Retirement Budgeting - Month 1

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  • @Annie2229
    @Annie2229 หลายเดือนก่อน +89

    I just turned 44 and awfully late to investing with barely any portfolio except my 401k, I have a decent amount of cash saved up and with inflation currently soaring AGAIN, I'm getting worried about retirement, my intention is to retire at 55. How best do I maximize my savings of over $220k

    • @Sanchyfab
      @Sanchyfab หลายเดือนก่อน

      Retirement is now more difficult than it was in the past. it's all about balancing your risk tolerance with your long-term goals. Maybe consider speaking to an advisor to help in diversifying your portfolio to spread out the risk

    • @FedrickWhite-jo2ed
      @FedrickWhite-jo2ed หลายเดือนก่อน

      Agreed, I've always delegated my excesses to an advisor, since suffering major portfolio loss early 2020, amid covid outbreak. I'm now semi-retired and only work 7.5 hours a week, with barely 25% short of my $3.4m retirement goal after subsequent investments to date

    • @Colbe-lx7fb
      @Colbe-lx7fb หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks for sharing your experience! I've been managing my portfolio myself, but it's not working out. Do you have any recommendations for a good investment advisor? I could really use some help

    • @FedrickWhite-jo2ed
      @FedrickWhite-jo2ed หลายเดือนก่อน

      My CFA, Joseph Nick Cahill, is a renowned figure in his field. I recommend researching his name online; you'll find all his credentials and everything you need to work with a reliable professional. With many years of experience, he is a valuable resource for anyone looking to navigate the financial market

    • @Larry1-pl2wq
      @Larry1-pl2wq หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much for the suggestion! I really needed it. I looked him up on Google and explored his website; he has an impressive background in investments. I've sent him an email, and I hope to hear back from him soon

  • @lindad6223
    @lindad6223 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +75

    Clearing out debt is the best way to be successful in retirement. Congratulations.

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@lindad6223 I agree! It’s actually better mentally for me than even financially! It’s all I worried about until I paid it off.

    • @rettathomas837
      @rettathomas837 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      That’s what I did, I’m debt free, Praise God ! and before I retired I brought a shelf and place it in the laundry room and turn it into a pantry, and I also filled up all my cabinets in the kitchen

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@rettathomas837 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @rhill109
    @rhill109 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +69

    I told my children we would not be paying for weddings. We would give each the same amount and they were on their own. That puts reality on the fantasy of a “dream wedding”. And considering how much later people are getting married, most of them are fully employed adults. I say, treat them as such.

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@rhill109 Exactly! There is definitely going to be a limit when it comes to weddings. Glad Pinterest wasn’t a thing when I got married years ago🤦🏼‍♀️

    • @rhill109
      @rhill109 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@MelindaMiller My wife(stepmom) and I decided what a reasonable amount would be for my son’s wedding last year. His Mother and her husband agreed to match this amount. They had a nice, small ceremony which they paid most of the bill for. They are just as married then if they had spent 3 times the cost. Our daughter knows how much we gave her brother. 😉. She knows that she’s on the hook for anything elaborate. BTW, I retired this March at 55. My advice, try to do a chore every day and get out the house every so often. Fortunately, I have hobbies that can take up a bunch of time.

    • @parler8698
      @parler8698 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Exactly

    • @HoneyBee-pc3xi
      @HoneyBee-pc3xi 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      My parents gave me $2,000 for my wedding. I had a lovely wedding and dinner and had some left over.

  • @bobslawntractoraddiction
    @bobslawntractoraddiction 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    I retired from the school district as a head custodian at a school for 7 years . I work I have social security and a small pension. I live comfortably

  • @UTRMidwest
    @UTRMidwest 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    Kudos for having the bravery to share your story. Best of luck!

  • @MargaretWest-m8u
    @MargaretWest-m8u 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +269

    Retirement is more challenging now than it used to be. I've focused on saving rather than investing, and currently, I have about $400K. With inflation on the rise, I’m considering investing in stocks, but I’m not familiar with effective market strategies.

    • @ToreyLanez
      @ToreyLanez 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Are you planning to retire before 59? That's the key factor for me. I transitioned to cash-flowing assets because I wanted to retire early.

    • @FrankJaaay
      @FrankJaaay 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Given the current pressure to prepare for retirement, I highly recommend seeking guidance from a financial advisor. This will help you make more informed investment decisions.

    • @Toni__Michelle
      @Toni__Michelle 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Do you have any recommendations? I’m looking for a CFP to help grow my retirement account.

    • @FrankJaaay
      @FrankJaaay 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I consistently recommend Rebecca Lynne Buie as my top choice. She is well-known for her expertise in financial markets and has an impressive track record. I highly endorse her services.

    • @HotManP-l5g
      @HotManP-l5g 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I looked her up and found her webpage. I’ve already sent an email and scheduled an appointment. Thanks for the recommendation!

  • @TheDLR2662
    @TheDLR2662 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you for sharing your journey into retirement. As a new retiree myself, it is informative & encouraging to learn about the success' and roadblocks other's encounter and overcome. Retirement has brought new meaning to the old adage, "too much month left at the end of the money"! I like the idea of having two accounts and funding the bill paying account first, with the excess going into the "everything else" account. I find this approach helps me be better disciplined when making choices about a dinner out, a movie or any other "extra" activity I may be tempted to do.

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@TheDLR2662 Exactly! It’s easy to spend more since I have so much more time.

  • @someoneelse6934
    @someoneelse6934 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    Going into retirement with ANY debt is way less than optimal. David Ramsey would have heartburn listening to some of the facts of this scenario. Imagine not having your mortgage and car payments right now? You e be in a much stronger position financially. I’m surprised your job didn’t offer supplementary 457b retirement options. I also retired on a pension and my voluntary 457 contributions now outweighs my pension benefits. I’m 57 with a 3m+ net worth. I will be around 6m when I can first start collecting social security. Zero debt of any kind. No mortgage, car payments or otherwise.

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      @@someoneelse6934 That’s great! We live and learn and some the hard way😁

    • @pamv6549
      @pamv6549 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Absolutely

    • @larryherbert252
      @larryherbert252 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So true, l learned the hard way, I’m doing much, much better financially now, no car payment, paid it off years ago, l only have a mortgage payment now and will have that paid off in 2 years or less( it’s now 2024)

    • @hawkeye681
      @hawkeye681 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ALOT of retirees have mortgages… I will have one when I punch out in a few years. As long as you have a low % loan and not an outlandishly large balance, people should be able to budget for it in retirement.
      It’s cheap $$ if you were able to get a low interest loan. I understand there are ALOT of variables but it doesn’t have to be a retirement killer.

    • @jeulihonodel7626
      @jeulihonodel7626 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Dave Ramsey is very unrealistic.

  • @heted1
    @heted1 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Good for you. Glad you are now retired and enjoying your life. You put in a lot of years working as a teacher and I know that wasn’t a walk in the park.

  • @rickythompson5292
    @rickythompson5292 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I could listen to you all day! Very calm and it's the way you can relate to real problems. My wife is a part time Sub at our school and we both subscribed today. Love it 😍

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@rickythompson5292 That is a super thoughtful comment! Thank you and my thoughts are with her as she subs too😂

    • @rogerwilliams4493
      @rogerwilliams4493 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂​@@MelindaMiller

  • @markfrank2454
    @markfrank2454 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I retired in January of this year, May I give you a little heads up here if you want to retire and not be in need of money all the time get serious about paying off the house and car payment make it something that it’s all you work on debt free is how you will be able to enjoy your retirement. I can go back to work if I wanted to but I don’t need to the stress is not worth it to me but if I was to take a part time job it would be doing something that was not stressful. Think of it this way that house payment your fun money or you could save it? Best wishes on your future

  • @mikemitchell8928
    @mikemitchell8928 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thanks for the calm synopsis of your retirement journey.
    While you're working, raising a family, going through life changes...down time is not always available...and when it is... you don't always want to talk about money stuff and future planning.
    It sounds like you've got ideas and plans and time to work out the next season of life...
    We didn't have it all together before we retired...and nowadays everyone is talking about how to retire .. so there's a lot more info available.
    Sounds like you're in a good place and have a good family around you. That's pure gold
    Find some things that give you purpose...retirement is not all about money.
    Thanks again for the share

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@mikemitchell8928 Thank you for such a thoughtful comment! Once I let myself retire mentally it’s gotten better.

  • @RobertS.Headrick
    @RobertS.Headrick 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +70

    I think the retirement crisis will get even worse. A lot of people can’t save because of low paying jobs, inflation, and insane rental rates. And now that home ownership is out of reach for middle class Americans, a lot won’t have a house to retire with either.

    • @DanielleB.Wooten
      @DanielleB.Wooten 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      True, It has never been easier to understand how to build your money after retirement than it is right now with the inflation, when you may study and experience a completely variegated market passively by employing a successful portfolio-advisor. The impacts of the U.S. dollar's gain or fall on investments, in my opinion, are complex.

    • @KarenJ.Mancia
      @KarenJ.Mancia 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Even if you’re not skilled, it is still possible to hire one. I was a project manager and my personal portfolio of approximately $850k of my retirement pension took a big hit in April due to the crash. I quickly got in touch with a financial-planner that devised a defensive strategy to protect my funds and make profit from my portfolio this red season. I’ve made over $250k since then.

    • @heatherj-o5j
      @heatherj-o5j 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is exactly how i wish to get my finances coordinated ahead of retirement. Can I get access to your advisor?

    • @KarenJ.Mancia
      @KarenJ.Mancia 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Certainly, there are a handful of experts in the field. I've experimented with a few over the past years, but I've stuck with ‘’Stacy Lynn staples” for about five years now, and her performance has been consistently impressive.She’s quite known in her field, look-her up.

    • @Saviourtina-c4i
      @Saviourtina-c4i 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks a lot for this suggestion. I needed this myself, I looked her up, and I have sent her an email. I hope she gets back to me soon.

  • @41yearoldnewdriver
    @41yearoldnewdriver 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I am so impressed that you were a teacher for thirty years. I worked in the field of education for a few years as a mentor.

  • @vincentharris7909
    @vincentharris7909 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    All the best in your retirement and new life journey. You’ve earned it!

  • @jpdriver1967
    @jpdriver1967 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Your journey is interesting. I will say I have been retirement planning for many years and am still working at this point to cover health insurance. I know many people who are once retired with pensions who have gone back to work because of the cost of staying on a former employer's health care plan. Once I have my medical covered and all other bills paid, I will be retired as well. I have always invested at the first of the month and lived off what was left over. Last year we started tracking all expenses to see where every dollar went and are very surprised how much we spend of little things. The key to successful retirement planning is knowing your expenses each month, projecting out big expenses like a roof on the house or a new appliance, and making sure you have a plan to cover all those things before calling it quits. 3 years and counting!

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@jpdriver1967 It’s shocking how much insurance can cost.

    • @davidwheeler7503
      @davidwheeler7503 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@MelindaMiller. the alternative to high cost of insurance is higher cost of medical expenses and being self insured.

  • @greatriffishere
    @greatriffishere 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I knew when I started watching your video that you might be a spender or you have kids. Paying off your credit card balance each month is critical. Make sure that you dont have any car payments in retirement which will make your life so much easier. I"m almost in the same boat as you, but I have no kids which makes life nice and simple. Getting 80 percent of your salary for 30 years of teaching is a really good pension. I just completed 32 years and when I retire in 4 years I believe I will get 78 percent of my salary from my pension. Cheers and have a nice day.

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@greatriffishere 78% is still really good! I do not have credit card debt anymore which is a blessing.

  • @toomanytoys09
    @toomanytoys09 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Congrats on your 2nd & final retirement..I retired at age 57 & 34 yrs of service at my employer & couldn't be happier..Getting rid of most all debt was the key & realizing that life is too short was the motivation...Go & enjoy your life now & you'll never look back wishing you would have stayed working.

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It’s getting better so I think I will stay retired this time 👍🏻

  • @maw6456
    @maw6456 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I love my social security and thankful for the program. I never go without and always have extra each month to stash away for emergencies or my kids when I die.

    • @jeanineskitchen2607
      @jeanineskitchen2607 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thats great,like me you are a saver
      its so important.

  • @floccinaucinihilipilifications
    @floccinaucinihilipilifications หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for being vulnerable & sharing your experience for our benefit.

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@floccinaucinihilipilifications Thank you so much for commenting! I never know if I’m helping or not so I appreciate this😁

  • @reniedavisson8532
    @reniedavisson8532 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    LOL! In Florida it's 48% of the average of your highest paid years. After 33 years in the classroom, I'm done and waiting on my husband to retire. I have a part time job working a front desk for something to keep contributing to my IRA. We are so ready for the END of work. We just spoke with our financial advisor to make sure we can fully stop working in 3 years. He said most people are pleasantly surprised. We just need to move away from South Florida because it's become extremely expensive.

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Oh my 48% would have me working until the bitter end by myself. I completely understand!

    • @reniedavisson8532
      @reniedavisson8532 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Best of luck! I'm from Kansas City and my people are from Kansas and Missouri, so I was happy to click on your video!

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@reniedavisson8532 Missouri seems to be an ok place to retire. Now I just need a boat:):):) Thanks for watching.

  • @niki9638
    @niki9638 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    We’ve done a no spend all year. Have really increased our savings, paying off debt, and it has helped us get used to not buying stuf.

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I love this! After this month it will get easier I am sure.

  • @kimberlyhughes6807
    @kimberlyhughes6807 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Be aware of the different kinds of financial advisors. Some do not have your interests at heart. I am reading a great book on retirement right now by Jane Bryant Quinn called” How to Make Your Money Last. Borrowed it from my public library. The Rightsize your life chapter goes into depth about financial advisor do’s and don’ts. It has been a great support. I retired July 2024. I am enjoying your channel. TY

  • @travelbungalow6267
    @travelbungalow6267 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    How wonderful you retired when your daughter is still at home! You get to enjoy this time with her. ❤

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yes! However a 16 yr old is quite moody😂😂

  • @TheFatesLieutenant
    @TheFatesLieutenant 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Keep going! - it’s truly never too late, though the longer you wait to start, the more painful it can be - pay off the car (asap), ALWAYS pay off credit cards in full (and control their usage), cut back on eating out (gets easier the longer you go), take a hard look at paying off the mortgage (having zero debt will take a huge load off your soul) and have a good discussion with your daughters about both college expenses (food, housing, and”incidentals” can add up fast) and weddings - it is not your responsibility to pay for either - if you can, great! if you aren’t able too, then that’s fine too. When my wife and I were married we paid for the wedding (small venue) as well as the honeymoon (Egypt Nile cruise and Red Sea diving). You don’t need to become a hermit or ascetic (by no means) but, you may have 30+ years ahead of you…

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I am rethinking all the things I thought I had to pay for my kids.

  • @sallyprzybil2404
    @sallyprzybil2404 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    It’s not too late to invest. Consider that retirement can last up to 30 or more years. Plan to have your investment account for a minimum of 10 years before you touch it. Go with a Roth IRA first…a Roth IRA when you start taking it out is entirely tax free. All you have to make a year is $7000 a year to invest the max..( to invest the max you have to have work earnings up to that amount for that year).. you don’t have to take from or prove that you took the money you invest in your Roth IRA from your work account. Then invest this money you’ve put in your Roth IRA into Index Funds, they are fairly safe. I wonder where in SW Missouri you are, I’m in Missouri too. I just moved here about 2 months ago because the cost of housing p, property taxes and general economy is so much better than it was in DFW Texas.

  • @dottiemakesit9229
    @dottiemakesit9229 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I like your No Spend September idea. I've been doing a No Credit Card March for years now. Other than grocery store food and gas (my 2 essentials) I don't use my credit card for an entire month. Been doing this for 5 years now, and it really makes you plan ahead. Congrat's on your retirement!!

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@dottiemakesit9229 Thanks! Not having to use credit cards has been such a relief for me.

  • @PeterDavila-mx9ni
    @PeterDavila-mx9ni 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    It is obviously very important to have zero debt once we retire. I did so and it is a great way to afford retirement.

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@PeterDavila-mx9ni yes! I do wish my house and car were paid off.

  • @kathytodd983
    @kathytodd983 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    In Ohio we have to teach 34 years! It’s rough. I am debating leaving with a reduced pension after this year, year 30. I plan to work full time doing a less stressful job!❤

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You may not have to work full time if you get some of your pension. I thought I couldn’t make my last few years but I remembered to do the things I love about my job and it helped. Good luck! I feel for you.

  • @berponteberponte3231
    @berponteberponte3231 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    "Enjoying retirement!!" two words that might or should go separately! I am heading that route, thank you for sharing , very informative and honest, Thank you.

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I am starting to "enjoy" it a little more each day:)

    • @sallyprzybil2404
      @sallyprzybil2404 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Those two words definitely should go together.So, maybe you won’t be the one going on huge European Vacations, or Crusing the world, but that’s ok too, you just have to be realistic and enjoy what’s around you and love your life where you’re at!

  • @jandabest5261
    @jandabest5261 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Congrats on your retirement, and looking forward to your no spend update. 🤗

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm looking forward to it too and hoping it's a "good" update:):):) I am about a week and a half into it and so far so good! Once I became more conscious of my spending it's getting a little easier to see where I was "wasting" money. Stay tuned!

  • @michaelblock3998
    @michaelblock3998 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m not surprised you failed initially. CC debt, car, home, daughter still at home. Good lesson to not retire with debt.

  • @MacRides1
    @MacRides1 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    great video and i would think that MANY people are in a similar situation. its good you paid off your CC debt and sounds like you are in a stable position now. update us from time to time to let us know how you're doing. videos like this are great for those who haven't retired yet but will be soon. thanks again for sharing your story.

  • @KAZHE63
    @KAZHE63 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Just found your channel! God bless you- we are 61 and just decided next year is IT! But you are a decade younger than us.

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Love that for you guys! I’m still trying to find my new normal.

  • @natalieblackstock3337
    @natalieblackstock3337 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Do you have Social Security you can draw on as well? From what I understand, if you were married for at least 10 years and you are unmarried now, you can also attach your ex-husband's Social Security as well. It does not affect his payment, but could add an extra little cushion to yours. I know this as my husband's ex-wife attached his Social Security when she retired. It did not change his payments. Just something to look into. Good luck!!

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@natalieblackstock3337 Thank you! I will for sure look into this.

    • @shanalynncarey8374
      @shanalynncarey8374 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes, check out ex husband’s SS. You can’t draw until at least 62 though, but something to look forward. If you do draw at 62 you will have a significant penalty but you already have a pension so it is in addition to those funds. He doesn’t even need to know you are drawing.

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@shanalynncarey8374 Thank you sooooo much for this info!

  • @marthab255
    @marthab255 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You were able to retire at a young age. You are blessed. I retired after 31 years but had teenagers and had to work again for 10 years. I feel blessed to retire at 60. Most people work to 67 at least.

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@marthab255 Right now I think substitute teaching is helping with my extra expenses for my teenager 😁

  • @Auntie-Chris
    @Auntie-Chris 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great video.! Just subscribed. Not ready to retire yet. Will be vested in 2 years..Will see how things look then..😊

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Auntie-Chris Congrats and thanks for subscribing 😁

  • @robinagaines6388
    @robinagaines6388 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yes kudos to you sharing your story! We all or most have fallen into some type of over spending or not conscious of what we are spending. Some of us have never been taught or came from a wealthy family so we have figure it out when well goes dry. We never know where someone has come from. I feel credit card debt is an easy prey to buy into. I don’t judge or criticize everyone has their own individual path. I’m just happy we are beginning to awaken on how to make a life simpler 🎉. Good luck on your channel. Many blessings your way ❤

  • @sallyprzybil2404
    @sallyprzybil2404 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Budgeting is a skill that can easily be used. Get rid of Credit Card debt and throw the Credit Cards away. I got rid of most of my tv subscriptions…at least for awhile. There are also many You Tube videos related to frugality…you don’t have to do everything they say but they do give some good ideas to pick and choose from. It’s different retiring when you still have kids you’re responsible for. I’ve been raising my grandson since he was born, he’s now 7 and in second grade, so I guess I think differently than the typical retiree because I have to consider his expenses too……and he gets a reward every Friday if he does good in school that week of McDonalds Happy Meal on the way home from school…I drive him and pick him up from school.

  • @ruthannwomick7490
    @ruthannwomick7490 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Im currently cranking my retirement numbers.Having been a stay at home mom and then divorced at age 50, has given me a few challenges. My monthly will be considerably less than yours. The good news is that our home will soon be paid off, I dont struggle with purchases but I do have small cc debt. Dont feel you have to be so honest but did you mention whether you have much in the bank?
    Your honesty is refreshing! Dont beat yourself up for mistakes. The finances of retirement are very tricky.

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ruthannwomick7490 Divorce is so hard and changes everything! I am going to mention that in an upcoming video briefly. I do not have much in the bank. That is my goal. I think people need honesty and not the rainbows and unicorns of retirement and I am going to talk about that too😁

    • @ruthannwomick7490
      @ruthannwomick7490 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@MelindaMiller The 'climb' back from divorce, and literally living pay check to pay check, while raising 2 kids alone, was been BRUTAL. NO money in the bank. Navigating life w the inequality of responsibility vs choices for so many years, criples the future of that single parent. While the kids stayed fed, waqrm, etc., I had LOADS of catchup to do. Ill spend my entire life overthinking everything income/outgo. Kids are now grown and on their own but they will never know at the expense of their ole mom's financial future--and they dont need to know that burden. Hopefully Ive launched them w a better foundation:)

  • @funnyside6
    @funnyside6 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    You obviously didn't plan well, but, you can't change the past. Get out of your mind that it's your responsibility to pay for your children's education past high school or your obligation to buy them a car. If you keep on that track, you'll fail at retirement.

    • @keepingitreal618
      @keepingitreal618 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      I don’t understand buying a car for a 16yr old 🙄

    • @ireneroy8820
      @ireneroy8820 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@keepingitreal618yes I agree

    • @judith3774
      @judith3774 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@keepingitreal618 did it 5 times, why not if you can?

    • @sallyprzybil2404
      @sallyprzybil2404 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      When my oldest daughter was 16 she asked me to buy her a car, I said ‘no’ but that I was going to give her a much more fun experience than a new car….i gave her my car which was a few years old and bought myself the new car….intold her the experience of having a ‘beater’ for her first car was one she’d never forget, that if she got a dent or two on the car it wasn’t such a big deal ( whereas there’d be some freaking out if she dented a new car), ..,she had that car for 4 or 5 years and between her and her friends it lovingly earned the name ‘The Beast’! She enjoyed that car so much! But, yes, there’s a lot to think about when you retire with teens. Good reason to have a nice savings set aside.

    • @tmusa2002
      @tmusa2002 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@sallyprzybil2404My kid turned 16 and we pointed him to a 16-year-old minivan sitting out by the shed. He wasn’t interested. Okay, that’s your choice. It didn’t take long and he fell in love with it, that taste of freedom… even had his senior pic taken with it (nuts). He found it to be superior to all vehicles his friends drove. Your first car is a great memory.

  • @davidhankins5708
    @davidhankins5708 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm a year or so from retirement. I am waiting till i get my mortgage paid off. Pay my credit card off monthly. Have to prepare for retiremet well in advance. I have been planning for the last 5 years. I am 62 with military pension and insurance. It almost sounds like you did no prior preparations . Good luck, and I hope all goes well with you!

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@davidhankins5708 I have heard Military pensions and insurance is pretty good?

  • @gpdoyon
    @gpdoyon หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    For those parents who had financial game from the beginning and could pay for their kids college and wedding, my hat is off to you. But, unless you have your own financial retirement on track, you must make yourself the priority. Kids paying for their own college is not the end of the world. The situation is dire if the parents can’t financially support themselves. You don’t want your kids to be burdened with your situation in your old age.

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This is very true! And thankfully my kids are pretty smart with their money so far as teenagers.

  • @MikeS-7
    @MikeS-7 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Listening to your story the thing that concerns me most is no emergency fund. What happens if you need a new roof? Heat pump dies? That is one of your biggest risks.
    No investments is not a show stopper but it would be helpful to have something generating cash flow. Just an idea, consider a Roth IRA and dividend stocks. With your substitute teaching you have earned income. Personally, I think this is priority one.
    At 62, and you know this, the cash flow situation improves as you will have a second check.

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@MikeS-7 I do have a little more extra money than I mention but you are absolutely correct!

  • @jodywatts2103
    @jodywatts2103 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I planned to do a no-spend October.. I actually did ok.. but this next month.. Nov, i plan to be a lot more strict...im retired too. i sub here and there and uber...Ubering, is quick easy money, however, i go thru oil changes and tires.. not to mention gas... so im gonna start subbing more in November.. and see how much money i save vs. ubering....im so behind doing uber.. now if u go to a big town, it does workout ok.. Im an hour away from the Razorbacks.. so i do razorback games.. and that pays good!!!!

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jodywatts2103 I actually thought about delivering for Amazon. But don’t want the wear and tear on my car🤷🏼‍♀️ I love subbing! I also learned so much about my spending habits during my no-spend that it was worth it just to learn that stuff.

    • @jodywatts2103
      @jodywatts2103 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@MelindaMiller do you do savings challenges or sinking funds?? if you dont know what they are you can youtube them.,, its a fun way to save money..

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jodywatts2103 I just did the no spend month and learned soooo much!!! Probably do a couple more of those but I will look up sinking funds too. Thanks

  • @lauri0301
    @lauri0301 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hi there! I’m a new subscriber.. thinking about retiring in about 5 years .. yes I’m trying to plan .. I’m an RN and it’s very stressful as you were as a school principal .. but I really enjoy your videos .. helps me put my situation into perspective!! Thank you for sharing and God bless you and your kids 🙏🏼 big hug from Florida ! 🤗

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@lauri0301 Ahhhh Florida! I could spend some time there in my retirement 🤷🏼‍♀️ I’m editing a video for tomorrow about all the advice and comments I got that should be helpful for everyone.

    • @lauri0301
      @lauri0301 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@MelindaMiller thanks again! 💕🫶

    • @lauri0301
      @lauri0301 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@MelindaMiller btw you could contact me when you’re in Florida and we could meet for a coffee ☕️ and chit chat about retirement.. lol 😂

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@lauri0301 Of course!!!

  • @rkw2917
    @rkw2917 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Credit card and car debt at retirement?
    Crap, haven't had either of those since 1993

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@rkw2917 and that would be ideal🤷🏼‍♀️

  • @janety.1323
    @janety.1323 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Ugh, never pay off unsecured debt (credit cards) with secure debt (your home).

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🤷🏼‍♀️

  • @julier7260
    @julier7260 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    You have an incredible pension. Most Americans get nothing of the sort.

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@julier7260 I know I am very lucky. I also stayed in public education for 30 years which is unheard of these days😁

    • @tmusa2002
      @tmusa2002 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Just fyi, I believe she will not get social security because of this pension. It’s still an amazing pension! I’d retire tomorrow if I was guaranteed 70% of my last three years income.

  • @JD-tn5tb
    @JD-tn5tb 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Congrats on retirement. That's scary not to have any other retirement savings except your pension. And sounds like you also won't get social security (as I know many teachers don't). But you look really young, so maybe you can sub for like 10 years and save up. You are lucky in that you have a part time gig now. I retired a few years ago in my early 60's and after working in one place for 30 years, just looking for a job is challenging. I have savings and think I will be ok with pension and ss in the future but it has been so much more expensive to live as a retired person than when I was working so I feel like I need to find a job. And, you were probably joking but I sure hope your kids don't decide to be professional students. I have always looked down on people who go to school for life and don't get a real job. I sure wouldn't support that. You have your own retirement to support and you worked hard for it!

  • @dawndarling2277
    @dawndarling2277 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I retired state govt at 61 (35 years). But we get full health coverage immediately upon separation. I got around 80% also, but my net income is higher with pension because of all the deductions. SS will add $2200 a month if I take at 62. Not sure if I should wait or not.

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I have not explored SS yet. I will have to see what that will mean for me.

    • @dawndarling2277
      @dawndarling2277 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@MelindaMiller Did you pay into FICA/SS during your teaching career? Many do not.

  • @sallyprzybil2404
    @sallyprzybil2404 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Amazon! OMG! My mailman must think I have them intravenously linked to my life. I’m always ordering little things on Amazon….my excuse we just recently moved into this house and I need to redecorate! My plan is to slow that way down so that by January I will have a good monthly limit on my Amazon spending. I’ve tried ‘No Spend’ months before…..but something always seems to come up to spend a little money on just at that month! Either…kids school pix, kids shoes fall apart and he needs new shoes, something around the house breaks and I need to fix it, etc….sonindont get too crazy if I can’t make an entire no spend month!

  • @bonitak8483
    @bonitak8483 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I just retired from teaching this year in May. I am use to being poor so being poor in retirement is nothing new. I don’t have debt and have small pension and a decent savings account. I will live frugally and probably do vanlife.

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@bonitak8483 Vanlife sounds like a lot of fun. I love watching videos about that.

  • @flrbase
    @flrbase 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The Best advice I received was to put 125.00 in my 403B and after 30 years that amount supplement my pension as a bridge until social security.

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@flrbase this sounds like really good advice.

  • @toddgittins5692
    @toddgittins5692 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You had waaay to many bills. Love your honesty.

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes...WAY too many! I am good now.

  • @moonshine394
    @moonshine394 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is very good information

  • @lynnhensley4326
    @lynnhensley4326 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    People need to save outside of their job. To have a safety cushion.
    If you are interested you could work part-time. Subs are always needed, and that is a good daily rate. I retired 20 years ago from teaching after working 30 years. I have a lower check because if I die first, my spouse will have income. He has no pension. We now have SS, too. I have worked part-time at various education type jobs for 20 years, which, for the most part, I enjoyed. I was helping to raise my grandson and working part-time, gave me more freedom to do other things. I retired finally at 72 this year, but I still tutor privately.
    Good luck 👍.

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are really good person to have served so long and deserve all the good things that come your way:)

  • @jonathanfoster2263
    @jonathanfoster2263 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    im retiring on September 27th myself at age 60. no pension but a nice IRA income. Looking forward to it!

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jonathanfoster2263 Excellent! Enjoy and congrats!

  • @LindaL.Fielder
    @LindaL.Fielder 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I plan to retire or reduce my work hours in five years, and I'm interested in how others allocate their income between savings, spending, and investments. I currently earn about $175K annually but haven't built up much in savings so far.

    • @DanielleB.Wooten
      @DanielleB.Wooten 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      There are numerous strategies to achieve high yields during a financial crisis, but it is crucial to undertake such trades with the guidance and supervision of a professional financial advisor to ensure informed decision-making and risk management.

    • @KarenJ.Mancia
      @KarenJ.Mancia 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's true. I've been assisted by a financial advisor for almost a year now. I started with less than $200K, and I'm just $19,000 short of half a million in profit.

    • @heatherj-o5j
      @heatherj-o5j 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@KarenJ.Mancia That's quite impressive! Can you share more information about your financial advisor?

    • @KarenJ.Mancia
      @KarenJ.Mancia 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Jessica Lee Horst is the coach that guides, you probably might've come across her before I found her through a Newsweek report, she's quite known in her field, look-her up.

    • @Saviourtina-c4i
      @Saviourtina-c4i 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much! This is exactly what I needed right now. I wrote her an email and am waiting for her reply. Hopefully, she responds soon. I plan to start the year on a strong financial note.

  • @joybittner3929
    @joybittner3929 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Your priority should be to pay that house off. Buying cars? That is not much to live off of if you have car problems home repairs. You will have to work till you get social security. Your insurance has a deductable that needs met if you have health issues. Everything is only going up. Your limited pension is not!

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@joybittner3929 I do get the cost of living increase each year. And I can always go back to work🤷🏼‍♀️

  • @woodsparker7902
    @woodsparker7902 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Very wise to view the number of days required to substitute teach as a way of filling the gap from the days of long hours and stress! P.S. Your subscriber count is now 1.85K!

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I am literally in shock about the number of subscribers. I literally had no thoughts or goals past 1000!!!

  • @mymusicalsons
    @mymusicalsons 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The key is to have absolutely no debt when you retire.

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@mymusicalsons Maybe 🤔

  • @DoingMyBest18
    @DoingMyBest18 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I wouldn’t consider myself retired until I had paid off my house and car. Too stressful. Maybe get more
    Side gigs for a short time and get it done? Just me though.

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@DoingMyBest18 I don’t really mind the house and car payment I had planned for those but it would be nice to have that paid off.

  • @rickynorris1694
    @rickynorris1694 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I will retire at 56 with the state of North Carolina. That is in two years. I have no debts, and I will have no premium for my health benefits. I will get on SS at 62.

  • @vijaynair7149
    @vijaynair7149 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am sure you are very close to your daughter. You are good with numbers, so if want to start a budget, an excel spreadsheet is best having 10 or 20 categories. I loved maintaining it with my expenses. It helped me at tax time. 😊 How do you manage snow clearing around the house?

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I shovel snow💪🏼

  • @DoingMyBest18
    @DoingMyBest18 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks for sharing! You have done well! If I were you I would trade your car in for an old lower miles Corolla or something that you could pay off this year.

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@DoingMyBest18 I know but I like my car and think I can have one nice thing. However if I think it’s too much I can sell it🤷🏼‍♀️

  • @tmusa2002
    @tmusa2002 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Got to dump the car wash subscription. Get out the hose and wash that little car by hand. It helps you keep a better eye on its condition and maybe I’m crazy for washing my car once or twice a month. Even if you aren’t physically able to wash your car at home, pay for a cheap auto wash twice per month (not subscription). Any extra savings needs to go towards car debt. I’d tell my kids now that they get four years of college, use it wisely; they’ll need a good job to save for their future wedding. No way in your position should you expect to pay for either. It will be good for the girls to know they need to rely on themselves. No spend months are amazing! If you have ALDI, only buy groceries there. See how many days can go by with your checking account not being touched. 😊

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I like the idea of trying Aldi! I really need to get on that. So many recommendations.

  • @sallyprzybil2404
    @sallyprzybil2404 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It’s not a “mistake” but like ant retirement it’s “a work in progress”. So start where you are and make your way through it….youll be ok!

  • @Belluser-we1uc5cb2l
    @Belluser-we1uc5cb2l 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Social security?

  • @blakemaa4
    @blakemaa4 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Retiring single and with 2 children still in high school was a bold move.

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I mean it is what it is🤷🏼‍♀

  • @donnavickers2821
    @donnavickers2821 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Happy Retirement

  • @entrepreneurblondie7291
    @entrepreneurblondie7291 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi! Can I ask what health insurance you went with? Thank you! I retired from my corporate job, two years ago and I have a full-time job driving a school bus. Thanks for sharing! 😊

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@entrepreneurblondie7291 Ambetter Insurance

  • @borowland5744
    @borowland5744 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm a teacher at the college level and want to retire. I will not get the 50% retirement because I will retire too soon. I already have a military pension and health care for the rest of my life. My social security should be pretty good at 62.

  • @DaveCulbertson
    @DaveCulbertson 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

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      @MattewSchneiderr 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

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    • @Nguyenvictory83
      @Nguyenvictory83 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

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    • @DaveCulbertson
      @DaveCulbertson 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

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      @DaveCulbertson 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

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  • @daisymayzee
    @daisymayzee วันที่ผ่านมา

    No investments at all? I’m stunned.

  • @helciocampos
    @helciocampos 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi folks. If you can afford college and your children's weddings, then do it. If you don't have it, don't sacrifice your retirement. They are young and have time to do this. In my case I can't do that. We are American citizens born in Brazil, we have lived in Florida for 33 years. We are 59 years old today, we have worked cleaning houses for 25 years. we save 60% of our salary. We have no debts. 2 houses paid for in Florida and 1 in Brazil. We will stop working at 63 and live in Brazil where we have a private pension, which will provide a bridge until we retire here through social security at 67. We will sell one of the houses here and buy annuities to supplement our retirement. This is our plan, I hope it works.

  • @leelawateemohammed7899
    @leelawateemohammed7899 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi…I will be retiring from teaching soon but in my country we only get 50% of our salary and a lump sum and no insurance

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If I stayed 2-3 more years I could have received the lump sum but I was done and mentally could not do it anymore.

  • @leedezern6862
    @leedezern6862 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    If you have $1500-$2000 available after bills you’re doing great and should be saving lots of $$$

  • @OurRetireEarlyJourney
    @OurRetireEarlyJourney 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    We are new subs here! 🙋🏻‍♀️🙋🏻‍♂️ Looking forward to following your journey. 😊

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@OurRetireEarlyJourney Congrats and thanks! We can learn a lot together!

  • @TraceyBergum
    @TraceyBergum 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Your kids should pay their way for college if any more $ is needed trust me I really wish I would have had my daughter contribute something. They should also pay the majority of wedding expenses. Kids need to have skin in the game for their life choices. I wish I would have been not such a cash register now I am close to 60 and not as set as I should be because I paid for my kids too much

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@TraceyBergum you make very good points. I think they will pay their part. I just want to do these things for them. But I think you are right too.

  • @mitchellloder1032
    @mitchellloder1032 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great video, I’m retiring in 8 months

  • @lauritaguerrero4519
    @lauritaguerrero4519 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi great information. I have a question are you budgeting only you teacher pension plus a 403?

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Not yet! Just my pension right now but it’s plenty with the supplement of substitute teaching.

  • @HighCountryRambler
    @HighCountryRambler 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    In private sector Fidelity suggests having enough lifetime savings to fund 80% of your previous salary at retirement age.
    That's after putting 15% of your salary over your work lifetime into savings.
    Looks like you retired at more like 90%. When throwing in paid healthcare, where do I sign up? Enjoy your retirement, let the kids go to a trade school and earn the big $$ for a fraction of cost. Great video and smart awareness of the cost of retirement.

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks! I have learned a lot the hard way. Did not put enough in savings but it's not too late:):) Trade school is definitely the way to go and thankfully my kids school is paid for. Except for the dual enrollment fee I just got from my daughter who is still in HS. Still it's cheaper:):):)

  • @tomsimpson5317
    @tomsimpson5317 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I didn't plan now I don't know what to do

  • @katxiong123
    @katxiong123 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    To be honest going into retirement with a mortgage is not an ideal situation.

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@katxiong123 that’s probably true and after working for 30 years I should have a 30 yr mortgage paid off🤷🏼‍♀️ I figured in my mortgage with my retirement decision.

    • @sallyprzybil2404
      @sallyprzybil2404 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Personally I bought a house after retiring, so I also have a mortgage, but it’s a low payment, not a huge loan, and I have and am working a plan to pay it off early! Also have a car payment that I’ve a working plan to have paid off within the first couple of months next year! So, while having a mortgage is not ideal, as long as your payments are low it’s nothing to feel guilty about having! Just don’t do school loans for the kids! No parent plus loans!

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@sallyprzybil2404 Yes my payments are manageable. And fortunately I do not have to pay for my kids schooling at this time.

  • @gloworm1822
    @gloworm1822 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If we could only get the Sweet retirement of Firefighters. Insane pension (on our taxes)

  • @Ronnieleec
    @Ronnieleec 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    congratulations. I hope to join your ranks in 4 years.

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Ronnieleec The more the merrier!!!

  • @mikebarclay6657
    @mikebarclay6657 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Im assuming you dont get a SS check or will get one because you paid into some type of State Employees Retirement System? Just curious. My mother was a librarian in the public school system in Ohio and she only received a Retirement from SERS.

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@mikebarclay6657 I have not looked into that yet.

  • @Dstew57A
    @Dstew57A 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    4000 is pretty damn good…plus you will get social security

    • @JohnWenskay-j6u
      @JohnWenskay-j6u 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Not. She neverput in to SS

  • @hustlenation4779
    @hustlenation4779 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    do you feel that you will have a retirement worthwhile? enough money ?

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes! I would love to have a boat and be able to live the lake life in the summer just not by myself:)

  • @missmrice91
    @missmrice91 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    First video I ever watched of yours. Great video. I’m curious how much longer do you need to pay on the mortgage till it’s paid off? Thanks

    • @missmrice91
      @missmrice91 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Never mind I see you aren’t planning on staying there.

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@missmrice91 I just refinanced and have quite a few years but I have A LOT of equity in my house.

  • @bradleyvanzile1111
    @bradleyvanzile1111 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’ve been retired 17 years no hiccups

  • @michellem8284
    @michellem8284 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thanks for your honesty and transparency, as you've clearly opened yourself up to a lot of criticism in the comments. I just found your channel, so maybe you've addressed this previously. Why on earth would you retire at 52 with children still in school, existing debt, and no savings? Why not continue to work a few more years and set yourself up better?

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@michellem8284 I was in public education for 30 years. Plenty of time to do something else. Maybe I should say I “quit” instead of retired. I can take the criticism. I was a principal and was criticized EVERY day😂😂😂

  • @annhopkin5079
    @annhopkin5079 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Oh thanks for explaining that! at first I didn't understand why you went back to work.I was like whaaaaat! But now it totally makes sense.And it really helped you. I would have done the same thing!!! I retire tomorrow 🎉🍾🎈from teaching thirty two years!!! Excellent.
    Video!!!! I'm thinking about all the same things.

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You retire TODAY????? I wish I could be there to celebrate! Enjoy!

    • @peardisplay
      @peardisplay 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Some people say u should budget 1 to 2 % a year for home maintainance. New roof .furnace.water heater. Its alwas a guess.

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@peardisplay Yes! These are the things I need to work on figuring out. So far so good but I do need to start saving a little bit more all the time and I think once I see how this month turns out I'll have a better feel for things:)

  • @KHC2023
    @KHC2023 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bless your heart!❤. I am a retired accountant and wish we could spend the day together! I could teach you so much about money! ❤

  • @ginatiarn
    @ginatiarn 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Good video! I’m at the same place in my education retirement decisions as a school nurse. Please share your special coffee recipe! I need to quit my Starbucks habit 😊.

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ginatiarn I think my coffee recipe is I one of my videos let me see if I can find it….

    • @ginatiarn
      @ginatiarn 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oh thank you! This was the first video I have seen of yours. I will check out your channel and subscribe 😊.

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ginatiarn A lot of my original content was about being a principal. I’ve been all over the place over the course of 17 years on TH-cam 🤦🏼‍♀️

  • @daniellecomeau2996
    @daniellecomeau2996 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    When you retired was that full retirement with maxed out benefits or partial benefits? Sounds like you have a mortgage and car payment as well.

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@daniellecomeau2996 I’m not sure what benefits you are referring to?

    • @daniellecomeau2996
      @daniellecomeau2996 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Retirement benefits. Usually you have to reach a certain age or years of service, or cmbination of both, to be eligible for benefits.. but then to max out what you will recive there is a next level/tier @MelindaMiller

  • @jennifersparks7611
    @jennifersparks7611 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You might want to watch the Dave Ramsey show like set aside a weekend and just say I'm just going to watch the day Ramsey show and kind of catch up on how he's telling other people how to handle their retirement and their investments. You said you had never invested in anything. I think you can still do that I don't know how old you are You don't look very old You're absolutely gorgeous. So I would sit and just take one Saturday to just sit and watch the Dave Ramsey show on TH-cam. And it will probably help you a lot to understand you know where you can invest. And then maybe take it one step further and call them.

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Excellent advice! Thank you.

  • @ShannonGliko
    @ShannonGliko 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Don't take this the wrong way, but you should seriously consider following Dave Ramsey.

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ShannonGliko I have followed him in the past. Learning a lot from a lot people right now😁 Thanks for sharing!

  • @golt4576
    @golt4576 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    80% of your salary is huge. The normal Federal government employee only pays 1% per yrs based on you top 3yrs. Definitely should have been in the education system. Congrats

    • @MelindaMiller
      @MelindaMiller  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@golt4576 There was a huge amount taken out monthly and put into retirement “for me” thank goodness!