To the guy who called about his wife wanting to fuck other women. I was in a very similar situation myself. We were together from almost the start of college, and it lasted for 11 years. Relationship started out normal, we were both just interested in each other. After a few years, she wanted to start experimenting with other women. It's not going to stop there. It's going to be turn into wanting to fuck other guys. Pretty much everything Stavros and Santino said was on point though. There's no saying no to what she wants. You can shoot it down for a while as I did, but the frustrations start affecting other aspects of the relationship. This is going to happen whether you want it to or not. And if you agree to it, it shouldn't be based on what gender the other people she's fucking are. Having kids together is another complicating factor. We didn't have kids so I can't speak from experience, but just do the math. There are going to be situations where she wants to go out to hook up with someone else, and SOMEONE will have to watch the kids. How is that going to make you feel? Maybe I'm just immature and insecure, but it'd make me feel emasculated. One practical piece of advice I'll try to give is, "rules" are going to come up inevitably when discussing this. The rules are either going to be from her, in an effort to appease you, or from you, in an effort to feel like you have some control of the situation. I encourage you to sit down with her and really think through the failure case of the rules. For example, "we have a rule about always telling me about who you're seeing, what happens if you end up not telling me about someone and I find out about it?". Explore that, lay out the options (eg, forgiveness x times, divorce, etc, w/e). If it was up to me, and this is extremely hard because you do actually love her (and she probably actually loves you too), talk to a divorce lawyer starting now and explain that your wife has expressed interest in opening up the relationship, and get their advice. I'm not saying get divorced, but ask the lawyer everything you should do in order to make a potential divorce go as smoothly as possible for you. Good luck!
This should be the top comment. My hats off to you, sorry that the circumstances are this dire but it’s nice to see you looking out for your fellow human.
If you're with someone that wants to be with someone else then you shouldn't be with that person hands down. I don't care what you believe in, you're lying to yourself. There is no healthy way to fuck multiple people in a relationship. And there is no excuse or explanation for it, you're just a bad person.
1. He can fuck whoever he wants in this situation, because she can't have the relationship just open for her and not him. 2. If he can get rid of that possessiveness or get rid of the notion that his wife truly belongs to him, then he'll be good. It's all ego. Sharing doesn't change the love you have for a person. Either you love them or don't. Adding people is irrelevant because those relationships don't need to be compared just like with friendships.
@@edencantu6599 know one of these isn’t the technically a stand up but Anthony Cumia and Jim Norton are a fantastic duo, Kevin Ryan and H. Foley, Tim Butterly and Mike Rainey, Tom Segura and Bert Kreischer, Ian Fidance and Jordan Jensen, and I can’t think of anymore right now but there are a lot! 😄
This was one of the funniest episodes. I love Stavvy and Santino individually, they're 2 of my favorite comedians, but together they were hysterical. And it was funny they brought up Seinfeld, because when they were talking about the barber it made me think of a Seinfeld episode about the same thing.
You can tell Stavros loves when he does pod casting with Andrew Santino there few times he gets stav speechless and you can tell stav is like did this guy really say that out loud hahahahaha
Can't tell if they're green screened over Greece or if Greece is green screened behind them. Feel like it's early television and only stavy could make this work lol
I wish I could have half the confidence Stavvy has about the state of his body. Not pride, but owning it. That sincerity makes his comedy that much funnier honestly.
Every call was hilarious… but the advice and ensuing comedy for the Yonkers assistant pizza manager was oddly wholesome and also hilarious Huge W Loved this episode
I can't remember where I heard it but in the 70s and 80s in order to use production budget on blow and other drugs under 'expenses' from the record label, "fade out expert" was usually a credit on albums and EPs to give an excuse on bills etc lol.... so well done Eldis... following a golden tradition of epic fade out guys. ❤🎉
42:29 Stav is literally explaining what my life would be like if i got lucky and won the lottery, exotic cars, fancy nightclubs, wearing Gucci or LV imo that’s all a waste at least to me (to each his own obviously) but i just wanna be so fucking wealthy where i don’t have to wake up to go to work, eating, lifting weights, and just doing casual everyday shit is my dream, i feel Stav 💯% on that.
Eldis NO ONE will ever fade out the intro music quite like you. You're a champion don't forget it. 🇦🇱
💯💯💯
Does anyone know the name of the theme song? Lol
😅😅😅
Signature fade
@@FallbackNkillEmpl
Stav’s raw mass distorting the green screen is the visual equivalent of a dickpill migraine
😭
Lmfao omg
Holy shit 😂😂😂😂
Bro wtf 😂😂😂
😆😆😆👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🔥🔥🔥
I love Andrew & Stavvy’s friendship. I kinda wish this was taped after their FULLY LOADED weekend.
I loved the “you would dominate college softball” Stavy: “nah Bad shoulder”😂😂😂
Santino is a perfect guest on anything
Nice guy all around
Seriously. He’s funny as fuck and sharp
@@budscaglini gr8 guy never meddum
@@BlekJamalhaha bro what’s that from?
@@oWATCHYOURSIXXits a quote from the king of comedy
The bit about the weight loss suicide joke and the 250 lb rope is probably one of my favorite bits I've heard on a podcast in years😂😂👏👏👏👏
Dude i was in tears at work. 😂
I'm non-stop listening to comedy podcast and I rarely laugh out loud but that shit had me rolling
Proudly asking for a 250 lb instead of 300 was hilarious 😂😂😂
1:14:57
@@CatNerfer3000 Thanks for the time stamp 👍 I thought about doing it myself but it turns out I'm too lazy 🤷
As a 285 lbg guy, that 250 lbs rope joke hit home. 😂 you guys have great chemistry.
Santino being ginger combined with a green screen basically makes him look like he's not quite ripe yet
Lmaooo
Good to see Stavy in Hollywood moving forward with the pilot for the Ron Jeremy docuseries for Hulu.
Awesome news congratulations🖤🌞
Lool yes
No hes carl from aquateen hunger force
@@joseureste8257 Both
@@joseureste8257 word but he’s too tan to be Carl unless it’s that episode where he turns into a. Clown pulling chicks
This has public broadcasting vibes and I’m here for it.
So happy to have this episode. 2 of my favorite comedians
Stavvy and tito Andrew is always a good time.
Hes andrew. Tito is asian dude😂😂😂😂
@@Smilebefinetito means uncle… lmao.
@@Smilebefineoof
@@audi4161 tio is Spanish. Tito is Filipino.
@@audi4161it’s from Jules who is on bad friends, she’s Filipino I think it’s a Filipino way of saying uncle
To the guy who called about his wife wanting to fuck other women.
I was in a very similar situation myself. We were together from almost the start of college, and it lasted for 11 years. Relationship started out normal, we were both just interested in each other. After a few years, she wanted to start experimenting with other women. It's not going to stop there. It's going to be turn into wanting to fuck other guys.
Pretty much everything Stavros and Santino said was on point though. There's no saying no to what she wants. You can shoot it down for a while as I did, but the frustrations start affecting other aspects of the relationship. This is going to happen whether you want it to or not. And if you agree to it, it shouldn't be based on what gender the other people she's fucking are.
Having kids together is another complicating factor. We didn't have kids so I can't speak from experience, but just do the math. There are going to be situations where she wants to go out to hook up with someone else, and SOMEONE will have to watch the kids. How is that going to make you feel? Maybe I'm just immature and insecure, but it'd make me feel emasculated.
One practical piece of advice I'll try to give is, "rules" are going to come up inevitably when discussing this. The rules are either going to be from her, in an effort to appease you, or from you, in an effort to feel like you have some control of the situation. I encourage you to sit down with her and really think through the failure case of the rules. For example, "we have a rule about always telling me about who you're seeing, what happens if you end up not telling me about someone and I find out about it?". Explore that, lay out the options (eg, forgiveness x times, divorce, etc, w/e).
If it was up to me, and this is extremely hard because you do actually love her (and she probably actually loves you too), talk to a divorce lawyer starting now and explain that your wife has expressed interest in opening up the relationship, and get their advice. I'm not saying get divorced, but ask the lawyer everything you should do in order to make a potential divorce go as smoothly as possible for you.
Good luck!
This should be the top comment. My hats off to you, sorry that the circumstances are this dire but it’s nice to see you looking out for your fellow human.
I pray homie who called in reads this. Hope this gets pushed to the top.
If you're with someone that wants to be with someone else then you shouldn't be with that person hands down. I don't care what you believe in, you're lying to yourself. There is no healthy way to fuck multiple people in a relationship. And there is no excuse or explanation for it, you're just a bad person.
1. He can fuck whoever he wants in this situation, because she can't have the relationship just open for her and not him.
2. If he can get rid of that possessiveness or get rid of the notion that his wife truly belongs to him, then he'll be good.
It's all ego. Sharing doesn't change the love you have for a person. Either you love them or don't. Adding people is irrelevant because those relationships don't need to be compared just like with friendships.
Very reasonable and wise take
The Round Roast Beef + The Red Rocket...ugh hell yes!!
so many comedians make amazing duos and this is one of them
There's BigJay and Soder. Mullen and Friedland. Who else ?
@@edencantu6599 know one of these isn’t the technically a stand up but Anthony Cumia and Jim Norton are a fantastic duo, Kevin Ryan and H. Foley, Tim Butterly and Mike Rainey, Tom Segura and Bert Kreischer, Ian Fidance and Jordan Jensen, and I can’t think of anymore right now but there are a lot! 😄
Desus and Mero were really good. The brand is strong.
Matt and Shane in their prime were hilarious. Billy and Spud still rule.
@@dannydropshot9588 Santino himself and Bobby Lee
These two are hilarious together
They both individually can be comfortable in pretty much any situation
didn't laugh once
@@glorioustrump245I hope you really didn’t laugh and watched the whole thing because that makes me laugh lol
@@dannydropshot9588 that was about as funny as this podcast
@@glorioustrump245 it wasn’t supposed to be..
This was one of the funniest episodes. I love Stavvy and Santino individually, they're 2 of my favorite comedians, but together they were hysterical. And it was funny they brought up Seinfeld, because when they were talking about the barber it made me think of a Seinfeld episode about the same thing.
Needed these two today. Thank you, gentlemen.
That barber call was great. I like when they pitched the home visit and unironically reinvented one of my favorite Seinfeld episodes
I immediately thought of Seinfeld
So good
I could watch hours and HOURS of Stavvy and Santino taking phone calls.
Haven't even watched yet bu I think this is about ti be the BEST episode ever! Love both these guys
My favorite episode. Felt like an actual comedy special. So many great bits!
100% sure this one will be a banger
Just finished Bad Friends today and I see this??? Nice.
Perfect timing
Seinfeld vibes from that first call and advice. The jealousy, the home calls lol
"Jerry Cheats On His Barber" is the title of the clip
At work and was looking for another podcast, thinking I probably already caught up on all my usuals. Then I saw this and got a sick dopamine rush. 🤙
Same!
Seeing santino as a guest on a good podcast is dopamine hit every time
came here after watching latest bad friends episode, content is real!
Imagine being the jabroni that shows up in a Liquid Death shirt
Joe List would like a word with you...
@@juwannablomie He's going to Hulk into Joe Pissed
All the homies with comic book graphic tees and wolves howling at moon would laugh the guy right out of the video game themed bar
@@Shiftarus
"What sound does a wolf make?"
"Wolves"
Santino has to be one of the most likable people in the biz
HOUSE MUSIC IS HERE TO STAY BABY 🎉
You can tell Stavros loves when he does pod casting with Andrew Santino there few times he gets stav speechless and you can tell stav is like did this guy really say that out loud hahahahaha
Couldn’t be happier about this ep.
That whole barber thing is also a seinfeld ep. So good
I want Andrew on the show all the tome
Can't tell if they're green screened over Greece or if Greece is green screened behind them. Feel like it's early television and only stavy could make this work lol
Santinos backdrop is way better than Stavvy’s side
They are both WONKY 😂 I liked the painting.
They actually went to Greece.
What's the difference?
Same result.
The Irish/Italian riff about Santino was sensational 😂
Finished new Bad Friends and onto our fat friend, what a good day.
Obese*
@@AJohnSmith*morbidly obese
The "Beautiful Green Screen" haha priceless
I love this 90s public access feel, green screen work is top notch👌👌💯💯
The OZEMPIC is looking great on you Stav!
Up the dosage
Hell yea Cheeto Santino!
I BEEN WAITING FOR THIS ONE 😈😈😈
Crazy how i only heard of santino from bobby and thought id never like the guy. Dude is in my *personal* top 10 comedians of all time now.
Look up Andrew Santino with Chris DeStefano..... they legit push each other to the max non stop beyond funny when those two are together
Im the opposite. I love Santino on Bad Friends but don't on every other podcast. I get a smug know it all vibe from him
@@nq6508 That's just him busting peoples balls.
He’s amazing on podcast but his standup is surprisingly shit.
Laugh of Love with Stavvy. Takes place on a yacht off the Greek coast.
These two are amazing together
Nice Public Access Cable vibe this episode
glad to see the abrasive greek music back blasting at the start, the mutiny is officially over boys
Love the public access aesthetic
Two of the best hearts in comedy 🇻🇮 🎉 Virgin Islands checking in
I'm from the sex haver islands
@@briancrosby160 i drive a different rich guys boat ;)
something tells me staavys heart isn’t the best
We believe in ur journey stavv, don’t give up on your health
Andrew Santino is prob the top guy out there for sure
Range of talent alone
So happy to see stavvy sellout, he really needed it
He needs to support his obesity addiction.
@@AJohnSmith The obesity is just a symptom of his cock addiction. I know this, for I too am gay
L
You both killed it at the Gorge this past weekend! Come back next year. Try not to kill anyone next time Stavvy
It was seizure. Stavvy just made it happen. LoL
Somebody died?
@@LetsBeHonestImAPrat no, someone just had a seizure, and they had to stop the show for a little bit.
Na just needed some medical help. Then the show continued.
The green screen is so bad it’s beautiful
Can’t wait to see clips of this pod on TikTok for the next month
This episode was hilarious!😂 A big fan of BOTH! 💙✌️
I've been following stavvys work advice for years!
Funny they mentioned Seinfeld but not during the barber 💈 question…there’s a whole episode (“The Barber”) dedicated to that exact same dilemma 😂
the background & video quality gives Miami Vice, vibes....if podcasts started in the late 80's
Stav and Drew are actually so fun together 😂
something bout this video makes my skin crawl. Love your content Stavvy. Top notch.
I wish I could have half the confidence Stavvy has about the state of his body. Not pride, but owning it.
That sincerity makes his comedy that much funnier honestly.
The barber riff and 250 pound rope Jared subway riff is funny af!!!
Every call was hilarious… but the advice and ensuing comedy for the Yonkers assistant pizza manager was oddly wholesome and also hilarious
Huge W
Loved this episode
Stav, Santino, Theo, Morrill, and Normand are prob my top 5 right now
God I love when my podcast worlds collide!!
Can’t wait for bobby to get on here lol
I found out about Stavvy from the bad friends podcast
Stav be on that Bilbo Baggins diet.
snapped with the green screen jank
The casino analogy was broken down so perfectly it’s very impressive 😂
The unaliving bit was fantastic 😂
Hell yeah Bad Friends forever 💀
Facts.... Eva Amurri is absolutely stacked.
As a cancer survivor , Stavvy is right on the money with the advice on the last call. As above, so below brothers
Your comment reads more like you're a cancer victim. ☠️
Chimp dick ripping
We need the Santino deep dive!
This is great! one of your best my man!...hey thanks for coming to Michigan-
IT'S REEEEEEED ROCKET!!!!!!
I had to say this man, that theme song kicks ass.
I normally listen to the podcast and it's so funny this is the one I decide to watch lmao
The green screen makes it look like flies are swarming them 😂😂😂
The Sicilian/Irish riff @36:30 😂😂
Stav laugh is straight Henry Hill from Goodfellas
It’s painful.
looks so much better with the shitty cameras ! please keep it like this
as someone who is half Irish half Sicilian, this ep really made me feel seen lmao thx Cheeto
Tito Cheeto????? OPAH!!!!
Great pod! Now we need the one on as well! It'll be the most viewed episode for sure
The new green screen is a g I d addition. It distracts me from, God bless him, Stavvy's laugh.
the terrible green screen is so good lmao
Let’s gooooooo Tino!!
How is stavvy casting two separate shadows?
Multiple lights, studio lighting.
He is obese.
gravitational lensing
He'd play a good carl in a live action aqua teen 🤣
Now this is a guest i want to see!
Before I clicked, I said out loud, "Oh my god."
This works better on 144p. Trust me. Looks like some access cable tv lol. Great ep though
Was going to comment I was glad my local access channel booked these guys haha
Duuude turning it down to 144p did this perfect!!!😂🙏
I am so happy that I could see this before TH-cam removes it for the 250lbs rope bit lmao
I can't remember where I heard it but in the 70s and 80s in order to use production budget on blow and other drugs under 'expenses' from the record label, "fade out expert" was usually a credit on albums and EPs to give an excuse on bills etc lol.... so well done Eldis... following a golden tradition of epic fade out guys. ❤🎉
Solid intro my boy
I love that this episode has the inappropriate disclaimer
42:29
Stav is literally explaining what my life would be like if i got lucky and won the lottery, exotic cars, fancy nightclubs, wearing Gucci or LV imo that’s all a waste at least to me (to each his own obviously) but i just wanna be so fucking wealthy where i don’t have to wake up to go to work, eating, lifting weights, and just doing casual everyday shit is my dream, i feel Stav 💯% on that.