Who is my wife & what is her biggest worry? | Thai-British couple living in rural Thailand 🇹🇭

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  • @lifeinruralthailand
    @lifeinruralthailand  ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I forgot to add these things:
    1. We have been together over 10 years
    2. We are really good friends
    3. We didn’t think we would make it as a couple but we have
    4. She is very kind and very conservative
    5. We been through a lot of shit together
    6. Did I mention she’s a morning person?
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    • @WalkingmanPattaya
      @WalkingmanPattaya ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Taking shifts as parents while raising kids by working at different tasks, different times, etc... Alcohol in the morning is the end road. She loves you because your are sweet and communicative.

    • @georgeplaxton3067
      @georgeplaxton3067 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Your very lucky to have wife like her she is one of a kind. Just like my wife very caring sweet and taking care of me we both lucky to have a good wife , im.also british like u.. see u in ur next vlog

    • @ninettemurk7492
      @ninettemurk7492 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She's also beautiful

  • @ronaldmartin7892
    @ronaldmartin7892 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Cherish what you have. And don't take things for granted. I know what Ricky is going through. I've been there. In 1982 in England I lost my wife of twenty five years to cancer. I was lucky enough to get a second chance and about five years later met my Thai wife. After thirty six years of marriage she has just been diagnosed with cancer. I've had nearly forty years living here in Thailand and have a wonderful family and in-laws. But of course it's what you put into your marriage that counts and it's not money. I'll be ninety in December, I hope. My wife is seventy four and who knows what the future may bring. A cure and a longer life for her, I hope. Sorry to be such a downer, but with your story about your wife, and Ricky's loss, it just touched a nerve. Be happy both of you and keep the videos coming.

    • @luceinbattaglia9425
      @luceinbattaglia9425 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Be strong mate! I wish u all the best!🍀🦾😉🔝💙🇹🇭🙏

    • @lifeinruralthailand
      @lifeinruralthailand  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sorry for your loss Ronald 🙏🙏

  • @sitthuson
    @sitthuson ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Your channel is a breath of fresh air. My family puts it on every morning to start the day. Very vibrant colors, such greeneries, and close to nature. very pleasing to watch!! love seeing the kids growing up.

  • @Ryokans
    @Ryokans ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Otis piano skills are growing fast, he has an amazing teacher

  • @MikeLowery-transcendent
    @MikeLowery-transcendent 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    She is wonderful and you deserve each other 🙏🏽👑

  • @noelodwyer5641
    @noelodwyer5641 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Hugo gets around the garden like a runaway train. Great to watch him grow.

  • @margarettownsley9500
    @margarettownsley9500 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Great vlog guys Damo you seem like you put your heart and soul into everything you do a true warrior for your family the stability you show shines like a diamond you show your strength in everything that you do thank you both for sharing your video

  • @joanmorgan3758
    @joanmorgan3758 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You both have a very special love for each other Ryan and Damo, it warms my heart ❤❤

  • @thomasnohejl8196
    @thomasnohejl8196 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ive been watching your vids for years and your wife seems like a very good, honorable woman

  • @panasyapin8235
    @panasyapin8235 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ครอบครัวพวกคุณน่ารักมาก ติดตามมาตลอด

    • @Moruralthaigirl
      @Moruralthaigirl ปีที่แล้ว

      ขอบคุณค่ะ ❤🙏

  • @mariettathornton5924
    @mariettathornton5924 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    OMG- Hugo is just too cute & adorable! Thanks for sharing these precious moments with us😊

  • @RosemarieStars
    @RosemarieStars 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks so much for this video! You share so much joy and love. Simplicity. Beautiful.

  • @globalnomad450
    @globalnomad450 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    One of the nicest videos you have posted. A really lovely family. You should be really proud. Look after each other and enjoy your peaceful life ❤

  • @emilylotts8833
    @emilylotts8833 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Ryan can I tell you something from my personal point of view watching your videos for quite a pretty long time now, you're very lucky you met damo, you're, active, healthy, happy, responsible, a good father, a good husband and good son in law, most importantly you're at peace and sober. You wouldn't be all these things if you had a different life partner. Damo is a dream wife for a good man. God bless you two

  • @fleatrainer_com
    @fleatrainer_com ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks!

  • @davidkelly-cl4mj
    @davidkelly-cl4mj ปีที่แล้ว +1

    From the outside looking in you two are matched very well. I won't say perfectly matched because I doubt there is such a thing.
    I love how your home is open to all the kids around and how much you both do for them.
    I envy the simple life you have chosen, I think it's the right choice for you and Damo. Hopefully I might have the opportunity to shake your hand one day

  • @khineohn1695
    @khineohn1695 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great!

  • @shuuyakano1732
    @shuuyakano1732 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What a special lovely family video that you posted. Your wife and sons are getting glad by your actions which is your way that you had info to cheer you to be more prouder.

  • @michaelj2528
    @michaelj2528 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Damo is a wonderful lady so hardworking always seems to be busy . when Damo said she used to chiang Mai and went to an elephant park was ENP owned and run by Lek ? just wondering. An interesting video to see Damos working day. As always interesting and entertaining video

  • @mattalford389
    @mattalford389 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nice to focus on Damo. She is a hard worker, that's for sure. Always seems to be on the go. I can see she's a great Mum too😊

  • @shanemontgomery2416
    @shanemontgomery2416 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good to see your in Thailand living a healthy life first and last time saw you was a video with Johnny 5 years back i think

  • @shirleyblaisdell9445
    @shirleyblaisdell9445 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Such a lovely and beautiful family.❤️
    Your wife reminds me of myself, I was very young when I married my husband. I can’t speak very good English back then. When we moved to U. S.
    I have learned a lot of things living here.
    When I first met my husband family,
    I was very shy, and afraid that they wouldn’t accept me. But I was wrong.
    They treated very nice n welcomed me
    like they have known me for a long time.
    You n Damo and your beautiful boys
    are my favorite family to watch now here
    on YT and I’m glad I came across your
    video. And I can’t wait to watch your next video, keep them coming!
    God bless your family. 😘
    Btw, your wife is beautiful inside n out.

  • @dondobbs9302
    @dondobbs9302 ปีที่แล้ว

    Need to watch more of your channel, love it! You-all are great! Loved; "If you didn't live here, in rural Thailand, what's your 2nd choice?" "North!" as in, another place in rural Thailand! Yeah, it's nice, there are elephants just 5 Km or so away but, it's nothing compared to the life you-all have made! loves how she told you "that's enough" when you wanted to say all you loved about her. She gave you yummy snacks instead!

  • @graemeaylward8313
    @graemeaylward8313 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What a great vlog Damo and Ryan. I love the way that you are so coy when talking about yourself Damo and of course the honesty of both of you. Hugo is like a GP driver in his wheels, and clearly has very strong legs. Otis is so gregarious with his friends but still finds time to play with his little brother. You have every right to feel proud of such a wonderful litle family within the larger family of Damo's parents and relatives. Don't ever change that. God bless you all 🙏❤😀

  • @mariannescalise6658
    @mariannescalise6658 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks Damo Ryan Tis and Hugo loved the video

  • @fionahamilton2060
    @fionahamilton2060 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Such an uplifting vlog. Thankyou for sharing.

  • @ponbounket8057
    @ponbounket8057 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for sharing! I'm so happy your wife is not too shy no more! She's in the video with u more. Keep up the awesome work!

  • @luceinbattaglia9425
    @luceinbattaglia9425 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My fav vlog from Thailand❤🇹🇭Love you all guys🍀All the best!🤗

  • @ericlambert9899
    @ericlambert9899 ปีที่แล้ว

    She's a Doll. I'm super happy for you both❤

  • @steveh222
    @steveh222 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Ryan just watching your vlog put a smile on my face and gave me a feeling of happiness, pleased all’s going well for you and your family.
    Love and respect.

  • @stefanpetersen9249
    @stefanpetersen9249 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Such a lovely video , cheers from Surin 🥰 Stefan & Tip

  • @dobrorhei
    @dobrorhei ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Another lovely vlog. Ryan, I was wondering if you have approached the relation between the Thai rural communities and Buddhist monks in any of your old videos. Do you guys have any interaction with them? Cheers from Brazil.

  • @helendymock8265
    @helendymock8265 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Damo is the best ❤ loved this video

  • @Vanrachana0215
    @Vanrachana0215 ปีที่แล้ว

    Baby is so cute ❤❤

  • @fransmulder9128
    @fransmulder9128 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤Beautyfule vlog Ryan.❤ Thanks.❤ Holland.

  • @petehuxham7359
    @petehuxham7359 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are both blesssed to have each other enjoy every moment as a family .....being happy is everything.

  • @jonmeade8493
    @jonmeade8493 ปีที่แล้ว

    Incredibly good show. That new little boy of yours seems quite advanced. You enjoy a simple life that others can only visualize and dream about. Warm regards to you, your lovely wife and the boys.

  • @hippychik
    @hippychik ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh I loved this vlog.. very special insight into Damo and your life.. she's such a sweet soul!.. Hugo's becoming such a wee character.. gorgeous!🥰💜🦋🥀

  • @alexmalcolm5577
    @alexmalcolm5577 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I made 27 years my Thai wife. We good couple and good business partners 😀

  • @DaveTheDasher77
    @DaveTheDasher77 ปีที่แล้ว

    What an amazing family you have mate,
    You are very blessed.

  • @irislozinsky3960
    @irislozinsky3960 ปีที่แล้ว

    We visited Chang Mai and it was very nice. Rode an elephant there too! Great people and great experience

  • @keepitreal1547
    @keepitreal1547 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The many guys who want real & traditional values, want a woman like Damo.
    I'd say you've both been fortunate to have met eachother & building a very valued life together, with the kids of course. The perfect Thai/Farang family in rural Thailand.
    I wish you all the very very best, now & always.

  • @strataproplumbing8790
    @strataproplumbing8790 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wonderful, beautiful life and family, many watch this channel because it’s happiness and hope. ❤

  • @zoey7137
    @zoey7137 ปีที่แล้ว

    You two are amazing together. Amazing wife and husband wonderful parents …can’t ask for more!💞💕

  • @jonhobson3592
    @jonhobson3592 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing your lives 🙏

  • @nikkimclay5474
    @nikkimclay5474 ปีที่แล้ว

    She’s precious

  • @simonwilson1211
    @simonwilson1211 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful VLOG... Thanks, Ryan!

  • @steray7590
    @steray7590 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi rxan and family u have i in a million right there enjoy it pal😊
    P

  • @chrissmall1246
    @chrissmall1246 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    There is so much value provided in a relationship from the conservative, traditional and beautiful Thai lady. Their energy and character in my opinion is absolutely amazing. I am so fortunate to have this in my life. The most valuable things in life are given without expecting anything in return. Rural Thai life can honestly provide a person with such an experience. The energy, the way it feels calms the soul and lightens the spirit. We don't know what we don't know until it is identified and then experienced. Life is a wonderful gift. 🙏

    • @lifeinruralthailand
      @lifeinruralthailand  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Quite right my friend 🙏

    • @luceinbattaglia9425
      @luceinbattaglia9425 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nice words! Big up to u and to everybody who can be lucky enough to experience the simplicity of a real life without too much materialism! 🔝👏😉

  • @httt7760
    @httt7760 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your vlogs 🙏

  • @yommanawilliams3706
    @yommanawilliams3706 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lovely family ❤❤❤❤

  • @enough1494
    @enough1494 ปีที่แล้ว

    Que bella es! I admire her reality. Much love to both, Otis and baby Hugo. Awesome vlog!
    Gracias! Los amo!

    • @enough1494
      @enough1494 ปีที่แล้ว

      WoW! I forgot her dad was an alcoholic. I can relate!

    • @enough1494
      @enough1494 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aha! The wrapped banana leaves are popular in Spanish Virgin Islands, Pasteles!

  • @zoey7137
    @zoey7137 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can see and feel the love you two have. This is the best for your boys to grow up in a home so full of love.💞💗💕

  • @CatBalou38
    @CatBalou38 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You are very lucky! Damo is a very special person. She is such a good mother. She keeps everything neat and clean. She is so intelligent! She doesn't put up with your moaning. Lol and so much more. I am glad she has achieved her dreams, she deserves it. You are a great guy also so you are a great team. I lost my husband to a chronic illness last year. I always thought compromise was the secret to longevity in relationships. What do you think kept you together when you didn't think you would?

  • @KimWright-wq8cu
    @KimWright-wq8cu ปีที่แล้ว

    AWESOME VIDEO👌👏👍😋 GETTING TO KNOW MO BETTER♥️

  • @AllanOutdoor
    @AllanOutdoor ปีที่แล้ว

    You had a beautiful family. God bless you more and stay strong happy!♥️🇵🇭

  • @brianmitchell4957
    @brianmitchell4957 ปีที่แล้ว

    Life is not all sweetness and light.
    You are very blessed😊

  • @ninettemurk7492
    @ninettemurk7492 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lovely episode

  • @sharonlee5773
    @sharonlee5773 ปีที่แล้ว

    You truly are such a beautiful couple ! Continue to cherish each other as you do today! We are 40 yrs married and I believe you both will be blessed with a long ,devoted and amazing marriage as well! .. And Enjoy that lovely Thai food today! We so miss it!

  • @drinkmeister
    @drinkmeister ปีที่แล้ว

    A beautiful episode Ryan.
    Great to know Damo a little bit more. You're blessed my friend.
    You're such a sweet couple. It warms my heart to get a deeper glimpse of your love for each other and the boys. I'm envious of your journey thus far. 🙏

    • @lifeinruralthailand
      @lifeinruralthailand  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you my friend - how you are well 🙏🙏🙏

    • @drinkmeister
      @drinkmeister ปีที่แล้ว

      Extremely well thanks mate. Keen to get back to Thailand early next year. Be well.

  • @craigstrike3023
    @craigstrike3023 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your a lucky man Ryan

  • @andymac7928
    @andymac7928 ปีที่แล้ว

    Cutest baby ever!

  • @Pathoian
    @Pathoian ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Mo is the women that many men search for, but very few are lucky enough to find, You done extremely well for a bald bloke 😅

    • @lifeinruralthailand
      @lifeinruralthailand  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I had a Justin Bieber cut when we met, I think in the how I lost everything video on my other channel naked guru there is a picture 😊 but yes lucky!

  • @Janjironin
    @Janjironin ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love beutyful ❤❤❤

  • @jozah2148
    @jozah2148 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mo, does baby Hugo ever cry?🤔🇬🇧

  • @mmapromphak6100
    @mmapromphak6100 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @kitchenlove55
    @kitchenlove55 ปีที่แล้ว

    😊😊😊😊😊

  • @mrpaul6356
    @mrpaul6356 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice videos of insight to the Thailand life you have found.
    Maybe you have comment on the following subject of my Thailand goal?
    Regarding me as a glimpse whom I am, I am 69, great health for my age staying slim and active, financialy independendant, do not smoke or drink, and through my life became Theravada Buddhist. So obvious is no bars or such, not obvious is I prefer countryside living.
    I have been to Thailand 3 times, my neighbour here in Canada is Thai, I have a background of working for Japan, my late wife was Chinese, Vietnamese friends, thus I have what I would consider an appreciation of Asian and now Thai way of thinking.
    So alone I am fine and can be happy in Thailand and exploring retirement. I would prefer a Thai partner.
    I tried fo better or worse dating site and discovered there are those that are city based and wish to live there, and those that are rural based or wish to return rural.
    My definite way of life and wish is the rural style way of living. At my age not too far from good medical would make futur sense.
    The interest I receive is often from say a 49 year old Thai Lady, thus 20 years younger, and I do not know if this is attraction ( maybe??) or just more a security appeal.
    I am very upfront about being Buddhist and that seems to sort out the scammers that do not follow the Buddhist path of noble truth ( my assumption ).
    Of course there are thousands of videos so you can see what you want to see, or perhaps hear what you see for happy and sad outcomes.
    So in the end everything is my thoughts and what I manifest.
    I would appreciate your general comment with no strings attached if a 69 year old fa-lang should in general stay away from 20 years younger ?
    All just opinions and experience I know, very curious what you have observed and value your thoughts.
    Wishing you and loved ones health and happiness. Thank you 🙏

  • @andrewshinegold6988
    @andrewshinegold6988 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hugo is growing a fabulous personality. You would be welcome to come and read me bedtime stories of Captain Underpants and his side kick Wedgy 😁😁

  • @aodhcooney8905
    @aodhcooney8905 ปีที่แล้ว

    Much love man....luv a gud moan meself 😂❤😂

  • @staceyeversley9337
    @staceyeversley9337 ปีที่แล้ว

    🙏💕💖💝💓💗love you all

  • @terryfisher2454
    @terryfisher2454 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your wife is a jewel and any farang thinking of marriage to a Thai needs to really understand that family is way way more important than you will ever be no matter how well you look after them. If you can accept that and i did, you can have a wonderful life. But a word of advice. Observe the family before making your decision. I'll leave it at that.

  • @YouknowwhereHughgo
    @YouknowwhereHughgo ปีที่แล้ว

    Do you get loud music on speakers where you are? |Like 5 a.m., my biggest annoyance when it comes to the Thai countryside

  • @StevenSacto
    @StevenSacto ปีที่แล้ว

    Funny. My Thai wife grew up in the country down south. There was 3 daughters and they all moved off the farm. At this point maybe one would give on the farm but my wife isn't one of them. She's living California but we'll buy a place for her when I pass on a place she chooses. But she's a city girl from the country. And she doesn't drink 😜

  • @positiveworld-view8677
    @positiveworld-view8677 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Spagoshi - a TH-cam content creator
    You both may appreciate..

  • @enough1494
    @enough1494 ปีที่แล้ว

    💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

  • @wendy-0101
    @wendy-0101 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤🙏🏼The garden is looking so beautiful. I admire so much how you both accept your individuality & grow in such loving harmony. I believe we could all learn so much from the Thai way of life. Have a great week. 💞💞💞💞

  • @KarmaCal57
    @KarmaCal57 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤🙏

  • @riclyd1978
    @riclyd1978 ปีที่แล้ว

    What's her sister's profession. The one in Bangkok

  • @anjelina1016
    @anjelina1016 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Are you ever going to take your families to England to show them where you came from?

  • @AllanOutdoor
    @AllanOutdoor ปีที่แล้ว

    ♥️♥️♥️🇵🇭

  • @STARRUNNER45
    @STARRUNNER45 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🥰🤍

  • @alexmalcolm5577
    @alexmalcolm5577 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My wife worry being hungry and poor. But we are well past that idea of being poor. I just say we are 'comfortable' 🤭

  • @marcmcmillan3376
    @marcmcmillan3376 ปีที่แล้ว

    Fix the wobble on that beautiful table ...

  • @HalimWander
    @HalimWander ปีที่แล้ว

    dont give the man too much compliment 😅

  • @MrLostitnutter
    @MrLostitnutter ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We have to moan 😂 what I have found is the reason we have to moan is because the Thai population don’t and they accept whatever and get on with life but sometimes that seems a little naive to us westerners

    • @hilltribelife3843
      @hilltribelife3843 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know what you mean., and it’s a common source of conflict in Thailand farang couples.
      When a Thai encounters a problem they just let it be and they process it it quietly , but we farang can t resist to externalize it, our culture actually encourages us to do so. In a nutshell we are taught to not bottle things up and thais are taught sabai sabai.
      This then causes tension in a Thai farang couple where the Thai cannot comprehend why we have huff and puff about our frustrations and equally we can’t understand why our partner doesn’t want to discuss our problems🤷‍♂️
      It’s nice to discuss these challenges with other Thai farang couples. We re not alone 😆

  • @rosannaruby9315
    @rosannaruby9315 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wish I had a wife to look after my two babies so I could have a sleep in. I'm triggered!

    • @lifeinruralthailand
      @lifeinruralthailand  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      When you work nights earning 100% of the $$ you may need one 👍

  • @anjelina1016
    @anjelina1016 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    There’s no way I would sleep separately from my husband or a live in boyfriend, you guy’s are married you should be together at night in the same bed, that is just weird, maybe you guy’s shouldn’t get married, that’s my thought 😏

    • @Thailand-mt9op
      @Thailand-mt9op ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Omg, how ignorant. It is traditional in Thai culture for mother to sleep with children when they are young. Look at their beautiful life, family and love for each other.

  • @simonsmith1139
    @simonsmith1139 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ooh Ryan,love your sexy voice and your Shakespearian beard...

  • @simonsmith1139
    @simonsmith1139 ปีที่แล้ว

    Only tweaking your trouser gecko....

  • @joelthataw2334
    @joelthataw2334 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks!