How Do You Make Friends?! | Recess Therapy

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  • This week I go to "friend Boot Camp" and learn how to make friends and be a better friend. Because apparently I suck at it!!
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  • @johnmoore4903
    @johnmoore4903 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2095

    Tom Hardy's kid makes real good analogies. First the friend ship, then the weight lifting. Also, he's rocking that jacket

    • @naurrrre
      @naurrrre 2 ปีที่แล้ว +93

      it’s Tom Hardy’s kid now

    • @heartfulbreeze6801
      @heartfulbreeze6801 2 ปีที่แล้ว +97

      i was balancing the light switches at that age

    • @Matheus-ly6eu
      @Matheus-ly6eu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +171

      He's a goddamn poetic genius. He said that a superficial friendSHIP is more like a BOAT. Did you guys hear that?!

    • @chelseawestfall1920
      @chelseawestfall1920 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@heartfulbreeze6801 I was flicking that little springy thing on the back of the door that goes *doiiinng.* Didn’t even know what analogies were until maybe high school. This kid is a legend.

    • @raquellima7400
      @raquellima7400 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      @@Matheus-ly6eu not only a boat, but a boat made of sticks! GENIUS

  • @lillytalesandwonders780
    @lillytalesandwonders780 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1275

    I want to be able to say "yesterday I sued someone" as relaxed as that lil guy

    • @heartlights
      @heartlights ปีที่แล้ว +4

      true but nah

    • @solkim710
      @solkim710 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      And I win they went to jail😂😂

    • @lillytalesandwonders780
      @lillytalesandwonders780 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@solkim710 of course

    • @Cassxowary
      @Cassxowary 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      it’s the US, suing is easier than communicating apparently

  • @leix7
    @leix7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +845

    How to befriend an animal:
    Step 1: Get to know them
    Step 2: Kneel down and let them sniff you
    Step 3: Deadlift

    • @gillian6918
      @gillian6918 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      i just laughed so loudly at this comment

    • @trra7785
      @trra7785 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      laughing

    • @Cassxowary
      @Cassxowary 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      you must mean a nonhuman one though that might work for some human ones too like furries

  • @clwt4075
    @clwt4075 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1160

    I like how the last boy is so comfortable with you that he's sitting so close to you it's so cute 🤣🤣🤣

  • @bethanyray6421
    @bethanyray6421 2 ปีที่แล้ว +343

    the little girl in the pink coat was so sweet and cute aww

  • @sharpieRulestheWorld
    @sharpieRulestheWorld 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1185

    This poor mans keeps getting roasted by kids. Don’t worry Julian, you seem cool

    • @heckinggi6034
      @heckinggi6034 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Not cool enough to have friends though.

    • @kayplays7494
      @kayplays7494 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeahhhhh

    • @Mario_1611
      @Mario_1611 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Yeah why do they keep going after my boy like that 😭😂

    • @letontete7817
      @letontete7817 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ok

    • @carmenishere
      @carmenishere ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Exactly. Adorable little critics but the guy seems cool and normal🤣

  • @theloveablescrunko
    @theloveablescrunko 2 ปีที่แล้ว +290

    The kid with the blazer seems like he's got his boundaries set straight. Respect.

  • @frogwitch5265
    @frogwitch5265 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Julian smiling like Pennywise and the little boy looking at the camera and choosing to say "Yeah" to not hurt him had me dying 😂😂😂

  • @kymolia
    @kymolia 2 ปีที่แล้ว +446

    as always, these little big interviews have made life worth living. can we talk about the friendSHIP metaphor? mind blown! 🤯 never force relationships guys! I just wish i knew as much about life as these kids.

    • @raee1265
      @raee1265 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I was impressed with that too!

  • @hollylaughlin7274
    @hollylaughlin7274 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    The one little girl has me dying laughing, they had a conversation about food, and he asked if she ate any, she says “everyone eats food” and then he asked if they were friends and she says “no!” 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @lenagadeadoncel5458
    @lenagadeadoncel5458 2 ปีที่แล้ว +160

    Tom Hardy's kid is everything I want to be in life.

  • @ribbit444
    @ribbit444 2 ปีที่แล้ว +538

    Nooo, little Tom Hardy dude, we're so sorry!! you're the most brilliant and emotionally intelligent child ever!

  • @gordyaenbenyamin8445
    @gordyaenbenyamin8445 2 ปีที่แล้ว +274

    I would love to hire that kid with green jacket as my life advisor. He’s so wise🤩

    • @twatts1523
      @twatts1523 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I love all of his analogies. I bet his parents explain things to him the same way.

  • @bethany4986
    @bethany4986 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Purple and pink windbreaker is a lil empath
    “doing your best to make them comfortable”
    🥺😭❤️

  • @RamonBalthazar
    @RamonBalthazar 2 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    That lil man in the suit is wiser than I'll ever be

  • @annieanshor9968
    @annieanshor9968 2 ปีที่แล้ว +263

    i seriously needed that ship analogy for my heart today!! and all that easily imparted wisdom about not forcing friendships? the delivery of these reminders is key! recess therapy works y'all, these kids are shining little gems

  • @violetwhitmore1654
    @violetwhitmore1654 2 ปีที่แล้ว +290

    that kid who talked about bullies is so important. future child aspiration

  • @Hannah-kj8kh
    @Hannah-kj8kh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +224

    I know a distinguished gentleman when I see one. Can Tom Hardy‘s kid please make a comeback? He is so wise and knows about proper deadlift technique… I wish he was my kid.

  • @1994skelly
    @1994skelly 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    The first little guy has a point, alleys did go away and most of the bullying did move to online spaces.

  • @ceciliaotuson7326
    @ceciliaotuson7326 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Don't force friendship it comes naturally, wow what a brilliant kid advice.

  • @shadybuh3677
    @shadybuh3677 2 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    This kids have a better social life than me 😅😂

  • @MM-te1kk
    @MM-te1kk ปีที่แล้ว +90

    I'm not good with children and have always evied people who are. I'm the youngest in my family and never had younger children to care for growing up. My interactions with children always feel awkward. These videos make me realize that you can have so much fun with children if you simply take them seriously. Now I kinda feel guilty about being so surprised about that.

    • @AthenaIsabella
      @AthenaIsabella ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Love that you had a change in perspective! Kids are truly amazing and I love looking at people even as adults and trying to connect with that inner child.

    • @dirys24
      @dirys24 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      you know kids love when you ask questions about what thhey love so just do that to make some good friends!

    • @twatts1523
      @twatts1523 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yes, most kids light up when you show interest in them and ask them to talk about their interests.

  • @raychelcaliber4941
    @raychelcaliber4941 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    The little brunette girl in the pink/purple windbreaker is an absolute ANGEL 😇

    • @chelseascott5872
      @chelseascott5872 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I thought so too. The other kids are funny but I like how she's such an old soul 😊

    • @suhaskulkarni1280
      @suhaskulkarni1280 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes. Be kind and first ask them what they want to play 🩷

  • @StefanCreates
    @StefanCreates ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Look how close he's sitting to Julian at the end, amazing to see that Julian can create that kind of comfort in the kids ^^

  • @jourdancanino8271
    @jourdancanino8271 2 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    Sloane is such a fashionista 😂 I love when she’s featured💗

  • @PennyLane88
    @PennyLane88 2 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    This is the single greatest channel on TH-cam. Julian we all want to be your friend!

  • @nastjamaganja2513
    @nastjamaganja2513 2 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    The Tom Hardy kid is a genius. He just is, we all know it.

  • @sosig9475
    @sosig9475 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    'How did someone even invent bullies' Feel you dude.

  • @821Drifter128
    @821Drifter128 2 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    This is an all-star episode!!

  • @llucila
    @llucila 2 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    julian, sloane might have just roasted you to hell, but you look extremely friend-shaped to me

  • @0elifff0
    @0elifff0 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Julian being bullied by kids for 11 minutes straight

  • @amycarrigan6099
    @amycarrigan6099 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    From Nina (pink jacket yummy snacks kid)
    “The show was so cool! It was so fun being on it. Making friends can be easy or hard. Just be yourself and nothing else. If you are not yourself they are not your actual friend.”

    • @juliahormayer7255
      @juliahormayer7255 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🥹🥹🥹 she was so wholesome, such a wise kid ❤

  • @par3433
    @par3433 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    UM I wasn’t prepared for these stars to come back all on one episode omg!! Deadlift boi is forever a fave

  • @melsyoutube
    @melsyoutube ปีที่แล้ว +19

    all those boat and weight lifting analogies!!! he's so smart and witty

  • @julial.r.5383
    @julial.r.5383 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Man I feel like a lot of adults should watch (and learn from) this. 😌❤

  • @kikyyy9122
    @kikyyy9122 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    the ship kid is my favorite!! he will be the future president

  • @shaliniverma7020
    @shaliniverma7020 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Deadlift kid is amazing .. so mature and comfortable with his thoughts ❤

  • @Surfergurrrllll
    @Surfergurrrllll ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is my 3rd Recess Therapy video and I’m convinced this is the best form of therapy. Thank you for your hard work 👏🏻👌🏼👍🏼

    • @twatts1523
      @twatts1523 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It definitely gets the oxytocin flowing.

  • @AccordingToWillow
    @AccordingToWillow ปีที่แล้ว +5

    i love how literal children are.
    “what makes a good friend?”
    >>”introducing yourself”

  • @iluuuvutube
    @iluuuvutube 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    "everyone eats food" thats facts I really do be eating food.

  • @LaMaca02
    @LaMaca02 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I literally watch these videos looking for essential life lessons and I'm never disappointed

  • @kristinacvetkovic5620
    @kristinacvetkovic5620 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Those kids are hope for better future. They are so kind and smart. ❤️

  • @lnfreeman
    @lnfreeman ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Sloane's hair is always always _snatched_ She is such a little queen!

  • @catinhanu
    @catinhanu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Tom Hardy went blazer today, so cute

  • @Liv-is8eo
    @Liv-is8eo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I don't have a calendOr. I felt that.

  • @meep2026
    @meep2026 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    the little boy in the blue hat was the most adorable kid ever😂 but he was also wrong about you having no friends!

  • @RunnerEye
    @RunnerEye 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Congrats on the New York Times article!!! It was about time

  • @christelbremer657
    @christelbremer657 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    that ship boy is wiser than most adults

  • @gaud9112
    @gaud9112 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    We need more of Tom Hardy!!

  • @VAINILLAcinnamon
    @VAINILLAcinnamon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    these kids are so amazing, they make my life happier 💜 and congrats on the article, I've just read it and it is so good!

  • @butterbean5544
    @butterbean5544 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I woke up feeling really sad and I’ve watched a few of these and I’m now ready to finish packing my house!! 😂

  • @pattyskuster4589
    @pattyskuster4589 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Julian! You’re amazing! You babysat for my daughter in Philly some time ago. How lucky was she?

  • @sharpieRulestheWorld
    @sharpieRulestheWorld 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Blazer kid dropping wisdom

  • @roxyray781226
    @roxyray781226 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Oh my gosh all these kids are sooo cute and smart and wise! These videos are truly therapy :’)

  • @anrijupiter
    @anrijupiter 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I miss when making friends were that easy lol

  • @SuperLeticiamacedo
    @SuperLeticiamacedo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    this channel is the best thing i found last year, thank u

  • @venlatuominen8376
    @venlatuominen8376 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Recess Therapy is literally the best! The kids are so sweet and smart!

  • @gordyaenbenyamin8445
    @gordyaenbenyamin8445 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    That guy Sued someone 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 my brain stopped working for a second

  • @mimim868
    @mimim868 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    When I grow up I want to be a basic person with a lot of friends.

  • @starshinetamy
    @starshinetamy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Aw the kids are so cute and smart ahah!! Making friends is a challenge oof thanks for the advice

  • @kadelu1137
    @kadelu1137 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Also I love how brutally honest the girl with the braids is haha

  • @annafurmanczyk5814
    @annafurmanczyk5814 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    im so happy that i found your channel! ur doing gr8 job, thank u!

  • @amandabarbosa9477
    @amandabarbosa9477 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Oh no, not Julian getting roasted by kids again
    ~ me, the elder cousin

  • @Cassxowary
    @Cassxowary 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    *I make my friends the same way kids do; I message people saying what we’ve got in common and they seem nice/cool and if we can talk and maybe be friends…*

  • @glenkuenzi4302
    @glenkuenzi4302 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The kid in the blue hat is so mature it’s crazy

  • @Fay_partidge
    @Fay_partidge 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    A lot of recess celebrity kids came out from this video. I like ittt✨🌟

  • @stinkygoose666
    @stinkygoose666 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The Sonic kid is chiiiiled tf out what a mood

  • @avamoore189
    @avamoore189 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The shadee of this little girl not thiinking Julian has friends hahaha. They genuinely Dragged him

  • @irmarossanie5526
    @irmarossanie5526 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Your videos always make my day better. Thank you ❤️

    • @recesstherapy
      @recesstherapy  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm so glad! Thanks for being here!

  • @MrsVrba
    @MrsVrba 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I absolutely adored this video… I might show it to my 4th graders in the fall!

  • @5445tashi
    @5445tashi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Me when I meet someone new: "I think there's some synergy here"

  • @HiFiTurtle
    @HiFiTurtle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Sloane slayed with the gold braids! That's my president 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸

  • @katpage9378
    @katpage9378 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That boy with all the ANALOGIES SO SMART WOW

  • @TheElektra
    @TheElektra ปีที่แล้ว +1

    “Yesh”
    Lol y’all did her dirty with that 😂

  • @cetaceantali
    @cetaceantali 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm in love with this. Thank you💕🧸

  • @AliUnderscore
    @AliUnderscore ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Bonsoir, je viens de découvrir la "Recess Therapy". Cela me rend vraiment heureuse j'en avais besoin ! Merci à vous et à la participation des enfants, ils seront très contents de revoir ces vidéos quand ils seront plus grands !

  • @xnaduah
    @xnaduah 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Julian, don't worry, I would love to be your friend!

  • @3YearsApart1613
    @3YearsApart1613 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am a dad with 4 kids, so I live this experience every day...and I love it.

  • @pensamentosdemaluca
    @pensamentosdemaluca 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    the girl with the pink jacket that let's people comfortable just has all my heart 🥺♥️

  • @pattyberryman3037
    @pattyberryman3037 ปีที่แล้ว

    You just stinkin rock Buddy! Thank you for your amazing work.

  • @e33yodonnell
    @e33yodonnell ปีที่แล้ว +1

    These kids are very good at talking. 👌🏼 I wish I had more intellectual kids around my area like this😂

  • @8aemi
    @8aemi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    This made me laugh and then made me realize on how wise some of those advices are 🥰

  • @chrisstargazer5866
    @chrisstargazer5866 ปีที่แล้ว

    "making friends is hard - trust me I KNOW" I feel that bro.

  • @MissLadee1
    @MissLadee1 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    'You can get beat up in alley's a lot" WOW what an introduction to this video lololol Kids are hilarious

  • @freelucid
    @freelucid 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you so much! brilliant episode.

  • @cherylcooper5118
    @cherylcooper5118 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Saw recess therapy on TV thought it was wonderful and funny... very nice and friendly with the kids.

  • @sandraisaka8182
    @sandraisaka8182 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    People:how was your day
    Me:yesterday I sued a person
    Them:😯

  • @peachycream8674
    @peachycream8674 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Man these kids out here are brutal 🤣

  • @logicfrogmedia
    @logicfrogmedia 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Proud to say I subbed before 10k!

  • @TheDualismOfKoala
    @TheDualismOfKoala ปีที่แล้ว +1

    " SO YOU THINK WHAT CHANGED IS THE ALLEYS WENT AWAY? " this is so cool that all the angels in heaven dropped whatever they were doing, crossed their eyes and started running around in panic thank you

  • @dracth3dagg3r
    @dracth3dagg3r 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    That stapler kid 😭😄

  • @louiss1625
    @louiss1625 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    that little black girl's hair+outfit are ferocious. she looks incredible.

  • @Juss169
    @Juss169 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The guy at 3:16! so adorable. and so comfortable with the interviewer.

  • @vanillacarnivore
    @vanillacarnivore ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The ship analogy kid, wow, that was pretty deep!

  • @kendalk.3202
    @kendalk.3202 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "You wanna go eat some other people?"
    "No!"
    "Oh! 🤦 Sorry!!"
    Dying over here

  • @__gr.ce_
    @__gr.ce_ ปีที่แล้ว +1

    the fact that me and my best friends are just a bunch of punching bags for eachother

  • @bloodmaged
    @bloodmaged 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    this is underrated as hell

  • @sola3455
    @sola3455 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The blue jacket child is so wholesome

  • @elisabethn3913
    @elisabethn3913 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    no, but these kids make such good points though?? I love🤧

  • @Eagervul
    @Eagervul 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    These kids are so smart!!! This is awesome 😎😎😎