Yeah I think a lot of it comes to personal experience and how we handle them. I'm happy you're taking a look from both sides. I don't agree with incels but I'm happy you've given some insight to their mindset.
Women are not the problem, it's your self esteem. If you go on tinder your just gonna meet the wrong kind of women. What you want is genuine self improvement. Women go for "bad boys" because they want adventure, so become the kind of man that gives them a sense of adventure. Ince's are wrong, but I understand their frustrations. I have to tell it to you straight, you have to find things that give you solid sense of good self esteem. The more you focus on developing your life, the more likely you will attract a good woman. Have you ever considered therapy? What about deleting social media? When you talk to women, yeah bro your gonna get shut down a lot, but it's a skill you have to develop. The universe works in wonderful ways, so by becoming your authentic self, you will naturally attract the right woman at the right time. Women's lack of interest in you is a reflection of your lack of self esteem. Self esteem is everything bro. And pleaseee remeber, this is only a portion of women you are seeing online, and plenty of good women exist in the real world. Find yourself and step into your authentic self, then the right people come at the right time. Also, incels have killed people, so maybe find a different word to use in the future... Because I do not see you as an incel because they are usually hateful people. You can change your life bro! Nothing is ever that black or white. You deserve better, so see what you can do to improve your life and it will come. Do not allow yourself to slide down this rabbit hole...
@@AZrakoon He's trying to make a scathing remark against your person. Saying you're fat and look like someone who would have owned slaves. It's what they do whenever you bring up the fact that maybe the dating market or anything might be skewed against certain types of men. They don't like reality, so they just namecall and yell.
If you’re a sub 5 man - just give up, honestly. Speaking from experience. I’m sub five (31, 5’8, ginger, ugly) and did ‘tha thing’ that all the comments say -- just self improve, go outside, leave your mums basement etc etc .. over Covid. Worked 60 hours p week across 3 jobs, earned 120k, paid off student loans, brought a house and car.. what has it resulted in? Sold everything, working 30 hours and living/ caring for my elderly parents. I’m so much happier. It was so much pain for zero reward. I’ll never forget one remark from a 50 something lady at work ‘all the girls will be lining up now you have a house’ - BS. It’s 2024 not 1975. Don’t forget, the elites, they were mostly alive in 1975… out of touch. Play the long game boys, we good.
This is a bad mindset to get in. When you start thinking about friendzones and living accordingly, you're going to be in it forever. You need to focus on you, becoming comfortable and confident with yourself to the point where you don't need a partner, and that's when you'll find one. Dwelling on it like this makes you seem weak and unattractive, no matter how you spin it to yourself. You're a smart, kind guy from what i can tell. Work on yourself and becoming comfortable in your own skin, then find hobbies and you'll be partenered in no time, with someone you actually want in your life.
Tell me about it, lol. I have found that rejection is blessing in disguise. 3 years ago I got fired from a job, then i got hired where I'm at now. It's the best job I've had. I have found that you can't isolate yourself, every time your friends ask you to hang out with them, to always take it.
@@AZrakoon Sounds like you are on the right path. Get rid of this pity or victim mindset, and I guarantee you will see success in whatever avenue you want. Best of luck friend
@Alex-on8yu okay, I get that and I know it's tough. But if you truly want out of the issues you're facing, blaming others (which is outside of your control) isn't only not helpful, it's actively harmful. Again, work on getting your confidence up and really, and I mean really, learn to love yourself. You deserve it brother.
I am and was 100% never interested in superficial women. Where they are I anyway never go, neigther in real life (bars etc.) or online (tinder etc., never would use these rediculous apps except trying out but just for fun or interest, not with real expectations). Although they are rare: I am waiting or looking for an intelligent and super, super relaxed woman. I consider myself as "in some parts quite intelligent" (in some parts not at all intelligent), so it would be totally do pey if I would contact superficial women. Extra question for you: to one of my older comments, you answered among other thoughts, that the believe in god could help me, or so. I am fully not religious, I don't believe in god (but, very important, I fully respect people who do), so believing in god cannot help me in any situation in my life. But there are other things that can help too. So, I simply wanted (for no specific reason) to know, how you think about people, that don't believe in god, like me, for many years / decades already not, so very "settled" and in peace with this attitude not to believe. And all this means not for me, that I have no values, I live almost all the same values like the average Christian, like genarally respect, being kind and helpful to everybody, keeping many traditions high (like family things, if the family is peacefull), protecting animals and nature, etc. So what do you think about people like me who don't believe in god? You don't need to answer to it, if that is too complicated for you, like "... depends on a lot...". By the way, if not said yet, I am from Europe, so some few cultural things are anyway a bit different, what surrounds me in my daily life, always has been, compared to a life in the US. But many things, surely, are the same.
If you dont believe in God, that's fine. In my experience as many others, we find evidence that there is a creator that cares about us. I have prayed and many times I have found calmness and peace afterwards. Also, at times I was able to get the help I need in difficult situations.
Its a hole that people fall in. I think alot of incels think they're alot better catch than they actually are and want to be with only the hottest girls. If they lowered the standard a bit they'd be alot happier.
Right! Sometimes some men get a super hot chick, because she can control him, and she wears the pants in the relationship. Once you find out she's a pain, you want to get rid of her.
Nah, we just don't want Chad/Tyrone's scraps. Most incels that are 5/10 would be fine with something close to that, but not if she's already been ran through and most of them have.
You aren’t a bad looking fella. Do BJJ for a year. Lose weight, gain muscle and self confidence. You will get a woman. You won’t have to do videos anymore complaining about how you can’t get a woman. It’s in your hands. Good luck.
We always were.
We are gonna move forward, despite having a mountain of crap to overcome.
Peter griffin ahhh incel
Shut up meg
@@AZrakoon dammmmm
Lmao@@AZrakoon
@EmmanuelEkem-tc3pr firee
@@AZrakoon😂😂😂😂😂
Don't base your self-worth on how women might see you. It won't be easy, but if you learn to gradually let it not bother you. #ivebeenthere
Thanks for the advice
Yeah I think a lot of it comes to personal experience and how we handle them. I'm happy you're taking a look from both sides. I don't agree with incels but I'm happy you've given some insight to their mindset.
For sure! It's not a good thing to imitate the media and take one side. You have learn as much as you can about a subject.
@@AZrakoon Well said brother
I'm not an incel or believe in any of those internet slangs lol this video was in my recommendation. But bruh u r cute. 😊
I appreciate that, thanks!
Women are not the problem, it's your self esteem. If you go on tinder your just gonna meet the wrong kind of women. What you want is genuine self improvement. Women go for "bad boys" because they want adventure, so become the kind of man that gives them a sense of adventure. Ince's are wrong, but I understand their frustrations. I have to tell it to you straight, you have to find things that give you solid sense of good self esteem. The more you focus on developing your life, the more likely you will attract a good woman. Have you ever considered therapy? What about deleting social media? When you talk to women, yeah bro your gonna get shut down a lot, but it's a skill you have to develop. The universe works in wonderful ways, so by becoming your authentic self, you will naturally attract the right woman at the right time. Women's lack of interest in you is a reflection of your lack of self esteem. Self esteem is everything bro. And pleaseee remeber, this is only a portion of women you are seeing online, and plenty of good women exist in the real world. Find yourself and step into your authentic self, then the right people come at the right time. Also, incels have killed people, so maybe find a different word to use in the future... Because I do not see you as an incel because they are usually hateful people. You can change your life bro! Nothing is ever that black or white. You deserve better, so see what you can do to improve your life and it will come. Do not allow yourself to slide down this rabbit hole...
Thanks for the advice
In the 1830's, guys like this told runaway slaves to return to the plantation and seek a good, kind master.
Thanks for your comment. I don't understand what you mean, can you please elaborate?
@@AZrakoon Runaway slaves = Incels, Master = Women.
@@AZrakoon He's trying to make a scathing remark against your person. Saying you're fat and look like someone who would have owned slaves. It's what they do whenever you bring up the fact that maybe the dating market or anything might be skewed against certain types of men. They don't like reality, so they just namecall and yell.
@@AZrakoon Just some generic "white people are racist" comment. You know how people are these days. 😎
Neither did I i think this golem is virtue signaling
If you’re a sub 5 man - just give up, honestly. Speaking from experience. I’m sub five (31, 5’8, ginger, ugly) and did ‘tha thing’ that all the comments say -- just self improve, go outside, leave your mums basement etc etc .. over Covid. Worked 60 hours p week across 3 jobs, earned 120k, paid off student loans, brought a house and car.. what has it resulted in? Sold everything, working 30 hours and living/ caring for my elderly parents. I’m so much happier. It was so much pain for zero reward. I’ll never forget one remark from a 50 something lady at work ‘all the girls will be lining up now you have a house’ - BS. It’s 2024 not 1975. Don’t forget, the elites, they were mostly alive in 1975… out of touch. Play the long game boys, we good.
Thats great, you're good person for taking care of your folks.
women arent evil, but they are very likely to become possessed. reference adam and eve
Nobody is completely a good person, but we have a choice to do the moral thing regardless of background
@@AZrakoon not really
A bit off topic but man, you’re getting close to that 1,000 sub milestone! I think I was like sub 150.
Thanks man! Likewise. I'm just glued to your videos. SNL should have you writing their skits.
we know where youre hiding vito, you dont fool us for a minute.
Wise guy, eh!
@@GrayTimeLord catching, not pitching...
This is a bad mindset to get in. When you start thinking about friendzones and living accordingly, you're going to be in it forever. You need to focus on you, becoming comfortable and confident with yourself to the point where you don't need a partner, and that's when you'll find one.
Dwelling on it like this makes you seem weak and unattractive, no matter how you spin it to yourself.
You're a smart, kind guy from what i can tell. Work on yourself and becoming comfortable in your own skin, then find hobbies and you'll be partenered in no time, with someone you actually want in your life.
Tell me about it, lol. I have found that rejection is blessing in disguise. 3 years ago I got fired from a job, then i got hired where I'm at now. It's the best job I've had. I have found that you can't isolate yourself, every time your friends ask you to hang out with them, to always take it.
@@AZrakoon Sounds like you are on the right path. Get rid of this pity or victim mindset, and I guarantee you will see success in whatever avenue you want. Best of luck friend
@@shanehiggins4983 It is inhuman not to have victim mindset when everything goes wrong and your life sucks.
@Alex-on8yu okay, I get that and I know it's tough. But if you truly want out of the issues you're facing, blaming others (which is outside of your control) isn't only not helpful, it's actively harmful.
Again, work on getting your confidence up and really, and I mean really, learn to love yourself.
You deserve it brother.
@@shanehiggins4983 I don't mind hurting myself if it ends up hurting others.
Femcel here and to me it's everyone
Women, are definitely struggling to find good men too.
@@AZrakoon 🙄
I am and was 100% never interested in superficial women. Where they are I anyway never go, neigther in real life (bars etc.) or online (tinder etc., never would use these rediculous apps except trying out but just for fun or interest, not with real expectations).
Although they are rare: I am waiting or looking for an intelligent and super, super relaxed woman. I consider myself as "in some parts quite intelligent" (in some parts not at all intelligent), so it would be totally do pey if I would contact superficial women.
Extra question for you: to one of my older comments, you answered among other thoughts, that the believe in god could help me, or so.
I am fully not religious, I don't believe in god (but, very important, I fully respect people who do), so believing in god cannot help me in any situation in my life. But there are other things that can help too. So, I simply wanted (for no specific reason) to know, how you think about people, that don't believe in god, like me, for many years / decades already not, so very "settled" and in peace with this attitude not to believe.
And all this means not for me, that I have no values, I live almost all the same values like the average Christian, like genarally respect, being kind and helpful to everybody, keeping many traditions high (like family things, if the family is peacefull), protecting animals and nature, etc. So what do you think about people like me who don't believe in god?
You don't need to answer to it, if that is too complicated for you, like "... depends on a lot...".
By the way, if not said yet, I am from Europe, so some few cultural things are anyway a bit different, what surrounds me in my daily life, always has been, compared to a life in the US. But many things, surely, are the same.
If you dont believe in God, that's fine. In my experience as many others, we find evidence that there is a creator that cares about us. I have prayed and many times I have found calmness and peace afterwards. Also, at times I was able to get the help I need in difficult situations.
@@AZrakoon 👍🕯☮
Its a hole that people fall in. I think alot of incels think they're alot better catch than they actually are and want to be with only the hottest girls. If they lowered the standard a bit they'd be alot happier.
Right! Sometimes some men get a super hot chick, because she can control him, and she wears the pants in the relationship. Once you find out she's a pain, you want to get rid of her.
Nah, we just don't want Chad/Tyrone's scraps. Most incels that are 5/10 would be fine with something close to that, but not if she's already been ran through and most of them have.
Most incels would accept someone on their level but that person does not exist for them. Women always date up.
Want to gym
I prefer going in walks instead of the gym. That's just me.
Ladies don’t know how hard it is to gain well compensated employment? Oh my. I think that mindset kind of explains some things.
Did I say that?
@@AZrakoon yeah. Clearly.
@@MarashcinoLarry Attractive girls can sell jarred farts.
Good video pirru sugoi ❤
Thanks
You aren’t a bad looking fella. Do BJJ for a year. Lose weight, gain muscle and self confidence. You will get a woman. You won’t have to do videos anymore complaining about how you can’t get a woman. It’s in your hands. Good luck.
I know we are all short on time, but when you're able to find it, you will know that these videos aren't about my current situation.
Most importantly avoid seed oils since that’s the main factor of making someone fat.
@@AZrakoonstop eating
Your advice is BS. Either you were born to be desired by females or not. There is no in between. I Did it, done it no dice.
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@@Griot-Guild bruh