WHY DATING A BISEXUAL IS HARD. Is it still cheating if they cheat with the same sex?
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 ก.พ. 2025
- Come dive into the controversial topic of dating a bisexual and some of the challenges that come with it! Featuring special guest, @Carter_TheBody
Enjoy a few of our personal juicy stories in addition to us answering a few dating questions about how to "Hint, but not look too Thirsty" and well as "how to gain the respect of a man and your time!"
Check it out!
Damn this took me back. I'm femme lesbian and was dating someone who was also a "lesbian"(lies) come to find out I get followed to the airport and confronted by her damn giant husband talking all this shit calling me a homewrecker and all this shit. I showed the dude the texts and all that...and he apologized and realized she lied to me too. Ole girl was slicker than grease. Married woman with FOUR KIDS in jersey and coming to NYC to (find herself) on the weekends..smh never again. Her husband was pissed ..screaming about her doing bi shit again....from my understanding I was not the first. doubt I'll be the last. He seemed faithful...shame.
Them married women be the worst! I have a few sliding in my DMs. No can do!
Wow! I thought this only happened with men
@@habbaticchio2468 nope
@@TheIntrovert83 block them
Wow, so sorry. As a lesbian I fear this.
Doesn't matter if he/she cheats on their significant other with the same gender. If you are/declare you are in a monogamous relationship, cheating is wrong. Be in an open relationship or be single if you wanna do that.
Do you know many open relationships?
Bisexual people can be Monogamous. Just like Heterosexual. There are people who have both at the same time. It's about being Honest.
I’m bi and I don’t have a cheating mentality so I believe it depends on the person so I agree
Yes but there is more temptation when you're bi as there are more options. Because now your partner has to worry about if you're looking at both guys and girls and questioning if relationships or just platonic or more than that.
@@SourStrawberrys I’m Bi, and I’ve never cheated on any of my partners. It’s sad that bisexuals are presumed to be cheaters due to other people’s insecurities.
And can we stop pretending like studs are not out here sneaking and getting🍆 down.😏
@@sunnyj2928 So, I'm bi too. That doesnt mean people dating us doesn't feel like their is more temptation because we like both.
@@SourStrawberrys who you chose to date is your business. I’m not getting involved with anyone that straight off the back doesn’t trust me because of my sexual orientation. I know my worth, babe.🫶🏽
WATCH PEOPLE WHO SLEEP AROUND....TWO THINGS
1. STD'S
2. DENTAL ISSUES
3. MENTAL ISSUES
4. SPIRITUAL ISSUES
FACTS 🔥
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Dental issues 💀💀💀💀🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
just issues! all of dem
Carter could easily pass as Jada Pinkett's younger sister in my opinion.
She's right, dating bi can be challenging. And I also agree based on my experience that most bi woman tend to end up being with a man in the long run. And I've seen that it's more for procreation and financial stability... not to say there's no love with all the gains but from my experiences, it's mostly that. Also, I find it hard to date lately because a lot of ladies are either realizing they are bi or they now more open to being polyamorous.
This was a great interview.
I see that
Lol if you think that's bad try being a bi man!
@@donnymoney4222 I got dragged through the mud when I came out to my female friend now I'm questioning if I should still be friends with her 😂
What kind of eyes do you hve lol
Dating anyone can be challenging. Period.
Great episode! I have to chime in with my thoughts and comments as always
1. Cheating with a person of the same sex is still cheating. Another person...is another person
2. When it comes to sex, you should always try things twice. The first time can indeed be a fluke, not with the right person, etc. Be that as it may, I agree that everybody can't be taught and even if you teach someone it's never as fluid as someone who does it on natural talent🤷🏿♀️
With that being said practice and dedication will heighten any skills you apply them to, looking forward to the next episode🖤
Bisexual women usually end up with men. That's good enough reason for lesbians not to date them right there. There are perks to being with men some women just aren't willing to give up.
What kind of perks?
@@julianacheriza9673 testosterone. Physical strength to beat up other men and the fact that women are socialized that it's okay to express emotion and men aren't is a VERY common problem in relationships with women who are used to being with men. Women expect men to cater to their emotions and essentially have none of their own and then they get into relationships with stud women expecting the same shit and it don't really work for most of us. It just comes across mean and self centered. Women aren't neccesarily used to the idea of having to baby and "father" other women.
What perks😂
Damn
Society doesn't hate on you the same way
This topic was so intriguing!! Such a great episode...
Breanna Sims haha there she is!!! Thank you Breanna 😊😂🙏🏽
I’m bisexual and we do have more options so I understand the sentiments 100%. I’m both masculine and feminine-always have been. But when I date a woman, I really love feminine women. When I date a man, I love masculine men. It’s just like that for me.
I dated straight women, and I only had men to worry about. I dated a bisexual, I had to worry about men and women. I settled for the less stressful path.
Definitely harder when you have to compete with both genders
My last 2 serious relationships were with bisexual women so I can relate.
Not for the BPD heart either. Lol. God speed to y'all.
How are they straight if they’re dating women?????
@@SlimReaper10101 right! They bi
As a bisexual man it is very hard when it comes to dating because first of all it's somewhat a double standard I mean it's more accepting for women but not men.
ITS A CHOICEEEEEEE SHE JUST SAID IT
No she didn't
Man! I wish this episode a little longer, I really enjoyed the conversation with you and Carter.
Jenny Boom thank you Jenny!! 😊🙏🏽 shows will get a little linger as we go! Wanna keep everyone’s attention for now throughout!! But please check back next Tuesday for our next episode 🙏🏽
Great episode! Carter brought us here! Looking forward to even more content
I love this woman, I wish all women were like her. She is very open
Sounds like bisexual get a bad rep whether it’s male or female.
Yeesss it’s exhausting. They think we’re cheaters, liars, disease carriers etc etc the Bisexual hate is too much
Is there two femme Lesbians in successful long standing relationships , or do they all need to pair with a masculine ?
Why is it like that... why do you have to be hard to make a relationship work.."flip the script" ....smh... I never want to be in a relationship where I couldn't be caring and loving just to make a point, or teach a mf how if feels to be mistreated. If I cant have your love and respect the way I enjoy being loving then you are not the one for me.
People are different and also think and feel definitely from one another. For you its easy to decide lots of other people are not as fortunate with this issue
I am here because of Carter .... 🤗 great contents..... great interview as well ... i agree with Carter it seems like a trend ... the host is well spoken , pleasant on the eyes .. great topic maybe there can be a part 2 .. subscribed same bless and safe ..
Gale Sobers thank you so ouch for watching and commenting Gale! 😊 appreciate your kind words 😀 please stay tuned for more great content to come! 🙏🏽🙌🏽
I am with you G!!! I am also a Carter the body fan. Only here for fan club. I also found this channel worthy of subscription!
@@Niece88 Any idea what happened to her? She ‘disappeared’ from IG a while back 🤔
What a great episode. Very informative and highlighted many key areas that relate to both men and women. Wonderful insight and dating advice. People should have these types of conversations more.
I believe it's important to bring value and intrigue to the table. What makes you unique, while being who you naturally are and letting the chips fall where they lay.
OooohTara! Thank you for watching and for the kind words!! 😀🙏🏽 I’ve always said it was time for people to have real conversations, so I’m excited to see what else unfolds each episode and how it effects those who watch!! 🙌🏽
Yes, you can get rid of someone if it is bad the first time!!! It just ain’t right. Bad Sex is a deal breaker
Sumthin2LukAt Sumthin2LukAt hahaha it can be like that sometimes 😂
So there's no hope for virgins?
@@3arhodes Guess I’ll be abstinent forever because I’m not gonna be with a lot of men. I’m good lol 😂
Nice show we need more discussion on this matter frfr especially in the black community
You know what would have made this discussion even better? Actually inviting some bisexual people in on the conversation. They are talking about people who are not monogamous and framing it as if that's the definition of a bisexual. The woman even said "you can't be bisexual and been with men in the past, then give that up forever." That is not true of most bisexuals. This insecurity is the root cause of lesbians not giving bisexuals a chance. The very definition of being bisexual means you can fully commit to a man or fully commit to a woman. It does not mean you can can't commit at all. These two are confusing orientation with lifestyle, which is why they should not speak for bisexuals.
Such a gentleman. Keep it up sir.
Hey I remember you had got saved yrs ago. There was a prophet who came up to you you was walking with your girlfriend in AtlantaGA! I remember you had such a pretty face but whatever the prophet told you you where in tears! And you said yes to the lord! Hey God remembers you and sees you! No one can love you like the lord can! Wow this is amazing to see you now and remember that Moment in time! #Jesuslovesyoustill#
Really enjoyed this segment!!! Great information and bless you both!!!!
Love has nothing to do with sex, it's the platonic thing. You can be in a relationship with a girl and still let them have some fun
Y'all deserve more views!!!
Brian Urias agreed!! But we are just getting started for now! So thanks so much for the support brother 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽
So what did you do
im sorry but why is this even a question? its kind of obvious. yes its cheating no matter what sex it is. youre in a relationship and you misuse that trust and do something that breaks the bounderies in a relationship and you go ahead and do that with another person. it is always 100% cheating no matter what the sex is. this shouldnt have to be a question. it should already be an obvious thing.
No matter how good this men look, not interested
Same.
if you hiding converstaions,meetings or any emotional or physical intercation with someone you might as well be cheating at least in my eyes
CARTER THE BODY CAN ALWAYS GET IT ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Nah he definitely smacked out 😂😂😂
U think he hit 2
Y’all are weird
Love the topic for the show and yes it is hard dating a lady who is bisexual because when your heart is all in and even do you know she likes women it still hurts. Because you feel like you are not good enough.
Roderick Wright it’s tricky for sure! Very possible, but with unique challenges you have to overcome
Bisexual women have higher sex drives than straight and lesbian women.
Yes sir
Thing is the guy gives bi vibes…🤔
Hell no, broski is just confident, good lookin and well spoken
Eww
Not to me. He's just articulate and well spoken.
Lol when a guy is clean and well kept y'all assume he's fruity
@@marcs3715No that’s not true. Everyone should be clean. He just seems fluid.
Just don't date them. Simple. Stress free life!
Ive been in a relationship for 2 years now and we've talked and planned our future together. She is bi and wants to see what its like as the other side but still says she wants us and loves me. Its hard but I know she's the one and would do anything for her. Is there any easy way to get through this?
Same
so she wants to cheat?
Shes legit asking permission to cheat on you
Me... A straight guy, has gotten approach by a stud and at first I was reluctant, but this chick got game and as I keep talking to her I realized that I feel awkward and don't know what to do or say to her I can't treat her like a boy cause..I know she's a girl .. it's really confusing and that's why I'm here... Somebody help😱🤯😱
@@SharpWitted a bisexual stud?
Great episode!👏🏽
Elissa why thank you ms Elissa 😊.appreciate you 🙏🏽🙌🏽
“She said sex you up, set you up again”
This was interesting Seth!
Christina Gay thank you watching Christina 😊🙌🏽
I'm gay and i wouldn't date a bi guy. Too much drama
Gay people are also drama for us
@@Ari91898who asked
@@rachadlendar4918 when you make comments/videos about bisexual people, we can comment. Please don’t be smart
@@Ari91898 bitch about it
@@Ari91898 okay homophobe
I’m not gay but Carter could get it.
Same 😅🎉
My wife is bi and i seen lot of women and men trying to flirt but she is the respect type but once in a blue she flirt with a woman and wants me to know her and she flirt with me too 😮 i am a straight guy and sometimes i get hit on gay guys and lesbian stud 😅 i don't know why but it happens a lot to me
Damn she is super gorgeous
Great episode! Interesting topic. I think that relationships are complicated enough without having to guess the rules the other person is playing by just because they are into a different thing.
Vanessa Smith couldn’t have said it any better 😬 it’s definitely a new challenge
Girl if you're on a date, he already like you. Plus alllll girls think of how ways to please dudes.
This episode was good Furey and you had valid questions and points made. Great question at the end 😉☺️😁 Sidebar: your hands are magic if you had a gay girl turn straight for those 60 minutes of a massage. I need to come back to LA and see you again!!
Tiffy 921 😂😂 come on down!! And thank you!! 😊
One of the best phases of my life. So fun!
Lol i never saw messing with females while with a guy as a problem because i thought it was a natural turn on for guys long story short i learned my lesson the hard way 😂 i let guys know from the start if they are open to doing 3 somes with females only and they always turn it down from my experience 😅 and then it pisses me off because i feel at that point its not gonna work and its weird because i thought thats what guys like anyway 🤷🏽♀️ but its also why im not open with me being bisexual and i am also more into women i feel like i just settle for the opposite gender to be honest 🤷🏽♀️😭🤣
That’s what a good chunk of people think, even society. Yes the thought of threesomes can turn a man on, but some do refuse it. Either it can effect their relationship, goes against their beliefs, or don’t want to sleep with someone other than their partner. Society just sexualize it when in reality there are men who refuse that (even if arousing) but the other partner insists. This has been a lot to do with bisexual men and women. It’s a hurt stereotype, but it does have some truth to it. Many other reasons why I don’t date bi girls. I just can’t look at them the way I see other girls, especially when they fantasize about girls. Also, that unclean spirit that houses on the inside of them. Spirits can transfer. Thing is they can enter your heart and remain dormant until a certain even triggers it.
Really enjoyed this episode. You were both very insightful
Sumthin2LukAt Sumthin2LukAt thank you so much for watching and leaving your comment!! Means a lot!! 😀😀🙏🏽
He's giving her the "girlfriend experience"
So love this topic!
This was great!
helga molina thank for you r support! Glad you enjoyed 😀🙏🏽
Yall also need to stop thinking your personal experience & *interpretation* of 1-2-3-4 people is always representative of what all ppl in a community
. Also on teaching i have skills i get complimented on all the time that ppl assume is natural but was absolutely learned. Ppl learn things before they get to you and you wouldn’t know it wasn’t “natural” versus “learned”. Even if they tell you it’s natural you don’t actually know how if it’s natural or not. U have to look at things holistically & know yourself
This came right on time. I woke up to an interesting conversation this morning and It somewhat pertained to the last part of this episode. It’s really good to hear both sides perspective on things.
Also, side note. I’ve always been into women since I was young. I’ve been in 2 serious situations with a woman, one being femme, and one stud. I don’t think I would be in another serious relationship with a woman.. but I would bring them around my man if he felt he wanted to have a good time. It’s just something about a man that I prefer.. but I look at women the same way a man does, so if my man is down and wants to have a good time.. I’d be down too. As long as we do It together, I think it’s all good.
Really happy to hear that last part helped you out!! If you ever have any scenarios you need help with please just send me a Message! * and yes for your side note.. as long as everyone is honest and open about it then go for it and have fun! But always put the relationship first, over the lust and fun. Thanks for watching Elissa 😊🙏🏽
Furey Talks I will definitely reach out 😊 thanks love
Keep it G why wouldnt you date another woman?
Great show! Please share
I enjoyed this interview
"So Carter the Body"
I still enjoy this video
Quiero esta entrevista en español sigo a carter the body desde México 🇲🇽 😎🤌🏼❤️
Carter is funny on all the queens men 😂
I like women I'm married but I like it to be with me and my husband
Interesting but confusing!!!!!
Her face is beautiful
She foiinne 😍
Shut up
She fine as helll
my first love was bi in high school, it was crazy
She is 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
She's hot💪🏿
Do you have an email So I can ask some private questions?
Fureytalks@gmail.com
There is no such thing as bi we are just gay! Why ruind someone's life if you are going to keep thinking about your same sex!
Yesss he's hot 🔥 🇹🇹♥️♥️ come Trinidad i am single
I love her omg
love this, I love me a bisexual lady. But do not fully understand them. I am trying to get my wife to hang out with more bi women.
Bro!!! Do not do it!!! I was I a relationship with Bi chick for 2 years. The sex was fun but it can never go further than that because she will never be yours fully because she always have the urge to be with a woman on an emotional/mental level that is hard to explain unless you have seen it for yourself...you as a man cannot achieve that with her. Listen to May message, it will save you years of heartache and pain, money, time...invest that desire in a woman that truly loves men and you being her man.
Ok the close that a man can get to that kind of mental/emotional connection that two women sexual involved is a that Pimp and Hoe kinda connection....it is Cosmic.
Men are attracted to bi women you just have to establish open communication...
Yes.
This conversation was interesting I'm not thirsty but I still say Carter looks good point blank period 👍
The title is a dumb question
My ExGirlfriend had a Girlfriend when I met her. They broke up and I had my chance....#Brooklyn #NYC #BachelorGang #NoKidsGang
I was exactly in this situation, i got hurt so,
,much from mans so i tried with a woman
She was completely lesbien and i felt sorry for her that im not attractive to her as a lesbien.
Stuart Plant oh yeah, that’s a very common thing! Definitely unfair to those that are sure of what they want, but sometimes your immediate emotions say other wise, until you realize you never really were ready to switch over after all! Thank you for watching! And please subscribe if you haven’t already! This show will be airing every week and it’s JUST getting started 😊
No whiskey D.
Yeah your parents so proud
He’s finnnnneeeee ❤️❤️😍
You're blinnnnnnddd
She kinda resembles Kris kardashian
Nobody was born that way it's a choice.
Does it matter if it is or isn't tho? I mean it's not illegal and no one is hurting anyone I think people on all sides need to just leave each other alone
@@devanshepard9118 - Actually it does matter. People not being born that way means that they were influenced at some point in their lives whether that be media or their personal lives. That’s proof that these tv shows, movies, and etc. are influencing young children sexuality.
@@tiktokatnight7364
Actually it does not. I believe everyone grows into their sexuality and some people are not straight. I'm not straight I'm bisexual and I was never molested and had no exposure to anything but straight people. Being LGBT is not a crime even though some of y'all want it to be. And truth be told I have seen more anti LGBT feelings exposed these past three years then anything so I stand by what I said
@@tiktokatnight7364
And your comment just reinforced what I said everyone on all sides need to leave each other alone
@@devanshepard9118 - I don’t care what grown folk do. My comment didn’t reinstate yours. What I was trying to say is pushing these type of things on kids will influence them. No one is born that way, they’re influenced. Actually if you want to be technical by nature men and women are attracted to each other. It’s biologically natural.
She cute 😍
Did he hit that 😏
Gfy
😮
Soft asl 🤦🏿
😂😂😂😂
🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️
Lol she went straight OMGGGG
Carter.. I’m gay now.
Great show. This is my new favorite podcast. Can you interview Actor Christian Keyes? I love his take on relationship.
That's a good idea, but that would be a lot of fine-ness to watch at one time.......lol