I totally get Caitlyn, she probably doesn't want to spend the few free moments of her day arguing with Kenton about why she doesn't have more free time. Been there sis.
Yes! I think her and that guy were just incompatible, and he got really pissy about it too. I personally haven’t been the type to want to text anyone all day, at least not since I was like 19 or 20. Because of this I know i would be incompatible with someone who expects that. I hope she just cut her losses with him, imo.
@@danibaba7058 She was giving him time tho, she had night time to talk to him and all he would do was argue instead of understanding her situation. And the comment is refering to coming home from a 8 hour long job, taking care of a child and THE SPARE TIME she has left of the day, spending it arguing with someone that "doesn't believe" she has a really exhausting routine.
#10 He said he understood that she has a daughter...he clearly doesn't. Being a single mother with a full time job is SO time consuming and difficult. If someone took time at the end of their day when they were that worn out to talk to me, I'd be honored. I'm already so worn out with my job and a new puppy in the house, imagine a whole child. I'm glad this man never came near this kid, because he doesn't get the time and energy it takes to raise one.
I've had a full time job and a 2 year old. There is not enough time in the day. I felt like we spent the whole day hurrying up to do the next thing. He was such an ass.
For real. I'm a single mom of 2, about to 3 in a few weeks and I have NO TIME for anything after work. I'm so tired most of the time, it takes everything to just maintain my home and keep my kids fed and clean. Smh with that dude. He was so immature and selfish. She dodged a bullet.
Okay, but she still could have made time. When you put the children to bed, she could text or call him. She could have let the kid interact with him. Video call and be like, look this is a guy. Don't have to get in detail. But she can make time. She gets a break at work. She probably posts pics of her daughter without making time to text him.
@@Micfri300 you do realize you can have a personal and social life and still raise and have happy children right? Having a child doesn't mean you're just a parent and nothing else, at the end of the day you're still a person with feelings and needs and wants. Not to say it's always as easy to do things with having a child, but its completely doable. Are you supposed to never date again or have other children? Many people have blended families or find the right one AFTER the wrong one, and sometimes those people come with a mini-me 🤷🏾♀️
@@Micfri300 Not all kids. Sorry if that was your experience. My mom dated and never neglected me or choose her bf over me. I didn't even meet my stepdad for an entire year while my mom dated him. So yeah a woman/man with kid can put their kids first and still find someone.
@@Micfri300 She is allowed to have a life too, oh I am sorry that you obviously don't seem to understand what a single parent life is like. The guy just wasn't right for her, and there are plenty of men out there who will support, and understand a single mom, versus trying to get her to prioritize the guy over her own child.
@@Micfri300 people can have relationships and kids at the same time. You're telling me you've never known a single person with parents in relationships? Because I know many. My mom was a single mother of 3 and remarried when the oldest was just starting high school, and it worked because she still put us first and found a balance.
@@Micfri300 Yeah you really need to open you mind. I know many people that got in a relationship with someone with kids and it worked out, it's a challenge, but not impossible
"I've dated single moms and I've never had this problem" .... and you're not with them anymore, the relationship still failed, so whats???? Whats your point?????
That she could make time. It takes less than 30 seconds to text him back. She’s not interested & keeps making excuses instead of jus saying that. Don’t get me wrong I know adults don’t have all the time in the world, but it’s not hard to text back
@@onnie.6815 Glad to see that some women agree with what you just said. If it’s that hard to text back why not just call the guy? Or simply say “I’m not at the point in my life to where I want to date” simple.
I hate that Kenton made her question herself, when she said “maybe I didn’t put in enough time.” That’s ridiculous, she isn’t in the wrong. She even said she gave him time and that he spent it complaining that it wasn’t enough.
Seriously, I felt so terrible for her when she felt the need to say that. Poor woman was being manipulated so badly and started blaming herself when he was the one being a manchild throwing a tantrum. She already has one child, she doesn’t need to settle for a dude that’s going to be a second child. Not worth the stress.
thank god someone heard that bc she literally said that she did have time to text him back but he complained about it. And then the people commenting are not taking into the fact that everyone is not soo wrapped up in thier phone
When he petulantly said that he’d dated single moms before w/o issue, my first response was that maybe she’s a better or more involved mom. That gaslighting boy-man got me to think harshly about other women instead of keeping my ire locked on him!
Right?! I was getting so heated! First off, how is he doing to tell her she can’t possibly be to busy with a child?! I have a husband and we can barely find time😅 also, the fuck is he comparing?! What an idiot, she is WAAAAAY better off. She dodged that mistake for sure👍🏼
I laugh at this every time i see the Chelsea & Lennie segment. The fact that Lennie mentioned that he didn't have time or money to go see Chelsea, but had enough money to get a tat randomly is hilariously ironic.
@@newforestpixie5297 I'm not honestly sure what's wrong with the guy. I think he thought she was a catfish, or simply just not worth going out far to see.
Tats are significantly less expansive then a plane ticket. That’s like saying “Wow so you can buy Netflix but not 20 miles worth of gas to come see me everyday! Ugh!” Like those don’t correlate lol
The first guy gave me the heebies. All her reasons were valid. "I don't want to right now" is also a valid reason. To feel you _deserve_ any second of someone else's time as an adult is absurd... he's a manchild.
@YouCantHandle TheTruthI'm not ignorant enough to assume you're being any "typical" anything because I don't know you personally, so I know better than to try.. your guess was an okay effort, however I loathe everything to do with the third wave "feminism movement" and anyone who aligns themselves with it these days. I'm for the human race ✌🏽 I'm sorry if when you disagree with public opinions, you feel the need to lash out and try to make things strangely personal..
@@CenTexGarrett Right.I mean the tats are a bit much, but I would get over that REAL quick. Not only is she beautiful she seemed like a genuine and good person. She didn't fly off the handle and when it came down to it she chose her.
He's gaslighting, I'm a mom too and yes I do throw my phone away when I get home because I'm taking care of my kids. Same at work. He needs more then she can give.
That first guy was just...too much. This people have lives and don’t have to jump up every time you text/call. As long as they’re still making an effort then you have to understand
You make time for who you want to make time for. No way she just didn’t look at her phone EVER. If she didn’t have time how did she have time to contact the show?? Come on now.
@@inezroach3729 I mean she explained that she’d call him when she has time. I personally don’t like to start a convo or respond if I don’t have time to continue the whole conversation. But even if she didn’t respond move on. Why beat her over the head with it
lol... found out my ex had been when young... but never really interested in that part of her life... or any of that thing... i just wanted to let taht part of her life go away as she did not want to discuss it... understandable with her father and her being an only child... and the more i found out about her...
One thing no one ever seems to consider during the reveal/meet on these shows is the loss. The person who’s been catfished has just learned that someone they loved doesn’t even exist. It’s almost like they’ve died. They’re experiencing a great loss and then they’re suddenly expected to consider liking this brand new person in some circumstances.
Yeah but you're ignoring the fact that the "victims" never have a reasonable expectation of these situations being real. They are willfully ignorant - which doesn't make them full on victims. Just stupidity.
#10 was a single mom working full time supporting herself and her child. And then we get to #9 who lives with mom and is a con artist scamming for money 😂
No He is being neglected She has no time So animals & human nature do not take on another's offspring but you are special? Trying to reinvent the wheel? Get real!
@@jeffreyabbey9592 oh fuck off you big man baby. He wasn't being neglected. If anything he's trying to control her. Thank God your attitude is so repulsive that no woman has to ever be near you romantically lest they be controlled and talked down to as you continue to do in these comments. Like I truly truly hope you never procreate or get into a relationship
Duuuuuude he's the kind go murder someone's child cause he's not getting attention. I'm happy she didn't continue that cause I would NOT put my children around someone like that
Bow Wow, Katy Perry and now Chris Brown? People are so desperate that they don't use common sense. Celebrities literally live in the public eye, what reason would there be for someone who lives for the camera not to video chat you?
Kenton is more than likely an abuser. Even through long distances, he wants all of her time and control her every move. He's extremely manipulative. Sitting there putting all this blame on her to the point she starts to think his behavior is actually her fault, manipulative and one of the key signs of an emotional abuser. And if someone abuses you emotional their more likely to become a physical abuser. I think she is better off without him, and I really hope she left this idiot alone because she and her daughter deserve so much better than someone like this. And I applaud her for not putting a guy before caring for her daughter. Your children should always come first.
Nahh Kenton isn't. I work three jobs and still have enough time to text someone. I mean like he said he understand, but he ain't controlling her. Nor abusing, he just asking for her to text him. Hell don't be playing people.
Kenton is the WORST!! Terrible manipulator and selfish. As a single mom, I can say that when you have a busy day, come home to take care of children, and finally get them to bed... Sometimes your energy is SPENT and you just need what little time for yourself you can manage. If he were a decent man he would understand that and be empathetic toward her needs, but instead he chose to blame shift and guilt trip her. That dude is a walking red flag 🚩😣
I love Kamie, so nothing against her. But Max had an empathy and a directness that is missed. I love the sassy real ness of Kamie but when Max hugged Alyssa, I just think that’s so sweet.
Agreed and also he so fun to look at!! But at the same time she does bring a lot to the party.. I think her presence helps to balance the show.. not exactly sure how to word this but having someone other than a straight white male of that makes sense .. her being a woman and being like a real person kinda adds a comforting dynamic because lets face it a lot of people may not feel super comfortable with making themselves vulnerable to two straight white guys.. but I love that she’s strong and opinionated as well and doesn’t coddle those who play victim. I wish that they were all 3 involved in the episodes because I love her but I love him too ! And again .. he Is SOOOOOO HOT
@@1324Hairdoist I agree! I am team Kamie. I know lots of ppl have trouble moving on from Max (I mean.... me too clearly), but it’s not because I dislike Kamie. I think she has a lot of similar qualities but from a woman’s perspective.
Kenton is….a child. “I’ve dated single moms before and this his never happened” Yeah? And where are those single moms you dated now?? Out of your life??? Look inward.
I love how Max always put things. You can tell he is very mindful and thoughtful on how he phrases his words, for example with Miranda and Camryn he explained the reason why Gabi didn’t show up, I felt that was classy.
Lol yeah exactly but good for her for saying sorry and not saying “but this and but that” she said she was really sorry and left it at that in the end. But yeah I was like … lol bruh you could at least try to do a dog walking job or an at home customer service job or something idk
You don’t say that someone is psychotic then have the audacity to shag them for years knowing full well that they have feelings for you. She shouldn’t have catfished him, but he was the major asshole in this situation. She is now married to someone else and happy
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I agree. I’m a guy but I have friends who are single moms and know how much work they do every day. If a guy can’t respect that and understand then they don’t deserve the girl
If a guy complains that I didn't answer him when I was at work I would already be showing him the door. Complaining I don't prioritize him over my kid? That would be his last message to me for sure. Block his ass right then and there. If you wanna date someone who has a kid you have to be ready to be a parent. It doesn't mean you will be but you have to be prepared to understand you're not the most important thing.
To be really honest, If you’re so dumb... Bye girl. I mean she doesn't deserve this, nobody deserves something like this. But cooooomon. Chris Brown? I hope she learned something out of it, because if you’re so naive, the world will fuck you up!
I'm gay and things aren't the easiest where I live. But it doesn't justify catfishing straight people to trick them into relationships they would never even agree to be in. That's so messed up.
@@tailweaverweasel4286 yeah I know but that’s exactly why I ask why would you engage in that fetish without the other person’s consent, making, therefore, the relationship dangerous in essence.
@@PossibleBat Pickyness and pettiness. Some dudes and gals are WAYYYS too specific on people they want which drive them to this instead of accepting the choices that already exist. notice all the patterns.
It seems like self-torture to me. Unless the person is truly bisexual, you're ultimately setting yourself up for rejection. Even if the person *would* have been interested in you, the LYING would make them think twice about getting further involved. People who would accept you are also going to be offended and hurt by the fact that you didn't trust them enough to be honest with them. Lying really is such a bad plan- yet people continue to take this route.
#7 is so extremely difficult. Gabby was totally in the wrong for catfishing someone but for the first time on the show the problems didn't seem like they stemmed from the catfishing. She was 18 (idk how long the communications were but 17 or even 16 when they started talking maybe), no one knows about the relationship she was having with a woman, said she was 'best friends' with Miranda but then also that she was unsure of her sexual orientation, she was this tight ball of anxiety and confusion the entire time but when she was Miranda her eyes just lit up and the first thing she said was that she was beautiful... She's a teenager struggling with her sexual identity, hiding behind a male profile and her family won't let her see anyone because they 'didn't know about it'? Did they not know about her talking online or did they not know about the fact that she was talking to a woman? This is the only time I can give someone a break for not showing up. If you're scared to tell your parents that you're queer, it doesn't speak to a great relationship and trust in their support when they find out (honestly its always terrifying to come out even if you know you have support but she seemed extremely unsure). So I find it an actual possibility that she wasn't able to meet with Miranda (or the show), who knows what the consequences would be if she did go out.
Can we talk about how much of a baddie Chelsea is...she saw she was getting played and said nah. I'm dumping you first. Then Is civil enough to continue having a good day with him? Queen.
#8 LOL Nev hit the nail on the head when he said it sounded lik he liked the fact that it was a long distance relationship and he liked not having to do too much of the work that is required in a relationship 💀bless u nev 🙏
This guy (Lennie) actually was on my big fat fabulous life, and dated Whitney for a long time. But was known to disappear for long periods of time, and was known for being very sketchy!
When Max yelled "So, if you want her, convince her!!" I got chillssss ❤❤ I love Max. Miles seems to really care and seems like a really sweet guy who just cared a lot but made a real bad decision.
That guy who was giving Caitlyn a hard time about texting- she dodged a bullet. Having been in an abusive relationship that started that way, baby girl, you do NOT need that. Focus on your precious daughter and being the attentive mom she deserves and forget that loser. The right one will respect your time.
I think you are putting yourself in shoes you think you know but you don’t know this lady. You don’t know her history and you don’t know his. It is a TV show but still communication in any relationship is important and knowing when to break up with someone is just as important.
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It's bc Kenton doesn't really like how she looked in real life. If he did he wouldn't put so much pressure on her answering her phone while she's working. 🤣😎
@@Ladygeez42 Damn, I didn't even think about that. I was wondering why he was being so unreasonable but that could explain it. I felt so bad for her. 😔
@Eliza Grogan Exactly and the right person would understand that you're not going to be able to text or chat during your working hours. If they can't respect that you're at work and don't have time for that, they aren't the right person for you.
@Dimitra Kupraiou It does work like that. Caitlyn is working a full time job, and she is a single mother. It is a lot of work. You don’t have a ton of time to be on your phone. We are mothers, single mothers at that, our children mean more to us that any man ever will.
3 years later, and I still stand by "people without children have no idea what it is like" my wife is a stay at home mom, and I still to this day come home after work and give her a break, being a parent is a 24/7 responsibility.
i always randomly get hooked on these shows after they show up in my recommended, then i invest a ton of time into watching them for like 6 months and move on to the next.
I've been on a Dr Phil binge - I deserve judgment for that! I'm not sure if I'll move to Catfish because so many of these "lists" have the same people.
quick question: Does catfish tell these people to wear their least impressive, unflattering, pieces of clothing they own? like if youre talking ti someone most of the time for YEARS and you FINALLY get to see them for the first time in person.... wouldnt any normal person wear a nice outfit.... i see workout clothes and sweats or some weird bodysuit and strange mixtures of fabrics (ex. linen pants + fishnet crop top+ knitted sweater+ timberlands
Not that I accept or appropriate what catfishes do, but I can also understand from comments like this as to where their insecurities comes from and why people are afraid to be themselves. Just because their clothes are not 'stylish' and idolised doesn't mean they are updateable. It's a bit weird that through all this emotional trauma, people are more focused on the materialistic side.
@@deonnelson9780 Agreed but if he knew she is a single mother with a job then he should have patience and respect that! I don't usually immediately side with the ladies but she clearly had no idea how possessive and needy he actually was! He was being fake the whole time until he started having bitchfits every time she didn't respond to a text 3 seconds after sending!
#6 made me tear up yo. It's awful when you love someone and you're giving them a chance and they keep lying to you. He says he's willing to do anything, anything but tell the truth... The feels though.
It’s so messed up when teens get into these fake relationships with older people. It’s like they’ve talked to and shared intimate details with kids, and to realize that must feel so repulsive. Also, an 18 year old has lost nothing but free time whilst a 20+ year old has wasted so much time on relationships that could’ve been worthwhile.
Lol they put Karreuche in #5. But I really wish she was the co-host for #4. I would've loved to see her face, watching someone fall for a catfish who's pretending to be her ex.😂
Max and Nev are just so kind to the people they help. The way Max just hugged Alyssa was so sweet. I know it's reality TV but I truly think they're just great guys. I love Kamie too but I miss Max.
People siding with Kenton have toxic issues. A person should not have to risk losing their jobs, friends, time alone, driving safely and enjoying food just for a relationship. A man who thinks a woman is not committed enough because she is not texting him while she is driving or at work or when she is trying do her own thing is not a good person. They are selfish and want the woman to solely spend EVERY MINUTE ON THEM and not anything else. Yeah, relationships mean that women will end up losing their jobs, dropping out of school, starving themselves to only focus on their relationship because the relationship is more important than anything and everything else.
I keep being astounded by people going for years talking online without meeting. I have a general rule that if the online banter is good, you meet ASAP. You either find out if you're going to vibe in person or not. If someone local can't make time within a couple weeks, that's a sign to not waste anymore time.
She wasn't ready for a relationship.... She led him on.... She should apologize. If she was seriously interested in him, she could have and would have made time to communicate with him like an adult. Plenty of other single mothers do it every day.
🤔 she shouldn’t have shedded 1 single TEAR over him!! He’s completely SELFISH!! I also work a job where we’re NOT allowed to have our cell phones on the floor @ all!!
The first guy, honestly. She REALLY did dodge a bullet.. but his attitude was so bad, and he was so selfish. I hope she finds/ has found better, and I hope her and her child are doing well
@@jeffreyabbey9592 lmao, are you serious??? Are you really saying single mothers can't date? That's stupid, just because they have a child, doesn't mean they can't remarry, or find a boyfriend/girlfriend. That's like saying children aren't allowed to have step-parents, like, excuse me, what?
@@jeffreyabbey9592 That makes no sense. He knew she had a child yet still spoke to her. She dodged the bullet. He just seems very unappreciative of her time and he’s the type to get controlling over his partner. He’s very childish for that. Yet he “understood that she has a child to attend to” but still didn’t keep an open mind. Smh.
@@jeffreyabbey9592 Ahahaha, riiiight. Caitlyn should have had her phone on her 24/7 and be texting him while she is working, driving her car and spending time with her child. Or better yet spend more time texting him than with her child. WOW. I will feel sorry for the woman who has to give up her entire life just for a selfish and immature manchild like you.
The correct answer: I understand your circumstances and I respect the work you're putting in to maintaining yourself and your kid, I just feel like our communication is lacking and this is a long distance relationship, so we can't make that up being physically together. I would really like to work things out so that we're meeting each others needs The incorrect answer: *everything Kenton said*
Or he could’ve just accepted that he wants something else instead of blaming it on her. She couldn’t text at work and was a good mother by putting her phone away for her child and waited until night time when she could freely text and call. When you’re with your SO and your family you don’t sit there and have your phone out.. it’s distracting and some people just don’t use their phones all the time and that’s okay. And she wanted to talk to him when her attention could be directed to him and him only. And that’s respectable. I guess they just didn’t give each other what they needed and he was rude about it instead of being understanding of who she is and what she’s got going on.
Not the “Chris is in the house and Chris love you” dam Chris brown could message me on his own verified Instagram account and I still wouldn’t believe it was him 😭😭
IM SAYINGGGG💀💀💀 I loveeee me some Chris Breezy and I’d need pentagon level security type of confirmation that it’s him💀 people really are just delusional fr I feel bad cuz we all have our delulu moments😭 but CHRIS BROWN?????🤣🤣🤣🥲✌🏽 please
Shakinah broke my heart. You saw how pissed and just upset she was. She was so ready to let whoever walked out of that house a piece of her mind. But all she said was "you should have told me the truth". She couldn't hurt another hurt young girl
“I didn’t respect her decision of what her sexuality was...” so we’re gonna ignore how this statement, and her adding her to a gays/lesbian group telling ppl to hit her up, is super double standard??
@@EbonyJoneskuye you don’t bash a whole community for the actions of one individual. Say one straight person fucks up (happens all the time) we don’t then condemn every heterosexual…for being. This is a hateful statement and something that happens to many minority groups that those part of the majority do not understand.
Nev: so you're a con artist Nae: no that's not who I am I just did it because of my situation. Babe girl every con artist has a situation. They all do 8t because of their situation.
I was in a relationship with a guy for 3 years. I was head over heels for this person, it was a long distance relationship. We got on calls a lot, but never video calls. I never thought of it, because I trusted this person. I watched catfish a lot so I should have definitely seen the signs. We were approaching year 4, and they came out to me. They weren't even male; I had gotten catfished by a female. It tore me apart. As a gay male, I wasn't sure if I wanted to pursue a relationship with a woman, but at the same time I felt like I was still in love with that person. It messed me up, and it twisted my emotions completely. She began using my anxiety against me, saying things that the 'guy' I fell in love with would never say to me. I felt like that guy and this girl were two completely different people, but they weren't. She used the pictures of her brother and (I assume) had a friend or relative get on voice call with me so I would fall further into the trap of this person being male. This happened in early 2020, and getting through it was one of the hardest things for me. It's definitely changed little parts of my life and the way I act.
i love max.
"what about... getting a job?"
😂😂😂😂
That’s the one that got me😂🤣😭
She act like she never heard of a job before
Her: 💁🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
@@ReeshDolo “like if you like McDonald’s” tell you when I saw this full episode I really wanted to pop her for saying that 😂😭
I totally get Caitlyn, she probably doesn't want to spend the few free moments of her day arguing with Kenton about why she doesn't have more free time. Been there sis.
Yes! I think her and that guy were just incompatible, and he got really pissy about it too. I personally haven’t been the type to want to text anyone all day, at least not since I was like 19 or 20. Because of this I know i would be incompatible with someone who expects that. I hope she just cut her losses with him, imo.
then why date someone if you dont give them your time?🤨
@@danibaba7058 She was giving him time tho, she had night time to talk to him and all he would do was argue instead of understanding her situation.
And the comment is refering to coming home from a 8 hour long job, taking care of a child and THE SPARE TIME she has left of the day, spending it arguing with someone that "doesn't believe" she has a really exhausting routine.
@@danibaba7058 its not theirs to take
She shouldn’t have to apologize for being a good mother. I hope she finds someone more mature than that guy!
#10 He said he understood that she has a daughter...he clearly doesn't. Being a single mother with a full time job is SO time consuming and difficult. If someone took time at the end of their day when they were that worn out to talk to me, I'd be honored. I'm already so worn out with my job and a new puppy in the house, imagine a whole child. I'm glad this man never came near this kid, because he doesn't get the time and energy it takes to raise one.
THANK YOU!
I've had a full time job and a 2 year old. There is not enough time in the day. I felt like we spent the whole day hurrying up to do the next thing. He was such an ass.
For real. I'm a single mom of 2, about to 3 in a few weeks and I have NO TIME for anything after work. I'm so tired most of the time, it takes everything to just maintain my home and keep my kids fed and clean. Smh with that dude. He was so immature and selfish. She dodged a bullet.
Okay, but she still could have made time. When you put the children to bed, she could text or call him. She could have let the kid interact with him. Video call and be like, look this is a guy. Don't have to get in detail. But she can make time. She gets a break at work. She probably posts pics of her daughter without making time to text him.
@@poizenskies He wants her to speak on HIS terms when HE wants to. So he cant compromise with his time, but she has to??
16:33 telling someone you want to marry them and have kids and then face to face saying “oh, well I didn’t think we’d actually meet” is WILD.
never underestimate, to an abuser words are just hot air, they carry NO meaning.
A huge red flag if a man wants you to choose him over your OWN CHILD .
@@Micfri300 you do realize you can have a personal and social life and still raise and have happy children right? Having a child doesn't mean you're just a parent and nothing else, at the end of the day you're still a person with feelings and needs and wants. Not to say it's always as easy to do things with having a child, but its completely doable. Are you supposed to never date again or have other children? Many people have blended families or find the right one AFTER the wrong one, and sometimes those people come with a mini-me 🤷🏾♀️
@@Micfri300
Not all kids. Sorry if that was your experience. My mom dated and never neglected me or choose her bf over me. I didn't even meet my stepdad for an entire year while my mom dated him. So yeah a woman/man with kid can put their kids first and still find someone.
@@Micfri300 She is allowed to have a life too, oh I am sorry that you obviously don't seem to understand what a single parent life is like. The guy just wasn't right for her, and there are plenty of men out there who will support, and understand a single mom, versus trying to get her to prioritize the guy over her own child.
@@Micfri300 people can have relationships and kids at the same time. You're telling me you've never known a single person with parents in relationships? Because I know many. My mom was a single mother of 3 and remarried when the oldest was just starting high school, and it worked because she still put us first and found a balance.
@@Micfri300 Yeah you really need to open you mind. I know many people that got in a relationship with someone with kids and it worked out, it's a challenge, but not impossible
"I've dated single moms and I've never had this problem"
.... and you're not with them anymore, the relationship still failed, so whats???? Whats your point?????
That she could make time. It takes less than 30 seconds to text him back. She’s not interested & keeps making excuses instead of jus saying that. Don’t get me wrong I know adults don’t have all the time in the world, but it’s not hard to text back
@@onnie.6815 Glad to see that some women agree with what you just said. If it’s that hard to text back why not just call the guy? Or simply say “I’m not at the point in my life to where I want to date” simple.
@@onnie.6815 There’s bluetooths, Air pods, All type of ish people can use to multi task lol 😂
@@drelocs2878 exactly communication & comprehension is key. If you don’t give that you’re giving mixed signals
He doesn’t even see his child. He had no idea what it’s like to be a parent.
I hate that Kenton made her question herself, when she said “maybe I didn’t put in enough time.” That’s ridiculous, she isn’t in the wrong. She even said she gave him time and that he spent it complaining that it wasn’t enough.
Seriously, I felt so terrible for her when she felt the need to say that. Poor woman was being manipulated so badly and started blaming herself when he was the one being a manchild throwing a tantrum. She already has one child, she doesn’t need to settle for a dude that’s going to be a second child. Not worth the stress.
thank god someone heard that bc she literally said that she did have time to text him back but he complained about it. And then the people commenting are not taking into the fact that everyone is not soo wrapped up in thier phone
When he petulantly said that he’d dated single moms before w/o issue, my first response was that maybe she’s a better or more involved mom. That gaslighting boy-man got me to think harshly about other women instead of keeping my ire locked on him!
Same
Right?! I was getting so heated! First off, how is he doing to tell her she can’t possibly be to busy with a child?! I have a husband and we can barely find time😅 also, the fuck is he comparing?! What an idiot, she is WAAAAAY better off. She dodged that mistake for sure👍🏼
I laugh at this every time i see the Chelsea & Lennie segment. The fact that Lennie mentioned that he didn't have time or money to go see Chelsea, but had enough money to get a tat randomly is hilariously ironic.
She’s cute as heck . i haven’t listened to the story but if he let her down he must be even stupider than me 🐢👍
@@newforestpixie5297 I'm not honestly sure what's wrong with the guy. I think he thought she was a catfish, or simply just not worth going out far to see.
Whoa, that one guy has a giant beard. Covers up his face.
LOL I never watched this episode but I was like, “Why does Lennie look familar” 😂
Tats are significantly less expansive then a plane ticket. That’s like saying “Wow so you can buy Netflix but not 20 miles worth of gas to come see me everyday! Ugh!” Like those don’t correlate lol
Nae: it’s just hard to explain I guess,,
Max: well we’re here so take a deep breath and explain 💀💀💀
That took me out
😂😂😂
Max is ruthless I love it haahahha
🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂
The first guy gave me the heebies.
All her reasons were valid. "I don't want to right now" is also a valid reason.
To feel you _deserve_ any second of someone else's time as an adult is absurd... he's a manchild.
YES!!! This! absolutely this!
Kat Rabbit; Indeed! He is a manchild! He was having a full on temper tantrum.
He was an abusive piece of crap and im glad she didn't go with him
@YouCantHandle TheTruthI'm not ignorant enough to assume you're being any "typical" anything because I don't know you personally, so I know better than to try..
your guess was an okay effort, however I loathe everything to do with the third wave "feminism movement" and anyone who aligns themselves with it these days. I'm for the human race ✌🏽
I'm sorry if when you disagree with public opinions, you feel the need to lash out and try to make things strangely personal..
@YouCantHandle TheTruth u behaved like a "child" on that epizode
Max’s facial expressions with forever be iconic😌
We need Max's reaction faces on a tshirt
Just like his PC beta shirts
@@cookiemonster1669 👏 yes. Lmk when you set up shop
Man I miss him.
@@cookiemonster1669 I would buy 💗
Chelsea and Lennie - I love that she just ended it cos he clearly wasn’t interested in *making* something happen.
She’s fine too
@@CenTexGarrett Right.I mean the tats are a bit much, but I would get over that REAL quick. Not only is she beautiful she seemed like a genuine and good person. She didn't fly off the handle and when it came down to it she chose her.
Yeah who wants a girl like that, she is ready for onlyfans yuck
Nothing worst than someone that keeps you close, yet far enough so they never have to commit, so they can quit anytime. She deserve better.
I love her badassery and grace 🥰
Nev forever walking into someone house lol
Lmao I know. On number 4 I was like what the hell nev lolol
Which is a very dumb and dangerous thing to do since nobody ever knows if someone may have a weapon and is ready to attack .
@@hm6134 MTV check before i Guess.
@@hm6134 definitetly not mtv knows this is gonna happen cmon it's all part of the show
@@hm6134 lol the staff goes to these ppls house beforehand to mic them up/set up chairs and lighting in their house if they go in
He's gaslighting, I'm a mom too and yes I do throw my phone away when I get home because I'm taking care of my kids. Same at work. He needs more then she can give.
He needs to stop being such a selfish prick! For him its always "me, me, me, me, me!" Men like that disgust me!
How is that gaslighting though?
and i praise u for that. i had a mom who did the exact opposite, neglect, neglect, neglect. hope u and ur kids live a beautiful happy life ♥️
Yeah he needs a therapist 💀
@@Անի-ո3մ fr😭
That first guy was just...too much. This people have lives and don’t have to jump up every time you text/call. As long as they’re still making an effort then you have to understand
Exactly!
You make time for who you want to make time for. No way she just didn’t look at her phone EVER. If she didn’t have time how did she have time to contact the show?? Come on now.
@@inezroach3729 I mean she explained that she’d call him when she has time. I personally don’t like to start a convo or respond if I don’t have time to continue the whole conversation. But even if she didn’t respond move on. Why beat her over the head with it
@@Micfri300 then don’t enter a relationship with a single parent 🤷🏾♀️
@@Micfri300 good then you won’t have to worry about this problem
"You could be attracted to a hooker but that don't mean you love her." I spit my whole beverage out LOL
lol... found out my ex had been when young... but never really interested in that part of her life... or any of that thing... i just wanted to let taht part of her life go away as she did not want to discuss it... understandable with her father and her being an only child... and the more i found out about her...
@@albertbresca8904the fbi couldn’t have gotten this information outta me.
he's not wrong tho 🤣🤣
@@itsjustthaya AT ALL lol
One thing no one ever seems to consider during the reveal/meet on these shows is the loss. The person who’s been catfished has just learned that someone they loved doesn’t even exist. It’s almost like they’ve died. They’re experiencing a great loss and then they’re suddenly expected to consider liking this brand new person in some circumstances.
Great point!
Yep. They literally had someone in their life that never existed. It's unfathomable
Agree. Even with people I've known if they turned out to be different to what I thought I've almost grieved over it.
Yeah but you're ignoring the fact that the "victims" never have a reasonable expectation of these situations being real.
They are willfully ignorant - which doesn't make them full on victims. Just stupidity.
This brand new person who manipulated, lied to and betrayed them
Max: What about getting a job?
Sydney/Nae: 🤷🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️
Scamming was her job
Slap in the face of all the single mothers out there busting their butts, multiple jobs. I can't with her
exactly i was like whatttt
I liked when she was going on and on about struggling, he said, but you live with your mom... so your basic needs are met.
#10 was a single mom working full time supporting herself and her child. And then we get to #9 who lives with mom and is a con artist scamming for money 😂
Right she never ever thought of that!! Yikes 😬😲😂 sheesh..
Kenton is seriously jealous of a 2 year old? He's the type of guy who goes into her work and gets mad when she talks to male customers.
Omg for real
I had a boyfriend like this
No
He is being neglected
She has no time
So animals & human nature do not take on another's offspring but you are special?
Trying to reinvent the wheel?
Get real!
@@jeffreyabbey9592 oh fuck off you big man baby.
He wasn't being neglected. If anything he's trying to control her.
Thank God your attitude is so repulsive that no woman has to ever be near you romantically lest they be controlled and talked down to as you continue to do in these comments.
Like I truly truly hope you never procreate or get into a relationship
Duuuuuude he's the kind go murder someone's child cause he's not getting attention. I'm happy she didn't continue that cause I would NOT put my children around someone like that
I love how Max is so caring and goes after the girls and gives them a hug.. great supportive father figure
no
@@kawaiimagicalex5170 Lol, what a great counterpoint with solid reasoning.
@@7CZerohe literally has a past assault
That girl really though she was talking to Chris Brown and was going to go on tour with him. I hate to see her pain but really?
Exactly plus she not even Chris Brown type 😑🤔 not to be mean
LMFAO i swear i don’t mean to be rude but if she really thought that was chris brown it’s just natural selection at this point 😂
😂some people live in a warped reality
that shit was so fuckin funny
Bow Wow, Katy Perry and now Chris Brown? People are so desperate that they don't use common sense. Celebrities literally live in the public eye, what reason would there be for someone who lives for the camera not to video chat you?
Man we need a special with Max, Nev and Kamie.
Edit: Dreams really do come true 🙌🏾
Immediately
What happened to max?
plot twist-Max is the catfish just to surprise Nev and Kamie
Omg ikkrr
YESSSS
"Yeah but it's you...." probably one of the biggest quotes from Catfish ever lol
@@msangele6318 and “you got me there”
The way he says it too lol
“ you should never have called me a fat ass Kelly price “
She deserved what she got, but also he seems like a jerk in general.
Kenton is more than likely an abuser. Even through long distances, he wants all of her time and control her every move. He's extremely manipulative. Sitting there putting all this blame on her to the point she starts to think his behavior is actually her fault, manipulative and one of the key signs of an emotional abuser. And if someone abuses you emotional their more likely to become a physical abuser. I think she is better off without him, and I really hope she left this idiot alone because she and her daughter deserve so much better than someone like this. And I applaud her for not putting a guy before caring for her daughter. Your children should always come first.
Nahh Kenton isn't. I work three jobs and still have enough time to text someone. I mean like he said he understand, but he ain't controlling her. Nor abusing, he just asking for her to text him. Hell don't be playing people.
Kenton is the WORST!! Terrible manipulator and selfish. As a single mom, I can say that when you have a busy day, come home to take care of children, and finally get them to bed... Sometimes your energy is SPENT and you just need what little time for yourself you can manage. If he were a decent man he would understand that and be empathetic toward her needs, but instead he chose to blame shift and guilt trip her. That dude is a walking red flag 🚩😣
@@larue6778 you're a walking red flag
@@itsyaboi1846You're more of a walking red flag 💀
@@Mel_101V sooo being respectful, treating women like a queen makes me a walking red flag.
so a green flag is abusing women then?
I love Kamie, so nothing against her. But Max had an empathy and a directness that is missed. I love the sassy real ness of Kamie but when Max hugged Alyssa, I just think that’s so sweet.
Agreed and also he so fun to look at!! But at the same time she does bring a lot to the party.. I think her presence helps to balance the show.. not exactly sure how to word this but having someone other than a straight white male of that makes sense .. her being a woman and being like a real person kinda adds a comforting dynamic because lets face it a lot of people may not feel super comfortable with making themselves vulnerable to two straight white guys.. but I love that she’s strong and opinionated as well and doesn’t coddle those who play victim. I wish that they were all 3 involved in the episodes because I love her but I love him too ! And again .. he Is SOOOOOO HOT
Nev also brings a lot of empathy I think
I'm not fond of the new lineup
@@1324Hairdoist I agree! I am team Kamie. I know lots of ppl have trouble moving on from Max (I mean.... me too clearly), but it’s not because I dislike Kamie. I think she has a lot of similar qualities but from a woman’s perspective.
@@preciouse oh for sure! Nev is the GOAT on here! So many times I’m like: “ he’s fr fr walking in that creepy door”!!
Kenton is….a child. “I’ve dated single moms before and this his never happened”
Yeah? And where are those single moms you dated now?? Out of your life??? Look inward.
Underrated comment 😂
He looked like a king baby, an unfun thang
Probably in shallow graves
@@RawOlympiawould probably smack the nipple out of a newborns mouth and say "that's MY milk!!"
@@Raven-nx8dr
Finally a whole hour of episodes I haven’t seen😭😭😭🖤🖤it’s a miracle
fr
Honestly 😭 we need more of these ASAP
how😭
Felt the same!
My exact thoughts when the video started 🥳🥳
I love how Max always put things. You can tell he is very mindful and thoughtful on how he phrases his words, for example with Miranda and Camryn he explained the reason why Gabi didn’t show up, I felt that was classy.
"So for the most part your basic needs are met?" "Yes but because of me, not nobody else." "But do you work for money?" "No". Briliant.
That whole statement is a contradiction and I have so many questions about it :|
Lol yeah exactly but good for her for saying sorry and not saying “but this and but that” she said she was really sorry and left it at that in the end. But yeah I was like … lol bruh you could at least try to do a dog walking job or an at home customer service job or something idk
your beautiful. msg me. :)
Lmaoo ‘briliant’
This girl makes me angry. Claims her basic needs are met with no ones help but she doesn't work? Honey that's not how reality works
"but didn't you fall in love with mckenna who happens to be me?"
"yeah but its *you* "
i felt that one through the screen
It hurt me.
Yeah but he knew her from high school. They had history.
Nah he knows she's a horrible person skin deep. No one caring does that stuff.
You don’t say that someone is psychotic then have the audacity to shag them for years knowing full well that they have feelings for you. She shouldn’t have catfished him, but he was the major asshole in this situation. She is now married to someone else and happy
Ditto! That hurt for real lol
“I didn’t respect her decision of what her sexuality was” I’m sorry girl what
Time track? Found It and WTF?!
@@kmitt right! wth😭
@@kmitt time code??
@@HinataHyuga-hw2po49:25 :)
I’m a lesbian and hearing that had me like “WHAT?!?!”😭
Songs used.
10:59 : Only humans - Cold Showers
19:31 : Let you off the Hook - Jacob Jeffries
30:13 : Weight - Crywolf
39:15 : Writing on the wall - Bob Moses
45:30 : Bound to you (Kaidro Remix) - Jocelyn Alice
51:51 : Almost Over -Aquilo
57:40 : Maybe I will learn - Rhys
Wish I saw this before I tried to endlessly Shazam that short snippet of Almost Over with almost no success lmao, thanks!
Thx!!
Thank youuu
Old girl had to know that Chris Brown wasnt going to come out of that house!😂🤣
I'm sayin. That yellow paneling alone is enough of a hint.
Let alone that *Neighborhood* like come on now!
lol
@@paragon92 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
LMAOOOO 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
ladies and gents, stay away from dudes like kenton.
I agree. I’m a guy but I have friends who are single moms and know how much work they do every day. If a guy can’t respect that and understand then they don’t deserve the girl
Whew exactly girl
If a guy complains that I didn't answer him when I was at work I would already be showing him the door. Complaining I don't prioritize him over my kid? That would be his last message to me for sure. Block his ass right then and there. If you wanna date someone who has a kid you have to be ready to be a parent. It doesn't mean you will be but you have to be prepared to understand you're not the most important thing.
For real!
damn right dude, stay far away from those types of guys.
HOW DID SHE THINK SHE WAS TALKING TO CHRIS BROWNNNN....WHAT???
@@trashystay3020 SMH...I wish it was that easy 😣
Exactly like really? CBrown, gurl bye.
They should have let Kerruche be with Nev on that one 😂
@@PerryGyalTyngz fr I wanna see how she would have responded 😂
To be really honest, If you’re so dumb... Bye girl. I mean she doesn't deserve this, nobody deserves something like this. But cooooomon. Chris Brown? I hope she learned something out of it, because if you’re so naive, the world will fuck you up!
Do people not realize how much lying to someone that you supposedly love breaks others down
And also themselves! I can’t even think about that part, must be so tiring lying all the time 😮
Good for Caitlyn #10 for putting her daughter first. So proud of you, mum!!👍
she is manipulated
She should have done that from the start. Not date someone and want the person to pursue you but you don't have time to reciprocate.
@@marcellowheeler88that would mean she put her daughter first then fam lol
hell yea that guy was a brat like if he loved her so bad how about step in and be a father to her daughter like you’d spend all day together
Too bad she wasn't straight forward and used a baby as an excuse..he dodged a bullet. Hope he found a better more mature woman.
"It was just a really rough time for me" such a classic catfish line, as if having a rough time is supposed to excuse catfishing someone 😂😂😂
Sorry I was having an extended manic episode
Right, most people go get drunk or eat too much ice cream.
Honestly, he could be a little autistic.
I'm gay and things aren't the easiest where I live. But it doesn't justify catfishing straight people to trick them into relationships they would never even agree to be in. That's so messed up.
And also why would you even want to date someone who you KNOW is not into you?
@@PossibleBat It's definitely a fetish kind of thing 💀
@@tailweaverweasel4286 yeah I know but that’s exactly why I ask why would you engage in that fetish without the other person’s consent, making, therefore, the relationship dangerous in essence.
@@PossibleBat Pickyness and pettiness. Some dudes and gals are WAYYYS too specific on people they want which drive them to this instead of accepting the choices that already exist. notice all the patterns.
It seems like self-torture to me. Unless the person is truly bisexual, you're ultimately setting yourself up for rejection. Even if the person *would* have been interested in you, the LYING would make them think twice about getting further involved. People who would accept you are also going to be offended and hurt by the fact that you didn't trust them enough to be honest with them. Lying really is such a bad plan- yet people continue to take this route.
#7 is so extremely difficult. Gabby was totally in the wrong for catfishing someone but for the first time on the show the problems didn't seem like they stemmed from the catfishing. She was 18 (idk how long the communications were but 17 or even 16 when they started talking maybe), no one knows about the relationship she was having with a woman, said she was 'best friends' with Miranda but then also that she was unsure of her sexual orientation, she was this tight ball of anxiety and confusion the entire time but when she was Miranda her eyes just lit up and the first thing she said was that she was beautiful... She's a teenager struggling with her sexual identity, hiding behind a male profile and her family won't let her see anyone because they 'didn't know about it'? Did they not know about her talking online or did they not know about the fact that she was talking to a woman? This is the only time I can give someone a break for not showing up. If you're scared to tell your parents that you're queer, it doesn't speak to a great relationship and trust in their support when they find out (honestly its always terrifying to come out even if you know you have support but she seemed extremely unsure). So I find it an actual possibility that she wasn't able to meet with Miranda (or the show), who knows what the consequences would be if she did go out.
Mic drop
Well u invested far too much time in that post
Can we talk about how much of a baddie Chelsea is...she saw she was getting played and said nah. I'm dumping you first. Then Is civil enough to continue having a good day with him? Queen.
If anything, were I him, I'd be thinking I was being catfished by HER! She's so out of his league it's just crazy!!
@@jpeopolis she is pretty hideous.
@@SosukeAizen748 and yet still far prettier than you'll ever be
@@alexandralise7121 well I'm not a woman so yeah probably lmao.
@@jpeopolis I knoooow! She is such a babe!
I meannnnnn if I’m about to meet my catfish or my internet crush, I’m NOT coming on TV looking any kind of way. Why do they do that???
This !🤣🤣
because it's scripted :)
I saw something once that they cant have people wearing labels and stuff and they cover them up if they do
@@manifesteraddams8068 ok see that makes a little more sense. But there’s still no excuse. And hair be looking a mess... whew.
Forreal lmaoo girl from #9 look like she cut her own hair and wearing her daughters romper 🤣
#8 LOL Nev hit the nail on the head when he said it sounded lik he liked the fact that it was a long distance relationship and he liked not having to do too much of the work that is required in a relationship 💀bless u nev 🙏
This guy (Lennie) actually was on my big fat fabulous life, and dated Whitney for a long time. But was known to disappear for long periods of time, and was known for being very sketchy!
When Max yelled "So, if you want her, convince her!!" I got chillssss ❤❤ I love Max. Miles seems to really care and seems like a really sweet guy who just cared a lot but made a real bad decision.
That guy who was giving Caitlyn a hard time about texting- she dodged a bullet. Having been in an abusive relationship that started that way, baby girl, you do NOT need that. Focus on your precious daughter and being the attentive mom she deserves and forget that loser. The right one will respect your time.
Yes he was seriously bad news. I've been married to a violent man and this guy got all my senses going. Worrying for her child too.
I think you are putting yourself in shoes you think you know but you don’t know this lady. You don’t know her history and you don’t know his. It is a TV show but still communication in any relationship is important and knowing when to break up with someone is just as important.
@@Shastasnow Right. Hella projection happening here!
We need an update for Caitlyn. I hope she's doing well.
Right and I really think he was just looking for a way out of being involved with her.
#8 I can't afford to see you but lemme drop some money on this random unplanned tattoo.
Lennie also is Whitney from my fat fabulous life ex
😂😂😂😂😂
Mood
She probably paid for it, and even if she didn’t there’s no way that tattoo was more than $100. I’d expect to pay $80 for line work like that.
@@Hannah-zw9ow you clearly don’t understand how expensive tattoos are of that size...
Me on my lunch break: *sees catfish compilation*
Inner voice: Don't click on it. You know you have seen all these videos already
Inner second voice: You never know, I might see something new
Inner voice: You have been repeating the same videos for the last 6 months!
Me: *click*
Don't worry, it's not only you falling for the Catfish over and over again.
There were some new ones in this video though!
Same but at work when no customers are in the store (I'm allowed to do it I have permission)
I swear sometimes I really do be catching new clips sometimes. I love that MTV posts clips of the new episodes 🤪🤭
That first girl dodged a bullet! Continue putting your child and your job first! Any man who deserves you will respect and support that.
Kenton was being hard on Caitlyn. She doesn't deserve to be treated that way.
It's bc Kenton doesn't really like how she looked in real life. If he did he wouldn't put so much pressure on her answering her phone while she's working. 🤣😎
I agree
@@Ladygeez42 Damn, I didn't even think about that. I was wondering why he was being so unreasonable but that could explain it. I felt so bad for her. 😔
@Eliza Grogan I think people make time for what they really want. She just wasn't into him. This is ok but just say that was his point
@Eliza Grogan Exactly and the right person would understand that you're not going to be able to text or chat during your working hours. If they can't respect that you're at work and don't have time for that, they aren't the right person for you.
nev with a beard really caught me off guard...
It made him look mean!
literally me too
Caitlyn, you're better off without this baby man. I'm glad he was on tv. BEWARE NOT MUCH OF A MAN LOOKING FOR 24/7 ATTENTION.
@Souxsie Darling single moms shouldnt date lol
@@moodyspoint7377 you don’t get a say in what single moms should or shouldn’t do
Caitlyn just needs to be honest and say she's not interested lmao he did the right thing calling her out on her bs.
@Souxsie Darling Right! He was having a full on temper tantrum!
@Dimitra Kupraiou It does work like that. Caitlyn is working a full time job, and she is a single mother. It is a lot of work. You don’t have a ton of time to be on your phone. We are mothers, single mothers at that, our children mean more to us that any man ever will.
"Have you considered getting a job?"
The look on her face spells that she would rather go to Hell than get a job.
and no self respecting employer would ever give her a job after seeing this....
Ok but I adore Nev so much. He’s such a mood, and I love how he defends the people he helps, and comforts them when they’re upset, what a sweet guy 🥺
Right ! Him and Max are both so sweet !!
He really is sweet!
@@Profound_LoveI love me some Max! Max always gets on the Catfish's ass😂😂😂
Its the "you know DAMN well that wasn't Chris Brown " for me
LMFAOO
“Like if you like McDonalds. . .” I don’t know why that always make me laugh so much. 😂😂
Yo I screamed 😭😭🤣
timestamp please
@@iamsofiaa_ Around the 5:10 part!
Double big mac!
Same. That was...bizarre
3 years later, and I still stand by "people without children have no idea what it is like" my wife is a stay at home mom, and I still to this day come home after work and give her a break, being a parent is a 24/7 responsibility.
2nd girl Nae the most honest person on this damn show. “I forgot I was me for a second” that line is the epitome of this whole show
yeah, that stood out
yes, insightful
And she’s young
I thought so too. Actually, it made her more human.
i always randomly get hooked on these shows after they show up in my recommended, then i invest a ton of time into watching them for like 6 months and move on to the next.
I've just migrated from world's strictest parents to catfish... wonder what's next
I’m the same way. Lol xo
Me too.
I've been on a Dr Phil binge - I deserve judgment for that!
I'm not sure if I'll move to Catfish because so many of these "lists" have the same people.
idiots in cars to shark tank to catfish pipeline
quick question: Does catfish tell these people to wear their least impressive, unflattering, pieces of clothing they own? like if youre talking ti someone most of the time for YEARS and you FINALLY get to see them for the first time in person.... wouldnt any normal person wear a nice outfit.... i see workout clothes and sweats or some weird bodysuit and strange mixtures of fabrics (ex. linen pants + fishnet crop top+ knitted sweater+ timberlands
if you're ugly irl i dont think a suit would fix that
I think the same exact thing 😂😂😂😂
@@pvssology some people may now have the funds, yes. But I know they at least have to have a nice shirt and pants
This the reason they been single for YEARS
Not that I accept or appropriate what catfishes do, but I can also understand from comments like this as to where their insecurities comes from and why people are afraid to be themselves. Just because their clothes are not 'stylish' and idolised doesn't mean they are updateable. It's a bit weird that through all this emotional trauma, people are more focused on the materialistic side.
I only just clicked on these Catfish compilations yesterday and never in my life have I had so many questions. These people are so bizarre.
Same, and I'm hooked. It's fascinating.
That first guy was a selfish little boy, the young lady definitely dodged a world of misery there!!!!!!
They both was in the wrong it's probably not a good idea to talk to a guy knowing you're not going to have enough time for him.
@@deonnelson9780 Agreed but if he knew she is a single mother with a job then he should have patience and respect that! I don't usually immediately side with the ladies but she clearly had no idea how possessive and needy he actually was! He was being fake the whole time until he started having bitchfits every time she didn't respond to a text 3 seconds after sending!
Controlling vibes as well
@@deonnelson9780 she wasn’t in the wrong honestly
@@ajaxjohnson7999 He didnt give her the benefit of doubt I feel
#6 made me tear up yo.
It's awful when you love someone and you're giving them a chance and they keep lying to you. He says he's willing to do anything, anything but tell the truth...
The feels though.
What if he was though
Yeah why the assumption that he’s lying. I mean fake profiles do exist
He ended up admitting they were him
my ex in a nutshell
they feared i would get angry with them so their solution was to make me temporarily happy with lies
@@kilertyuw damn I really wanted to believe he didn't make those profiles
was anyone else terrified by the first guy’s body language? Especially that neck thing???
Yeah hes definitely giving off narcissist domestic abuser vibes.
@@HB-ey2dk yessssss
He seems like a narcissistic sociopath. She dodged a major bullet 😬
@@HB-ey2dk Yes Controlling /Jealousy was coming next as this relationship progressed
No because he is playing second fiddle to another man's child
It's against human nature
Men have egos live with it!
6:31 . Everybody needs a Max in their life. Watching this a few years later, I have a whole new appreciation for him.
y’all ever feel like you’re watching a horror movie when you’re waiting for them to come out of their house?....
Yess cause they got that suspenseful music building up too.
Lol!
Honestly, the best thing to binge watch is 3 hour catfish compilations
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It’s so messed up when teens get into these fake relationships with older people. It’s like they’ve talked to and shared intimate details with kids, and to realize that must feel so repulsive. Also, an 18 year old has lost nothing but free time whilst a 20+ year old has wasted so much time on relationships that could’ve been worthwhile.
And didn't they say it lasted 3 years? That means she was 15 when she started this 🤢
True story
When Shakinah started crying and said she's tired of being lied to, tired of being hurt, it kinda broke my heart a little
I feel Tyler's struggle with phone vs texting. I'm betting he struggles with some anxiety.
Bless him
Yes it's called phone anxiety or he could be insecure about his voice
I feel him about talking on the phone but he is legit lying about the profiles.
I didn’t see that episode... does anyone know if maybe he came cleans about the profiles linked to his number?
Same
Lol they put Karreuche in #5. But I really wish she was the co-host for #4. I would've loved to see her face, watching someone fall for a catfish who's pretending to be her ex.😂
she has a restraining order against him so
Max and Nev are just so kind to the people they help. The way Max just hugged Alyssa was so sweet. I know it's reality TV but I truly think they're just great guys. I love Kamie too but I miss Max.
move on already
Watch the BEST OF NEV AND KAMIE video that they uploaded recently 13 days ago Max is going to come back at least for one episode.
@@___asiashut up loser.
Of course he's sympathetic, the whole reason he started the show, is because he had it happen to him before
I know right I love max! He was a " you can't fool me with your bullshit "dude in his little dorky way lol love kamie though too
Kenton is a future "Real Crime" segment of some show where relationships go lethal. Run & don't look back with this Cat.
Nev just be walking in people house yelling, "hello" HAHA
The first guys is abusive
And manipulative.
Agree
Yeah he's a freak and a manchild
A fuckin baby
He's abusive and controlling .... RED FLAGS all over him.
People siding with Kenton have toxic issues. A person should not have to risk losing their jobs, friends, time alone, driving safely and enjoying food just for a relationship. A man who thinks a woman is not committed enough because she is not texting him while she is driving or at work or when she is trying do her own thing is not a good person. They are selfish and want the woman to solely spend EVERY MINUTE ON THEM and not anything else. Yeah, relationships mean that women will end up losing their jobs, dropping out of school, starving themselves to only focus on their relationship because the relationship is more important than anything and everything else.
Brendan: "yeah but it's YOU!"
😂😂😂😂
My mood like all the time!
I keep being astounded by people going for years talking online without meeting. I have a general rule that if the online banter is good, you meet ASAP. You either find out if you're going to vibe in person or not. If someone local can't make time within a couple weeks, that's a sign to not waste anymore time.
Lennie is too busy to FaceTime but isn’t too busy to meet up for MTV💀
Who exactly is Lennie again?
@@scarletpogonowski #8
Same with the lady number 10
I thought the same thing. Also how did you bring the wrong sketch book?
@@scarletpogonowski he's from my big fabulous life ...another reality show ..he was dating whitney thore
y’all see how kenton gaslit her so much that SHE apologized ?!
She wasn't ready for a relationship.... She led him on.... She should apologize. If she was seriously interested in him, she could have and would have made time to communicate with him like an adult. Plenty of other single mothers do it every day.
#9 Get a job baby 💋 most of us are struggling.
@@damarcushester8517 Thank you 😊
for realll, the way she made it seem was like it was the other guys fault that she was the one with the kid
She better go get a fans only page 😂😂
@@MrsBeBe-de1xx 🤣 🤣 smh!
@@MrsBeBe-de1xx lmaoooo only fans*
"We got a walker" 😂😂
Lol bruh!!! only the real ones know
the first guy had some AUDACITY. he needs to relax and watch his tone
He sounded like a narcissistic controlling a-hole.. I'm glad she moved on. He seemed hella toxic.
I just kept yelling at my phone waiting for Max to lost his shit, but alas, he did not.
@@erinblais7437 cause he wasn't wrong
No he doesn't
She should go date someone with kids
Not a single man with no kids
It's unfair to both of them
You don't understand?
@@jeffreyabbey9592 he made his choice
"I've dated single moms before and this is the first time I've had this problem."
The problem of them taking care of their kids?!
the problem of not being able to make time to talk.
🤔 she shouldn’t have shedded 1 single TEAR over him!! He’s completely SELFISH!! I also work a job where we’re NOT allowed to have our cell phones on the floor @ all!!
@@JoeDirtisawsome she did make time to talk. All the time. She called him every night.
@@teriewilliams8614 but if she knew she wouldn't have time for he why did she lead him on instead of prioritizing her responsibilities
@@carriewhitee it never said that
The first guy, honestly. She REALLY did dodge a bullet.. but his attitude was so bad, and he was so selfish. I hope she finds/ has found better, and I hope her and her child are doing well
He dodged a bullet
She has a child by another man and wants to date seriously? That make sense?
Get real
@@jeffreyabbey9592 lmao, are you serious??? Are you really saying single mothers can't date?
That's stupid, just because they have a child, doesn't mean they can't remarry, or find a boyfriend/girlfriend.
That's like saying children aren't allowed to have step-parents, like, excuse me, what?
He’s got that “Going Postal” look down.
@@jeffreyabbey9592 That makes no sense. He knew she had a child yet still spoke to her. She dodged the bullet. He just seems very unappreciative of her time and he’s the type to get controlling over his partner. He’s very childish for that. Yet he “understood that she has a child to attend to” but still didn’t keep an open mind. Smh.
@@jeffreyabbey9592 Ahahaha, riiiight. Caitlyn should have had her phone on her 24/7 and be texting him while she is working, driving her car and spending time with her child. Or better yet spend more time texting him than with her child. WOW. I will feel sorry for the woman who has to give up her entire life just for a selfish and immature manchild like you.
brandan was mean when he was like “but it is you” that woulda made me break down in tears being her.
He was an asshole, if she’s so vile why sleep with her? She is now married to someone else and is happy
Max: what about getting a job...?
Nae’s facial expression: a job?!?!? what’s that?
So much easier to let the government take care of me. And my kid. And my family.
The correct answer:
I understand your circumstances and I respect the work you're putting in to maintaining yourself and your kid, I just feel like our communication is lacking and this is a long distance relationship, so we can't make that up being physically together. I would really like to work things out so that we're meeting each others needs
The incorrect answer: *everything Kenton said*
didn’t ask
Yeah he coulda been more mature about it instead of being a burden to her and making her feel bad.
Or he could’ve just accepted that he wants something else instead of blaming it on her. She couldn’t text at work and was a good mother by putting her phone away for her child and waited until night time when she could freely text and call. When you’re with your SO and your family you don’t sit there and have your phone out.. it’s distracting and some people just don’t use their phones all the time and that’s okay. And she wanted to talk to him when her attention could be directed to him and him only. And that’s respectable. I guess they just didn’t give each other what they needed and he was rude about it instead of being understanding of who she is and what she’s got going on.
Thank you!
Lol correct here!
#9
Nev and Max are dressed alike, lookin like twins 😆😂🤣
😂😂 I watched this episode so many times and didn’t even notice
Not the “Chris is in the house and Chris love you” dam Chris brown could message me on his own verified Instagram account and I still wouldn’t believe it was him 😭😭
IM SAYINGGGG💀💀💀 I loveeee me some Chris Breezy and I’d need pentagon level security type of confirmation that it’s him💀 people really are just delusional fr I feel bad cuz we all have our delulu moments😭 but CHRIS BROWN?????🤣🤣🤣🥲✌🏽 please
@@tatyannarae5830exactly 😂😂😂😂😂 i said the same thingggg cuz girl now be fr !!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂
Shakinah broke my heart. You saw how pissed and just upset she was. She was so ready to let whoever walked out of that house a piece of her mind. But all she said was "you should have told me the truth". She couldn't hurt another hurt young girl
are you being serious
@@90sbaby1 wdym?
#6. When Max hugged Alyssa. 😪😪..so sweet.
I want that🥺
I thought that was nice too
“I didn’t respect her decision of what her sexuality was...” so we’re gonna ignore how this statement, and her adding her to a gays/lesbian group telling ppl to hit her up, is super double standard??
Yea that one made me angry. It’s like, how dare you?
Funny, no one is upset with that statement. Yet, if someone bashes the LGBTQIA community or pretend, people would be upset.
I don’t think that’s what a double standard is.. it’s still messed up though.
that’s hypocrisy, not double standard. but yeah the idea of sexuality being a ‘choice’ is fucking ridiculous
@@EbonyJoneskuye you don’t bash a whole community for the actions of one individual. Say one straight person fucks up (happens all the time) we don’t then condemn every heterosexual…for being. This is a hateful statement and something that happens to many minority groups that those part of the majority do not understand.
I love how Max just suddenly yells at the catfish
How is Shakinah really gonna think she’s in a relationship with Chris?
Why she show up to meet him lookin like that
@@burgerbish its mean but...true...i mean...have you seen the girls in his videos girl???
LMFAOOOOOOO
😂😂😂
Brown at that 😂😂😂
Nev: so you're a con artist
Nae: no that's not who I am I just did it because of my situation.
Babe girl every con artist has a situation. They all do 8t because of their situation.
"yeah, but it's you" 😆 it's probably mean, but that made me crack up
How did he know her? Is that an ex girlfriend?
@@Amy-gu4qx they went to the same school or knew eachother growing up ... that’s what he said😁
I thought she was really pretty but he could not stand her lol
That chick looked down low cray-cray tho. She had that stalker vibe.
That’s only second to “you shouldn’t have called me a fat azz Kelly Price”
Kenton is a trip! She dodged a bullet. He wants too much from her and wants to be before her daughter? Absolutely not.
I feel so sorry for Miranda, she didn't deserve to be treated like that. I hope she's doing better now ❤
I was in a relationship with a guy for 3 years. I was head over heels for this person, it was a long distance relationship. We got on calls a lot, but never video calls. I never thought of it, because I trusted this person. I watched catfish a lot so I should have definitely seen the signs. We were approaching year 4, and they came out to me. They weren't even male; I had gotten catfished by a female. It tore me apart. As a gay male, I wasn't sure if I wanted to pursue a relationship with a woman, but at the same time I felt like I was still in love with that person. It messed me up, and it twisted my emotions completely. She began using my anxiety against me, saying things that the 'guy' I fell in love with would never say to me. I felt like that guy and this girl were two completely different people, but they weren't. She used the pictures of her brother and (I assume) had a friend or relative get on voice call with me so I would fall further into the trap of this person being male. This happened in early 2020, and getting through it was one of the hardest things for me. It's definitely changed little parts of my life and the way I act.
Please tell me you dumped her-
I hope you learned how much better you are than these people. Please stay positive and I'm rooting for u 💜
Jesus loves you, He died for our sins
If this happened in early 2020, how did it go on for almost 4 years?
@Liz Zee He said she told him the truth in 2020, not that the online relationship started in 2020.
#6 Alyssa has standards! F#$@ yeah! She's been hurt her whole life, and hurt again, but still had the strength to walk away. Good on her 🖤
Wow lennie blew it Chelsea is such a sweetheart. He would of been lucky to be with her.