Our First Time...*story time*

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  • @MaryTheMouse
    @MaryTheMouse 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1282

    I SO appreciate this video. Not many Christians will go into detail about this experience. Thank you for your vulnerability.

    • @ChelseaandNick
      @ChelseaandNick  5 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      Thank you so much for this encouragement and support!

    • @gabbylopez9091
      @gabbylopez9091 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I wholeheartedly agree! I'm waiting for my spouse and I'm happy to see a married couple who's Christian explaining it and having it turn out well! It gives me encouragement!

    • @nfe6404
      @nfe6404 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You have to read about islam and go and listen to ahmed deedat and zakir naik and yousef astes

    • @nfe6404
      @nfe6404 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ChelseaandNick You have to read about islam and go and listen to ahmed deedat and zakir naik and yousef astes

  • @emmasuzuki9840
    @emmasuzuki9840 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1803

    “Girl you are fine as aged wine”😂 love nick😂

    • @youtuberfanz4582
      @youtuberfanz4582 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I thought he said swine

    • @rebeccafeldman456
      @rebeccafeldman456 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      my LORDDD JESUUUUUS

    • @delaniebouska5529
      @delaniebouska5529 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I thought he said Asia wine

    • @djvn229
      @djvn229 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Literally in the bible..

    • @weareyoungfamily5746
      @weareyoungfamily5746 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Our first time,I lost my V card to my husband th-cam.com/video/2sWWwhRP44A/w-d-xo.html

  • @raynamerrill8763
    @raynamerrill8763 5 ปีที่แล้ว +890

    woahhhhh i did not know she was married....i haven’t watched her since she was beautyliciousinsider🤧

  • @oliviaquiram1806
    @oliviaquiram1806 5 ปีที่แล้ว +622

    i think it’s so interesting and cool that our insecurities are complete unnoticeable to other people

  • @18Sia247
    @18Sia247 5 ปีที่แล้ว +408

    Nick is so supportive it’s the cutest thing ever

  • @kristinvanslooten4895
    @kristinvanslooten4895 5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    You two are wonderful! My husband and I are both 24 and we got married 15 days ago. We both waited til our wedding night. Agree 100% with you guys. Not awkward or uncomfortable at all when you are with your spouse.

    • @theebibian1061
      @theebibian1061 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Its been 2 years how is it going?

  • @britneylopez7170
    @britneylopez7170 5 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    I love how supportive Nick's towards you. I been having a hard time to keep walking on the Lord's path but this type of videos always remind me of how good this is to me. I hope I can make up my head soon so I can go back to the Lord.

  • @lanajordan1862
    @lanajordan1862 5 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    I’ll admit, I didn’t wait until marriage but the relationship I’m in we just felt ready. It’s definitely made me appreciate my body more because he doesn’t see it the way I do, he just sees me and loves me and he doesn’t see what I think is wrong with me. Just like I don’t see the things he thinks are wrong with him. The right person can change your whole perspective on the world and life, and because of him I’m starting my own path and getting closer to God and he’s shown me things I never knew about myself. You guys truly love each other, I can see it. It’s so beautiful. True love can be found young, though it doesn’t happen often. I guess some of us are just lucky enough to find it young. Lots of love ❤️

    • @Spidercorpse
      @Spidercorpse 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      r yall still together

    • @lanajordan1862
      @lanajordan1862 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      lol no he cheated on me

  • @starlight4086
    @starlight4086 5 ปีที่แล้ว +265

    OH MY GOSH THE LAST TIME I SAW HER SHE WAS DOING A HAIR TUTORIAL

  • @laylatucker1657
    @laylatucker1657 5 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    Wow this was so encouraging for me especially when you talked about insecurities and how we shouldn't worry about how the other person sees us because they love us

  • @M-yd3ul
    @M-yd3ul 5 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Damn... this couple is everything. Protect them at all costs! Such an incredible connection between these two.

  • @maxwellfirth8096
    @maxwellfirth8096 5 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    I used to watch you about 3-5 years ago and decided to check your channel back out now and wow I can't believe how much you've grown I feel like a proud parent 😂

  • @ItsOlivia228
    @ItsOlivia228 5 ปีที่แล้ว +588

    Okay I'm not really religious but like, the way he looks at her.... *clap* *clap*

    • @sarahkendall3313
      @sarahkendall3313 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Yep! True Christian guys are like this!! For the most part 🤗

    • @ari9525
      @ari9525 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      God bless you

    • @daughterofgod4927
      @daughterofgod4927 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      It's not even about religion sis! God desires a relationship with you like He has with us as His bride. Seek and you shall find says the Lord, like a bride chasing after the mysteries of her lover. And He loved you first..❤

    • @adrianadeschaine4202
      @adrianadeschaine4202 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@daughterofgod4927amen! Exactly!

    • @harrykim8763
      @harrykim8763 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeeesss. The way he looks at her😍😍

  • @abbieamavi
    @abbieamavi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +468

    *doing it in the rain, in a treehouse, pretty perfect all around!! And what an awesome place for a honeymoon! I think it’s hard to make these videos, not only because demonetization (😂) but because it’s a pretty private subject and you can get so much hate and judgement. I love how Nick said “the context of marriage, it’s not about you”. True love right there, sacrifice and caring about their well being above your own. May you have the happiest and strongest marriage!*

  • @Bea94Spacca
    @Bea94Spacca 5 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    This was so nice to see: thanks guys for being so open in sharing your experience as newly married couple: I love the content you two out on both the channel and the podcasts.
    I am so excited about the book devotional :)
    Have a blessed birthday Nick and you also have a good rest of the weekend. God bless you two from England, the U.K🇬🇧🙏

  • @emilymccarter9693
    @emilymccarter9693 5 ปีที่แล้ว +166

    the way he looks at her is everything🙂

  • @amandajf8706
    @amandajf8706 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This made me so happy. Hearing about how you guys prayed and waiting gives me hope. My biggest fear in life is never finding someone who loves me, has the same Beliefs as me and wants to wait. I feel like everyone now around my age have lost their virginity at like, 14. Even the people at my church I know smokes weed during the week and I feel like there is hardly anyone anymore that sicks with there morals and I don’t want to settle for less. It doesn’t help that people around me that I trust have tried to ‘diagnose’ me with a sexuality because here I am, going into college, and I haven’t found anyone attractive like that. I’m in college, and I’ve never had a crush. Weirdly that scares me.

    • @lisan2228
      @lisan2228 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You are so fully known and fully loved by God. I've never had a boyfriend or been on a date, but I know that God will guide us to where we need to be.

    • @ChelseaandNick
      @ChelseaandNick  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      NEVER SETTLE. Wait on The Lord!

    • @Billionaire-ir7px
      @Billionaire-ir7px 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Asexual ?

  • @makennadaniel6870
    @makennadaniel6870 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1228

    It’s crazy I’ve been watching you on and off since you were beautyliciousinsider lmfao❤️❤️

    • @ChelseaandNick
      @ChelseaandNick  5 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      Wooo!! Thanks for sticking around gf. ❤️

    • @paigedougall28
      @paigedougall28 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      OMG I was wondering where I knew her from cause this was in my reccommended!!!

    • @addiejo2998
      @addiejo2998 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Me too that’s crazy!!! Time flies

    • @tapangacarmack8104
      @tapangacarmack8104 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too 😭

    • @kacyleiann1009
      @kacyleiann1009 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same!

  • @jessica-tq1sf
    @jessica-tq1sf 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    It's crazy how much you have grown since I last watched your channel. I am not Christian/Catholic but this is a really beautiful story!! Keep up with the great content.

    • @charitywanja4737
      @charitywanja4737 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Why aren't you a Christian. God loves you Jessica.

    • @horrorgamestv6564
      @horrorgamestv6564 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@charitywanja4737 If someone isn’t Christian, you shouldn’t force them to become one. Everyone has their own perspective and their own opinion :)

  • @KarensKidd
    @KarensKidd 5 ปีที่แล้ว +189

    Loved this video. I’m currently 17 years old and have decided to open up a little more with religion... I never grew up religious or going to church, but I’ve always said I would wait for marriage. Videos like this keep me encouraged to continue to wait. Thank you for this.💕

  • @KashiAyumi
    @KashiAyumi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Getting Married tomorrow. I Adore my soon to be Husband & we decided to wait to Marriage to be intimate. He supports me, Encourages me & Uplifts me! Im Excited to wake up to him everyday & yet Im Nervous to be Intimate with him. Glad you guys made me feel Sex can be a Beautiful & Positive experience😌

    • @ChelseaandNick
      @ChelseaandNick  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Oh my gosh!! So excited for you!! 🥳🥳

  • @isabella2513
    @isabella2513 5 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    Wow......thank you so much talking about your insecurities and comfort, and how y'all PRAYED beforehand?? I love that. I'm very religious and having an honest, young couple talk about something so intimate, is great to see. Love you guys

  • @selahs3110
    @selahs3110 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You're "first time" story reminds me of us. Love it.💕 We are married 14 yrs and counting.. God is good!
    God bless you both.

  • @genevievesimon4810
    @genevievesimon4810 5 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    “I give it all five stars.”

  • @katelyndashwood1610
    @katelyndashwood1610 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I really enjoy your content! I'm sure many of us have taken a different route in life, but I 100% understand and agree with you actually! Thanks for being honest and keep on making amazing content!!

  • @lilascofill2321
    @lilascofill2321 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    you guys are so sweet. I love that you talk about these topics. and the facts that everything you say comes from a Christian view is amazing. keep serving God this way. love you guys.💕💕

  • @natalyycristina
    @natalyycristina 5 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Happy birthday nick! I pray that God continues to work in you, use you for his glory and that you and chels continue to lean on him when times are hard and even when times are good! Love you guys!

    • @ChelseaandNick
      @ChelseaandNick  5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thank you so much. I’m humbled and honored by this. May God bless you!

    • @natalyycristina
      @natalyycristina 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ChelseaandNick np! thank you guys

  • @katherineperusina9018
    @katherineperusina9018 5 ปีที่แล้ว +796

    Sex shouldn’t be such a taboo subject. Sex isn’t just for making babies and yes woman are allowed to actually enjoy sex if it feels good. Christians make it seem so forbidden it’s annoying. But I respect your decisions and everyone is entitled to believe what they want. I just wish Christians wouldn’t put such a negative connotation on it

    • @maddieburchill3792
      @maddieburchill3792 5 ปีที่แล้ว +161

      It’s not a forbidden thing amongst Christians. God literally created it, it’s a great & beautiful thing. It comes across as negative because Christ followers aren’t supposed to have sex before marriage:)

    • @ambergrace9899
      @ambergrace9899 5 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      Agreed. We are sexual creatures. Women and men both love sex!! It’s not bad to have sex before marriage, there’s nothing wrong with sleeping who you want to sleep with, and there’s nothing wrong with waiting! It’s all about personal preference. Do you!

    • @Rjz10
      @Rjz10 5 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      Amber Grace no you’re wrong. I just don’t understand why people get so offended when they say you are supposed to wait for marriage. If there is good there is evil. Just because you can’t see God doesn’t mean he’s not real. I’d rather live my life following Christ than regret it when Jesus comes the last time for his children who are saved. I’m not spending eternity in hell! If you want to be blind to it so be it 🙏🏼 Not every one has access to the afterlife 😌

    • @svt3903
      @svt3903 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Why do you say "Christians"????

    • @ambergrace9899
      @ambergrace9899 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Vane Zurbano I never said anything about your religion. Not everyone believes in the same thing and that’s perfectly okay. You can’t tell me I’m “wrong” because you have different beliefs. Just like I’m not telling you that you’re “wrong”. Everyone is different.

  • @elizagrace1530
    @elizagrace1530 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Such good advice and story-time! You are both so mature and level headed and I appreciate that! You both are so great and I really enjoys watching your videos!❤️

  • @OriginauxHaircare
    @OriginauxHaircare 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Seeing that they have so many subscribers is an encouragement to me! Keep being an example of godliness to this generation!

    • @ChelseaandNick
      @ChelseaandNick  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much! It’s been quite the ride. 😂

  • @biancaherrera3041
    @biancaherrera3041 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I used to watch her when she did grwm in high school! And I just found this channel my heart is so happy for you guys!! 💕

  • @allisonlucas018
    @allisonlucas018 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Thanks for being so open and honest about this! ❤

    • @ChelseaandNick
      @ChelseaandNick  5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You bet! We loved making this vid!!

  • @totalknockoutfitness2969
    @totalknockoutfitness2969 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much for this candid conversation. It definitely provides ease as a young Christian woman to what the intimate experience is like. May God continue to bless your marriage! 🙌🏾

  • @MJ-yk8ou
    @MJ-yk8ou 5 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    I love how Nick is so proud of his wife and shows it 😍 happy birthday dude 🎊

    • @ChelseaandNick
      @ChelseaandNick  5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I love her so much 😭 - Nick

  • @Siyadlams
    @Siyadlams 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    this is such a beautiful story you are sharing. My wife and I also kept ourselves until we got married.
    in fact, we did not even kiss until after the wedding and it was special when it happened. That was 16 years ago this Friday (19 June). Keep that light shining guys. Be blessed.

  • @emmacosta1960
    @emmacosta1960 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Haven’t finished watching the video yet!! But Happy Birthday Nick! May God bless you with another amazing year!!

    • @ChelseaandNick
      @ChelseaandNick  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much friend! I greatly appreciate that 😭♥️🙌🏻

  • @empressjackson1
    @empressjackson1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This video was so beautiful and helpful. My fiancé and I are in a courtship. Its always nice to see Godly relationships and marriage!! 😍😍

  • @emmaekstrom1174
    @emmaekstrom1174 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Y’all look like a younger version of Paul and Morgan!! But this definitely helps I’ve been telling my non Christian friends that I’m waiting till marriage and they always say well what if you aren’t compatible!! But thank you

  • @saraklassen2080
    @saraklassen2080 4 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    My husband and i spent our honeymoon on that exact resort!!! Best time of our lives!

    • @ChelseaandNick
      @ChelseaandNick  4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      So so glad!!! It’s was the best

  • @Valsasmrr
    @Valsasmrr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Iv been watching chels for so long and just to see she is married now and happy is amazing
    I love how inspirational u are

  • @alexandras8734
    @alexandras8734 5 ปีที่แล้ว +692

    If I’m able to ask, how did you both deal with temptations during your relationship before marriage & were you both able to withstand all of the sexual acts before marriage?? Happy birthday nick 🎉 you guys are so inspirational

    • @ChelseaandNick
      @ChelseaandNick  5 ปีที่แล้ว +265

      Such a phenomenal question! I think we’re going to do a video on this in the next couple weeks!

    • @alexandras8734
      @alexandras8734 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      The Hurst Family thank you!! I can’t wait 😋 I’ve loved being a part of this life journey with you both ❤️ god bless

    • @leahbrandman7549
      @leahbrandman7549 5 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      I think the best answer to this is to not be alone. When you feel temptation coming on, go out in public. If you’re having a long period of it, then stay away from each other until it passes and keep communication to the phone and texting. Be sure to check to see that it is love and not lust. That is hugely important. If you’re old enough to get married and mature enough, your relationship is ready for that and you know that God means for you to be together, then take a leap of faith and get married. You will be pleasing a God. As St. Paul said, this is one reason for marriage. I know you weren’t asking for a random person’s advice, but I’ve been married for 15 years. I dealt with this before I was married to my husband. Best to you!

    • @alexandras8734
      @alexandras8734 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Leah Brandman I really appreciate it 😋 thank you so much for all the wonderful advice

    • @leahbrandman7549
      @leahbrandman7549 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Alexandra S My pleasure, sweetheart! I’m so glad I could help you. God’s peace!💛

  • @GlamourousGirl27
    @GlamourousGirl27 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    LOVE this! i totally understand you chelsea when you were talking about insecurities, and how everything i thought was wrong my boyfriend always reassured me that he didn’t even realize and just thought that i was the most beautiful woman he has ever seen. idk if i made sense but sometimes it doesn’t have to

    • @ChelseaandNick
      @ChelseaandNick  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Trust him! Don’t fall in the victim or pity mindset. Be confident 🙌🏻

  • @mathewrichards7309
    @mathewrichards7309 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Great video God is using you guys in a big way to reach this generation of young people.

    • @ChelseaandNick
      @ChelseaandNick  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much. We’re humbled 😭♥️

  • @JoeHenkel
    @JoeHenkel 5 ปีที่แล้ว +232

    Nick, I'm the 25% who is a male watching this. Lol

    • @leahbrandman7549
      @leahbrandman7549 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Wow, great for you!!!! May you find your true love in God’s perfect timing! 🛐✝️👼

    • @JoeHenkel
      @JoeHenkel 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@leahbrandman7549 🙏🙌😎❤🏋️‍♂️👍😊

    • @leahbrandman7549
      @leahbrandman7549 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Joe Henkel 🤗🖤

  • @mihretkifle9473
    @mihretkifle9473 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    when you spoke about your insecurities I couldn't relate more..thank you sisy, listening to this meant a lot

  • @roxyprzrp
    @roxyprzrp 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Nick never fails to crack me up hahah love y'all

  • @rhiyamallia6012
    @rhiyamallia6012 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you just for being so real with us! You’re such an inspiration and this topic just makes me think about so many unanswered questions as I’m Catholic too. Hoping for more videos like this! Thank you guys for being yourselves with us and God bless you ❤️

  • @racheladistefano7416
    @racheladistefano7416 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i loved how honest yall are ty for being such inspirational ppl

  • @pinkdolphin66
    @pinkdolphin66 5 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    This needs to be shared

  • @ruthkinney6500
    @ruthkinney6500 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for this video!! I love hearing the stories of people who were virgins up to their wedding day! It is reassuring of what I already suspect. (there are a few reasons I suspect it will not be as "Awkward!!" as people who are sexually active seem to think.)

  • @rootsekona4477
    @rootsekona4477 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Watch a video before this one and subscribed! I also agree on the wait for your marriage part! Everyone has their own agency but i also prefer to wait and I believe that that is also one way to test your partner how far they are willing to wait! I know we all have different perspective but well i found this video so encouraging Love you both keep inspiring others !!💛✌

  • @Sonia-Kae
    @Sonia-Kae 5 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Happy Birthday Nick hope 22 treats you well 🎊🎉

  • @keirakonson5022
    @keirakonson5022 5 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I saw that you have Love Does on your bookshelf! Love love love that book!

    • @ChelseaandNick
      @ChelseaandNick  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      SO
      GOOD

    • @tatumharvel1119
      @tatumharvel1119 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's the best ever! You should definitely read Everybody Always if you haven't!

  • @asunshinevibes
    @asunshinevibes 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    One of the most inspirational honest couples thank you for this I’m a very spiritual person and this video is on point!❤️🙏🏼💯

  • @cassogoe1859
    @cassogoe1859 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for not sugarcoating this conversation like most people do I love this couple 😍

  • @pisces4446
    @pisces4446 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    you guys have the most relaxing voices ever.

  • @BiancaJuliaVlogs
    @BiancaJuliaVlogs 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I love how you describe it with the word freedom 💕

  • @thisisgrace6797
    @thisisgrace6797 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This is so needed. Thank you for speaking about this ❤️

    • @ChelseaandNick
      @ChelseaandNick  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much. We’re glad we did! ♥️

  • @carlottarobbins7005
    @carlottarobbins7005 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Pretty new fan here!
    As a Christian teen who's also decided to wait for marriage, I was like "Hmmm, do I wanna watch this?..." But honestly, I think you guys handled it rly well - great vid!

  • @baileyym5251
    @baileyym5251 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you both for being so vulnerable and honest about this! I have so much respect for y'all and your character

  • @solstudios941
    @solstudios941 5 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    I was just in Mexico with my family in August! We were about an hour south of where you guys were. It was soooo pretty!! Also, I'd love to hear any advice you two have for battling temptation before marriage :)

    • @ChelseaandNick
      @ChelseaandNick  5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Ahhh!! We loved it! That’s a great idea for a next video.

    • @morganchurchman1083
      @morganchurchman1083 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sol Studios are going on a Saturday or Saturday and we can get a few things in the time and we will be going back later this afternoon or maybe I will get a few more things done before we get done and then I can come back and pick you guys gonna I wanna was the time I

  • @gracebakke625
    @gracebakke625 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I literally just found your channel today and then after watching this I order the book 😂 I love your faith in the lord it’s really inspiring 🙏🏻

    • @ChelseaandNick
      @ChelseaandNick  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh my gosh yes! Love this comment. Thanks so much for the support, but more importantly I hope the book challenges you and encourages you! 🙌🏻❤️

  • @emilymccarter9693
    @emilymccarter9693 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This video is so inspiring. Thank you so much. Nick you are such a gentleman.

  • @tc1539
    @tc1539 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This just popped up on my feed and I was legit thinking of your channel beautliciousinsider! But at the time I couldn't remember the name, only that you had a verse at the beginning of your videos! Now you're married and my goodness this is crazy! So glad I found you again and congratulations on getting married!

  • @rosybirchwood6476
    @rosybirchwood6476 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I know I'm late but it's so precious to see a Christian couple talking about their first time. It warms my heart, truly.

  • @liyahsunshine
    @liyahsunshine 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Happy 22 Nick!! get lit on your day hope it’s a great one!!🎉🎉🎈💫🙌🏽

  • @misschloe3678
    @misschloe3678 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    So happy you made this video, I've seen this video when it was posted but rewatching it as all your videos are super helpful. Love you two and Nick is so funny 😂💕

  • @ellona3645
    @ellona3645 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love how open you guys are!

  • @madelyng8624
    @madelyng8624 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you so much for this video! I am waiting until marriage and I always get so nervous thinking about that my husband will have to see me naked and I’m really insecure so that would be really nerve wracking for me. But what you said about that made me feel a little bit better.

  • @jeweliabrasseaux7340
    @jeweliabrasseaux7340 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I just want to say thank you Hurst family because I am 16 years old and I am a Christian as well. My family are missionaries in Peru and this is a topic I talk about with my mom as well and to see a young people like yourselves who have been raised in the faith and who did their relationship the right way is very encouraging to me. I look up to you guys and I want to have a godly relationship and I want it to be done in the right way so thank you for setting that example for every young person out there.

  • @jacindaarndt5623
    @jacindaarndt5623 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I would LOVE a video on your journey writing a book, like I have written a lot and would love to get my own books published one day. It would be super helpful to me to hear what struggles you went through to get a book published and on the market or if it was easy and any advice? I'm also around your age, I'm 20, and it seems impossible in my head to get one of my books out in the world while I'm still this young. I always pictured me having to be an old lady before every getting to do anything like that. So I find it inspiring that you're young like me and already have a book of your own out there! ❤

  • @84953
    @84953 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When are people going to learn that who someone is is NOT in their "package", but what is in their head and heart?! You both are beautiful in head and heart, and the rest doesn't matter. Maybe if we could get others to latch onto the concept, we would find a lot of improvement in our world. Anyone know what prejudism is? It's ignorance and fear. Fear of the things we don't understand.

  • @oliviacoe7297
    @oliviacoe7297 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The perspective from a Christian girl who is waiting for marriage, I would say these are the main bulletin points I would love to be covered from a woman in more depth and also the answers I have received from a lot of personal research. Also I do want to say that the man's perspective is also really important and valued!!
    1. Girl, does it hurt?
    Most typical answer: It's different for everyone
    2. Is it awkward?
    Most typical answer: (again, this is from a Christian waiting till marriage point of view) Not really.
    3. Was it a good experience?
    Most typical answer: I would say it was; we're still learning but it was definitely a positive experience.

  • @victoriakush6594
    @victoriakush6594 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I remember watching you a ton when I was younger. Kinda stopped watching TH-cam for a little while and recently found your page again. I’ve been watching a few videos now, and I think I remember you mentioning you guys did long distance dating? If I am correcttttt, how did you guys make it work? Communication is big and how did you guys make that work? Do you have a video about it already?
    Btw, don’t know why I ever stopped watching your videos. Wow I love them 🤩
    You’re such an inspiration, came out of a relationship a little while ago that was not Christ centered. I strive for my next relationship to be so Christ centered as you two. God’s blessings ♥️

  • @miriamstiles5968
    @miriamstiles5968 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love how you guys are so pure and honest! I really want my marriage to be just like this!

  • @hopetorres6514
    @hopetorres6514 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I'm so glad I found your channel today it's nice knowing there people who also lives there life on god in obedience to the Lord with your walk with our heavenly father god bless you guys

  • @alecwesterbur2977
    @alecwesterbur2977 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nick, I can totally relate being a tall skinny guy and what that self perceived insecurity can bring. I want to thank you both for your experience and insight because I am recently engaged and will be getting married in about 6 months!

  • @AlphaShark
    @AlphaShark 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m a guy! And my channel is the opposite, it’s like 98% guys that watch me. Probably retrospectively because I review pickup trucks... but overall great video! I’m a believer too and I’m also waiting till marriage and I think you guys very maturely explained the topic and you guys are cute.

  • @AlmaGabriela
    @AlmaGabriela 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Waiting for one person is literally the best thing you can do and It’s Honoring to God that’s why the media tries to destroy that mentality 💛 💯 recommend to wait

  • @KawaiiStudioO
    @KawaiiStudioO 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    love you guys!! weird question- did you prepare contraception before the wedding? (going to the doctor, starting the pill etc..) xx

  • @hermybecky3315
    @hermybecky3315 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    U guys are amazing
    As was listening what she was saying I felt something I felt like I woke up from my day dreaming u nocked my head I then shared the video right away to my boyfriend
    May God bless u both

  • @BriannaAT
    @BriannaAT 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Happy Birthday Nick! Have a great, fun, and blessed day!(:

    • @ChelseaandNick
      @ChelseaandNick  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much!! 😊

    • @BriannaAT
      @BriannaAT 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ChelseaandNick You’re Welcome!(:

  • @tatianalopez2103
    @tatianalopez2103 5 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    You chels look STUNNING in Red! 👌👌

    • @ChelseaandNick
      @ChelseaandNick  5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Wooooo I agree 😍😍😍 - Nick

  • @maggyhovden6993
    @maggyhovden6993 5 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    What are both of your opinions on drinking alcohol?

    • @autumnw1845
      @autumnw1845 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I know you weren't asking me but Im a Christian and hopefully I have close to the same view as them haha. But I think drinking alcohol is okay as long as its legally and that you dont abuse it. I consider getting drunk/drinking to the point where you lose judgment, which is too far.

    • @autumnw1845
      @autumnw1845 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Prince Chamberlain first that's so exciting for her! And secondly, I agree I think it should be avoided, but I also think that's its okay if you know your boundaries/limits. Obviously if you're easily addicted you shouldnt drink so you're not tempted but if you're not then I think it'll be okay to have one or two.

    • @carlottarobbins7005
      @carlottarobbins7005 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@autumnw1845 I totally agree!!

  • @autumnmarietaggart
    @autumnmarietaggart 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    also were you on birth control before getting married or no?

    • @keepinitkawaii
      @keepinitkawaii 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      It depends on what kind is used. You normally need to start birth control pills a few months to ensure you dont get pregnant

  • @jasminesabharwal5431
    @jasminesabharwal5431 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Omg I clicked as fast as I could 😂

    • @ChelseaandNick
      @ChelseaandNick  5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yay!! Feel free to share too. Thank you so much for watching.

  • @alexialeanna1359
    @alexialeanna1359 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    completely off topic, but your hair is so beautiful chelsea!!

    • @ChelseaandNick
      @ChelseaandNick  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      alexia leanna thank you so much!! - Chels

  • @silentmystic2548
    @silentmystic2548 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Aww! You guys are so cute together! I'm so glad you found each other. I will DEFINITELY be checking out your book. I love you both so much! You are very inspiring so thank you ❤️ ❤️

  • @stephanihab
    @stephanihab 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    thanks guys for this one, appreciated

  • @Michellemertz
    @Michellemertz 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Aww❤️ much love! God bless you

  • @emmasuzuki9840
    @emmasuzuki9840 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    0:48 did he say the f word?😂
    Edit: sorry it was “if I can”😂😂

    • @ChelseaandNick
      @ChelseaandNick  5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Emma Suzuki no no 😂
      He said “If i can like buy a.....hut” 🤣

  • @torivega9097
    @torivega9097 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wow. I found this video really helpful! Thanks for sharing!! btw you guys are goals

  • @annierose6556
    @annierose6556 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Happy Birthday Nick 🥳🎈2️⃣2️⃣!!!!

    • @ChelseaandNick
      @ChelseaandNick  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      WOOOOO IDK ABOUT YOU BUT IM FEELIN 22 🙌🏻😂

  • @PhoenixDenStudios
    @PhoenixDenStudios 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Every time nick did the high pitch voice thing id start laughing no matter what they were talking about 😂😂

  • @WereJustPeople
    @WereJustPeople 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Happy birthday Mr. Hurst!!! Love you guys.

  • @katelynvlogger
    @katelynvlogger 5 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    I thought in one of your podcasts that you discussed that Nick had slept with one other person one time? No judgement, I was just confused between what was said in this video compared to that podcast episode.

    • @ChelseaandNick
      @ChelseaandNick  5 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      Yes, that’s true! He wasn’t a virgin when we were married, but we both waited together in our dating relationship and engagement until marriage!

    • @justanotherpersonxo
      @justanotherpersonxo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Umm... Interesting. I had no ideia.

    • @rootsekona4477
      @rootsekona4477 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      The point is that they waited for marriage! It doesnt mayter whats in the past! But i get your point its just that its common sense anyways peace ✌

    • @katelynvlogger
      @katelynvlogger 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Root Sekona Well, comments in this video like “we have only ever done this with each other” etc contradict what was said in the podcast. I don’t care what so ever what other people choose to do, but I was looking for clarification. Of course I understand that they waiting in their dating relationship until marriage- which is awesome! 😊

    • @Evergreenforest33
      @Evergreenforest33 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Omggg please touch more on this and not make it “taboo” like you said it’s a struggle many face! Don’t make everything look super peachy talk about any issues she had as a Christian Virgin vs him as beginning new THATS the stuff more Christians need to hear about!!!

  • @daisym.4046
    @daisym.4046 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Amazing video! Great approach you guys took with the subject. Also, where is Nick’s shirt from?!

  • @jessirodriguez7200
    @jessirodriguez7200 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Yall are so cute and have given me hope in a way💙

  • @billiewalters5677
    @billiewalters5677 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This is the first video I watched of you 2. What beautiful people you are

  • @feliciabourque
    @feliciabourque 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great video as always love ya'll. Happy birthday Nick

    • @ChelseaandNick
      @ChelseaandNick  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      We love you back!! Thank you so much for watching consistently.