3 Tips for Dads Raising Daughters
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- Dads play a major role in the development of their daughters. Learn some practical tips that can help you.
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Who’s a kid and watching this
I am
Me
I’m a 17 year old woman watching because I never had a proper father figure. Sure he was always there but he’s never told me he loves me ever. Even when I was in ambulances for self inflicted reasons he could never fucking man up and say it and I resent him for that no matter what he “ provides “
@@sarahdemartin1183 Not every parents gives a sh*t about their children just like my parents 🙁.
Not me 🥱
raising a daughter full custody. She's young so the bond is sooo strong. I mean I'm this kids hero and she makes it well known everyday. I think as she get's older that's when it will get harder.
Thanks for this. My daughter is 11 and she is going through many changes physically and emotionally. I always defer most things and tell her to discuss things with her mom to avoid the sensitive issues only another female can know, but I feel my daughter and I are somewhat drifting apart. I need to be better....
Yes Ron! She needs her dad too!
She's growing physically and mentally..dad's don't understand what female is going through.. just be patient
Be interested in her interests and you'll be on your way. Pray hard also, don't forget that
I’m adopting a daughter and this is part of it y’all gotta dig in deeper
Congratulations brotha! Keep God first and he will make your paths straight.
Get your a son too..men's don't understand our body
Great video and information. Thanks a lot. Care for your wife and your daughter learns from this. I also believe this point is even more important for dads to their sons. Thanks again.
So glad to see all these comments by serious fathers. We can break the chain. Let's boss up and be real men.
Good advice and I like how you didn't over god it until the end, You can tell you weren't trying to push got on to anybody it just was something that affected your life and that's where you seeked help and guidance and I understand But some people just see things differently when you talk about God that much but good for you Sean you can tail the direction you choose to take it is the right one
Im going to be a great dad hopefully, we will go to church for sure
Being a great dad is a high calling and will take intentionality on your part - not always easy - but always worth the effort. Going to church is certainly important, as is bringing your children to church. However, much more important is getting to know Jesus Christ. He will change your life and give you the tools that you need to be a great dad. Take a look at this video and from personal experience I can tell you that Jesus can and will change your entire world - if you want Him to.
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I can’t thank you guys enough
Really good video with good information. Just wish o could of seen this before my 2 daughters were born
Thank you for this help, God bless you all
Thank you guys.
Who's a dad and watching this?
Great advice from the bloke ✌🏼👌🏼
I hope to be a daddy one day. I used to dislike kids and felt awkward around them but as I've grown older i look forward to having children. I've had some training being around my God-son and God-daughter. I've taken an interest in everything that they liked. I've had to learn the Ben10 universe and much to my surprise i ended up becoming a Brony after watching My Little Pony with my God-daughter. My father abandoned me and mum so i never knew what a father is. I hope to learn from his mistakes and never abandon my future children. My God-son and God-daughter have told me that I'll be a good father one day. I hope so too
Check out more resources on marriage and parenting at www.pursuegod.org/family/
I’m going to be a good dad to my two future daughter London and France
It's 3 am and I'm watching this and I'm not even married
Man this mad me cry,I need to be a better man.
Dai Bennett it aint too late man, you’re already on the right path realizing you did smth wrong.
Do better my guy ! She need you
lets all give these precious gifts from God what they deserve and what they need love before God takes His daughters away and shows us just how pitiful our fathering is commpared to their true father and creator. great video
Well done bud 🙏
BETA~!!! lol jk
Thanks
Im here at 18, in college decided to look this video up just because of my young baby girl cousin. in 6 years reply to this comment please
Part of your message was cut off - but I did answer your previous post and if you do not now have a relationship with Jesus Christ - I am praying that you start one now.
Sean helped today. Excellent and thank you
Excellent!
A tip.
When your daughter has her first moon. (Period)
Make her favorite meal.
Make a big deal about her without saying why. Treat her with respect from that day forward.
Women have a burden of being the spiritual side of Adam and Eve. And they should be revered that way.
Adam is just the Brain.
Eve is the spirit.
Very good advice
You can say that again...
I mean i think respect starts way before that but thats just me 🤷♂️
Good one.
Best tip I can give you from being a father of two beautiful little girls. Just be there for them. Listen to whatever they have to say.. there is nothing that can compare then spending qauilty " TIME " with them! Then hopefully they will LOVE me till I'm old and grey
They will love you until your purple 💯 great words
@@jajayaboy thanks brother💜 take care👊
@@LoneWolfReaper90 you too as well! God bless you and your family.
@@jajayaboy thank you and likewise 🤛
Tip #1 Ba a model of the behavior you want your daughter to see in a future husband. Tip #2: #2: Be intentional about time. Tip #3: I did not hear one???????
5:40 Tip #3 is to find a mentor!
@@pursuegodvideo Thank you, I missed it.
Get a mentor
Who else here watching this just became a step dad hahah
Congratulations man!
🤗 me
That’s a different story bro
I’m a step dad myself … a different set of rules there
Not me, I ain't raising no other mans child
I'm 55 and about to be the father of a daughter. I raised my son, who's now 31. I'm nervous, scared of being an older dad
Mlucious67 , Hang in there brother, you can and will do this - with excellence. Children are a gift from God.
0:27 I thought 9yr old going on 17 yr old. Man im stupid 🙃
Recently became a single dad and will be raising my kids mostly alone and even though I've done it on and off, I'm scared
Need as much knowledge as possible.. I've been raised in juvenile detention and had no parents besides the co's on our unit.. I have no brothers or sisters to gain knowledge from.. never had a father or mother to teach me about the world.. and I just got the news that my soul mate is 4 months pregnant with my daughter and I'm fucking scared that I won't be the best father/friend to my little girl sapphire...
G.C.S.Y _ OSO187 nice stripper name tho
Keep doing research bro
You will do fine.Just be there and be supportive.
I appreciate the video and tips. My daughter is 4 and I Love her very much. I'm unable to be with the mother because of her infidelities and she's not the type of person capable of change so I have a big problem here. I will not stay with the mother for the sake of family because I'd be miserable and in my opinion, that would not set a good example. Kind of lost right now.✌
A broken marriage always causes a great deal of pain, especially where children are involved. Infidelity is a special kind of pin because it involves rejection at your very core. However, before you do anything final please take a look at this excellent video regarding reconciliation. th-cam.com/video/MFBAd8o2tuM/w-d-xo.html
@pursuegodvideo you can't reconcile with a ho
Dam I need this to raise my daughter. -Future Dad 😳
Thats why im here, i went to my cousins basketball game seeing all the young girls made me want a daughter
@@Playwithdeutschland boys need there father too..to be a man and to carry your name
How do you cope with the fear? I am a Police detective and, as such, have a terrible world view. I stand face to face with the darkside everyday. I know what can happen to an innocent life out there. Before my daughter was born, I was fearless. Now, I second guess everything I do because, for the first time in my life, I am afraid. I have spoken to professional help, but I can't shake the fear I feel for my daughter. I'm a wreck. Any advice?
Let the fear trigger a closer connection with God. I can relate to your anxiety! I have to daily give it over to Him.
1. Fathers should ensure that their daughters are strong and independent
2. Fathers’s should ingrain that women are equal
3. Fathers should teach their daughters the ins and outs of finances
These are the most important lessons that my Dad taught me
Is it me? Or is she being dismissive towards his thoughts. She was rushing him. Perhaps this isn’t her format.
I thought the same not dismissive but unprofessional in executing a good video for the good content they shared
Great video thanks bro :)
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PG Team
some day im gonna be a dad. you wanna know one of the things i plan to do when that day comes? ask me
@Sneakysodathief show my kids cartoons and pop culture from only the 80s 90s and 2000s. ill never show them all this bullshit they have on tv today or in the years to come. ill show them Rockos modern life, Cat dog, Batman Beyond, the 90s Spiderman cartoon. hell, ill even let my kids watch Beavis and Butthead and the old South Park episodes
@@robquin1525 Don't shun 60's and 70's tho :)
@@biocykle oh dont worry. i wont.
I am, I want to spoil my kids
But if the mother is a narcissist it makes a relationship with your daughter hard because the mom always makes it about her
That’s true! Check out this topic www.flextalk.org/the-psychology-of-narcissism/
Let him talk! quit budding in so much.
What is the speaker's full name?
Can we follow him on social media for more content about daughters?
His name is Pastor Shawn Bagley. Pastor at Alpine church in Syracuse Utah
Malek Aljabari,we should.
My daughter's loved his father so much,now that he is no more...it is painful to bring her up alone.
She needs a daddy,thats her daily prayer.
I have a question! If your daughter has been told negative things about you, can the father sense it naturally? 🤔 and also will your daughter eventually come around or give you a chance if she did hear these things, if she happen to believe it?
Jayjayaboy, That is a difficult question with many variables and I understand how you may be hurting How old is the child, who do you think is telling stories, what is your current relationship, etc., etc. In general, no one wins the blame game and you are better off maintaining your own integrity and doing the right thing no matter what anyone else may be doing. Kids know when you really love them and if you have a relationship with Jesus Christ ask Him to help you demonstrate the kind of love to your daughter that Jesus has demonstrated to you.
What if ur divorced and ur ez always fights with me
When a wife is sleepin around and constantly lying to the dad the daugther should also be taught that the wife is acountable for her actions and dosent get a free pass on her behaviour. Also a big important life lesson
My dad was abusive to me tho
I'm divorced with her mom.. she cheated on me. How should I show her how I treat her mom?
Great question. Short answer: treat her with care and respect. That's your daughters mother, and you should do nothing that would bring ill will between them. No better way to show your daughter how to love as God has commanded us. But not easy, I know. But the truth will come out one day, and it will, and you will not care as much then asa you do now.
Nicole Lunsford
It seems one tip I see from many of these guys is put your daughter even before your son and only focus on your son even at your son's expense.
1. Get comfortable with the idea of killing. Then, kill an animal and provide food for your daughter. Then tell your daughter that you love her. Then tell her you love her again. Then clock the time. Then teach her to defend herself with a gun. Then, brave yourself because she's going to rebel.
And always teach her that life is precious.
I’m a business man I have my company I love my wife , I have properties for rent , I am responsible, I cook for my family, however my wife disrespects me , my daughters have yelled at me and said “Fu.. You “ and have shown the middle finger to me , I walk on eggshells with my wife , I love my family, I show care I’m religious, I am successful but what else does it take to raise them accordingly?
Alfredo, I am deeply sorry about your family situation. My greatest concern however is your own spiritual situation. You mention that you are religious, but I do not know what that means. Jesus Christ never asked us to follow a religion and seek out the perfect church. The only way to peace with God and with yourself is a relationship with Jesus Christ. In Matthew 11:28, Jesus said "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest." It sounds to me that you would really welcome that rest. I am attaching a video which explains what it really means to have a real relationship with Jesus Christ and I hope that you find it helpful. th-cam.com/video/ipgjD36m4sE/w-d-xo.html
Who here is 26 male with a girlfriend he really loves ?
What about a single dad and the mom isn't God fearing or understand authority and teaches the daughter to question the father rather than revere him?
Better luck next time around 😬
I was in a similar situation. Both my daughter and I have just been praying for her mom for over 3 years. The Lord has been working in her life and we've seen how she's coming back to Him. Prayer is powerful. My daughter is learning that lesson for sure.
prayers that we overcome this
A very good question.
I would say,love your daughter,take good care of her,when she is if age,you can talk to her and i am sure she will be able to tell,btn mom n papa who was right.
Brooklyn king
fausse vignette ont voit pas lol
Don't ask church pastors.... they have no idea about rising a child... pls!
I am sure you are right. Some pastors may be awful fathers but others are great. The point is that pastors along with all the rest of us are sinners saved by grace. Do not let the bad behavior of any human being, even a pastor, keep you from the love of God.
@@pursuegodvideo Well, the way as you explain it seems like a gamble. Since there is not certaintly about the virtue of the pastor then is better to avoid any risk and look for advice with experts or at least other parents who have overcomed the same situation. Don't you think?
Raise your kid and spoil your grandkids or spoil your kid and raise your grandkids
Excellent! Haven't heard it before but so very true.
Teach your daughter not to interupt like this lady...what a nut. 🤦♂️
These tips are great for girls AND boys! However, I must add that all the items outlined can be summarized in just being submissive to the Lord and His word. Fathers, LOVE your wives as Christ loved the church. Be in the Word. Be in prayer. Be in biblical community. AND allow your kids to see all of it!! Live out the gospel! Also, pray for your children. Pray that their hearts and minds would be softened to the gospel message. Fathers, be the PASTORS of your home! Care for your flock with tenderness and loving hands as Christ did for us!
Thank you for watching Larry Young,
We agree wholeheartedly. We hope you will check out some of our parenting resources at pursueGOD.org:
www.pursuegod.org/parenting/
Bet wishes,
PG Team
I agree but please tell me where in the bible it says "Christ loved the Church" any version of the bible will do, or a similar quote directly from Jesus. I'm genuinely curious.
22 Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.
25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26 to make her holy, cleansing[b] her by the washing with water through the word, 27 and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. Ephesians Cha 5 : 22-27
@@freefrankfish That's not a quote from Jesus. Thanks though.
Thanks for commenting Evan Turzanski,
Your original question was "please tell me where in the bible it says 'Christ loved the Church,' which Yu Frank did. Your original question left space for a response that did not come direclty from a quote of Jesus.
If you are seeking a parallel that doesn't precisely mimic the phrasing "Christ loved the church," but carries the same essential meaning, you will find this link helpful:
www.openbible.info/labs/cross-references/search?q=John+15%3A13
Best wishes,
PG Team
Wow ima parent of 3 I go with my gut my kids piss me off I crack out the whip!!!
This was cool until it got all Holy
Ask someone from a dis function family how to grow a daughter 🫠