Two Languages, Two Personalities? | Mariam Abeje | TEDxAustinCollege

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  • Mariam Abeje grew up immersed in two languages and cultures, living in the United States and Ethiopia and speaking both English and Amharic. She has observed that as she uses both languages, it is not just the way she speaks that changes, but that her whole personality feels different. What’s more, from talking to family and friends, she has learned that the same experience might be common to others who are bilingual. Mariam will share her own story and insights she has gained from her cultural confluence. Mariam Abeje is an Austin College senior from Murphy, Texas. She is majoring in Healthcare Administration with a minor in Chemistry, and will pursue a career in medicine. Beyond Austin College, Mariam works with MarNat: One Child at a Time, an organization she and her family founded to provide school uniforms, shoes, backpacks, and school supplies for underprivileged children in Ethiopia. She is passionate about helping underserved communities and bringing opportunities to people who can help make a difference in those communities. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  • @achugirma6535
    @achugirma6535 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    My lovely daughter Mamaye I am so blessed to have you as a daughter, continue to shine like a stay and been who you are humble, loving, amazing human beings! Love you 😍

    • @SoTired-Of-BS
      @SoTired-Of-BS 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Congratulations to you for raising such a bright young lady. She is so young but very wise and aware of life. I love Ethiopians who make sure their children are always in touch with their heritage and at the same time respect and love other cultures. እኩዋን ደስ አለሽ!!👏👏

    • @achugirma6535
      @achugirma6535 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@SoTired-Of-BS thank you so much🙏🏾 all the glory to my lord! I humbly appreciate your comment

  • @natnaelabeje9043
    @natnaelabeje9043 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    What a talk! This goes to show how it is to be the younger brother of an overachiever like Mariam. She has always exceeded any boundary set for her and continues to amaze me. Although it may be hard to even come close to shining like her, she has done nothing but be my biggest motivator. Shoutout soon to be Dr. Abeje!

    • @emmag639
      @emmag639 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That is so beautiful 🥹 What a wonderful brother you are

  • @ethioyouthmediatv
    @ethioyouthmediatv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Mariam, we are proud of you for representing different diaspora communities who are in similar situation. I know growing up in two different environments or culture has its own benefits and challenges, especially for our kids. But we all have to be critical messaging that may make you feel like a misfit, because you are different. Always, we have to find points of pride in our heritage and identity. Achamelesh, and Abeje, thank you for allowing Mariam share the story. Mariam, thank you for representing all of us and be a voice for so many.

  • @tdw9029
    @tdw9029 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    So, so proud of you Mariamye! I am speechless. You spoke for all Ethiopian diaspora when you spoke of Achu's struggle it made me tear up. Keep on shining my niece!

  • @katalyst-4472
    @katalyst-4472 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    So young but full of wisdom, class and confidence!! Great job Mariam

  • @insideouttransformationgro3497
    @insideouttransformationgro3497 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This young lady has a smart brain but most importantly a very tender heart for others. I am beyond proud of her hard word and dedication and the awareness this speech brings to many. Born to lead -keep shining champ.

  • @eliastadesse8873
    @eliastadesse8873 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The first time i met Mariam Abeje was when she was a fifth grade student. She was shy, intelligent, and very responsible student in the class. It was just a pleasure to have her in class.
    Then i wouldn't take that much time to know her mother, Achamyelesh, we call her Achu, because she used to be around her children whether they are in the school or away from their school for educational or other activities. Actually no teachers can forget Achu's Christmas present too😃. Her mother, Achu, is simply a munificent woman, or a local philanthropist that entertains life by succouring the have-nots.
    By observing Mariam's character in class, one can simply tell the type of family she came from. My relationship with Mariam didn't stop as a science teacher at GCS, i had been her home tutor too till she left Ethiopia. That gave me an immense opportunity to know her big family that most of us wish to have. Her speech, here, is also telling how much she attached with her family. Once you know the family's values and norms , Mariam wouldn't be a surprise for anyone. Grew up in Sunday school, raised in benevolence and philanthropy, Mariam wouldn't be different from who she is now. Having that curiosity of knowledge and self discipline, it will not be a surprise to see Mariam at the highest rung of academic ladder in the near future.
    I certain you will come back Ethiopia to support your people again in everything you can after accomplishing your studies in U.S.
    MarNat ፕሮጀክትም እንደሚቀጥል ተስፋ አለኝ። Nati, yours is also coming soon. Ready!

    • @natnaelabeje9043
      @natnaelabeje9043 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Mr. Elias. My favorite teacher to this day! Hope to see you soon😀😀

  • @allansillovlogs
    @allansillovlogs 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Woooow’ this is how I’ve been feeling lately! What a great talk!

  • @marthaassefa3196
    @marthaassefa3196 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My beautiful Mariameyee, how fast you grew and how smartly, beautiful and eloquently explain to the world, the elephant in the room!!! If we can learn to say their names, respectively, why shouldn’t they? Thank you so much for been the many Ethiopian voices

  • @aaronmag.lifestyle2002
    @aaronmag.lifestyle2002 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My cousin is shining. So educated and of quick wit!!

  • @mekdesgebrewold2687
    @mekdesgebrewold2687 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mariam,
    You nailed it girl. Very interesting point. You let me see myself and it is amazing how we feel and act when we speak those languages. I’m proud of you 👏

  • @tazebachewbekele428
    @tazebachewbekele428 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good Job Mariam. I also noticed lately that I have different personalities when I speak Amharic, English and Italian.

  • @derestesfaye9240
    @derestesfaye9240 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mariam, you too are one of a kind.

  • @mimisexperiencestravels2510
    @mimisexperiencestravels2510 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mariamyea, so brilliant and beautiful. Your assessment is absolutely true, as a trilingual myself you made me realize the connection between the language the culture it derives from and my associated different personalities. Great observation!

  • @meridworkagegnhu6912
    @meridworkagegnhu6912 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is very good talk It teaches and helps about speaking good in different languages you are very special person and we are proud of you

  • @sev7634
    @sev7634 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great job girl! 👏👏👏

  • @misgew2715
    @misgew2715 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you..እናመሰግናለን

  • @hiwotmekuria8193
    @hiwotmekuria8193 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mamaye am so proud of you pretty lady. God bless you and love you loads

  • @blackmanifesters
    @blackmanifesters 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    A very insightful prospective!
    You have articulated your self eloquently, and delivered your thoughts confidently in a perfect pace.. we need this talent in politics, I see Congresswoman or Madam President maybe?

  • @martagetachewhabetselasse7442
    @martagetachewhabetselasse7442 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    ጌታ ኢየሱስ ይባርሽ ያሳድግሽ ብሩክ ሁኚ!!

  • @alunchurcher7060
    @alunchurcher7060 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When training as a psychologist there was a patient who had split personality syndrome but it was very odd as his natural language was poor English, but his other personality was German speaking and to a high level. At school he was learning French but no German he dropped French as he was so bad at other languages according to the school and his parents. I've yet to meet another person with a split personality, whose other personality spoke a foreign language.

  • @eroane
    @eroane ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤ Thank you for this video❤❤❤❤❤ I am now bilingual in English and self taught myself Japanese at the age of 17… I can totally relate too being born from a German mother and American father…I was born a tiny infant and was adopted into an American family and was raised mostly speaking English (which to this day I hate speaking it…) I was diagnosed with Autism at the age of 17…American English always racks my brain and am forced to speak it all the day…everyday…I have been bilingual since I self taught myself Japanese and am now wanting to learn Korean and Spanish❤❤❤❤❤❤ I am quiet and shy in English yet am excited and hyper while speaking Japanese❤❤❤❤ I am a linguistic geeky gal!!❤❤❤

  • @juniorobou650
    @juniorobou650 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Good

  • @johnny-vb2hd
    @johnny-vb2hd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    በጣም ጎበዝ ልጅ ነሽ። በርቺ! እግዚአብሔር ካንቺ ጋር ይሁን።

  • @williamwoolf8072
    @williamwoolf8072 หลายเดือนก่อน

    same.never developed the confidence to speak mandarin in a abusive household but has a lot of confidence with english

  • @nickestes2746
    @nickestes2746 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Beast mode

  • @etk153
    @etk153 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mariam! የአቻም የለሽ ልጅ!🙏👑

  • @bjyenesew5710
    @bjyenesew5710 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am proud of you even though you mentioned my name one time and mentioned your Mom several times actually you made a story about her, You are a true leader ,inspiring , the positive energy coming out of your speech is powerful and it shows us all our dreams come true if we have the courage to pursue them.

    • @SoTired-Of-BS
      @SoTired-Of-BS 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😀😀 congratulations assuming this is Abeje, her dad. Congratulations dad for raising such a beautiful spirited wise young lady. She represented many Ethiopians who struggle because of language barrier. እንኩዋን ደስ ያለህ!!

    • @natnaelabeje9043
      @natnaelabeje9043 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes she is😎

    • @bjyenesew5710
      @bjyenesew5710 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SoTired-Of-BS Thank you for your comment ,Her mother did most of the work and I was happy to help.

    • @elenigebremariam5200
      @elenigebremariam5200 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ere BJ 😂

    • @user-df4dm6df2c
      @user-df4dm6df2c 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ሥዲ

  • @robelseife1156
    @robelseife1156 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @amenamen5204
    @amenamen5204 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    💞🔥👏

  • @natnaelabeje9043
    @natnaelabeje9043 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Walking W

  • @king-yq5xj
    @king-yq5xj ปีที่แล้ว

    Please, listen us kind of speech or presentation.

  • @asmeproduction8718
    @asmeproduction8718 ปีที่แล้ว

    Andegna nesh