I can tell he wasn’t initially attracted to her but still went out with her anyway because he doesn’t know how to properly reject someone. He’s coming up with every excuse in the book to justify his actions except for the actual truth
I was thinking this too. I’m not sure if he wants to be chased by a woman because he kept saying how she pursed him when she went on his blind date segment lol
@@zimasajamExactly. He obviously didn’t want to hurt her feelings on the show, and then he felt like he had to commit after that by at least going on one date. If he truly was attracted to her, he would’ve made way more of an effort to spend time with her
Somebody get this man a speech therapist. He has sooo much potential. He seems kind hearted and truly a good person. He needs confidence and communication training
Definitely lacking confidence because there's no way he fumbled and then making excuses about being uncomfortable with male friends. Like CLAIM YOUR SPOT
There's a difference between wanting a relationship (Terrance) and being READY for a relationship (NOT Terrance). Bro, if you can't plan dates and communicate your feelings properly to a woman, you are NOT ready. Period. We the Real Men Committee do not accept your excuses after you've been given so many chances.
We not gonna sugarcoat this shit...he ain't into her! She needs to take the sign. I don't care what anyone says about "people must learn how to communicate" f all of that. If we really want something like a opportunity to go on a cruise for free or we want to talk to someone, it will happen even if you're nervous. He ain't into her like that. Just move on man. Because I don't respect a man who just goes along with a woman because he don't wanna hurt her feelings. That's what I call the bf and gf relationship these days. He don't wanna tell her he don't want marriage but he don't wanna lose access to reliable sex with her.
@@BloodLeopard-rm8wg Yes! LOL! Everything checked out with Terrance and this young lady except for the her passing the visual eye test. Terrance is not physically attracted to her and he didn't want to come out and say it. Men don't like hurting women feelings.
@@kingofmykraft1447 Terrance isn’t slow he’s literally does electrical work and probably licensed. he just don’t like her or don’t want used for free dates.
Arlette INTENSLEY looking at Terrence as he talks just to swing around and say "Can you elaborate on that" had me weak. She ain't understand a word that man was saying lol, but I like how she is still always professional about it.
I don’t think Terrance’s segment should have been blind. All the women had already watched the show and knew what he looked like so the contestants were more at an advantage than him. Eye contact and conversation really helps foster the beginning stages of connecting and he missed out on that with the way the episode was styled.
Terrance, YOU mesed up! If you treated this relationship like you treat your hair this could have been a great relationship! You asked many great questions during the blind date and fizzled out horribly! This young lady is responsible and serious about being married and you wasted her time! A woman of value has boundaries and you don't deserve her. Now this young lady needs her own blind date segment! 😂
As much as I love this show, it spotlights how dysfunctional dating is. Everyone wants good communication but no one communicates. People judge every single thing!! This is why things are so hard because we can’t get out of our own way. Smh
I been said Terrance does not need help finding love. Height is not that much of an issue in the real world. He even said his last relationship ended bc he was not ready for marriage. He just seems very passive/ doesn’t take initiative.
So true height isn't as much of an issue as people make it out to be it just makes the initial interactions a little abrasive sometimes and even that's not that serious. It's usually people insecurities around height that make height a problem and not the height itself.
The social dynamic between these two is what created the oil and water effect. Brotha Terrance seems to be a slow reactor TO conversation and she appears to be an engaging thinker and conversationalist.
This is an example of a man who says he can lead but he doesn’t know how to execute. God bless Arlette, she is so patient. They gave him his OWN segment to find a match after so many failed attempts just for him to waste it with excuses. He seems sweet but very aloof, unaware of his self & the circumstances & wasting ppl time on this platform
Terrence is a laborer worker, he does welding and electrician. That is not an easy job. It’s a sweaty, dirty, exhausting manual labor job. He doesn’t have the type of job where you can get off work and go somewhere else really without showering. It’s also a dangerous job, so there is no texting during work hours. In my opinion he’s a Saturday Sunday type of dude. During the week you could probably just get a good FaceTime call from him ❤️ I have Union men in my family.
good points here. Also I never heard of you HAVE to text a girl EVERY DAY before 9pm or else you are a bad boyfriend. Like where did that become a rule? I guess I'm getting old or?
Good points. I generally didn't think of that. Not sure if he explained that in this video but yeah that can be another reason for him to chat later on after decompressing from work. We tend to think most have office positions that can just go straight from the office to happy hour..
I have two plumbers in my family Son and grandson The work is very lonely.yet I'm very proud of them I don't think they have time to meet Potential mates except for when they're actually in your homes with a service call. Tradesmen actually make much as doctors With the on call hours being just as bad. My son/ grandson calls me at 8 or 9 at night still at work.... Because that's when a lot of customers at home or the overtime emergencies happen. If she's a Christian why hasn't she found somebody in her own church. My son says women at the bank turn their nose up at him except for when they go see his bank account😂
It’s just crazy how they both bring up facts to the table and they both super calm and chill no raise of voice tone and shit… this my fav episode of all times
Basically it's a lack of communication and Terrance as a man not being assertive enough! I think they should try again! Denisha is A GROWN WOMAN and she knows what she wants!
He wasn't the problem he wasn't interested in her because she had guy friends dude🚩🚩🚩......that's why he never took the initiative to plan a date with her......
We were all rooting for you Terrance!! Whyyyyyy! Please 🙏 plan the dates and be excited about them to show the woman that you are truly interested. Be communicative about your work schedule and try to get to know the women you are courting. Have fun with the dates and understand the woman’s time. I wish you two the best!
You wanted the good brother to settle because most women reject him do to his height. Hell Naw. She is no top choice anything. This is not prime pickings. He treated the Narwhal as it should be treated. Then to top is off, she is a liar. All that on the set cap is too see-through.
She was 30 mins late, bro left and came back. She compared him to men in her DM's, she says no calls past 9pm even though he gets off @ 6:30, she admits her male friends like her and says he's insecure for feeling weird about that, she blocked him on everything for being late to a date.
Please pin this comment. Lol. Y'all need to quit hating on Terrance. It feels like she couldn't wait to come on here and completely blame Terrance as the problem and why they didn't work. The issue just seemed like they just weren't compatible. She had so many restrictions and rules, etc. But didn't give him the same grace. And he's a hard worker so alot of what she was expecting as far as curfews and the only free time she had just didn't match his lifestyle. I'm still rooting for you Terrance! Arlette, don't give up on him!😅
If she really had restrictions, she wouldn't have guy friends around who have feelings for her. She wouldn't be out there drinking after 11 when the person she's dating is not allowed to call her after 9. She uses religious tag and articulation techniques to sound mature and traditional. If she really practised her faith, she wouldn't be doing those activities.
Lol it really did… she explained what a disciple was and clearly said its not a religious title but the walk you have, the practice…. And he still didn’t understand that 😂😂
Mine too honestly. Maybe because I’m a basic Christian😂. If someone told me they were a disciple I would have thought they were like some sort of super holy Christian. Like the strict ones who are always trying to convert people and cover their heads in church. When it turned to her going out and partying and drinking with all her male friends who she said likes her then calling him insecure for not being uncomfortable I was even more confused. I feel like a Christian would understand that. Or maybe I’m crazy. Life long Christian here, choir practice, Wednesday bible study Christian…. However I too turn up 😂😂😂 so I don’t tend to lead with I’m super holy because it’s in my heart, not all of the time in practice so no judgement on my part. But I can understand the confusion
The first disciples are the chosen followers of Christ. So any denomination can have a discipleship. That’s where he was confused. But yes I agree, it seems like she still has a lot of growing to do in life and with her religion. So does he.
I don’t blame Terrance for not wanting to wait 30+ minutes for his date to arrive. If he made the effort to show up on his work clothes, it means he was trying.
Terrance has some growing up to do. The mumbling and laid back thing isn’t a personality trait, it seems like a defense mechanism. It’s not a an excuse for the indecision and passive intentions. Pace is one thing but the lifestyles in this match are incompatible. Also, if you pay attention to her responses on the episode, she wasn’t entirely truthful herself. She had very clear boundaries and he wanted her to compromise them rather than working with her in a way that affirms her boundaries. The questions he asked were interesting on the show but the dealbreakers weren’t addressed and it ruined this match as well. In the end, it’s a journey. And I’m excited for Terrance because he’s bringing a beautiful heart and intention toward his search. Minor tweaks and he’ll be in a beautiful union. But you MUST process and communicate your emotions Terrance.
Facts. I'm a grown man and wouldn't want my daughter to bring him home. Eventually I feel like a woman would get tired of him and want a stronger man. It's a lot of women out here who are naturally submissive to guys like me because of how I carry myself. Being short is one thing but when you have it together in other places then it makes up for what u lack.
Terrance is a very nice and kind soul, you can see it whenever he talks💯 It’s unfortunate that he gets misunderstood a lot, and that the women don’t see him for what he really is, that’s a very kind hearted genuine man!
Hey guys, I usually do not comment, but I feel we are not doing enough to support Arlette's channel. We're giving her the views, but let's hit the subcribe button! Keep doing good, Arlette. You are a great moderator and listener and have an amazing show, which I see most people replicating here on TH-cam. But class is not sold. All the best to you, your husband and the entire production team.
I seen the other ones. The hosts have no talent, no communication skills or charisma. She has all of them, that’s why I keep watching her show, but have not watched the other ones again.
She had me at the first half of the show. Terrence clearly needs help with communication. However, her calling him insecure because she hangs around male friends that like her and blocking him is definitely a bit immature. Another thing is, if she wasn’t available for calls after 9, why was she out partying with her male friends while drinking. Doesn’t seem very Christian like and she was asking for him to be a disciple. That’s just weird to me. I hope that Terrence fixes his communication issues and that he finds a great woman, he is still very sweet & humble.
Thank you! Somebody said it! Every one in the comments are being one sided (her side) & isn’t paying attention to every single detail that is coming from both of their stories. I’m not saying that he isn’t wrong for not planning the dates, yes communication is best but she acts like she is on a tight schedule every single day to where she can’t just do anything spontaneous w/o it being planned out. Like he said, she didn’t have issues going out with guys getting tipsy. Another thing, I get her saying that he sounds insecure but if she truly paid attention to him, it’s definitely giving he’s been cheated on, because on his blind date segment, he asked that question about if they cheated before & asked it more than once. And for her to tell him that the guy “friend “ wanna be more than friends, it sounds like she was trying to make him jealous. Also let me add, just because she’s all holy rolley doesn’t mean she’s a saint. She’s giving “sneaky “ vibes to me
I think very simply put, he is just not feeling her. Terrance is so nice that he doesn’t want to let her or US down so he was coming up with any excuse as to why it’s not going to work. When he finally had a valid point he ran with it.. they are both very nice people and both deserve to find their perfect match!
exactly how i feel too. Initially, she did like him and was open to possibilities of trying out on a date. Her interest in him dropped way too much and that's a deal breaker for most women if men can't create the spark they want
NO!! he isnt nice. he has the personality of a tree, sounds lie he is always high, he is disinterested, has no energy, he is so plain i dont even know why anyone will wanna be with him. He sounds like the type of guy who likes to be babied and mollycoddled....a pampered mommy's boy!! There is no way in hell ill support any woman going out with this guy
I think Terrance wants a relationship but lacks the experience and wherewithal to sustain one… He also has a very low level vocabulary and could use some classes ……His comprehension skills need a boost … maybe Arlette can do a relationship school , cuz some of these men just need fine tuning
He’s not attracted to her. He is too nice to just be transparent. You can tell when he chose her on the blind date and saw her he didn’t have the same reaction he did with the eliminated women
I don’t think he wasn’t attracted to her physically but rather felt like she wasn’t genuine he just didn’t know whether she was genuine about her interests in him or even genuine in who she says she is. behind the curtain she was confident and selling herself but when she came out she wasn’t as confident. she is very very passive aggressive and I’m not saying she is a horrible person-what I am saying is that passive aggressiveness makes ppl hard to connect with and they don’t feel like safe spaces because you don’t know which is really them and how they really feel about things.
He ain't into her. I don't respect men like him. He want sexual access to her and pretends to like her and go on dates for that reason but we all know if we want to spend a lifetime with someone or not. Be honest man. Tell her you ain't ready or you feel she isn't the one
lol I can tell who commented before finishing the whole video!! I was mad at Terence in the beginning too but as the video progressed, she was CLEARLY in the wrong! Getting tipsy with guy friends who like her but doesn’t want Terence to text her after 9pm? Meanwhile his work schedule makes him get out of work late sometimes and gives little wiggle room to communicate before 9pm. She’s approaching dating like an entrepreneur opening her schedule for booking appointments at specific times of the month! 😂😂 He’s so calm and laidback and although her voice is calm, she seems like she may be short-tempered too. I hope they both find love with someone who they’re compatible with. He’s more spontaneous and she has a rigid schedule, only for new men in her life lol. Not the friendzoned ones.
She had some flaws in her ways too but Terrance ain't that into her look wise and he just need to be real and say that. The excuses he used was cop outs just to not say what the real reason was.
@@elleurfavoritestvegan1550 I agree with you. She’s a beautiful woman but I think him being so nice, he was gonna go with the flow even though she may not be his type. But then her red flags gave him valid reasons to say why he disappeared.
I watched the entire video and still believe that Terrance was mostly in the wrong. He did not take the initiative to plan dates, did not communicate well, jumped to conclusions, and didn’t ask enough questions to address his concerns. The lady clearly has a trusting relationship with male FRIENDS. She clearly doesn’t like them like that. Terrance is a new person in her life and I can understand her not wanting to communicate with a male that she doesn’t know well during booty call hours because she doesn’t know his intentions. Also, Terrance asked her why he should pick her during the show so I don’t understand his issue with her asking why she should continue to day him. I also don’t understand why he has a problem with her wanting to date a disciple as a Baptist. Discipleship isn’t a denomination, it’s a lifestyle as a follower of Christ like she said. Nonetheless, I’m still rooting for BOTH of them to find love ❤
Terrance, you need to be more assertive sir. That laid back stuff only works with women for so long. You need to show initiative and leadership. Be an alpha and PLAN THE DATES. Clock is ticking.
Yea broski ain’t assertive at all! And doesn’t take initiative as a man. He just following behind the woman. I don’t think he actually wanted her tho. When you really want a woman you gone make sure you on point no matter what
Nothing wrong with him being laid back Simple, you alpha males chase women who ain’t even tradition women and you fully attract gold diggers, so what if she planned dates doesn’t mean anything, she needs to go gym and look after her health, it’s always a man’s fault I like that his laid back women ain’t even virgins or traditional at all , dating wasn’t even a thing before it was courting, then marriage, people chat to much rubbish about how a man should be but don’t even do their history of how women are meant to be or how things were 70 - 80 years ago I’m a Man I don’t deal with this alpha male talk On top of that she lost and made a mistake because she talking about god etc so why doesn’t she go find a godly man
I can tell from the beginning of this video bc the first 5 minutes he wouldn’t look at her he had some stuff to get off his chest but since he so nice he ain’t gonna say how he truly feel
LOL I heard enough at 27:58. Two dates and you ask "what would you do different from the guys in my DM?" The man gets off after 6:30 and hitting you up at 9pm is too late/ "Booty call hours?" The comments saying Terrance fumbled? Nah this just wasn't a good match. This man can't get down time after work before he has to talk to her. She was 30 mins late on the first date and put it back on him when this man not only was there waiting for her but then decided to get fresh for her and comeback out. He was 12mins late and shouldn't keep you waiting? Lol this is insane. This isn't boundaries, this is delusion and entitlement.
She’s a gaslighter….. and I’m a woman. I noticed it because this is how I feel men act sometimes when they are wrong 😂😂 😂. I’ve never dated a woman, I didn’t know y’all go through this too 😂😂😂
@@Tone__Wes Big facts. Women say men need therapy all day long, but she seriously needs it. This is called self-sabotaging. She looked for any reason to think he didn't like her and ended it before she thought he would, when he was just chilling the whole time and working.
@@KH-go7rc worse part is, everyone in the comments is on HER side. Terrence messed up and talks funny but he's not a toxic person, she def showed it towards the end of the interview.
@@Tone__Wesyahl slow. She said she was 30 minutes late because he was supposed to pick her up she was waiting on him and he called and said where you at?
Ppl judging Terrance definitely didn’t watch this show til the end. He definitely kept tryna spare her. Because the ending told it alllllll & now it makes sense why he was tip toeing around shawty lol.
Thank you I'm glad I'm not the only one that noticed that. I tryna figure out what people talking bout, saying that he dropped the ball, he dodged a bullet, she had to many red flags, and I bet she don't talk that way off camera.
After watching his blind date, I feel he definitely should've gone with contestant #2. But truthfully, while dude does seem like a genuine person, I feel like he lacks a bit of confidence and has some slight communication problems. Sometimes the nice / good dudes aren't always the most confident due to personal reasons. While they did have a lot in common, the commonalities just weren't compatible. I hope bro either gets in contact with one of the other contestants from his segment or eventually finds someone for him in the future. He does deserve it and hopefully that person will be able to get him out of his shell more! Keep pushing T 💪🏼💯
If contestant #2 didn't have a bestie ex-boyfriend, he would have chose HER. And after seeing who that was, I KNEW he should have gone with her!!! I loved (I think her name is Ivory) her since I saw her on an episode... and I IMMEDIATELY thought they would make a great match 😌
I could be wrong but I think two reasons he picked her and not number 2. Reason one number 2 was still friends with an ex. And another reason is when asked about favorite food number three mentioned she’s half Salvador. A lot of black men are into lighter skin mixed women. He probably heard that and had an image in his head of what she looked like. And she came out not the image he had.
She has a strong personality, Terrance is a bit more chill and laid back, some women perceive that as a lack of confidence but really it's a sense of impatience on the other side. She has guy friends, She has options, so she was probably empowered to leave the situations since it wasn't exactly what she wanted. Regular dating things. We have to gauge compatibility sooner in the dating stage
@@sixteen.candles.4644 what business is she standing on? going out with male friends after booty call hours? THat business? She's not relationship material and bro sensed it from jump, that's why he didn't bother with her
what business is that? Entertaining other men and going out drinking and clubbing with male friends while being a "christian women" who's dating lmfaoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
Blocked him for no reason, numerous of male friends, doesn't want him to call after 9 but is out after 9 with male friends, etc...TERRANCE DODGED A BULLET!
lmao she's beyond childish, and watching this show has shown me how irritating american women are. Every little small thing is such a exaggerated "issue"....to the point of delusional 😅
Let me say this for all women if you have a guy friend and he likes you on any level beyond friendship is NOT a friend... understanding what a true friend is separates the unwanted confusion ‼️💯
💯 I'm sorry l did not like her, she comes across as butter wouldn't melt and l'm sure she has a really sweet side but l think she played a lot of mind games and people miss it because of how well she articulates her crap. She would manipulate the life out of Terrance and constantly put him down. He don't need her type
I just want to say that I really love Arlette and her genuine expressions cause she be reacting the same way I would, to some of the things these people be saying. Like oooo…what you went to the comedy show on your own?! Damn T sounds like you fumbled the bag my boy. Still rooting for everyone to find love. This show is so entertaining.
Yall were rooting for Terrace, I would’ve popped his balloon too & it’s bcus of his lack of confidence, lack of showing dominance, openness to dating who tf ever, talking like he’s the hardest working in the room, etc & this f/u proves my point, he seems to be seeking a relationship bcus he is lonely, not bcus he is the type to lead someone or make changes in his life to fit someone else into it.
I’m torn about having only new people appear in season 2. There are a few participants who didn’t find anyone who I would like to see get matched-up… Except for Dr. Elom, he is way too verbose.
@@Gerald_Nathaniel Nah… the doc needs his own episode like Terrance had. As long as the women know it’s Dr. Elom in advance, that would be an entertaining show for Arlette to do!
I really like this girl. She will find her true love for sure. Consistency, communication and being intentional it’s something he’s lacking. If he wanted he would no excuse. We all grown and busy but you make time for who you want to make time for
Nah shun she deliberately brought her male friends to see if they approve of him. Which is nuts… it’s obvious she’s a Manipulator . And an under da table player. Probably a narcissist.
aw man. i just wanna say that she held firm to her boundaries and i appreciate seeing that. a piece of unsolicited advice to the singles out there: communicate. never assume. so much conflict can be resolved by just saying what's on your mind. also, guys: please plan the 1st date. let's create sustainable black love as a collective!
Terrance needs to date in his league, he is not assertive and seems very simple minded. This woman is smart, poised, and confident; she requires a true leader.
She's defintley not above his league, ran thru in college, he friends on ig looks like hipster doofisis, whyte female friends using her to feel cool, overweight, uses filters in all her photos. There's plenty that puts her in the "D" league!
I am itching to call Terrance immature, but I will say that he is just shaped by his unique journey through life and means well! He needs to learn to 1) see things from other's perspective, 2) understand what is being communicated to him, and 3) communicate/express himself clearly and proactively, amongst many other things!
@@TSidezRight but majority of everyone blaming him in the comments no one is pointing out the red flags she had like guy friends that liked her and then she contradicted herself when Arlette asked her if she was sure her male friends views her as a friend.....
As a young man I know that you have to step up and be the one to take the initiative and to communicate efficiently. You CAN NOT try to wing it without no communication or planning what so ever. I’m still rooting for you my bro because everyone needs a chance at love💪🏾💯
This show has shown how much people struggle with simple communication.
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Yes. I agree!
Nah that’s facts
Yes
Lol yes.
Terrance may not plan dates but he keeping every retwist and barber appointment cause baby that edge stay crispy and them locs stay neat and clean. 🤣
Girl OKAYYYY!!!😂😂👏🏽👏🏽
Right 😂😂😂
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Wellll!! Say sum😂😂
Plot twist: he lining and retwisting his own shit 😂😂😂
One thing I know, no one is ever too busy. We make time for what's important to us
Yes!
I can tell he wasn’t initially attracted to her but still went out with her anyway because he doesn’t know how to properly reject someone. He’s coming up with every excuse in the book to justify his actions except for the actual truth
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Facts 💯
Facts!
Arlette is the epitome of class and grace! Simply, stunning!
Stunninng
I don't know about that. Mentioning other men in yourt DM/s asking what he can do for her what they can't is not classy at all.
@@barbieashley1048Arlette is the host
This!! ❤
Arlette did everything she could for Terrance - he needs to stand on this own now
I was thinking this too. I’m not sure if he wants to be chased by a woman because he kept saying how she pursed him when she went on his blind date segment lol
Yall must didn’t hear what this female was saying in this video…yall talking about what arlette did for him 😂that mane dodged a big bullet fashoo
He just didn't like her, remember it was a blind date. Most men like the appearance of women. He probably didn't like hers
@@zimasajamExactly. He obviously didn’t want to hurt her feelings on the show, and then he felt like he had to commit after that by at least going on one date. If he truly was attracted to her, he would’ve made way more of an effort to spend time with her
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Aight now Terrance, you on your own at this point
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Big time…
You RIGHT!
Maneeeee😂 dumb on his own🤦🏽🤦🏽
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Somebody get this man a speech therapist. He has sooo much potential. He seems kind hearted and truly a good person. He needs confidence and communication training
This the one right here👆🏽👆🏽👆🏽 💯
Definitely lacking confidence because there's no way he fumbled and then making excuses about being uncomfortable with male friends. Like CLAIM YOUR SPOT
Facts that mumble talk was hell of annoying
YES! The phrase is “Too many barriers” NOT barrels.
@@nafeesamuqtasid2320lol
They not on the same level! His communication and comprehension is all jacked up!! Bless his heart!
Bruh said.. “she wanted me to be a disciple and I’m Baptist.” 😂
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😂😂😂😂oh LAWD Terence kills me 😂😂😂
These comments are killing me 😂 poor Terrance
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And kept saying it after she explained what she meant. He just wasn’t getting it 😂😂😂😂
There's a difference between wanting a relationship (Terrance) and being READY for a relationship (NOT Terrance). Bro, if you can't plan dates and communicate your feelings properly to a woman, you are NOT ready. Period. We the Real Men Committee do not accept your excuses after you've been given so many chances.
lol the real men committee
💯 agree. He not ready!
We not gonna sugarcoat this shit...he ain't into her! She needs to take the sign. I don't care what anyone says about "people must learn how to communicate" f all of that.
If we really want something like a opportunity to go on a cruise for free or we want to talk to someone, it will happen even if you're nervous.
He ain't into her like that. Just move on man.
Because I don't respect a man who just goes along with a woman because he don't wanna hurt her feelings. That's what I call the bf and gf relationship these days.
He don't wanna tell her he don't want marriage but he don't wanna lose access to reliable sex with her.
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Facts. This nigga dropped the ball. He ain’t ready.
Lol. The way Arlette said "Terrance" after the Lady said "I planned both dates" was Teacher like😂😂😅
😂😂😂 exactly
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@@condesabeatriz9303of course she brought him back on the show three times......😂
She was like "Good heavens! what did I just hear?" 🤣
@@BloodLeopard-rm8wg Yes! LOL! Everything checked out with Terrance and this young lady except for the her passing the visual eye test. Terrance is not physically attracted to her and he didn't want to come out and say it. Men don't like hurting women feelings.
Terrence is too much. When I was 7 I talked like that, and my mom would say, "Stop. Gather your thoughts first, then come back." 😂
Facts
Factssssssss cause man I promise I said this almost 3 mins into it
I’ve said this from the jump! 😂
That sounds like something I would say to my child when I have one!
Lol
I WAS ROOTING FOR YOU TERRANCE. WE WERE ALL ROOTING FOR YOUUUU😩😩😩😩😩😩
@@vic902 lol in Tyra Banks voice
Tiffany is my cousin in real life. .lol😂
He on his own now, we can’t be defending him no more 🤣🤣
@Iwilldoyes oh wow lol how she doing? What she doing? Is she modelling? Tell her hi from the UK, I enjoyed watching her
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I would lose my mind if i had to listen to Terrance speak everyday 😂
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Agreed. He mumbles, talks in circles and don’t be knowing what he’s talking about
Yes cause his voice just dragging ugh lol
@@ladiet75 exactly! 😂 I'm like, spit it out lol
😂😂😂 that's wrong
The fact that she explained it and he still said " I'm a Baptist and she's a disciple" is crazy work
he's just not all that up there lmao
Thats part he is to clueless…. His communication skills are lacking
Right I laughed so hard 😂
🤣😂🤣😂 so funny
😂😂😂
"I planned both dates."
*Chair swivels around*
Arlette: TERRANCE 😮
My favorite part 🤣💀
😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂...Terrance is too slow for Danisha. He's a horrible communicator, and she deserves better.
@@kingofmykraft1447 Terrance isn’t slow he’s literally does electrical work and probably licensed. he just don’t like her or don’t want used for free dates.
@@Numba_854
He's slow 🐌
The way that Arlette responds with her facial expressions instead of words is classic!
It be better than what’s coming out of the contestants mouths during that time😂
Arlette INTENSLEY looking at Terrence as he talks just to swing around and say "Can you elaborate on that" had me weak. She ain't understand a word that man was saying lol, but I like how she is still always professional about it.
😂😂😂😂 yea bc he said a whole bunch of gibberish
LMAO
Screaming😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
He say too many “like” at least 20 “like” every time he talk.
😂😂😂
I don’t think Terrance’s segment should have been blind. All the women had already watched the show and knew what he looked like so the contestants were more at an advantage than him. Eye contact and conversation really helps foster the beginning stages of connecting and he missed out on that with the way the episode was styled.
Yeah. It was unfair for him. I said it on that video..
Very true, plus they should’ve had one on one dates when he got to the last 3 options. That would’ve helped with the compatibility issues.
Yeah I don’t like how he was blind either
He clearly wasn't having any luck when they could see him 😂. The show tried to give him a chance.
You are so right...they had a good idea what he was like.
Terrance funny af the way he was stumbling over them excuses 😂
The articulation difference here is WILD!
Terrance is no match for this woman
Right!
Alabama vs arizona/California. No match
That was actually my first thought. This would not have worked
😂😂😂😂😂
I think out of all the girls on this show, she spoke the best, very clear, very concise and respectful.
I agree.
I concur
Terrance messed up. Maybe he was intimidated- it kinda showed based on his response lol
She’s manipulative and a Gaslighter…. Gotta watch the whole thing.
Yeah she seems like a good girl.
Damn Terrance, I was rooting for you..we were all rooting for you😆
😂😂😂😂 omg! If there wasnt a truer time for this!
Nah y’all forced bro on us
@@nTrubl3lmao
@@MsHumbleStar25😂😂😂😂
In the loudest Tyra Banks voice 😂😂
Terrance, YOU mesed up! If you treated this relationship like you treat your hair this could have been a great relationship! You asked many great questions during the blind date and fizzled out horribly! This young lady is responsible and serious about being married and you wasted her time! A woman of value has boundaries and you don't deserve her. Now this young lady needs her own blind date segment! 😂
Agree 100 ! I didn't know he was like this.
"Imma Baptist....she's a disciple" PLEASEEEEE GET OFF MY SCREEN 😆🤣🤣🤣😂😊
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Right over the kids head 😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣
He took me out with that one 💀And Arlette keeping a straight face thru that 🤣🤣🤣
Complete confusion....!!! 😕
As much as I love this show, it spotlights how dysfunctional dating is. Everyone wants good communication but no one communicates. People judge every single thing!! This is why things are so hard because we can’t get out of our own way. Smh
Amen
You are on to something lol
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she wants to talk to from 6-9 gtho 😂then she’s wishy washy
@@damev2no she just set a boundary since he constantly sent late night texts.
I don't care what I would be doing, if Arlette notification pops up, I'm tuning in without a doubt, Arllete show the best ever❤
Man, me too haha
“sorry guys! gotta go! arlette just posted a video” 😂 frfr
Relax 😊
If I'm free, I definitely try to immediately tune in and if I'm not, I definitely watch when I'm available.
Yep!
She has an angelic voice.
Isn’t it 😅
But what she say is mean. From the middle of the video, I chance to Terrance side hahaha
@@selenegama2992 wasn’t mean it was factual. Besides the facts of being cool with other men. She was honest
With a vindictive spirit!
Idc what yall say Terrance wasn’t interested a Man knows what he wants and will go the extra mile for it…
If it was arlette he would have
@@dimitriassession2327😂😂😂 great point
Arlette doesn't want him
@@VendieSoldetrue she’s married anyway lol
Uhm?! Then don't waste ppl's time!! Be an adult!
Lmaooooooooooooooooo I can’t breathe after the disciple vs Baptist conversation.
Childish lol
Terrance is a 419
Listen, I was thinking the same thing! like we not just gonna slide past what he just said. 😂😂😂
I really struggled to hold it together after that conversation
They are definitely unequally yoke.
I been said Terrance does not need help finding love. Height is not that much of an issue in the real world. He even said his last relationship ended bc he was not ready for marriage. He just seems very passive/ doesn’t take initiative.
Agreed too passive.
She seems assertive. I don't see where that is/should be a conflict.
Lol naaaahhh, i assume you been watching. Alot of women popped on him IMMEDIATELY. He is too passive, but height does impact somes decisions.
So true height isn't as much of an issue as people make it out to be it just makes the initial interactions a little abrasive sometimes and even that's not that serious. It's usually people insecurities around height that make height a problem and not the height itself.
Agree. It’s safe to assume the ex-fiancé is the one who proposed 😂
The social dynamic between these two is what created the oil and water effect. Brotha Terrance seems to be a slow reactor TO conversation and she appears to be an engaging thinker and conversationalist.
Now Terrance…… you been on this show for weeks getting your ballon popped and finally you get a woman and don’t plan any dates 😒
he must be don’t like her then
Man the video is 40+ mins and you posted this 4 mins ago. How yall be this fast😂
He’s very passive and women are not choosing him for that reason…
@@its9333I got to the part where he didn’t plan and I was done with him 😂
girl i am disappointed in him lmaooo, he def missed a good one
Ladies..this is what it looks like when... "He's just not that into you!" Stay blessed ❤
Hey pretty 🤩
Yes, sadly.
I was looking for this comment 💯💯💯💯💯
Yes, because she is too big.
No man is going to get excited over someone that size.
Poor Arlette had to spend half the show trying to figure out what the hell Terrance was talking about.
I had to zoom in to see Arlettes face the wheels were turning in her mind trying to understand his explainations 😂
I swear my brain being maxed out
🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂
😂
This is an example of a man who says he can lead but he doesn’t know how to execute. God bless Arlette, she is so patient. They gave him his OWN segment to find a match after so many failed attempts just for him to waste it with excuses. He seems sweet but very aloof, unaware of his self & the circumstances & wasting ppl time on this platform
I actually like how she carries herself.. very nice,well spoken,spiritual,and very attractive. May Jah keep blessing her
Terrance thinking a disciple is it’s own religion got me crying 😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Real tears ok 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂 That was crazy!!! And he was Dead serious about it 😮😮😢 I’m weak 🤦🏾♀️
I kinda thought so too
And him trying to explain it… I knew he was confused
I don’t think I’ve ever heard someone use the word “like” so much in my life 😭 my head hurts. Bless his heart
Both of them
Then he started stuttering and he talk all quiet
I counted. He said "like" 33 times in two minutes.
Don't be like Risoma and have a drinking contest to his day to day speak 😅😅
@@Coachkingrod 🤣
Don’t give up Terrance, there is somebody out here for you! 🙏🏽
9pm booty call but runs out to the bar and gets drunk with not one but two disciples 😂😂😂
clock that tea!…clock that tea! 😂🤣😂😂😂
You see it. Verbally comparing that man to other men in her DM's trying to make him insecure, & then calling him insecure. #nastywork
Not TWOOOO DISCIPLES😂😂😂 IM FUCKING DEAD 😂😂😂😂
Tough! 😮💨
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I’m sorry but Terrance sounds so immature for her. She’s beautiful and sounds genuine and more mature than him
He can’t even talk omg I was bored of listening to him yap
He needs to go to finishing school
@@guju84 😂😂 wtf
I was thinking the same thing.
“i’m a baptist not a disciple” 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ was enough for me
Terrence is a laborer worker, he does welding and electrician. That is not an easy job. It’s a sweaty, dirty, exhausting manual labor job. He doesn’t have the type of job where you can get off work and go somewhere else really without showering. It’s also a dangerous job, so there is no texting during work hours. In my opinion he’s a Saturday Sunday type of dude. During the week you could probably just get a good FaceTime call from him ❤️ I have Union men in my family.
good points here. Also I never heard of you HAVE to text a girl EVERY DAY before 9pm or else you are a bad boyfriend. Like where did that become a rule? I guess I'm getting old or?
Good points. I generally didn't think of that. Not sure if he explained that in this video but yeah that can be another reason for him to chat later on after decompressing from work.
We tend to think most have office positions that can just go straight from the office to happy hour..
I have two plumbers in my family
Son and grandson
The work is very lonely.yet
I'm very proud of them
I don't think they have time to meet
Potential mates except for when they're actually in your homes with a service call.
Tradesmen actually make much as doctors
With the on call hours being just as bad.
My son/ grandson calls me at 8 or 9 at night still at work....
Because that's when a lot of customers at home or the overtime emergencies happen.
If she's a Christian why hasn't she found somebody in her own church.
My son says women at the bank turn their nose up at him except for when they go see his bank account😂
finally someone said it
True!!!
She is just the prettiest, sweetest, most adorable thing 😊 I just wanna hear her read anything.
“I’m a Baptist and she’s a disciple” 😂😂
I was looking for this comment! Why are we glossing over this? 😂😂😂
😭😭😭😭
Is disciple a denomination? I thought disciple was like all Christians are disciples. Seriously I’m confused 😂
This part!!!!!!! 😂
@@Hisnameistruth exactly that’s why he sounds ridiculous
It’s just crazy how they both bring up facts to the table and they both super calm and chill no raise of voice tone and shit… this my fav episode of all times
😂 Psh shi*..
@@Ayomide-nn4yn I know I don’t care 😂
Basically it's a lack of communication and Terrance as a man not being assertive enough! I think they should try again! Denisha is A GROWN WOMAN and she knows what she wants!
“We can always be friends” lol 😆
This is how the other guys got there
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
He wasn't the problem he wasn't interested in her because she had guy friends dude🚩🚩🚩......that's why he never took the initiative to plan a date with her......
Facts
Most likely true. Most guys end up in the friend zone this way.
True 😂
She was really kind in letting him know he didn’t understand the disciple comment, i would’ve just screamed
Nah fr im like man she just explained it 🤦🏾♀️
Terrance done told y’all he’s Baptist he ain’t no disciple
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😂 even John the Baptist was a disciple. I guess Terrance need to revisit the good book. 😂
@@Dariuslynel 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@Dariuslynel im on the floor
It's not the same "dommanation" 😂
Smh@ the dudes females give chances to.
I love how she speaks ❤ she’s very clear, communicates well and her tone is so calm and relaxing
And then there’s Terrance. Can’t understand a word he says! Lol
We were all rooting for you Terrance!! Whyyyyyy! Please 🙏 plan the dates and be excited about them to show the woman that you are truly interested. Be communicative about your work schedule and try to get to know the women you are courting. Have fun with the dates and understand the woman’s time. I wish you two the best!
You wanted the good brother to settle because most women reject him do to his height. Hell Naw. She is no top choice anything. This is not prime pickings. He treated the Narwhal as it should be treated. Then to top is off, she is a liar. All that on the set cap is too see-through.
She was 30 mins late, bro left and came back. She compared him to men in her DM's, she says no calls past 9pm even though he gets off @ 6:30, she admits her male friends like her and says he's insecure for feeling weird about that, she blocked him on everything for being late to a date.
Please pin this comment. Lol. Y'all need to quit hating on Terrance. It feels like she couldn't wait to come on here and completely blame Terrance as the problem and why they didn't work. The issue just seemed like they just weren't compatible. She had so many restrictions and rules, etc. But didn't give him the same grace. And he's a hard worker so alot of what she was expecting as far as curfews and the only free time she had just didn't match his lifestyle. I'm still rooting for you Terrance! Arlette, don't give up on him!😅
If she really had restrictions, she wouldn't have guy friends around who have feelings for her. She wouldn't be out there drinking after 11 when the person she's dating is not allowed to call her after 9. She uses religious tag and articulation techniques to sound mature and traditional. If she really practised her faith, she wouldn't be doing those activities.
I just love Arlette! Keep growing and glowing. Often imitated but never duplicated. Your show is the best hands down! 🎉❤
Actually she took the idea of her show from a Nigerian woman who has been doing this, so if anything, she's the one imitating, but it's all good.
@@joynay444 Arlette & BM's version is tweaked and improved, so "fair use" rules are in full effect. 😎
Listening to him everyday would literally drive me to death. God bless him.
Sounds like he’s been punched in the throat
This was hilarious. “There’s a thin line between love and hate “- Terrance. Man I needed this laugh.
Hilarious
LOVE that song lmfaoooo
@@irunmiles4401 yeah, Terranse wanted to sound very deep, but he does’nt know how to use what he is saying😅
@@radamus4919I’m hollering!!!😭😭🤣
Hilarious
From the minute she revealed herself on the show his facial expression told me everything I needed to know. He wished he picked # 2.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Dam
My sentiments!
The disciple conversation just went over his head. 😂😂😂
Lol it really did… she explained what a disciple was and clearly said its not a religious title but the walk you have, the practice…. And he still didn’t understand that 😂😂
Yeahhhh it just confirmed that he just claims Baptist
I think he just brought that up to make it seem like she was some kinda religious fanatic to justify him stepping back. 😂
Mine too honestly. Maybe because I’m a basic Christian😂. If someone told me they were a disciple I would have thought they were like some sort of super holy Christian. Like the strict ones who are always trying to convert people and cover their heads in church. When it turned to her going out and partying and drinking with all her male friends who she said likes her then calling him insecure for not being uncomfortable I was even more confused. I feel like a Christian would understand that. Or maybe I’m crazy. Life long Christian here, choir practice, Wednesday bible study Christian…. However I too turn up 😂😂😂 so I don’t tend to lead with I’m super holy because it’s in my heart, not all of the time in practice so no judgement on my part. But I can understand the confusion
The first disciples are the chosen followers of Christ. So any denomination can have a discipleship. That’s where he was confused. But yes I agree, it seems like she still has a lot of growing to do in life and with her religion. So does he.
I don’t blame Terrance for not wanting to wait 30+ minutes for his date to arrive. If he made the effort to show up on his work clothes, it means he was trying.
Yeah.. I truly see both sides.
Listen. YOU are the woman for Terrance. I've seen your comments in previous videos. Go claim your man and save him from embarrassing himself further.
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@@mr_knowitall😂😂 oh wow.. you are quite observant
Equal blame on both sides...she was late and has male friends, and he's not assertive and does not have control of the English language
Terrance has some growing up to do. The mumbling and laid back thing isn’t a personality trait, it seems like a defense mechanism. It’s not a an excuse for the indecision and passive intentions. Pace is one thing but the lifestyles in this match are incompatible. Also, if you pay attention to her responses on the episode, she wasn’t entirely truthful herself. She had very clear boundaries and he wanted her to compromise them rather than working with her in a way that affirms her boundaries. The questions he asked were interesting on the show but the dealbreakers weren’t addressed and it ruined this match as well. In the end, it’s a journey. And I’m excited for Terrance because he’s bringing a beautiful heart and intention toward his search. Minor tweaks and he’ll be in a beautiful union. But you MUST process and communicate your emotions Terrance.
Somebody in the comments said he gives teenage boy vibes 😂
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Facts. I'm a grown man and wouldn't want my daughter to bring him home. Eventually I feel like a woman would get tired of him and want a stronger man. It's a lot of women out here who are naturally submissive to guys like me because of how I carry myself. Being short is one thing but when you have it together in other places then it makes up for what u lack.
Very well said I agree
Terrance is a very nice and kind soul, you can see it whenever he talks💯
It’s unfortunate that he gets misunderstood a lot, and that the women don’t see him for what he really is, that’s a very kind hearted genuine man!
Hey guys, I usually do not comment, but I feel we are not doing enough to support Arlette's channel. We're giving her the views, but let's hit the subcribe button! Keep doing good, Arlette. You are a great moderator and listener and have an amazing show, which I see most people replicating here on TH-cam. But class is not sold. All the best to you, your husband and the entire production team.
Thank you for this! Just subscribed!
This comment should be pinned ❤
I seen the other ones. The hosts have no talent, no communication skills or charisma. She has all of them, that’s why I keep watching her show, but have not watched the other ones again.
She had me at the first half of the show. Terrence clearly needs help with communication. However, her calling him insecure because she hangs around male friends that like her and blocking him is definitely a bit immature. Another thing is, if she wasn’t available for calls after 9, why was she out partying with her male friends while drinking. Doesn’t seem very Christian like and she was asking for him to be a disciple. That’s just weird to me. I hope that Terrence fixes his communication issues and that he finds a great woman, he is still very sweet & humble.
Took the words right out my mouth
Thank you! Somebody said it! Every one in the comments are being one sided (her side) & isn’t paying attention to every single detail that is coming from both of their stories. I’m not saying that he isn’t wrong for not planning the dates, yes communication is best but she acts like she is on a tight schedule every single day to where she can’t just do anything spontaneous w/o it being planned out. Like he said, she didn’t have issues going out with guys getting tipsy. Another thing, I get her saying that he sounds insecure but if she truly paid attention to him, it’s definitely giving he’s been cheated on, because on his blind date segment, he asked that question about if they cheated before & asked it more than once. And for her to tell him that the guy “friend “ wanna be more than friends, it sounds like she was trying to make him jealous. Also let me add, just because she’s all holy rolley doesn’t mean she’s a saint. She’s giving “sneaky “ vibes to me
@@lakishadumas5078I agree 100%
Yup
Facts!
I think very simply put, he is just not feeling her. Terrance is so nice that he doesn’t want to let her or US down so he was coming up with any excuse as to why it’s not going to work. When he finally had a valid point he ran with it.. they are both very nice people and both deserve to find their perfect match!
exactly how i feel too. Initially, she did like him and was open to possibilities of trying out on a date. Her interest in him dropped way too much and that's a deal breaker for most women if men can't create the spark they want
He didn't even make time to meet with her long enough to meet her friends, he's judging off of her insta DMs he has really wasted her time
I agree
NO!! he isnt nice. he has the personality of a tree, sounds lie he is always high, he is disinterested, has no energy, he is so plain i dont even know why anyone will wanna be with him. He sounds like the type of guy who likes to be babied and mollycoddled....a pampered mommy's boy!! There is no way in hell ill support any woman going out with this guy
I think Terrance wants a relationship but lacks the experience and wherewithal to sustain one… He also has a very low level vocabulary and could use some classes ……His comprehension skills need a boost … maybe Arlette can do a relationship school , cuz some of these men just need fine tuning
Terrance you are down to earth, a real man. There is someone just for you be patient keep being true to yourself.
Love her voice. She sounds so sweet and soothing.
He’s not attracted to her. He is too nice to just be transparent. You can tell when he chose her on the blind date and saw her he didn’t have the same reaction he did with the eliminated women
I don’t think he wasn’t attracted to her physically but rather felt like she wasn’t genuine he just didn’t know whether she was genuine about her interests in him or even genuine in who she says she is. behind the curtain she was confident and selling herself but when she came out she wasn’t as confident. she is very very passive aggressive and I’m not saying she is a horrible person-what I am saying is that passive aggressiveness makes ppl hard to connect with and they don’t feel like safe spaces because you don’t know which is really them and how they really feel about things.
That’s exactly what it is
Thought I was the only one that saw this .
I said the same shi.
@@xKouture
Being honest she is a whole red flag though.
She still out playing the field and want to make life convenient for herself
I didn’t realize how cute Terrance is! I can see his face better here
She seems like she genuinely liked him but he was playing games. You make time for who you really want. No excuses Terrance
Well said!
I really don't think he wanted her
He ain't into her. I don't respect men like him. He want sexual access to her and pretends to like her and go on dates for that reason but we all know if we want to spend a lifetime with someone or not.
Be honest man. Tell her you ain't ready or you feel she isn't the one
How old are you ?😊
He wasn’t playing games, sounds like you need to grow up
lol I can tell who commented before finishing the whole video!! I was mad at Terence in the beginning too but as the video progressed, she was CLEARLY in the wrong! Getting tipsy with guy friends who like her but doesn’t want Terence to text her after 9pm? Meanwhile his work schedule makes him get out of work late sometimes and gives little wiggle room to communicate before 9pm. She’s approaching dating like an entrepreneur opening her schedule for booking appointments at specific times of the month! 😂😂 He’s so calm and laidback and although her voice is calm, she seems like she may be short-tempered too. I hope they both find love with someone who they’re compatible with. He’s more spontaneous and she has a rigid schedule, only for new men in her life lol. Not the friendzoned ones.
Exactly 👍🏾 💯
She had some flaws in her ways too but Terrance ain't that into her look wise and he just need to be real and say that. The excuses he used was cop outs just to not say what the real reason was.
@@elleurfavoritestvegan1550 I agree with you. She’s a beautiful woman but I think him being so nice, he was gonna go with the flow even though she may not be his type. But then her red flags gave him valid reasons to say why he disappeared.
@AlesiaDiggs I can definitely see that
I watched the entire video and still believe that Terrance was mostly in the wrong. He did not take the initiative to plan dates, did not communicate well, jumped to conclusions, and didn’t ask enough questions to address his concerns. The lady clearly has a trusting relationship with male FRIENDS. She clearly doesn’t like them like that. Terrance is a new person in her life and I can understand her not wanting to communicate with a male that she doesn’t know well during booty call hours because she doesn’t know his intentions. Also, Terrance asked her why he should pick her during the show so I don’t understand his issue with her asking why she should continue to day him. I also don’t understand why he has a problem with her wanting to date a disciple as a Baptist. Discipleship isn’t a denomination, it’s a lifestyle as a follower of Christ like she said. Nonetheless, I’m still rooting for BOTH of them to find love ❤
Terrance, you need to be more assertive sir. That laid back stuff only works with women for so long. You need to show initiative and leadership. Be an alpha and PLAN THE DATES. Clock is ticking.
After watch I agree with you but he was taken a back from her
Yea broski ain’t assertive at all! And doesn’t take initiative as a man. He just following behind the woman. I don’t think he actually wanted her tho. When you really want a woman you gone make sure you on point no matter what
Nothing wrong with him being laid back Simple, you alpha males chase women who ain’t even tradition women and you fully attract gold diggers, so what if she planned dates doesn’t mean anything, she needs to go gym and look after her health, it’s always a man’s fault I like that his laid back women ain’t even virgins or traditional at all , dating wasn’t even a thing before it was courting, then marriage, people chat to much rubbish about how a man should be but don’t even do their history of how women are meant to be or how things were 70 - 80 years ago
I’m a Man I don’t deal with this alpha male talk
On top of that she lost and made a mistake because she talking about god etc so why doesn’t she go find a godly man
@glecservices3114 Yeah, we can tell you're not an alpha because you typed a paragraph full of excuses and no responsibility. Stay single.
@@jlaw346how so?
I can tell from the beginning of this video bc the first 5 minutes he wouldn’t look at her he had some stuff to get off his chest but since he so nice he ain’t gonna say how he truly feel
LOL I heard enough at 27:58. Two dates and you ask "what would you do different from the guys in my DM?" The man gets off after 6:30 and hitting you up at 9pm is too late/ "Booty call hours?" The comments saying Terrance fumbled? Nah this just wasn't a good match. This man can't get down time after work before he has to talk to her. She was 30 mins late on the first date and put it back on him when this man not only was there waiting for her but then decided to get fresh for her and comeback out. He was 12mins late and shouldn't keep you waiting? Lol this is insane. This isn't boundaries, this is delusion and entitlement.
yeah she blocked the man for being 12 minutes late when she was 30 minutes late lol.
She’s a gaslighter….. and I’m a woman. I noticed it because this is how I feel men act sometimes when they are wrong 😂😂 😂. I’ve never dated a woman, I didn’t know y’all go through this too 😂😂😂
@@Tone__Wes Big facts. Women say men need therapy all day long, but she seriously needs it. This is called self-sabotaging. She looked for any reason to think he didn't like her and ended it before she thought he would, when he was just chilling the whole time and working.
@@KH-go7rc worse part is, everyone in the comments is on HER side. Terrence messed up and talks funny but he's not a toxic person, she def showed it towards the end of the interview.
@@Tone__Wesyahl slow. She said she was 30 minutes late because he was supposed to pick her up she was waiting on him and he called and said where you at?
Ppl judging Terrance definitely didn’t watch this show til the end. He definitely kept tryna spare her. Because the ending told it alllllll & now it makes sense why he was tip toeing around shawty lol.
Exactly
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Omm you not lying! Watch the entire video and he dodged a bullet from
Thank you I'm glad I'm not the only one that noticed that. I tryna figure out what people talking bout, saying that he dropped the ball, he dodged a bullet, she had to many red flags, and I bet she don't talk that way off camera.
After watching his blind date, I feel he definitely should've gone with contestant #2. But truthfully, while dude does seem like a genuine person, I feel like he lacks a bit of confidence and has some slight communication problems. Sometimes the nice / good dudes aren't always the most confident due to personal reasons. While they did have a lot in common, the commonalities just weren't compatible. I hope bro either gets in contact with one of the other contestants from his segment or eventually finds someone for him in the future. He does deserve it and hopefully that person will be able to get him out of his shell more! Keep pushing T 💪🏼💯
ppl always say confidence... can you clarify what you mean? he couldn't plan a date, how is that linked to confidence?
If contestant #2 didn't have a bestie ex-boyfriend, he would have chose HER. And after seeing who that was, I KNEW he should have gone with her!!! I loved (I think her name is Ivory) her since I saw her on an episode... and I IMMEDIATELY thought they would make a great match 😌
#2 was a better fit!!!!
Right on the money G,respect to the homie Terrance tho for sure
I could be wrong but I think two reasons he picked her and not number 2. Reason one number 2 was still friends with an ex. And another reason is when asked about favorite food number three mentioned she’s half Salvador. A lot of black men are into lighter skin mixed women. He probably heard that and had an image in his head of what she looked like. And she came out not the image he had.
She has a strong personality, Terrance is a bit more chill and laid back, some women perceive that as a lack of confidence but really it's a sense of impatience on the other side. She has guy friends, She has options, so she was probably empowered to leave the situations since it wasn't exactly what she wanted. Regular dating things. We have to gauge compatibility sooner in the dating stage
Sis stands on business and her morals. I love that for her !
Indeed
Yup.
@@sixteen.candles.4644 what business is she standing on? going out with male friends after booty call hours? THat business? She's not relationship material and bro sensed it from jump, that's why he didn't bother with her
That’s the main thing, I loved! She kept her boundaries and she wasn’t waiting around for him or anyone (booked and busy). 😂
what business is that? Entertaining other men and going out drinking and clubbing with male friends while being a "christian women" who's dating
lmfaoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
Blocked him for no reason, numerous of male friends, doesn't want him to call after 9 but is out after 9 with male friends, etc...TERRANCE DODGED A BULLET!
Oh damn she did that. She won’t even nun
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More like a rocket
lmao she's beyond childish, and watching this show has shown me how irritating american women are. Every little small thing is such a exaggerated "issue"....to the point of delusional 😅
I wrote the same thing 11 hours later. Terrance Dodged a Narwhal! He make too much good money to settle for a 3.7 out of 10.
Arlette is a legend !
Day two of the binge 😂
Me too!!!!
Arlette's facial expressions are everything! Hilarious
Let me say this for all women if you have a guy friend and he likes you on any level beyond friendship is NOT a friend... understanding what a true friend is separates the unwanted confusion ‼️💯
This comment needs to be pinned to the top.
💯 I'm sorry l did not like her, she comes across as butter wouldn't melt and l'm sure she has a really sweet side but l think she played a lot of mind games and people miss it because of how well she articulates her crap.
She would manipulate the life out of Terrance and constantly put him down. He don't need her type
I have male friends too and if they like me l know they aren't true friends they just hoping for a moment of weakness.
Exactly, patiently waiting to get in. And she probably letting them buy her food and drinks, wining and dining her.
Arleyye is such a perfect host because she asks questions and reacts exactly how we would
These brighten my day so much. Terrance said he a Baptist not a disciple 🤣🤣 I love this show
I just want to say that I really love Arlette and her genuine expressions cause she be reacting the same way I would, to some of the things these people be saying.
Like oooo…what you went to the comedy show on your own?! Damn T sounds like you fumbled the bag my boy. Still rooting for everyone to find love. This show is so entertaining.
I clicked this video so fast, smoke almost came from my fingers! 😂
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Lol!! That part😂
SAME!!!
😂😂😂 same
😂, now I need a new screen protector, becuz mine shattered 😂
I see why he single, brother talks like a shy child, he definitely was in the wrong.
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I just left this same comment😢 still in his kindergarten era😂😂😮
Tilting his head to the side when he talks, too. He shows weakness a lot
@@cincososa😂😂😂😂
He didn’t do anything wrong that girl had too much red flags
Yall were rooting for Terrace, I would’ve popped his balloon too & it’s bcus of his lack of confidence, lack of showing dominance, openness to dating who tf ever, talking like he’s the hardest working in the room, etc & this f/u proves my point, he seems to be seeking a relationship bcus he is lonely, not bcus he is the type to lead someone or make changes in his life to fit someone else into it.
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No rebuttal here. The fellas took a “rizoma” level “L” with Terrance waffling this lady’s time.
What was a carefree, lack of initiative we mistook for humility
Too many red flags with her
Yeah I think he just want's to be coddled and get laid without having to put in any work.
Terrance needs a true love and am here for him I love his personality and am single since 2018
"You blocked him on what?"
"Everything."
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😂😭💔 by the way the girls sounded a bit tough at some points 😏
I want an entire new cast in season 2. No recurring people 😅😂😂
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Can they pin comments here? Bc this! Should be pinned!
I’m torn about having only new people appear in season 2. There are a few participants who didn’t find anyone who I would like to see get matched-up… Except for Dr. Elom, he is way too verbose.
@@gemstone786 I'm not gonna flex...I wouldn't mind having Dr. Elom make a cameo appearance lol 😆 😂
@@Gerald_Nathaniel Nah… the doc needs his own episode like Terrance had. As long as the women know it’s Dr. Elom in advance, that would be an entertaining show for Arlette to do!
I really like this girl. She will find her true love for sure. Consistency, communication and being intentional it’s something he’s lacking. If he wanted he would no excuse. We all grown and busy but you make time for who you want to make time for
Nah shun she deliberately brought her male friends to see if they approve of him. Which is nuts… it’s obvious she’s a
Manipulator . And an under da table player. Probably a narcissist.
No real man is gonna want a woman who’s out drinking with all her guy friends that “like” her. 😵💫😵💫
It’s how Arlelettes facial expressions for me!!😂😂😂😂😂 Terrance is hilarious without even trying!!😂😂😂
aw man. i just wanna say that she held firm to her boundaries and i appreciate seeing that. a piece of unsolicited advice to the singles out there: communicate. never assume. so much conflict can be resolved by just saying what's on your mind. also, guys: please plan the 1st date. let's create sustainable black love as a collective!
Well stated. Don't assume.
Don't assume destroys almost all the negative bullshit that happens in relationships
ohh yeah her firm boundaries of hanging out with male friends after 9pm? lmfaooo
Terrance needs to date in his league, he is not assertive and seems very simple minded. This woman is smart, poised, and confident; she requires a true leader.
Damn. Simple minded sheesh. But I get what you're saying however he is an electrician.
She's defintley not above his league, ran thru in college, he friends on ig looks like hipster doofisis, whyte female friends using her to feel cool, overweight, uses filters in all her photos. There's plenty that puts her in the "D" league!
You really think he's not in her league?? Smh.
What about yo baby daddy tho??
Is she ???
After the disciple vs Christian conversation, I can't even focus on the rest of the interview 😂
Facts
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Right I headed straight to the comments 😂😂 I read and listened the rest of video 😂😂
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Cringe
Damn Arlette we should've given T that date to choose between the two oh well Season2 😂😆 I'm here for it all "PTBOFL" is my show!!
I am itching to call Terrance immature, but I will say that he is just shaped by his unique journey through life and means well!
He needs to learn to 1) see things from other's perspective, 2) understand what is being communicated to him, and 3) communicate/express himself clearly and proactively, amongst many other things!
Spot on‼️
Terrence has the personality of a tree!
nah y'all trippin terrance was looking bad in the beginning, but by the end of the episode my guy might've dodged a bullet
He absolutely dodged a bullet.
@@TSidezRight but majority of everyone blaming him in the comments no one is pointing out the red flags she had like guy friends that liked her and then she contradicted herself when Arlette asked her if she was sure her male friends views her as a friend.....
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He might have dodged with this one but that doesnt excuse his passive behavior and lack of communication
@@addicted2truth408Exactly💯
As a young man I know that you have to step up and be the one to take the initiative and to communicate efficiently. You CAN NOT try to wing it without no communication or planning what so ever. I’m still rooting for you my bro because everyone needs a chance at love💪🏾💯
Arlette asking ALL the good questions!
Arlette's facial expressions are telling it all, she is killing me 😂 especially when he said you were with two guys 😂😂😂
@@jk9084 I was up in the wee hours hollering at Arlette 😂
One can definitely read what she’s thinking by her nonverbal cues 😂😂
@@bsharwill me too, so true 🤣