Married to a Zimbabwean🇿🇼 man as a South African🇿🇦 | Xenophobia in SA | Love Beyond Borders Ep.6

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  • @mbaliyam
    @mbaliyam 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Thank you so much for having me Serame 💕🙏🏾

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much for coming ❤🙏🏾

    • @mrsakala
      @mrsakala 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I loved this so much dear

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mrsakala thank you sis ❤️

    • @AllHope23
      @AllHope23 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Mbali.
      *Chitsika* is my village in Chivi/Masvingo... Chitsika would be my great great granduncle. My father's elder siblings are all surnamed Chitsika.

    • @mbaliyam
      @mbaliyam 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@AllHope23 yes, that’s kumusha for my husband.

  • @nabortwedzerai4271
    @nabortwedzerai4271 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Its really a discussion of mature people. Thank you for giving good reputation to Zimbabwean people

  • @Faridbuza
    @Faridbuza ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love how they are bringing up their daughter with three languages. So important

  • @eliasnerwande1646
    @eliasnerwande1646 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    We love you Mbali Makoti Zimbabwens are so lovely people

  • @siphosethuzikhai
    @siphosethuzikhai ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Beautiful content loved the conversation and our muroora we love her as Zimbabweans

  • @siamahungulu6760
    @siamahungulu6760 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This just made me realize how I have so many friends who are foreign nationals and sometimes I forget that they are foreigners. I am never aware that they are also affected by xenophobia.

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Its so sad... One way or the other they're affected

    • @OCTAGONGROUPDESIGNS-hx3hk
      @OCTAGONGROUPDESIGNS-hx3hk 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Even with papers, xenophobia affects you mentally. The most horrible pain a human can feel is being burnt alive, followed by child birth.

  • @olatunjiabodedele170
    @olatunjiabodedele170 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Please can you find south African men married to foreign nationals and interview them 🙏 that will add another dimension to the discuss. Thanks for the thought provoking discussions on your platform.

  • @nelsonvuranda8657
    @nelsonvuranda8657 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you mbali you are a good example we like you

  • @sulaimonoladipoakanni1074
    @sulaimonoladipoakanni1074 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Am proudly yoruba from Lagos Island Nigeria married to a south Africa setswana from mafikeng NW province mzansi we relocated currently residing in Montreal canada 🇨🇦 we are happy. Family to God be the glory 🙏 am bless

  • @OCTAGONGROUPDESIGNS-hx3hk
    @OCTAGONGROUPDESIGNS-hx3hk 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    We love you Muroora. You are very kind and blessed with humility and discipline. I am an Architect living in plk. My mom wants me to marry a Zimbabwean. I have tried dating Zimbabwean women but it didn't work out. Now I am dating a Swati girl. I have to be honest, my girlfriend is so sweet. I even found out that I spoil her and don't mind because she's just a pure soul that doesn't ask for anything. This is why I clicked on this video and to my surprise Mbali is Swati too. It's just so sad that we have this love and hate thing between South Africans and Zimbabweans but those who find true love should hold on to it. In shona there's a saying "mudzimu haupe kaviri" meaning the ancestors don't give twice. I will always cherish her beautiful soul❤️

  • @nyashachamisa3444
    @nyashachamisa3444 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I think the 1st part mbali was explaining was that you go for introductions on both sides of the family before you start the lobola process to just get to know each other.

  • @gistorndlela3548
    @gistorndlela3548 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    They do marry my husband is a Swati from Mpumalanga and am from Zim a Ndebele from Bulawayo.We got married 2018we have 2 kids now and we are happy,we met a church

  • @theamanas
    @theamanas 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Mbali is just so calm man❤️

  • @emmanuelmufunda8693
    @emmanuelmufunda8693 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Welcome muroora! We love you.

  • @pridenhizwa1028
    @pridenhizwa1028 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Definitely these sister's they know a lot about our differences for sure. The conversation its just on point nothing to edit

  • @ashleyzviitei
    @ashleyzviitei ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Muroora Mbali/makoti Mbali....❤Zim aunt here, based in Pretoria, married to a Nigerian.

  • @mrsakala
    @mrsakala 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Serame , interviews are your thing babe... You are very good at it.

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Mrs Akala. I appreciate your kind words

  • @NokulilaNgcongolo
    @NokulilaNgcongolo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thank you so much ladies, this was beautiful as always. Serame you must come teach me how to 'snatch' someone 😂😂

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for watching ❤ 😂😂😂bathong how will i know? I'll call congolese men to teach you 😂🤭🙈🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️

  • @morganmakanyaire9305
    @morganmakanyaire9305 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Our Makoti🇿🇼🇿🇼💃

  • @marvellousmeki608
    @marvellousmeki608 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is a discussion from mature people. Building bridge than walls

  • @maynardkunaka6471
    @maynardkunaka6471 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love you makoti wethu bcz you are one of those people who can have all the truth between us as Zimbabweas and South Africans

  • @percymagutshwa5101
    @percymagutshwa5101 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    🇿🇼🇿🇼✊✊✊✊ Wellcome Mbali

  • @Justgloryn
    @Justgloryn ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Robert Mugabe's English 👌❤️Yes Zim women are raised to be wives🥴

  • @theamanas
    @theamanas 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Serame your interviewing skill is on another level❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @nelsShangwa1979
    @nelsShangwa1979 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you ladies for being genuine abt us Zimbabweans

  • @LionessUprising
    @LionessUprising ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hi, I am from Dominica 🇩🇲 in the Caribbean. I really enjoyed the conversation. Btw, what’s “lobola” (I know I spelt that wrong, forgive me). Also, it’s very comforting to know that majority of South Africans don’t feel the same about “foreigners”

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You spelt it correctly sis. Lobola is bride price or dowry. Thanks for watching ❤🙏🏾

  • @Faridbuza
    @Faridbuza ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The questions and answers are intelligent. Thank you for this beautiful video.
    We need more like this to bring people together ❤

  • @innovm_creative
    @innovm_creative 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Interesting conversation. I would like to mention something though for the benefit of other viewers. Zimbabwe has many different cultures, so there is no one culture that is ‘Zimbabwean’ culture. I am a Zimbabwean also but my culture is also different from Mbali’s husband’s culture when it comes to the way we do our lobola things.

  • @fungaimagumise4360
    @fungaimagumise4360 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ❤❤❤ our makothi....love from northampton, we need more bazukhulu ,let's get busy

  • @NokulilaNgcongolo
    @NokulilaNgcongolo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I love Mbali's humour 😂 "The step is the wedding"

  • @LifeWithNomsaDlasa
    @LifeWithNomsaDlasa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I’m enjoying this series, mbali 🥰
    Subscribed to her channel.

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you sis ❤ 🙏🏾

    • @godfreymutsonziwa2976
      @godfreymutsonziwa2976 ปีที่แล้ว

      We love you 💕 makoti well come to Zm ,is a beautiful country with loveble pple

  • @lovemoremoyo4333
    @lovemoremoyo4333 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yes muroora wedu, we like you so much.

  • @Jrryolb
    @Jrryolb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It's lack of exposure, worry, even nigeria itself, they got hundred ethnic groups, if move to another part of country, it like another country. If you come to London you will chock of your life, it so diverse, some area likely not see white face.
    You do not blame people, just started interact with other african, people react, as time goes
    use to them, the fear will goes as used and move in different directions.

  • @user-char
    @user-char ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Welcome to the lovely land of Zim

  • @Justgloryn
    @Justgloryn ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is soo beautiful I love this Chanel.The positivity is👌👌👌👌

  • @Itumeleng-p9b
    @Itumeleng-p9b ปีที่แล้ว +12

    There is no Zimbabwean culture there is Zimbabwean cultures hence we have 16 official Languages it’s actually a beautiful country multicultural rainbow country me myself am a Sotho woman( Babirwa) from Matebeleland side 😘Gwanda and grew up around Ndebele tribe aswell so you will find a lot of similarities if your married to Matebeleland side 💗

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Interesting, as Africans we're so much alike ❤

  • @thethemakhele8450
    @thethemakhele8450 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Your intro is lit!!! I feel sorry for the guy lol let watch now

  • @thethemakhele8450
    @thethemakhele8450 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am so glad my papers were correct when I started dating my husband

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank God 🙏🏾 people were gonna say you're using him for papers 😊

  • @maburwanemokoena7117
    @maburwanemokoena7117 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    To be honest I got no problem with people dating any tribe or race, what I hate the most is dragging men/women down of your tribe/race just because you dating outside of it.
    And lastly I hate those who drag those dating foreigners down, like why can't you understand that not all women/men are gonna be yours? Get your preference and save us the novels.

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Spot on 👌🏾 thank you for watching and sharing your input 🙏🏾

  • @craigkanyemba
    @craigkanyemba ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is interesting. What a Pick. I am a Zim guy...kinda get you

  • @masimbamurambiwa5099
    @masimbamurambiwa5099 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    We love you our South African daughter In-Law. Thank you for ever loving a 'poor' Zimbabwean.
    Once again...thank you

  • @thethemakhele8450
    @thethemakhele8450 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I like the Zim culture no surprises after marriage lol

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly...you know exactly what you're getting yourself into

  • @Sunshine_INFJ
    @Sunshine_INFJ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hesi muroora. Nice seeing you.

  • @owengumbas9268
    @owengumbas9268 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wish you well guys... Happy Marriage to you.

  • @slindsayharmon1086
    @slindsayharmon1086 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Not only me , we are all hardworking!

  • @simbamukandatsama6333
    @simbamukandatsama6333 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wow love this 🇿🇼🇿🇦🤘

  • @zee-pougebndouyebani9828
    @zee-pougebndouyebani9828 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Wal beautiful Makoti, welcome to Zim.
    You are appreciated
    Mind you, one of Zim's best Lawyers Beatrice Mtetwa is a MuSwati and became Zimbabwean by becoming a Makoti.

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow really?? This is interesting 🙏🏾

    • @town944folk
      @town944folk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She is a warrior in our country. I just went to listen to an interview of her and yes I can see the South African accent in her English but I think for us we have always been open so it's not a surprise that she has assimilate d very well in the upper echelons of Zimbabwean society. We do have Venda; Xhosa; Ndebele, Batonga and Shangaan tribal groups as well in Zimbabwe and they are also in SA I'm led to believe

    • @zee-pougebndouyebani9828
      @zee-pougebndouyebani9828 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@town944folk She isn't South African but from eSwatini.

    • @town944folk
      @town944folk 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@zee-pougebndouyebani9828 -Was that old school Swaziland then?

    • @town944folk
      @town944folk 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@zee-pougebndouyebani9828 -th-cam.com/video/s0mKndUkWik/w-d-xo.html
      Have a listen to this young lady from South Africa. Went to school in Zimbabwe managed to meet and interview Robert Mugabe before he died. Her Shona is better than mine. If she didn't say she was South African I wouldn't have known she was South African.

  • @siamahungulu6760
    @siamahungulu6760 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Enjoyed this episode❤️

  • @cresenciamuzenda8535
    @cresenciamuzenda8535 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Much love muroora ( makoti)

  • @Africana399
    @Africana399 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This days if a foreign national says he love you .He loves you

  • @dzunaniursulla7299
    @dzunaniursulla7299 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I always enjoy your videos ❤️❤️

  • @Greenboy5325
    @Greenboy5325 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The man murdered 7 people was a Mokoena guy from Limpopo.Him people are scared to do such things.only in SA

  • @lebogangmoeketsi1614
    @lebogangmoeketsi1614 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    South Africans are not xenophobic or afrophobic but they are only saying pan africanism can't be a burden of 1 nation /country.

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for your input

    • @AllHope23
      @AllHope23 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Lebo... How do you come to conclude that RSA is bearing the brunt of Pan-Africanism? Just curious

    • @lebogangmoeketsi1614
      @lebogangmoeketsi1614 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AllHope23 because most of African people from different African countries are here. Actually most African people from failed African countries are here even those who are not here want to be in SA and I asked myself who will change their political spectrum of their countries if running away to SA. To hell with borderless Africa or pan africanism that is selective to SA. SA need help too and SA is not a continent but a country that have many problems like any fucken Africa country. I respect Namibian and Swazi youths who are revolting against their corrupt governments unlike those are fighting for ZEP permits to be renewed and I respect the brave Zimbabweans who are in Zim standing up against zanupf not this cowards like you, who are marching in SA for their right but they can't do same against zanupf in Zim.

    • @Dr_Du-Little
      @Dr_Du-Little 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@AllHope23
      That's a good question

    • @Greenboy5325
      @Greenboy5325 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      If your country is hosting,live with it,coz no one knows tomorrow. Another 2 countries are being formed by God to host Africans soon,RSA will be releaved and l think a big change is coming.its when people will start reasoning straight, and see that you also need a hand from a neighbor 1day

  • @Justgloryn
    @Justgloryn ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I like the part where u have to go see where he is from before u marry him.

  • @paultshitshi3851
    @paultshitshi3851 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Am a foreign national I don't believe in xenophobia, everything starts from something there's always something that causes South Africans to act brutal, foreigners we must stop wrong doings that cause SAs to not want us close to them

    • @dudleymakeche7842
      @dudleymakeche7842 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Not all crime is committed by foreign nationals. Except crime committed by foreigners is more pronounced. Most crime is actually committed by South Africans themselves. Then there are politicians with no message who simply stoke fires of blaming foreigners for their failures.

  • @felixprincemare1536
    @felixprincemare1536 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    We love our makoti

  • @JudaMugomba
    @JudaMugomba 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Her name is Fadzai , shona name how does it come like that if she's not from Zimbabweans parents? They are all Zimbabweans

    • @Tracymafu
      @Tracymafu 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      What are you even trying to say

  • @samanthamapiye7682
    @samanthamapiye7682 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    We love you muroora

  • @CrescentiaKamwendo
    @CrescentiaKamwendo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Our daughter is married to a southafrican men.love u Makhoti

  • @GibsonJonesMakhoyo
    @GibsonJonesMakhoyo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Breath of fresh air.

  • @tafadzwakasere7742
    @tafadzwakasere7742 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your show and your teaching 😍🤩

  • @stanley1455
    @stanley1455 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love is a beautiful thing

  • @tafadzwakasere7742
    @tafadzwakasere7742 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Muroora wedu we love you so much 😍🤩

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Muroora is sister in law right?

    • @Namib-m5s
      @Namib-m5s 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah name comes from lobola or lobolo...kuroora/marrying...muroora/makhoti

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Namib-m5s beautiful...the shona language is so beautiful

    • @phineaschiramba7102
      @phineaschiramba7102 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes​@@SerameAndBeyond

    • @phineaschiramba7102
      @phineaschiramba7102 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@SerameAndBeyondyes

  • @Jrryolb
    @Jrryolb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I think South- african school syllabus is very narrow and the country isolated for so long, the people within the borders line are the-same ethnic group, they speak the-same local language, the border post they erected is artificial by the european, to serve their won benefit, not interest of local people. The local people within the border bring their products to the market within the border, the market has being their before the european came with their concept, the government turn blank eyes and look other direction.
    If some-one school in those area, what they teach, laid emphasise on their local need, than whole country, you see some people fluent in both English, French and their local languages, that is how it's through-out West-africa and other part of africa, if some-one move to the big city, you still have to come-back to your native environment, where you known better.
    Those who attack other people are illiterate and ignorant, they didn't known where they're belong too, short sighted, when I was in Lagos Nigeria, when you speak with your accent, they just mock and laugh, the-same in UK, when -ever Scottish or welsh speak, the english mock them and laugh. They don't kill people mainly because they're different.
    The Northern Nigeria, look different from people from south, physical look like arab than black african, you don't need to attack other when you see them in your state.

    • @siphokolanisi6186
      @siphokolanisi6186 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      As if Nigerians don't attack each others. Before blaming South Africans please explain what's going on between Igbos n d Fulani in Nigeria

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for your input Jerry. One Love One Africa

    • @davidmatsatsa4536
      @davidmatsatsa4536 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you girls for your Health sober balanced discussions. keep it up

    • @nomagcisacawe3297
      @nomagcisacawe3297 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@siphokolanisi6186 All the former British colonies do not have their own system of education. After decades of independence they still use the British colonial system which is totally irrelevant to their countries. At least the product of Bantu education is functioning well in RSA. They're all over the place bcos they refuse to admit that they're being fed colonial rubbish. I'm a product of that colonial education. I was shocked when I returned home @ the level of discussion by the product of Bantu education. It was relevant & very superior to whatbI was accustomed to. Girls in the Eastern Cape discussed real South African issues! This nigerian is delusional. South Africans have never sought greener pastures in nigeria. That should tell him something about RSA education. Nigerians are idiotic cheap boasters! Nigerians change your system of education to suit the needs of primitive nigeria. That way you won't be the scum that's despised the world over!!
      The less said about the "educated" Zimbabwe rapists the better.

  • @jerryjerry7681
    @jerryjerry7681 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hie Molamo l am Jerry from Zimbabwe Mutare l also married her in Tzaneen Sekororo

  • @MikeZhou-dx2mz
    @MikeZhou-dx2mz ปีที่แล้ว

    We love you 💜 Makoti Mbali

  • @RetiChinembiri
    @RetiChinembiri หลายเดือนก่อน

    Mbali Makoti we love you

  • @TheMukanya
    @TheMukanya 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Lovely content...❤

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much for watching 🙏🏾

  • @phephisilemano8951
    @phephisilemano8951 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Makoti love you lots

  • @theamanas
    @theamanas 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Notification gang 💃🏻

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Whoooop whooop 💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿

  • @skvtemafiaachefbabybob9516
    @skvtemafiaachefbabybob9516 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey Mbali👑💯

  • @christobelthipe6957
    @christobelthipe6957 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I really think you are misplacing the word xenophobia. You really need to do more research to understand what is going on. You cannot throw a word without understanding what you are saying. First you need to understand the issues in South Africa. I wonder what was the reason of not moving to your husband s home. South African have huge issues from poverty; you name it. So the issues are around people not having enough basic needs. That cause a lot of issues. But learn to do research on your subjects to understand why people feel the way they do.

  • @nyaradzogotora5391
    @nyaradzogotora5391 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mbali you forgot 1 thing, that Zim man take good care of their wives and kids

  • @tsitsidzumbunu7968
    @tsitsidzumbunu7968 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love u makoti❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @Justgloryn
    @Justgloryn ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loved this episode let m s ub

  • @slindsayharmon1086
    @slindsayharmon1086 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Please don’t just say Zimbabweans coz we like SA have many tribes! I guess you are referring to Shona culture when you say Zimbabwean? We have Zulu/Ndebele,Khalanga , Xhosa, Shangani , Venda , Tonga too believe it or not!

  • @imzambazone4167
    @imzambazone4167 ปีที่แล้ว

    we love you Mbali enhle our wife

  • @shomwe1
    @shomwe1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love Mbali

  • @davidmotlaloe5628
    @davidmotlaloe5628 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Are there any South African men married to other African countries? Find only one and interview him please. I personally don’t know any South African man who ever married woman from African country

    • @Sterfillah
      @Sterfillah 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      There is an episode done by this lady already on a Zulu man marrying a Congolese woman.

    • @zee-pougebndouyebani9828
      @zee-pougebndouyebani9828 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I know lots of SA men married to Zim ladies.

    • @molobemarriammalatji3339
      @molobemarriammalatji3339 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sister where are u come from

  • @MYFATHEREMMANUEL
    @MYFATHEREMMANUEL ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Which borders...? You are only one people. 🤔

  • @charlesonline_
    @charlesonline_ 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Chitsika means footprint🦶

  • @thembimaseko4756
    @thembimaseko4756 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your program but not one of our daughters married to foreigners who got married and went to stay in their countries of origin.Hope we will see that in the future.

    • @town944folk
      @town944folk 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I grew up with this in Zimbabwe in the 90s. One of my mom's best friends was a Zambian lady married to a Nigerian man. My mom was in a relationship with a Mr Malope from Durban. I went to school with Ghanians, South African in High School (Monde Muthimkhulu); from the same high school a Mozambican and Botswana guy who both spoke Ndebele. There's a South African lady who stays in the UK where I'm at. Her husband (also a Pastor) is Malawian and she is South African. They are both fluent in Shona but I was shocked to find that the lady and her younger sister were actually South African such is their immersion in Zimbabwean culture and language (They speak Shona and Ndebele). I saw this diversity more in private schools and the suburbs as traditionally well to do Africans have always sent their children to private schools in Zimbabwe. So I have seen examples not many but enough to know that these unions are not a new phenomenon

  • @lovemorebande2331
    @lovemorebande2331 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lovely

  • @MzeewaUjiji
    @MzeewaUjiji 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am from Zambia, and I do not feel sorry for Zimbabweans at all. We in Zambia sacrificed everything to free those people. Both ZANU and ZAPU were based in Lusaka after they were kicked out Zim by Ian Smith. When Mugabe came out of jail, he was sent to Zambia. When Zimbabwe became free, the Shona majority treated Zambian badly. So now that they are getting their heads handed to them, I could not care less. When we Zambia was paying the price for supporting all the liberation movements in Southern Africa, they came into their independence being coddled by the English, if for no other reason than to discourage them from recovering their land from the white people. Now the tables have turned, and the sanctions have crushed their little economy, they have flooded South Africa where they getting their karma...I cannot forget the day, about 10 years ago, when there was that eruption of violence against Zimbabweans in South Africa, and graduate student here in the US, from Zimbabwe, told me that all of us in Southern Africa must try and retaliate against South Africa. I asked what this had to do with Zambia...

  • @daughterofzion7634
    @daughterofzion7634 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Muroora wedu Mbali Chitsika vatete pano.

  • @UccyNyabunze
    @UccyNyabunze ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Muroora wedu iyeye

  • @ThomasThomas-do7ql
    @ThomasThomas-do7ql ปีที่แล้ว

    Love you mbali

  • @babava2263
    @babava2263 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Muroora wedu tinokuda.

  • @samaitambizi9404
    @samaitambizi9404 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I need to get me a South African wifey 🤗

  • @thethemakhele8450
    @thethemakhele8450 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    brother Josh lol

  • @maynardkunaka6471
    @maynardkunaka6471 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤ so can you speak one of our native languages

  • @tamuka6556
    @tamuka6556 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

  • @mosesmuriri594
    @mosesmuriri594 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥👍

  • @mariamaria3272
    @mariamaria3272 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Makoti wedu

  • @themovementtv3902
    @themovementtv3902 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    About foreign nationals ,,love discovers that ladies they don't worry about that topic but guys have all the gate especially the lazy ones

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for watching and sharing your view 🙏🏾

  • @maynardkunaka6471
    @maynardkunaka6471 ปีที่แล้ว

    What's your totem makoti

  • @AllHope23
    @AllHope23 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    'small house' = makwapeni

  • @rapulemathibr3221
    @rapulemathibr3221 ปีที่แล้ว

    How about after marrying this foreigners you go stay with them from their countries of origin just curious 🤔

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How about that be our choice?

    • @rapulemathibr3221
      @rapulemathibr3221 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@SerameAndBeyond traditionally a woman moves to her husband's place not the Ada way around

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I live in my husbands house.

  • @LogicMzee-gn3ys
    @LogicMzee-gn3ys 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    We were supposed to be mixed being one but now we seem to be different because of the steel wires we were caged in like chicken by white colonialists. We're deep littered while they're in free range imagine

  • @thulanigumede9095
    @thulanigumede9095 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I never heard of South African man married a foreign woman

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Watch my other episodes to see

    • @deliwegrace7097
      @deliwegrace7097 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      No no no they are ,,but you know why ? to get a citizenship thats all , after that they divorce n then the guy bring the whole family in south africa , please south african women wake up.

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@deliwegrace7097 what are the benefits of South African citizenship for a foreign national?

    • @Greenboy5325
      @Greenboy5325 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      There a so many around where I'M staying.My Local friends are south Africans ,they married Ndebeles from Gwanda ,Silobela,and Mashonaland.no problem with them.as l speak ,they in a journey going to Zim

    • @tinotendanarota9603
      @tinotendanarota9603 ปีที่แล้ว

      my sister is married to a South African