Acknowledging s person's feelings is really a great way to connecting. As a woman l am not looking for a man to cry when l cry but just understanding where l am coming from
This was very helpful because first I felt my behavior was unique to me and not part of being a woman. It gave me insight into how a guy thinks too. Also shone a light that I exhibit some of these connection breaking behaviors too
I feel like such an enigma at times as a woman. I really value my freedom but also crave connection. I run from men who overwhelm me and men who are more detached i want to connect with. Finding a man who I can have a fulfilling and satisfying relationship is eluding me. I've been operating out of my masculine energy for so long, I just want to find that man who has it together and I feel safe with so I can relax into my feminine. I thought I found him recently but the timing for him is off or he's not my guy. Finding him has given me hope someone else will come and the possibility of a future will be there.
Good talk boys! If I may make a suggestion to men in general here, calling a women crazy is a trigger for some. You could say you're "acting" a bit crazy. That might land better. Like, I feel like you're being controlling, or you're being insensitive might land better than you're controlling, or you're insensitive, when speaking with a man
Love the info it absolutely right, but please stop saying it's the guy who does this. I know it's probably 50 50 for men and women. Especially with all the women with daddy issues from broken homes and feal abandonment and having to learn on there own from a young age. Every woman in my family can not be vulnerable or emahetic when its a husband boyfriend or even a son who aren't heard and get dismssed by them. Great message though.
I have to say that if my husband referred to me as 'a delicious woman', especially to other people, I would want to slap him in the face. And I wholly disagree with this stereotype that a woman wants to be closer all the time when a man wants distance. I experience the opposite in my relationship. And the little and big criticisms then comes from my husband. This is just so outdated information. Straight out of Men are from Mars written decades ago. Feminine fear of being abandoned? That is lunacy. Shear sexism.
TragicOptimist You obviously have a lot of pain and resentment built-up inside to be so triggered. You seem to TAKE EVERYTHING SO Literally and SERIOUSLY. If you are being triggered BY this guy's podcast and his honesty, what's the ugly HARD truth behind your ridgit response? He did not STEREOTYPE the masculine role as you should go back and listen to the beginning story about the masculine and feminine roles. We as humans all have both energies with the " feminine" and "masculine", which can refer to both the woman and the man. If you understand polarities, they are taking hypothetically. NAME-CALLING, GENDER OR TYPOLOGY etc is to help guide the audience vs confuse them. Give me a break. I can see the negative you take away from this, what did you get out of it that was positive. TO be offended by someone's opinion tells me that it's not the messenger, it's the receiver.
A woman playing the masculine role tells me she's not secure in the relationship or herself, gaining control of the relationship could be seen as fear bc the partner who needs to be in charge is more masculine vs a woman who is able to be feminine in her essence allows the man to be masculine, Perspectives??
Acknowledging s person's feelings is really a great way to connecting. As a woman l am not looking for a man to cry when l cry but just understanding where l am coming from
Reminds me of the saying, "I don't care how much you know until I know how much you care."
right
this hit the nail on the head for 90% of the fights me and my partner have. great advice! will definitely share
awesome! glad you found it helpful
This was very helpful because first I felt my behavior was unique to me and not part of being a woman. It gave me insight into how a guy thinks too. Also shone a light that I exhibit some of these connection breaking behaviors too
I feel like such an enigma at times as a woman. I really value my freedom but also crave connection. I run from men who overwhelm me and men who are more detached i want to connect with. Finding a man who I can have a fulfilling and satisfying relationship is eluding me. I've been operating out of my masculine energy for so long, I just want to find that man who has it together and I feel safe with so I can relax into my feminine. I thought I found him recently but the timing for him is off or he's not my guy. Finding him has given me hope someone else will come and the possibility of a future will be there.
Rebecca H same for me. Hugs.
Really enlightening video. I can relate to what you are saying.
Thanks a lot for watching
Good talk boys! If I may make a suggestion to men in general here, calling a women crazy is a trigger for some. You could say you're "acting" a bit crazy. That might land better. Like, I feel like you're being controlling, or you're being insensitive might land better than you're controlling, or you're insensitive, when speaking with a man
great feedback
My girlfriend and I both do these things and it sucks
go learn how to do it differently. take one of our courses. apply yourselves.
Love the info it absolutely right, but please stop saying it's the guy who does this. I know it's probably 50 50 for men and women. Especially with all the women with daddy issues from broken homes and feal abandonment and having to learn on there own from a young age. Every woman in my family can not be vulnerable or emahetic when its a husband boyfriend or even a son who aren't heard and get dismssed by them. Great message though.
I’m female and I related to the male energy more times then not. 🤷♀️
I know what you mean
I have to say that if my husband referred to me as 'a delicious woman', especially to other people, I would want to slap him in the face. And I wholly disagree with this stereotype that a woman wants to be closer all the time when a man wants distance. I experience the opposite in my relationship. And the little and big criticisms then comes from my husband. This is just so outdated information. Straight out of Men are from Mars written decades ago. Feminine fear of being abandoned? That is lunacy. Shear sexism.
To the person you are interviewing: keep working on it before you teach others.
TragicOptimist You obviously have a lot of pain and resentment built-up inside to be so triggered. You seem to TAKE EVERYTHING SO Literally and SERIOUSLY. If you are being triggered BY this guy's podcast and his honesty, what's the ugly HARD truth behind your ridgit response? He did not STEREOTYPE the masculine role as you should go back and listen to the beginning story about the masculine and feminine roles. We as humans all have both energies with the " feminine" and "masculine", which can refer to both the woman and the man. If you understand polarities, they are taking hypothetically.
NAME-CALLING, GENDER OR TYPOLOGY etc is to help guide the audience vs confuse them. Give me a break. I can see the negative you take away from this, what did you get out of it that was positive. TO be offended by someone's opinion tells me that it's not the messenger, it's the receiver.
A woman playing the masculine role tells me she's not secure in the relationship or herself, gaining control of the relationship could be seen as fear bc the partner who needs to be in charge is more masculine vs a woman who is able to be feminine in her essence allows the man to be masculine, Perspectives??
FreeAtLast, I doubt anybody would want to call you that. So you can relax.