Hey Steve: I’m Stuck in A One-Sided Friendship 😞 II Steve Harvey

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  • @kkb892
    @kkb892 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    True friendships don’t expire. Sometimes we hold on to relationships that aren’t there. Some people were never our friend.

    • @Zinnie988
      @Zinnie988 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Let them go, if they meant to comeback, they will, with their own realization that they ghost you on your important milestones and celebrations. Just give the space. If they ask you "hey girl where have you been, oh you just noticed that I am no more there?!?! Did you noticed that you were no show nor support GIRLFRIEND!! So I figured that's it WE EXPIRED!" I chilling. With some friends. No time to waste to wait. If you spare your boyfriends, you need not spare your girlfriends. If you can walk aqay from a boyfriend, fiancé who ain't treating you right, same rules apply to girlfriends too. Done! Khapish?!? 😮

    • @edwardrook8146
      @edwardrook8146 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I have a saying, all friendships come to an end. People move on with their lives sometimes, no hard feelings.

  • @MyWayWendy
    @MyWayWendy ปีที่แล้ว +55

    "Remove yourself from those one sided friendships where you're the only one putting in the effort"..

  • @viviogogo2763
    @viviogogo2763 ปีที่แล้ว +169

    Once I turned 30, I decided to get rid of some friends like this. It was hard at first but I feel peace now and guess what, I've made new friends. Sometimes you have to let go of something to get a better one.

    • @Mattamillion-vk2pf
      @Mattamillion-vk2pf ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I've been struggling a very long time to let go of toxic friends but they know me so well and what buttons to push, its hard. I don't like them.

    • @viviogogo2763
      @viviogogo2763 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Mattamillion-vk2pf Do it gradually. Sometimes don't pick up or respond and they'll slowly fade away.

    • @SaturnPhase
      @SaturnPhase 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@Mattamillion-vk2pfI've been there, too. It was tough when I realized that I was hanging out with a bunch of people that I don't even like and probably wouldn't miss. Take that first step and leave. It might be tough at first, but you've got nothing to lose and everything to gain by leaving.

  • @layasaul28
    @layasaul28 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    Great wisdom from Steve Harvey again!
    1) Friendship has an expiration date. If the milk is stale, let it go.
    2) Let the men hunt for you ladies! (and an extra tip that I learned: "Don't get in the habit of collecting red flags."
    3) Old is the goal! "Everyday that you wake up is Gd telling you He's not done with you!"
    Love all of it, thanks Uncle Steve!!!

  • @chelcyforbes9685
    @chelcyforbes9685 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    They really need to bring this show back. Steve has so many valuable nuggets if wisdom

  • @hazelboyce7230
    @hazelboyce7230 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    I had a friend that I was always there for. When her husband was cheating on her, she used to come to my home for solace and to get away for a few hours. Once they parted ways and she got another man and was getting remarried, she just told me she was getting married and did not extend an invitation. A mutual male friend of ours told me some years later that she was always jealous of me because guys always tend to gravitate to me and not her. I was done for life and don’t care how she tried to act friendly, I just considered her someone I know but not a friend. Sometimes you just have to view people through the rear view mirror.

    • @SkatesPraise
      @SkatesPraise ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Amen.... view them through the rear view mirror, well said!

    • @tonnewhite62
      @tonnewhite62 ปีที่แล้ว

      Happened to me too

  • @alwaysaboutniasha
    @alwaysaboutniasha ปีที่แล้ว +257

    I let all one-sided friends go. Now I have no friends 😅 Edit : I am manifesting my soul family , so there is hope !

    • @ldkea05
      @ldkea05 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bruhhhh me af and I'm cool with that ... they can go 👉🏽👉🏽

    • @TheBfutgreg
      @TheBfutgreg ปีที่แล้ว +8

      It takes two....I can't say for sure but how many were there? If you were the common denominator that's always something to consider js

    • @RTA6226
      @RTA6226 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I bet you have peace✌though!

    • @vibranthang13
      @vibranthang13 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      🗣️Same here!!! I’ve noticed since living on the West Coast there is no loyalty. People are in it for themselves.🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @starshanae80
      @starshanae80 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly

  • @whitneymccurdy7981
    @whitneymccurdy7981 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Loyalty do have an expiration date I learned this couple years ago I stopped showing up for some ppl who hasn't shown up for m period

  • @bodhi8260
    @bodhi8260 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I love Steve's advice. It's so practical and correct, we just don't see it for ourselves. He must be a great father.

  • @Mattamillion-vk2pf
    @Mattamillion-vk2pf ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I've been struggling my whole life with a one-sided friendship. I've been fighting my codependency on this person, but I think it's finally time to realize this person let me go and to just be happy, like Steve said.

    • @kristimartinez7528
      @kristimartinez7528 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Ouch..same..a lot easier said than done

  • @jenealmorrison-douglas5162
    @jenealmorrison-douglas5162 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I don't know why a lot of people is afraid of getting older... For me it actually a blessing 🙌 🙏 thank you Lord. I'm so not afraid to tell others my age 😊

  • @Juschillin2024
    @Juschillin2024 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    We just celebrated my great grandmother's 100th birthday in December 2022! Had a blast, she even "cut a rug"! 😆

    • @ppheard1254
      @ppheard1254 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Happy belated to her that God blessed her with a long life

    • @lynettebrown91
      @lynettebrown91 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      God bless her with many more blessings my great grandmother died at 100 years old she lived a great life

    • @bobby12348
      @bobby12348 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Happy Birthday to her 🎂🎉

    • @OneWomanMan888
      @OneWomanMan888 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@lynettebrown91 That's not a nice making such comment on someone's 100th birthday.

    • @OneWomanMan888
      @OneWomanMan888 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@lynettebrown91 I'm saying you should leave out the last part.

  • @n.h.k.7039
    @n.h.k.7039 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    When I turned 40, I really fricked out! Then I got into this thing of not carring about what other people think about me. 40 is a really cool stage of life, because you learn to be you, and you are happier in your own body. It's now been 2 years, and I m still enjoying!

  • @patienceisavirtue
    @patienceisavirtue ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Quality over quantity when it comes to “Friends”!

    • @cameliap1146
      @cameliap1146 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      For everything. Not only for friends.

  • @monacannon6644
    @monacannon6644 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    LOL..Steve! You go to the same church, same grocery store, same beauty salon; He ain't there, you ain't seen him down there yet, he ain't coming. Lmboo🤣🤣 Loyalty has a expiration date. Great advice Steve!

    • @NiqueTheSneak1
      @NiqueTheSneak1 ปีที่แล้ว

      That part cracked me up 😂😂

  • @brittthecancerqueenempress9137
    @brittthecancerqueenempress9137 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I definitely needed this reminder the one right here exactly

  • @keundreafelton657
    @keundreafelton657 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I don't do one-sided relationships and friendships go; so I am over it!

  • @ndabarutalovis3972
    @ndabarutalovis3972 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Steve you never cease to amaze me with how you approach people's questions, they always go back convinced and contented. I too, always looks up to you for solutions. I have learned a lot from all your programs. Thank you

  • @tellitlikeitis5028
    @tellitlikeitis5028 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Once they show you they aren’t for you. It’s done. Time doesn’t equal friendship or quality. Period.

    • @alwaysaboutniasha
      @alwaysaboutniasha ปีที่แล้ว

      Yea. Hearts go through seasons . You have to protect yours.

  • @PatriciaR.E.
    @PatriciaR.E. ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Steve, I had no idea that you were in your 60’s!! I honestly didn’t. All along I was thinking you were maybe in your late 40’s or early 50’s!! You certainly aged well! I wish you the best & pray you have many more years ahead! 💗🙏

  • @Salman-qd2wl
    @Salman-qd2wl ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I needed this. Exactly

  • @wildmanwv
    @wildmanwv ปีที่แล้ว +5

    STEVE YOU ARE AN AWESOME DUDE. HARDEST WORKING MAN IN THE BUISNESS. I LOVE EVERYTHING YOU REPRESENT. THANK YOU MY MAN

    • @janetholmes
      @janetholmes 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I LOVE THIS COMMENT AND THE HEART YOU HAVE TO POST SUCH A THING XD HOPE YOU NEVER LOSE THIS, IT'S GREAT

  • @teresastruyk5543
    @teresastruyk5543 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Totally agree. My best friend just quit me

  • @bruceleeroy8302
    @bruceleeroy8302 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    That second woman is blessed. I'm sure plenty of mature men would love a 35 year old woman who still looks younger. She does look great.

  • @mothernatureiswatching3883
    @mothernatureiswatching3883 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Steve always on point

  • @bishkekkyrgyzstan
    @bishkekkyrgyzstan ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am learning English. I found this channel today. It was so interesting and instructive. This is the best English lesson in my life. Thanks a lot for your optimism (and clear, legible speech).

  • @maryhazlett
    @maryhazlett 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    First age that bothered me somewhat was 60. Something about that "6" felt unreal. My dad had a stroke at age 67 and lived for 13 years, 100% disabled. Mom & I were his caregivers. When he died, I took care of mom for 11 years. The 60s remind me of dad's stroke. I'm now 3 months shy of 67.

  • @regalchic
    @regalchic ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Jeeez.. she's 35? and I thought I looked young.. oh Lord. The first lady I have that kind of relationship exactly what Steve said us what I did about it

    • @mikenelson8377
      @mikenelson8377 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She’s gorgeous, too! Such a pretty smile 👌😍

  • @Ammaralbather
    @Ammaralbather ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It is not important that your friend treats you with kindness, the important thing is how you deal with him. This is morals

  • @nicolejenkins
    @nicolejenkins ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’ve experienced this! Exactly Steve!!! If I see them ( hey girl) if I don’t I just don’t.

  • @Matthew7.7
    @Matthew7.7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    32 years old and 3 months old over here. I’ve always live sharing my age. Somebody in the dirt who wished they was alive. I’m beautiful healthy.

  • @commonsensecorner7275
    @commonsensecorner7275 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I used to wish someone a Happy Birthday every year for several years. Knowing that this person never even asked when’s mine, I was done! 🤷🏽‍♀️
    I basically felt the same way about joining a dating site, “Perhaps he’ll find me on here!”

  • @SkatesPraise
    @SkatesPraise ปีที่แล้ว +7

    That she didn't invited you to her wedding said all you needed to know....... I had a friend that did me the same and i knew how late it was. When she saw me she give me some bs story i just smile🙂 celebrate her and check her of my future guess list.
    See when some people get on their're feet they ten to forget who had they back when they was in the gutter.... It's okay leave them alone.🤷

  • @marlynnek6449
    @marlynnek6449 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    People who don't contribute to sustaining the relationship don't deserve your effort.

  • @TaraObiago
    @TaraObiago ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ugh Steve is so lovable ❤️❤️❤️ Great advice all through 👌🏽

  • @joyfulj1663
    @joyfulj1663 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Steve's scream 😅

  • @altagraciatavarez1747
    @altagraciatavarez1747 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Good advices Steve 👏👏👏💕

    • @tomcrusie1091
      @tomcrusie1091 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello

    • @name9601
      @name9601 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tomcrusie1091 Did you escape the

    • @tomcrusie1091
      @tomcrusie1091 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@name9601 escape the what?

  • @jabowja
    @jabowja ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I would have told her to stop going to her friends things everything. When her friend ask her why doesn’t she come around just say felt you might have needed some alone time because you stopped coming to my invitations was give you the space thought you needed

  • @el-sig2249
    @el-sig2249 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I think Steve could have asked that sweet-16 looking lady to dress a little older. You know, drop the pigtails and wear a gown and heels. That should help.
    And the guy freaking out about turning 40 is just because there is much in his life that he's not achieved. When you are on schedule with your goals you worry less about your age. The satisfaction of achievements and fulfillments make ageing a positive experience.

    • @BeautifulOnes876
      @BeautifulOnes876 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      There’s the flip side…if one can develop an affinity for the gold that life offers through the tough lessons, which are 1.)sage wisdom, and 2.)coming into knowing oneself at a deeper level as to what’s truly valuable to us…what is it we need to do to get ourselves in gear and begin to use our days bring about self-actualization starting from just where we are first. Then, progress step by step from there. The fact is that some of us truly are meant to be late bloomers. Some of the worlds most renowned, successful people did not hit their stride until the mid-40’s. Facts 💯. Check out history. So, 3.) like Uncle Steve said, be grateful, because God is clearly not through with us that we keep waking up. How many people did not make it around the sun as any times as we did? Didn’t get any where near it, their days were cut far too short. We’ve got to count our blessings. That’s what the cliched attitude of gratitude is about. And 4.) change one’s perspective, who keeps saying “age” and “years old”? Why not say I’m 40 Tas or tats (Times Around The Sun), or I’m 40 years young? And OWN that gift. Take control of your mind and you take control of your feelings!

  • @ash.ayaaaa
    @ash.ayaaaa 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I learned that today i was in a one-sided friendship, and i went through a traumatic experience where it was sexual trauma. I was crying at my job, and my friend didn't even text or call or anything. That's when i realized that he wasn't a friend at all. Im learning to deal with life at the age of 20 and learning that i need to heal besides my family was there and some of my co-workers as well.

  • @JPMasonDun
    @JPMasonDun ปีที่แล้ว

    I lOVE what you said about Loyalty!

  • @shaylaforever9048
    @shaylaforever9048 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I disagree with letting hurtful actions not be addressed. She needs to find the courage and confront her friend; let her know how she views her friendship.

  • @richardparker2555
    @richardparker2555 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I walked away from a onesided freindship after 2020.....and it was the best thing I ever did for myself.
    Our families had been freinds since I was little, but it was around my 20s when I really thought I was officially a freind to this one person.
    However as the years went on a clear pattern started to form which always ended with me getting kicked to curve or really hurt by this "freind" yet somehow I always had to pretend to be fine with everything as if nothing was wrong. I would suck it up because our families were freinds and I didn't want to be the one who did damge to all that. Still, as the years went by it became very obvious I was never important to this person.
    After 2020, in my 30s, I finally hit a breaking a point and just walked away without a warning or goodbye......and I now really wished I had done that sooner. I'm a lot happier now. Its sad that it had to come down to that, but I rather not be freinds at all then repeat that pattern again.

  • @junemoore1379
    @junemoore1379 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The 35 year old younger looking lady has what my pastor would call a "Good Problem"...........

  • @kimberlyeder4162
    @kimberlyeder4162 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    On line dating is for hooking up. No thanks

  • @Sarah-y5w
    @Sarah-y5w 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Never expect anything in return from anyone. Then you won't get disappointed ❤

  • @SophieLovesSunsets
    @SophieLovesSunsets ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The older I get the more I believe in the saying "When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time" Sometimes you just have to accept that some people will never be great friends, and if you keep waiting for them to change their ways, you'll be waiting forever. Let them go, wish them well, move on and make new friends. There are plenty of good people out there.

  • @creating1_c1999
    @creating1_c1999 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Master Class. We have all kept milk in the fridge past its expiration date. You can use it for baking good breads and cakes or be done with it and pour it out. Either way, you don't have see it as a huge loss because they have already checked out. Even if they are present they might be toxic, like the sour milk. If you struggle with letting people go, that's okay. Just stop checking in. Stop prioritizing them. Reset the boundaries. It's called a 'lock change'. You simply have recoded access. You don't have to change your telephone number unless there is a bigger reason and need to do so. Just stop taking their calls. You are likely moving away they way they've moved away from you already. Trust and believe, they already know you are door mat, so when they cannot wipe their feet on you any longer they will get an immediate alert and try to find out 'what is wrong with you'. It is up to you if you want to tell them. This is something to void if they've habitually line-stepped over the course of the relationship. Just move on. You're a good person, you will find more people. Don't forget boundaries.

    • @misslc7864
      @misslc7864 ปีที่แล้ว

      Great advice!!

  • @Dimaz42
    @Dimaz42 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    to those of you who binge-watching Steve Harvey's videos, I'd say good luck.. since this channel has like 8K videos 😆

  • @tinaswanson9743
    @tinaswanson9743 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One sided friendships are not real friendships. If they don't get a hold of me, they clearly don't care. 👋

  • @issiakasacko2175
    @issiakasacko2175 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Old is a goal ✅

  • @lizmetzger4128
    @lizmetzger4128 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It would to have a balanced life

  • @cengizarthan2813
    @cengizarthan2813 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Why are you single at 35 with the 18 looks? Red Flag!

  • @theresa4bar
    @theresa4bar ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It sounds like your "friend" is a narcissist.

  • @RondaDM
    @RondaDM ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It's the braids and the striped shirt that makes the 35 yr old woman look like Pippi Longstocking's lol 😅 she obviously loves the look, mature it up a bit if you really want better results. 👍👍👍

    • @periswerimo8
      @periswerimo8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Any advice on how to do that?

  • @AThom-fz9km
    @AThom-fz9km ปีที่แล้ว

    Steve Harvey, is just so funny, taking to the man, about niddles, in his neck. Steve Harvey truth, is just brilliant

  • @susanfontaine3721
    @susanfontaine3721 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love Steve harvey

  • @MrVoice1
    @MrVoice1 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why do people expect? Especially from other people? I only expect from myself...period!

  • @brokeutuberè
    @brokeutuberè ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Maybe she gonna watch this video and you not need to approach her

  • @hoskinscynthia6727
    @hoskinscynthia6727 ปีที่แล้ว

    Old is the goal now that's right!!!

  • @icemouf7480
    @icemouf7480 ปีที่แล้ว

    😂 wizard of OZ... knows it all😂😂

  • @LadyBug-cc3ep
    @LadyBug-cc3ep ปีที่แล้ว

    Loyalty has an expiration date

  • @Donnakolker
    @Donnakolker ปีที่แล้ว

    HI STEVE GLAD TO SEE YOU.. I LOST ALL CONTACT. THIS MAN STOLE MY PHONE. MADE MY FAMILY BREAK MY TABLED. BREAK MY LAPTOP. AND DOES NOT LET ANYBODY HELP ME OUT WITH THAT. I AM NOW WORKING AT THE OFFICE OF 10 YEARS TODAY. I AM GOING THROUGH VERRY DIFFICULT TIME WITH THESE PEOPLE. HOPE TO GET HELP TO LEAVE ONE WAY OR THE OTHER.

  • @Stacey_Mae
    @Stacey_Mae ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm her best friend..
    She's not my best friend ..
    That's a one-sided relationship.

  • @chukwemekacamara1362
    @chukwemekacamara1362 ปีที่แล้ว

    So lovely I love the girl❤

  • @gabrielle916
    @gabrielle916 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That WW looks good for 35. U go girl.

  • @TheTeeChannel7
    @TheTeeChannel7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Steve is a foundtain of all kinds of information..Loyalty has an expiration date. Wow..Now I know...
    Beautiful 35 year old she looks good. I have her same issue accept I am in my 50's. Lol.

  • @betsyakoko6810
    @betsyakoko6810 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I never need friends coz they misleads drain you etc

  • @Bella87789
    @Bella87789 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    48 !! She looks like she could be 25

  • @OneWomanMan888
    @OneWomanMan888 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    She looks much older than 18, like maybe 25, she just wanted to be on TV. 😂

  • @jonathanfactor6688
    @jonathanfactor6688 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video thanks

  • @paigex1913
    @paigex1913 ปีที่แล้ว

    very very smart advice for that 35yrs old lady

  • @hienienguyen6766
    @hienienguyen6766 ปีที่แล้ว

    that isn't a friend. if it's one-sided that isn't good. i had to end some friendships because of that same reason. you gotta end it! ppl don't change

  • @praisechinonye1320
    @praisechinonye1320 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lol,hey girl

  • @thetraileraviatorguy
    @thetraileraviatorguy ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can someone please tell Corrine that I'm looking for her too?? If you're watching Corrine I'm here babe!!

  • @yrellim
    @yrellim ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I freaked out at 40. 15 years later I wish I was 40!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @mechellekelly4846
    @mechellekelly4846 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    💯💯💯💯

  • @Stacey_Mae
    @Stacey_Mae ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She looks good for 35 years old.

  • @sierramilan4322
    @sierramilan4322 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bye! Bye! You're not stuck in this relationship JUST LEAVE

  • @FOFF802
    @FOFF802 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I don't think a friend not showing up for a birthday has anything to do with loyalty. She mentioned the friend had a baby shower. You a grown woman upset that a friend didn't show up to a birthday party. Sometimes as we get older life gets busier and we can "party" like we used to. If your relationship depends on whether I show up to a birthday party. That's more of a you problem

    • @jmcast3195
      @jmcast3195 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly! The friend has a little baby now

    • @tyronzasmith3735
      @tyronzasmith3735 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      The point was she's always there for her friend, but her friend is not always there for her.

    • @shaysimon1763
      @shaysimon1763 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You’re the type of friend I wouldn’t want to

  • @jmcast3195
    @jmcast3195 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Her friend just had a baby! That is why she couldn't go to your party! If you got married and were pregnant, you would have those big parties too, but once the baby comes, the baby comes first! Your problem is that you never got married and started a family.

  • @adlihkristopher2906
    @adlihkristopher2906 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    it's not everyone that smile ☺ at you that's your friend sista run

  • @CeeFashionAcademy
    @CeeFashionAcademy ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow!!! She got married after two weeks

  • @estmelanie03
    @estmelanie03 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Not the dating app part though.. I have been single for almost 7 years and the least I do is stay away from dating app. I'd rather being single than meeting someone who God knows whether they are genuine people from the app or not, dont want to end up missing after seeing them 😆

  • @mokaLARE
    @mokaLARE ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Online dating is not the advice you should give such good lady. 🌚

    • @frost7490
      @frost7490 ปีที่แล้ว

      What's your advice?

    • @mokaLARE
      @mokaLARE ปีที่แล้ว

      @@frost7490 go outside, meet people in person but not inn places like bars where the risk of finding dumb and goofy people is high.

    • @frost7490
      @frost7490 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Moka LARE The number of people that will see you outside is limited, a couple. But the chances online are massive.

    • @name9601
      @name9601 ปีที่แล้ว

      There must be ways to narrow filter out the fools.

  • @josephBC3652
    @josephBC3652 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hold Up!!! Come on Black Queen!!! Move On...

  • @sueathomas69
    @sueathomas69 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Online dating can be very ⚡ dangerous Uncle Steve! Bad advise! 🥺☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️

  • @carlostrapper0118
    @carlostrapper0118 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m 61 Man I’m so cool with it 😂

  • @m.thomas3982
    @m.thomas3982 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    First of all, her image (hair style and clothing) is designed to make her look like a much young person. What 35 year old woman wear pig tails?

  • @rayford2067
    @rayford2067 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I disagree with Steve. Sometimes things may be happening in that other person's life that may not be known. Talk to your friend about how you feel. She may not know how you are being affected.

  • @johannebernier3089
    @johannebernier3089 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The tattoed neck guy dresses like a teenager cause he never grew up. No surprise he is scared of turning 40.

  • @OpheliaDaugherty-s7g
    @OpheliaDaugherty-s7g 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That not friend that. That someone that bother with u. Move on 😐

  • @heywuzzzupwithya
    @heywuzzzupwithya ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Maybe she just had a baby and is too tired to go to a birthday party.

  • @girllikeme4300
    @girllikeme4300 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Maybe he should just marry that girlfriend of his to sign his 40th birthday. How are you afraid to get old and you are with someone you love

  • @Aminah6623
    @Aminah6623 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have to hear the friends side of the story. Oh, and there is no such thing as a soulmate.

    • @PatriciaR.E.
      @PatriciaR.E. ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well, with respect, I disagree. I grew up in a nightmare as a child , & as soon as I was old enough, I left & got a job here & there to support myself & all the while, I prayed for my Lord to send me my soulmate. I started attending a large Pentecostal Church, was saved & I kept myself pure still waiting for my soulmate.
      It took a while, but I realized later that God works in His time; not ours, & one day at a coffee shop, I was just sitting there sipping on my coffee & although many had come & gone, the door opened & I happened to look up & as soon as I saw him, I instantly knew he was the one!! He got his coffee, walked up to my table & asked if I minded him sitting there & I said no. Five months later we were married & come to find out, he also had been praying for God to lead him to his soulmate. Half century later, we’re still together, have 3 grown children with families of their own, & we love each other as much, if not more after all these years. It takes prayer,
      faith , patience & staying pure, but I truly believe that God has a Soulmate for every person! It’s really sad that you don’t believe that. Lord bless you. 👏🙌🕊

  • @khanyisomasango9147
    @khanyisomasango9147 ปีที่แล้ว

    😳😳 35 years 😭😭

  • @sophiew9769
    @sophiew9769 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey girl how u doing? I'm just checking in, ok bye talk next time. that's what I do!

  • @remysound
    @remysound ปีที่แล้ว

    I'd like to meet the 2nd lady. She's cute!

  • @dhanabalanb174
    @dhanabalanb174 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am Very like Steve Harvey

  • @SarojAgnihotri_Vlog
    @SarojAgnihotri_Vlog ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good evening