Same. I can’t even count how many times I’ve been sitting on the couch watching TV and my parents or siblings walk through the room and not even see me there, like they would come back in and turn off the TV and only realize I was there when I turned the TV back on. It makes hide and seek pretty easy to win though. But there have been a few times where people just forgot I was playing and I fell asleep waiting for them to find me.
when lauren said “when i was a teen”, that like slapped me in the face. i remember when she would wear those bow headbands lol. ive been supporting these girls for the longest and they still inspire me to this day.
I think Lauren is right. Nobody goes out and looks at other ppl and think "oh they have big legs. Thats disgusting." or " she/he has acne ... She/ he should do something about it" U are the only one who thinks that about yourself. Plz treat yourself the way you would treat ur Best friend. You don't deserve to be hated by urself
I agree with this SO MUCH // but the thing is, like Dani said, even though people tell her that no one is judging, I MYSELF am actually being the critical one, so it could go either way
This opened up my eyes! Some girls were saying they wish they were bigger and could gain weight and some were saying they wish they were smaller and could lose weight. Some were saying they’re too loud and some were saying they’re too shy and wish they could be louder. It makes you realize that it’s hard to really love yourself for who you are. But it also makes you realize that there are other people out there (MAYBE EVEN YOUR SISTERS) who want to be just like you. something that you might be so insecure about there could be other people wishing they had it. It’s so hard to learn how to love yourself but once you do it is the best feeling in the whole world. It takes years and tons of patience but once you do, you will feel unstoppable. 💗
This is not a solution for everyone. But I was painfully shy around guys in high school. I made the decision to go to women's college and it was so valuable. I was surrounded by smart women who supported me, I wasn't afraid to share my opinions because we had each other's backs. That "family" helped me grow and gain confidence in myself. I learned I don't need to impress guys, because the right person for me will see me for me. My friends have had similar experiences. My mom was afraid I'd come out being more shy and not knowing how to interact with guys, but I came out confident and not giving a shirt what guys thought of me because I knew my own worth. :)
"find your tribe. find those people that make you feel good the way that you are and telling your stories the way that YOU like them. its beautiful that you have something to say." IM NOT CRYING IM NOT CRYING IM NOT CRYING IM NOT-
To Christina: I love that you pointed out that perfect is not the price we pay to have an existence and be considered human, there is no wrong way to be a real woman To Kath: I can relate in many ways to the personality though I am an introvert, the few people I can stand being around I talk to way too much, I’m also very emotional and would love to be friends with you To Lisa: Thank you for not wearing any makeup in this video, it helped prove your point about body image and that it usually isn’t the heart of our problems, I guess I need to dig deeper to realize that I do have a worth To Amy: I’m also very short but surprisingly it’s also not my biggest physical insecurity, though many people call me “thin” and “fit” I don’t have a thigh gap, I don’t have a flat stomach, I don’t have completely toned arms, but it’s okay. To Lauren: As someone that gets social anxiety a lot, what you said really helped, I don’t need to be outgoing! I will repeat that to myself until I believe it. And finally To Dani: Unfortunately I also avoid my emotions, I don’t cry, like ever, I don’t let myself, but what you said in the podcast really resonated with me, not the makeup but feeling the need to look better, I really hope I can get to meet you one day, love you all❤️
When Lisa said "I want people to know that I'm around and miss me." (6:09) I heard a crack in her voice.. it might have been my imagination but I think our little Lisa was trying not to cry there...
Sophia Schmidt Its in your imagination bc u want to over complicate things and make it out to be a certain way so you sympathise for her and whatnot, definitely your imagination.
What Lauren said at the end about being shy was exactly what i needed to hear. Im almost 21 and have been quiet and shy my whole life. College has been kinda hard because everyone always comments on how quiet i am. One weekend i was at a friends house and her dad and another friend’s boyfriend would not stop talking about how they have never heard me speak when they clearly have and they even started to count how many words i would say when i talked. PEOPLE NEED TO LEARN THAT QUIET PEOPLE KNOW THEY ARE QUIET AND CONSTANTLY COMMENTING ON IT OR COUNTING OUR WORDS ONLY MAKES US FEEL BAD ABOUT OURSELVES!!!!!!
Yeah I used to be a lot more quieter than I am now and people would always say “why are you so quiet” and I don’t how to answer so I say i don’t know and it annoyed me. I never like being quiet so when I started taking more I would hate it when people would say your so quiet to some of my friends but I wouldn’t really say anything so next time I know exactly what to say. And I’m so happy that I can relate to Lauren since she is one of my favourites 💖
Maddy L. You look at Lisa's legs on a daily basis and think "damn them some beautiful legs" XD I'm not judging though, I do that when I look at ariana grandes legs.
Laurens description of being shy is so accurate, we don't choose to be quiet and keep to ourselves, we're fighting with ourselves to speak up and be confident but it just doesn't happen.
Dear Amy, I'm so glad that you've come to a peace with your body. You've taught me that my body image doesn't matter as long as I accept myself. Your personality is great, and never let anyone tell you any different. Keep being positive. You're doing a great job. Dear Lisa, It's good that you took the time to dig deeper about why you felt the way you did. I feel as though I can connect with you on a more personal level as far as low self esteem. I used to think no one liked me or loved me. And really, it was all in my head. Just remember that you've got a great support system and you'll always be loved. Dear Dani, I'm really glad that you don't hang out with the people who pointed out your flaws. I used to think that it was important to be liked by everyone. Even if they really didn't like me. Our inner thoughts are always scary to think about, but it's always good to have someone you can vent to. Make sure you don't separate yourself from the ones closest to you. I love you. Dear Lauren, I've never thought about challenging myself in that way. You're really brave for doing that. Don't even worry about your skin like that because you're drop dead gorgeous. It's actually really cute that you're shy. I know that a lot of guys like that in a girl. It also makes you mysterious in a way. Own it girl. Dear Katherine, Never feel scared about how much you talk. I know a few people who talk a lot, but they are the smartest people I know. Don't feel like you have to hide your skin. My biggest insecurity is my legs and I remember constantly wearing pants all the time. Then I stopped caring and started wearing shorts. No one said anything about my legs when I did. It's all in your head. Keep your head up. Dear Christina, I'm really glad that you have someone to come along side you to boost your self esteem. You are really witty and funny. And it's one of your best qualities. So I'm glad that you have the personality that you do. I Know You'll Never See This, Buuuut... You are all AMAZINGLY BEAUTIFUL young ladies that fill this world with positivity, laughter, confidence, and music that comforts our hearts for when we need someone to be there for us. Keep surrounding yourselves with positive influences. Remember that God made you, and He never makes any mistakes. Stay positive, stay true, stay beautiful, and stay you. I love you all. -love Michelle
I loved this video. I have Amy's physical insecurities and Lauren's insecurities about being quiet. You were all so brave to talk about these things. You are enough.
I totally relate to Lauren because I'm a quiet person, too. I realized that I'm a good listener awhile ago and that I'm genuinely interested in listening to other people an asking questions and that such a good quality to have, to actually care about what someone has to say. The only bad thing about being quiet is that some people take advantage of that and when you want to tell a story or have something to say they don't really listen and return that sense of caring about what you're saying but it's not your own fault they choose not to listen, not sure where I was going with that but great video guys it's so helpful!
Cait totally agree with you!! I always listen to people, try to help them and hardly judge whatever they‘re telling me. Whenever I try to get something off my chest too they look at me, sometimes don‘t even respond with even one word and go back to their own story. Says more about their personality tho than about mine. Don‘t ever lose your emphaty and care, you eventually find the right people in your life who will give you the same amount of respect and care that you give them
Yeah I agree with you both👆 the problem I have had through the years is that my closest friends is like you describe, they talk a lot and especially about themselves and I listen and respond in a good way but when it’s the other way around they kind of respond quickly and then talk about themselves again
I just love how this band is so real and just actual human beings. Nowadays it’s so common to see on the music industry many artists that portray a persona or a facade that is just not true to themselves. They show themselves as if they were perfect. Cimorelli it’s just not like that, they’re six beautiful, real and kind girls that just happen to be talented musically but they still make you feel so close to them, and feel the same as them. You can relate to them and see how they just struggle the same way as you do. They’re great role models and they definitely help people and their fans to see how you can overcome all this stuff you maybe insecure about.
I can feel it for Dani it is hard to talk about these things because I don't like talking about deep stuff too. But I am proud of her that she is doing it❤
I find it almost scary how much I relate to Dani..... I really appreciate her going out of her comfort zone and being so vulnerable. It really helps me to do the same. Love you! ❤️
You ladies seem so wise. I am a 58-year-old woman and I still have insecurities from all the way back to my childhood, but you ladies are so encouraging to listen to. You may think that you're talking only to teens and young girls, but here's at least one woman who enjoys listening to you. :)
10:40 so relatable Lauren!! I have stopped wearing makeup to cover my spots and scars because I don’t care anymore! It’s natural and I’m done trying to please people with having ‘clear skin’....also I’m a very socially anxious person too 😩 I wish I was confident I feel like all my problems would go away if I was
What Dani said about you just needing to find the right people to hang out with is such good advice tbh. I have had friends who didn’t treat me right and now that I’m not friends with them anymore, I feel so much better.
What Lauren said really hit home for me and this video couldn't of come at a better time. This week for some reason I've been struggling with being a quite person. I'm 23 and have been shy my whole life. It takes me forever to open up to someone. I think why I'm struggling this week is because one of my college professor keeps pointing out in front of the whole class that I'm quite. I think next time they say something I'm going to just say "there's nothing wrong with being quiet" lol Thank you girls for always being so real.
I relate to Dani so much on hiding feelings and feeling embarrassed of them, because it's something I struggle with. on one hand I always want to tell people how I'm feeling but if they ask me how I'm doing or complement me I will shut down. It's like I can love other people but I wont let other people love me because...I suppose I'm not in control of those feelings,and it terrifies me? I always feel like a burden when I tell people how I actually feel, because it's something I suppose I try to hide. And both what Lauren and Christina said speak to me because on one hand,I'm a very quiet person. I read books and when I feel uncomfortable I either shut down or become unnecessarily loud. My other side is that I love being surrounded by people and cracking jokes and being careless, but again when faced with uncomfortable situations I because so awkward and loud to cover up my discomfort. I always either feel sorry for not talking enough or talking to much. I really need to work on that and learn to act in those situations and push past them and face my situations head on instead of hiding.
Am I the only person who relates so much to Katherine?😁 I'm also talking so much, like all the time you see me, I'm talking, just the whole time. I think it's just really difficult to stop yourself in that kind of 'flow'😁 but after talking and telling people stories about literally everything and everybody, you just think: Why I just said that? Was it too much? Why I just can't listen to people? It's really important to realize that other people who are more quiet, like your stories and all your emotions you're showing in telling them. 😊 (Sorry if there are mistakes, I'm not English)
When Lauren was talking about her being shy I’m like he literally described my life because if I don’t know someone or I’m not close with them then I get really shy
I relate to what Lauren said. I also went through stages of being shy, from extremely shy to shy at times. It never really fully went away, cause I still have days when I am really quiet and uncomfortable. I go through times when I am very open and sometimes I just can't bring myself to open my mouth and speak up. It really holds me back from doing as my true intentions are - and they are usually to be friendly.
i love you all and i think it's amazing that you guys opened up about this personal stuff! I commented this last night when you posted this video, but it breaks my hearts that Lisa feels worthless sometimes because she is such an inspiration to me and she deserves the world :)
Lauren, thanks for opening my eyes by saying its OK to be a shy person! I have always been so negative toward myself because of thinking that it is a bad thing. Love ya
It’s 4.30 in the morning and I haven’t been able to fall asleep because of anxiety. I’ve been watching your videos for hours and this video really means a lot. Thank you 💕
Lauren is so GORGEOUS! I always saw her as the model type. To hear she's insecure is so eye opening. We truly all feel like we have so many flaws. It would be amazing if we could all see ourselves through the eyes of our fondest admirer!
Dani seemed so sad here, I love you and I love you all girls!! So strong for doing this video, I’m so happy I support such amazing and talented girls. Come to London!! 😭❤️
LISA is so Smart! I remember she shared some insta stories and I still keep her words: " Dreaming is important but without action it is USELESS. Take care of you body, not to look good but to have energy and be able to do whatever it takes to get your work done. Don't be a victim of your life. This is your chance. Take it." I decided to translated to Spanish and shared her words, obviously it was so much more than this, and I was amazed of how many people liked and think a lot about what she said. All this girls are a true inspiration, and I really appreciate when they shared something really personal, cause it's not easy. But here I am, getting sleep and preparing to go to church tomorrow and I learned something really special, I'm a daughter of God, and even when I'm not perfect he loves me perfectly, and even when I have a bunch of insecurities, I still can find answers to my prayers in this TH-cam video. Thank you Cimorelli FAM. :)
I love how Lisa loves herself so much. There are so many people who are so uncomfortable with themselves (myself) but seeing her so confident just gives me hope in life. Love you Lisa ❤️
Oh gosh, I relate so much with Lauren, in literally everything. I have a pretty bad acne and I'm, like, almost invisible and too shy, an introverted basically.
I haven't watched your channel for a few years consistently and when I last watched, Dani was this tiny young girl and now she has grown into an incredibly smart and wise person.
lisa made me cry when she said she writes what she’s feeling and then writes why it’s wrong. i never even thought about doing that. very inspiring ugh i love you girls!
I'm so connected to Lauren's struggle with being shy. I'm 28 years old and still struggle with this. I'm able to make conversation...most of the time anyway lol. But when I get home, to my serenity, I'm exhausted lol. I really need my alone time in order to function. As a kid though my teacher wrote on my report card to my mom, saying I was quote "painfully shy". So it's definitely been a journey and a significant struggle...ESPECIALLY during my school years! But thank God for growing older and wiser and way more accepting and appreciative of yourself you become. ♡
5:50 omg lisa is me. everything she said here is me! also my family sometimes doesn't even know i was gone too etc. so it is lowkey hard when u have many siblings
I relate so much to what you said about being "too skinny" Christina. I've always been a size 0, I still am and I'm 23 years old now. And what people don't realize is that somehow it's okay to attack someone's size 0 and call them "too skinny", "anorectic" or "a stick" etc (I hear all of these on a daily basis) because they are within what people think is a "beauty standard". And whenever I try to tell people that I don't think it's fun or that their words make me sad, they always say "Dude, you're not allowed to complain because you're skinny". I've always been ashamed of being skinny. Sometimes I have to find clothes in the child section because nothing else fits me, and I've tried so many times to gain weight but it's literally impossible. And people don't realize that it can hurt just as much when people comment on a tiny body as it does when people comment on a bigger one. It's just a body, and you shouldn't be allowed to attack anyone's body no matter what size. Sorry for thing super long text. Anyway, thank you so much for inspiring all of us every day to love and accept ourselves just the way we are
Everything about being over the top is soooo true! I always struggle with not being gentle enough, or quiet enough, or being to bossy! This video opened so many things in my heart. Thank you so much for doing this video, it is amazing that you guys were so brave to share this with others
I love Lisa’s confidence in herself 😂❤️ this video really helps me to understand that I’m not the only person that has lots of problems with insecurities 😊 thank you so much Cimorelli ❤️
Lisa and Lauren are honestly my favorite people in Cimorelli. Lauren's high notes are super unstoppable.her voice is beautiful.(all the girls in Cimorelli have amazing voices) She is super kind and sweet like a cupcake. Lisa is just the reality of this world. She's unstoppable as a person. She belts her notes when she sings and it's beautiful. And she is brutely honest which I like😂😂 I absolutely love them both.
Christina, Amy and Kathrine , I can connect with you so much with the ‘having a to big of a personality and, being to much’ I alway feel like I talk to much and need to be quiet and shut myself out. This video really helped me physically and mentally, thank you for making these videos they really help me feel better.
Same here. I’m very extroverted and talkative a lot like Amy and Katherine are and I’m like Christina as well where I can’t push my feelings down. Sometimes I feel like I’m annoying to other people.
When i watch people in like groups i usually feel like i can only relate to one person, but with Cimorelli i feel like i can relate and see myself in every single one of yu. So THANK YOU for sharing your stories.💙💙
I relate to you all in some way, I'm also sometimes too loud and too talkative and then are other days or weeks or months when I'm shy and quiet and awkward. I have had so much issues about my body because I'm also short and chubby (not that Amy is chubby, I am) and I have been so insecure about it for the longest time and only now starting to accept my body, my mind and my personality the way I am (I just turned 26 in December). I've come a long way and still have some more to go but I'm really proud about myself and I'm also proud about you girls for having the guts to speak up and to make a video like that to help other girls like you. We need to be more compassionate about ourselves and about others, try to cheer along and support each other and ourselves, not to tear us down. We are all beautiful in our own unique way and the people who love us don't care about our looks but what's inside, that's the most important thing that really matters. Love yourself and love others, spread love instead of hate 🤗
Katherine, I feel you girl! Eczema is the worst, I have way too many scars and the rashes are so annoying! Thanks for sharing this, I feel less lonely in this problem. I also talk a lot too and I get so insecure. Why am I relating soo much with you? Guess you're my favourite sister. :) Love you!
It’s crazy how insecurities work! It’s just yourself tearing you up. We are our own biggest critic. EVERYONE NEEDS TO GET OVER THEMSELVES!! Haha it’s funny how that works but we are too involved in it and how we want to be or look instead of loving it for who you are.
'if the person can't fix it in less than 10 seconds, don't point it out'. it's really not hard. don't point out the person has pimples/acne. they know. they point out the person is fat. they are insecure about it. don't point out that the person is skinny. they are probably trying to gain weight. don't point out that people have a big or small nose. it could run in their genes. don't point out that girls have facial hair. it's normal. don't point out that girls are hairy. they have to constantly shave and wax, why point it out when boys do not have to. don't point out negativity. everyone has insecurities, pointing it out makes it worse. think before you say. I've been bullied in primary school and high school, it's not okay
So I’m just watching this video and I initially found it kinda crazy how Lauren has the same personality issue that I have with myself. Not that I thought that I was the only person in the world who struggled with being shy and not speaking up, but it’s so comforting to hear that someone goes through the same things that I go through. And I also found it even more crazy to see and read all the comments of other people that are insecure about how quiet they are. Sometimes it feels like you’re the only person in the world who struggles with something until you find someone who comes out and shares that they deal with the same things as you. Thanks a lot for this video!! I know it must’ve been hard to be vulnerable with so many people. From the outside I would’ve liked to assume everything is perfect with you guys but it’s so good to know that you’re just as real and human as me.
I absolutely feel like Lauren too. Actually, it depends on what people are around. When I'm with my family, I'm not quiet at all but when I'm somewhere else, I'm super quiet. I just never really know what to say. Well, sometimes I do but usually not. I'm really bad at keeping a conversation going and especially beginning a conversation. If someone starts a conversation about a topic that interests me very much, I can talk and talk and talk and have no problem to keep the conversation going then but unfortunately that happens so seldom.. :/
I just started watching recently and I can’t stop!!! I love you guys and I’m glad you can open up to fans! As a Christian singer myself I look up to you guys and hope that I can do some of the things you guys do!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
This video helped me a lot, I’ve had a lot of people told me that I need to change and I’m always doing something wrong but this helped me think better about myself, thank you
I'm a shy individual but once I get to know people, i become more outgoing but there are people that are SO RUDE about me not talking that much and then other people who complain I talk too much. Honestly? I love the way I am and once I have complete understanding that everybody is different and maybe I will not be liked by everybody and that that's ok, I know I'll be ok.❤
Lisa:
“I want people to miss me.”
... I felt that.
Same, literally same
I kinda felt like she was about to cry there
Same gurl.... same 😔.
Same :(((
Ana awwwww she was about to cry when said that
Lisa's insecurity is actually me. I feel like I'm invisible to other people.
you are seen and loved!!
Thank you!!
Flávia Carneiro Yea I feel like I relate to Lauren’s shyness but yet I also relate to Lisa’s
@@lunarialoonatic same
Same. I can’t even count how many times I’ve been sitting on the couch watching TV and my parents or siblings walk through the room and not even see me there, like they would come back in and turn off the TV and only realize I was there when I turned the TV back on. It makes hide and seek pretty easy to win though. But there have been a few times where people just forgot I was playing and I fell asleep waiting for them to find me.
"My body was not the problem. It was the way I was thinking about it."
when lauren said “when i was a teen”, that like slapped me in the face. i remember when she would wear those bow headbands lol. ive been supporting these girls for the longest and they still inspire me to this day.
Kanita Redzic yes!!! i bought headbands just like her i looked up to her so much lol
Oh but I think she is like still 19 but she doesn't consider that a teen but I still think ya she is different
Me too
I think Lauren is right. Nobody goes out and looks at other ppl and think "oh they have big legs. Thats disgusting." or " she/he has acne ... She/ he should do something about it"
U are the only one who thinks that about yourself. Plz treat yourself the way you would treat ur Best friend. You don't deserve to be hated by urself
sm ile but... which one is Lauren?
I agree with this SO MUCH // but the thing is, like Dani said, even though people tell her that no one is judging, I MYSELF am actually being the critical one, so it could go either way
No Dani said she does lol
Athena Lauren is the last one speaking at the end of the video... the one with orange/brown blush
Not completely true. I look at other people and think things like that. And even Dani said she does it. but it's probably just a flaw on my part.
This opened up my eyes!
Some girls were saying they wish they were bigger and could gain weight and some were saying they wish they were smaller and could lose weight. Some were saying they’re too loud and some were saying they’re too shy and wish they could be louder. It makes you realize that it’s hard to really love yourself for who you are. But it also makes you realize that there are other people out there (MAYBE EVEN YOUR SISTERS) who want to be just like you. something that you might be so insecure about there could be other people wishing they had it. It’s so hard to learn how to love yourself but once you do it is the best feeling in the whole world. It takes years and tons of patience but once you do, you will feel unstoppable. 💗
+Rileigh Curtis this is why I love cimorelli because I can relate to them so much ❤️❤️❤️❤️💙💙💙💙
I love this.
Yes! You couldn’t be more spot on! ❤️❤️
Yeah people always want what they can’t/don’t have
@Tunrayo O thank you
I have the same problem as Lauren. I’m soooo shy. I can’t even talk to a boy okay? It’s awful, but thank you for doing this video, it’s helped so much
Josi H same, girl
This is not a solution for everyone. But I was painfully shy around guys in high school. I made the decision to go to women's college and it was so valuable. I was surrounded by smart women who supported me, I wasn't afraid to share my opinions because we had each other's backs. That "family" helped me grow and gain confidence in myself. I learned I don't need to impress guys, because the right person for me will see me for me. My friends have had similar experiences.
My mom was afraid I'd come out being more shy and not knowing how to interact with guys, but I came out confident and not giving a shirt what guys thought of me because I knew my own worth. :)
Josi H
I relate soo much
I relate too
same but it is not just around boys. it is sometimes even hard to talk to my best friend:( (even tho i know she won't judge me)
"find your tribe. find those people that make you feel good the way that you are and telling your stories the way that YOU like them. its beautiful that you have something to say."
IM NOT CRYING IM NOT CRYING IM NOT CRYING IM NOT-
To Christina: I love that you pointed out that perfect is not the price we pay to have an existence and be considered human, there is no wrong way to be a real woman
To Kath: I can relate in many ways to the personality though I am an introvert, the few people I can stand being around I talk to way too much, I’m also very emotional and would love to be friends with you
To Lisa: Thank you for not wearing any makeup in this video, it helped prove your point about body image and that it usually isn’t the heart of our problems, I guess I need to dig deeper to realize that I do have a worth
To Amy: I’m also very short but surprisingly it’s also not my biggest physical insecurity, though many people call me “thin” and “fit” I don’t have a thigh gap, I don’t have a flat stomach, I don’t have completely toned arms, but it’s okay.
To Lauren: As someone that gets social anxiety a lot, what you said really helped, I don’t need to be outgoing! I will repeat that to myself until I believe it.
And finally To Dani: Unfortunately I also avoid my emotions, I don’t cry, like ever, I don’t let myself, but what you said in the podcast really resonated with me, not the makeup but feeling the need to look better, I really hope I can get to meet you one day, love you all❤️
Riya Choksi omg #relatable I love your vulnerability because I love it you guys are so real ❤❤❤
Well said girl👏👏👏
When Lisa said "I want people to know that I'm around and miss me." (6:09) I heard a crack in her voice.. it might have been my imagination but I think our little Lisa was trying not to cry there...
Sophia Schmidt i think she was burping 😂
Sophia Schmidt I felt it too, because I also have felt like that as a young girl in my early teen years
Sophia Schmidt Its in your imagination bc u want to over complicate things and make it out to be a certain way so you sympathise for her and whatnot, definitely your imagination.
What Lauren said at the end about being shy was exactly what i needed to hear. Im almost 21 and have been quiet and shy my whole life. College has been kinda hard because everyone always comments on how quiet i am. One weekend i was at a friends house and her dad and another friend’s boyfriend would not stop talking about how they have never heard me speak when they clearly have and they even started to count how many words i would say when i talked. PEOPLE NEED TO LEARN THAT QUIET PEOPLE KNOW THEY ARE QUIET AND CONSTANTLY COMMENTING ON IT OR COUNTING OUR WORDS ONLY MAKES US FEEL BAD ABOUT OURSELVES!!!!!!
Preach
Yh I know that I'm quiet but I don't appreciate the fact that people point it out 2 others that makes me feel insecure about myself
Same. My best friends father did the same, but I just ignore them. That's the best thing to do
Yeah I used to be a lot more quieter than I am now and people would always say “why are you so quiet” and I don’t how to answer so I say i don’t know and it annoyed me. I never like being quiet so when I started taking more I would hate it when people would say your so quiet to some of my friends but I wouldn’t really say anything so next time I know exactly what to say. And I’m so happy that I can relate to Lauren since she is one of my favourites 💖
FutureNurse1116 M PREACH I’ve had ppl do this to me MANY times and it’s horrible.
they’re insecurities are the things i love the most about them
Maddy L. Same
Maddy L. You look at Lisa's legs on a daily basis and think "damn them some beautiful legs" XD I'm not judging though, I do that when I look at ariana grandes legs.
Laurens description of being shy is so accurate, we don't choose to be quiet and keep to ourselves, we're fighting with ourselves to speak up and be confident but it just doesn't happen.
I relate to Lisa and Lauren like a LOT
ty girls for this video, i love when you focus on things like mental heath
same
Dear Amy,
I'm so glad that you've come to a peace with your body. You've taught me that my body image doesn't matter as long as I accept myself. Your personality is great, and never let anyone tell you any different. Keep being positive. You're doing a great job.
Dear Lisa,
It's good that you took the time to dig deeper about why you felt the way you did. I feel as though I can connect with you on a more personal level as far as low self esteem. I used to think no one liked me or loved me. And really, it was all in my head. Just remember that you've got a great support system and you'll always be loved.
Dear Dani,
I'm really glad that you don't hang out with the people who pointed out your flaws. I used to think that it was important to be liked by everyone. Even if they really didn't like me. Our inner thoughts are always scary to think about, but it's always good to have someone you can vent to. Make sure you don't separate yourself from the ones closest to you. I love you.
Dear Lauren,
I've never thought about challenging myself in that way. You're really brave for doing that. Don't even worry about your skin like that because you're drop dead gorgeous. It's actually really cute that you're shy. I know that a lot of guys like that in a girl. It also makes you mysterious in a way. Own it girl.
Dear Katherine,
Never feel scared about how much you talk. I know a few people who talk a lot, but they are the smartest people I know. Don't feel like you have to hide your skin. My biggest insecurity is my legs and I remember constantly wearing pants all the time. Then I stopped caring and started wearing shorts. No one said anything about my legs when I did. It's all in your head. Keep your head up.
Dear Christina,
I'm really glad that you have someone to come along side you to boost your self esteem. You are really witty and funny. And it's one of your best qualities. So I'm glad that you have the personality that you do.
I Know You'll Never See This, Buuuut...
You are all AMAZINGLY BEAUTIFUL young ladies that fill this world with positivity, laughter, confidence, and music that comforts our hearts for when we need someone to be there for us. Keep surrounding yourselves with positive influences. Remember that God made you, and He never makes any mistakes. Stay positive, stay true, stay beautiful, and stay you. I love you all.
-love Michelle
this is beautiful
Dear Michelle,
we need more people like you in our world today.
love,
avocado
@@ovadokohbundona1358 thank you for saying what I couldn't.
@Michelle Renee you are the best kind of person. To take your time to write this. Amazing job 👏
Michelle Renee this deserves more likes
Lisa would make a great life coach... a snarky, hilarious one...
I loved this video. I have Amy's physical insecurities and Lauren's insecurities about being quiet. You were all so brave to talk about these things. You are enough.
I totally relate to Lauren because I'm a quiet person, too. I realized that I'm a good listener awhile ago and that I'm genuinely interested in listening to other people an asking questions and that such a good quality to have, to actually care about what someone has to say. The only bad thing about being quiet is that some people take advantage of that and when you want to tell a story or have something to say they don't really listen and return that sense of caring about what you're saying but it's not your own fault they choose not to listen, not sure where I was going with that but great video guys it's so helpful!
Cait totally agree with you!! I always listen to people, try to help them and hardly judge whatever they‘re telling me. Whenever I try to get something off my chest too they look at me, sometimes don‘t even respond with even one word and go back to their own story. Says more about their personality tho than about mine. Don‘t ever lose your emphaty and care, you eventually find the right people in your life who will give you the same amount of respect and care that you give them
Maria Xx yes!! I totally agree!!
Yeah I agree with you both👆 the problem I have had through the years is that my closest friends is like you describe, they talk a lot and especially about themselves and I listen and respond in a good way but when it’s the other way around they kind of respond quickly and then talk about themselves again
I totally agree!
You can't imagine how much I relate to you.🙇♀️
I just love how this band is so real and just actual human beings. Nowadays it’s so common to see on the music industry many artists that portray a persona or a facade that is just not true to themselves. They show themselves as if they were perfect. Cimorelli it’s just not like that, they’re six beautiful, real and kind girls that just happen to be talented musically but they still make you feel so close to them, and feel the same as them. You can relate to them and see how they just struggle the same way as you do. They’re great role models and they definitely help people and their fans to see how you can overcome all this stuff you maybe insecure about.
thank you so much
LOVE U SO MUCH GIRLSSS
Same, Lauren. Being painfully shy sucks :/
carolina and being loud sucks
I can feel it for Dani it is hard to talk about these things because I don't like talking about deep stuff too. But I am proud of her that she is doing it❤
Can I just say I absolutely love Katherine. Her personality is so refreshing, she's so beautiful ❤
I find it almost scary how much I relate to Dani..... I really appreciate her going out of her comfort zone and being so vulnerable. It really helps me to do the same. Love you! ❤️
Kendall Pedersen same
You ladies seem so wise. I am a 58-year-old woman and I still have insecurities from all the way back to my childhood, but you ladies are so encouraging to listen to. You may think that you're talking only to teens and young girls, but here's at least one woman who enjoys listening to you. :)
Ditto, at 52
You're never too old to start loving yourself and accepting yourself as you are 🤗
lauren made me cry. never thought about it that way. wow.
10:40 so relatable Lauren!! I have stopped wearing makeup to cover my spots and scars because I don’t care anymore! It’s natural and I’m done trying to please people with having ‘clear skin’....also I’m a very socially anxious person too 😩 I wish I was confident I feel like all my problems would go away if I was
Thank you for this video
It means a lot❤
I feel like lisa is very mature, I agree about everything she has said and I wish I could meet her personally.
Christina and Amy look so pretty here!! All the girls do but their eyes are poppin 👌🏻
What Dani said about you just needing to find the right people to hang out with is such good advice tbh. I have had friends who didn’t treat me right and now that I’m not friends with them anymore, I feel so much better.
I relate to Lauren soooo much! I am pretty shy too and it’s great to see someone else who is like me!
What Lauren said really hit home for me and this video couldn't of come at a better time. This week for some reason I've been struggling with being a quite person. I'm 23 and have been shy my whole life. It takes me forever to open up to someone. I think why I'm struggling this week is because one of my college professor keeps pointing out in front of the whole class that I'm quite. I think next time they say something I'm going to just say "there's nothing wrong with being quiet" lol Thank you girls for always being so real.
Did you do it?
Lisa is so right about everything she says... I love the way she found herself!
I relate to Dani so much on hiding feelings and feeling embarrassed of them, because it's something I struggle with. on one hand I always want to tell people how I'm feeling but if they ask me how I'm doing or complement me I will shut down. It's like I can love other people but I wont let other people love me because...I suppose I'm not in control of those feelings,and it terrifies me? I always feel like a burden when I tell people how I actually feel, because it's something I suppose I try to hide. And both what Lauren and Christina said speak to me because on one hand,I'm a very quiet person. I read books and when I feel uncomfortable I either shut down or become unnecessarily loud. My other side is that I love being surrounded by people and cracking jokes and being careless, but again when faced with uncomfortable situations I because so awkward and loud to cover up my discomfort. I always either feel sorry for not talking enough or talking to much. I really need to work on that and learn to act in those situations and push past them and face my situations head on instead of hiding.
I actually love when Katherine talks, Her discussions are intelligent and eloquent and helpful.
Am I the only person who relates so much to Katherine?😁 I'm also talking so much, like all the time you see me, I'm talking, just the whole time. I think it's just really difficult to stop yourself in that kind of 'flow'😁 but after talking and telling people stories about literally everything and everybody, you just think: Why I just said that? Was it too much? Why I just can't listen to people? It's really important to realize that other people who are more quiet, like your stories and all your emotions you're showing in telling them. 😊 (Sorry if there are mistakes, I'm not English)
When Lauren was talking about her being shy I’m like he literally described my life because if I don’t know someone or I’m not close with them then I get really shy
I relate to what Lauren said. I also went through stages of being shy, from extremely shy to shy at times. It never really fully went away, cause I still have days when I am really quiet and uncomfortable. I go through times when I am very open and sometimes I just can't bring myself to open my mouth and speak up. It really holds me back from doing as my true intentions are - and they are usually to be friendly.
i love you all and i think it's amazing that you guys opened up about this personal stuff! I commented this last night when you posted this video, but it breaks my hearts that Lisa feels worthless sometimes because she is such an inspiration to me and she deserves the world :)
You stole the words out of my mouth.
Same it breaks my heart to.💔
I related to Dani and Kath soo much
Lauren: "People probably don't even notice your insecurites. They are too busy worrying about themselves."
Dani: ...... LOL
Amy is really, really inspiring. 👑 She is like a short-person-icon. I love her. 💜
Lauren, thanks for opening my eyes by saying its OK to be a shy person! I have always been so negative toward myself because of thinking that it is a bad thing. Love ya
The physical insecurities answers really helped me with my own image as I can relate so strongly to Lisa Kath and Laurens answers
what Lauren said at the end really hit me and made me kind of emotional because I deal with something similar. Thank you, I needed to hear it ❤️
Y’all are my inspirations my role models and my idols! Idk what I’d do without y’all!! Ilysm ♥️♥️♥️🤗🤗🤗
Why idol?
It’s 4.30 in the morning and I haven’t been able to fall asleep because of anxiety. I’ve been watching your videos for hours and this video really means a lot. Thank you 💕
Lauren is so GORGEOUS! I always saw her as the model type. To hear she's insecure is so eye opening. We truly all feel like we have so many flaws. It would be amazing if we could all see ourselves through the eyes of our fondest admirer!
Dani seemed so sad here, I love you and I love you all girls!! So strong for doing this video, I’m so happy I support such amazing and talented girls. Come to London!! 😭❤️
You know, I notice that everything that make us unique is what we’re insecure about, and that is terrible, because being different is AWESOME
LISA is so Smart! I remember she shared some insta stories and I still keep her words:
" Dreaming is important but without action it is USELESS. Take care of you body, not to look good but to have energy and be able to do whatever it takes to get your work done. Don't be a victim of your life. This is your chance. Take it."
I decided to translated to Spanish and shared her words, obviously it was so much more than this, and I was amazed of how many people liked and think a lot about what she said.
All this girls are a true inspiration, and I really appreciate when they shared something really personal, cause it's not easy.
But here I am, getting sleep and preparing to go to church tomorrow and I learned something really special, I'm a daughter of God, and even when I'm not perfect he loves me perfectly, and even when I have a bunch of insecurities, I still can find answers to my prayers in this TH-cam video.
Thank you Cimorelli FAM. :)
⭐️Video Faves⭐️
Christina - EYES 👁
Kathryn - HOOPS 🤳🏻
Lisa - MAKEUP FREE FACE 🙌🏽
Amy - LIPSTICK 💋
Lauren - BROWS 😍
Dani - HAIR 💁🏻♀️
I love how Lisa loves herself so much. There are so many people who are so uncomfortable with themselves (myself) but seeing her so confident just gives me hope in life. Love you Lisa ❤️
idk I just started crying, especially after hearing what Lauren said at the end. as a shy extrovert, I feel so validated
I loveeeee this! Every second of this! We should be more open about our insecurities and accept them bc we only live one life.
"I don't think God creates trash personalities" - I love this
Oh gosh, I relate so much with Lauren, in literally everything.
I have a pretty bad acne and I'm, like, almost invisible and too shy, an introverted basically.
I haven't watched your channel for a few years consistently and when I last watched, Dani was this tiny young girl and now she has grown into an incredibly smart and wise person.
lisa made me cry when she said she writes what she’s feeling and then writes why it’s wrong. i never even thought about doing that. very inspiring ugh i love you girls!
I'm so connected to Lauren's struggle with being shy. I'm 28 years old and still struggle with this. I'm able to make conversation...most of the time anyway lol. But when I get home, to my serenity, I'm exhausted lol. I really need my alone time in order to function. As a kid though my teacher wrote on my report card to my mom, saying I was quote "painfully shy". So it's definitely been a journey and a significant struggle...ESPECIALLY during my school years! But thank God for growing older and wiser and way more accepting and appreciative of yourself you become. ♡
5:50 omg lisa is me. everything she said here is me! also my family sometimes doesn't even know i was gone too etc. so it is lowkey hard when u have many siblings
I relate so much to what you said about being "too skinny" Christina. I've always been a size 0, I still am and I'm 23 years old now. And what people don't realize is that somehow it's okay to attack someone's size 0 and call them "too skinny", "anorectic" or "a stick" etc (I hear all of these on a daily basis) because they are within what people think is a "beauty standard". And whenever I try to tell people that I don't think it's fun or that their words make me sad, they always say "Dude, you're not allowed to complain because you're skinny". I've always been ashamed of being skinny. Sometimes I have to find clothes in the child section because nothing else fits me, and I've tried so many times to gain weight but it's literally impossible. And people don't realize that it can hurt just as much when people comment on a tiny body as it does when people comment on a bigger one. It's just a body, and you shouldn't be allowed to attack anyone's body no matter what size.
Sorry for thing super long text. Anyway, thank you so much for inspiring all of us every day to love and accept ourselves just the way we are
Everything about being over the top is soooo true! I always struggle with not being gentle enough, or quiet enough, or being to bossy! This video opened so many things in my heart. Thank you so much for doing this video, it is amazing that you guys were so brave to share this with others
I seriously respect all of them for making this video. This probably took a lot of guts.
Favourite quotes from this video:
(1) “Find your tribe”
(2) “It’s ok to be quiet”
Y’all are so inspirational 🤗🤗🤗
This makes me cry really hard. Thanks you ❤️
I love Lisa’s confidence in herself 😂❤️ this video really helps me to understand that I’m not the only person that has lots of problems with insecurities 😊 thank you so much Cimorelli ❤️
Lauren's personality insecurity relates to me so hard
Lisa and Lauren are honestly my favorite people in Cimorelli. Lauren's high notes are super unstoppable.her voice is beautiful.(all the girls in Cimorelli have amazing voices) She is super kind and sweet like a cupcake. Lisa is just the reality of this world. She's unstoppable as a person. She belts her notes when she sings and it's beautiful. And she is brutely honest which I like😂😂 I absolutely love them both.
You guys are so wholesome. Thanks for your words. We are all great the way we are! 😊
Christina, Amy and Kathrine , I can connect with you so much with the ‘having a to big of a personality and, being to much’ I alway feel like I talk to much and need to be quiet and shut myself out. This video really helped me physically and mentally, thank you for making these videos they really help me feel better.
Same here. I’m very extroverted and talkative a lot like Amy and Katherine are and I’m like Christina as well where I can’t push my feelings down. Sometimes I feel like I’m annoying to other people.
When i watch people in like groups i usually feel like i can only relate to one person, but with Cimorelli i feel like i can relate and see myself in every single one of yu. So THANK YOU for sharing your stories.💙💙
I relate to you all in some way, I'm also sometimes too loud and too talkative and then are other days or weeks or months when I'm shy and quiet and awkward. I have had so much issues about my body because I'm also short and chubby (not that Amy is chubby, I am) and I have been so insecure about it for the longest time and only now starting to accept my body, my mind and my personality the way I am (I just turned 26 in December). I've come a long way and still have some more to go but I'm really proud about myself and I'm also proud about you girls for having the guts to speak up and to make a video like that to help other girls like you. We need to be more compassionate about ourselves and about others, try to cheer along and support each other and ourselves, not to tear us down. We are all beautiful in our own unique way and the people who love us don't care about our looks but what's inside, that's the most important thing that really matters. Love yourself and love others, spread love instead of hate 🤗
Lauren opened my eyes! This is so right! Nothing bad to be quiet! ♥ Love you!!! ♥
Katherine, I feel you girl! Eczema is the worst, I have way too many scars and the rashes are so annoying! Thanks for sharing this, I feel less lonely in this problem. I also talk a lot too and I get so insecure. Why am I relating soo much with you? Guess you're my favourite sister. :) Love you!
Lauren is so me😭💙 she made me feel better being an introvert🌸 THANK YOU GIRLS❤️❤️❤️
This was very therapeutic for me! I wasn't sure what to expect when I started watching this video.
Amy looks sooo pretty here
Lauren is my spirit animal. There's nothing wrong with being quiet. 💖
"I morph into what other people want me to be"
Same, later on, I realized I didn't know who I was anymore
I relate so much to Lauren! I'm so shy and sometimes I hate and I don't have many friends because of it...:/
atleast you have friends
It’s crazy how insecurities work! It’s just yourself tearing you up. We are our own biggest critic. EVERYONE NEEDS TO GET OVER THEMSELVES!! Haha it’s funny how that works but we are too involved in it and how we want to be or look instead of loving it for who you are.
'if the person can't fix it in less than 10 seconds, don't point it out'. it's really not hard. don't point out the person has pimples/acne. they know. they point out the person is fat. they are insecure about it. don't point out that the person is skinny. they are probably trying to gain weight. don't point out that people have a big or small nose. it could run in their genes. don't point out that girls have facial hair. it's normal. don't point out that girls are hairy. they have to constantly shave and wax, why point it out when boys do not have to. don't point out negativity. everyone has insecurities, pointing it out makes it worse. think before you say. I've been bullied in primary school and high school, it's not okay
So I’m just watching this video and I initially found it kinda crazy how Lauren has the same personality issue that I have with myself. Not that I thought that I was the only person in the world who struggled with being shy and not speaking up, but it’s so comforting to hear that someone goes through the same things that I go through. And I also found it even more crazy to see and read all the comments of other people that are insecure about how quiet they are. Sometimes it feels like you’re the only person in the world who struggles with something until you find someone who comes out and shares that they deal with the same things as you. Thanks a lot for this video!! I know it must’ve been hard to be vulnerable with so many people. From the outside I would’ve liked to assume everything is perfect with you guys but it’s so good to know that you’re just as real and human as me.
Dani and Amy:
"I don't wanna do this"
Katherine:
"I'm like actually excited about this"
Lauren is amazing, I’m introverted and have acne and she just made me realise that I’m perfect just the way I am. I almost cried
i relate to lauren so much i love my baby 💖💕💞💗💗💞
I loved it, I cried, I got chills at the end. (when the song started to play)
Thank you. This is important.
After this I think they should cover Little Me by Little Mix
karlos jones Yes!!
CHILLS LITERALLY CHILLS
2:07 I can RELATE 😭😭 .. I’m still dealing with this even now 😩 !!
7:05 that's so true and important to realise
I absolutely feel like Lauren too. Actually, it depends on what people are around. When I'm with my family, I'm not quiet at all but when I'm somewhere else, I'm super quiet. I just never really know what to say. Well, sometimes I do but usually not. I'm really bad at keeping a conversation going and especially beginning a conversation. If someone starts a conversation about a topic that interests me very much, I can talk and talk and talk and have no problem to keep the conversation going then but unfortunately that happens so seldom.. :/
I just started watching recently and I can’t stop!!! I love you guys and I’m glad you can open up to fans! As a Christian singer myself I look up to you guys and hope that I can do some of the things you guys do!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
thank you Christina for reminding me that it’s okay to be too much
This video helped me a lot, I’ve had a lot of people told me that I need to change and I’m always doing something wrong but this helped me think better about myself, thank you
amys hair like this suits her so well she looks super cute
I relate to Lauren so much, I’m so shy and quiet.
You guys are all amazing for talking about your insecurities , it's so inspiring ❤️❤️
Lauren is so wise, she gives the best advice, I'm impressed
I'm a shy individual but once I get to know people, i become more outgoing but there are people that are SO RUDE about me not talking that much and then other people who complain I talk too much. Honestly? I love the way I am and once I have complete understanding that everybody is different and maybe I will not be liked by everybody and that that's ok, I know I'll be ok.❤