The Day You Stop Caring About Them Is the Day You Finally Start Winning

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  • @Roddy_Zeh
    @Roddy_Zeh 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +58

    When I made up my mind and checked out, emotionally and physically, was the moment I took back the control of my life.

  • @smokey1068
    @smokey1068 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +36

    he is right. the second you stop seeking approval you are free. GOD BLESS AND AMEN IN THE NAME OF JESUS.

  • @nicolehayes6020
    @nicolehayes6020 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    That’s why I’m a proud black sheep here! The toxic family system couldn’t change me or break me! Idc about those people and don’t want to be like them at all n now, I decided to just walk away and never look back…Tu joker ❤✌️💪💯🙏😎🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @lordbison
    @lordbison 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    I Love These Videos!
    Just What I Need!
    😎💯🤙

    • @Aerahan1111
      @Aerahan1111 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      🖖✌️👊☝️❤❤❤

  • @GalvMermaid50
    @GalvMermaid50 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Don't forget about the grieving process. Even though you cut them off, you will grieve the loss, like they died,because in a way they have. Get through the process leave them behind, and proper!❤

  • @shanedc100
    @shanedc100 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    This guy has made a difference in my life!! Listening to all these videos and starting to apply them. I was in a 10yr relationship and got messed over really bad, and after listening to this guy and thinking about what happened in the past it all made sense to me. I’m currently waiting on the other half to tell me it’s over but she does not have the nerve. I am a firm believer in what this guy is talking about now.

  • @Fashion-kj6qb
    @Fashion-kj6qb 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    9-5 man. That man is me. I am ready to let go. Thank you joker

  • @reachlove6779
    @reachlove6779 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    I never had anything to lose. Can’t win anything without losing it before you get it ❤
    The internet is designed to drive people crazy,🤪
    You all have a wonderful future and a wonderful day ahead of you! 😊

  • @Nil-Day
    @Nil-Day 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    These really help. I appreciate you man ❤️

  • @carlos-olaechea
    @carlos-olaechea 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    This one is a banger ! Love this channel, speaks right to me.

  • @tristasikes2206
    @tristasikes2206 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Become who you were created to be not who they want or they think you should be. Be true to yourself. Start filling up your cup instead of pouring it into everyone else. ✝️❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

  • @Fromms2mrs
    @Fromms2mrs 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Literally but mercy only comes from the great I AM ...❤

  • @lancenorton3747
    @lancenorton3747 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Iam single and disabled. I will not be Summoned, by the dark side anymore

  • @carenkurdjinian5413
    @carenkurdjinian5413 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Life -Is A Beautiful Talk ……🌞

  • @theafricanphilosopherqueen3032
    @theafricanphilosopherqueen3032 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Listen to the song by Sia,"Unstoppable" and you won't take any BS from family, colleagues or anyone.... thanks Joker❤

  • @GraceBilella
    @GraceBilella 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I could not have said it any better than you Joker. 💯 true! ❤🙏😇😇😇❤️

  • @marcelacasas2187
    @marcelacasas2187 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    After five years of narcissistic abuse I stopped caring in June 2024 during a month long disappearance. He tried talking after a month when he approached me at the church parking lot but I quickly walked away. I hated him and stopped loving him by then. He is a 71 yr old arrogant Scorpio womanizer. You would think a 71 yr old would have his shit together. I am a working nurse in my 60s , compassionate and caring, was faithful nourishing to him but he didn't appreciate. His loss . Never going back to that miserable demon.

    • @rz912
      @rz912 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Scorpios 🙄 I’ve been married to two of them and IF I’m ever in the dating scene again… if she’s a Scorpio it’s over before it starts. They’re the same. Behind closed doors they are monsters.
      Signed, a Sagitarius.

    • @SardonischerDean
      @SardonischerDean 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I notice scorpio men can be real sociopathic at times

    • @kikinhugs11
      @kikinhugs11 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      yup same

  • @Ilikeemnasty
    @Ilikeemnasty 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Your completely right,u can love yourself, but others who dont give a shit haven't earned or deserve it, so don't love outta approval or respect, u get it from being yourself love u even when others hate u,because in the end, we disappear with no value, unless u create it yourself, power and confidence u family, friends are terrified of it,there not in control, u not predictable, love u channel, u do a great job,,keep it up

  • @davidimes
    @davidimes 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Incredible insight and so much truth

  • @jessparsons8515
    @jessparsons8515 วันที่ผ่านมา

    No joker your amazing I been there too I get what ya saying hundred percent

  • @smokey1068
    @smokey1068 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    but it's inside your heart. it takes time to fix your self. it took you years to become this way so don't expect change to happen in a day.

  • @travispack3502
    @travispack3502 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hit the nail on the head after a relationship of twelve long years I finally woke up finally walked out finally found freedom that man was me the puppet I stopped caring quit fearing her manipulation judgment fake approvals all the lies and games I lit it all up and won exactly as you said Joker I'm free finally free and laughed while I did it thank you Joker with all my heart thank you!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @skylershire439
    @skylershire439 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    2024 R.I.P.

  • @lindaread9838
    @lindaread9838 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    It's not dark, it's real. No more😮 I'm done with the users❤

  • @fatimaherf1783
    @fatimaherf1783 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I don't just walk away...I will dance away..🙂🌻

  • @Parker-ch9pl
    @Parker-ch9pl 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Thank you Joker❤

  • @melvinr643
    @melvinr643 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You Have Described Our Society....

  • @Whisper2069
    @Whisper2069 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Be Ruthless, a unforgiving juggernaut that lives there lives with a unflinching resolve, Respect shoulden't be given easily, especially to those that do not deserve it.

  • @Xinlaimaan
    @Xinlaimaan 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Thank you my dear teacher theire is onley one road fore me and i'ts called FREEDOM so i wil stop thinking off my family.
    They go their way and i will go mine❤

  • @only1ofthisgirl
    @only1ofthisgirl 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    😢 incredible words ❤

  • @angeloo.8199
    @angeloo.8199 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This one hit hard

  • @jamesthomson3372
    @jamesthomson3372 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks for getting ur usual voice bk. Couldn't get into that weird one. I've just put the barriers bk up, no-one is getting in EVER again. Going camping soon to get away from people in general, absolutely fed up with the games, even ur closest are, well ☯️. I stay in 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 so bonus for camping scenery.

  • @MadonnaGrogan
    @MadonnaGrogan 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Accurate, block them move on

  • @jessparsons8515
    @jessparsons8515 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I walked six months ago been silent since pier is great

  • @bijoubijoux5185
    @bijoubijoux5185 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Holy shit! Joker does it again!

  • @ChaunceyJasper
    @ChaunceyJasper 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    O I love this commentary

  • @Z7B_productions
    @Z7B_productions 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Indeed

    • @Dark-sd5xh
      @Dark-sd5xh  4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      ❤️👑🖤

  • @Gamechangerpurpose
    @Gamechangerpurpose 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yes , the narcissist is like this broken system wanting me to be a slave to fear and afraid I will discover my true power. It is all an illusion

  • @ishaqghaffar7808
    @ishaqghaffar7808 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    No mercy

  • @ishaqghaffar7808
    @ishaqghaffar7808 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Once I moved there's no turning back

  • @aidabaez5240
    @aidabaez5240 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Amen, free at last…💃🏻

  • @MH-yx1pv
    @MH-yx1pv 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    The nice guy I was died about 3 years ago.

  • @carenkurdjinian5413
    @carenkurdjinian5413 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It’s Like A Graduating Test …..If Don’t Learn All The Living Exams … Then Can’t Level Up Higher Frequencies - Having Different Physics of Vibrating - 😂Who Knows ..?…Beautiful To Feel And Work With All Energies - Being Created ….Let It Be Beautiful…..🌞

  • @carenkurdjinian5413
    @carenkurdjinian5413 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Remember -About Great Kings …..There Must Be One ……🌞

  • @missfreshair
    @missfreshair 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i xare about all of us as a collective going through the topsy turvy motions on this rollerxoaster fake world

  • @kristinesharpe-xc7el
    @kristinesharpe-xc7el 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Do you know why so many people have become narcissists ? Do you know it’s an evil agenda and these poor lost souls were born beautiful , kind , and loving ?

  • @smokey1068
    @smokey1068 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    thats what they call me. king. but i have to work on how i handle it.

  • @jessparsons8515
    @jessparsons8515 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I walked six months ago been silent since

  • @denisegariepy1176
    @denisegariepy1176 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    These r my therapy sessions 😅,

  • @jessparsons8515
    @jessparsons8515 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It did hurt over seven yrs chasing fighting all time

  • @JacobLooney-m2e
    @JacobLooney-m2e 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Yup

  • @carenkurdjinian5413
    @carenkurdjinian5413 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Because There Is 😂Also Bigger Systems…..🌞

  • @smokey1068
    @smokey1068 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    But God can fix you in a day. it's what he does for me. i go through torments, and i'm changed. over a long time. 14 years. slowly working on me. with the devil. the devil is so jealous. he won't be nice to me anymore. i only have one more chain upon me. the black one.

  • @feminazislayer
    @feminazislayer 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Always wins 🏆

  • @girishshirodkar7836
    @girishshirodkar7836 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Soothing

  • @tunsafun9345
    @tunsafun9345 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    YEAH YOU ARE PROBABLY RIGHT JOKER BOY! WILL JUST LISTEN TO THE SONG 🎵 SIMON AND GARFUNKEL- 'THE SOUND OF SILENCE'👉💯👈

  • @Tinlasa
    @Tinlasa 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yes!!!!!

  • @tysunday3532
    @tysunday3532 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It’s hard to believe that this is what god wants for us to become. Are these the characteristics of a righteous individual? Any thoughts?

    • @jaysun1488
      @jaysun1488 วันที่ผ่านมา

      No, these are the thoughts of someone probably leaving a relationship. To make themselves feel better and are on the right side. That's where I'm at right now.

  • @SuMonCheri
    @SuMonCheri 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    💜

  • @nevetschu
    @nevetschu 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Whats the background music?

  • @Z7B_productions
    @Z7B_productions 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It's severely bad but there is no mercy nada más ➕️

  • @JacobLooney-m2e
    @JacobLooney-m2e 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    360

  • @TrevonNeblett
    @TrevonNeblett 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It have nuff fake people in this today world

  • @kikinhugs11
    @kikinhugs11 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    lets make a coalition

  • @LynSatori1111
    @LynSatori1111 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

  • @marcdulgheru9633
    @marcdulgheru9633 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    👀

  • @carenkurdjinian5413
    @carenkurdjinian5413 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    😂Where Is The Original One …..?…To Copy Again ……Very Much In Need - For The Universe……🌞

  • @kikinhugs11
    @kikinhugs11 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    lol rob arias

  • @jhumaroy5210
    @jhumaroy5210 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ✌🏻🙏✌🏻

  • @tysunday3532
    @tysunday3532 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Is this the trick of the devil or the will of god?

  • @onlinelddersbandara1822
    @onlinelddersbandara1822 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    ❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @aadhinannthamanathe2271
    @aadhinannthamanathe2271 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I've already won she shot me shit 3timess 😂😂i could taste anything thats not real 😂😂 it's all artificial in mind glands gone

  • @brandonriggins7916
    @brandonriggins7916 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    😎💨💨

  • @shiny.mathew3116
    @shiny.mathew3116 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    What you say is true but your image is scary!isn't it?

    • @JustLor7777
      @JustLor7777 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      *Not at all scary..see those eyes...another lesson...it's not important how someone looks...&...it's about the wisdom they spread...&...and i just friggin f&cking luv that*

  • @JacobLooney-m2e
    @JacobLooney-m2e 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Y cc tv 213

  • @ccarmagnola
    @ccarmagnola 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    cool stuff. thanks

  • @marcelacasas2187
    @marcelacasas2187 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    After five years of narcissistic abuse I stopped caring in June 2024 during a month long disappearance. He tried talking after a month when he approached me at the church parking lot but I quickly walked away. I hated him and stopped loving him by then. He is a 71 yr old arrogant Scorpio womanizer. You would think a 71 yr old would have his shit together. I am a working nurse in my 60s , compassionate and caring, was faithful nourishing to him but he didn't appreciate. His loss . Never going back to that miserable demon.

    • @jeanagenor465
      @jeanagenor465 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Took a chance until.can we be cool

    • @bandieboo8102
      @bandieboo8102 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Good on you...keep going and don't look back.. you deserve better...