Hey Isaac thought you might wanna hear my oppinion, this was posted below too. All these women saying oh that weight is impossible, my mum went down from 95 kg to 64 kg in about 5-6 months, her two goal weights are 62 kg and then hopefully 58 kg, so its not impossible and i know that because i have seen how possible it is, im so proud of my mum and im so glad she made it this far, glad for her health mentally and physically and that i wont loose my mum. Its not impossible but the way most people act makes it improbable, peace out!!
@@luckydepressedguy8981 I have been (but to be honest, not very hard), with my weight went down and up (latest stress in life not been friendly either). But I have enough self awareness to know fat is no good.
As a chubby kid ( my body fat is mostly visible around my stomach and thighs) i can confirm its not fun, body shaming is bad, but praising people eating their way to their graves ain't cool either.
@@lilisco9957 well being ok with your body is fine and all but people who don't tell someone that their lifestyle is unhealthy and needs to improve it even a little is better than saying you should just be yourself! Nothing to fix
I also can confirm as a sort of chubby kid everyone would make fun of me, yet there is this girl who is way fatter then me who gets praised for being lazy while I am here being made fun of because I am doing laps around the school field...
@@t3d585 Dont be jealous because even though the bullying hurts, sometimes bullying can change someone for the better. Like glowups basically. If you work hard, you will have an amazing glowup! You dont need to have muscles or abs or a six pack, just be in the appropriate weight range for your age and height. You got this bro!! ❤😜
some of these equality things actually move more to privilege fishing if women are patronised by men, men - open the door - allow them to walk first - allow them to sit down - give their seat lalala soasf. but women being equal to men would not give a woman these privileges anymore. they’re apparently equal to men, they’re just as strong, soasf. some women in these mvts still ask for privileges. but you’re equal to men now, so stop it. sorry for rant, i’m a girl as well but realised that some of that feminist stuff doesn’t work
What body-positivity should be: For people who have suffered acid attacks For people born with birth defects (born without arms, legs, hands, head, whatever) For people who have been through horrible accidents, and suffered (for example) burns to large portions of their body, having lost body parts as a result. For people who have lost limbs in other ways. Et cetera. What body-positivity is: this
there is absolutely no birth defect in the world that causes babies to be born without a head. if such did exist, they would be dead. just to let ya know
As a black woman and over the age of 20, I have very few friends who support my healthy lifestyle. I had a coworker spread a rumor that I was anorexic because I eat salads for lunch every day. Mind you, I am not that thin, I am tall, 5'9, and weigh 140 lbs. I am a normal size woman, but most women I know in the midwest over the age of 30 are pushing 200 lbs, eat horribly and never work out. What do they expect? I understand that working out is hard and eating fewer sucks, but it is worth it. I like being fit and healthy and giving my husband a hard-on. I do it for me and him! These women need to get help and leave me alone.
One thing people underestimate is how good it feels to be a lighter healthy weight just in everyday life. I'm a 5'10" dude and I weighed 145 a couple years ago and bulked up to 180, and even though I'm more muscular and still pretty lean I miss how easy running felt when I was around 145. Being over 200 lbs, especially if I was shorter, would be horrible. You just couldn't move around well.
im a guy and you could say im underweight without a doubt xD im 6feet tall and weigh 110lbs and let me tell you i get way more picked on then fat guys and it is hard for me to gain weight but its not impossible. i would need to pull myself together and work out
@@l.h.9747 shit dude, that's scary thin. Lifting would be good but I wouldn't worry about that until you're at least 150 lbs or so. Focus on just eating.
@@onlinealias622 thats not easy. I tried that but my body doesnt seem to be efficient in taking calories that arent needed and i feel extremely sick when i overeat. With that come some anxiety issues that cause stomach cramps and digestive problems when im nervous xD so working out seems to be the only way
Exactly! I’m sure I’ve seen a video somewhere explaining how Italians tend to be far slimmer than Americans/British people because they have MUCHHH smaller portion sizes
Spot on, when my dad eats spaghetti he has a large plate piled FULL and thinks I "don't eat enough" because I just have a small bowl lol The sauce is actually healthy and has vegetables etc its the big pile of pasta thats not 😂
i think they’re referring to sexualities like bisexuality and pansexuality, meaning just because someone who identifies as a sexuality that likes more than one gender is dating someone of the opposite gender is straight or the same gender is gay, for a shorter example i’ll use bisexuality, if a bisexual woman dates a man she’s not straight and if she dates a woman she’s not a lesbian, she’s still just as bisexual
@@meloncito7020 The heart attack will kill them last (or at least try to). Or even if it’s not a heart attack, your immune system will later kill you. For example, my grandfather almost died from a heart attack and died from an infection 15 years later after said attack (He died 7 years ago)
ok so this is MY opinion, Being obese is not healthy, but you shouldn’t drown yourself in it, go out and live your life and be happy. But you need to set goals.
Totally. Getting depressed about it is how you dig a deeper hole and end up consuming more and gaining more. Everyone deserves happiness, but that's not the same as just deciding to be content and ignore a serious physical health issue.
I have scars in my face, burns on my arm, leg, stomach, back of my head, and armpit. I'm learning to love these burns and scars is this considered body positivity.
I'm okay with loving your body until people start using that as an excuse for not taking care of their health and body. I just think it is really sad for those people who will be dealing with all those awful Chronic diseases later on
@@blitzmau7952 Yes. And that's the saddest part. Their children will most like learn their habits and it'll be a vicious cycle. Unless someone breaks the cycle.
Exactly, some people say they are not changing themselves just to please other people, and I think.. Well, ok?? But most of the time I see people who say this, they don't take care of themselves.
@@lilisco9957 yeah, but they are living unhealthy lifestyles which is bad for anyone who wants to live long. And saying nothing to improve the lifestyle of these people is quite frankly horrible
Not really like I agree the woman in the first photo should try to consult with a health professional but I don’t know her situation so I can’t fully assume she can get the help she may or may not need
Being positive about your body is actually really important. Scars, birthmarks and so on are nothing anyone should be ashamed of. Even if you’re plus-sized, you deserve to love yourself. But the important part of loving yourself is taking care of yourself. Please take care of yourselves.
I suggest you ask your personal doctor for a way to loose weight they usually able to find the right diet, exercise, so that you can be healthy and feel a lot better :D
Do some basic weights, then light but long cardio(walk for a few hours if you're not busy) make sure to stretch, take a cold bath every once and a while and don't eat "healthy" aka no nutrients, make sure to get a proper fill of food but just lower your carb intake for now which is sugar and bread as well as stuff like it, which isn't that hard, you can eat all the meat you want(unless vegetarian) avoid basically everything other than water for drinking, and make sure to have a cheat day, I recommend it to be on your rest day as well, as a good basic work out shouldn't leave your extremely sore every day but after 6 days take a rest, if you want more detailed advice just ask ok? Stay healthy
What i hate about the whole "body positivity" movement is that they say they are all for celebrating all women and not judging others based on weight, height, scars, etc. Yet then they shame women for being "too skinny" and calling them "twigs" and "anorexic", which is definitely NOT positive. Like i have a permanent chemical burn on my face that will never go away and it makes my skin very red and dry and if i don't wear makeup you can clearly see it. To me how i deal with this is by covering it up and not making a big deal of it if people see it, and i spread positivity by not judging others who have scars, defects, burns, etc. But saying "oh it's okay for me to be 700 pounds but fuck all you skinny women go eat a burger or something you're so anorexic" is not okay. If you wanna be 600+ pounds, then that is your decision, but shaming others for their weight while at the same time getting mad if someone does the same to you is not okay, it's hypocrisy.
@@biblicallyaccurateangel4433 Exactly, like i've heard so many bigger women making fun of ppl skinnier than them and even woman their size or smaller who are on diets, and none of that is okay, especially if they are gonna preach "body positivity" and "all women are beautiful no matter of body shape or size"
Thank you, at this point being skinny does make me feel kind of insecure. I'm 115 lbs but I've got such a fast metabolism that its extremely hard to gain any weight. I dont have a big chest, nor a big butt. I try to be comfortable with myself but it's hard sometimes. There was a coworker I had at my last job that had told someone else that I told him I wanted him to take my v card. I'm 21 and fine by myself, just trying to focus on myself and get my life together first. So when someone told me and i confronted him about it, he got defensive, claiming he didnt say it. And before i left, he began to insult me, saying that I was too bony for him, that ive got nothing, I'm a twig, and he wouldnt touch me with a 10 ft pole. I never asked him to do that in the first place, and couldn't care less for his opinion but it still hurt to hear bc I know it's true. And on top of that im black/white biracial, and theres the whole idea that theyre all these beautiful women with mixed features and theyre also thicc. Sure ive got blonde hair and hazel eyes, but for a lot of people, the thickness is most important and I lack all of it. It makes me kind of feel inadequate compared to other women, especially other mixed women. But i still try to keep my head up and move along!
Best comment on here, they have far too many double standards to be taken seriously. The skinny one always has annoyed me since I've been on both extreme sides of the spectrum, but I'm happier being skinny.
Women, use the bodies of PRO athletes, PRO actors, PROFESSIONAL RUNWAY MODELS etc, as examples of the female body that they want everyone to know is an impossible standard to attain... ... They use REAL women's bodies, to show what an impossible standard is... ... They point to the bodies of women who have WORKED their ASS off, and say that it's impossible -_- uhhhhh, bitch is you dumb, you literally just used the body of a VERY REAL existing person, in order to show me the body you can't get : /
@@admjadajmd I do support what you're trying to get at, but many professional models have had surgery, so that's really not a naturally possible body type. 👀 It's like calling a male body builder who has taken steroids as an attainable body type.
@@dr.anaB777 I mean leave out em surgeries U can atleast get off dat big ass bean bag with dat large 12 size pizza and like take a walk and do sum excersises, Sry for the bad English it is not my first language Ok back to the topic like fat people can lose weight
I need body positivity because I recovered from anorexia. Honestly, it bothers me that people try to take it away from people like me. It took me 4 years to get healthy again. On days where I feel like I shouldn't have recovered, it's helpful to look at people who I find attractive to see that they are similar to me, so I should be attractive too
As a bloke who is overweight, I had been diagnosed with osteoarthritis in my left knee at 21, my hip plays up due to a bursa which was diagnosed when I was 18 and I'm already sure the arthritis has made its way to developing on my right knee (I am now 22). Due to there being no fix for my knee I will be living my life in pain and constantly saying to myself "Why did I lose the weight?" every fucking time my knee plays up. Not only that my family has a history of heart issues and other medical problems due to being overweight and other factors I'm sure. I was 100.8 kg (Roughly 222lbs for those who don't use metric) when I weighed myself some time ago. With the support of my gf who she herself has been working on improving her physical health and my family I started doing the Keto diet. It's been frustrating, downright tedious at times but guess what... IT'S FUCKING WORKING! As of my recent weigh-in I am 91kg (200lbs) and dropping pant sizes, not only that my arthritis doesn't bother me as often and the bursa has been relatively tame. Also to note, I don't find myself getting short of breath as much as I used to and I've been able to perform better in the job I work in which consists of moving around and lifting weighty objects. So all those idiots who are proud to be overweight, take it from someone who's already paid the price and is trying to stop any more complications from developing: LOSE THE WEIGHT WHILE YOU STILL CAN!!!
@@somedudeintheinterweb8665 My baby pictures are me being fat lol, its my moms fault for me being fat so young cause of these mcdonalds and all, but now i dont eat that extremely unhealthy stuff and i lift weights for a month now.
I'm overweight (and actively working on it), but I HATE the BP movement. Also: Feminazis shout "Women are strong!" But in the same breath say "Women are sensitive to critisizm!"
@@MesSobble Well, wait a minute. You should still love your body, even tho you're obese. The hard part is loving it enough to do the hard work of taking care of it & changing yourself to be healthier. After all, it's the only body you got. I was borderline obese. 5'8", 257 lbs, 42 yrs old. I'm in the process of losing weight. I'm currently at 229 lbs. It's been slow going (mostly cuz I go out to eat every payday with my hubby & I end up having a few drinks. We call it our "payday dates". 22+ years of marriage; it's the little things lol) but I'm determined to get down to a healthy weight so that I will be around for my grandkids (when I get them). My point (and I swear I have one) is that hating your body isn't going to help you want to change it. You can hate your weight or fitness level if it fuels your desire to change, but not if it depresses you or makes you question why your partner is still with you (I went thru a period of that; after all, if I find my body disgusting, why would my hubby love me? Insecurity isn't good for a relationship). Anyway, take care of yourself. Don't be down on yourself and make small changes at first. They add up surprisingly quickly and can make major changes less of a hardship.
Insulting fat people isn’t good but also complimenting is bad as well. There’s nothing good to be the unrecommended weight, it’s just cutting your life short.
I mean have you seen the current state of the world do you really want to be here for a hundred years to see Society decrease further but would you just want to die at 25 eating 3000 Krispy Kreme donuts that's how I want to go out
symbungee I’m not 100% on how the caloric intake defers from sexes but all I know is most females are smaller then men which means they could eat less and have the amount of energy as a man who ate double their amount. What I’m saying isn’t fact, it’s just a opinion I had. I know there’s special cases like pregnancy where the female has to eat more due to the baby but other then that, they could eat less. If I’m wrong, (which I might be, never did research. Just my opinion from observation) It would be helpful for me to learn where my mistakes are and what the real fact is. I don’t mind a comment that’s opinion based like mine, but I think it’ll be helpful for me and other viewers to know the actual fact from legitimate websites.🙃
I don't like body shamers at all. its cruel. BUT sometimes the people doing the shaming are the people who aren't healthy. Being too skinny is not healthy, but people like lizzos size are too big and they shouldn't praise that. its not healthy
It is fine to be bigger or smaller because even if you are larger you can still be healthy but there is a point where if your at a certain size you are unhealthy like if your obese or extremely skinny
I don't really mind what people do, but here's something funny. Girls in my school like "Be whatever size you wanna be and everyone will love you" whereas if you're a guy and you're chubby (like me) no one likes you. *I love democracy.*
@@Kelly-ew9vf I wouldn't mind dating someone of a bigger size, it's just that in my area if you're a guy who's fat you won't get a shred of attention, yet if you're a girl you're basically worshiped, it makes no sense 🙃
Oh you haven’t heard? Yeah, a female body reached through cardio and not eating like a whale is “unrealistic”, while us men have to look like Ryan Reynolds or Chris Hemsworth.
I’m sorry you feel that way. There’s a girl/guy (whoever ur interested in) out there I’m sure for u. Everyone judges me for dating my bf and saying he’s a twig and whatever and how I’m thick and how he’s gonna be able to handle me because of our size differences. We are both completely healthy and we love each other. Society is messed up and I believe the body positivity should go both ways because men suffer with insecurities too Ik. But that’s society for u and people. They’ll say one thing and do another :/
not just anorexic people but skinny people in general. it's really annoying and draining on my mental health how people automatically assume I have an ED just because I'm underweight, and how people lump skinny people together with anorexic people. I'd appreciate if they were concerned but usually it's an insult or condescension underneath a veil of fake concern. exactly like when people tell fat people to "stop eating cheeseburgers". also, you can be fat or a normal weight and still be anorexic.
basically, body positivity is for people with physical problems that they can't control. it is not a way to just free yourself of all accountability. Even people with problems out of their control should try to work on their body regularly (except of course people who are medically not allowed to perform intense physical activity). even if it doesn't improve your looks, the mental changes brought about by working out or maintaining a healthy diet is amazing. i am a slightly overweight person. i have been working out for some time. although my body hasn't changed very much, the fact that I am doing whatever I can to be healthy results in a huge boost of self esteem.
Just want to say, as a feminist, that that “Feminist” channel doesn’t speak for all of us, and not for me. Thank you for pointing out what feminism actually means and standing up for equality. ✊🏻
Having a bit of overweight isn't bad. Most women have love handles, a belly or bigger thighs and hell we still love you the same. But if people are starting to wonder if they have to call PETA or the coastguard in order to help you back into the ocean, THAT is bad!
Having a bit of fat is completely healthy as well. People seem to think in order to be a "healthy" person you need to be completely shredded, single digit bodyfat, peeled from head to toe. Its just extremely stupid. If you are getting enough exercise and you dont eat like shit, you are probably completely fine.
The body positivity movement should be for people with stuff like facial scars, visible burns, stretch marks, disabilities, amputees, and other uncontrollable things that make them look different. It shouldn’t be a movement to make people feel better about being lazy and eating McDonald’s for every meal.
If I remember correctly, physical deformities and injuries is what the movement was originally about, before it was hijacked by fatasses that didn’t want to be held accountable for their shitty life choices.
My best friend is overweight because she has mental health problems that stop her from leaving the house and her medications make her gain weight. There are a lot of mental disabilities that contribute to weight gain and they shouldn’t have to choose between being thin and being emotionally stable
It really should be a place where everyone can be accepted in. With any scars, burns, stretch marks, disabilities, etc, and for ALL bodies. I thought the movement was for all but I’m quickly not seeing that. I was body shamed in my middle school years (I’m a senior in high school now) and I took those comments seriously and tried to force myself to lose weight. It staved myself and etc. I would hate how I want the one of the “skinny and fit” girls. Till my boyfriend told me how beautiful my body was and o began to accept it for what it was. I did sports in highschool so I had lost some weight. But this isn’t the point. I have a friend whom is considered “skinny” (I try not to use the word skinny since that’s one of her triggering words) who was body shamed. Hearing that from her made me want to spread even more body positivity to ALL bodies and support them in whatever they do! Whenever me and my other friend talked about our body shaming as once “fat” people she felt as if her story wasn’t as important. And I told her it was! Everyone gets bodyshamed! She is trying to gain weight and has told me how her family doesn’t want to cause her body is already “fit”. She has a high metabolism. I told her to do whatever makes her happy, it’s her body not mine. It’s not a slap in the face to us or once “fat” people when a skinny person wants to gain weight. Everyone’s body is different. With that being said, in some “fat” people’s cases it’s very hard to lose the weight. I still feel as though all bodies should be loved. Cause u can still be “fat” and healthy. And “skinny” and unhealthy and Vice versa. I feel as though we should change the movement! It’s alright to gain weight if u are “skinny” especially if u need to cause of how dangerously low ur weight gets! But it’s also alright to be “fat” too just as long as your health isn’t effected. Lizzo is a perfect example of this. She is a “fat” person and she is healthy! ALL BODIES ARE GOOD BODIES! ALL SCARS AND BURNS AND STRETCH MARKS SHOULD BE LOVED BY ALL! we can’t change what we were born with! So yeah... :3 that’s me rant.
The body positivity movement pisses me off because it should be about respecting actual physical deformities and issues and not about finding fat bodies attractive. Not all larger bodies are unhealthy should be made to change but larger bodies SHOULD NOT be fronting the body positivity movement. It should be amputees, burn victims, people with those massive tumors all over their bodies, and a plethora of other people and it should be about respecting them. It should be about seeing those people on the street and not taking a second look or "asking out of curiosity" about their 'issue' We shouldn't be filling any of their comment sections, especially fat peoples, telling them how beautiful and sexy they are. Comment on how nice the picture is or comment on their clothes because body positivity shouldn't be made into "everyone is attractive and you should love them" In conclusion, The body positivity movement should be about respecting uncontrollable physical differences and not how attractive fat people are Edit: spelling and grammar
Women looking at pretty characters in cartoons: "They expect women to look like this?!" Men looking at buff characters in cartoons: "I will start working out to obtain that gigantic muscle frame."
@@nanak3976 I agree, but that shouldn't mean you give up on achieving a healthy Body. Am not focusing on the fact that look like barbie or something. But yeah try and stay as healthy as possible.
Like dude i have seen this horrible texts that go Girl - "how tall are you?" Dude - "how much do you weight?" And the girl goes super mad mode and talks how that doesnt matter and body positivity like... Wtf
@@weenis9950 I kinda understand it if the guy is shorter but if they are the same height it‘s ok but they act like they have to get a boyfriend that is atleast 1 head taller
Woman: He has to look like Chris Hemsworth Man: I would prefer if she wasn't the size of an elephant Woman: *How dare you discriminate someone like that REEEEEEEEEEEEEEE*
That’s because calling someone an elephant is just mean as fuck. It’s not good to condone someone being obese and unhealthy but insulting them isn’t good either.
@@Megan-zp3bo it’s the fact that “feminists” yes that’s in quotations because they aren’t really feminists by definition, think that a man having a preference is just mean and idiotic. But when a female does its ok. What?
@@KnoxzyGaming Having a preference in a partner is fine for both men and women, I literally couldn’t care less. But telling somebody you don’t find them attractive because they look like an elephant is just mean.
@@Megan-zp3bo ok? It is not rude, it is just a preference like who cares what other people think of you right? People assume the worst of when a male has a preference, just because he has a preference does not mean he is just plain rude
@@DemonHeart719 people who hate the people who say this movement is bad. If that makes any sense. I honestly probably wrote what I wrote wrong, I'm tired rn so I probably explained it terribly
lets be honest guys, "body positivity" is just a way to throw accountability out the window. (except when it comes to people with physical disorders they cant control).
I effing hate this toxic culture! I hate my body type, but society says 'hunny you're beautiful 😍 ' Like.. thanks.. but I hate how i can't find any clothes that fit me
Its not really toxic for people to appreciate all body types... Its different when theyre just promoting being unhealthy. No one, including you, should feel like shit just because of their body type
@@mrs.doctor1241 totally agree, but if you're promoting being unhealthy, it's unethical.. if you have medical problems, and that's causing it, ok. But if you're just eating chips while binge watching netflix, that's a problem
@@HepatitisLord Even not SLIGHTLY, chubby but healthy is still right, thin but healthy is right too, if it doesn't affect her health or her way of exercising, then it doesn't matter
ikr despicable. What's even more tragic is that men who would do what these "empowering" women are doing would cause them to face the prospect of being lonely for the rest of their lives, forcing them into immense pressure because of fear and sadly even suicide, when on the women's side they support such ones. If feminists can justify this then I'll join them lol (only because they can't)
Unfortunately wishfull thinking pipe dreams are all the rage right now reality is racing to wipe us all out. We must find the magic to get us through. Has anybody got any magic beans to counter deforestation or a magic lamp to rub cos i might go blind otherwise? th-cam.com/video/i-mPYtGRUyY/w-d-xo.html
I'm reading an isekai manhwa (not a manga) with a girl who has to lose weight. She makes this statement: "A woman who can't control her weight can't control her life"
If I am not wrong Manga:Japanese Manhua:Chinese Manhwa:Korean. Also, if it's not too much to ask can someone recommend me some sites to read the manhuas and manhwas? I used to use WebComics, Manga Kisa, WebComics, Zin Manga and stuff but sometimes I can't access those sites. Pretty please🙏
If I am not wrong Manga:Japanese Manhua:Chinese Manhwa:Korean. Also, if it's not too much to ask can someone recommend me some sites to read the manhuas and manhwas? I used to use WebComics, Manga Kisa, WebComics, Zin Manga and stuff but sometimes I can't access those sites. Pretty please🙏
and then this begs the question, why SHOULD a woman have to control her weight? why should a woman have to worry on if their body is attractive? why have we as a society placed so much importance on attractiveness?
I feel like being confident and loving yourself is a good thing. But love yourself enough to get in a better shape. Like, okay, you're obese, love your body, but lose weight.
"Body positivity" isn't the "fat acceptance", the body positivity movement is about loving your small boobs, small butt, cellulite, hip dips etc. Traits seen on skinny women also. Fat acceptance is... Self-explanatory.
It is about loving and respecting ur body. PERIODT!!! EVERY BIDY SIZE!! Not just small boobs, titts, ass and cellite on 'skinny' girls, wtf u talking about
@@thevavyshow1484 at the end of the day it comes to calories in-calories out. Yes our bodies are all different but everyone can get to a healthy weight.
this is so true. we're not hating on the people, we just don't want to see them put themselves through that unhealthy lifestyle. then they attack US because they say we're body shaming. like, no, we just want you to be healthy! being overweight is not healthy and can cause very serious health problems, including death. so please, we're just trying to help. being overweight isn't "beautiful", it's life threatening. now im not saying you cant be beautiful if you're obese. you can be the kindest and sweetest person, and you can be truly physically beautiful, but being overweight and not taking care of yourself is not.
@Emily Garcia Totally agree with you, no one wants to see anyone become the victim of their own unhealthy lifestyle. The first step is always the hardest but I’ve noticed that - as harsh as this sounds - a lot of very obese and/or very thin people (I am generalizing a lot here because there a lot more other body types than just obese and thin) are in denial of their own health. Look, everyone should love their selves, should believe that they are truly beautiful, but don’t let that blind you from your own health.
I had an argument about this with my younger sister who lives in Berlin. Why do i mention this? Because since she lives there it made her such a native, blinded follower of who ever screams the loudest. She called me privileged because I have a shredded body. I never knew that my body's current physique was made in one magical moment instead of constant discipline. And btw it's no suffering, I don't even have a super strict diet. I might have an advantage with my genetics but on the other side my genetics make it almost impossible for me to have warm hands and feet when it's cold. Hahaha I've got super high respect for everyone who works so hard to get back to a healthy weight! What I don't like is this false body positivity that doesn't show "normal" weight but always the extremes. Sorry but we're not rooting body positivity for anorexic people either, are we?
Well apparently thin people are privileged according to some of them now. Too bad if thin people are extremely thin can't put on weight or muscle because they suffer from one of many metabolic illnesses that can do that to you, what a privilege. Do people even know what the word "privilege" means? You can go to the most disadvantaged places on earth and I'll guarantee almost all inhabitants will be thin as twigs with bloated stomachs. Go to the most privileged places on earth, like here in Australia, everyone happens to be fat. Interesting correlation that.
@@jai8064 There are insane people out there who believe those starving African children have thin privilege. I have seen posts about that. The disconnect from reality is extreme with some people. It's insanity.
man movements: loose weight, get stronger, improve yourself, become a better version girls movement: get fat, don't shave, eat unhealthy, you're beautiful
@@atlas1924 You are a good person. No matter what others say or expect of you, always think for your own well-being first and then evaluate if the situation is managable. You are probably kind to those close to you and you should never stop showing them this kindness, because that makes you a Hero for them. Your body is like a temple: Take care of it and hold it clean. The quality will lead to a healthier and better lifestyle. In short: You are already beautiful, just believe in yourself more. You can do it.
@@monsieurnaggert3134 to be honest you’re nice but I personally dislike general compliments from strangers, it feels insincere and fabricated. Like How’s a stranger gonna know if I’m shit or not
body positvity is great if it’s talking about not following societies standards of beauty but when it comes to obesity and sugarcoating it (pun intended) isn’t ok. and neither is body shaming men just because women couldn’t take the same shit that gets said to men. i’m all for body positivity but when it gets to this it’s just terrible.
John Gray i don’t see anything wrong with having standards it’s like telling someone they have to eat brussel sprouts even if they don’t like them because if they don’t it’s singling something out because of its flavour 🤦♀️ i got standards and there’s nothing wrong with guys having them either
Yup. Everyone has things they're looking for in a partner, both physical and mental. It just so happens that 'looks healthy' is hardcoded into most people's preferences for evolutionary reasons. One problem is that body positivity seems to have been somewhat hijacked. I recall seeing some pictures of plus-sized models a little over a decade ago and... well, there was nothing wrong. They had good figures, generally looked healthy, were well proportioned and without seeing their measurements or some other indicator of scale in the photos, you wouldn't necessarily be able to tell they were "plus sized" at all - they were big, but more "Gwendoline Christie" big than... what we were shown in the video. I think they were a little bit broader compared to their height than typical wasp-waisted waifs, but there's always going to be a bit of variation in that respect. They were probably fitter, stronger, and had less excess body fat (taking into account that women have a higher healthy body fat percentage than men) than myself. And then we have... well, what was shown in the video. Now, I'm sure that ACTUAL "plus-sized models" are probably still more likely to be what I described because you can't get away with being too disconnected from reality when you're in a business, but there's a big difference between calling out that expecting most women to be like Barbie is unrealistic on the one hand, and enabling unhealthy lifestyles on the other.
Body Positivity was hijacked by the ‘Fat Acceptance’ movement- it’s NOT meant to be the same thing; I learnt that originally, the Body Positive movement was about encouraging positivity & acceptance for those who had lost limbs, or the like... God, ‘Fat Acceptance’ is vile...
Seems to be a common trend for these movements which premise with good intentions get hijacked by a bunch of irrational, misrepresenting degenerates. All these people go on about how evil society is and what they demand from it, but they literally just dominate and silence actual reformative movements which were doing positive things and really pursuing the original idea of progressivism for the sake of getting the attention they want quickly, rather than forming a movement of their own ground up.
this channel is nothing but someone pointing out the very real flaws in controversies and I fucking love it cus everything he says is true and reliable to someone who has taken a second look at these things, this channal dieserves a subsctiption good on you mate
Me: *underweight, insecure, unsure, have been on diet, has a lot of risk factors* Feminism: *dissmiss* A fat women: *unhealthy enough to die* Feminism: "QuEeN"
They say if you don’t have a preference for fat women then you’re fat phobic. You wouldn’t go up to a gay guy and say “Hey you’re sexist for not having a preference for women.” 🤦♀️
As someone who is overweight, there is nothing positive about it. As such, I have been bullied for a very long time and lost confidence in myself. To counter all of that, I have now been with a personal trainer for a month and a half and have been attending the gym for the past 6 months. I used to weigh 90kg and now I weigh 82kg.
I am a girl that like girls, and a feminist, here is what I think about body positivity; As long as woman loves her body, yay, you go girl (I just hope it doesn't affect your health later on) But I wouldn't date/marry someone who doesn't take care of her body. It's my choice, there is a difference between fat-shaming and having standards/a preference. I'm not sure if what I said really defines the mouvement, it's just my opinion
Your opinion is ok, and we all make choices about what we're attracted to. That's ok too. l sence that if you have a friend who is obese, you will not shame them in any way. And you will not make THEIR fat related health YOUR concern.
then you are fatphobic (according to the SJWs). Same with "trans" people saying nowadays if men that don't wanna date biological males that call themsleves "trans females"....they are trans-phobic. Basically, these people try to DICTATE the prefernces / opinions / life of OTHERS.
They have a positive perception of their blubber. They're no doubt part of the positivity movement which is all about positivism and spreading the positive. Except when it comes to their outlook on life, their attitude to self improvement, and fitness, other people's opinions, reality, accountability and self awareness, things of that nature. ALL of those things, they dislike. Just as they dislike themselves.
People when they see nikocado avacado: *tells him to actually lose weight* People when they see a fat woman that is 2x fatter:OMG SO BEAUTIFUL QUEEN🥺🥺 people when we tell a fat woman the same thing we say to nikocado avacado: OMG STOP MAKING FUN OF HER GET A LIFE 🤬🤬🤬
The goal of the actual body positivity movement is not for people who use it as an excuse to get fat and then say that you are fat shaming it is for the people who actually have a more heavy set body type and they can’t change it
I am 14 and overweight at 230 pounds. My whole life I was shamed for being bigger than everyone else. I was told that when my family ate pasta I wasn't allowed to, when they ate ice cream I wasn't allowed to. It got to the point where most nights I wouldn't eat because my family couldn't afford healthy foods, often falling back into the convenience rather than what was healthy. I am not saying that encouraging people to be overweight or saying that it is good to be overweight. I just think that people posting about how no matter what weight or body shape you have that you are beautiful can help a lot of people. Also, just because you are okay with not looking like everyone else does not mean that you 'gave up'.
Being a overweight dude sucks, we are shamed for it and girls are called brave and powerfull. If I took a pic that looks like the beginning of the video I would be bullied for the rest of my life, please don't make the same choices I did!
Start with easy stuff and work your way up. Take a walk every day just for 30 minutes and daydream while you do it. Time will pass quickly and soon you will start feeling better. 🤘
People aren't bullied "for" something. You might make yourself a more obvious target, though. The real reason dudes don't want to be fat (even after school) is that it's harder to find a mate. They have a real reason to care about their looks, other than women, who obsess about the judgement of other women and gays - about stuff, not hetero guy would ever think about.
Keep in Mind Bullies are Just Insecure Assholes that Try to make themselves feel better by insulting Others No matter how Handsome,Fit or Successful you are Some Bully will find something to insult you about Not getting Bullied isn't a Legitimate reason for you to lose Weight/get fit you really just say " Fuck you" to those Assholes and Ignore them However you should lose weight so you can Feel Better about yourself and Have more Confidence,Be and Feel Healthier and Get A Girl/date easier
@@ShahidKarim-rz2ep that humans have to be a weird species if there is number of them that think they are different from most other life forms on the planet where certain characteristics define reproductive role
Biology does define your sex we don't have to be weird we are humans and different from other animals is because we have a intellect and and is self aware and a constant learning
@@kietse Some species have been shown to be self-aware. Infamous one is ants with blue dots. Intellect is relative. e.g. Orcas, ravens and pigs can be shown to be intelligent and some species of ants engage in farming. So do think it is weird that some humans believe they are above nature
Yutah just because you can think about your favorite late night show and contemplate poetry doesn’t mean a panther wouldn’t fuck you up if you were near one
Hey Mrs butterfield, I just wanted to tell you that at the start of this year I was about 70-80 pounds overweight, I was tired all the time and I always felt bad abt the way people looked at me. One of your videos about body positivey give me the spirt to lose weight and work out when the bug hit the world, about 6 month later I have lost about 30 pounds and I hope to lose more
Cringemaster27 dude We all know how hard it is but you have to give up things to get things, personally I had to give up a lot of time I spent play video games with my friends and avoiding high calories food, in fact I have learn to skip one meal and eat a healthy snack instead, all I can say is we need to hang in there and continue and we will reach our goals
i agree with the "if we all ate the same meals and did the same workouts..." one everyones genetics are different and different people will need to try a bit harder to achieve a body theyre happy with or at least a healthy one. However, that doesnt mean you should just give up and be like oh im fat so that should be okay and be considered healthy
It's one thing to hate the sinner, it's another thing to celebrate the sin. The unpardonable sin - self righteousness. Body positivity is "self esteem" wrapped in fat. Esteem comes from the eyes of others, this is how you get along in a society. When esteem comes from the self, you get Democrats.
Well if we’re talking *very* technically, woman isn’t a biological term- only male and female are biological terms so in a sense they’re right, since gender isn’t biological and it’s something cultural.
@@gungeternal4119 yeah, by all means im not agreeing. Feminists want equality, but then contradict themselfs by lusciously thinking being overweight and obese is "ok" for women. and is a life choice so we shouldn't judge. But if it where a man, by all means take the piss. Its pathetic really.
I believe that it isn’t wrong to love yourself at any weight. Health isn’t just about physical health, but mental health, too. However, it gets to a point where there are negative effects on your physical health too and that does need to be changed. However, you have to love yourself first. The amount of people, including myself, who went into dieting hating on their bigger body and then developed an eating disorder is crazy. I feel a lot of people need to understand also, that skinny does not always mean healthy. And I’m not talking about people who are severely underweight, or those who honestly struggle to put on weight, I’m talking about those with a fast metabolism. For example, my brother. He’s skinnier than me, but eats far more (and is very much so into anything sweet). So, yeah, it’s not all black and white for me. Of course, just my opinion.
Body positivity is fine. But promoting obesity, promoting unhealthy behavior, is not great. If you're curvy? Fantastic. If you're happy and staying healthy thats fantastic. People who gorge on food and say we should be fine with their bodies, though, ehhh. Its not that we arent cool with you being fat. Moreso we're not okay with watching you slowly kill yourself. But I will say, to all the comments here. Making fun of fat people isnt doing anything but hurting them more. Making fun of them doesn't help them in any way. Instead, if you truly want to help, work with them. Teach them healthier recipes. teach them that its not okay to do this to themselves. Help them get better. But dont berate them, dont attack them. That isnt helping, thats just being an asshole.
Exactly!! I hate it when that concept is being taken as a joke..you can still be big and be healthy if you don't have any health problems regarding being..big, BUT if you're developing cankles and close to being bed ridden?? Lose the weight while you still can.
I burned 16 kilo’s so far in 3 months. Am 15 years old and went from 75 to 59 kilo’s. I’ve been struggling with my weight for my whole life, did every diet and went to dietitians but now I managed to lose a lot of weight by my self. I’m wayyyy happier with my body now and my confidence is trough the roof :)
@@beausweater sure! Not sure if these tips work for everyone but they worked for me lol. One thing that you first have to think really hard about is: are you willing to give up all junk food and snacks to lose weight? No cheat days, no one piece of candy a day. If not, then it would be best to let others help you instead of doing it yourself. At this point of time you have to be really strict on yourself. It’s okay to snack of course but if you do, it has to be something healthy. Like fruit or veg. But mainly just focus on your calorie intake, I try to be around 1000 - 1500 a day. I actually lost 20 kilo’s at the time of writing this lol. Also, be sure to move around, you don’t have to work out, I didn’t either lol but you have to move around normally, for example. Walking or biking to the store instead of driving with your car. Look, if I can do it, anybody can, you just have to be absolutely committed
There was this girl in my school who supported body positivity and BLM and she called me a hippo and her friend told me to go eat curry cuz I’m Indian... what a bunch of hypocrites
1. How does she support body positivity when she calls you a hippo and encourages you to eat more? 2. How is she a blm supporter when she says racial stereotypes with the curry?
@@OcarinaSapphr- yeah they supported BLM and body positivity not because they cared about those movements but because they just wanna seem like a good person when in reality they aren’t
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Nice
yep
If you wanted equality you'd be an equalist
Hey Isaac thought you might wanna hear my oppinion, this was posted below too. All these women saying oh that weight is impossible, my mum went down from 95 kg to 64 kg in about 5-6 months, her two goal weights are 62 kg and then hopefully 58 kg, so its not impossible and i know that because i have seen how possible it is, im so proud of my mum and im so glad she made it this far, glad for her health mentally and physically and that i wont loose my mum. Its not impossible but the way most people act makes it improbable, peace out!!
If you want a feminazi to take a look at, Journalist Katie.
As someone who is slightly overweight, there is nothing positive been fat.
GuitarsRockForever LMAOOOOOOOO
Lololololol cant believe u said that
You should start losing some weight mate,start out with your diet. Slowly but surely you'll lose weight
I can relate, however I’m trying recently to cut down my food portions to help, and I’m exercising more.
@@luckydepressedguy8981
I have been (but to be honest, not very hard), with my weight went down and up (latest stress in life not been friendly either).
But I have enough self awareness to know fat is no good.
Body positivity should be for people with birth defects, amputees, burn victims, etc
now this i agree very much
Yeah not people who can't put down the cake
I absolutely agree with that
Sophia Drees time to phase out the phrase “let them eat cake”
@@mssophiad03 and feminist is all about equaly for women not about abusing equaly for selfish desire
As a chubby kid ( my body fat is mostly visible around my stomach and thighs) i can confirm its not fun, body shaming is bad, but praising people eating their way to their graves ain't cool either.
but how are exactly promoting it ? In the video the overweight/obese people were just existing as they are
@@lilisco9957 well being ok with your body is fine and all but people who don't tell someone that their lifestyle is unhealthy and needs to improve it even a little is better than saying you should just be yourself! Nothing to fix
I also can confirm as a sort of chubby kid everyone would make fun of me, yet there is this girl who is way fatter then me who gets praised for being lazy while I am here being made fun of because I am doing laps around the school field...
@@t3d585 Dont be jealous because even though the bullying hurts, sometimes bullying can change someone for the better. Like glowups basically. If you work hard, you will have an amazing glowup! You dont need to have muscles or abs or a six pack, just be in the appropriate weight range for your age and height. You got this bro!! ❤😜
Its not really praising people being chubby it's learning to love yourself mentally and emotionally
I'm tired of society.
All of these movements boil down to this phrase:
"Equality for me, but none for thee"
Well said
Indeed
EXACTLYYYY
That is extremely PROFOUND and so true!!!!
some of these equality things actually move more to privilege fishing
if women are patronised by men, men
- open the door
- allow them to walk first
- allow them to sit down
- give their seat
lalala soasf. but women being equal to men would not give a woman these privileges anymore. they’re apparently equal to men, they’re just as strong, soasf. some women in these mvts still ask for privileges. but you’re equal to men now, so stop it.
sorry for rant, i’m a girl as well but realised that some of that feminist stuff doesn’t work
What body-positivity should be:
For people who have suffered acid attacks
For people born with birth defects (born without arms, legs, hands, head, whatever)
For people who have been through horrible accidents, and suffered (for example) burns to large portions of their body, having lost body parts as a result.
For people who have lost limbs in other ways.
Et cetera.
What body-positivity is:
this
there is absolutely no birth defect in the world that causes babies to be born without a head. if such did exist, they would be dead. just to let ya know
@@chezborgr1117 lmao, that's how the headless horseman was born
that’s how it was originally founded until fat activism hijacked and hid under its umbrella in order to buttress their propaganda, bro :0
@@0verpricedcoffee553 ok fair enough
@@0verpricedcoffee553 Fun fact - you can actually be born without parts of your brain and even skull. It's called Anencephaly
The thing that I hate about “body positivity” is they shame thin people.
EXACTLY
ive been called a stick so many times.
Aish, I agree like for me, it's hard to gain weight when it drops back down then goes up to gain. Like thin people has circumstances too
Yes-they are stupid lying bastards who hate everything good and love everything evil
@@gamerguy6495 Same bro same😭
As a black woman and over the age of 20, I have very few friends who support my healthy lifestyle. I had a coworker spread a rumor that I was anorexic because I eat salads for lunch every day. Mind you, I am not that thin, I am tall, 5'9, and weigh 140 lbs. I am a normal size woman, but most women I know in the midwest over the age of 30 are pushing 200 lbs, eat horribly and never work out. What do they expect? I understand that working out is hard and eating fewer sucks, but it is worth it. I like being fit and healthy and giving my husband a hard-on. I do it for me and him! These women need to get help and leave me alone.
One thing people underestimate is how good it feels to be a lighter healthy weight just in everyday life. I'm a 5'10" dude and I weighed 145 a couple years ago and bulked up to 180, and even though I'm more muscular and still pretty lean I miss how easy running felt when I was around 145. Being over 200 lbs, especially if I was shorter, would be horrible. You just couldn't move around well.
When I'm at a normal weight fat women always say I'm "too skinny." No you're just used to seeing fat people. I'm in Illinois lol
im a guy and you could say im underweight without a doubt xD im 6feet tall and weigh 110lbs and let me tell you i get way more picked on then fat guys and it is hard for me to gain weight but its not impossible. i would need to pull myself together and work out
@@l.h.9747 shit dude, that's scary thin. Lifting would be good but I wouldn't worry about that until you're at least 150 lbs or so. Focus on just eating.
@@onlinealias622 thats not easy. I tried that but my body doesnt seem to be efficient in taking calories that arent needed and i feel extremely sick when i overeat. With that come some anxiety issues that cause stomach cramps and digestive problems when im nervous xD so working out seems to be the only way
Spaghetti is actually very healthy, the Italian diet is one of the healthiest on the planet, it's the portion sizes that fatten you.
Exactly! I’m sure I’ve seen a video somewhere explaining how Italians tend to be far slimmer than Americans/British people because they have MUCHHH smaller portion sizes
I like spaghetti
Way too true.
Spot on, when my dad eats spaghetti he has a large plate piled FULL and thinks I "don't eat enough" because I just have a small bowl lol
The sauce is actually healthy and has vegetables etc its the big pile of pasta thats not 😂
That’s literally what he said in the video
“Your partner doesn’t determine your sexuality”. Maybe not, but my sexuality determines my partner.
Intelligence 100%
i think they’re referring to sexualities like bisexuality and pansexuality, meaning just because someone who identifies as a sexuality that likes more than one gender is dating someone of the opposite gender is straight or the same gender is gay, for a shorter example i’ll use bisexuality, if a bisexual woman dates a man she’s not straight and if she dates a woman she’s not a lesbian, she’s still just as bisexual
Depends how fussy you are
@@michaelstewart9308 true. People can identify as they want, no matter how open or strict that may be.
@@safayamohamed7074 I was thinking of that too
The only positive thing is the test they are gonna take for diabetes.
@@SA-nt3wh The diabetes beat me to it.
@@SA-nt3wh Well it was him or Diabetes, a heart attack, colesterol or a stroke
@@pizzatime.7030 2 gold comments in one section ur on a roll and not a bread roll.
@@meloncito7020 The heart attack will kill them last (or at least try to). Or even if it’s not a heart attack, your immune system will later kill you. For example, my grandfather almost died from a heart attack and died from an infection 15 years later after said attack (He died 7 years ago)
Oh I'm still so proud of me!!
ok so this is MY opinion,
Being obese is not healthy, but you shouldn’t drown yourself in it, go out and live your life and be happy. But you need to set goals.
Maddddd facts
underrated comment
Yes I agree this is what body positivity is
The thing is, what you just said is a fact, not just an opinion.
Totally. Getting depressed about it is how you dig a deeper hole and end up consuming more and gaining more. Everyone deserves happiness, but that's not the same as just deciding to be content and ignore a serious physical health issue.
I have scars in my face, burns on my arm, leg, stomach, back of my head, and armpit. I'm learning to love these burns and scars is this considered body positivity.
Yeah, anyone would look badass with those scars
Yess
agreed, also nice going with loving your self :)
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
now that's the true form of self-love
The fat acceptance movement is the only movement that doesn’t feature any actual movement
This right here
Does Jiggling count?
But they roll about
I love how they say some people are born like it : no ones born 200lb overweight ffs
Whoaaaaaaa
I'm okay with loving your body until people start using that as an excuse for not taking care of their health and body. I just think it is really sad for those people who will be dealing with all those awful Chronic diseases later on
Exactly right
And their children will suffer too
@@blitzmau7952 Yes. And that's the saddest part. Their children will most like learn their habits and it'll be a vicious cycle. Unless someone breaks the cycle.
Exactly, some people say they are not changing themselves just to please other people, and I think.. Well, ok?? But most of the time I see people who say this, they don't take care of themselves.
I completely agree, its obviously not wrong to love your body as it is but that doesn't mean you can use that to your advantage
I'm ok with any shape or size, as long as they're healthy. Some people are normalizing obesity, which isn't healthy.
edited for more clarity
in the words of the spy "You died as you lived, morbidly obese,"- Spy, TF2
It’s literally just someone existing on social media.
@@lilisco9957 yeah, but they are living unhealthy lifestyles which is bad for anyone who wants to live long. And saying nothing to improve the lifestyle of these people is quite frankly horrible
Not really like I agree the woman in the first photo should try to consult with a health professional but I don’t know her situation so I can’t fully assume she can get the help she may or may not need
exactly my opinion, normalizing obesity is just... not okay, especially for younger people
Being positive about your body is actually really important. Scars, birthmarks and so on are nothing anyone should be ashamed of. Even if you’re plus-sized, you deserve to love yourself. But the important part of loving yourself is taking care of yourself. Please take care of yourselves.
Ladies and gentlemen, we found the truth.
As an overweight person, I completely agree, it sucks
Advice
1.buy 2 weights (5 kg will do )
2. Do some stretching before you life weights
3. Go jogging
4. Cut your diet
I suggest you ask your personal doctor for a way to loose weight they usually able to find the right diet, exercise, so that you can be healthy and feel a lot better :D
Do some basic weights, then light but long cardio(walk for a few hours if you're not busy) make sure to stretch, take a cold bath every once and a while and don't eat "healthy" aka no nutrients, make sure to get a proper fill of food but just lower your carb intake for now which is sugar and bread as well as stuff like it, which isn't that hard, you can eat all the meat you want(unless vegetarian) avoid basically everything other than water for drinking, and make sure to have a cheat day, I recommend it to be on your rest day as well, as a good basic work out shouldn't leave your extremely sore every day but after 6 days take a rest, if you want more detailed advice just ask ok? Stay healthy
It doeesss
Im overweight too but i go for a walk with my dog in the afternoon and come back when its already night
What i hate about the whole "body positivity" movement is that they say they are all for celebrating all women and not judging others based on weight, height, scars, etc. Yet then they shame women for being "too skinny" and calling them "twigs" and "anorexic", which is definitely NOT positive. Like i have a permanent chemical burn on my face that will never go away and it makes my skin very red and dry and if i don't wear makeup you can clearly see it. To me how i deal with this is by covering it up and not making a big deal of it if people see it, and i spread positivity by not judging others who have scars, defects, burns, etc. But saying "oh it's okay for me to be 700 pounds but fuck all you skinny women go eat a burger or something you're so anorexic" is not okay. If you wanna be 600+ pounds, then that is your decision, but shaming others for their weight while at the same time getting mad if someone does the same to you is not okay, it's hypocrisy.
Right?? like it's ridiculous. Why say "all bodies are beautiful" if you're just gonna judge the ones that don't fit your narrative.
@@biblicallyaccurateangel4433 Exactly, like i've heard so many bigger women making fun of ppl skinnier than them and even woman their size or smaller who are on diets, and none of that is okay, especially if they are gonna preach "body positivity" and "all women are beautiful no matter of body shape or size"
Thank you, at this point being skinny does make me feel kind of insecure. I'm 115 lbs but I've got such a fast metabolism that its extremely hard to gain any weight. I dont have a big chest, nor a big butt. I try to be comfortable with myself but it's hard sometimes. There was a coworker I had at my last job that had told someone else that I told him I wanted him to take my v card. I'm 21 and fine by myself, just trying to focus on myself and get my life together first. So when someone told me and i confronted him about it, he got defensive, claiming he didnt say it. And before i left, he began to insult me, saying that I was too bony for him, that ive got nothing, I'm a twig, and he wouldnt touch me with a 10 ft pole. I never asked him to do that in the first place, and couldn't care less for his opinion but it still hurt to hear bc I know it's true. And on top of that im black/white biracial, and theres the whole idea that theyre all these beautiful women with mixed features and theyre also thicc. Sure ive got blonde hair and hazel eyes, but for a lot of people, the thickness is most important and I lack all of it. It makes me kind of feel inadequate compared to other women, especially other mixed women. But i still try to keep my head up and move along!
Best comment on here, they have far too many double standards to be taken seriously. The skinny one always has annoyed me since I've been on both extreme sides of the spectrum, but I'm happier being skinny.
They shame people for losing weight and being happy about it..
man rejects fat woman: wow discriminating fat people
woman rejects fat man: it’s her choice
Well said
Women, use the bodies of PRO athletes, PRO actors, PROFESSIONAL RUNWAY MODELS etc, as examples of the female body that they want everyone to know is an impossible standard to attain...
... They use REAL women's bodies, to show what an impossible standard is...
... They point to the bodies of women who have WORKED their ASS off, and say that it's impossible -_-
uhhhhh, bitch is you dumb, you literally just used the body of a VERY REAL existing person, in order to show me the body you can't get : /
@@admjadajmd I do support what you're trying to get at, but many professional models have had surgery, so that's really not a naturally possible body type. 👀
It's like calling a male body builder who has taken steroids as an attainable body type.
@@dr.anaB777 I mean leave out em surgeries
U can atleast get off dat big ass bean bag with dat large 12 size pizza and like take a walk and do sum excersises,
Sry for the bad English it is not my first language
Ok back to the topic like fat people can lose weight
This woman to man: don't blame you.
I need body positivity because I recovered from anorexia. Honestly, it bothers me that people try to take it away from people like me. It took me 4 years to get healthy again. On days where I feel like I shouldn't have recovered, it's helpful to look at people who I find attractive to see that they are similar to me, so I should be attractive too
Just be yourself
Stay healthy. You are fine and you will be fine.
I'm proud of you!
Listen to the doctor
I’m proud!
As a bloke who is overweight, I had been diagnosed with osteoarthritis in my left knee at 21, my hip plays up due to a bursa which was diagnosed when I was 18 and I'm already sure the arthritis has made its way to developing on my right knee (I am now 22). Due to there being no fix for my knee I will be living my life in pain and constantly saying to myself "Why did I lose the weight?" every fucking time my knee plays up. Not only that my family has a history of heart issues and other medical problems due to being overweight and other factors I'm sure.
I was 100.8 kg (Roughly 222lbs for those who don't use metric) when I weighed myself some time ago. With the support of my gf who she herself has been working on improving her physical health and my family I started doing the Keto diet. It's been frustrating, downright tedious at times but guess what... IT'S FUCKING WORKING! As of my recent weigh-in I am 91kg (200lbs) and dropping pant sizes, not only that my arthritis doesn't bother me as often and the bursa has been relatively tame. Also to note, I don't find myself getting short of breath as much as I used to and I've been able to perform better in the job I work in which consists of moving around and lifting weighty objects.
So all those idiots who are proud to be overweight, take it from someone who's already paid the price and is trying to stop any more complications from developing: LOSE THE WEIGHT WHILE YOU STILL CAN!!!
Wtf im 15, 110kg and i have no problems or diseases at all, i took a blood test, nothing
@@dislikebutton1712 how long have you been like that?
@@somedudeintheinterweb8665 My baby pictures are me being fat lol, its my moms fault for me being fat so young cause of these mcdonalds and all, but now i dont eat that extremely unhealthy stuff and i lift weights for a month now.
@@dislikebutton1712 are you "ripped"
@@dislikebutton1712 if you’re 110kg of mostly muscle you’re honestly fine. I’m overweight in *fat*.
The fat acceptance movement is the only movement that doesn't require any movement
Thank you Issac you inspired me to be healthier than I used to be
What a legendary comment
Idc if this is copied or not,thank you for spreading this amazing comment
wOw I hAvE nEvEr SeEn ThAt JoKe BeFoRe
I actually just typed it i didn't check any of the other comments, I don't know if anyone also commented the same
I'm overweight (and actively working on it), but I HATE the BP movement.
Also: Feminazis shout "Women are strong!" But in the same breath say "Women are sensitive to critisizm!"
Never heard the second one tbh
Agree with u, I’m an obese girl and I hate of that stupid comments of body positive that tries to make me love my disgusting and obese body
@@MesSobble Well, wait a minute. You should still love your body, even tho you're obese. The hard part is loving it enough to do the hard work of taking care of it & changing yourself to be healthier. After all, it's the only body you got.
I was borderline obese. 5'8", 257 lbs, 42 yrs old. I'm in the process of losing weight. I'm currently at 229 lbs. It's been slow going (mostly cuz I go out to eat every payday with my hubby & I end up having a few drinks. We call it our "payday dates". 22+ years of marriage; it's the little things lol) but I'm determined to get down to a healthy weight so that I will be around for my grandkids (when I get them).
My point (and I swear I have one) is that hating your body isn't going to help you want to change it. You can hate your weight or fitness level if it fuels your desire to change, but not if it depresses you or makes you question why your partner is still with you (I went thru a period of that; after all, if I find my body disgusting, why would my hubby love me? Insecurity isn't good for a relationship).
Anyway, take care of yourself. Don't be down on yourself and make small changes at first. They add up surprisingly quickly and can make major changes less of a hardship.
@@lilisco9957 It's inferred with how they react to any criticism.
@@sarasunshinemt4444 no, i don’t want, I’m exhausted of people forcing to love my self so please stop saying that things
It’s kinda funny that the feminist account is run by two men
yea it’s a business 🤷♂️
wait fr????? how come no one told me 🕴️
They use 13 year old white girls for cash
Not men but by soybois
@@amc-world3956 that's called opportunist. Always alright as long no one harmed
Insulting fat people isn’t good but also complimenting is bad as well. There’s nothing good to be the unrecommended weight, it’s just cutting your life short.
@Jake Roberts How on earth is that good? Just an asshole mate.
I agree with squishymarshme11ow u cant insult a fat person cus it’s bad but u can’t compliment them as well it’s so hard
I mean have you seen the current state of the world do you really want to be here for a hundred years to see Society decrease further but would you just want to die at 25 eating 3000 Krispy Kreme donuts that's how I want to go out
@@627native if you think being happy is eating twice your body weight then you really don't have a good outlook on life.
@@finleycampbell2756 Insulting people gets them to do shit; have you ever seen Gordan Ramsey? Sometimes you give 'em the hard truth.
This is the only movement where people refuse to move.
:-D ;-D good one...
Original
Ha ha ha ha ha ! Exactly 👏🏼
"Just because I'm a girl doesn't mean I have to eat less"
Why would it matter that you eat less? Since when was dinner a competition?
This had me laughing
Oh my gosh.
I'm a girl.... yes it does matter!
The caloric intake is very different between the sexes.
symbungee I’m not 100% on how the caloric intake defers from sexes but all I know is most females are smaller then men which means they could eat less and have the amount of energy as a man who ate double their amount. What I’m saying isn’t fact, it’s just a opinion I had. I know there’s special cases like pregnancy where the female has to eat more due to the baby but other then that, they could eat less. If I’m wrong, (which I might be, never did research. Just my opinion from observation) It would be helpful for me to learn where my mistakes are and what the real fact is. I don’t mind a comment that’s opinion based like mine, but I think it’ll be helpful for me and other viewers to know the actual fact from legitimate websites.🙃
@@symbungee wooosh!
ETA: Apparently even a conversation about it, is a competition.
Since I raced my dad on who could eat the most
Body positivity seems like a kid learning piano and their parents tells them that they're officially piano experts just by smashing random keys 😂😅
I don't like body shamers at all. its cruel. BUT sometimes the people doing the shaming are the people who aren't healthy. Being too skinny is not healthy, but people like lizzos size are too big and they shouldn't praise that. its not healthy
I think the point is that people should strive to be healthy, not super skinny or not super large.
@strawberry smith "I'm ugly and I'm proud"
Spongebob knew all along.
@@marinaluvsamarie if that's her healthy then that's her concern but we don't need people thinking it's okay to mistreat their bodies
It is fine to be bigger or smaller because even if you are larger you can still be healthy but there is a point where if your at a certain size you are unhealthy like if your obese or extremely skinny
Gina Mcgaven.
How did you come up with that conclusion?...so coz she looks bigger you assume she's unhealthy
I don't really mind what people do, but here's something funny.
Girls in my school like "Be whatever size you wanna be and everyone will love you" whereas if you're a guy and you're chubby (like me) no one likes you. *I love democracy.*
I'm still trying to figure out why fat people won't date each other
@@Kelly-ew9vf I wouldn't mind dating someone of a bigger size, it's just that in my area if you're a guy who's fat you won't get a shred of attention, yet if you're a girl you're basically worshiped, it makes no sense 🙃
Imma drop an oof for you
Oh you haven’t heard? Yeah, a female body reached through cardio and not eating like a whale is “unrealistic”, while us men have to look like Ryan Reynolds or Chris Hemsworth.
I’m sorry you feel that way. There’s a girl/guy (whoever ur interested in) out there I’m sure for u. Everyone judges me for dating my bf and saying he’s a twig and whatever and how I’m thick and how he’s gonna be able to handle me because of our size differences. We are both completely healthy and we love each other. Society is messed up and I believe the body positivity should go both ways because men suffer with insecurities too Ik. But that’s society for u and people. They’ll say one thing and do another :/
Body positivity should be for physical disorders, obese people trying to loose weight and anorexic people trying to gain weight.
how about people insecure of their height, short men, and tall women?!
@@gforce97 that too.
and people with scars, stretch marks, and birthmarks- like stuff that they can't control
not just anorexic people but skinny people in general. it's really annoying and draining on my mental health how people automatically assume I have an ED just because I'm underweight, and how people lump skinny people together with anorexic people. I'd appreciate if they were concerned but usually it's an insult or condescension underneath a veil of fake concern. exactly like when people tell fat people to "stop eating cheeseburgers".
also, you can be fat or a normal weight and still be anorexic.
basically, body positivity is for people with physical problems that they can't control. it is not a way to just free yourself of all accountability. Even people with problems out of their control should try to work on their body regularly (except of course people who are medically not allowed to perform intense physical activity).
even if it doesn't improve your looks, the mental changes brought about by working out or maintaining a healthy diet is amazing. i am a slightly overweight person. i have been working out for some time. although my body hasn't changed very much, the fact that I am doing whatever I can to be healthy results in a huge boost of self esteem.
Just want to say, as a feminist, that that “Feminist” channel doesn’t speak for all of us, and not for me. Thank you for pointing out what feminism actually means and standing up for equality. ✊🏻
Props to you, keep keeping on
You guys might want to adopt a term to seperate yourself from the feminazis.
@@slipslip9163 It sure is a loud minority though
@@josiahm.8711 I think it’s cause they are the only ones who get the most attention due to them being... well either over the top or wrong.
@@AnimeFreakish78 what stuff in the video was from “feminazis”(im guessing u mean misandrists, which is a separation) tho ?
Having a bit of overweight isn't bad. Most women have love handles, a belly or bigger thighs and hell we still love you the same.
But if people are starting to wonder if they have to call PETA or the coastguard in order to help you back into the ocean, THAT is bad!
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Having a bit of fat is completely healthy as well. People seem to think in order to be a "healthy" person you need to be completely shredded, single digit bodyfat, peeled from head to toe. Its just extremely stupid. If you are getting enough exercise and you dont eat like shit, you are probably completely fine.
alturius4 my bf used to say sex with a skinny girl was like fucking a bicycle.
@@nhmooytis7058 🤢🤮😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@nhmooytis7058 LMAO. How did he know what fucking a bicycle feels like
The body positivity movement should be for people with stuff like facial scars, visible burns, stretch marks, disabilities, amputees, and other uncontrollable things that make them look different. It shouldn’t be a movement to make people feel better about being lazy and eating McDonald’s for every meal.
If I remember correctly, physical deformities and injuries is what the movement was originally about, before it was hijacked by fatasses that didn’t want to be held accountable for their shitty life choices.
My best friend is overweight because she has mental health problems that stop her from leaving the house and her medications make her gain weight. There are a lot of mental disabilities that contribute to weight gain and they shouldn’t have to choose between being thin and being emotionally stable
It really should be a place where everyone can be accepted in. With any scars, burns, stretch marks, disabilities, etc, and for ALL bodies. I thought the movement was for all but I’m quickly not seeing that. I was body shamed in my middle school years (I’m a senior in high school now) and I took those comments seriously and tried to force myself to lose weight. It staved myself and etc. I would hate how I want the one of the “skinny and fit” girls. Till my boyfriend told me how beautiful my body was and o began to accept it for what it was. I did sports in highschool so I had lost some weight. But this isn’t the point. I have a friend whom is considered “skinny” (I try not to use the word skinny since that’s one of her triggering words) who was body shamed. Hearing that from her made me want to spread even more body positivity to ALL bodies and support them in whatever they do! Whenever me and my other friend talked about our body shaming as once “fat” people she felt as if her story wasn’t as important. And I told her it was! Everyone gets bodyshamed! She is trying to gain weight and has told me how her family doesn’t want to cause her body is already “fit”. She has a high metabolism. I told her to do whatever makes her happy, it’s her body not mine. It’s not a slap in the face to us or once “fat” people when a skinny person wants to gain weight. Everyone’s body is different. With that being said, in some “fat” people’s cases it’s very hard to lose the weight. I still feel as though all bodies should be loved. Cause u can still be “fat” and healthy. And “skinny” and unhealthy and Vice versa. I feel as though we should change the movement! It’s alright to gain weight if u are “skinny” especially if u need to cause of how dangerously low ur weight gets! But it’s also alright to be “fat” too just as long as your health isn’t effected. Lizzo is a perfect example of this. She is a “fat” person and she is healthy! ALL BODIES ARE GOOD BODIES! ALL SCARS AND BURNS AND STRETCH MARKS SHOULD BE LOVED BY ALL! we can’t change what we were born with! So yeah... :3 that’s me rant.
Thats what it is.
The body positivity movement pisses me off because it should be about respecting actual physical deformities and issues and not about finding fat bodies attractive.
Not all larger bodies are unhealthy should be made to change but larger bodies SHOULD NOT be fronting the body positivity movement. It should be amputees, burn victims, people with those massive tumors all over their bodies, and a plethora of other people and it should be about respecting them. It should be about seeing those people on the street and not taking a second look or "asking out of curiosity" about their 'issue'
We shouldn't be filling any of their comment sections, especially fat peoples, telling them how beautiful and sexy they are. Comment on how nice the picture is or comment on their clothes because body positivity shouldn't be made into "everyone is attractive and you should love them"
In conclusion, The body positivity movement should be about respecting uncontrollable physical differences and not how attractive fat people are
Edit: spelling and grammar
Well said mate
Agreed, well said indeed
☝️👌👏 as an amputee I applaud this message.
Amen to that 🙌
Its a movement doomed to fail, you can't change what people are biologically attracted to just by shaming them.
Women looking at pretty characters in cartoons: "They expect women to look like this?!"
Men looking at buff characters in cartoons: "I will start working out to obtain that gigantic muscle frame."
Underrated comment my boy
Well you can't get big boobs and big hips and a small waist just by working out.. female bodies are a lot more complex than men's
@@nanak3976 I agree, but that shouldn't mean you give up on achieving a healthy Body. Am not focusing on the fact that look like barbie or something. But yeah try and stay as healthy as possible.
@@nanak3976 oh of course as if men can make their D longer and larger or increase their height
@@ShawnFX fr
girls talk about body positivity then laugh when a guy is under 5'8
Like dude i have seen this horrible texts that go
Girl - "how tall are you?"
Dude - "how much do you weight?"
And the girl goes super mad mode and talks how that doesnt matter and body positivity like... Wtf
or skinny
I honestly don't know why height matters so much--
@@weenis9950 I kinda understand it if the guy is shorter but if they are the same height it‘s ok but they act like they have to get a boyfriend that is atleast 1 head taller
@@husseinmoussa2947 4'4 girls be looking for 6'3 dudes like bro you want a mf tree to climb at this point.
Woman: He has to look like Chris Hemsworth
Man: I would prefer if she wasn't the size of an elephant
Woman: *How dare you discriminate someone like that REEEEEEEEEEEEEEE*
That’s because calling someone an elephant is just mean as fuck. It’s not good to condone someone being obese and unhealthy but insulting them isn’t good either.
@Austin Furlong well not everybody takes insults the same way you might
@@Megan-zp3bo it’s the fact that “feminists” yes that’s in quotations because they aren’t really feminists by definition, think that a man having a preference is just mean and idiotic. But when a female does its ok. What?
@@KnoxzyGaming Having a preference in a partner is fine for both men and women, I literally couldn’t care less. But telling somebody you don’t find them attractive because they look like an elephant is just mean.
@@Megan-zp3bo ok? It is not rude, it is just a preference like who cares what other people think of you right? People assume the worst of when a male has a preference, just because he has a preference does not mean he is just plain rude
All the haters are literally snowflakes who can't handle the truth
Or people who just don't yet understand this issue correctly
What’s to understand? Fat, obese people are a walking death sentence. The end.
@@doubleheadedeagle6769 wasn't what is was referring to, but yeah I know it's extremely unhealthy
Taurus_Says_hi what are you referring to?
@@DemonHeart719 people who hate the people who say this movement is bad. If that makes any sense. I honestly probably wrote what I wrote wrong, I'm tired rn so I probably explained it terribly
lets be honest guys, "body positivity" is just a way to throw accountability out the window.
(except when it comes to people with physical disorders they cant control).
Well said!
I effing hate this toxic culture! I hate my body type, but society says 'hunny you're beautiful 😍 ' Like.. thanks.. but I hate how i can't find any clothes that fit me
Its not really toxic for people to appreciate all body types...
Its different when theyre just promoting being unhealthy.
No one, including you, should feel like shit just because of their body type
@@mrs.doctor1241 totally agree, but if you're promoting being unhealthy, it's unethical.. if you have medical problems, and that's causing it, ok. But if you're just eating chips while binge watching netflix, that's a problem
@@kulcsocska that’s exactly the point i was making.
@@mrs.doctor1241 i know
It's not toxic to promote self-acceptance. Love your body type and then change what you want to.
Being slightly chubby isn't bad but this: 4:15 is just no. 🤦
@Shiva R Or Jabba The Hut
actually disgusting
@laughing warrior Again SLIGHTLY chubby is ok but yeah being Jabba's cousin just no
@@HepatitisLord Even not SLIGHTLY, chubby but healthy is still right, thin but healthy is right too, if it doesn't affect her health or her way of exercising, then it doesn't matter
@Benito Mussolini I don't think they get chubby or thing to be hugged or for people to hug em. But you are right Benito.
I don’t get y the big butts get hate for this he’s not hating just throwing out facts god I hate the fairytale feminists believe in
ikr despicable. What's even more tragic is that men who would do what these "empowering" women are doing would cause them to face the prospect of being lonely for the rest of their lives, forcing them into immense pressure because of fear and sadly even suicide, when on the women's side they support such ones. If feminists can justify this then I'll join them lol (only because they can't)
Unfortunately wishfull thinking pipe dreams are all the rage right now reality is racing to wipe us all out. We must find the magic to get us through. Has anybody got any magic beans to counter deforestation or a magic lamp to rub cos i might go blind otherwise? th-cam.com/video/i-mPYtGRUyY/w-d-xo.html
i swear not all feminists r like this
I'm reading an isekai manhwa (not a manga) with a girl who has to lose weight. She makes this statement: "A woman who can't control her weight can't control her life"
@Hana Kamishiro The manhwa's name is "His Highness, Don't Leave! I Will Lose Weight for You!", you can google it.
If I am not wrong
Manga:Japanese
Manhua:Chinese
Manhwa:Korean.
Also, if it's not too much to ask can someone recommend me some sites to read the manhuas and manhwas? I used to use WebComics, Manga Kisa, WebComics, Zin Manga and stuff but sometimes I can't access those sites.
Pretty please🙏
If I am not wrong
Manga:Japanese
Manhua:Chinese
Manhwa:Korean.
Also, if it's not too much to ask can someone recommend me some sites to read the manhuas and manhwas? I used to use WebComics, Manga Kisa, WebComics, Zin Manga and stuff but sometimes I can't access those sites.
Pretty please🙏
and then this begs the question, why SHOULD a woman have to control her weight? why should a woman have to worry on if their body is attractive? why have we as a society placed so much importance on attractiveness?
@@irisssa333 to become healthy?
as someone who is really thin, being as thin as me isn't good either.
Yeah im abit of an exomorph lol i feel ya, eating to gain weight is actually harder then u would think aye
Siddharth Butala Define thin.
@@marvinmartinsYT 16 years old. 35 Kgs, thats ~70 lbs
@@siddharthbutala6781 okay, yeah, that is very unhealthy. Hopefully you can get to a healthy weight cause otherwise you might die from malnutrition
@@siddharthbutala6781 Dude. That’s anorexic. Called skinny. Thin is a normal build. I’m thin. 55 year old at5’8” 65 kg. Been this weight for decades.
I'm not surprised the Body Positivity movement is all over the internet. Imagine them marching through the city, they would sweat at 15 steps max
Unless it’s down a hill....
;D
@@erickchristensen746 from there it's a scene from Raiders of The Lost Ark
@@erickchristensen746
They wouldn't be marching, they would be rolling
If it was downhill they would roll
Then when they hit the bottom a 9.5 earthquake happens
Na they would all rock up on mobility scooters basket on the front full of food
Title should be "why I hate misplaced feminism movement"
Or pop liberalism going too far
All with a life expectancy of 32.
@Ryan D all feminism is radical,all of them is pure bullshit
Modern feminism is no longer about empowering women, it's about bringing down men.
I feel like being confident and loving yourself is a good thing. But love yourself enough to get in a better shape.
Like, okay, you're obese, love your body, but lose weight.
A good way to put it though some triggered folk will misunderstand possibly on purpose.
Maybe I just want to die doing the thing I love the nost which is to eat ?
"Body positivity" isn't the "fat acceptance", the body positivity movement is about loving your small boobs, small butt, cellulite, hip dips etc. Traits seen on skinny women also. Fat acceptance is... Self-explanatory.
It is about loving and respecting ur body. PERIODT!!! EVERY BIDY SIZE!! Not just small boobs, titts, ass and cellite on 'skinny' girls, wtf u talking about
What about burnt people
@TheCyberShark obesity can also come from genes or even a medical condition...😐
@@thevavyshow1484 at the end of the day it comes to calories in-calories out. Yes our bodies are all different but everyone can get to a healthy weight.
this is so true. we're not hating on the people, we just don't want to see them put themselves through that unhealthy lifestyle. then they attack US because they say we're body shaming. like, no, we just want you to be healthy! being overweight is not healthy and can cause very serious health problems, including death. so please, we're just trying to help. being overweight isn't "beautiful", it's life threatening. now im not saying you cant be beautiful if you're obese. you can be the kindest and sweetest person, and you can be truly physically beautiful, but being overweight and not taking care of yourself is not.
Nah. Let natural selection do its thing.
@@divinitygaming8673 bruh😂
@Emily Garcia Totally agree with you, no one wants to see anyone become the victim of their own unhealthy lifestyle. The first step is always the hardest but I’ve noticed that - as harsh as this sounds - a lot of very obese and/or very thin people (I am generalizing a lot here because there a lot more other body types than just obese and thin) are in denial of their own health. Look, everyone should love their selves, should believe that they are truly beautiful, but don’t let that blind you from your own health.
Right
“The only movement with no movement”
🤣
There would be some terrible bowel movements 🥴
@@robertaus8420 Then it would get stuck in their arse crack hair and squished in by their giant leopard print g-banger. Or something.
this had me rolling
Chips Neeson ohhh you have a lovely imagination 😂 I suddenly never feel like eating ever again after that 🤢
I used to be fat myself, but the body positivity movement made me feel like I was too weak to change that.
I had an argument about this with my younger sister who lives in Berlin. Why do i mention this? Because since she lives there it made her such a native, blinded follower of who ever screams the loudest.
She called me privileged because I have a shredded body.
I never knew that my body's current physique was made in one magical moment instead of constant discipline. And btw it's no suffering, I don't even have a super strict diet.
I might have an advantage with my genetics but on the other side my genetics make it almost impossible for me to have warm hands and feet when it's cold. Hahaha
I've got super high respect for everyone who works so hard to get back to a healthy weight! What I don't like is this false body positivity that doesn't show "normal" weight but always the extremes.
Sorry but we're not rooting body positivity for anorexic people either, are we?
Well apparently thin people are privileged according to some of them now. Too bad if thin people are extremely thin can't put on weight or muscle because they suffer from one of many metabolic illnesses that can do that to you, what a privilege. Do people even know what the word "privilege" means? You can go to the most disadvantaged places on earth and I'll guarantee almost all inhabitants will be thin as twigs with bloated stomachs. Go to the most privileged places on earth, like here in Australia, everyone happens to be fat. Interesting correlation that.
@@jai8064 There are insane people out there who believe those starving African children have thin privilege. I have seen posts about that. The disconnect from reality is extreme with some people. It's insanity.
man movements: loose weight, get stronger, improve yourself, become a better version
girls movement: get fat, don't shave, eat unhealthy, you're beautiful
You know I wish someone would give me a compliment and care about me. I would do anything to get the cherishing women get even for a day
@@atlas1924 You are a good person. No matter what others say or expect of you, always think for your own well-being first and then evaluate if the situation is managable.
You are probably kind to those close to you and you should never stop showing them this kindness, because that makes you a Hero for them.
Your body is like a temple: Take care of it and hold it clean. The quality will lead to a healthier and better lifestyle.
In short: You are already beautiful, just believe in yourself more.
You can do it.
@@hankhill1203 thank both of you
I agree with you but i don’t think not wanting to shave is bad? It doesn’t affect anyone??
@@monsieurnaggert3134 to be honest you’re nice but I personally dislike general compliments from strangers, it feels insincere and fabricated. Like How’s a stranger gonna know if I’m shit or not
body positvity is great if it’s talking about not following societies standards of beauty but when it comes to obesity and sugarcoating it (pun intended) isn’t ok. and neither is body shaming men just because women couldn’t take the same shit that gets said to men. i’m all for body positivity but when it gets to this it’s just terrible.
Dr Phil said it well.. ‘You’re fat. Don’t sugarcoat it, because you’ll eat that too.’
It more to do with shaming men for having standards, 1 to 3 cant get no simp yo.
I agree
John Gray i don’t see anything wrong with having standards it’s like telling someone they have to eat brussel sprouts even if they don’t like them because if they don’t it’s singling something out because of its flavour 🤦♀️ i got standards and there’s nothing wrong with guys having them either
Yup. Everyone has things they're looking for in a partner, both physical and mental. It just so happens that 'looks healthy' is hardcoded into most people's preferences for evolutionary reasons.
One problem is that body positivity seems to have been somewhat hijacked. I recall seeing some pictures of plus-sized models a little over a decade ago and... well, there was nothing wrong. They had good figures, generally looked healthy, were well proportioned and without seeing their measurements or some other indicator of scale in the photos, you wouldn't necessarily be able to tell they were "plus sized" at all - they were big, but more "Gwendoline Christie" big than... what we were shown in the video. I think they were a little bit broader compared to their height than typical wasp-waisted waifs, but there's always going to be a bit of variation in that respect. They were probably fitter, stronger, and had less excess body fat (taking into account that women have a higher healthy body fat percentage than men) than myself.
And then we have... well, what was shown in the video. Now, I'm sure that ACTUAL "plus-sized models" are probably still more likely to be what I described because you can't get away with being too disconnected from reality when you're in a business, but there's a big difference between calling out that expecting most women to be like Barbie is unrealistic on the one hand, and enabling unhealthy lifestyles on the other.
The best response is: "funny thing I don't care"
Picture: "your partber doesn't define your sexuality"
Isaac: "well it certainly gives us a hint"
LOL!!!
Body Positivity was hijacked by the ‘Fat Acceptance’ movement- it’s NOT meant to be the same thing; I learnt that originally, the Body Positive movement was about encouraging positivity & acceptance for those who had lost limbs, or the like... God, ‘Fat Acceptance’ is vile...
It also changed from accepting the body you have to everyone has to accept my body AND find me beautiful....or else.
Seems to be a common trend for these movements which premise with good intentions get hijacked by a bunch of irrational, misrepresenting degenerates. All these people go on about how evil society is and what they demand from it, but they literally just dominate and silence actual reformative movements which were doing positive things and really pursuing the original idea of progressivism for the sake of getting the attention they want quickly, rather than forming a movement of their own ground up.
Cannibalism. It gets more intruiging after that. Could end even World Hunger...
Is it me or is the body positivity or fat acceptance movement has no actual movement
Ethan Wientjes BADUM TSSS* Ayyyyyyee this person gets it!
I can't like all of your comments xd
Yeah but I have enough of that joke Inhaber seen it a thousand times on this channel.
this channel is nothing but someone pointing out the very real flaws in controversies and I fucking love it cus everything he says is true and reliable to someone who has taken a second look at these things, this channal dieserves a subsctiption good on you mate
Me: *underweight, insecure, unsure, have been on diet, has a lot of risk factors*
Feminism: *dissmiss*
A fat women: *unhealthy enough to die*
Feminism: "QuEeN"
What does unsure mean
@Jones Aiden Unsure is when you are trying everything to lose weight but nothing is working so you are panicking.
@@ranjanbiswas3233 you @ the wrong person btw
Body positivity is summed up in the phase ‘don’t eat till you’re full eat till you’re ashamed’
When we invent a time machine, send all members of the body positivity movement to Ukraine in 1932.
@@zulthyr1852 post war yugoslavia also works
@@arma3koth290 Maoist China also works
@@zulthyr1852 so does ethiopia at any point in history
@@arma3koth290 If another person stood on her belly he will be the first man to step foot on another planet
The woman in that picture in the beginning looks kinda like Jabba the Hutt.
Why is this so accurate 😂
I know, like can she even walk???
Don’t ever insult Jabba the Hutt like that again. 😂
They say if you don’t have a preference for fat women then you’re fat phobic. You wouldn’t go up to a gay guy and say “Hey you’re sexist for not having a preference for women.” 🤦♀️
As someone who is overweight, there is nothing positive about it. As such, I have been bullied for a very long time and lost confidence in myself.
To counter all of that, I have now been with a personal trainer for a month and a half and have been attending the gym for the past 6 months.
I used to weigh 90kg and now I weigh 82kg.
Good on ya 👍🏼💪🏼
That's actually alot of weight loss
I am a girl that like girls, and a feminist, here is what I think about body positivity;
As long as woman loves her body, yay, you go girl (I just hope it doesn't affect your health later on)
But I wouldn't date/marry someone who doesn't take care of her body. It's my choice, there is a difference between fat-shaming and having standards/a preference.
I'm not sure if what I said really defines the mouvement, it's just my opinion
What you said is reasonable. The movement is anything but.
Your opinion is ok, and we all make choices about what we're attracted to. That's ok too. l sence that if you have a friend who is obese, you will not shame them in any way. And you will not make THEIR fat related health YOUR concern.
@@TraceyMush lol ok
then you are fatphobic (according to the SJWs).
Same with "trans" people saying nowadays if men that don't wanna date biological males that call themsleves "trans females"....they are trans-phobic.
Basically, these people try to DICTATE the prefernces / opinions / life of OTHERS.
@@sasakelala3360 EXACTLYYYY I'VE BEEN SAYING THIS 4 YEARSSS
It’s just a minute and he already got a dislike.
Bruh
Louis Ramos lol
Dam
The haters have notifications on 😂😂
They have a positive perception of their blubber. They're no doubt part of the positivity movement which is all about positivism and spreading the positive.
Except when it comes to their outlook on life, their attitude to self improvement, and fitness, other people's opinions, reality, accountability and self awareness, things of that nature. ALL of those things, they dislike. Just as they dislike themselves.
People when they see nikocado avacado: *tells him to actually lose weight*
People when they see a fat woman that is 2x fatter:OMG SO BEAUTIFUL QUEEN🥺🥺
people when we tell a fat woman the same thing we say to nikocado avacado: OMG STOP MAKING FUN OF HER GET A LIFE 🤬🤬🤬
“Have you seen these basterds ... my child bearing hips” 🤣☠️
bastards*
That did make me laugh
Just like once Birdman said "I DON'T WANNA DATE NO BELUGA WHALE"
you watch him too?
@@CapnMadelyn i do sir yes. Also Dr. Shaym and Sydney Watson.
@@AcidifiedMammoth yes
Ayee a fellow veteran difficulty brother 👍
@@jadendaniel2379 ^^
9:44 LMAOOO SOMEONE SAID "litterally roll'
I wouldn’t doubt if she can actually roll
I almost vomited wtf is that
The goal of the actual body positivity movement is not for people who use it as an excuse to get fat and then say that you are fat shaming it is for the people who actually have a more heavy set body type and they can’t change it
Obesity is two of the seven sins. Greed, and gluttony.
Yeah but people don’t take sins as seriously as they used to like lust for example everywhere it’s even celebrated
@@Gothixarchitecture Yep. One day this worlds gonna go to hell in a handbasket.
@@MetAlcboy if we didn’t sin Jesus died for nothing.
@@blitzmau7952 You are correct, and not wrong.
@@Gothixarchitecture ...depends on what you mean by lust bc it shouldnt matter if its between two consensual adults
Nobody:
Literally nobody:
Buttsmarn: THAT'S CONFRONTING
You triggered mate.?
No, it's funny bro
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It was pretty funny xD
I hate the people who rush to dislike these videos 😂
they are weak and fear the butts man and they only way they can retaliate agents him and feel safe is to dislike his videos
@@zoloko1850 I now know what it means to stalk someone you hate
Fat peapole who gave up
I am 14 and overweight at 230 pounds. My whole life I was shamed for being bigger than everyone else. I was told that when my family ate pasta I wasn't allowed to, when they ate ice cream I wasn't allowed to. It got to the point where most nights I wouldn't eat because my family couldn't afford healthy foods, often falling back into the convenience rather than what was healthy. I am not saying that encouraging people to be overweight or saying that it is good to be overweight. I just think that people posting about how no matter what weight or body shape you have that you are beautiful can help a lot of people.
Also, just because you are okay with not looking like everyone else does not mean that you 'gave up'.
Flawed Logic 101: Saying being overweight is not healthy is considered body shaming.
Being a overweight dude sucks, we are shamed for it and girls are called brave and powerfull. If I took a pic that looks like the beginning of the video I would be bullied for the rest of my life, please don't make the same choices I did!
You still have time to change. These people however don’t want to.
Start with easy stuff and work your way up. Take a walk every day just for 30 minutes and daydream while you do it. Time will pass quickly and soon you will start feeling better. 🤘
People aren't bullied "for" something. You might make yourself a more obvious target, though.
The real reason dudes don't want to be fat (even after school) is that it's harder to find a mate. They have a real reason to care about their looks, other than women, who obsess about the judgement of other women and gays - about stuff, not hetero guy would ever think about.
Keep in Mind Bullies are Just Insecure Assholes that Try to make themselves feel better by insulting Others
No matter how Handsome,Fit or Successful you are Some Bully will find something to insult you about
Not getting Bullied isn't a Legitimate reason for you to lose Weight/get fit you really just say " Fuck you" to those Assholes and Ignore them
However you should lose weight so you can Feel Better about yourself and Have more Confidence,Be and Feel Healthier and Get A Girl/date easier
“This is how i Roll” man she literally rolls
9:42 "this is how I roll"
Yeah, down the stairs
biology doesn't define sex, humans have to be weird if they are trying to be above something common across the animal world.
@Servius M my G what do you mean?
@@ShahidKarim-rz2ep that humans have to be a weird species if there is number of them that think they are different from most other life forms on the planet where certain characteristics define reproductive role
Biology does define your sex we don't have to be weird we are humans and different from other animals is because we have a intellect and and is self aware and a constant learning
@@kietse Some species have been shown to be self-aware. Infamous one is ants with blue dots.
Intellect is relative. e.g. Orcas, ravens and pigs can be shown to be intelligent and some species of ants engage in farming.
So do think it is weird that some humans believe they are above nature
Yutah just because you can think about your favorite late night show and contemplate poetry doesn’t mean a panther wouldn’t fuck you up if you were near one
I honestly think that there is definitely some very toxic things some feminists need to see within their community and fix.
Men: are healthy
Women: SHEER HEART ATTACK
yeah heart attack because of that weight
Killer Queen
People:"body positivity
Hey Mrs butterfield, I just wanted to tell you that at the start of this year I was about 70-80 pounds overweight, I was tired all the time and I always felt bad abt the way people looked at me. One of your videos about body positivey give me the spirt to lose weight and work out when the bug hit the world, about 6 month later I have lost about 30 pounds and I hope to lose more
Good progress I have only lost 2 pounds : (
@cruzinuzi ty : )
Cringemaster27 dude We all know how hard it is but you have to give up things to get things, personally I had to give up a lot of time I spent play video games with my friends and avoiding high calories food, in fact I have learn to skip one meal and eat a healthy snack instead, all I can say is we need to hang in there and continue and we will reach our goals
Nice the buttsmarn also inspired me to loose my quarrentine fat
@@bryanmcleod737 good job dude
Double standards? More like double earthquake.
😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣😂😂🤣
Double quarter pounder with cheese
@@RKM8506 LOL
@@RKM8506 YO! ROASTED LIKE BEEF!
i agree with the "if we all ate the same meals and did the same workouts..." one everyones genetics are different and different people will need to try a bit harder to achieve a body theyre happy with or at least a healthy one. However, that doesnt mean you should just give up and be like oh im fat so that should be okay and be considered healthy
I'm tired of people calling everything that comes to their minds feminism.
In simple terms: _Stop being unhealthy._
It's one thing to hate the sinner, it's another thing to celebrate the sin. The unpardonable sin - self righteousness.
Body positivity is "self esteem" wrapped in fat. Esteem comes from the eyes of others, this is how you get along in a society. When esteem comes from the self, you get Democrats.
"biology doesn't define what a woman is" pretty sure it does. But ok.
That's the "progressive" agenda. Fuck all forms of logic just to fit their agendas.
yeh exactly. But dude never say "ok" to this. It is wrong and if we even allow it it will shape the future of society
Well if we’re talking *very* technically, woman isn’t a biological term- only male and female are biological terms so in a sense they’re right, since gender isn’t biological and it’s something cultural.
Yes feminism really messed up there LOL.
@@gungeternal4119 yeah, by all means im not agreeing. Feminists want equality, but then contradict themselfs by lusciously thinking being overweight and obese is "ok" for women. and is a life choice so we shouldn't judge. But if it where a man, by all means take the piss. Its pathetic really.
I believe that it isn’t wrong to love yourself at any weight. Health isn’t just about physical health, but mental health, too. However, it gets to a point where there are negative effects on your physical health too and that does need to be changed. However, you have to love yourself first. The amount of people, including myself, who went into dieting hating on their bigger body and then developed an eating disorder is crazy.
I feel a lot of people need to understand also, that skinny does not always mean healthy. And I’m not talking about people who are severely underweight, or those who honestly struggle to put on weight, I’m talking about those with a fast metabolism. For example, my brother. He’s skinnier than me, but eats far more (and is very much so into anything sweet).
So, yeah, it’s not all black and white for me. Of course, just my opinion.
Body positivity is fine. But promoting obesity, promoting unhealthy behavior, is not great. If you're curvy? Fantastic. If you're happy and staying healthy thats fantastic. People who gorge on food and say we should be fine with their bodies, though, ehhh. Its not that we arent cool with you being fat. Moreso we're not okay with watching you slowly kill yourself. But I will say, to all the comments here. Making fun of fat people isnt doing anything but hurting them more. Making fun of them doesn't help them in any way. Instead, if you truly want to help, work with them. Teach them healthier recipes. teach them that its not okay to do this to themselves. Help them get better. But dont berate them, dont attack them. That isnt helping, thats just being an asshole.
Exactly!! I hate it when that concept is being taken as a joke..you can still be big and be healthy if you don't have any health problems regarding being..big, BUT if you're developing cankles and close to being bed ridden?? Lose the weight while you still can.
I clicked on this video thinking, “Is this some loser who says all women are evil” but I walked away with a different perspective, thank you
Imagine if everyone just ate cake without shame? It’s a brave new world.
Mmm, cake.
@@AngryTurds the cake is a lie
Nice reference.
I do... but I eat bit one peice at a time not one cake at a time lol
I burned 16 kilo’s so far in 3 months. Am 15 years old and went from 75 to 59 kilo’s. I’ve been struggling with my weight for my whole life, did every diet and went to dietitians but now I managed to lose a lot of weight by my self. I’m wayyyy happier with my body now and my confidence is trough the roof :)
Congrats!! Are you able to give any tips? :)
@@beausweater sure! Not sure if these tips work for everyone but they worked for me lol. One thing that you first have to think really hard about is: are you willing to give up all junk food and snacks to lose weight? No cheat days, no one piece of candy a day.
If not, then it would be best to let others help you instead of doing it yourself. At this point of time you have to be really strict on yourself. It’s okay to snack of course but if you do, it has to be something healthy. Like fruit or veg.
But mainly just focus on your calorie intake, I try to be around 1000 - 1500 a day. I actually lost 20 kilo’s at the time of writing this lol. Also, be sure to move around, you don’t have to work out, I didn’t either lol but you have to move around normally, for example. Walking or biking to the store instead of driving with your car.
Look, if I can do it, anybody can, you just have to be absolutely committed
There was this girl in my school who supported body positivity and BLM and she called me a hippo and her friend told me to go eat curry cuz I’m Indian... what a bunch of hypocrites
1. How does she support body positivity when she calls you a hippo and encourages you to eat more?
2. How is she a blm supporter when she says racial stereotypes with the curry?
@@aw_1890 that’s exactly what I’m confused about. She just contradicted herself
@@harshyt4938
More like they **revealed** themselves... sooner or later, _those types_ always do...
@@OcarinaSapphr- yeah they supported BLM and body positivity not because they cared about those movements but because they just wanna seem like a good person when in reality they aren’t
9:45 "this is how I roll" what, down the stairs😂
Pls don't be mad, it's a joke
Clicked faster than my dad brought milk
SumWhiteKid that’s not hard
Wait yours came back?
@@litfuze2061 son
@@chrisisking6027 atleast tell him you got the milk!