SHOCKING INCIDENT with us in London | We didn't expect this AT ALL !

แชร์
ฝัง
  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 21 พ.ย. 2024

ความคิดเห็น • 115

  • @famidashaikh7231
    @famidashaikh7231 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Best to ignore and move away. It's good, he videoed it. No-one gets involved here because sometimes the person who gets involved to help ends up getting hurt or abused. That's why ppl stay out of other people's matters.

    • @ASliceOfOurLife
      @ASliceOfOurLife  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@famidashaikh7231 yes you are correct we realised it later

  • @priyapatel3529
    @priyapatel3529 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    you guys are very strong and brave to share this Experience. They couldn't digest the fact that an Indian reached this top that is why they started attacking her based on her Nationality and abusing her . stay strong guys ,Be safe

  • @nitik8814
    @nitik8814 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Aapko further proceed krna tha jab police ne pucha to kyuki isme aapke aur sabke future ki safety hai.. kyuki agar police usko pakdti to.. uske friends relatives neighbours and news me aata to many other logo ko pta chlta ki ye behaviuor nhi krna hai kisi ke sath not allowed legally.. to aise koi aur aisa krne ki himmat nhi krta.. to aise ye chij ko stop krne ka yhi solution hai..vrna to ye chlti jayegi generation to generation.. to agar hmari aur aane wali generation ko healthy happy future dena hai to ye chij ko ignore nhi krna chahiye..aur police ki help se proceed krna chahiye.. kyuki hum right hai good hai to hum kyu dre.. aisa krne se hum hmare hi kids ka future safe kar rhe hai ki ye chij aise voice raise kar stop ho jaye to hmare hi kids future me safe n happy rhege. Stay blessed.. you lovely strong sensible bold good family.❤

    • @ASliceOfOurLife
      @ASliceOfOurLife  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you niti. Since we are new here n have a kid with us we were little worried if they would do something to us that’s why we didn’t proceed. But thank you for motivating next time we will surely not let anyone do this 😊

  • @SushilaDevraj
    @SushilaDevraj 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for sharing God bless you

  • @indrakhapangimagar558
    @indrakhapangimagar558 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It’s happening to me and my family we are nepali but that time some British people helped us

    • @ASliceOfOurLife
      @ASliceOfOurLife  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@indrakhapangimagar558 oh good atleast you got help and saved from situation

  • @conchitadmello3307
    @conchitadmello3307 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sad to hear this incident happening with you’ll. I agree with that boy who helped, next time to exit the train at the next station. This part of the world majority of the people have mental problem and when you come across these kind of incidents nobody will stand for you not even your own Nationality. People are scared of the consequences. Thanks to God above you took care of you’ll. Take care

    • @ASliceOfOurLife
      @ASliceOfOurLife  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you may be you said the harsh reality 😊😊

    • @seemasinha5972
      @seemasinha5972 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      But the guy who made the video of the incident and reported it to the police did help, didn't he ? Over here that's how people help not by engaging with the culprit as the situation could escalate and who knows you might be held responsible and made to regret your actions. That's the cultural difference.

    • @ASliceOfOurLife
      @ASliceOfOurLife  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@seemasinha5972 yes we agree that he helped and may be that’s the way how ppl help here. Yes that’s the difference and we might take time to absorb it.

  • @indiraraval2105
    @indiraraval2105 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sad . But it happens .out of Blue .my friend anyone would be Shattered .with the ChiLd .or without child Lucky . awer of this .Just be Calm .take the procedure in Silent .Take care may god Bless u family .pray 🙏

    • @ASliceOfOurLife
      @ASliceOfOurLife  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@indiraraval2105 yes we just made this video so that if someone else is in this kind of situation they might know what to do. As we didn’t knew what to do

  • @deepakasar6322
    @deepakasar6322 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi i started watching ur vlog simce 2 week....saw this video now... very sorry for what you guys have faced ... similar incident happened with me the guy in the tub was drunk or something....i was new hear my husband told me ..we will get down at coming stn...that time i didn't knew why he reacted like that...i just came from india was newly married i was expecting him to act like hero😅...but now i realised he took correct step...your incident gave me flashback

    • @ASliceOfOurLife
      @ASliceOfOurLife  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oh yes so that is the right step everyone take here. As we don’t know what they hide inside their coat so it’s better not to get into the arguments

  • @SavitaSingh-gm9ht
    @SavitaSingh-gm9ht หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Don’t worry… the way you have explained in the video, for sure that person is not happy in his life… He may have insulted your wife for sometime but his situation would have been even worst… he might not be a happy person… looks irritated, may be gone through divorce or some kind of issues. Someone who is already in a bad state of mind, found your wife to release his frustration or anger…Your wife would be fine touchwood just that that man had really bad mental condition… nothing can be worse than that. A happy person can never behave like this only a sadist can. So don’t worry.

    • @ASliceOfOurLife
      @ASliceOfOurLife  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@SavitaSingh-gm9ht yes we are fine now n have moved on

    • @dakshavajratkar2905
      @dakshavajratkar2905 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      An unhappy and sadistic behaviour

    • @ASliceOfOurLife
      @ASliceOfOurLife  หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@dakshavajratkar2905 yes

  • @vandanadave7300
    @vandanadave7300 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you for sharing

  • @prajakta7693
    @prajakta7693 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You should have gotten down and taken next train or changed the coach. Safety is the most important thing.

    • @ASliceOfOurLife
      @ASliceOfOurLife  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@prajakta7693 yes you are right, but we were so scared that we felt it was best to not move from our seat. The guy was looking armed with something, and hence we wanted to avoid any escalation. But yes your point is valid.

  • @pawanone
    @pawanone 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I was about to suggest the same to leave train to next immediate station. Good that things didn't escalated.

    • @ASliceOfOurLife
      @ASliceOfOurLife  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes but are this was our first experience we didn’t knew what to do

  • @darpanavadera9799
    @darpanavadera9799 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Racism still exists but no one wants to talk openly about it, you guys bravely share this incident with us, thanks for that, many people will get help with it,I will surely share this with my daughters so they can be aware of it

    • @ASliceOfOurLife
      @ASliceOfOurLife  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes we had to as our job here is to tell ppl what truth or reality is😊 . Thank you . We just want ppl to understand that living in other country is not easy there are many things you have to face

  • @seemadhamasker
    @seemadhamasker 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I feel sad you had to face this & ofcourse it is scary but if you don’t stand up for yourself than why would someone else take a stand for you?? Aage se aise kabhi ho toh make sure you instantly take out your phone.. Either you start recording or go on FB live or Instagram live & Tag Met police just to be on safer side… Yes there’s a lot of Racism… But we need to know how to defend ourselves… just stay strong n give it back..

    • @ASliceOfOurLife
      @ASliceOfOurLife  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@seemadhamasker thank you for your suggestion appreciate it😊

  • @indianmominuk7105
    @indianmominuk7105 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is the bitter truth of cultural difference. No one enters others business.

    • @ASliceOfOurLife
      @ASliceOfOurLife  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It’s not others business it is helping others that’s what we feel. Sometime they can also be there in this situation n if you don’t find any help wo kya karenge, specially disrespecting a women. India mei nahi hota hai aisa

    • @indianmominuk7105
      @indianmominuk7105 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      There is no gender difference ( male or female) in this part of the world .No one gets in to assist unless it is an emergency situation .

    • @ASliceOfOurLife
      @ASliceOfOurLife  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@indianmominuk7105 can understand there no gender diff but there is something call manners which says you should respect a woman

    • @indianmominuk7105
      @indianmominuk7105 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I understand like I said it's bitter truth and living abroad comes with its own challenges . If there are benefits there will be lifelong differences too!

    • @ASliceOfOurLife
      @ASliceOfOurLife  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@indianmominuk7105 yes agree with you there are challenges n we are not afraid of challenges but something like this we were not really ready for

  • @LetsmakeithappenwithPinkyGhosh
    @LetsmakeithappenwithPinkyGhosh 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It’s unfortunate that Khushbu went through this. Its pure helplessness. I am so sorry guys.

  • @rohitkotecha5529
    @rohitkotecha5529 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    If u have that recorded video - put it on social media n it should go viral n comes under the notice of authority.

    • @ASliceOfOurLife
      @ASliceOfOurLife  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      We haven’t recorded we were not in state of recording thata guy who was with us has got those photos

  • @shefalisharma9422
    @shefalisharma9422 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Mundi neeche karke jeene ki zarurat nahi I think y’all handled it very well specially the boy who was with y’all and the couple too .. see these are the realities of life specially nowadays with so much of violence due to unemployment frustration negative upbringing life without any direction and one can go on .. all over the world.. it can happen anywhere anyplace.. by sharing there’s greater awareness which is good but in the end we all have to take care of ourselves .. and be very cautious..!!!!

    • @ASliceOfOurLife
      @ASliceOfOurLife  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes we have to be but when some person is wrong our point was we couldn’t even defend ourselves

    • @ASliceOfOurLife
      @ASliceOfOurLife  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes our main aim was to create awareness that something this could happen n what you have to do in that situation

    • @shefalisharma9422
      @shefalisharma9422 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Dil se nahi dimag se kaam kiya aapne.. you defended yourself very well in the right manner with the right procedure otherwise you can only imagine if people start reacting impulsively what will happen then whts the difference between you and them ..?

    • @shefalisharma9422
      @shefalisharma9422 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Also what could be the consequence

    • @ASliceOfOurLife
      @ASliceOfOurLife  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@shefalisharma9422 yes we thought of our safety n that is what everyone should do in this situation bcoz we dont know what that person has in his hands

  • @kiranbhai8926
    @kiranbhai8926 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So nice of Nyra that she is taking her breakfast without momdad magar bhae daadi ko bachho ko khilaye bina majahi nahi hai 😂

  • @PCNaz007
    @PCNaz007 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    "Wind the bobbin up, wind the bobbin up, spool pull". Saras che ke tamme gujerati sikharo cho, Naira neh. Mera beta far far Urdu speaking tha in nursery, now he is struggling as they choose to speak English when grown up.
    These incidents of racism have become common occurence. The locals have become unaccomodating of migrants galore and lack of social infrastructure. Cost of living and lack of opportunities has made this once beautiful nation intolerant.
    Please do not retaliate as you end up being charged for GBH.
    Best action is move away, as these druggies carry weapons!!
    Even in India there is blatant Rascism on religious grounds. Sad and shameful

    • @monicanath4859
      @monicanath4859 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Racism was always there! Remember the 1970’s?

    • @ASliceOfOurLife
      @ASliceOfOurLife  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes we will follow this practice 😊😊

    • @ASliceOfOurLife
      @ASliceOfOurLife  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you 😊

  • @mikshashah
    @mikshashah 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hey guys! That's really sad news that u guys had to face with. Bad experience 😮. Be careful n observant of your environment n try to avoid these type of situation. Cannot know wot d guy must have had under his sleeves. Stay safe n be blessed.

    • @ASliceOfOurLife
      @ASliceOfOurLife  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      We were careful but if you are not safe even in public transport than where should we go?

  • @galaxytaba6982
    @galaxytaba6982 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Sorry, to learn about your very sad experience on the Train. Please understand and don't be upset you did not get help. Everyone is scared of knife crime. The Police are too busy, you are lucky you got some support from the Police but don't always expect that either

  • @RiyaHassan-m8l
    @RiyaHassan-m8l 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hatred is there obviously 🙄 no one can deny it

  • @RANJITHA.PAI.
    @RANJITHA.PAI. 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ive been living in thr UK for 20yrs now and this is very common. I can understand how it feels .. as u said no one intervenes , they just watch the show. Honestly police also will not do much, they will warn him probably. U build urself very strong. Dont worry about them . U are rightfully living here, paying loads of tax. So ignore and start recording

    • @ASliceOfOurLife
      @ASliceOfOurLife  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@RANJITHA.PAI. yes thank you so much for your help😊😊

    • @tk4498
      @tk4498 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      So whats your advice then from last 20 years ?

    • @RANJITHA.PAI.
      @RANJITHA.PAI. 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @tk4498 my advice would be to try and avoid any situation which involves any sort of dispute .. I've noticed that ultimately we are brown skin eventhough we are British citizens. And ppl would give more importance to them

  • @K23386
    @K23386 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    It seems Priyank is complaining about others when he himself hardly took any action. Too afraid to act.

    • @ASliceOfOurLife
      @ASliceOfOurLife  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I wasn’t afraid to act, I feared for my wife and daughter if I took action. If I was in India, I would have slapped him a few for sure. The guy was hiding something in his jacket, it could have been a knife. If PRIYANK reacted then it would have escalated. It’s easy to judge, when you are not fully aware of the seriousness of the situation. But we appreciate your perspective.

    • @vision2020.
      @vision2020. 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@ASliceOfOurLife ofcourse, people will judge you.. you didn't even report it. If you had reported him he would have been off the streets...its not just you...its a problem with most indian men.....fattu no. 1...

    • @ASliceOfOurLife
      @ASliceOfOurLife  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@vision2020. call us Fattoo, but you had no idea what we went through on that night. And yes being in a new country, we do fear for our life because we don’t have people moving with Knives going about knifing everyone in India. We are not used to such places especially UK where knifing is so common. So yes call us fattoo, but put yourself in our shoes before doing so.

  • @meganee02
    @meganee02 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You should have reported it to the police as he was racist, ignorant, and committed an offense, public order. Racism is not tolerated in UK. The law takes it very seriously.

    • @ASliceOfOurLife
      @ASliceOfOurLife  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@meganee02 yes we could have but weee were really worried as we are new n didn’t want to get into this because of nyra

  • @robertpatel4302
    @robertpatel4302 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Beautiful video 😍

  • @riddhivora3800
    @riddhivora3800 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What happened is really really unethical and wrong. This should not happen to anybody living abroad. I am originally from India and living in canada. I would like to say one thing: I HOPE you guys know how worse the situation is for women in India. recent bengal rape case. Please think a hundred times before making any decision. I love my country but have to say this, India is not a safe country for women.

    • @ASliceOfOurLife
      @ASliceOfOurLife  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@riddhivora3800 thank you for your concern. Yes we will consider everything before taking any decision 😊

  • @sonakshirranwa
    @sonakshirranwa 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yha UK mai sab sirf dekhte h cahe kuch bi ho sab nonliving things jaisa behave krte h. Humne bi ek bar train mai esa incident dekha ek man kisi woman ko exterme level ka abuse kr rha tha shouting kr rha tha but koi nhi bola aur ye dono person British hi the. Baat ye nhi ki hum indian h isliye koi nhi bola ye log Ese hi h inke ankho ke samne kuch bi ho ye react nhi krte na hi help krte h.

    • @ASliceOfOurLife
      @ASliceOfOurLife  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are right may be they are like this. But being an Indian we felt really bad n we can ever understand ki yaha pe kiske pas kya hathiyar hota hai humne nahi pata hai so obviously ppl won’t take risk.

    • @sonakshirranwa
      @sonakshirranwa 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@ASliceOfOurLife Absolutely Right….we have to be extra careful. Can’t trust anyone

    • @ASliceOfOurLife
      @ASliceOfOurLife  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@sonakshirranwa yes the only drawback of living here

  • @monicanath4859
    @monicanath4859 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Why would you expect others to defend you during such a dangerous incident? It is really unfair expecting others to put themselves in danger. Racism here is as old as the hills. You need to handle it properly. Try doing something like ignoring. Take care of yourselves 🙏🏼🇬🇧!

    • @ASliceOfOurLife
      @ASliceOfOurLife  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@monicanath4859 yeah but the ignorance was surprising. We were not used to this kind of ignorance back in India. Hence the reaction, but now we know how people react (or ignore) such issues here.

    • @monicanath4859
      @monicanath4859 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@ASliceOfOurLifeof course! It is sickening that no one informed you about such disgusting people over here all this while. Things have really improved here compared to before in a way but there is still a long way to go. The greatest trait us British have is to ignore and not engage. This is really important in such a scary situation. Also drugs do a lot to people also. Thanks for getting back to me there. This is the first time I have come across your channel. Jai Shri Krishna 🙏🏼!

    • @ASliceOfOurLife
      @ASliceOfOurLife  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@monicanath4859 hey Monica, thank you. Welcome to our channel 😊

    • @ambi5158
      @ambi5158 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You dont need to be rude, they were put in a very difficult situation with racial abuse from a drunk/drugged person in this unusual attack as London is very muticultural city, I have lived in London for many years and never received racial abuse like this. Its good you moved to another carraige to be safe. Be safe.

    • @ASliceOfOurLife
      @ASliceOfOurLife  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ambi5158 yes

  • @pranalisanket72
    @pranalisanket72 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Best way is to do record n viral .

    • @ASliceOfOurLife
      @ASliceOfOurLife  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@pranalisanket72 could have done that

  • @sunainadasgupta2416
    @sunainadasgupta2416 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I am very sorry this happened. But aapko jitna dar lagra tha utna hi dusron ko hi dar lagra hoga na. India mein kitne women ko maar dalte hain street pe, itna population hone ke baad bhi koi kuch nahin karta. Foreign tourists are raped and followed. Toh no India is not best jaisa aap soch rahe hain boss.

    • @ASliceOfOurLife
      @ASliceOfOurLife  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes we realised that everyone is afraid n no complain

  • @Mayaindian
    @Mayaindian 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your reaction cosuse. Racesum exist. સાવધાન. આપણે સીધા રસ્તે જતા હોઈએ, પણ આવાએ હોય. બસ કરતા ટ્રેનમાં મુસાફર ઓછા હોય ને નશામાં ધૂત આવા મલે તો મુશ્કેલ. અમે ૬:૦૦ પેલા ઘરે ને રાતના મોડેથી સર્વિસ ધીમી પડે. દુકાન ટાઉન બંધ પછી આવા ભમરડા ફરતા હોય. રીપોર્ટ મુવ થવું કા ઉતરવું,પણ મોડે ઉતરવું યોગ્ય નહીં દુર રહી આપણા સટોપની રાહ જોવી.

    • @ASliceOfOurLife
      @ASliceOfOurLife  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Okay will take care

    • @Mayaindian
      @Mayaindian 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ASliceOfOurLife લંડન કરતા વેસ્ટ મીડલેન્ડ માં ઘરની કીમત ઓછી છે. 2 bedroom house £80,000 start then dippend on area.

  • @honeysunee
    @honeysunee 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Maybe u r thinking people Didn’t notice . U be supplied.
    People will not Act at that time . Maybe though he is not Harm .
    No body would like take law in their own hands .
    Maybe they record the incident & put on social media , records it with the police , .without making
    Remember there r Cctv on public transports .
    Maybe this person is not from London . I’m sure they ‘ll keep an eye on him .

    • @honeysunee
      @honeysunee 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I saw on tv . People get killed in India , people watched or mind their own business . No witness. .

    • @ASliceOfOurLife
      @ASliceOfOurLife  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hope they keep, but there was not cctv camera in that train.

    • @ASliceOfOurLife
      @ASliceOfOurLife  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hope they keep, but there was not cctv camera in that train.

  • @kalidesai8036
    @kalidesai8036 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    😢😢

  • @atheistatheist6767
    @atheistatheist6767 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    better to live in india.. chor do london

    • @ASliceOfOurLife
      @ASliceOfOurLife  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes this incident will definitely affect our decision whether to live here or in India

  • @kalpanagosalia895
    @kalpanagosalia895 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Very bed

  • @userone4574
    @userone4574 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I tried to warn you few weeks ago. I sent you my number to phone me regarding security issues. But you were not interested! People are not helpful & do not get involved with others. The Park near your flat is also not very safe!! Khushbu is always there alone, busy recording on her phone! There are not many people in these parks & they would not help you. We used to live in the flats behind the park a few years ago. Therer were even incidents of rape and dogs biting people seriously. It is not safe here. You should be aware with a young child in your care. 🙏

    • @ASliceOfOurLife
      @ASliceOfOurLife  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks for your helpful insights. But we don’t remember you calling and informing us.

  • @vision2020.
    @vision2020. 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Itne darpok kyu ho... teri wife ko koi gali de raha hai aur tu kisi aur ka wait kar raha hai ki koi aa ke bachaye ? Uth ke jaane ki bhi himmat nai hai.... what a shame... divorce this quivering mouse

    • @vision2020.
      @vision2020. 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And you didn't even report it.... heights of cowardice

    • @ASliceOfOurLife
      @ASliceOfOurLife  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@vision2020. I understand your concern, but it's important to remember that safety comes first. In that situation, the other person might have had a weapon, and our daughter was with us. My priority was ensuring their safety, not escalating the situation. It’s easy to judge from the outside, but when loved ones are involved, careful decisions are necessary.

    • @ASliceOfOurLife
      @ASliceOfOurLife  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@vision2020. yes bcoz we are new to this country n we don’t know what will happen next

    • @ASliceOfOurLife
      @ASliceOfOurLife  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@vision2020. also if you read everyone’s comment in this comment box you will find they had asked us to leave train at next stop rather then fighting or arguing bcoz here we don’t know how armed ppl are so before judging or writing such comment for my husband plz understand the situation and we shared this incident so that other ppl come to know what to do if such situation comes.

    • @vision2020.
      @vision2020. 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ASliceOfOurLife Have you ever stood up to bullies? Or your husband always been a quivering mouse. You are enabling the perpetrator by not having balls to report the incident. You can give whatever justifications but your husband is a Coward.