Haha didn't explain it best but his heart is in the right place. Because honestly, anyone can get married but not all of them are qualified to be parents.
Kids first. No question for me. If my future wife were a close 2nd behind them I'd expect them to understand, and I'd expect them to feel the same. In the end you're closest to your wife, you have the best connection with your wife, your own personal happiness comes from your wife- but kids.. Kids belong in a different category. That's how the world should be, and I'd also want my kids to do the same for their kids, etc. A wife who is fully grown can handle being 2nd, it doesn't make their lives bad, kids deserve everything from their parents and anything less is less than they deserve after I made the choice to bring them into the world.
Whenever I see couples asked this question I always think of Ryan Reynolds saying he’d use Blake Lively as a human shield to protect their daughter 😂😂 I haven’t had kids yet but I understand where Haha is coming from. When I become a mother I’d want my husband to save our kids before trying to save me & id do the same.
OMG YESS! I watched that first and I have in love with their answers ever since, never knew this was a part of parenthood and how they both feel the same. Always thought about Reynold's answer.
That just proves that Jong Kook isn't a parent. The love you feel for your children is different from the love you feel for your wife. It's like your heart is running around outside of your chest. A parent usually wants their significant other to put their children first.
Having an opinion that reflects on what you think doesn't mean he's fit to be a parent. Once you have q child your view changes but at this moment that's just how he believes in. Don't be judging just because he thinks he prefer this and not that.
@@buddhakane8725 I'm not judging him at all. I was just trying to say that his opinion will probably change when he becomes a parent. It's hard to imagine how that kind of love feels; the only way you can truly understand it is to experience it
Beautifully said. "like your heart is running around outside of your chest" as a parent of a wonderful baby girl this is one of the most accurate metaphors ever said.
@@iknowbestmyfriend "A parent usually wants their significant other to put their children first." But talking to a lot of married couple i found its mostly the mindset of the mother. Father's usually are the ones misunderstood when they say wife first. One father explained to me that He believes the need of both biological parent to raise a child and one missing is greater chance for failure. He puts his wife first because he loves his children and wants them to have the best. If only I can find objective statistics for these but I can only rely on personal testimonies from people around me. I would only assume its not an absolute thing to put your children first or that its the right thing to do since situations does not always agree with your preference or thought process or even emotions. between "Hostage situation" and "a critical labor/ baby delivery" will definitely have different priority for different people, I had asked this question to different couples and the answers are mostly split except for the mother in which case mostly chose their children/baby.
@@farmingrom9987 i believe that the father you are speaking of is basically saying “i don’t want to raise kids alone so if i have to choose i would rather my kids just die and i have my wife” the mother has the mindset to put her children first because she wouldn’t mind raising her children alone
I mean, everyone is different. However, he doesn’t currently have a wife, nor children, so it’s hard to make a choice when you haven’t experienced either.
KJK and HaHa always bring up sensitive topics when they are together, and we all find ourselves relating somehow to them, and curious about their point of view compared to ours. both of them gave the right answer depending on their standings at the moment. i hope nobody never will have to choose :))
haha is a ticking bomb, kjk said that he prefer if they're talking between them during the moment rather than in group meeting. cause hha knows almost all kjk secret.
Hhahaha I remembered at Infinite Challenge episode where HaByul had a little fight and Haha said their son are number one for him and Byul fight back said she also feel the same . Such a cutie couple 😂😂
well, if you're in happy marriage, that's possible..icon husband like Choi Soojong, Cha Inpyo and Sean said many times in interviews how their wives always come first..that why Haha teased KJK become like these men for this reason..lol..
@@dtec_conan2269 i do agree with both Haha & JK,but as long as you can give equal love,i think that is totally fine. Maybe JK worried his future will be jealous when he had a child,,but Haha is also speaking in reality. When he talk about many things he had to do,he is refering to ownership,his assets & probably will which is why he said give him a week to prepare not give me a week to give you the love. The child will need to be both parents no 1 priority. Wife will be 2nd,but once the child is 18,wife will be 1st because your child will be able to think & get married.
I like Jong Kook's thought despite many people disapprove. The parents will not allow their kids to be in danger. And they will show them how much they love each other. Children need to know that their parents love them unconditionally, but they also need to love themselves. Kids need to understand their values and their mothers' values. Especially, if the child is a girl, she will see the way her dad treats her mom. When she grows up, she knows she deserves good and fair treatment and she doesn't has to sacrifice blindly. A child would be happy if their parents were happy
The love you feel for your children is just different... even if you told them that you would put their mother first, you'd be lying to them and you'll know it from the bottom of your heart because no one ever comes before your children... ever. Parent's love is truly unconditional... that's why it hurts my heart to see so many parents treat their kids in such horrible ways 💔
It’s true. It doesn’t mean that the love for their children is lacking, it just means that they’ll treasure each other to the point that the children hopefully understand how their love overflowed and brought them into this world. I’ve seen married couples fight and I know how frustrating it could be on the children (including me). Stable foundations mean that the children would feel safe & protected under both parents’ care. And who knows maybe the dad will raise kids who’ll honor their mom well especially during periods, etc., & vice versa. I also understand what sorts of things one can do when caring for a helpless infant who demands your care and you see the infant grow into a child. That’s also a heroic love, so I understand Haha’s pause. The perceptions might change as time goes by… when Haha’s children become teenagers, get jobs, and start having lives of their own, it might become a different story 😅
This is the one of the reason that's why Ha Dong Hon is my role model hahahahahahhahahaha no matter how serious the conversation is, kiddo haha still showing.
Haha is good father. I love how he always think of them and took care of them. He knew that one day his assets will cater the needs of his children as well as byul.
I see where Haha is coming from and he loves his wife dearly but we both know from both sides they would choose their children because in a parents perspective you always think of your children first
Kids are forced into the world not by choice. Although you choose your spouse you cant choose a child. You have a responsibility as a spouse but you owe it to your children first. They didn't ask to be born.
of course haha chose right. if he had to chose between putting his wife in harms way vs his children, he would save children. if the wife got upset over that i'd say she's weird. you really can't answer that question if you don't have kids
I agree with KJK - that's how my parents raised me. My dad putting my mom first actually gave me and my family a sense of security, stability, and confidence that I see other friends of mine lacked growing up because the mom was not treated how she should be. Seeing my Mom being treated how she did made me know my own worth and how I should be treated with my future significant other.
Yes, I like his thought despite many people disapprove. The parents will not allow their kids to be in danger. And they will show them how much they love each other. Children need to know that their parents love them unconditionally, but they also need to love themselves. They need to understand their values and their mothers' values. A child would be happy if their parents were happy
I'm with Haha 100%. I mean, I surely will love and cherish my partner and we all know that children are raised to the world, so it's not about "the one who will take care of me". A couple can lose the partner and they will call you widow/widower, a child without parents is an orphan, but there is no name to address to a parent whose child died, their love is eternal and that may be the cruelest fate. I really think that having a child comes with a feeling that is far beyond from pondering who is your priority in life. Of course, I can only think like this because I'm a precious daughter to my mom and dad who always gave me the world and even though we disagree and have small fights sometimes, we all love each other (and my lil brother) and to me the 3 of them are the most important people in the world. I surely would die for any of them, but If I could only save one person (which means my world would be destroyed and my heart shattered in small pieces) I would save my brother exactly because I know that this would be the right choice for my dad and mom. Saddens me to know that not everyone can be a parent because it's not about "having a baby", parenting to me is about truly loving and caring for someone more than yourself.
My children will ALWAYS come first over my spouse (until they are grown adults) bcuz my spouse can protect themselves, my small children can't. I wouldn't wanna have a baby with any man who would put me first, bcuz it'll cause problems later on when he isn't the focus of attention anymore. Like Ryan Reynolds said he'd use his wife as a human shield to save his baby, my spouse betta have the same energy bcuz I got it 😂😂😂😂😂
Lmao Haha laughing at Jungkook's response to his answer of choosing his wife first was hilarious. I'm not a parent, but I know that in any case, I would always choose my kids first before my future partner. Because kids are young, they haven't experienced life yet, so of course you will prioritize & protect them and their life before you and your partner.
My father told me that Haha explanation in a long time ago. Parents sacrificed for their children and that love is different than the other love that human ever feel. Why I hate parents who abused her little child, maybe their humanity was broken and didn’t deserved to be parents
Jong kook is wearing white these days, including the latest running man video. I hope it means something. 😍❤ Edit: he even wore a white tank top on his latest instagram pic.
I like his thought despite many people disapprove. The parents will not allow their kids to be in danger. And they will show them how much they love each other. Children need to know that their parents love them unconditionally, but they also need to love themselves. They need to understand their values and their mothers' values. A child would be happy if their parents were happy
If I'm the child: dad should choose mom because without her, I will not be here...even if I'm not born in this world it's okay since I wouldn't know it If I'm the wife: he should choose our child because I want him to raise and cherish our kid, our blood, and our love...you can remember me through our child as my blood runs in him/her If I'm the husband: hmm this is hard....who should I choose? Both can't be replace😢
my dad said the same thing.. he said he loves my mom more than us and that makes me respect him even more.. we know our father loves us but knowing that he love our mother more make us happier... i hope my husband would love me more than my children...
Good answer HaHa oppa. I'll protect my children first as well, simply because my spouse is not that weak. 😂 But goddamn Kim Jong Kook looks so fine 😍 it's hard to concentrate 😅
Lol jongkook u say that until u hav kids and then all fathers’ mindset become like Ryan Reynold’s: “I would use my wife as a shield and protect that baby”
I don't think show. think he'll protect both his wife and kids. Women aren't the shield, they should be loved. The man has to take his wife as his shield, he's pathetic.
Haha I'm so proud of u. That's why KJK said it before that he envy you. It's really a challenging duty to become a father and a husband. That's so touching Ha Dong Hoon ❤ (I'm super curious how will KJK become when he gets married and have his own family hehehe)
A mature woman and mother like byul will understand why she is not in 1st place..i think every married women with kids should also prioritise kids and dont get jealous..god created us like that
I’d feel sad if I were KJK’s child and he still felt that way. That’s really sad, knowing that your parents would rather sacrifice you over each other given such a situation. Big sad
Idk since i not married..but my friend agreed with kjk..they said as a husband he put his wife as no 1 prioritize..and his wife put her son as no 1 prioritize..
Im sure that my hubby loves me so much he cant live without me however it doesnt mean that we dont prioritise our children mother and children should be compared mother is mother and children are children
Yes, that is correct they "shouldn't" be compared. Honestly it will be situational on whether it would be best to choose wife over children or vise-versa. Though most mother's choose their children almost always, its a different thing for the father. at least from my own talks with married couple of different ages.
@@farmingrom9987 It isn't situational. Someone's literal flesh and blood should always be prioritized. I guarantee if you surveyed a large sample of people who are married with children, the majority would prioritize their kids over their spouse.
@@tranquility2745 Even in large sample doesn't have 100% response rate and doesn't mean their answer is the correct one and the other option is wrong, there are situations i have witnessed both parents agreed to saving their child in place of one of them mainly the mother and on one some occasion the parent is chosen. You and I have different views on marriage and family and that also place a role on determining how things are decided.... And I don't claim that my future choices would be the only choice for everyone too or is the choice i would prefer should be the choice of others.
@@farmingrom9987 I don't really understand what you just said. My argument is flesh/blood > spouse. A parent who would prioritize their spouse over their child should not be a parent. Haha is 100% correct and Byul feels the same way. Of course it wouldn't be 100%, which is why I said a majority would.
@@tranquility2745 It depends on the situation. If it's life or death between spouse and children, then there's no real wrong or right answer. Parent/children relationships vary which is why it obv wouldn't have unanimous agreement. But personally in a normal situation, I believe parents have a responsibility and obligation to their children to prioritize them over the spouse, but it's hard to say what specific situation would warrant one decision or the other.
"Honestly, Even when I have children, I'm going to tell the children that their mom comes first" He will give unconditional love to his wife🥰😍🥰 I don't know who that will be, but I'm sure that she's so lucky to have a husband with this mentality 😍🥺
funny thing is that when i am watching this i am at 1:23 at the moment my mom is nagging at my brother and what pops out the most is the background music🤣🤣😅😅
My hubby always says that for him i am #1 and our kids come in second. But for me, our kids are always #1. My family & friends told me it’s a good balance. Not sure how it works but we’ve been together for 22 years now.
Keep it up... there are immense benefit there if your children see how your husband treats you. and they would less likely grow up spoiled since they are not the number on in the household...
the panel all saying of course wife at the beginning shocked me, me and my partner should be willing to give anything up if we have kids. Even without kids atm I could give anything for a child mine or not
KJK's answer will probably change when he has kids. I can understand that that's his answer now, but having kids changes the way you look at life drastically. That's what Haha was trying to say.
I know a lot of people will disagree with me but, I disagree with a lot of you guys too. Lol. My husband will always come 1st. I'm not saying that I do not love, cherish, or protect my kids. I'm not saying that I ignore their needs and I am definitely not saying that if my husband or my kids was drowning that I would save my hubby over my kids. No. But if you are constantly putting your kids over your husband what would become of your marriage?! In 18-20 year once you guys buffers (kids) are off to college or starting their own families what about your marriage that you neglected!? After you spent 20 yrs prioritizing your kids over your relationship with your spouse?! That's why you hear about so many middle age couples divorcing because, they have nothing in common anymore with their spouse after the children are gone. At the end of the day you have to take care of each other (wife & husband) in order for you to take care of your family.
I agree with yah! And I still believe that children needs parents with healthy relationship with each other and not using emotions as basis for relationship or children as basis. They need to keep each other for their children, if they neglect each other and focus only on the children then they are not good parents. The balance of both keeping your spouse and your children produces a tight family relationship.
I’m so glad to see your comment. Because everyone is agreeing on the children first before their spouse. If me and my child drown of course I want my husband to save my child. But not going overboard with the love because at the end of the day you’re spending your retirement with your wife and your child will find his/ her own partner
My mom always tells me that if her husband and her kids were drowning, she would save her kids. She always said how you can have a new love or a different husband. But you can never have a different child🥺🥺
My Dad said he would pick me over my Mum even though he loves her dearly,however, on the other hand, my Granddad said there's no one in the world that can be compared to my Grandma, therefore he would pick my Grandma straight away without any hesitation. I think it's up to the man's own feeling to choose. Of course they'll be torn but eventually, there will be an answer from how the heart really feels.
Tran Phuong Anh i think it's maybe because as you get older you'll realize it's your spouse the one you will spend the rest of your life with, children will make their own family, but your spouse will be always by your side until death. Ask your dad again, after all his child marry off 😂
@@TheDhanaMC Its not just age but also circumstance when you have to choose between your wife or baby when a delivery is critical and only one person will survive and you will have to choose. I agree with Tran on this is not set on stone and no right or wrong either.
I don't married yet but i like to read comments about parents. The wives always said they got 100% love from their husbands before married but when they had children, the husbands' love became divided 😂 and they feel jealous sometimes. Omg I'm not ready to through this phase 😂😂😂
@@lostinkpopworld6280 i agree. I watched one episode in hello counselor when the husband didn't want a child because he didn't want to share his wife's love. But they both already old (45 above) and his wife always left him alone to play with her nephew at her sister's house.
If they divide it then its not a good management. Is there not enough Love to give and must divide it and neglect the other. If a husband neglects his wife, he is giving his children a disservice of teaching them what love is and what it means to commit.
Wait till Jongkook gets a daughter. I am 100% sure he will be a Ryan Reynolds and use his wife as a human shield or a punching bag just to make sure his daughter is safe and happy!!
it makes sense what haha said tho, let's say for example if a family is in danger the adult which are the mom and dad can save themselves easier compared to children and if i ever have kids i would want my husband to put them first as well because they are in a more vulnerable position compared to me who can take care of myself.
Jungkook is right about putting your wife first. Marriage counselors say the same thing ♥️ Putting you wife first does not mean you love your children less...
Jong Kook is exactly right in his thinking. When you're in a relationship with a woman or your wife. Your wife should come first. You must take care of yourself to help take care of your family. But your wife is the root of the family tree.
Children are innocent little creatures that need the parents to look after them, protect them, teach them and so much other things. Thats why I feel like the answer should be the child and also the love you fell for them is another level. Something you wont feel for your spouse
@@sahaam1507 not always.. spouse always come first.. lets say all in this live always fine, in the old day u will live with your wife not your children, simple like that.. when our children still a little one they will always come first, but after that our spouse is forever..
I'm a traditional guy and I seen in my own upbringing with my mother and father and the example my father set. Treat people how you would want to be treated yourself. And if your children see you treating your wife their mother with respect love and kindness then you will gain those things from them and then they will just play it forward and make right choices for themselves when it comes time
the ideal answer is when your children still baby or small kid. They're your number 1 priority, it's your responsibility as adult and parents. Then if they grow up and became adult maybe even have their own family. Your number 1 priority should be your wife/ husband.
When jongkook asked that question I already knew my answer My child I don’t have children or a husband but I already know by what people say about their love for their kids I would choose my kids over anyone even if it’s my husband because my kids are the love of my life. But I think jongkook said he’ll choose his wife because he doesn’t have children and I don’t think he knows that love you have for them
I'm seeing down in the comments some people saying " kjk wearing white, it must mean something" - it don't. He always wear white, it's one of his three favorite colors. You can see a lot of his instagram pics of him wearing that color.
its not wrong to put your children first. if you have kids, your kids should be your #1 priority no matter what. if you cant put your kids first, then dont have kids simple.
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Haha didn't explain it best but his heart is in the right place. Because honestly, anyone can get married but not all of them are qualified to be parents.
Yes! So trueee.
Kids first. No question for me. If my future wife were a close 2nd behind them I'd expect them to understand, and I'd expect them to feel the same. In the end you're closest to your wife, you have the best connection with your wife, your own personal happiness comes from your wife- but kids.. Kids belong in a different category. That's how the world should be, and I'd also want my kids to do the same for their kids, etc.
A wife who is fully grown can handle being 2nd, it doesn't make their lives bad, kids deserve everything from their parents and anything less is less than they deserve after I made the choice to bring them into the world.
he explained it so well
Whenever I see couples asked this question I always think of Ryan Reynolds saying he’d use Blake Lively as a human shield to protect their daughter 😂😂 I haven’t had kids yet but I understand where Haha is coming from. When I become a mother I’d want my husband to save our kids before trying to save me & id do the same.
Yeah, that sounds like Ryan hahaha
Where can i watch it?
Cant watch in drama3s the tittle is my ugly duckling ep 144 (2019)
Kids first. All day, every day.
Marriage second, but also your relationship becomes important for the kids to set the correct example.
OMG YESS! I watched that first and I have in love with their answers ever since, never knew this was a part of parenthood and how they both feel the same. Always thought about Reynold's answer.
Haha is too realistic.. 😂😂 but i agreed with him
I love how Haha answered the question and his wife byul is satisfied with it.❤😄
That just proves that Jong Kook isn't a parent. The love you feel for your children is different from the love you feel for your wife. It's like your heart is running around outside of your chest. A parent usually wants their significant other to put their children first.
Having an opinion that reflects on what you think doesn't mean he's fit to be a parent. Once you have q child your view changes but at this moment that's just how he believes in. Don't be judging just because he thinks he prefer this and not that.
@@buddhakane8725 I'm not judging him at all. I was just trying to say that his opinion will probably change when he becomes a parent. It's hard to imagine how that kind of love feels; the only way you can truly understand it is to experience it
Beautifully said. "like your heart is running around outside of your chest" as a parent of a wonderful baby girl this is one of the most accurate metaphors ever said.
@@iknowbestmyfriend "A parent usually wants their significant other to put their children first."
But talking to a lot of married couple i found its mostly the mindset of the mother.
Father's usually are the ones misunderstood when they say wife first.
One father explained to me that He believes the need of both biological parent to raise a child and one missing is greater chance for failure. He puts his wife first because he loves his children and wants them to have the best.
If only I can find objective statistics for these but I can only rely on personal testimonies from people around me.
I would only assume its not an absolute thing to put your children first or that its the right thing to do since situations does not always agree with your preference or thought process or even emotions.
between "Hostage situation" and "a critical labor/ baby delivery" will definitely have different priority for different people, I had asked this question to different couples and the answers are mostly split except for the mother in which case mostly chose their children/baby.
@@farmingrom9987 i believe that the father you are speaking of is basically saying “i don’t want to raise kids alone so if i have to choose i would rather my kids just die and i have my wife” the mother has the mindset to put her children first because she wouldn’t mind raising her children alone
I used to think the way Jong Kook did, but after having kids, THE KIDS WILL ALWAYS BE NUMBER 1. He will understand once he gets to be a parent.
No...its a very tough question. Kids will always, but at present the wife is.
Not really, depends of the people, we are not the same
Agree
Sometimes the one who will company you until you die is your husband or wife. There is not wrong any answer
I mean, everyone is different. However, he doesn’t currently have a wife, nor children, so it’s hard to make a choice when you haven’t experienced either.
When haha said “I’ve felt the kind of love I’ve never felt before” I stan the right person🥺 that is how every parent should be
I feel like crying the way oppa HaHa explains those things. Awww its pure and unconditional love most specially now that they have baby girl Song.
KJK and HaHa always bring up sensitive topics when they are together, and we all find ourselves relating somehow to them, and curious about their point of view compared to ours.
both of them gave the right answer depending on their standings at the moment.
i hope nobody never will have to choose :))
haha is a ticking bomb, kjk said that he prefer if they're talking between them during the moment rather than in group meeting.
cause hha knows almost all kjk secret.
Byul is a cool wife that fits haha😂😂😂
Haha loves his family so much! He can't explain himself well but you can see and feel it through his eyes.
Hhahaha I remembered at Infinite Challenge episode where HaByul had a little fight and Haha said their son are number one for him and Byul fight back said she also feel the same . Such a cutie couple 😂😂
"Give me a week"...lol but I understand why
Spouse Vs Kid(s) is a difficult choice.
*Haha.😂* *Give me a week* *i burst out in laughing* *LMAO🤦*
haha's response was seriously making me tear up but then they asked about his wife i can't 😂
Jong kook saying that because he didn't have a child yet.. there is an ex wife or ex husband.. but there is no ex parent...
Imagine if he got married and have children or child. I wonder if his answer change.
well, if you're in happy marriage, that's possible..icon husband like Choi Soojong, Cha Inpyo and Sean said many times in interviews how their wives always come first..that why Haha teased KJK become like these men for this reason..lol..
@@dtec_conan2269 i do agree with both Haha & JK,but as long as you can give equal love,i think that is totally fine.
Maybe JK worried his future will be jealous when he had a child,,but Haha is also speaking in reality.
When he talk about many things he had to do,he is refering to ownership,his assets & probably will which is why he said give him a week to prepare not give me a week to give you the love.
The child will need to be both parents no 1 priority.
Wife will be 2nd,but once the child is 18,wife will be 1st because your child will be able to think & get married.
He even dont have wife yet
There IS ex parents lol
I like Jong Kook's thought despite many people disapprove. The parents will not allow their kids to be in danger. And they will show them how much they love each other. Children need to know that their parents love them unconditionally, but they also need to love themselves. Kids need to understand their values and their mothers' values. Especially, if the child is a girl, she will see the way her dad treats her mom. When she grows up, she knows she deserves good and fair treatment and she doesn't has to sacrifice blindly. A child would be happy if their parents were happy
The love you feel for your children is just different... even if you told them that you would put their mother first, you'd be lying to them and you'll know it from the bottom of your heart because no one ever comes before your children... ever.
Parent's love is truly unconditional... that's why it hurts my heart to see so many parents treat their kids in such horrible ways 💔
It’s true. It doesn’t mean that the love for their children is lacking, it just means that they’ll treasure each other to the point that the children hopefully understand how their love overflowed and brought them into this world. I’ve seen married couples fight and I know how frustrating it could be on the children (including me). Stable foundations mean that the children would feel safe & protected under both parents’ care. And who knows maybe the dad will raise kids who’ll honor their mom well especially during periods, etc., & vice versa.
I also understand what sorts of things one can do when caring for a helpless infant who demands your care and you see the infant grow into a child. That’s also a heroic love, so I understand Haha’s pause. The perceptions might change as time goes by… when Haha’s children become teenagers, get jobs, and start having lives of their own, it might become a different story 😅
I love it when Kim Jong Kook talks about his future wife. He always shows his loyalty even though he is still single 💕
This is the one of the reason that's why Ha Dong Hon is my role model hahahahahahhahahaha no matter how serious the conversation is, kiddo haha still showing.
Haha is good father. I love how he always think of them and took care of them. He knew that one day his assets will cater the needs of his children as well as byul.
I see where Haha is coming from and he loves his wife dearly but we both know from both sides they would choose their children because in a parents perspective you always think of your children first
Kids are forced into the world not by choice. Although you choose your spouse you cant choose a child. You have a responsibility as a spouse but you owe it to your children first. They didn't ask to be born.
of course haha chose right. if he had to chose between putting his wife in harms way vs his children, he would save children. if the wife got upset over that i'd say she's weird.
you really can't answer that question if you don't have kids
we can see in Byul's face that she absolutely approves his answer because she knows that he is telling the truth and that's what she would do too.
Been watching them since x man... LOVE getting a peak into their real friendships.
Children is the most vulnerable in the family unit. Kids FIRST!
Kook will become the new John wick if someone touches his family with even more courage
Yes, i agree with you. And i think he won't put his family at risk and lead to the difficult choice
I agree with KJK - that's how my parents raised me. My dad putting my mom first actually gave me and my family a sense of security, stability, and confidence that I see other friends of mine lacked growing up because the mom was not treated how she should be. Seeing my Mom being treated how she did made me know my own worth and how I should be treated with my future significant other.
I can't agree with you more. 😭❤️ Few have thought of it even in modern times
Yes, I like his thought despite many people disapprove. The parents will not allow their kids to be in danger. And they will show them how much they love each other. Children need to know that their parents love them unconditionally, but they also need to love themselves. They need to understand their values and their mothers' values. A child would be happy if their parents were happy
I'm with Haha 100%. I mean, I surely will love and cherish my partner and we all know that children are raised to the world, so it's not about "the one who will take care of me". A couple can lose the partner and they will call you widow/widower, a child without parents is an orphan, but there is no name to address to a parent whose child died, their love is eternal and that may be the cruelest fate. I really think that having a child comes with a feeling that is far beyond from pondering who is your priority in life. Of course, I can only think like this because I'm a precious daughter to my mom and dad who always gave me the world and even though we disagree and have small fights sometimes, we all love each other (and my lil brother) and to me the 3 of them are the most important people in the world. I surely would die for any of them, but If I could only save one person (which means my world would be destroyed and my heart shattered in small pieces) I would save my brother exactly because I know that this would be the right choice for my dad and mom. Saddens me to know that not everyone can be a parent because it's not about "having a baby", parenting to me is about truly loving and caring for someone more than yourself.
My children will ALWAYS come first over my spouse (until they are grown adults) bcuz my spouse can protect themselves, my small children can't. I wouldn't wanna have a baby with any man who would put me first, bcuz it'll cause problems later on when he isn't the focus of attention anymore. Like Ryan Reynolds said he'd use his wife as a human shield to save his baby, my spouse betta have the same energy bcuz I got it 😂😂😂😂😂
I love when they invite haha to come to kjk's show. Their friendship is so heart-warming
Lmao Haha laughing at Jungkook's response to his answer of choosing his wife first was hilarious. I'm not a parent, but I know that in any case, I would always choose my kids first before my future partner. Because kids are young, they haven't experienced life yet, so of course you will prioritize & protect them and their life before you and your partner.
I knew JK oppa is a hopeless romantic all along , he seen like one :)))
Haha is very realistic and I think Byul understands him by explaining why their kids come first. I also believe Byul will say the same either.
My father told me that Haha explanation in a long time ago. Parents sacrificed for their children and that love is different than the other love that human ever feel.
Why I hate parents who abused her little child, maybe their humanity was broken and didn’t deserved to be parents
Does a white shirt suit a person this well😍🤌🔥 Damn.. KJK is so handsome!!❤
Jong kook is wearing white these days, including the latest running man video. I hope it means something. 😍❤
Edit: he even wore a white tank top on his latest instagram pic.
Ikr, usually he always wear black clothes, even his room also had many black color 😂😂😂.
Hehe I hope so, too!! Maybe he’s trying something different since all the black hasn’t attracted a potential wife yet haha..
It’s a sign! He likes someone! 😂❤️
Yellow and red are lucky colours this year ❤💛
it has been 1 year and he went back to black... 💔💔
The best and funniest answer 🤣
Haha is hilarious 😂 Love him ❤️
Your child should always come first. All the sacrifices you have to make.
In entertainment aspect, Haha is really intelligent when it comes to words.
I almost cried at haha explanation
What else can a mother ask for when her husband love her kids that much.
Someone needs to husband KJK up!! Like has no one tried?! Lol
I like his thought despite many people disapprove. The parents will not allow their kids to be in danger. And they will show them how much they love each other. Children need to know that their parents love them unconditionally, but they also need to love themselves. They need to understand their values and their mothers' values. A child would be happy if their parents were happy
You can tell he’s a great father by his answer!
Aww what a loving father he is. 🖤
If i'm a wife and have children i would like my husband to save my child first. In fact i would scold him if he didn't save our children first.
If I'm the child: dad should choose mom because without her, I will not be here...even if I'm not born in this world it's okay since I wouldn't know it
If I'm the wife: he should choose our child because I want him to raise and cherish our kid, our blood, and our love...you can remember me through our child as my blood runs in him/her
If I'm the husband: hmm this is hard....who should I choose? Both can't be replace😢
For me it’s children first and that how my parents have always displayed to me since I was little so it makes most sense to me🤷🏻♀️
Kjk, jongmin and haha should have their own show. I can just watch them talk without getting bored
Great answer Our mate should always come first Children will love one day for themselves
my dad said the same thing.. he said he loves my mom more than us and that makes me respect him even more.. we know our father loves us but knowing that he love our mother more make us happier... i hope my husband would love me more than my children...
Good answer HaHa oppa. I'll protect my children first as well, simply because my spouse is not that weak. 😂 But goddamn Kim Jong Kook looks so fine 😍 it's hard to concentrate 😅
Ever since i started watching running, i always wanted haha to be my uncle or dad.
Lol jongkook u say that until u hav kids and then all fathers’ mindset become like Ryan Reynold’s: “I would use my wife as a shield and protect that baby”
I don't think show. think he'll protect both his wife and kids. Women aren't the shield, they should be loved. The man has to take his wife as his shield, he's pathetic.
Respect for Haha
haha is very sweet guy and grown with his wife byul so they have great partnership. i love how they raise their children in HAHABUS
Haha is explaining because he knows his children will watch this later. He is so responsible
Haha I'm so proud of u. That's why KJK said it before that he envy you. It's really a challenging duty to become a father and a husband. That's so touching Ha Dong Hoon ❤ (I'm super curious how will KJK become when he gets married and have his own family hehehe)
A mature woman and mother like byul will understand why she is not in 1st place..i think every married women with kids should also prioritise kids and dont get jealous..god created us like that
I’d feel sad if I were KJK’s child and he still felt that way. That’s really sad, knowing that your parents would rather sacrifice you over each other given such a situation. Big sad
Idk since i not married..but my friend agreed with kjk..they said as a husband he put his wife as no 1 prioritize..and his wife put her son as no 1 prioritize..
Haha has the correct mindset I think
I’ll die for you, but in a week🤣
Jong kook will change his mind when he has a kid, just like me.
for sure😂😂
Im sure that my hubby loves me so much he cant live without me however it doesnt mean that we dont prioritise our children mother and children should be compared mother is mother and children are children
Yes, that is correct they "shouldn't" be compared.
Honestly it will be situational on whether it would be best to choose wife over children or vise-versa.
Though most mother's choose their children almost always, its a different thing for the father. at least from my own talks with married couple of different ages.
@@farmingrom9987 It isn't situational. Someone's literal flesh and blood should always be prioritized. I guarantee if you surveyed a large sample of people who are married with children, the majority would prioritize their kids over their spouse.
@@tranquility2745 Even in large sample doesn't have 100% response rate and doesn't mean their answer is the correct one and the other option is wrong, there are situations i have witnessed both parents agreed to saving their child in place of one of them mainly the mother and on one some occasion the parent is chosen.
You and I have different views on marriage and family and that also place a role on determining how things are decided....
And I don't claim that my future choices would be the only choice for everyone too or is the choice i would prefer should be the choice of others.
@@farmingrom9987 I don't really understand what you just said. My argument is flesh/blood > spouse. A parent who would prioritize their spouse over their child should not be a parent. Haha is 100% correct and Byul feels the same way. Of course it wouldn't be 100%, which is why I said a majority would.
@@tranquility2745 It depends on the situation. If it's life or death between spouse and children, then there's no real wrong or right answer. Parent/children relationships vary which is why it obv wouldn't have unanimous agreement. But personally in a normal situation, I believe parents have a responsibility and obligation to their children to prioritize them over the spouse, but it's hard to say what specific situation would warrant one decision or the other.
"Honestly,
Even when I have children, I'm going to tell the children that their mom comes first"
He will give unconditional love to his wife🥰😍🥰 I don't know who that will be, but I'm sure that she's so lucky to have a husband with this mentality 😍🥺
Best title ever, 😂😂😂
funny thing is that when i am watching this i am at 1:23 at the moment my mom is nagging at my brother and what pops out the most is the background music🤣🤣😅😅
My hubby always says that for him i am #1 and our kids come in second. But for me, our kids are always #1. My family & friends told me it’s a good balance. Not sure how it works but we’ve been together for 22 years now.
Keep it up... there are immense benefit there if your children see how your husband treats you.
and they would less likely grow up spoiled since they are not the number on in the household...
the panel all saying of course wife at the beginning shocked me, me and my partner should be willing to give anything up if we have kids. Even without kids atm I could give anything for a child mine or not
right... I'm shocked too. they've been a parent they should've better. I'm with Haha in this one
I don't have kids, but I agree with HaHa
Haha and byul is korean version of ryan and blake 😂
What he said is right the love you have for your kids is different to the love you have for your partner I understand that
A parent should always put their children before their spouse.
KJK's answer will probably change when he has kids. I can understand that that's his answer now, but having kids changes the way you look at life drastically. That's what Haha was trying to say.
I know a lot of people will disagree with me but, I disagree with a lot of you guys too. Lol. My husband will always come 1st. I'm not saying that I do not love, cherish, or protect my kids. I'm not saying that I ignore their needs and I am definitely not saying that if my husband or my kids was drowning that I would save my hubby over my kids. No. But if you are constantly putting your kids over your husband what would become of your marriage?! In 18-20 year once you guys buffers (kids) are off to college or starting their own families what about your marriage that you neglected!? After you spent 20 yrs prioritizing your kids over your relationship with your spouse?! That's why you hear about so many middle age couples divorcing because, they have nothing in common anymore with their spouse after the children are gone. At the end of the day you have to take care of each other (wife & husband) in order for you to take care of your family.
I agree with yah!
And I still believe that children needs parents with healthy relationship with each other and not using emotions as basis for relationship or children as basis. They need to keep each other for their children, if they neglect each other and focus only on the children then they are not good parents. The balance of both keeping your spouse and your children produces a tight family relationship.
I’m so glad to see your comment. Because everyone is agreeing on the children first before their spouse. If me and my child drown of course I want my husband to save my child. But not going overboard with the love because at the end of the day you’re spending your retirement with your wife and your child will find his/ her own partner
you shouldn’t be a mother. disgrace.
My mom always tells me that if her husband and her kids were drowning, she would save her kids. She always said how you can have a new love or a different husband. But you can never have a different child🥺🥺
I dont know, but my eyes got teary,, the level of someone who had been a parent is different 🙈
My Dad said he would pick me over my Mum even though he loves her dearly,however, on the other hand, my Granddad said there's no one in the world that can be compared to my Grandma, therefore he would pick my Grandma straight away without any hesitation.
I think it's up to the man's own feeling to choose. Of course they'll be torn but eventually, there will be an answer from how the heart really feels.
Tran Phuong Anh i think it's maybe because as you get older you'll realize it's your spouse the one you will spend the rest of your life with, children will make their own family, but your spouse will be always by your side until death. Ask your dad again, after all his child marry off 😂
@@TheDhanaMC Its not just age but also circumstance when you have to choose between your wife or baby when a delivery is critical and only one person will survive and you will have to choose.
I agree with Tran on this is not set on stone and no right or wrong either.
I don't married yet but i like to read comments about parents. The wives always said they got 100% love from their husbands before married but when they had children, the husbands' love became divided 😂 and they feel jealous sometimes.
Omg I'm not ready to through this phase 😂😂😂
I think the husbands go through that too .the wives' love become divided
@@lostinkpopworld6280 i agree. I watched one episode in hello counselor when the husband didn't want a child because he didn't want to share his wife's love. But they both already old (45 above) and his wife always left him alone to play with her nephew at her sister's house.
@@nhdee omg I remember this too... Lmao
If they divide it then its not a good management.
Is there not enough Love to give and must divide it and neglect the other.
If a husband neglects his wife, he is giving his children a disservice of teaching them what love is and what it means to commit.
Why am i crying??? 😭😭
Wait till Jongkook gets a daughter. I am 100% sure he will be a Ryan Reynolds and use his wife as a human shield or a punching bag just to make sure his daughter is safe and happy!!
It's easy to say stuff like this but ultimately its a romanticized ideal
it makes sense what haha said tho, let's say for example if a family is in danger the adult which are the mom and dad can save themselves easier compared to children and if i ever have kids i would want my husband to put them first as well because they are in a more vulnerable position compared to me who can take care of myself.
It's nice to see jongmin again . I miss 2 days 1 night
For me it's kids first because I know my partner will choose them first too.
he said that bcs he doesnt have children yet. wait till you have one
Jungkook is right about putting your wife first. Marriage counselors say the same thing ♥️
Putting you wife first does not mean you love your children less...
Do the mothers seriously think that wives come before their children?? wow im shook. HaHa was on point with this one.
I am married this is legit 🤣🤣🤣🤣
A WEEK😂😂😂😂😂😂
Jong Kook is exactly right in his thinking. When you're in a relationship with a woman or your wife. Your wife should come first. You must take care of yourself to help take care of your family. But your wife is the root of the family tree.
Children are innocent little creatures that need the parents to look after them, protect them, teach them and so much other things. Thats why I feel like the answer should be the child and also the love you fell for them is another level. Something you wont feel for your spouse
@@sahaam1507 not always.. spouse always come first.. lets say all in this live always fine, in the old day u will live with your wife not your children, simple like that.. when our children still a little one they will always come first, but after that our spouse is forever..
@@kanoyuwono but your children will look after you when you are old.
I'm a traditional guy and I seen in my own upbringing with my mother and father and the example my father set. Treat people how you would want to be treated yourself. And if your children see you treating your wife their mother with respect love and kindness then you will gain those things from them and then they will just play it forward and make right choices for themselves when it comes time
the ideal answer is when your children still baby or small kid. They're your number 1 priority, it's your responsibility as adult and parents. Then if they grow up and became adult maybe even have their own family. Your number 1 priority should be your wife/ husband.
People keep saying "He doesn't hv kid that why he said that" but Dong Yeob who hv kids said the same thing as Kim Jong Kook
well he’s wrong
KJK: for me, if asked it would be gym before the others.
When jongkook asked that question I already knew my answer My child I don’t have children or a husband but I already know by what people say about their love for their kids I would choose my kids over anyone even if it’s my husband because my kids are the love of my life. But I think jongkook said he’ll choose his wife because he doesn’t have children and I don’t think he knows that love you have for them
I'm seeing down in the comments some people saying " kjk wearing white, it must mean something" - it don't. He always wear white, it's one of his three favorite colors. You can see a lot of his instagram pics of him wearing that color.
haha is right
its not wrong to put your children first. if you have kids, your kids should be your #1 priority no matter what. if you cant put your kids first, then dont have kids simple.
it all depends actually if the child already born
BUT if the child is still not born, wife safety is number 1 priority
Definitely child more impt esp for a mother. That should be the way.
Haha smh 😂