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"You are not you, you are your lower self." That's deep and can relate, currently working on being my best self! Not for a man tho lol, just for my own self confidence. 🙏🏽😇
Yes sis, that was a word! Deep and motivational.
@@tya4662 yes!💙💙💙
Yess sis
A man that is a gentleman that shows care & respect consistently is a rare find & a KEEPER.🙌🏽👌🏽
Yes!
These days it takes half a lifetime trying to find a man like this, some women will never find one.
Yes indeed!
The niggling audio is killing me💀💀💀
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Tony's laugh got me! 🤣🤣🤣 We both learned a new word Tony 😭
When Tony go “ sister come on na”! 😂😂
Tony you have me in tears. Don’t get people messed up out here saying niggling.
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Yes the devil comes to kill, “steal”and destroy. Yes the devil is trying to “steal” her blessing.
I agree with Tony on this one for sure. She found a good man and yet she finds something to complain about. Men are not perfect for you when you first meet. You have to go though a lot to be perfect for each other. Throw him back, I'm sure a woman will appreciate him without doubts.
Tony is right! It’s hard to make a comedian laugh!
1. Men who are good at making people laugh are CHARMING and charismatic. When a man naturally has those two things, women will always flock to him! And ma’am that is not a problem you want!
2. Your relationship is still very new! He may have some hidden sense of humor that you haven’t seen yet! Some people have a darker sense of humor that they keep hidden until they are comfortable.
3. I’ve been married for over 10 years, so I can tell you from experience that long-term couples CREATE A UNIQUE SENSE OF HUMOR between the two of them. My husband and I have acquired a long list of inside-secret jokes that only he and I understand. Something happens and my husband and I will just look at each other and INSTANTLY laugh. This is common in long-term relationships.
⬆️Don’t miss out on creating this! It’s so unique, intimate, and beautiful!
Tony I am creasing out here, “niggling” is definitely a word commonly used in the Uk😂
If I found one, I'd never let him go. I've been busy trying to get these clowns out of my face.
It’s the replay of the word 😂😂😂 thank you for being yourself and providing so much value!!
I’m cracking up Tony! 😂😂😂😂 “niggling” 😂😂
Imagine telling your 4 month boyfriend who cares and respects you and you tell him, “ sorry but I have to break this off … you just don’t make me laugh enough… “ 😳🤣😂🤣 we’re doomed if this is what it’s coming down to 😩
Chile I laughed after I read this lol
My husband left the marriage and stayed gone for 4 years and we re united trying to work things out I wanted us to deal with our underlying issues but he wants to just forget about what happen and start where we left off at . All I’m asking for is for some counseling which he don’t want to do . So I told him that It’s been real meaning I can no longer see him .
Yup, he clearly does not want to change and is probably lonely cause nobody wants him.
The door would have been closed. You take a break by going to work or on a guys trip not leaving testing then waters then coming back 🥰
He should agree to counciling if he's serious but in terms on TALK about the issues 🤣🤣🤣 Every man will avoid this if possible men are quite very rarely do you get much out of them. However when a man is IN love he will open up to you and wouldn't have let you go in the first place. Listen to your spirit listen to God 🙏
@@helenaxxxx5015 100% agree, a man that really loves you would not stay away for 4 years and would have been willing to do the work.
These Talks with Tony is relationship education, I like how you chop it up in a caring and truthful way.
I was not expecting to learn this new vocabulary word today! My stomach is hurt from the belly laughs 😆
Lawd, not "niggling", which actually means bothersome (especially in a petty or tiresome way). Yes, it sounds funny.🤦🏽♀😂😂
This girl done taught us all a new word today!
It’s your ego… change your routine you will forget about them… but also ask yourself if you’re unbearable to be around or was this your blessing in disguise… he evidently doesn’t want you that helps or should help get over a person but some of us have trauma bonding & soul ties to a person. If you can get to that realization you will find you didn’t like or love that person at all they just fed a “need”. My 2022 desire is that for all the women in bad relationships or in desire of a relationship that God will allow the Holy Spirit to invoke their spirit to only desire their/his purpose & not another person or partner just be content & it is so 🙏🏾
I learned a new word today lol.
I love these talks with Tony. I listen on my lunch hour on my walk. I’m ready.
Wow another Talks with Tony! 🙏🏼🙏🏼
Tony, you are right! Women like men that can make them laugh. Steve Harvey said that's how he used to pull women before he became rich because he wasn't exactly the good-looking
But he’s not funny either.
God bless your hour long videos!! Thank you
There are deep deep gems for me in this video. I keep learning. One of my favorites. Thank you!
God bless Sister Gaskins!!! Asking God to keep her healthy💞👸🏾
Your insight on a “funny” guy is 100%. We went on a couples vacation for my 40th birthday & our friend’s date was laughing a little too much at my husband’s jokes. Fast forward one full year, we’re divorced & she’s pregnant from my (ex)husband.
I am so sorry that is MESSED UP I hope you are ok 🙏🏽
Wow
Tony’s the best, lol he’s funny and also give us great advice. God bless you and your beautiful family
I am in tears over here😂 I have never heard that word before.. A laugh was so needed right now..
🤣🤣🤣 Tony I just love you, you’re hilarious! Not only I’m learning from your messages, you also keeps me cracking up.
I think a lot of us today learned a new word. 🤣
Thank you so much Tony !
I'm definitely not at my best self..BUT I'm about to put the pedal to the metal in becoming my best version
That is so right Tony. I bet if he saw the women exercising on the regular and still looked a certain way then there would be less of a chance of him calling her out for the weight gain because she is exercising. If she was putting in 100% in the home, her body, her brand etc. then he would have nothing to complain about.
I also question the 10 year relationship w/o marriage, not that being married keeps certain men any more faithful.
Love this. Thank you.
Tony! Why is it only 8:39am & not even 5 minutes into the video, yet you already got me cracking up?!😂
Ok. You say you're not funny, yet you have us rolling! Esp in early grown boy lessons. LOL
Yes, all the time🤣
Great breakdown 💜
It’s a common word used in Ireland 😂
It’s not a derogatory word. Just means a discomforting feeling, persistent annoyance or anxiety.
And it’s normal to use around ANYONE?
Hi Tony you deserve the best,you are special
Thank for the works.
Women like this lord help us (The first scenario)! Tony I've never thought about the correlation of guys being funny (sometimes) to them dating multiple women. Great points on all topics, I learned alot.
Tony you are too funny. I promise, I be at work falling out. Cracking up
Great advice!
I'm dying 🤣 at niggling thoughts, right can't use that word round me.
I love your sense of humor; have anyone ever told you , you favor Kountry Wayne? Yall remind me of each other.
Thank you for the comment on weight and women changes. It’s hard for some of us - the process
Yes Bro gaskins tk u for Dr. Evan Emmanuel if I got it correct. I love to laugh and and I do all the time take after my farther. The humor is needed I love all your lessons and teachings they are life changing then hear comes Dr. Evan when u put those glasses on I'm done I be falling out 😆🤣😂 please don't stop laughter is good for the soul, praise God for ur hard work and time be blessed prayer 🙏 changes things
“Niggling,” got me caught up this morning…🤣🤣 my chest hurts 🤣🤣
Be Blessed
“Niggling” had me in tears tony you is hilarious
😂😂😂😂😂 the child!!! 😂😂😂😂😂
Be Blessed 😊
BE HAPPY
They used that word in Tales from the Crypt lol ROFL omg!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! TONY IS A MESS!!!
My aunt has gained alot of weight, and he husband is super healthy. He has been critical of her since before she gained weight. Im afraid he is going to mistreat her or leave her. I got weight loss surgery, and I gently hinted to her that if she wanted to get weight loss surgery I would come take care of her after surgery. She said she doesnt need it. But she is in denial because Im sure she has gained at least 60 pounds. I see disaster coming for them. But maybe unhappiness in their relationship is whats causing her weight gain. 🤷🏽♀️
Only 60lbs gained?! That's nothing.
Tony your imitations are funny especially when you grab the charger purse, lol. But I think when sister say make her laugh she's saying she wants him to be exciting not boring.
Niggling is unrelated to the racial slur, and existed in language long before the slavery of our ancestors.
If him not being the funniest guy the only problem then I don’t really consider it settling. You’re so right about it coming with time. I showed my cousin a video and it was hilarious to me but she didn’t get it lol.
5 minutes in and I’m crying 😭😭😭
I can get over this new word 😂😂😂
I honestly like a man that is make me laugh and usually with the type of natural humor..never thought 1 way or the other about it until a few years ago. When I noticed the guys that always wants to be cool with everyone..especially the female coworkers , they would start off by being funny and just acting like a homeboy to them and just joking all the time but in a non sexual way AT FISRT until the gain enough confidence to actually hit on them..if you pay attention these guys have always had some type of work wife or got into a lit of their relationships from meeting coworkers at work.
I was told I laugh to much and guy would not trust me .. so yes I get that in control sometimes... is just mean the person is dominant , leader , go getter , also the bad side can be evil , manipulation, lying and that can be funny at first until you see the real evil the person is ...
“Niggling”
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"A High-Valued Man".....I understand that comes from a "Clown" Podcast! Whew Lordy!
I cant say that word .you spoke of. .if a British person said it it probably sound propper. LOL they probably started it.
Appreciate the man & date him. I know i couldnt stay wirh a man that i couldnt enjoy his conversation topics & humor. And ive had that happen. There were other things that, later, would have been deal breakers.
Lord have mercy
To the First Lady, if u need a laugh 😂 just watch these videos and keep the good man!
Niggling? 🤣🤣🤣🤣
This was good! I won’t lie, it actually stung a little bit. I always threw down my Popeyes chicken. Lol 😂
Not everyone goes to a gym or even has the money for that. I watch how I eat. My ex husband told me when we married. If I got fat he would leave me. Well, I never did n I had 3 children. I'm a size 4. My recent ex man once said my thighs were big n I had wrinkles on my face. I'm 58 yrs old n I will never get botox...
PREACH!
Boy, 4 minutes in & I’m 😂😂
The second situation was not about weight. He did not see any value in her. It sounds like he has Ego problems, and she needs to be her own person and create some positive things in her own life.
Same I never laugh because most people dont make me laugh and its rare it happens, I also make people laugh with my facial expressions too! Some comedians are rude too, I never laugh when they are rude and when I know they have several women etc lol
Sorry…I accidentally disliked the video but I meant to like it cause I always forget to like the videos I watch. I always do that!!! 🤦🏾♀️
This the first time I laughed at one of your videos niggling oh lord
🤦Cruella Davill vibez🤣🤣🤣
04:45 I hear you Tony 🤣💯
I think the word she was trying to use was
'inkling"-
a slight knowledge or suspicion; a hint.
When he kept playing the word 😭😭😭
She have a man that can make her laugh and she will crying later. He has humor if he laughing at her
Ladies okay I’m not being funny or mean but I felt that this needs to be said but I think some of y’all just want to hear your email being read🤷🏽♀️ cause some of these questions are all ready on Tony’s videos if you just scroll through or just let them play. I mean come on y’all. LORDTTT!!! I’m just saying and please don’t take it personal but just watch his videos.
I want to up my subscription to a higher level. Will it just upgrade or do I have to cancel the lower level one first?
Talking about my Patrion subscription.
Download the app, if you haven't. Go to account, then support. It'll be there. Blessings
Checking in
Checking in too, Q!!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@@DebtDemolisherTV Good morning. E-see ya tonight. 🙌🏽
Is weight gain or letting yourself go grounds for breaking up?
Yeah I need laughter w a man to feel affection,attachment also or I wont connect w him. Nice wont keep me in a relationsip.
I needed this message tonight.
I have a slightly different experience
I was playing it cool and I guess it was too cool. He seemed to be sincere and forthcoming about his life experiences.
I wanted to be friends first. Without sexual flirting but I guess that isn't what he is used to. We seemed to be hitting it off well. l listened to him, I asked questions... Whenever we spoke I would ask about his day...we would laugh ...
However I don't recall him asking about my day or even asking questions to get to know me better. I would always initiate those questions. I became frustrated and a little disapoointed. I began to ask if he ad any questions for me. I'm sure he thought I had some dark secret Then he ghosted me. I still feel hurt , like I have lost a friend we've only known each other for 3 wks.. I sent him a grateful to have met you text.
Should I contact him?
Absolutely fucking not! You ignore him just the same way he ignored you 💓💯
He'll be back.
Watch Tony’s videos. You never chase a ghost cause you can’t catch him. Why would you want someone who leaves you? The details don’t matter. Move on.
NO!!!
Wondering 💭
What he look like?!?
She should have done date night at the comedy club.
I see, I dont want to be introduced to things I dont like to do though.. yeah im open but im not going to sit in a stadium or go camping and people /men ghost if you say you arent interested which is pathetic. Most people want you to do the things they like. I like art but im not asking anyone to join me to an art gallery but then again it is different , you are free at the gallery. Stadium and camping you are stuck. I am not asking them to make a painting either.
I don’t like that word 😩😩😩
Too bad I don’t want him anymore 🥴
Nahhhhh but why are you so funny
A bit unrelated to that particular video but I notice many men well younger than me too , kind of ghost you just based on your personality and not character. I find many if not most people men and women not into culture but sports and drink and if you say you hate these things , they ghost you.
Which I find it is good but why shouldn't you say you hate these. It's crazy. I tried to make more friends , female friends too but not easy even outside playing squash., I couldnt care less about sports. Yeah it's fun but I am not going to sit in a bar/pub and watch it. Recently 2 women asked me to sit in a pub to watch matches, I refused saying I am not interested. I know you like sports but you probably can sit for 2/4 hours and have a conversation over a coffee. I did have such friends in the past but they are far in between. I prefer to say no to things I dont like but regarding a man if he refuses to sit for few hours and talk that is a huge red flag.
So she wants a comedian he just he checks off the boxes in all of the areas but not in the laughter area this is complete craziness
Some men are just vanilla .. kinda dull , I prefer a humorous man cause I like to laugh , ik that’s the childish part uh me but other qualities are way more important, he sounds like a good one
TWT 🥰
TG, you have not made the face you used to make when you type.
Niggling 🤣🤔😳😲😩🤷🏾♀️
Humor is very important but perhaps it can be substituted for a different attribute. He could be your husband but perhaps not a comedian. Maybe he’s just not a funny as you like. How’s everything else sis? I understand where she’s coming from though…I really like to be sung to. If he has a beautiful singing voice its preference I have…so I understand
Can’t make this stuf up lol for real