I have been alone since 2014. I had A LOT of healing to do, from past relationships and trauma. I had to learn to understand what “loving myself” meant and had to get comfortable with God leading me down that path. I am so grateful for the time I have had and am still healing daily. I am now 60. I am open to what God has for me and am comfortable in my own skin now. No matter what happens, I am in a win win situation. I have God by my side no matter what. I am totally open to having the first healthy, loving relationship in my life…. real love. Like I said, I am grateful most of all for the healing that very much needed to happen.
I turn 64 this coming December. I've been on my own since 2019. I couldn't imagine having to shelter in place, with the person, I was with for nearly 15 yrs. He tried to get back with me, but it was a no go. I am free, nothing's bothering me.❤
Listen a woman that looks good, is good, feels good, and is doing good, ALWAYS got options. I don’t care what age she is there always a man looking for a good woman. All you have to do is sit back and decipher when they come around. I learned that from observing my mom.
It's better be single and happy alone. Then to be miserable with a man. You can live alone but not be lonely. I find many things to occupy my time. Good morning Miss Faye blessings 🙏🌹🌹
Its so peaceful living by myself..I'm a woman..women don't have to be alone..we can have company when we want it and then they leave...saves alot of bullshit.
Some men try to shame & judge me for never having been married, as if it’s some badge of honor, despite the high rates of divorce & misery. I had to put one in his place yesterday for that. Another one who I dated 15+ years ago insulted me via text because I’m not interested in seeing him nor getting back in the sac with him ever again. They can’t handle rejection & the fact that I’m perfectly happy being single & sex-free for over 5 years. I finally love & respect myself & will never settle for low vibrational using, manipulative, unfulfilling, empty nonsense ever again. And now their mad. 🤷🏽♀️
Miss Faye, I have been alone for over fifty or more years. I have family, friends and people I barely, know who have made feel lonely just by being around them. But, now I rather be alone than to be with evil, mean, and people who want to users others.
Congratulations! I rather to be single than to deal with bull crap I have been celibate for four years I’m stronger than ever better than ever and giving God my time.
I believe we have these bad relationships to help us APPRECIATE solitude. I’m alone but I don’t feel LONELY at all. It’s overshadowed by my undeniable peace!
Her perspective is right. The younger girls should listen. I am just like her. When I was young, I was terrified to be alone. Consequently, I put myself thru a lot of nonsense that was not necessary with these men. They also know quickly how vulnerable you are, and will take advantage of that. Hold out for the best. Don't make light of their behavior at all. Meet a guy, and he will be testing to see what he can get away with.
You got that right Ms Faye about being alone! No more worrying about some fool leaving up the toilet seat, squeezing the toothpaste from the center, and leaving the clothes on the floor. Time for every woman to not only think about "being alone" but about the past experiences of men who have caused more problems than they are worth. There are more activities, charitable causes and learning experiences than you can shake a stick at. The only thing I get upset about is getting caught up is limerence and lust. Then it is time to take care of yourself.😉
I tell myself any partner who becomes part of my life has to worth me cashing in my single card. I love my single life. I agree with everything I want to do 😂…no arguments, having popcorn for dinner, binge watching tv shows…seriously working through my issues and becoming the best version of myself.
I always think when you hear of these relationship abandonment stories, even up until the wedding day, that you just saved yourself worse emotional and financial turmoil before your lives become more intertwined. Especially snatching you out of the clutches of divorce attorneys and the grinding mill of the divorce court. So I agree, that divine intervention is a huge blessing and a gift to you.
I love being alone! I am never lonely! I get to think creatively, and I start new projects! 😊 I spent 20 years in marriage, and I dated for a few years. I have had enough love to last a lifetime! Men try to talk to me all the time! I am not desperate for a man! I have never "looked" for a man. They seem to find me. I was taught that a man knows what he likes. They can spot a woman they like miles away. Note: Just enjoy your singleness while you can. When you marry or date, you sometimes have to give up some of your independence. 😢
Hi Ms Faye, I'm in my fifties I live with my little dog and I never feel lonely infact I now enjoy my space and my life which is peaceful, love and blessing to you 😃
I do understand loneliness. Ms. Faye's take that "rejection is divine intervention" is true. The letter writer may want to seek church activities, use the local libraries or senior centers. Also, a subtle reminder to not put herself out there as "finding a man" in case anyone takes advantage of a lonely woman. Her safety, security and sanity are vital in this lifetime.
Thankful Tuesday my beautiful family. Loving you more my awesome auntie. I'm not alone and I don't feel lonely. I am forgiving and healing and finding a peaceful path moving forward. I have 6 wonderful dogs that are very therapeutic. I also do my own chores now and I'm busy preparing my nutritious means, exercising and losing more weight. I have forgiven all the narcissists and I'm at peace. You never know how unhappy you can be when you bring the wrong people into your life. I sleep more, smile more and feel better about myself.
I've been living with my kids father for over ten years and I now find myself angry and unhappy there is nothing more in this world I want more than to live alone and be at peace so that's what I have been working on for myself
Girl I’m making a plan to get out. I’m putting my finances in order. Making a plan to navigate work and school for the kids. I just look at the difference on pictures of myself with my bd vs without my bd and the difference is clear as day and night. Summoning strength and courage. WE GOT THIS.
68, educated, and established beautiful sister see it as a blessing. Ground yourself in God, thankfulness, and self love. I am like you sis and the first time in my life I am peaceful alone. Lastly, don't become an involuntary caregiver. Some men are looking for a caregiver and housekeeper. My aunt married at 72.
People who feel lonely. Must ask themselves if when they are alone with themselves they feel unhappy. Why would they think someone would want to come join them in their unhappiness and take on the responsibility of making them feel less lonely.
Living alone is giving yourself credit where it is due. The only home you're accepted by 100% of the time. Breakfast for dinner and i shave on my terms! It's fantastic 40 and know better. I love my own company and let my thoughts entertain me.. I've decided i don't want marriage therefor i don't date. No one can love me better then me.. and i won't settle for less..i am enough and whole alone.
This is great. I was married for 25 years. Miserable. He was gamble ng all our bill money . I 💕 be near atlantic city. Casinos came her has ruined millions of families mine included. We had two beautiful homes totaling $140,000.00 which we had to sell. One of kids behind drugs I am raising at 40 years old. I raised 4 I ds that don't speak to me I don't see my grand know ds . Yes he was a narccist . He quit a very good job and now I am struggling for years because of less money. I love you miss F aye . We have to lose k at the glass half full. I listen to you over and over. I wish I had of brought my own house so my poor son and I have a place to live. 😢😢😢❤❤❤
Thanks for sharing. Yet some men try to shame me for never being married. 🙄 So glad to have avoided all the foolishness I hear & see so many women endure under the hands of these pathetic losers.
My kids are grown I’ve been alone but not alone because I have Jesus . I’ve taken this time to get involved with a few ministries in my church so I can work on myself and serve the lord. If I really want some company I will adopt a cute little dog. 😊 Every day you should get up and be grateful your alive, speak good things over your live into existence, stay positive no matter what.
Good morning, everyone! Yes, I am on my peaceful path and have moved forward. I have forgiven but not forgotten. I am living alone but never lonely 😊I am too busy making my space mine. It is blissful here now. ❤I wish the same for others. Thank you, Miss Faye , for being here for us. My lesson is a blessing. ❤🎉
Im on the fence with “thats what you’re attracting” if Miss Faye also agrees the majority of men are playing games. Chances are you are going to run into one regardless, if they are the majority.
Excellent advice Miss Faye. That lady needs to focus of self love and care. She needs to find hobbies and join travel groups for cruises or travel abroad groups to see the world. Also try mentoring younger women. She will be so fulfilled and busy to be so worried about being not having a man. There are women and people who will be happy and appreciate you for who you are. Those dusty dudes that approach her can pick up on loneliness that she projecting subconsciously. Plus those dudes that approach her are looking for a nurse with a purse and hospice care wife. Not to mention to her access to all her financial resources because they have none. She owes them nothing. If they can’t exceed what she has they can keep walking. She has to change her mindset. Keep those boundaries and standards on place. It’s non negotiable. Use decrement and pray that God sends you the right man.❤
I feel really badly for the woman who said she is so lonely that some days she can't get out of bed. To me she has allowed herself to become depressed and that loneliness has taken over her mind; she is talking down as if she is not living if she does not have a man. There is more to life than having a man especially if he is not the right one. Ms. Faye is right, you should love yourself and stop allowing that spirit to take over your mind because it is not worth the time or energy. Ask the Lord to help you with this situation.
Amen! I have decided to be alone after my long-term narcissistic relationship ended with my ex narc. I am at peace now being alone by choice! I am living my best life alone and happy!😂 when God is ready for me to meet my Boaz I will be ready!💯🙏
Goodmorning Ms. Faye! 🌞 You ain't said nothing but a word. Black Women, especially in America are on the Front Lines and have been for years. We're waiting for everybody else to catch up. We are the most preserved women on the face of the earth. I'm not trying to be no Hospice wife either. Be careful out here ladies. All these divorced, broke and broken down playa's trying to come back talking about, I wanna be married now. You're all dried up sir and can't even get it up anymore. Boi bye! 👋 I'm cool, peaceful, abundant and happiest on my own now, never lonely. My friends, my soul tribe, are my family and we have great lives. Look how good Black Women are looking 2023 just by being alone. We can breathe. Married Women during the lock down said they were feeling like slaves. They were miserable. All that time alone to work on ourselves, our dreams, education, our working outs, eating healthy, healing and starting businessness. Alot are starting to go outside the boundaries of race and doing very well. You go ladies. DO NOT LISTEN TO TYLER PERRY! We're boycotting him until he comes out of the closet. 😏 Talking about if all your husband can do is pay a light bill that should be okay with us. Just be happy to have a man? Is he serious? A single mother with a husband? 😆 🤣 😂 Why Gisele left Tom Brady. Now they're mad at her, calling her horrible names. Misogyny is on the rise. The face of the new one's fighting for her life is Cassidy Hutchinson. All that inner work we've been doing is paying off. Put God first. God is all we have left and he's taking very good care of us. 🙏 ✝️ Thank you JESUS! Amen... Amen... Thank you for your time, Wisdom and hard work Ms Faye. 💜💜💜
Very well said. Good point you made about how miserable and unsafe these partnered women were during the lockdowns. The fallout during that time still continues. That was not the case with single, confident women.
@@Curlyblonde We were chilling big time for sure. I loved quarantine. Every day another couple is divorcing. I knew my married friends were jealous of my freedom. Have a nice day! Enjoy your beautiful life. 🌞
@@sparkle3000 I have to admit that I enjoyed the lockdown too. I had so many things to keep me busy along with my rascal chihuahuas. Luckily I retired just before all hell broke loose, another blessing! Not too many of us can admit to enjoying the lockdown. I made the best of it.
@@sharinaross1865 Uh Oh! A man is well known in the community for his bill paying habits or lack of paying. Where he comes up short for his financial resources, I'm sure he compensates in the charm department and in the Bed Olympics!
Ms. Faye you drop gem advice, I think the same way, I am against Women chasing Men. Unfortunately, it is so many I live by myself and so much at peace. I enjoy being alone, If you can’t enjoy yourself who will want to spend time with you. My opinion
Being alone makes you stronger and have an open outlook on life. You have peace of mind, any type of hobbies,,however, i still would like to meet a good and decent man.will I ever meet one? If the father says it's it's time, then ok!!!😊
The last guy I dealt with , I didn't have no peace when he was staying at my house. I got rid of him & never eventually stopped answering his calls. What he did to me is unforgivable. I have peace now. The only thing I dreed is running into him & his friends . I'm moving on. He was also a narcissist. I'm so glad to be free, & I'm waiting for God to send my man. Meanwhile I will learn to love me more.
Thank you so much for you wisdom! I have been on a solo journey for a long time . Men can be entertaining and can make decent friends . They can even connect you professionally . But my tolerance of them stops there . I don’t want a man in my house . While I do enjoy their affections from time to time , I often feel ignored and objectified in their romantic presence . It’s a hard pass for now.
I am learning to enjoy my own company. I think as women some of us have been programmed to believe that we are nothing without a man. I am not where I want to be with finding the enjoyment in my own company but I am not where I used to be. I am praying to love myself, feel worthy of myself and accomplishments, and have the inner courage to walk through life with myself happily. Thank you Auntie Faye for this video.
I have been aware of your programme just for a few months now. I didn't know that what I was going through had a name (narcissism). It was so subtle, that when I tried to explain to one of my sisters, she said that I was miserable. He then started telling people that I was crazy. Freed of him for 19 years now. I have been working on myself. Still working. At this stage, I am so selfish and loving it! ❤😊. I just go at my own pace. Not dragged by some heartless person. I don't have to live in the kitchen after and before my 9-5. I go there if I want. I am not falling all over another person's thoughtless obstacles. I can breathe easier and take my time to plan and be me. I am enjoying myself in such a way that I celebrate my birthday by myself and treat myself wherever I want and love doing it. I am spoiling myself so much that I am truely hesitant to accept anyone in. 😊❤. I don't see men or women, I just see people so they don't make a difference to me. 😊
I like the gems that Miss Faye dropped to the first letter writer.✨However, it is important for the letter writer to realize that she’s accurate in assuming that she may, or may not find the love of her life. It’s important to be realistic in terms of the dating/marriage world. In general, there doesn’t seem to be many ELIGIBLE bachelors, & that’s something women should be mindful of.🍀
Miss Faye is so wise! She is so right! Love yourself and you will have self-full-filled happiness! It is amazing when you reach that point in your life! You don’t need anyone else but yourself.❤❤❤
I am a female with a male name, no friends, no family members, no boyfriend and etc. Now that I have start loving myself men come towards me, but I am not interested in just a pair of pants. I would like to have a good girlfriend to run around with, but they are messy too. I am a little older than you but if you want to develop a friendship, and don’t mind traveling,let me know.
Love this topic. I spent many years being, enjoying career changes. I donot regret being single for those years. I enjoyed my own company, got to know myself better, and enjoy having time for my creative passions.
She needs to focus on self and get out to meet friends and stop looking for a man to fulfill what he can't. A man doesn't always mean she will not be lonely
Hey ms faith how are y'all doing I am well watching replay love your channel and spirit great advice wisdom ladies becarul who you let in your circle share her vedios let's get her to 100k we love this woman thanks for sharing blessings ❤️🙏
It's evident that many men avoid loneliness by embracing self-love and immersing themselves in pursuits they are passionate about-whether it's their interests, goals, or possessions. They proactively engage in these activities without relying on external validation, including from women, to dictate their actions. Boys and their toys. The movie doesn't end happily ever after in 2 hours.
even when I was 20, I knew that I didn't Want to date a man who never had lived alone. I knew that they would never fully appreciate a woman, her company or what her presence offers him if he had never had to live alone and do everything himself for a good amount of time.
OMG miss Faye I feel exactly like you and I sometimes don’t have time to do it all and men are in my s …..list!! I have freedom I don’t want to put up with anyone especially men gzzz I was there and glad I have total control over myself my freedom and my happiness I don’t want to take care of anybody anymore I have been there ! Like you I have so much creativity and I put my heart and soul in it and they are expanding more and more men isn’t in it !! I see more problems and disasters have men especially narcissistic type they are looking for women who have resources and relationships aren’t worth a damn nowadays! She should find something productive to do besides worrying about men and love herself and her own company! She depends her happiness on having men and she has had loosers why did she keep on chasing after them her idea of happiness is having men!! My happiness is with my own company and I am not lonely I love my privacy and my peace there are so much she can do it’s up to her to change !! I can take care of myself and I don’t need any men I had enough! ❤❤
You can be with a man in your but you can be still lonely...me I was in a lonely relationship ... but now am alone am leaving a happy life alone 🎉 life*
Thats right Ms.Faye.... for the first time I heard Ill never leave you from my ex and he was trying to lesve every argument.... apart of it was his insecurities.... but apart of it was because his mother made him feel like he was a gift to women... none the less, I'll never believe another person who says this.
Grand Rising Everyone ❤️Need to Love Myself/Yourself. Your want’s will Lower your Vibration and you will be approached by Mr.Wrong🙄 Loving Yourself Will Change Your Thinking🤗
I’m loving my peace alone last relationship taught me I was happier and better before the relationship and for the first time in my life I can feel me loving myself for once! I love this feeling and I want to continue
Miss Faye, you are such a blessing sent from God, I'm at a point in my life now where I'm looking for spiritual guidance and I came across you. I'm looking to discover myself as a person and walk God's path to be a better person and a blessing to others . Keep doing what you do best and know your words of wisdom are having a positive change on my life💐.❤🎉🙏🏾👍🏾💕💐
Ms. Faye, it would be nice if you would give more than one gift away I would say a minimum of 3 should be given. That would make it more engaging and interesting especially since your advice is good for ladies to avoid getting with the wrong man.
I love being alone! It’s so peaceful not having to deal with others bullcrap!
You can say that again. 👏🏽
AMEN!!!
I turned 47 this September, and I've been alone now for almost 10yrs..and nothing is more enjoyable than loving yourself ❤❤.💯
47?😳I was very in love in my 67th😀Never say never 😊
I have been alone since 2014. I had A LOT of healing to do, from past relationships and trauma. I had to learn to understand what “loving myself” meant and had to get comfortable with God leading me down that path. I am so grateful for the time I have had and am still healing daily. I am now 60. I am open to what God has for me and am comfortable in my own skin now. No matter what happens, I am in a win win situation. I have God by my side no matter what. I am totally open to having the first healthy, loving relationship in my life…. real love. Like I said, I am grateful most of all for the healing that very much needed to happen.
Over 30 yrs for me...alone but not lonely
@@tonnieverse4038 I love that tonnie
I turn 64 this coming December. I've been on my own since 2019. I couldn't imagine having to shelter in place, with the person, I was with for nearly 15 yrs. He tried to get back with me, but it was a no go.
I am free, nothing's bothering me.❤
Listen a woman that looks good, is good, feels good, and is doing good, ALWAYS got options. I don’t care what age she is there always a man looking for a good woman. All you have to do is sit back and decipher when they come around. I learned that from observing my mom.
Totally agree.!
🎯🎯
That’s correct plus black don’t crack.❤
At the age of 55, I am way past wondering whether or not a man likes me. At the end of the day, I love my own company.
I use my lonely period to grow and better my career. Now Going for my Doctorate.
No time for negative self- talk, ever.
It's better be single and happy alone. Then to be miserable with a man. You can live alone but not be lonely. I find many things to occupy my time. Good morning Miss Faye blessings 🙏🌹🌹
Truth!!!
Its so peaceful living by myself..I'm a woman..women don't have to be alone..we can have company when we want it and then they leave...saves alot of bullshit.
Except sometimes they don’t want to leave and you can’t get rid of them 😊
YES!
@@EmpoweredLioness4Yahoh yeah, THAT 😂
@inspiredinnerverse tell him you used to be a man after! He will leave quick n never come back. No supply wanted!
@@EmpoweredLioness4Yah the no going home sense is the worst.
Some men try to shame & judge me for never having been married, as if it’s some badge of honor, despite the high rates of divorce & misery.
I had to put one in his place yesterday for that.
Another one who I dated 15+ years ago insulted me via text because I’m not interested in seeing him nor getting back in the sac with him ever again. They can’t handle rejection & the fact that I’m perfectly happy being single & sex-free for over 5 years. I finally love & respect myself & will never settle for low vibrational using, manipulative, unfulfilling, empty nonsense ever again. And now their mad. 🤷🏽♀️
I'm an introvert and I love being alone with my pets.
Miss Faye, I have been alone for over fifty or more years. I have family, friends and people I barely, know who have made feel lonely just by being around them. But, now I rather be alone than to be with evil, mean, and people who want to users others.
Amen!
Congratulations! I rather to be single than to deal with bull crap I have been celibate for four years I’m stronger than ever better than ever and giving God my time.
@@mariehandy2811 I am with you 100%. I have deleted the bull crap too.
Absolutely, Ms. Faye.. I am 51 years old and have been married(narcissist)and divorced twice, and I finally have peace in my home and life.
There is no price on peace ☮️ ❤! Enjoy ! My mother used to say we come alone we go alone love yourself cause you’ll be with you THE longest !!!!❤❤❤
Same here!!!! Peace is priceless.
I believe we have these bad relationships to help us APPRECIATE solitude. I’m alone but I don’t feel LONELY at all. It’s overshadowed by my undeniable peace!
Her perspective is right. The younger girls should listen. I am just like her. When I was young, I was terrified to be alone. Consequently, I put myself thru a lot of nonsense that was not necessary with these men. They also know quickly how vulnerable you are, and will take advantage of that. Hold out for the best. Don't make light of their behavior at all. Meet a guy, and he will be testing to see what he can get away with.
I treasure being Alone....THEE only thing I miss in my LIFE now is another 🐕....I don't do well living with people...SOLO and loving it.....
You got that right Ms Faye about being alone! No more worrying about some fool leaving up the toilet seat, squeezing the toothpaste from the center, and leaving the clothes on the floor. Time for every woman to not only think about "being alone" but about the past experiences of men who have caused more problems than they are worth. There are more activities, charitable causes and learning experiences than you can shake a stick at. The only thing I get upset about is getting caught up is limerence and lust. Then it is time to take care of yourself.😉
You spoke the TRUTH!
Real Talk.
Rejection is a Divine protection and a Blesssings too!!
True facts 💯
I tell myself any partner who becomes part of my life has to worth me cashing in my single card. I love my single life. I agree with everything I want to do 😂…no arguments, having popcorn for dinner, binge watching tv shows…seriously working through my issues and becoming the best version of myself.
I always think when you hear of these relationship abandonment stories, even up until the wedding day, that you just saved yourself worse emotional and financial turmoil before your lives become more intertwined. Especially snatching you out of the clutches of divorce attorneys and the grinding mill of the divorce court. So I agree, that divine intervention is a huge blessing and a gift to you.
@@valorisanders5484 three thumbs up on your positive comment!!!!
@@valorisanders5484The universe also helps you more when you are alone
I love being alone! I am never lonely! I get to think creatively, and I start new projects! 😊 I spent 20 years in marriage, and I dated for a few years. I have had enough love to last a lifetime! Men try to talk to me all the time! I am not desperate for a man!
I have never "looked" for a man. They seem to find me. I was taught that a man knows what he likes. They can spot a woman they like miles away. Note: Just enjoy your singleness while you can. When you marry or date, you sometimes have to give up some of your independence. 😢
Hi Ms Faye, I'm in my fifties I live with my little dog and I never feel lonely infact I now enjoy my space and my life which is peaceful, love and blessing to you 😃
I do understand loneliness.
Ms. Faye's take that "rejection is divine intervention" is true.
The letter writer may want to seek church activities, use the local libraries or senior centers.
Also, a subtle reminder to not put herself out there as "finding a man" in case anyone takes advantage of a lonely woman. Her safety, security and sanity are vital in this lifetime.
So we’ll said-good point on the safety aspect.
PEACE IS PRICELESS ❤
I don't even miss a man in my life because I love myself so so much am a hustler I don't depend on a man
Thankful Tuesday my beautiful family. Loving you more my awesome auntie.
I'm not alone and I don't feel lonely. I am forgiving and healing and finding a peaceful path moving forward.
I have 6 wonderful dogs that are very therapeutic. I also do my own chores now and I'm busy preparing my nutritious means, exercising and losing more weight.
I have forgiven all the narcissists and I'm at peace.
You never know how unhappy you can be when you bring the wrong people into your life.
I sleep more, smile more and feel better about myself.
I've been living with my kids father for over ten years and I now find myself angry and unhappy there is nothing more in this world I want more than to live alone and be at peace so that's what I have been working on for myself
Make it happen..
You and me both sis 😢 I feel so stuck at the moment.
Girl I’m making a plan to get out. I’m putting my finances in order. Making a plan to navigate work and school for the kids.
I just look at the difference on pictures of myself with my bd vs without my bd and the difference is clear as day and night.
Summoning strength and courage.
WE GOT THIS.
@@MyaWilliams-y4x Keep trying..
@@rayn4473 Those children deserve peace...not a stressed out mother..
Am enjoying my life to be alone... life is so wonderful 🎉
Actions speak louder than louder than words
68, educated, and established beautiful sister see it as a blessing. Ground yourself in God, thankfulness, and self love. I am like you sis and the first time in my life I am peaceful alone. Lastly, don't become an involuntary caregiver. Some men are looking for a caregiver and housekeeper. My aunt married at 72.
People who feel lonely. Must ask themselves if when they are alone with themselves they feel unhappy. Why would they think someone would want to come join them in their unhappiness and take on the responsibility of making them feel less lonely.
Living alone is giving yourself credit where it is due. The only home you're accepted by 100% of the time. Breakfast for dinner and i shave on my terms! It's fantastic 40 and know better. I love my own company and let my thoughts entertain me.. I've decided i don't want marriage therefor i don't date. No one can love me better then me.. and i won't settle for less..i am enough and whole alone.
This is great. I was married for 25 years. Miserable. He was gamble ng all our bill money . I 💕 be near atlantic city. Casinos came her has ruined millions of families mine included. We had two beautiful homes totaling $140,000.00 which we had to sell. One of kids behind drugs I am raising at 40 years old. I raised 4 I ds that don't speak to me I don't see my grand know ds . Yes he was a narccist . He quit a very good job and now I am struggling for years because of less money. I love you miss F aye . We have to lose k at the glass half full. I listen to you over and over. I wish I had of brought my own house so my poor son and I have a place to live. 😢😢😢❤❤❤
I pray things get better for you!
Thanks for sharing. Yet some men try to shame me for never being married. 🙄 So glad to have avoided all the foolishness I hear & see so many women endure under the hands of these pathetic losers.
My kids are grown I’ve been alone but not alone because I have Jesus . I’ve taken this time to get involved with a few ministries in my church so I can work on myself and serve the lord. If I really want some company I will adopt a cute little dog. 😊 Every day you should get up and be grateful your alive, speak good things over your live into existence, stay positive no matter what.
Good morning, everyone! Yes, I am on my peaceful path and have moved forward. I have forgiven but not forgotten. I am living alone but never lonely 😊I am too busy making my space mine. It is blissful here now. ❤I wish the same for others. Thank you, Miss Faye , for being here for us. My lesson is a blessing. ❤🎉
Im on the fence with “thats what you’re attracting” if Miss Faye also agrees the majority of men are playing games. Chances are you are going to run into one regardless, if they are the majority.
Excellent advice Miss Faye. That lady needs to focus of self love and care. She needs to find hobbies and join travel groups for cruises or travel abroad groups to see the world. Also try mentoring younger women. She will be so fulfilled and busy to be so worried about being not having a man. There are women and people who will be happy and appreciate you for who you are. Those dusty dudes that approach her can pick up on loneliness that she projecting subconsciously. Plus those dudes that approach her are looking for a nurse with a purse and hospice care wife. Not to mention to her access to all her financial resources because they have none. She owes them nothing. If they can’t exceed what she has they can keep walking. She has to change her mindset. Keep those boundaries and standards on place. It’s non negotiable. Use decrement and pray that God sends you the right man.❤
You are never alone when you know God.
Unfortuntely, desperate men are drawn to women who have that high vibration. She will never get away from that. It must be exhausting.
I feel really badly for the woman who said she is so lonely that some days she can't get out of bed. To me she has allowed herself to become depressed and that loneliness has taken over her mind; she is talking down as if she is not living if she does not have a man. There is more to life than having a man especially if he is not the right one. Ms. Faye is right, you should love yourself and stop allowing that spirit to take over your mind because it is not worth the time or energy. Ask the Lord to help you with this situation.
Amen! I have decided to be alone after my long-term narcissistic relationship ended with my ex narc. I am at peace now being alone by choice! I am living my best life alone and happy!😂 when God is ready for me to meet my Boaz I will be ready!💯🙏
When a man finds a wife he finds a good thing. My man is looking for me, & God is preparing him for me, while he prepares me for him.❤❤❤
Goodmorning Ms. Faye! 🌞
You ain't said nothing but a word.
Black Women, especially in America are on the Front Lines and have been for years.
We're waiting for everybody else to catch up.
We are the most preserved women on the face of the earth.
I'm not trying to be no Hospice wife either.
Be careful out here ladies.
All these divorced, broke and broken down playa's trying to come back talking about, I wanna be married now.
You're all dried up sir and can't even get it up anymore.
Boi bye! 👋
I'm cool, peaceful, abundant and happiest on my own now, never lonely.
My friends, my soul tribe, are my family and we have great lives.
Look how good Black Women are looking 2023 just by being alone.
We can breathe.
Married Women during the lock down said they were feeling like slaves. They were miserable.
All that time alone to work on ourselves, our dreams, education, our working outs, eating healthy, healing and starting businessness.
Alot are starting to go outside the boundaries of race and doing very well.
You go ladies.
DO NOT LISTEN TO TYLER PERRY!
We're boycotting him until he comes out of the closet. 😏
Talking about if all your husband can do is pay a light bill that should be okay with us. Just be happy to have a man?
Is he serious?
A single mother with a husband? 😆 🤣 😂
Why Gisele left Tom Brady. Now they're mad at her, calling her horrible names.
Misogyny is on the rise.
The face of the new one's fighting for her life is Cassidy Hutchinson.
All that inner work we've been doing is paying off.
Put God first.
God is all we have left and he's taking very good care of us.
🙏 ✝️
Thank you JESUS!
Amen... Amen...
Thank you for your time, Wisdom and hard work Ms Faye. 💜💜💜
Very well said. Good point you made about how miserable and unsafe these partnered women were during the lockdowns. The fallout during that time still continues. That was not the case with single, confident women.
@@Curlyblonde We were chilling big time for sure.
I loved quarantine.
Every day another couple is divorcing.
I knew my married friends were jealous of my freedom.
Have a nice day!
Enjoy your beautiful life. 🌞
A man that cant pay the mortgage or rent but can pay the light bill. Charlene and Tyrone must got the same hair stylist. He based in Atlanta.
@@sparkle3000 I have to admit that I enjoyed the lockdown too. I had so many things to keep me busy along with my rascal chihuahuas. Luckily I retired just before all hell broke loose, another blessing! Not too many of us can admit to enjoying the lockdown. I made the best of it.
@@sharinaross1865 Uh Oh! A man is well known in the community for his bill paying habits or lack of paying. Where he comes up short for his financial resources, I'm sure he compensates in the charm department and in the Bed Olympics!
Ms. Faye you drop gem advice, I think the same way, I am against Women chasing Men.
Unfortunately, it is so many
I live by myself and so much at peace. I enjoy being alone,
If you can’t enjoy yourself who will want to spend time with you. My opinion
Being alone makes you stronger and have an open outlook on life. You have peace of mind, any type of hobbies,,however, i still would like to meet a good and decent man.will I ever meet one? If the father says it's it's time, then ok!!!😊
Me I don't feel lonely I sleep peacefully like a new born baby no stress
The last guy I dealt with , I didn't have no peace when he was staying at my house. I got rid of him & never eventually stopped answering his calls. What he did to me is unforgivable. I have peace now. The only thing I dreed is running into him & his friends . I'm moving on. He was also a narcissist. I'm so glad to be free, & I'm waiting for God to send my man. Meanwhile I will learn to love me more.
I’m in the process of leaving my narc.such vile ,horrible people.
I am not alone..I say I am to myself😊😊❤
Thank you so much for you wisdom! I have been on a solo journey for a long time . Men can be entertaining and can make decent friends . They can even connect you professionally . But my tolerance of them stops there . I don’t want a man in my house . While I do enjoy their affections from time to time , I often feel ignored and objectified in their romantic presence . It’s a hard pass for now.
I am learning to enjoy my own company. I think as women some of us have been programmed to believe that we are nothing without a man. I am not where I want to be with finding the enjoyment in my own company but I am not where I used to be. I am praying to love myself, feel worthy of myself and accomplishments, and have the inner courage to walk through life with myself happily. Thank you Auntie Faye for this video.
I have been aware of your programme just for a few months now. I didn't know that what I was going through had a name (narcissism). It was so subtle, that when I tried to explain to one of my sisters, she said that I was miserable. He then started telling people that I was crazy. Freed of him for 19 years now. I have been working on myself. Still working. At this stage, I am so selfish and loving it! ❤😊. I just go at my own pace. Not dragged by some heartless person. I don't have to live in the kitchen after and before my 9-5. I go there if I want. I am not falling all over another person's thoughtless obstacles. I can breathe easier and take my time to plan and be me. I am enjoying myself in such a way that I celebrate my birthday by myself and treat myself wherever I want and love doing it. I am spoiling myself so much that I am truely hesitant to accept anyone in. 😊❤. I don't see men or women, I just see people so they don't make a difference to me. 😊
Such a timely message. You Rock Miss Faye❤❤❤
I like the gems that Miss Faye dropped to the first letter writer.✨However, it is important for the letter writer to realize that she’s accurate in assuming that she may, or may not find the love of her life. It’s important to be realistic in terms of the dating/marriage world. In general, there doesn’t seem to be many ELIGIBLE bachelors, & that’s something women should be mindful of.🍀
I agree with this, unless the woman is attracted to other races. Then she has the pick of the litter.
@@realestatebykemi Very true.💯
Miss Faye is so wise! She is so right! Love yourself and you will have self-full-filled happiness! It is amazing when you reach that point in your life! You don’t need anyone else but yourself.❤❤❤
I am a female with a male name, no friends, no family members, no boyfriend and etc. Now that I have start loving myself men come towards me, but I am not interested in just a pair of pants. I would like to have a good girlfriend to run around with, but they are messy too. I am a little older than you but if you want to develop a friendship, and don’t mind traveling,let me know.
I am a straight female!!!
I believe that God wants me to be alone for now. I have to learn to love myself more, & for whatever other reason God wants me to be aline ❤❤❤
And I love peaceful life and my space
Single women have less stress and live longer. The so called "relationship" is for the man's enjoyment.
Hello Miss Faye and everyone Peace of mind is more valuable than money I enjoy being lonely If we snooze we will loose and be lost like applesauce.
Yes love this message!! I definitely looked over a good man based off looks, what a mistake ! Lbs
You just reminded me of why I don’t need a man! All of that foolishness! 😂 I know it all!
Love this topic. I spent many years being, enjoying career changes. I donot regret being single for those years. I enjoyed my own company, got to know myself better, and enjoy having time for my creative passions.
Thanks for sharing!!
Thank You Ms Faye for Sharing this Knowledge and Message for So Many Women
And my age 59 yes its nice to have a partner im enjoying my self.
She needs to focus on self and get out to meet friends and stop looking for a man to fulfill what he can't. A man doesn't always mean she will not be lonely
Me too Miss Faye l sleep peacefully.
Tell the dang truth ms.faye!!¡❤❤❤😊
This is excellent Ms. Faye, it all resonates with me. Every bit. So very true! I needed this huge reminder. Thank you so much!
You are saving lives!
Lol im 33 and feeling the same but i wont settle. Single mum as well.
What a serendipitous topic!! I JUST was telling my niece about this same thing LOL
Hey ms faith how are y'all doing I am well watching replay love your channel and spirit great advice wisdom ladies becarul who you let in your circle share her vedios let's get her to 100k we love this woman thanks for sharing blessings ❤️🙏
It's evident that many men avoid loneliness by embracing self-love and immersing themselves in pursuits they are passionate about-whether it's their interests, goals, or possessions. They proactively engage in these activities without relying on external validation, including from women, to dictate their actions. Boys and their toys. The movie doesn't end happily ever after in 2 hours.
You can say that again my sister we need to love our myself but we got to put Almighty God first and we will be just fine shalom .
Nothing but peace love and Light ❤✨️
a very pleasant good morning miss faye,have a bless and prosperous day enjoy. ❤❤❤
The best feeling in the world is cooking to my taste buds and dietary needs. The only thing at a premium is gas prices.
Gn from Guyana i had that now touching 6 years now single.The man say they love you but still walk out for not thing i have been protected....
even when I was 20, I knew that I didn't Want to date a man who never had lived alone. I knew that they would never fully appreciate a woman, her company or what her presence offers him if he had never had to live alone and do everything himself for a good amount of time.
The lady writer should focus on her hobbies more or perhaps be a cat lady. Cats are therapeutic 😻😻😻
Do you have a cat? I am actually about to get one in a couple of weeks. ☺️ She is still a kitten.
Yeah get a couple hobbies.
Or travel. There’s a huge world 🌎 out there.
OMG miss Faye I feel exactly like you and I sometimes don’t have time to do it all and men are in my s …..list!! I have freedom I don’t want to put up with anyone especially men gzzz I was there and glad I have total control over myself my freedom and my happiness I don’t want to take care of anybody anymore I have been there ! Like you I have so much creativity and I put my heart and soul in it and they are expanding more and more men isn’t in it !! I see more problems and disasters have men especially narcissistic type they are looking for women who have resources and relationships aren’t worth a damn nowadays! She should find something productive to do besides worrying about men and love herself and her own company! She depends her happiness on having men and she has had loosers why did she keep on chasing after them her idea of happiness is having men!! My happiness is with my own company and I am not lonely I love my privacy and my peace there are so much she can do it’s up to her to change !! I can take care of myself and I don’t need any men I had enough! ❤❤
He left because simply he didn't want to be kept.
You can be with a man in your but you can be still lonely...me I was in a lonely relationship ... but now am alone am leaving a happy life alone 🎉 life*
Very good advice.
I love ur underwater screensaver. It's very soothing & peaceful. Thank u.
I love that your videos include all types of wellness. The daily movement is so very important.❤
Praise God for Peace 🎉
Ty Miss Faye. You are very wise woman, wish i knew you 5 years ago and when i was a teen. ❤
Thats right Ms.Faye.... for the first time I heard Ill never leave you from my ex and he was trying to lesve every argument.... apart of it was his insecurities.... but apart of it was because his mother made him feel like he was a gift to women... none the less, I'll never believe another person who says this.
Absolute Truth💯💯💯
I love you and your channel 💟 Fantastic advice!
Grand Rising Everyone ❤️Need to Love Myself/Yourself. Your want’s will Lower your Vibration and you will be approached by Mr.Wrong🙄 Loving Yourself Will Change Your Thinking🤗
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I’m loving my peace alone last relationship taught me I was happier and better before the relationship and for the first time in my life I can feel me loving myself for once! I love this feeling and I want to continue
Ladies, keep your peace so you can keep your power. 25:00
Me too, Ms Faye peace is my spiritual construct.
Speak the truth 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Miss Faye, you are such a blessing sent from God, I'm at a point in my life now where I'm looking for spiritual guidance and I came across you. I'm looking to discover myself as a person and walk God's path to be a better person and a blessing to others . Keep doing what you do best and know your words of wisdom are having a positive change on my life💐.❤🎉🙏🏾👍🏾💕💐
I would hate to think my life is dependent on having anybody make me happy....
MS FAYE, I Love your Truth! 🌹
Oh yes beautiful video Miss Faye as usual u dropped some great gems in this video. This view was on point. Thank you.
Bless you Ms.Faye.
Thank you 🙏 Mrs Faye ❤
Ms. Faye, it would be nice if you would give more than one gift away I would say a minimum of 3 should be given. That would make it more engaging and interesting especially since your advice is good for ladies to avoid getting with the wrong man.
@ 21:56 girl preach!!!!!! 🙌😩