@@memememeowww yes i am actually. it took a while but i found joy in different stuff. still learning to place my love in other things and not be so dependent on others for happiness though
getting over a crush/guy is so hard when it's like becoming a source of entertainment for you and your friends-there are good and bad friends i know but what i mean is the fact that we have crushes on guys for fun and it's so much entertaining when your friends are liking your encounters with them as well so it's a constant state of encouragement and feeding this annoying addiction because "this is so fun" until "i suddenly want him so bad" it's like a peer pressure but you're doing it for fun bcos it's an exciting topic for the groupchat but u keep on entertaining this basic dude for the sake of enjoyment so u constantly think about him and bam! you're freakin doomed lol
Omg this is so real😭 I stopped liking this one guy because he said some weird stuff to me and my friends started telling me how it was no big deal and they still considered him my crush so I kinda went back to crushing because of that
the best thing I like about her is that her videos are short, crisp and to the point. Unlike other videos which are 20-30 minutes long and naturally a person doesn’t feel inclined towards it Love you
friendship break ups are much more worse. i recently broke up with one of my old friends and she was rory gilmore and i was the birkin bag. there was so much disrespect it was dehumanizing. i needed this kind of video so much and universe is literally rewarding me. im so grateful for this video and simone
Thanks you Simone. I needed this. The Craving stage is hard af to get by. Even when you know it's bad for you. Never let emotions rule your choice. But, if we love ourselves enough I think we are wiser to choose a healthier relationship, diet, lifestyle, career etc.
OMG YOU KNOW SIMONE I REALLLYY NEEDED A VIDEO LIKE THAT YOU ARE LITERALLY A LIFE SAVOUR ! like i am so grateful to have you in my life i can't explain in words...tysm always!! what happened was this person was in love with me and i didn't saw them more than a friend but i was attached to them and today on valentines they making me feel guilty for not doing anything ... i also have my exams coming up soon so it is so much distracting and stressful but anyways I AM GLAD I HAVE YOU ON OUR SIDE thank you always for helping us out with our lives i can really never thank you enough!
i got over her literally the day she cheated on me. but i can't heal the trauma, like every time i flirt with someone else i'm thinking they're gonna cheat... how do i do ??
The funniest thing is I wanna get over him for a while💀 bc it is time to be an academic weapon imaooo Life update: I got over him completely and have no plans to like him again🗿
Simone just know whenever I feel down or lack drive, your videos give me the extra drive and confidence needed for the day. Perfect timing on your video! Thank you ❤
Your video on this topic is really heart touching. I recently found couple of very useful books on amazon on same topic titled "How to Recover from a Break-Up and Find Happiness Again" and "Hurt and Pain Never Again"
omg thank u i needed this not specifically about a relationship but bc of past situations of being mistreated/bullied and the same logic still applies so thank u
I watched this like three days ago because I had some suspicion that the guy I was talking to didn't like me anymore and now today in the morning he told me he's into someone else so yup I guess I'm a witch or smth, at least I was mentally prepared.
@@kimberlyturner820 Yeah, that made it easier to move on. He was literally like "I'm into someone else" and I was like "Alright, bye" now I have no intention of talking to him, waiting for him, nothing, just right to the point.
my ex of 3 years, (lived with him for 2 years) broke up with me on a SUNDAY night, blindsiding me. I came back a week later to grab more of my stuff and saw texts to a girl. He's a piece of shit! I almost got tired of watching breakup videos on youtube, then I saw this. Needed this video fr
I lost my cat yesterday I'm still crying it physically hurts that he's gone idk how I'm gonna get over it i have never loved this much any alive thing other than him please if any of you have any suggestions
you should buy a new cat, i know hard.Even if it is not a substitute for that cat, you will heal each other. Adopt that cat as if it were its kitten. How would he want you to take care of him?
just got out of a eight month relationship with someone i did a lot of firsts with and someone i thought would be my forever. i've been crying everyday, bed ridden, just tryna distract myself so i don't just sit and think and this is so painful.
I keep learning to be very clear about what I mean by things, to clarify things etc. with men. otherwise men will just assume. They'll take basic politeness as flirting, or think you're crushing on them just because you smiled. Then they get all cocky and brag about it to their friends inflating it to the max. And the whole time you weren't even romantically interested.
P.S If by "everything" you mean your body,well dont rush to sex,dosent guarantee anything.Woman cant give her mind,not hers to give,man rules mind by default,so dont put stakes on your body,there is always another woman with better one.Understand you man,not who he tries to look like,this is the key,ladies.Love and Respect.
i just got broken up with 4 days ago, and today was supposed to be our one month anniversary. i know its stupid to hurt so much over someone ive only been with for a month but it was the happiest ive ever been and i miss him the most. it sucks the most since he said that he still loves me but its “for the best” thing is, the distance probably got to him and he still needs to heal from his previous ex before me. i dont want to get my hopes up but he said maybe we can try again in the future, and i think thats whats holding me back from being able to properly heal from him. i know its only been a couple of days but some people make it seem so easy, and i really feel stuck and lost and it hurts so so so much. does anyone have any advice? i cant distract myself because i always think about him, and i cant focus properly. its also been really hard to sleep since we called all the time and slept on call together. someone whos become part of my routine is now gone. and its hard get out of it.
hey as someone who's going through the same thing only that we had been together for 2 years, its not easy and theres no shortcut through a breakup, its gonna hurt its going to get messy but one day its going to be alright and if you truly believe he was a good person and that you loved him then just move on with life and that doesnt mean stop loving him, he said you could try in the future again so if he really loved you he's going to wait for you and when the time is right you guys will reunite. I know it hurts so much, the flashback of those blissful memories they hurt but just think of them as a good experience and try to move on with life and if it was actually good you guys will reunite. No need to stress too much everything happens for a reason. Take care try to reach out to friends and family when you feel too low.
@@sara._yk1415 i feel like i should let go of the “we can try again” because in the chance that he’ll get over it before i do i feel like id waste my time waiting when he wont even come back to me. im doing better now and im lost :( thank you for the advice, i hope youre doing well!!
Simone , please make a video for people who have their ex in the same class as them or same work environment in which we have to see the other person on a daily basis. How do you deal with heartbreak then? . Please , please , please make a video.
Situation ships are ok,you need time to figure out a person and your feelings for them,don't rush it,take it slow,no prying,otherwise you gonna be in situation ships only.
A man knows what he wants and if doesn't commit he prolly doesn't like you that much. ALSO, no one deserves to be hung in between a situationship or relationship, we all deserve commitment and if that person isn't ready to do that. You should prolly get tf out. LIKE SERIOUSLY??? Imagine giving everything someone that comes in A COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT them being committed. LIKE EW!! NO THANKS :)
Man dont know if woman are suitable straight away,we dont rely on feelings.Have to test woman,spend time,look at her friends,family e.t.c Sex too(although is rare)then you make decision,time once again.Besides,I can tell you,real men,depends on woman actions,will always leave her,even if they are in a relationship@@kiwiie7
Wow...just wow...Im floored...I too believe everything happens full circle. My ex husband is my karmic partner...and yes I have met him before in another life...the connection is unreal...just like my new twin flame...we ascended and now we're ended (star cross lovers crap) right when I sat I'm ready after he hunted me down for years on News Years he got another chick prego...twin flames will always end and yes BOTH of us said it like we knew each other for years
My situationship is in relationship with my so called best friend rn... My bsf is my roommate I always she her on her phone talking to him and he lives in same campus as us... It's impossible to not see or hear about him again what should I do??
hi simone. Writing this to you with some hope. Something bad happened to me. It was around May. Though I gave the closure to myself, still I see them everyday during classes. I don't talk. I've cut them off. But seeing them everyday makes me revisit my wound and makes me question why they did what they really did. Can't really say it out loud but I did, just now. I don't know. I need some solution. Maybe a scorn.
It is really hard when they vouch for you, support you , like you as much as you do but arent capable of committing to you coz they cant offer what they dont know they can fulfill....it was on and off for several months now but ig it was the time to break contact. Its just day 5 though
He says he likes me, uses nicknames and all that stuff. But i have the feeling that im just backup and he takes hours when not days every time to respond. I know I will never be loved so I need to stop this. Thanks
THE TIMING IS IMMACULATE LMAO.
LMFAO FR
Oh my god same im like in shock💀💀💀💀💀
rightttt?lmao
IT RLLY ISS, GOD SENT FR
HELEP REAL
iTS CRAZY HOW SO MANY PEOPLE WANTED THIS VIDEO AT THIS TIMING!😭❤
BY BOYFRIEND JUST BROKE UP WITH ME YESTERDAY,PERFECT TIMING FOR ME
@@axel_whatliterally same. found out two days ago that he cheated on me months ago🤠✊
It’s even worser when you end things in a “calm way”, no fights, no hate.. just calm closure 💔
it’s hard when i loved being alone before her, now i feel empty. she ruined being alone for me when that was all I had to begin with
same
Are you doing better ?
@@memememeowww yes i am actually. it took a while but i found joy in different stuff. still learning to place my love in other things and not be so dependent on others for happiness though
I literally needed this rn😭 ive had a crush on this guy but he stopped showing interest in me so I need to get over him
getting over a crush/guy is so hard when it's like becoming a source of entertainment for you and your friends-there are good and bad friends i know but what i mean is the fact that we have crushes on guys for fun and it's so much entertaining when your friends are liking your encounters with them as well so it's a constant state of encouragement and feeding this annoying addiction because "this is so fun" until "i suddenly want him so bad" it's like a peer pressure but you're doing it for fun bcos it's an exciting topic for the groupchat but u keep on entertaining this basic dude for the sake of enjoyment so u constantly think about him and bam! you're freakin doomed lol
Omg this is so real😭 I stopped liking this one guy because he said some weird stuff to me and my friends started telling me how it was no big deal and they still considered him my crush so I kinda went back to crushing because of that
@@liefiscute that's why we gotta get simone's videos drilled in our brains FAST 😵💫
omfg u described it perfectly 😭 like most of my “crushes” or whatever were from peer pressure and the part of trying to be “delulu” was entertaining
you literally just described 6 years of my life 🤌🤌
This is how I am with celebrities 😭 I have a celebrity crush lol 💐💕
THIS TIMING IS PERFECT he is cute but hes no gentleman at all and has literally no manners
Breakup season for everyone??😭😭😭
the best thing I like about her is that her videos are short, crisp and to the point. Unlike other videos which are 20-30 minutes long and naturally a person doesn’t feel inclined towards it
Love you
SHAKING IN MY BOOTS COZ HOW IS THE TIMING LIT PERFECT??? I NEEDED THIS VIDEO LIKE RNW WTH
I regret being "friend with benefits" with someone so badly man...
Me too
Why
GIRL😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 AND HE'S NOT EVEN ALLAT BUT I'M OVER HERE
the timing is actually insane
friendship break ups are much more worse. i recently broke up with one of my old friends and she was rory gilmore and i was the birkin bag. there was so much disrespect it was dehumanizing. i needed this kind of video so much and universe is literally rewarding me. im so grateful for this video and simone
beyond brutal
YO THE TIMING I ACTUALLY LOVE YOU
Thanks you Simone. I needed this. The Craving stage is hard af to get by. Even when you know it's bad for you. Never let emotions rule your choice. But, if we love ourselves enough I think we are wiser to choose a healthier relationship, diet, lifestyle, career etc.
OMG YOU KNOW SIMONE I REALLLYY NEEDED A VIDEO LIKE THAT YOU ARE LITERALLY A LIFE SAVOUR ! like i am so grateful to have you in my life i can't explain in words...tysm always!! what happened was this person was in love with me and i didn't saw them more than a friend but i was attached to them and today on valentines they making me feel guilty for not doing anything ... i also have my exams coming up soon so it is so much distracting and stressful but anyways I AM GLAD I HAVE YOU ON OUR SIDE thank you always for helping us out with our lives i can really never thank you enough!
Tell a friend, to tell a friend.. she's back ❤
Love the fact that this was posted on valentines day.. respect😍🙏
Didn’t expect you to get into the spiritual part of it, I needed to hear the last part today😅 thank you
THIS!
i got over her literally the day she cheated on me. but i can't heal the trauma, like every time i flirt with someone else i'm thinking they're gonna cheat... how do i do ??
You never know what someone else is going to do but you do know what you will do if happens
They will
I dont know why i am here
I can get over any FREAKING person like a flick of a switch its so easy for me
I just love simone🌝💞
sucks when u gotta be seeing them in school everyday...
Bro I swear on my life she really needs to make a vid on this😭😭
the timing is insane on this!! it is about time he leaves my mind for good
I needed this so bad😭- the timing wins
SIS THE TIMING??? GODLYYY
The Rory and Lilly reference proves this is the channel I never knew I NEEDED🤭
Gurl I always play this video immediately everytime I start ruminating and it really helps a lot
mother is always right on time
LITERALLY NEEDED THIS RN THANKYOU MOTHER
SAMEE
The funniest thing is I wanna get over him for a while💀 bc it is time to be an academic weapon imaooo
Life update: I got over him completely and have no plans to like him again🗿
Why are we so the same 😅
literally me-
@@_simpson_lover_0925 💋 soul sisters maybe?
@@thetoiletpaperrollondalgom4592 I-🗿
SIMONE IS BACK GUYS LIFE IS LIFEING
Simone just know whenever I feel down or lack drive, your videos give me the extra drive and confidence needed for the day. Perfect timing on your video! Thank you ❤
The timing is so perfect
Just ended it with him
Your video on this topic is really heart touching. I recently found couple of very useful books on amazon on same topic titled "How to Recover from a Break-Up and Find Happiness Again" and "Hurt and Pain Never Again"
everyone saying the timing of this video is perfect, true i BADLY needed this.
This year is my LOVER YEAR. I will love everything I have and the people I cherish. I'm gonna make the universe fall in love with me .🎉🎉
Girl wake up the queen has posted ✨
omg thank u i needed this not specifically about a relationship but bc of past situations of being mistreated/bullied and the same logic still applies so thank u
100% you shouldn't want a relationship with someone who wants a situationship. They don't know what they want... Always one foot in one foot out.
I watched this like three days ago because I had some suspicion that the guy I was talking to didn't like me anymore and now today in the morning he told me he's into someone else so yup I guess I'm a witch or smth, at least I was mentally prepared.
Well, at least he told you 🤷
@@kimberlyturner820 Yeah, that made it easier to move on. He was literally like "I'm into someone else" and I was like "Alright, bye" now I have no intention of talking to him, waiting for him, nothing, just right to the point.
V@@silvij4416same situation I need to move on
my ex of 3 years, (lived with him for 2 years) broke up with me on a SUNDAY night, blindsiding me. I came back a week later to grab more of my stuff and saw texts to a girl. He's a piece of shit! I almost got tired of watching breakup videos on youtube, then I saw this. Needed this video fr
Happy galentine's day simone!
I'm lucky because this is what i need right now thank youu simonnn😭🌷
just made valentines day better
I lost my cat yesterday I'm still crying it physically hurts that he's gone idk how I'm gonna get over it
i have never loved this much any alive thing other than him
please if any of you have any suggestions
you should buy a new cat, i know hard.Even if it is not a substitute for that cat, you will heal each other. Adopt that cat as if it were its kitten. How would he want you to take care of him?
I needed this a month ago and I still need this
you're freaking PHENOMENOL.....ilysfmmm
SIMONE ANSWERING MY PRAYER
Me and my long term spouse just separated so…yeah I needed this 💔
ABSOLUTELY COOL & Happy Valentine’s Day, Simone! ❤❤❤
just got out of a eight month relationship with someone i did a lot of firsts with and someone i thought would be my forever. i've been crying everyday, bed ridden, just tryna distract myself so i don't just sit and think and this is so painful.
Hey girl how are you?
@@teadrinker1260 i'm doing okay. i'm glad i'm over the hard part. i know that somewhere out there, there's someone who will reciprocate
She said it the best way possible I really needed to hear this thank u!!!😭
it's crazy how she's still raising me. honoured, truly.
OMG MOTHER CAME TO SAVE MY ASS ONCE AGAIN … Simone on her superheroine shit
I JUST HAD BREAKUP YOUR TIMING IS INSAANEEEEEE
plz ..... make a video on toxic friends and how to deal with them gracefully .
I keep learning to be very clear about what I mean by things, to clarify things etc. with men. otherwise men will just assume. They'll take basic politeness as flirting, or think you're crushing on them just because you smiled. Then they get all cocky and brag about it to their friends inflating it to the max. And the whole time you weren't even romantically interested.
Literally needed this so bad rn 🙌🏾
Simone helped me move on in 2020. And now I need to move on again... thanks for your vid!
This cured me fr
I am literally not over a guy that I didn’t even date
Oh Maria me too 😢sending you a hug and courage to no contact and move on. Sigh. Cruel world
P.S If by "everything" you mean your body,well dont rush to sex,dosent guarantee anything.Woman cant give her mind,not hers to give,man rules mind by default,so dont put stakes on your body,there is always another woman with better one.Understand you man,not who he tries to look like,this is the key,ladies.Love and Respect.
omgg HAHAHAHA this video is very timing to me, just confessed to my crush this valentine's day lolz
I was just crying over himmm HAHAH lord…
needed this omg
you just need to watch this as soon as you realize the bad pattern is attacking you again through intrusive thoughts 💅🏻
You're like a big sister who always got my back
I was getting hypnotized by you snapping lol
i just got broken up with 4 days ago, and today was supposed to be our one month anniversary. i know its stupid to hurt so much over someone ive only been with for a month but it was the happiest ive ever been and i miss him the most. it sucks the most since he said that he still loves me but its “for the best” thing is, the distance probably got to him and he still needs to heal from his previous ex before me. i dont want to get my hopes up but he said maybe we can try again in the future, and i think thats whats holding me back from being able to properly heal from him. i know its only been a couple of days but some people make it seem so easy, and i really feel stuck and lost and it hurts so so so much. does anyone have any advice? i cant distract myself because i always think about him, and i cant focus properly. its also been really hard to sleep since we called all the time and slept on call together. someone whos become part of my routine is now gone. and its hard get out of it.
hey as someone who's going through the same thing only that we had been together for 2 years, its not easy and theres no shortcut through a breakup, its gonna hurt its going to get messy but one day its going to be alright and if you truly believe he was a good person and that you loved him then just move on with life and that doesnt mean stop loving him, he said you could try in the future again so if he really loved you he's going to wait for you and when the time is right you guys will reunite. I know it hurts so much, the flashback of those blissful memories they hurt but just think of them as a good experience and try to move on with life and if it was actually good you guys will reunite. No need to stress too much everything happens for a reason. Take care try to reach out to friends and family when you feel too low.
@@sara._yk1415 i feel like i should let go of the “we can try again” because in the chance that he’ll get over it before i do i feel like id waste my time waiting when he wont even come back to me. im doing better now and im lost :( thank you for the advice, i hope youre doing well!!
Simone , please make a video for people who have their ex in the same class as them or same work environment in which we have to see the other person on a daily basis. How do you deal with heartbreak then? . Please , please , please make a video.
how is everyone being broken up with a few days after valentines lmao
Should I unfollow my fling/situationship if it ended kinda badly? I feel like he doesn’t respect/consider but it WAS casual so makes sense
Why not?
@@dzoli6698 why not unfollow him?
bryon needs to watch this 😂
simone can help him at this point only, not his ex
Situation ships are ok,you need time to figure out a person and your feelings for them,don't rush it,take it slow,no prying,otherwise you gonna be in situation ships only.
A man knows what he wants and if doesn't commit he prolly doesn't like you that much. ALSO, no one deserves to be hung in between a situationship or relationship, we all deserve commitment and if that person isn't ready to do that. You should prolly get tf out.
LIKE SERIOUSLY??? Imagine giving everything someone that comes in A COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT them being committed. LIKE EW!! NO THANKS :)
Man dont know if woman are suitable straight away,we dont rely on feelings.Have to test woman,spend time,look at her friends,family e.t.c Sex too(although is rare)then you make decision,time once again.Besides,I can tell you,real men,depends on woman actions,will always leave her,even if they are in a relationship@@kiwiie7
Wow...just wow...Im floored...I too believe everything happens full circle. My ex husband is my karmic partner...and yes I have met him before in another life...the connection is unreal...just like my new twin flame...we ascended and now we're ended (star cross lovers crap) right when I sat I'm ready after he hunted me down for years on News Years he got another chick prego...twin flames will always end and yes BOTH of us said it like we knew each other for years
My situationship is in relationship with my so called best friend rn... My bsf is my roommate I always she her on her phone talking to him and he lives in same campus as us... It's impossible to not see or hear about him again what should I do??
I NEEDED THIS
Thankyou simon loads of loveeee❤
THE WAY I NEEDED THIS MORE THAN LITERAL OXYGEN OMG I LOVE YOU SIMONE
hi simone. Writing this to you with some hope. Something bad happened to me. It was around May.
Though I gave the closure to myself, still I see them everyday during classes. I don't talk. I've cut them off. But seeing them everyday makes me revisit my wound and makes me question why they did what they really did. Can't really say it out loud but I did, just now. I don't know. I need some solution. Maybe a scorn.
It is really hard when they vouch for you, support you , like you as much as you do but arent capable of committing to you coz they cant offer what they dont know they can fulfill....it was on and off for several months now but ig it was the time to break contact. Its just day 5 though
I love you girlie thank you for your content 🤍
oh my god. u r so funny. Like the best friend I never had.
He’s making me suffer as hell and again I went back to him. Idk how to leave pls someone tell me how to do it.
deixe ele para trás e se abra pra uma nova vida
the timing is so 😭💀
The timing is immaculate 😅
HOW CAN I CUT THEM OF AND THEY ARE IN MY CLASS ( I SEE THEM EVERY SINGLE DAY )AND THEY STILL GIVE ME MIXED SIGNALS 💀😭
i think ive met my twin flame but nothing happened between us but i keep seeing him and his name EVERYWHERE also he goes to my school.
He says he likes me, uses nicknames and all that stuff. But i have the feeling that im just backup and he takes hours when not days every time to respond. I know I will never be loved so I need to stop this. Thanks
Thanku sm ily!! 💕😭
I have cut some people off just due to feelings and drama. As of rught now, i need ti be able to learn to live without thunking of them
Bruh its been 7 months i need to move tf on wtf is wrong w me😭😭
It’s not you 😢 sigh 😞 met a guy end of April and sigh it’s like it’s not even that long … why can’t I move on.
how do you stop seeing them if you work together?
He left after promising to get back to me
SIMON CAN YOU SHARE YOUR SUBMLIMINAL PLAYLIST (IF U HAVE ONE?):33
I needed this
God the video of this timing is just❤
Pls close the door its making me anxious 😅
What if he lives next door?
This guy played with me for 3months after that he gives me cold and hot treatment
I dont deserve that period