Introvert here googled "going to a concert alone" LOL! These comments gave me courage. Not that I was afraid of being alone (use to that) I'm just tired of feeling like people feel sorry for me or might think I'm a crappy person because I'm alone. This is my second concert by myself. The first one, (Citizen Cope) i felt awkward.
Same here Doll. I'm going to the Detroit show, I don't have a car so my mom is driving me up there and watching the kids but I'm in the venue alone. Lol. What city are you going to for her tour?
@@blackgirlparis that sounds like I good plan! Maybe I should look into someone dropping me off at the stadium so I won't have to Uber both there and back... I'm in Dallas TX!! The ATT&T Stadium is in Arlington tho but it's only about an hour away with traffic.
@@keeshalafaye9074 oh OK. I definitely here you there. I know my mom was going to drop me off there, but I am suppose to get a Uber or lyft back home since my kids are still little and will probably be in bed by the time the concert is over....Anyway you will have a great time I'm sure, I don't know if you saw her by yourself before but when you settle in and don't let nerves take over you most likely will meet some beehive friends for the night:)
@@blackgirlparis I have a toddler and this will be the first time I'll be away from her so late because I know this concert will end way past her bed time! ...Thanks for the motivation!! I definitely needed it! I hope you have the best time! And enjoy you Mini mommy vacation away from the kids because I sure am!! Might even get me a little drink 🍻
@@recben8023 I'm pretty sure it will be fun for me. However I'm more excited for you. Going to your first Beyonce concert is a excitement and fulfillment I can't explain. You will have such a great time...what show you attending? I'm at the Detroit show in the vip risers
I remember last year hearing that Tinashe came through to my city and performed at a festival. I was at work at the time. So, if she comes through again, I’m going to one of her shows! ✊🏻 Why? She’s an amazing artist and I’ll be surrounded by people who love her as well. 👍🏻
Thank you for this video. I’m planning on going to Lucky Daye meet and greet concert tomorrow in Chicago alone for the first time and I’m really nervous and excited at the same time and needed to hear this video!!!
I went to my first concert alone at Breakaway and once it started getting filled up more I lost most of the anxiety and had the best day of my life ever!
Thank you so much for making this video. I haven’t been able to sleep because of this concert I’m planning on going to and this helped me calm down so much so thank you a lot, I really love how you talked about this and made me feel seen❤
i was just was at å consert alone and some guys literly bullied me out, i started crying and they kept taking my stuff bulliying me, kick me meg multible of times, take pictures and throw water at me. I have to now again try to to to a consert alone to try to convince myself it's not scary. wish me good luck.
I go to concerts alone and now I have even branched out to attend concerts out of town alone. I'm not going to miss seeing my fav performers just bcz no one wants to go with me. I'm a 69 yr old female & live in metro Atlanta. I no longer like going to mega venues and prefer smaller venues. I enjoy going to smaller cities to attend concerts, eps cities I have never been to.
I want to see Nikki too, and my people don't really seem interested... so I'm thinking of buying my own ticket. I'm more nervous about not being able to find my seats or getting lost trying to find my car at the end.
Loved the video! I´m a bit scared I just bought a ticket to a concert impulsively, the crowd is mainly men and that´s the thing that scares me, not the awkwardness of being alone. Do you have any advice?🤷♀
Thankyou, I needed this pep talk. I'm going to a Tchaikovsky conceto next week and none of my friends like classical. I was very nervous about going alone with lots of older people in the audience.
Less than 24 hours will be my first concert. On my own as well. 50k people. Rammstein. I felt that it was time, not much till I'm 30. I'm mostly not sure how loud it'll be and how the whole eating/drinking and toilet situation is. I did get a seat though, so atleast I can sit down if it's too much. And I have earplugs.
I’m going to see Keith Sweat alone and I’m super excited! It’s my first solo concert but I feel that it would be an adventure! Wonderful video ❤️✨❤️✨❤️✨❤️
Hi Yona, I was reading your blog about Taylor Swift’s vocal range where you said she has a range of between 3.5 to 4 octaves. The range you gave was from A2 to E5. That’s actually only 2.5 octaves. A2 to A3 is one octave, A3 to A4 is one octave, and A4 to E5 is a perfect 5th. So her range is two octaves plus a perfect 5th, which is basically 2.5 octaves. I hope you found this helpful. Just trying to help.😊
Omg thank you so much for this!! I’m going at SZA’s concert in 3 hours and im going insane since days 😭 she’s one of my fav artists since i’m 12 (i’m 18 now) and seeing her had always been my dream, so i’m freaking out thinking about all of this, so thank you again for your useful tips
The only thing I worry about is that most of the people at the concerts I go to are somewhat older than I am so it does get kind of scary and intimidating
I always have to go alone when its a white band or artist i love 😂 .none of my friends have diverse ears as me, some bands are from childhood and bring back a euphoria feeling for me ❤❤❤ so..alone I go 😂 my next one upcoming is John Mayer 🥰🥰
I’m seeing Madison Beer June 2nd and I’m going alone lol my friends love metal and rock I love girly pop lol so I’m going alone. I’m nervous but excited and I love Madison beer 💕
It's really up to where you are and what you can get away with, i have a small thing of mace on my key ring that i even forget about, i get through security everywhere with it
I’m going to a suicideboys/city morgue concert in Vegas next week and am terrified about going alone because they are known to get rowdy and it’s mostly men but I have no one to go with that likes them 😭
I appreciate this. I'm still watching but just wanted to stop and comment because I'm having anxiety about going to a stand up comedy alone. Not only do I feel like I will stick out like a sore thumb because I am alone, but also... It's a black Comedian, and literally all of his shows I watch on TV are 99% a black audience. I hope I don't sound offensive because I am not meaning to be. Im just worried I will get laughed at and if people will wonder why I'm there because maybe I'm not 'relatable'. I love this comedian but just having anxiety about it. I don't have friends and I'm a bit of a loner so didn't have anybody to ask to go with me. What do you think?
When i first started going to places alone i felt like I needed to explain myself and I did Lol! I live in a city now where I wasn't raised in so f**k it! I'm taking my a$$ to Billy Talent. ALONE!
This is my first time ever going to a concert and going alone. I have social anxiety and i have like no friends who likes Chris Brown so i’m nervous today. But I know I will have a great time by myself.
@@blackgirlparis I went yesterday and it was awesome i still think about the concert. I finally saw him live i’ve been a fan since 2005 and let me tell you the concert was PACKED. There was a lot of people from the UK in Netherlands. It was amazing experience, Chris Brown the goat!!!
Thank you for this, I'm going to a concert alone in a week. I'm very introverted & have social anxiety, & I keep thinking it'll be awkward & I'll look weird, but I have to remind myself that no one cares, & that people do this all the time.
I am OFFICIALLY in my concert era and I'm going to my first solo concert 💖✨️ I'm excited, but nervous because I'm still VERY NEW to concerts. Thanks for this video!
@@mskdub007 it was a lot better than I expected! After being there for like 15 minutes my anxiety went away and I realized no one else was worried about me 🥰 10/10 would recommend
Great video! I went to see Mariah Carey by myself. I ending up meeting some really cool people. At the end of the concert we waited outside to see Mariah get on her tour bus! So much fun!! I'm so glad I took a chance♥️
I love going to concerts and broadway plays by myself. I"'ve seen MGK, Disturbed, Blink 182, and both Book of Mormon and Beetlejuice by myself. I have social anxiety, but I've always managed to talk to a few people while I've attended because we all have common interests. It's incredible!
I’m going to see Chloe Bailey next month alone and got the meet and greet package in Boston, this is my very first time going to a show by myself. And not only that but it’s 2 hours away from my city so I’m nervous. I have really bad anxiety but I’m also excited and really wanna have a good time 😭😭😭 I’m not worried about looking weird by myself but I overthink if I’m gonna get lost and not know where to go in the venue, and I’m just extra cautious about my safety. I don’t want anything going wrong. I hope I end making some friends there 🥹❤️
I literally just went to my first solo concert to see dsvn. Everything you said in this video, I did. So I feel extra, extra proud now 😅 I just came to see if there was anything different that I should’ve done. lol. I’m planning my next concert already for next year. I done got tired of waiting on others to “come along”. Solo concerts are such a vibe!
I love going to concerts! It’s one of my favorite things to do. I’ve never been to concert alone but I’m going to see Lauryn Hill and the Fugees in October and no one I know really seemed interested, whether that be for financial reasons or otherwise. I’m not going to miss it out on the 25th anniversary of one of the greatest albums ever, so I bought one ticket, a really amazing seat…paid a hefty price for it but hey 🤷🏾♀️. I’m looking forward to this experience. The older I get the less I need other people to do the things that make me happy. If you’re going to a concert alone don’t worry! You’re there for the music, the vibes, the art! In a society where people are unhealthily co-dependent, I think it’s pretty badass to do whatever the hell you want despite who supports or not.
Thank you for this. I'm going to see Tanerelle on my birthday and I will be completely solo. I'm a little nervous bringing in a new decade by myself at a concert in another state, but I'm going to go and carry your advice with me!
Going to see suicideboys and ghostmane soon. I have panic and anxiety disorder, I am currently googling all the things to do lol I’m going alone and it’s my first concert
Thank you for this. I'm going to my first arena concert soon. I've gone to County Fair (which are huge) outdoor concerts alone & smaller scale events. But never a traditional venue like this. A little intimidating but I hope it's a safe & fun time.
I went to quite a few alone. Usher in Vegas, Romeo Santos and Konpa Kingdom in NYC. The most awkward one was Hector Acosta in NYC because a lady next to me started talking to me and make a big deal about me being a non Spanish speaker (or non fluent anyway). It’s better when I’m ignored lol. Getting decent seats is definitely a good top. Treat yourself!
I'm going to concert without my friends. None of my friends like the bands/music I like. So I'll just go on my own. The good thing is I'll be surrounded by people who share the same taste in music (for a change)...
I don’t have a lot of friends and the concert I wanna go to is in a different state. I know the person who’s performing but I don’t wanna feel left out fr. I’m nervous. 😭
Introvert here googled "going to a concert alone" LOL! These comments gave me courage. Not that I was afraid of being alone (use to that) I'm just tired of feeling like people feel sorry for me or might think I'm a crappy person because I'm alone. This is my second concert by myself. The first one, (Citizen Cope) i felt awkward.
At first I was stressing abt buying tickets and now I'm stressed abt being alone 😭 this helps tho thank u!
i plan on going to a sza concert alone so thank you for making this
Me prepping to go see Beyonce by myself!! I'm scared, nerves, and excited all at the same time!!
Same here Doll. I'm going to the Detroit show, I don't have a car so my mom is driving me up there and watching the kids but I'm in the venue alone. Lol. What city are you going to for her tour?
@@blackgirlparis that sounds like I good plan! Maybe I should look into someone dropping me off at the stadium so I won't have to Uber both there and back... I'm in Dallas TX!! The ATT&T Stadium is in Arlington tho but it's only about an hour away with traffic.
@@keeshalafaye9074 oh OK. I definitely here you there. I know my mom was going to drop me off there, but I am suppose to get a Uber or lyft back home since my kids are still little and will probably be in bed by the time the concert is over....Anyway you will have a great time I'm sure, I don't know if you saw her by yourself before but when you settle in and don't let nerves take over you most likely will meet some beehive friends for the night:)
@@blackgirlparis I have a toddler and this will be the first time I'll be away from her so late because I know this concert will end way past her bed time! ...Thanks for the motivation!! I definitely needed it! I hope you have the best time! And enjoy you Mini mommy vacation away from the kids because I sure am!! Might even get me a little drink 🍻
Omg same!!!
I needed this! Im going to a concert alone and dont know whether to go or not. Watching your video now.
Me going to my fourth Beyonce concert for summer 2023. With anxiety and panic attacks accompanying me😂😭
Omg same!!!! Except it’s my first Beyoncé concert 🤩. I hope you are able to without being too stressed out and enjoy yourself!
@@recben8023 I'm pretty sure it will be fun for me. However I'm more excited for you. Going to your first Beyonce concert is a excitement and fulfillment I can't explain. You will have such a great time...what show you attending? I'm at the Detroit show in the vip risers
@@blackgirlparis Damn I wish I could be VIP lol. I'm going to the Chicago show! Also thanks, I hope that my first time is as great as you say!
Haha girl I feel ya!!❤
Just bought my single ticket and I'm ready! :) 😆
I remember last year hearing that Tinashe came through to my city and performed at a festival. I was at work at the time. So, if she comes through again, I’m going to one of her shows! ✊🏻 Why? She’s an amazing artist and I’ll be surrounded by people who love her as well. 👍🏻
Yooo ong 👌🏽
Thank you for this video. I’m planning on going to Lucky Daye meet and greet concert tomorrow in Chicago alone for the first time and I’m really nervous and excited at the same time and needed to hear this video!!!
I'm going to see twenty one pilots alone next week. I'm not nervous, but super self conscious.
I went to my first concert alone at Breakaway and once it started getting filled up more I lost most of the anxiety and had the best day of my life ever!
Thank you so much for making this video. I haven’t been able to sleep because of this concert I’m planning on going to and this helped me calm down so much so thank you a lot, I really love how you talked about this and made me feel seen❤
i was just was at å consert alone and some guys literly bullied me out, i started crying and they kept taking my stuff bulliying me, kick me meg multible of times, take pictures and throw water at me. I have to now again try to to to a consert alone to try to convince myself it's not scary. wish me good luck.
I’m so sorry you went through that. I’m here to listen if you’d like to chat about it. And I hope your next concert is much better❤
I go to concerts alone and now I have even branched out to attend concerts out of town alone. I'm not going to miss seeing my fav performers just bcz no one wants to go with me. I'm a 69 yr old female & live in metro Atlanta. I no longer like going to mega venues and prefer smaller venues. I enjoy going to smaller cities to attend concerts, eps cities I have never been to.
I've always went solo
. Just got myself a floor seat for Nicki pf2.
I am about to buy a ticket solo for nicki so reading this just made me feel better!
@@11naceme too😊
I want to see Nikki too, and my people don't really seem interested... so I'm thinking of buying my own ticket. I'm more nervous about not being able to find my seats or getting lost trying to find my car at the end.
Loved the video! I´m a bit scared I just bought a ticket to a concert impulsively, the crowd is mainly men and that´s the thing that scares me, not the awkwardness of being alone. Do you have any advice?🤷♀
thinkin ab going and seeing Sleeping w sirens alone in MD. i’m so scared cause i’ll have to uber there and back alone but i feel it’ll be so worth it
Thankyou, I needed this pep talk. I'm going to a Tchaikovsky conceto next week and none of my friends like classical. I was very nervous about going alone with lots of older people in the audience.
Less than 24 hours will be my first concert. On my own as well. 50k people. Rammstein. I felt that it was time, not much till I'm 30. I'm mostly not sure how loud it'll be and how the whole eating/drinking and toilet situation is. I did get a seat though, so atleast I can sit down if it's too much. And I have earplugs.
I’m going to see Keith Sweat alone and I’m super excited! It’s my first solo concert but I feel that it would be an adventure! Wonderful video ❤️✨❤️✨❤️✨❤️
thank you for this video! I am going to a concert next year alone and the venue has 55k+ capacity! I am nervous and excited at the same time!
Thank you for the tips looking forward to my first concert🤞🏻
I’m going to my first concert next week…so nervous
Thanks for the advice, your hair’s so pretty!!
Thank you so much!!
Hi Yona, I was reading your blog about Taylor Swift’s vocal range where you said she has a range of between 3.5 to 4 octaves. The range you gave was from A2 to E5. That’s actually only 2.5 octaves. A2 to A3 is one octave, A3 to A4 is one octave, and A4 to E5 is a perfect 5th. So her range is two octaves plus a perfect 5th, which is basically 2.5 octaves. I hope you found this helpful. Just trying to help.😊
thanks I'll double check that one!
@@YonaMarie You’re welcome 😇
Omg thank you so much for this!! I’m going at SZA’s concert in 3 hours and im going insane since days 😭 she’s one of my fav artists since i’m 12 (i’m 18 now) and seeing her had always been my dream, so i’m freaking out thinking about all of this, so thank you again for your useful tips
Omg going to her concert alone too on Sunday 🙌🏻
How was it??
The only thing I worry about is that most of the people at the concerts I go to are somewhat older than I am so it does get kind of scary and intimidating
I always have to go alone when its a white band or artist i love 😂 .none of my friends have diverse ears as me, some bands are from childhood and bring back a euphoria feeling for me ❤❤❤ so..alone I go 😂 my next one upcoming is John Mayer 🥰🥰
I have an Erykah Badu show I’m going to alone and I’m nervous. And I’m a male 😂
Thank you so much this helped me
Going alone to concerts is best way to get inspirations
I’m seeing Madison Beer June 2nd and I’m going alone lol my friends love metal and rock I love girly pop lol so I’m going alone. I’m nervous but excited and I love Madison beer 💕
This was really helpful. How would I be able to take mace in if the venue says no weapons?
It's really up to where you are and what you can get away with, i have a small thing of mace on my key ring that i even forget about, i get through security everywhere with it
I’m going to a suicideboys/city morgue concert in Vegas next week and am terrified about going alone because they are known to get rowdy and it’s mostly men but I have no one to go with that likes them 😭
Can someone help me. I'm a 32 yr old guy going to a Twice concert (K POP). Actually, my sis is coming but we are separated seats lmao.
I appreciate this. I'm still watching but just wanted to stop and comment because I'm having anxiety about going to a stand up comedy alone. Not only do I feel like I will stick out like a sore thumb because I am alone, but also... It's a black Comedian, and literally all of his shows I watch on TV are 99% a black audience. I hope I don't sound offensive because I am not meaning to be. Im just worried I will get laughed at and if people will wonder why I'm there because maybe I'm not 'relatable'. I love this comedian but just having anxiety about it. I don't have friends and I'm a bit of a loner so didn't have anybody to ask to go with me. What do you think?
I am a low tenor Who can match well with tenors?
When i first started going to places alone i felt like I needed to explain myself and I did Lol! I live in a city now where I wasn't raised in so f**k it! I'm taking my a$$ to Billy Talent. ALONE!
Im nearing a major breakup ....time to START taking ME out on a fun "date"❤❤❤❤
This is my first time ever going to a concert and going alone. I have social anxiety and i have like no friends who likes Chris Brown so i’m nervous today. But I know I will have a great time by myself.
I hope to attend a C Breezy concert at least once in my lifetime
@@blackgirlparis I went yesterday and it was awesome i still think about the concert. I finally saw him live i’ve been a fan since 2005 and let me tell you the concert was PACKED. There was a lot of people from the UK in Netherlands. It was amazing experience, Chris Brown the goat!!!
Thank you for this, I'm going to a concert alone in a week. I'm very introverted & have social anxiety, & I keep thinking it'll be awkward & I'll look weird, but I have to remind myself that no one cares, & that people do this all the time.
How did it go ?
@@MsGee222 bro died
@@MsGee222 she propably died in moshpit
@@honzainfamy410💀
I am OFFICIALLY in my concert era and I'm going to my first solo concert 💖✨️ I'm excited, but nervous because I'm still VERY NEW to concerts. Thanks for this video!
Yess soo proud of you, we can do this
who are you going to go see??!! I'm going solo to t he Doja Cat concert :0
@@jadearmani4103 To Olivia Rodrigo next Year :)
@@jadearmani4103how was going solo?
@@mskdub007 it was a lot better than I expected! After being there for like 15 minutes my anxiety went away and I realized no one else was worried about me 🥰 10/10 would recommend
Great video! I went to see Mariah Carey by myself. I ending up meeting some really cool people. At the end of the concert we waited outside to see Mariah get on her tour bus! So much fun!! I'm so glad I took a chance♥️
wow yes I'm so glad you got went for it I'm sure her concert was everything!!!
I love going to concerts and broadway plays by myself. I"'ve seen MGK, Disturbed, Blink 182, and both Book of Mormon and Beetlejuice by myself. I have social anxiety, but I've always managed to talk to a few people while I've attended because we all have common interests. It's incredible!
Yay!!! Supporting anyone who is going to a concert alone! Let’s be there for each other mentally😅
I’m going to see Chloe Bailey next month alone and got the meet and greet package in Boston, this is my very first time going to a show by myself. And not only that but it’s 2 hours away from my city so I’m nervous. I have really bad anxiety but I’m also excited and really wanna have a good time 😭😭😭 I’m not worried about looking weird by myself but I overthink if I’m gonna get lost and not know where to go in the venue, and I’m just extra cautious about my safety. I don’t want anything going wrong. I hope I end making some friends there 🥹❤️
I hope you had fun girl!! I’m gong to see Drake in a new city this month alone and I’m excited!!
How was going by yourself. I have the dance doubts as you. Getting lost or something
I literally just went to my first solo concert to see dsvn. Everything you said in this video, I did. So I feel extra, extra proud now 😅 I just came to see if there was anything different that I should’ve done. lol. I’m planning my next concert already for next year. I done got tired of waiting on others to “come along”. Solo concerts are such a vibe!
I’ll experience it soon, Ive already missed several concerts cuz friends didn’t want to go and ye I’m tired of waiting
@@Di-wp8ir do it! Have fun but most importantly…BE SAFE 🫶🏾
@@yourstrulyxtemika thank youu (btw it was amazing)
I love going to concerts! It’s one of my favorite things to do. I’ve never been to concert alone but I’m going to see Lauryn Hill and the Fugees in October and no one I know really seemed interested, whether that be for financial reasons or otherwise. I’m not going to miss it out on the 25th anniversary of one of the greatest albums ever, so I bought one ticket, a really amazing seat…paid a hefty price for it but hey 🤷🏾♀️. I’m looking forward to this experience. The older I get the less I need other people to do the things that make me happy. If you’re going to a concert alone don’t worry! You’re there for the music, the vibes, the art! In a society where people are unhealthily co-dependent, I think it’s pretty badass to do whatever the hell you want despite who supports or not.
Thank you for this. I'm going to see Tanerelle on my birthday and I will be completely solo. I'm a little nervous bringing in a new decade by myself at a concert in another state, but I'm going to go and carry your advice with me!
I’m 21 and I’m going to see TWICE (kpop) in 3 weeks. Im going alone because my sister can’t come
Funny, im here because im going to the twice concert alone too
Going to see suicideboys and ghostmane soon. I have panic and anxiety disorder, I am currently googling all the things to do lol I’m going alone and it’s my first concert
literally same exact concert im going too
@@sinnings so fun&&ing excited!
How was it? I’m going to my fav concert in 2 days :))
@@liv9413 it’s on the 26! So I haven’t gone yet! But I’ll update later
Thank you for this. I'm going to my first arena concert soon. I've gone to County Fair (which are huge) outdoor concerts alone & smaller scale events. But never a traditional venue like this. A little intimidating but I hope it's a safe & fun time.
Yes I hope it’ll be great for you!
I went to quite a few alone. Usher in Vegas, Romeo Santos and Konpa Kingdom in NYC. The most awkward one was Hector Acosta in NYC because a lady next to me started talking to me and make a big deal about me being a non Spanish speaker (or non fluent anyway). It’s better when I’m ignored lol. Getting decent seats is definitely a good top. Treat yourself!
I'm going to concert without my friends. None of my friends like the bands/music I like. So I'll just go on my own. The good thing is I'll be surrounded by people who share the same taste in music (for a change)...
Thank you so much Im going to see wolf Alice this week by myself this made me feel a lot better it's going to be epic
you're welcome!
Who else seeing Beyoncé by themselves 🤩🤩🤩
Flying to sweden tuesday😭 seing beyonce wednesday alone
@@g73738 why the crying emoji?
@@recben8023 bc i was nervous
🙋🏾♀️
I'm going to thee Hottie Tour for Meg Thee Stallion for my bday alone🥰 first time going to a concert! & i'm going alone lol
I’m worried about finding parking spaces … any tips on that ?
Thank you for this video, the concert I’m going to is 6 months away and I have nobody coming with me. We riding solo
these are great tips
#🙋🏽♀
I don’t have a lot of friends and the concert I wanna go to is in a different state. I know the person who’s performing but I don’t wanna feel left out fr. I’m nervous. 😭
Thank you so much for all the tips ! I’m going to Blackpink finale concert alone in Seoul. I’m excited and anxious 😬
I want to go to a straykids concert but I don't have stay friends so I have to go by myself I'm so scared ...
I am going to TLC and shaggy for my time by myself cause I got no one to go with
im going tomorrow 😅 nervous lol needed this video
❤ thanks!!!!