamar and her contestant 😂
😭😂😂😂
"I bet he hunched ha." 😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
And did
Q is serious. He is giving the ladies GOOD and IMPORTANT advice. Your box is precious. Don't let any and everybody open it.
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Tamar is 50 with the mindset of a 14 year old
Arrested Development
It is embarrassing...she need to go sit down!!
Agree, she is more like a 10 year old girl 😂😂😂😂😂
Unfortunately it's as a result of her childhood abuse and Trauma!!!! Let's 🙏🏾 pray for her stabilization and strength mentally, spiritually, physically and financially.
Shes 50 I thought that heffa was my age 44
Married for 61 days!!!!! Girl bye
And steady talking about OUR kids 🙄🤦🏽♀️
If they were even ever married at all!!!!
Congratulations 💜❤️ I've been married for 34 years
😫
Damn, Tamar and JR beat Kim Kardashian and Kris Humphries record of 72 days. 🤦🏾♀️
This man stay embarrassing her, and she continues to allow it. Tommie told you how he was. But, Tamar wanted to prove something. Here she is looking crazy.... again!
Yep! AGAIN!
🤦🏽♀️
He is looking dumb right next to her sorry😏
Omg playing friends with benefits middle age edition NEVER ends well....
It does when the individuals are mature. However both Tamar and Jeremy are very immature. Tamar acts like a child. Jeremy grew up poor, was able to make it out of the ghetto, but still has a ghetto ass mentality that he tries to cover up by flashing material things.
Funky said you got one time to embarrass me in public 😂😂😂😂😂
If you allow a man to tell you he doesn’t want you and you stick around he’ll never respect you. He knows your self esteem is low and whenever he feels like getting his ego stroked he’ll call you up and once he’s satisfied he will go on about his day.
TRUTH!
Absolutely this. Block ‘em and never let them come back. There’s always someone better. Respect yourself and don’t allow disrespect.
Exactly. She'll never change him now. He knows she'll tolerate mad disrespect.
He’s a liar he only doing that bs because everyone be calling her crazy or off the rails. But she’s who she is and people take advantage of her.
No he didn’t say "You have one time to talk to me wrong in the Longhorn parking lot". 😂😩
Checkmate 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂
Tell Tamar quit getting around here embarrassing her son
What does her son have to do with this, don't bring him in this.
And as my mom instilled in me "no one can treat you in a way that you don't allow them to"!
Why not cancel the card when the relationship was over? Why go public with your dirty laundry, Tamar?? She must be addicted to drama!
She didn’t give him a card her card was on file at the hotel where she frequently goes too so instead of him giving his card out he had them charge the card on file under her name smh 🤦🏾♀️ that’s how she found out she explained it on her live hun
That part! 🎯🎯🎯🎯
@@msmarquitaw5damn that’s bold
HE'S A POS💩AND ICANT UNDERSTANDING HOW SHE ALLOWS THIS FROM CS
@@msmarquitaw5 I don’t watch or follow her. I didn’t listen to her part of funky’s video because she’s problematic. Now I understand it was on file, when the relationship ended, she should have limited use of her card at the hotel - especially if she knew or knows he’ll keep going there.
I knew that man was no good for her on that show before she picked him. It was to many kids, to many baby mamas (no wives), and he was to smooth.
Finally someone saying it!! I looked at her different after she picked him. He should have been an immediate no!
It’s the hair
The other ladies blocked him the first 5mins!!!!!!
“Cooch, Credik” 😂😂😂
😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
It's the barressment for me!😂
I learned that in my early 30s never chase or try to convince a man to like you.
I learned in my early early 20's that pain and embarrassment was not for me. I love me. And the man I've been married to for 30 years loves himself. And everything we bring into our lives we love. So that's it.
Love you first.
Early 30s is wild work. That's too old too.
@@cjohnson_ maybe it was 20s. Idk shit I'm old lol
Everything stated in this video was true…about men and women💯💯💯‼️
💯💯💯 is right ❤❤
facts
@@delisadawnmariee5189 that's one thing Q will joke, but he speaks facts. 💝
No facts I really thought the harder I love the better he would treat me. Never again I listen now
@@swilkerson3745 Good for u sis and BIG shoutout to u for waking up from the bs🤎💯‼️
That man has been using her from the beginning. He knows she has some emotional wounds, maybe some mental health issues but he was okay with being with her for clout. I'm no Tamar fan but that guy JR appears to be a narcissist and a jerk.
Jeremy is both book smart and street smart. Tamar is not ready for someone like him. How the heck do you go from being husband and wife to just "friends". That sound like some bullish*t.
He may have a law degree and be a lawyer…..but that wigga is for the streets and them sheets, nothing more. 😅
“Friends” was to keep Tamar from doing exactly what her crazy azz did.
When she said they were married and she was simply waiting for him to come around I said whet??? That's some backwards shit.
My brother put me on game during my first relationship and I ain’t listen! I never again in my life did that again
lol not the LONG HORN parking lot.
If a man don’t want me that’s enough for me to say bye. Go where you’re celebrated.
U got one time to tell me you don’t want me.. deuces ninja ✌️. That’s a prime example of a man having his cake and eating it too.
Thank you! Tamar is too old for this type of behavior. If she want to be a sugar mama, then be that & don't complain. Why did that man have her card to start with? He saw a sucker & licked it!🤷🏾♀️
Exactly...
Preach Q. You are so right and it’s painful to watch Tamar go through this.
I was about to watch maxwell's tiny desk and immediately click off and on to this video lol love you nessa gworl 😂❤😊
Girl Maxwell did that!
@@courtneyl.227 he did do it now !!! 😂
😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂 I needed this today
Ohhh girl his tiny desk was good!
Not letting a man play in my face. Block em and don’t waste anymore time.
It’s an age ole thing, this happens a lot. Women think they can make a man stay, when they want to go, don’t embarrass yourself. Every woman has to learn. Once Jeremy knew he didn’t want her he did what ninjas do. He’s also a lawyer that furthers his skill. BUT we cannot be surprised if they get back together. Tamar move on and if he returns (cause that happens too) don’t go back, he has shown you who he is and how he feels about you now.
Some celebs do things publicly so their fans can do there dirty work
You may be on to something. I never even thought about that🤔
I believe that
Vince somewhere laughing and shaking his head at the same time
Even Iyanla fix my life couldn't help Tamar, so I'm not surprised to see her acting a fool about a man.
He knew what he was doing inviting her to his birthday, giving her false hopes getting nice gifts.
😂😂😂😂😂
Tamar is DELUSIONAL! This man does not want her! She might as well have stayed with Vincent Herbert!
Vince don’t want her
@@tracyv-w423 Oh, I’m sure he doesn’t 😂
Well not anymore but he did love and was very much committed to her when they were toget her
Sometimes it's good to take a break from relationships 😌 🙂
Vince resented her ….he was already hitting her 😢😅
We have all taken some L’s but I’d be damned if I gotta take an L in public. Lmao 😂
Not seeing the shadow through the blinds as the sun going down 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 This was the laugh I needed for the day..... Hilarious
You got one time to breathe wrong in the Olive Garden parking lot, baby 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
This shit should have stayed their business & their business only. Smdh 🤦🏾♂️
Tamar is very childish, and it shows. asking for her stuff back.
Right, I did that when I was 24 😭😭😭
I feel he should give it back because he said she is unstable he was just using her. So sad
No man that I know or heard of gives you stuff that you gave him back cause you are unstable..
@@debraphillips1310she allowed herself to be used
Whew chile!! Tell it Q!!!!! 🔥🔥🔥
Why is he filming from a Motel 8 tho? 🤔
School is in session gworls 📝
She want that YT man so bad 😂😂 what hasn’t he done and she keep tangling with him. TOO OLD for the foolishness
What does race have to do with it?
@@LilithTheAquarian369Not a damn thing!
Yes! To all of it
"Gave Up Coch, CrediK!"... Emphasize on The "K" 😂😂😂
6:49 so she wants us to believe that he “changed” after they got married in February and he filed for divorce in April?!?! Sweetie, whole time, he remained the same.
Thank you funky I’m currently dealing with this let go
Quentin! I'm witcha when ya RIGHT!
He never acknowledged him being married to her even when Tamar was slipping little hints out there! Chileee he said “friend”
And she was his whole wife! My GAWD ON TUH DAY!!!!
They were married!!??? See what happens when u mind ya business…. Dont be knowing ish… lol
The ultimate no-no is the fact she exposed her son to this unhealthy, toxic relationship and all her previous toxic relationships. Now that is the real shame. She allowed this man to bond with her son. Shes calling his kids her kids and calling her son his son. All after 5 minutes. Sick. ..smh
Dont you be on Brokensilenze too?
@@ILOVEMUVA yep
Not Credic Card🤣🤣
Logan should be her priority and the male role models she presents as worthy of her time.
Not a lie told !! Watch the actions only
Tamar is the only person that thought he liked her.
I've been the one to say I didn't want to be married or have kids and this man tried to say I wasted his time after YEARS of us bein together. 😒 umm, I SAID IT DAY 1!!
Girrrrrl, I have been in that situation. Like sir did you think I was going to change my mind? I said NO kids damn! 😂
@ambamb310 if you said it DAY 1 than why did you stay with him for years 🤔
@@whitleywhitley2280So she can use him until there is no more want. Why you think? Women can use men as well.
@@whitleywhitley2280 he never pressured me into it when we were together. He brought it up after we broke up.
@LilithTheAquarian369 wrong! There was no using. I feel he thought I would change my mind. We ended up better friends than lovers though. Which is why we can still be cool now.
I'm so sick of Tamar
Tamar it's ok to be embarrassed. Just do better and try loving on yourself
Show this to Jim Jones girlfriend 😂😂😂😂
EXPEDITIOUSLY! 😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Let's know T.I. 😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂@@BabyBeyonce09
@KINGDOMDAUGHTER
Gangster as he's supposed to be...Mama is the gangster😂
Man, I’ve been exactly where she is. No one loves pain intentionally. That kind of brokenness is deep and unconscious. If she goes and really heals, the glow up will be something. 💕
One thing about men? They will embarrass you ke sana😂😭🤚🏻
They will leave you in the desert , without water , nono😂😂😂
AND they will look and talk you as if you have the smell of 💩 ALL OVER YOU. Smh.
Men can't do anything that a woman doesn't allow him to do to her. Men don't embarrass women, women embarrass themselves!
@@fundiswa4026 Akere chomi? Yoh😂😭
Amadoda!!! 😭
I’m convinced they want us to leave them alone because why are my sisters crashing out like this!😭😩
why give somebody more of what they don't appreciate
Que please tell Tamar that she cannot be happy with somebody else until she loves herself. He only married her to get on the show and when Toni stopped that. He divorced her
How do u know toni Braxton stop that?
@chloeisme8783 there have been various reports that toni said only husband's or in the industry people will be allowed on the show. She has the finally say of cast.
@kaigracecollins346 oh okay, but I thought tamar was married to him for 6 months lol
She ain’t bout to listen to nobody, ESPECIALLY Que! 😆
Which season he tried to get on?
Love yourself
It’s delightful 🥰
@funkydineva… Where is your novel on EVERYTHING❓👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
She need to do like Taylor Swift and write about hit song. Title it "The wonk wonk"😮
Tamar needs to focus on her mental health journey. End this toxic relationship and move on.❤️❤️
Put the gworls up on game!! Preach Q!!! Pimpin 101!!!!😮
“And just keep it QUTEEEEE”😂😂😂😂 9:22
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I love he is make up words like me
You right. They put their business all on social media. Too old to be acting like Kids!!!
Tamar, I hope you don't caught a Sexual diease.
Iktr!!..clothes sprinkled across the lawn immediately😂😂
Why you telling my OLD story Funky, took me years to walk away. I is good now 😂😂😂
Speaking facts.. we be so delusional
This is whoo I was waiting for on to give a honest opinion to give about the situation ❤❤❤❤❤
"Embarrassing me in Publix." Lol
I didn't even know the B got married🤦🏿♀️
I was in New Orleans the same week for a conference. I stayed at the JW Marriott Hotel. On one occasion, I observed him seated on the couch near the elevators, seemingly waiting for someone. On another occasion, I encountered the same person at the bar, accompanied by a person who was not Tamar.
Not the blinds still open 😂😂
1:08 preaching.
You better preach Funky 🔥🔥 I'm guilty of this, neva again!!!!!
When he said “crute” I hollered 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Tamar really thought she was saying something
Always does 🙄
Marrige license says they was married for 61 days 😔
I never knew they were married. 😮
@@Long_locs I knew Tamar wasn't tripping when she kept saying husband.
I was now years old when I found out they were married. Glad to see I'm not alone
😂😂😂😂😂😂
MARRIED!!!! Wowww. Prayers for Tamar and family. I don't like anyone putting this type of info out. Let Go Tamar, and let God!! Don't say anything else, give it to God.
The first and last time a guy tried to play in my face like JR doing was in my early 20s and all I wanted to do was L. Bobbitt his azz and I learned that day I wasn’t built for that level of game playing. I was very demure in my actions and never answered another, call, text and when basically stalked for a response kept it short “I am sorry you feel that way, I have to go have a nice life”
Facts I don't do embarrassment well either
This is y I love ur commentaries bcuz u come with and don’t take sides!! U have a lot of knowledge in life situations. Come on bring it funky
Tamar had to tell it first...cause he was going to tell it😶🌫️ but I'm inside peeking out
Where’s that old lady sitting under the tree when you need her. “What is the man trying to tell you? Sometimes Flowers means ‘“maybe we should just be friends,’ if you get my drift. Hang if you can hang? No pain no gain!” 😂😂😂
Lmao. That was my jam.
It’s so sad at her age to be dealing with that mess!
Wow that hurts King but I needed these words ❤this was so well put. We’re taken on a challenge we can’t win😢
Funny, one moment, she's giving gifts celebrating his bday then the next day, this, next time she and Snow Beau or whatever he is to her go through this, many are NOT gonna care.
Your opening facial expression set the whole tone of the video!! 😂😂😂
“Some people just love pain” 😂😂😂
This is why you DON’T be friends with exes!!! The lines are blurred!!!!🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤔🤔🤔
I'm through that today and I just came back from San Antonio to see him I'm over it 😅😂
It’s the reference to “For Colored Girls” which is why we ADORE you!!!❤🎉