In July of 1990, I was 26, had earned a college diploma at age 22 and now had 4 years of work experience and no student debt. I moved out West and far away from my father's house. This was 2 years after my parents had left their New Jersey house and moved South to Florida in November 1988. My father was furious! I was no longer there to clean up after my 31-year-old father's "golden boy" older brother. After 5 months, my parent came back to New Jersey for Christmas in December 1990. My parents were furious that the house looked like a pigsty! My father wanted to know if my temper tantrum was over, now I can move back to New Jersey and keep a clean house. I told him that I was staying where I am. I am still here after 33 years!
I have the rocking chair my gram had. She rocked my mom and my aunt in it, me and my brother, I rocked my daughter and son in it and when my grandson came home from NICU, I rocked him in it and read his first Christmas Book bc he came home the day after. Now my daughter has the chair. It's over 100 years old and was brought from the old country. Zagreb Croatia
They're telling THE SCAPEGOAT how bad her sister is, when it's the scapegoat who has been the sisters target for years and years. Nothing she's done is new. That's a special kind of obliviousness!
OP STUDY HARD, this is your ticket out of that house. Stop enabling that toxic entitled sister. Let your parents find out who she really is. Then if you wish, you can go low contact or choose no contact. They have fail you as parents’ . Wish you the best in life.
When your own family members are toxic. Then you have to find a way out. Once you live without the negativity for a few months you'll realize "I feel much better now. I'm never going back." OP should have left much sooner.
Hahaha....you are so right! It just reveals that the writer for almost all these stories is the same person or it's become a colloquial term. They don't necessarily use the word in the correct context either.
@@susanhansen1290No amount of therapy can help this girl. Not yet at least. Military school first then try therapy. She's been spoiled rotten for far too long and gotten away with way to much crap for therapy to be of any use. I mean she let a raccoon lose in her sisters room and the idiotic parents believed that Stella did it to make her sister happy. No normal parents would believe that. Also who let's their kids have a pet raccoon?!
Talk about enabling the younger sister, the older sister is at fault for covering all this BS, Had she really cared she would have let her younger sister deal with her own issue earlier. The monster is also her fault or am I wrong?.
I love how the "GOLDEN CHILD" always turns out to be so damn rotten you can smell them all the way on the other side of the world. This is why you NEVER play favorites with your kids. NEVER take responsibility for something you didn't do. My older brother is worthless but he's still my mom's favorite child, he was her 18th birthday present, me HELL NO.
I would still like to know what the appropriate punishment for Stella was. She acted just the way she was 'allowed' to act all her life. The parents and, sadly, conditioned older sister taught Stella to act the way she did. So what happened next, were there any consequences or just bitter parents who most probably still blamed their older daughter??!! Because all I hear is that they begged the older sister to come home and admitted that it was Stella that was the problem...doesn't change their behaviour though nor does it address what they are going to do from now on.
Sometimes you have to put your own happiness or better your own mental health first. If there would have been problems because her being legally still a minor. I guess involving the authorities or asking a court for emancipation might have ended any problems.
Research the word "literally". Stella may be bad enough to say that she's figuratively "Satan's spawn" but if she's "literally Satan's spawn" someone needs to call a priest.
@@dittymargooould be the father is Satan. Didn't they claim women used to get it on with him in the witch trials, way back when? ETA - She didn't say "She's literally Satan's spawn." She said, "She's literally like Satan's spawn." 11:15 So she wasn't accusing either parent of being Old Scratch.
@@rogerrabbit80 You have a good point. I didn't think of it that way. Perhaps I was just focused on the conversation being between mother and daughter.
Exactly. When you enable people that abuse you, you deserve everything that happens to you. How can you expect change when yt won't stand up for yourself
All parent's have favorites.. some just aren't blatant with it.. they actually try to hide it and treat all their kids the same.. my mom favorite is my brother, me and my sister always knew it. But she's NEVER made us feel less than.. she treated us all the same.. him she babied but we've never felt unloved not a single day. She also didn't pit us against each other. Anytime we fought, She'd give us the we're siblings, siblings are to love and be there for each other lecture. we are actually close. That's due to my parents parenting.. she would NEVER allow any of us to mistreat, disrespect or talk down to one another. If she had... I can 1000% assure you I would've cut my parent's off as soon as I hit 18... this girl ahouldve BEEN get rid of these useless people.. they weren't needed in her life, served no purposed and only acted like they only had 1 child.. I would've been gone as soon as I turned 18.. I'd live on the streets first before putting up with that bs. People think just cause someone is blood it's normal or ok to be treated like shyt.. it's absolutely NOT..
"I mean, yeah I usually take the fall for her so that my parents don't get disappointed (sic)" "I can't help but feel like I don't want her to get in trouble" That's like giving someone a stick and then complaining each time they hit you with it... But in Sarah's defence on the other hand, she's been unhealthily conditioned by the 'faaaaaaaaaaaaaaamily' bs that all relatives spew about the golden child. "You can't put charges on (relative) for (crime) - they're faaaaaaaaaaaaaaamily! It doesn't count as (crime) when it's faaaaaaaaaaaaaaamily! Just let it go." Poor Sarah. She was jumping through some very toxic mental hoops out of what she thought was 'love' for her parents. So glad she got out in the end! Maxine and her family are the MVP's! "Should I tell my parents? Or my sister? (About our grand plan that will help me get a spine about them?)" Maxine: "NO!!" ^^^ Thank god for Maxine 😮💨
Yeah if she had told her parents they would have grounded her and told her she can't go. Her being weak willed would have just accepted it. In the meantime sister would have her rave party and make sure one of her guests breaks the chair. It means nothing to her. So she'd have no issues with it being destroyed. In fact she'd delight in it. Knowing it made her sister cry would tickle the heck out of her. She'd be all sad and depressed around the parents. All while blaming her sister's wild party but happy and gloating about the chairs destruction due to her party. Just to upset her sister who would regret not heading her friends advice to get out sooner.
I think if people come on here and complain that they are getting bullied by their siblings or other family and/or friends. Then let them do it. If you are going to do that, keep your mouth shut.
Self-inflicted misery. "I coddled my younger sister and shielded her from the consequences of her actions. Now I can't understand why she acts like her actions never have consequences."
It wasn't selfish for Sarah to reject her parents, had she gone back, things would have soon gone back to the way it was before with the parents soon favoring evil sis again. Remember, this mother referred to Sarah as "Satan's spawn", she doesn't get to walk back from that.
Omg🤦😠 another weak doormat who can't even stand up for herself especially against her horrible & naive family & just take the rocking chair regardless what her family says 🤦😠😠 what is wrong w these people???🤦😠😠
To blame are obviously the parents in this story and the sister is really a satans child but also the OP for not speakign up sooner. I also kept quiet and that made things worse. But Maxine was reallya great friend and angel in disguise. This story kind of hit home for me. For me it was that I was the younger sister and my older brother was the golden child. Not only for my parents but for my whole big family because he was the first child of our generation. He could do nothing wrong and I got blamed for a lot. Only after we got older my parents saw the truth atleast sadly not the rest of the family and both treated me normal afterwards same as my brother who had to accept not being the "perfect angel and golden child".
ESH. Sorry op, but you did this to yourself. Not only did you let her get away with treating you like a second class citizen, you lied & made excuses for her behavior. "She put a racoon in my room because I love racoons." Seriously? How did she get her hands on a racoon, anyway? That's BS. I live in the country & racoons are dirty, stinky, destructive, mean, & carry rabies. Did she set a trap to catch one? Bought it from the pet store? Stole it from the zoo?
i can't tell which character is talking without reading along with the story. It's the same person playing both party's that makes it hard to understand. Need to change the voice some on one of the characters.
Sucks to say cuz Stella is an awful human but OP is definitely responsible for a lot of things as well. You can't spend years coddling your sister to your parents. Finally get frustrated enough to say some truths and expect everyone to see the light and alter behaviors.
STELLA LISTEN UP AND LISTEN GOOD THERE TOO CUPCAKE AND STELLA STOP FRAMING YOUR SISTER SARAH AND STELLA DO YOU UNDERSTAND ME THERE TOO STELLA THE CUPCAKE TOO
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This is so true, when the scapegoat leaves all hell breaks lose
I wonder if they got the idea for the name Stella from A Streetcar Named Desire. She's just as psychotic.
plus the truth is like a genie once it's out it can't be put back into the bottle
Good for Sarah for not being a doormat anymore. She deserves better.
In July of 1990, I was 26, had earned a college diploma at age 22 and now had 4 years of work experience and no student debt. I moved out West and far away from my father's house. This was 2 years after my parents had left their New Jersey house and moved South to Florida in November 1988. My father was furious! I was no longer there to clean up after my 31-year-old father's "golden boy" older brother. After 5 months, my parent came back to New Jersey for Christmas in December 1990. My parents were furious that the house looked like a pigsty! My father wanted to know if my temper tantrum was over, now I can move back to New Jersey and keep a clean house. I told him that I was staying where I am. I am still here after 33 years!
Good for you. Your father sounds disgusting.
Good for you for standing your ground! 👍👍
hope your mother gave a broom to both father and brother, and divorced your father.
I left when I was 14. Worked 45 years and retired. That's good u had a good work ethic
We both have good work ethics.@@sharonbyrd8625
Maxine is a true friend
yeah I agree she helped OP give karma a nudge to expose that brat
Stella can provide the voice for Chip n Dale's sis in the Disney chipmunk cartoon
"Do you know how embarrassing this is?"
"Do you know how little I care?"
👍👍
OP is enabling bot the parents and her sister by covering for her sistee
I have the rocking chair my gram had. She rocked my mom and my aunt in it, me and my brother, I rocked my daughter and son in it and when my grandson came home from NICU, I rocked him in it and read his first Christmas Book bc he came home the day after. Now my daughter has the chair. It's over 100 years old and was brought from the old country. Zagreb Croatia
Screw the punishments, I’d retaliate FULL THROTTLE
I would go full force scorched earth. After that, I would not only salt the earth, but I would also tinkle on the ashes.
The perfect voice for the Annoying sister 😂
The perfect name for a psychotic sister; this plot makes "A Streetcar Named Desire" look tame.
They're telling THE SCAPEGOAT how bad her sister is, when it's the scapegoat who has been the sisters target for years and years. Nothing she's done is new. That's a special kind of obliviousness!
But did you get the rocking chair at the end???
OP STUDY HARD, this is your ticket out of that house. Stop enabling that toxic entitled sister. Let your parents find out who she really is. Then if you wish, you can go low contact or choose no contact. They have fail you as parents’ . Wish you the best in life.
Interesting story
OP needs to leave and let the parents find out for themselves what Stella is like.
Yeah, she needs to stop being a doormat. And take her piano and rocking chair over to her friend's house for safekeeping.
Yeah, If only there was some way she could! Idk maybe her friend might have an aunt that would let her move in with her.
Sadly many families have a child like that
The chair is in danger! I would have tried to sneak it out of the house and get it to her friends house for safe keeping.
Stella"s devious and a thief.
Thank you.
Wow, that mother is AWFUL....kinda seems like the parents are the biggest problem here....lol these stories make me sooo glad I'm an only chld
When your own family members are toxic. Then you have to find a way out. Once you live without the negativity for a few months you'll realize "I feel much better now. I'm never going back." OP should have left much sooner.
It just took two days - that is barely a weekend 🙂
What is the obsession with the word "literally?" Nearly every story I read (and listen to) uses it multiple times. Enough already!
Hahaha....you are so right! It just reveals that the writer for almost all these stories is the same person or it's become a colloquial term. They don't necessarily use the word in the correct context either.
Uhm military schools do indeed exist.
Umm ,military schools definitely do exist.
Or juvenille hall.
They are reopening juvenile halls in Los Angeles as we speak
And there are sill military schools for both boys and girls and even a "theraputic" boarding school
@@susanhansen1290No amount of therapy can help this girl. Not yet at least. Military school first then try therapy. She's been spoiled rotten for far too long and gotten away with way to much crap for therapy to be of any use.
I mean she let a raccoon lose in her sisters room and the idiotic parents believed that Stella did it to make her sister happy. No normal parents would believe that. Also who let's their kids have a pet raccoon?!
Talk about enabling the younger sister, the older sister is at fault for covering all this BS, Had she really cared she would have let her younger sister deal with her own issue earlier. The monster is also her fault or am I wrong?.
I love how the "GOLDEN CHILD" always turns out to be so damn rotten you can smell them all the way on the other side of the world. This is why you NEVER play favorites with your kids. NEVER take responsibility for something you didn't do. My older brother is worthless but he's still my mom's favorite child, he was her 18th birthday present, me HELL NO.
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@@cindybreweramanda188i just saw it lol. My name is Amanda too😊
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did Sarah ever get her rocking chair back?
Really good storytelling!!! ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
I would still like to know what the appropriate punishment for Stella was. She acted just the way she was 'allowed' to act all her life. The parents and, sadly, conditioned older sister taught Stella to act the way she did. So what happened next, were there any consequences or just bitter parents who most probably still blamed their older daughter??!! Because all I hear is that they begged the older sister to come home and admitted that it was Stella that was the problem...doesn't change their behaviour though nor does it address what they are going to do from now on.
Exactly, to paraphrase Willy Wonka- "a child can't spoil itself you know!!"
@@twiceshy9773 I'd forgotten that phrase, but it's so true.
Sometimes you have to put your own happiness or better your own mental health first.
If there would have been problems because her being legally still a minor. I guess involving the authorities or asking a court for emancipation might have ended any problems.
For those of us who have to read this: FIX YOUR TYPOS!!!!!!!!!
OP you handled that with suck great class and vengeance.
oh yeah the stupid sister let that genie out herself
If my family was treating me like crap I would have been move out a long time ago
Not if your 17.
sooner or later the truth comes out and now the parents know who Stella really is
Research the word "literally". Stella may be bad enough to say that she's figuratively "Satan's spawn" but if she's "literally Satan's spawn" someone needs to call a priest.
Yeah, I don't know if I'd be brave enough to call my mother the devil.
@@dittymargooould be the father is Satan.
Didn't they claim women used to get it on with him in the witch trials, way back when?
ETA - She didn't say "She's literally Satan's spawn." She said, "She's literally like Satan's spawn." 11:15 So she wasn't accusing either parent of being Old Scratch.
@@rogerrabbit80 You have a good point. I didn't think of it that way. Perhaps I was just focused on the conversation being between mother and daughter.
Why do people use 'literally' every other weird these days?
I 'literally' think the word is overused.
I remember this back in the 70s.
I have 0 sympathy for OP. "I keep covering for her and she never gets in trouble" are you kidding me?
Exactly. When you enable people that abuse you, you deserve everything that happens to you. How can you expect change when yt won't stand up for yourself
@@DREADHEADYABOSSshe tried many times, but it always came back that they believed the younger sister 😡
Literally???
Literally, how many times can you say literally. And no, it's not "literally illegal" for you to have a smaller room.
-murder isn't legal murder isn't legal murder isn't legal murder isn't legal-
Maybe this is a good story, but the shrill pitch ruined it for me
1:00 Military schools exist. For example, in India.
When whatever you do, you get punished ... do what suits YOU best. YOU will get punished anyway but ...
This should be chipped into OP's grave marker: [But I love my parents so much in spite of everything]
Family or company. Someone's true worth is known only when they leave.
All parent's have favorites.. some just aren't blatant with it.. they actually try to hide it and treat all their kids the same.. my mom favorite is my brother, me and my sister always knew it. But she's NEVER made us feel less than.. she treated us all the same.. him she babied but we've never felt unloved not a single day. She also didn't pit us against each other. Anytime we fought, She'd give us the we're siblings, siblings are to love and be there for each other lecture. we are actually close. That's due to my parents parenting.. she would NEVER allow any of us to mistreat, disrespect or talk down to one another. If she had... I can 1000% assure you I would've cut my parent's off as soon as I hit 18... this girl ahouldve BEEN get rid of these useless people.. they weren't needed in her life, served no purposed and only acted like they only had 1 child.. I would've been gone as soon as I turned 18.. I'd live on the streets first before putting up with that bs. People think just cause someone is blood it's normal or ok to be treated like shyt.. it's absolutely NOT..
"I mean, yeah I usually take the fall for her so that my parents don't get disappointed (sic)"
"I can't help but feel like I don't want her to get in trouble"
That's like giving someone a stick and then complaining each time they hit you with it...
But in Sarah's defence on the other hand, she's been unhealthily conditioned by the 'faaaaaaaaaaaaaaamily' bs that all relatives spew about the golden child.
"You can't put charges on (relative) for (crime) - they're faaaaaaaaaaaaaaamily! It doesn't count as (crime) when it's faaaaaaaaaaaaaaamily! Just let it go."
Poor Sarah. She was jumping through some very toxic mental hoops out of what she thought was 'love' for her parents. So glad she got out in the end!
Maxine and her family are the MVP's!
"Should I tell my parents? Or my sister? (About our grand plan that will help me get a spine about them?)"
Maxine: "NO!!"
^^^ Thank god for Maxine 😮💨
Yeah if she had told her parents they would have grounded her and told her she can't go. Her being weak willed would have just accepted it. In the meantime sister would have her rave party and make sure one of her guests breaks the chair. It means nothing to her. So she'd have no issues with it being destroyed. In fact she'd delight in it. Knowing it made her sister cry would tickle the heck out of her. She'd be all sad and depressed around the parents. All while blaming her sister's wild party but happy and gloating about the chairs destruction due to her party. Just to upset her sister who would regret not heading her friends advice to get out sooner.
I think if people come on here and complain that they are getting bullied by their siblings or other family and/or friends. Then let them do it. If you are going to do that, keep your mouth shut.
Op helped create a monster with her silence. Then cried when the obvious happened. Whos the good guy here?
Self-inflicted misery.
"I coddled my younger sister and shielded her from the consequences of her actions. Now I can't understand why she acts like her actions never have consequences."
Ok, we literally need a drinking game - literally.
It wasn't selfish for Sarah to reject her parents, had she gone back, things would have soon gone back to the way it was before with the parents soon favoring evil sis again. Remember, this mother referred to Sarah as "Satan's spawn", she doesn't get to walk back from that.
hope she will ship the piano and the rocking chair out before she leaves.
Reality sucks, huh, Stella?
Omg🤦😠 another weak doormat who can't even stand up for herself especially against her horrible & naive family & just take the rocking chair regardless what her family says 🤦😠😠 what is wrong w these people???🤦😠😠
FIONA LISTEN UP AND LISTEN GOOD THERE TOO CUPCAKE AND GOOD LUCK WITH THAT TOO FIONA
"Oh, no! I told my mom about how I'd been lying to her for years, and she called me a liar! Boo-Hoo!"
To blame are obviously the parents in this story and the sister is really a satans child but also the OP for not speakign up sooner. I also kept quiet and that made things worse.
But Maxine was reallya great friend and angel in disguise.
This story kind of hit home for me. For me it was that I was the younger sister and my older brother was the golden child. Not only for my parents but for my whole big family because he was the first child of our generation. He could do nothing wrong and I got blamed for a lot. Only after we got older my parents saw the truth atleast sadly not the rest of the family and both treated me normal afterwards same as my brother who had to accept not being the "perfect angel and golden child".
ESH. Sorry op, but you did this to yourself. Not only did you let her get away with treating you like a second class citizen, you lied & made excuses for her behavior. "She put a racoon in my room because I love racoons." Seriously? How did she get her hands on a racoon, anyway? That's BS. I live in the country & racoons are dirty, stinky, destructive, mean, & carry rabies. Did she set a trap to catch one? Bought it from the pet store? Stole it from the zoo?
Who has the imagination to cook up these repetitive plots; with families like that, better to become a lone wolf bordering on a recluse.
She was only 17 so it was harder to leave
But what did they do to the spoiled daughter?
Dear McText Pro: Can we please have LESS of these "I know, I knowwww". Funny the first 2 times but irritating later on!?
four different font sizes in the space of four text boxes. Really? Really???
I hope the golden child makes their lives hell.
Literally quit saying 'literally'
i can't tell which character is talking without reading along with the story. It's the same person playing both party's that makes it hard to understand. Need to change the voice some on one of the characters.
Sucks to say cuz Stella is an awful human but OP is definitely responsible for a lot of things as well. You can't spend years coddling your sister to your parents. Finally get frustrated enough to say some truths and expect everyone to see the light and alter behaviors.
I get moving out of an abusive situation is hard but OP is making more excuses to stay and be verbally abused. I honestly think she likes it
She was 17, not an adult.
@@quix66hiya22 In some countries that doesn’t matter, plus they wanted to kick her out anyway
STELLA LISTEN UP AND LISTEN GOOD THERE TOO CUPCAKE AND STELLA STOP FRAMING YOUR SISTER SARAH AND STELLA DO YOU UNDERSTAND ME THERE TOO STELLA THE CUPCAKE TOO
They literally use literally in sentences too many times.
Can you please, please, please do away with those ridiculous whiney voices. You are going to loose viewers if you don't, me for starters.