CNA | On The Red Dot | S7 E14 - Discovering grandma's roots

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  • On this episode of On The Red Dot, the strained relationship between 12-year-old Simorrah and her 83-year-old grandmother causes tension in her adopted family. Will a road trip to Melaka to discover her new heritage change Simorrah’s view of family?
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  • @Goldbitch
    @Goldbitch 5 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Having watched the episode, I think that the amount of hate Simorrah is getting is excessive and unacceptable. Although her Grandma may be an elder and therefore deserves Simorrah's respect, it is important to recognize that she was unreasonable at times and therefore the conflict between her and Simorrah cannot be solely attributed to Simorrah's attitude. With her Grandmother's short temper and lack of flexibility, Simorrah's frustration towards her Grandmother is understandable and thus it would not be fair to peg her as being ungrateful. While I do not know Simorrah in person, I trust that she is a pleasant girl and I don't think that people should be so quick to judge based on what is portrayed on screen. That being said, I agree that Simorrah could have handled the disagreements between herself and her Grandmother better by giving in more out of respect. Regardless of who is in the wrong, neither of them deserves hate as they were kind enough to open up their lives for us to learn from their experiences. For that, they should be appreciated rather than hated on. If you were Simorrah's Grandmother, how would you feel seeing people openly hand on your Grandaughter?

    • @valenciaakamuichiroswife3296
      @valenciaakamuichiroswife3296 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      CARMELA GOLDWICH CHERISSE lol I actually do know her and the relationship between her grandma is actually ok but the way she treats her friends.........not so much?

    • @pyteechristine
      @pyteechristine 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree. Simorrah is just 12, a teenager and still learning. Afterall communication between 70 years of age gap is not easy.

  • @wenchen8870
    @wenchen8870 5 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    This grandchild is so ungrateful. She need to respect the elder.

    • @evancki
      @evancki 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      u probably didnt watch the hold video

    • @mmuhd
      @mmuhd 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@evancki Whole you mean. Yes, agree. Good and happy ending. But I find Simmorah speaks a bit too well and with an accent. Hmmmmmmm.......

  • @ashleyjayde2305
    @ashleyjayde2305 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    My family would hands down slap me if i behave like her.

  • @janislim0925
    @janislim0925 5 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Why all the criticism towards Simorrah?? You can visibly see throughout the video, how she grew to be more respectful and understanding towards her grandma. She's just a pre-teen in this video, and prob going through puberty too, she even stated she can be moody sometimes lolol that's self-awareness on her part.
    Ok lah she was a tad rude in the beginning in terms of her speech and behaviour, especially when she rolled her eyes. But this is also bc there is a lack of communication and miscommunication between them.
    Towards the middle and the end of the video, you could see that because both of them talked it out at the lunch place, they had a better understanding towards one another and both actively made efforts to communicate with one another. Simorrah was also much more respectful to her grandma as the video progresses.
    Really like this video :)) I wish I could be close to my grandmothers too, however they only speak dialect fluently and some mandarin chinese and both my grandfathers have passed too. I'm trying to learn dialect rn so that I can speak with my grandmas, but I really envy people who can have full-length conversations with their grandparents. So if you have this fortune, don't waste it! Get close to your grandparents, we really have a lot to learn from them!

  • @sltay731
    @sltay731 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    That Girl is an actress on whoopie's world (an television program on Okto)

  • @shiangwei1712
    @shiangwei1712 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Y'all need to chill out, she's just 12 and she's still learning!
    The reason why she hates her grandma so much it's because the lacking communication between them
    I'm sure she'll appreciate more after learning so much about her grandma
    I mean, stop giving so many negative comments tho, I was disrespectful to my grandparents as well when I was young. It's because they scolded me all the time, as time goes on, I start to know they're teaching manners and now I sayang them a lot!
    Giver her some times guys :)

    • @ddlcp
      @ddlcp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      12's not an excuse for such behavior towards...

  • @blingblingsx
    @blingblingsx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Tbh both of them are trying very hard to mend this relationship which is great! Especially granddaughter!

  • @zebra2856
    @zebra2856 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    ‘i’m naturally a quiet person.’
    also her: talking to camera ‘ i’m not excited. periodt’

    • @chloefong3031
      @chloefong3031 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hahaha I like her personality!!

  • @bcbc672
    @bcbc672 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Love the grandmother. She's a star stellar! Hoping we have this kind of show in MY

  • @midzy_neverland_buddyforve6485
    @midzy_neverland_buddyforve6485 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Aiyo why so rude to grandma? She should learn how to appreciate her own grandma. Then in the future when her grandma is no longer around, she will be full of regrets...

  • @kathbchin
    @kathbchin 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is a good coverage illustrating the pains of generation gap. I enjoyed that they both are able to bridge the gap by introducing peranakan history and culinary, and technology to each other. It is awesome they cleared the air and able to understand each other better.

  • @sher2942
    @sher2942 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My grandmother was the only person who showed me love and affection in my family. So many times I've wished she were here and miss her dearly.

  • @meganmusic
    @meganmusic 5 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    this girl is so damn rude

    • @Oreobiscuit-qq3uk
      @Oreobiscuit-qq3uk 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Shit up you dont know this girl in person in person shes rlly great u bish

    • @hengloun9173
      @hengloun9173 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ariel Liong
      I agree i salute you

    • @victoriakitty6994
      @victoriakitty6994 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Oreobiscuit-qq3uk You can't even spell properly, yet you bash on other people. Learn how to spell before comment. Simorrah is rude just like you. She is adopted, she should be more grateful and respectful to the adopted family.

    • @judyuy5510
      @judyuy5510 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Victoria Kitty she/he just might not want to spell it properly and doesn’t want to say the b-word

  • @chloefong3031
    @chloefong3031 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Haha this video is quite funny. Simorrah seems really smart with the way she talks and she find ways to bond with her grandma. The ending was really sweet and cute too!!

  • @Christinalyl
    @Christinalyl 5 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    That girl is so rude like where are your manners?! plus you're adopted so please respect your grandma and be grateful that they took you in man like you'll be in the streets if they didn't adopt you

    • @sweetyangelcake7274
      @sweetyangelcake7274 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      이린유 she’s just 12 years old no need to be mean la auntie

    • @hengloun9173
      @hengloun9173 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hahaha ya loh auntie

    • @vanessaives5546
      @vanessaives5546 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh hell no if someone adopted me and expected me to be grateful and not have my moments, I'm gonna be a big bitch! You don't use that against anyone as if they owe someone a debt! She's a preteen, so she's gonna have her bitchy moments! Also love how she's rude yet her parents who do nothing about it are what exactly? They raised her!

  • @lifepiece9551
    @lifepiece9551 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Singapore is so diverse , it boggles my mind looking at how different and the same these people are.

  • @awliyahalvyna9376
    @awliyahalvyna9376 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    the grandchild is so rude if i talked to a ederly like that the will slap my face with a straight face

  • @randylee1336
    @randylee1336 ปีที่แล้ว

    Is a great blessing to hve a mama.... Treasure as much time wif her when she stil around..... I miss my mama alot.... Even tho she left me for almost 4 decades.... Her smile n her compassion is 4ever in my memory...
    Kalau ada jarung yang pata
    Jagan simpan di dalam peti
    Kalau ada urmo yang panjang
    Boleh la kita bejumpa lagi

  • @kayatoasttttts
    @kayatoasttttts 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    The child is adopted yets she isnt grateful... to me she is a plain spoiled brat... because she is adopted her she got showered with love by her parents getting a phone and an ipad yet she isnt grateful at all... haizzz...

    • @zebra2856
      @zebra2856 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Kay Sheen E idiot if u ain’t gonna spread happiness then don’t fill the world with hate

  • @Mizuki101Ikuto
    @Mizuki101Ikuto 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    4 mins in and when the girl said it’s so cringy I thought yeah, she’s really cringy🙃 show some respect for your grandma, girl

  • @iceknite96
    @iceknite96 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    6:52 its reaction time! L0L

  • @semiprotita
    @semiprotita 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I was raised by my grandma and I love her so much so watching this makes me sad

  • @melvin4155
    @melvin4155 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nice story. :) We should love our grandmothers :)

  • @sweetyangelcake7274
    @sweetyangelcake7274 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Grandma u r so sweet..simonnah when ur 12 and someone is 30 and above u call them Aunty not Kakak 😂😂😂

    • @chloefong3031
      @chloefong3031 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kakak seems better than calling then aunty. Aunty would usually be for 'old' people so I think the person she called kakak appreciates it as well.

  • @Kimgimbap
    @Kimgimbap 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Totally like me hahaha but when I realise it, I learn to appreciate it more. Girl you need to respect your grandmother, I know how you feel about, I know sometimes is annoying and frustrating, but just try to talk more with your grandmother. 😊 Learn to care more , learn to be patient 😊😊😉👍

  • @blingblingsx
    @blingblingsx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She's talking about being polite to call Nancy kakak but not filial enough to talk to her grandma nicely. :)

  • @m.c.1387
    @m.c.1387 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This coming together was beautiful! I learned a few things myself! #Grandmaofmany🇺🇸

  • @Geekandsneaks
    @Geekandsneaks 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I found the granddaughter so annoying. She has to wake up to the real world and realise the world doesn't revolve around her.

    • @Penguinndessert_
      @Penguinndessert_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      The way is she said period

    • @connie2365
      @connie2365 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Penguinndessert_ ikr!

  • @lloydbaltazar1095
    @lloydbaltazar1095 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    She is a future boss of a big company. Amazing girl 👧🏻 very strong willed and commanding.

    • @evancki
      @evancki 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      NO GAY

    • @chloefong3031
      @chloefong3031 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Frr her future looks bright!

  • @berniceinwonderland2146
    @berniceinwonderland2146 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    18:30 when muscially was still alive haha

  • @kaylim4433
    @kaylim4433 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i hope she respect her grandma more after this time

  • @buddy4eva556
    @buddy4eva556 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Idk.. This grandchild is really disrespectful. My parents would prolly slap and beat me if I ever treat my grandmother like this. As our grandparents grow older, they may start getting annoying. However dont forget, when we were babies and all.. They was the one tending to us most of the time when our parents are busy working.

  • @doreenlim649
    @doreenlim649 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It's sweet when Simorrah turns around and held out her hand for her grandma....when getting up the van. Despite her being a typical 12 year old.

  • @connie2365
    @connie2365 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    damnnnn. By the way this girl is treating her grandmother. Even though the handshake thing is cringy, she don't have to be so rude about it. If I treat my grandparents the same way she treats her grandma, I'd be dead by now!!

  • @dawnn2269
    @dawnn2269 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The girl is really mature for her age!!! Im sure their relationship will get better as she grows up!

    • @sunmeg
      @sunmeg ปีที่แล้ว

      Mature 😂 are u sure?!

  • @TheOldmankk
    @TheOldmankk 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Little girl very vocal and assertive....😁

  • @playeroffortnite1227
    @playeroffortnite1227 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Omg does the kid knows how to respect ? One day if the grandma is gone she will regret -.-

  • @caydenbong4996
    @caydenbong4996 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Did anyone watch the full video?

  • @Naomi-jm3rr
    @Naomi-jm3rr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Honestly, this feels like Simmorah is acting and faking how she speaks

    • @janellechan1021
      @janellechan1021 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      in school she actually speaks like that, honestly. but it's not as fake as in the vid

  • @handsomehugh
    @handsomehugh 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    heartwarming

  • @cheetengminivan8185
    @cheetengminivan8185 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Proud to be Peranakan

  • @jasonlim2884
    @jasonlim2884 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    lol on 6:51 Adi Fishman.

  • @arevl
    @arevl 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such a sweet and happy ending. The storyline was probably scripted to a certain extent if not there is no "drama" to watch. Give Simorrah some slack. She is just a teenager & grandma was just grandma.

  • @sallieceelee5660
    @sallieceelee5660 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    After watching Simorrah, I am reconsidering my plans to adopt.

  • @medialcanthus9681
    @medialcanthus9681 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The child is intelligent.

  • @heesbigheart
    @heesbigheart 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    not to be rude but the handshake is really vv cringyy

    • @blingblingsx
      @blingblingsx 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      But I'm glad they actually have one in their fam.. I don't even have a fam handshake.

    • @chloefong3031
      @chloefong3031 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It was quite funny haha especially with simorrah's reaction

  • @dreamysnowy4543
    @dreamysnowy4543 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Just confiscated the phone.

  • @kateloh1000
    @kateloh1000 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If you watch the whole video it's a happy ending

  • @DuyNguyen-ru1si
    @DuyNguyen-ru1si 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    family hand shake hahhaha

  • @nesh_lor
    @nesh_lor 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    she watching reaction time !!!

  • @simonsays9343
    @simonsays9343 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Please watch finish the video before commenting!

  • @RukiNayo
    @RukiNayo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Your grandma won't be here with you for long time. Just spend sometime with her and have some patient.

  • @kir3565
    @kir3565 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Simorrah is so impolite and ungrateful.

  • @january.s6709
    @january.s6709 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    she really should be grateful... honestly i envy her. both my grandmas are bed ridden and how fun it would be if i could go out with them and have a proper conversation with them you knowZzz

  • @liannesings7733
    @liannesings7733 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    she needs to be more respectful. who the f does she think she is that she can simply talk back to her own grandma? if i was the girl's mom , she would be slapped so hard in the face

  • @thi6902
    @thi6902 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I couldn't even finish watching the episode because the girl was such a bratty #!?#

  • @asterkoh6283
    @asterkoh6283 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Even me and my grandma has a better relationship than them

  • @wblotch3502
    @wblotch3502 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    generally, things are changing and the generation gap is so real because they don't understand each other's generation. glad that things turn out well nonetheless!

  • @beomietobi9911
    @beomietobi9911 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    ughhhh i would kill to go on a road trip with my grandma

  • @ngrobert5054
    @ngrobert5054 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Today child is so ungrateful and stubborn

  • @helenpham6152
    @helenpham6152 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    De girl is taking advantage of chewing on chewing gum which is banned in Spore. Just hope that she knows how to dispose of it in Melaka/Malaysia. A lot of angst w dis girl.

  • @kawaiipink6958
    @kawaiipink6958 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Actually you are in the wrong since the person is older then you should call the person by auntie or Uncle on the cna

    • @awliyahalvyna9376
      @awliyahalvyna9376 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      that is her grandmother. so u are telling me that u call ur grandparents untie or uncle

  • @simplyfood7860
    @simplyfood7860 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh my. Spoiled .

  • @theprobutt
    @theprobutt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    that thing is right, halo is a weapon. your prophets are making a big mistake

  • @jurenetan4238
    @jurenetan4238 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yea she watch reaction time

  • @tearchinsee3331
    @tearchinsee3331 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Simmorah is from whoopie world right

    • @sltay731
      @sltay731 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      chloe._. jungkook yup

    • @hengloun9173
      @hengloun9173 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yup true i slatue you

  • @katie969
    @katie969 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    she my senior la sial

  • @ewhrlaw5290
    @ewhrlaw5290 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Her fondness for grandstanding, self-serving mannerism and rude facial expressions at every turn make her very unappealing.

  • @est08
    @est08 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm pissed because the family hand shake shes like bla bla bla you guys are cringe .-. I'm not excited period

  • @oseandepartmentofnarcotics
    @oseandepartmentofnarcotics 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Reaction time lamo

  • @kichaa13
    @kichaa13 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why is her accent so american

  • @sonesunny7632
    @sonesunny7632 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    What's up with the accent???

    • @lvminous
      @lvminous 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      SNSD Sunny She’s Eurasian.

    • @sltay731
      @sltay731 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      lvminous she is not Eurasian she is actually born as the 5th child of a Malay family from Malaysia but was adopted by a Singaporean family

  • @koibiscuit9451
    @koibiscuit9451 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why so biased??

  • @studywithme1541
    @studywithme1541 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Pewdipi needs to react

  • @siamsadie
    @siamsadie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bratttttt

  • @leelaturanga5461
    @leelaturanga5461 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Such bad manners. Wow.

  • @ryanfaiq6568
    @ryanfaiq6568 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The girl is just so basic

  • @fungeese
    @fungeese 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Malacca? For bonding? For a teenager? Bloody boring place! Grandma better go stay in an old folks place, play mahjong. Teenager, go to parties, rock concerts, amusement parks, camping, motorcycle races, some excitement.

    • @kcyq6907
      @kcyq6907 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      What are u implying? "grandma better go stay in a old folks place, play majong"? So you are saying that you want your children to leave you at an old folks home after they are all grown up as an working adults after u take care for them for the past 20+ 30+ year?

    • @kennychan3612
      @kennychan3612 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      k cyq haha maybe he living in old folks home hehe

    • @abcdefghijklmumford
      @abcdefghijklmumford 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Parents want the children to be independent.
      Parents should set an example themselves and be independent.
      Grandparents should be independent. Move to old folks home to play mahjong sounds like a very independent thing to do.
      I support

  • @Naomi-jm3rr
    @Naomi-jm3rr 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Honestly, this feels like Simmorah is acting and faking how she speaks

    • @Oreobiscuit-qq3uk
      @Oreobiscuit-qq3uk 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yea she doesn't act liddat in person

    • @Oreobiscuit-qq3uk
      @Oreobiscuit-qq3uk 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @CarrotChowYT because I know her in person. Go to insta at oreo.sg1 and you will see pics of her and me. She is one of my good friends and she us acting as part of her career as an kid actress.