Thank you, Tahir, for being aware that women are sexual beings too and being aware that many men crave intimacy and just aren’t comfortable saying that. CP is not only generalizing women, he’s generalizing men by inferring more than your fair share of men don’t value emotional connection.
Damn, it really kinda made me sad/disappointed to find out CPs way of thinking. I could barely make it through the episode. It so harmful to our society, and negates the work that both men and women have done to educate the effects this kind of mindset has on all of us. Thank you Tahir for being the kind of friend who tries to educate their friends. Hopefully maybe one day they will understand how this way of thinking is holds us all back.
Anyways, thank you Tahir for pushing back in a room full of men who clearly refuse to comprehend their double standards and biases. We need more men like you knocking this shit down whenever it comes up. And I love hearing about you and Farrin’s intimacy and how it progressed your relationship.
Nahhhhhhhhhhh no ma'am...........he moves how his wife moves not all by choice......... Double standards are real it's not right but it is what it is honestly when a woman says she fucks cause she wants and enjoys it / having multiple sex partners are respected and move around easier in life.....then the woman who hides her body count number and cares about society thoughts
CP only had pushback and that’s what dialogue is, that’s also how you get two different viewpoints to learn how each side feels, right or wrong, it’s healthy to hear both sides. The other two men were quiet and agreed with Tahir at the end that it’s a double standard.
Thank you Tahir, the ignorance was super strong with this one. All of these thoughts these guys have are literally reasons why patriarchy is harmful. They have no reason, biologically or genetically to believe the things they do, it’s all BS and they don’t see it. It’s a damn shame, do better men.
Dang, CP is my boy but I didn't realize he was chauvinistic. The idea that men are different from women when it comes to sexual desire and need is such an outdated view. SMH the double standards are real on this episode.
Mike surprised me a little more than CP. CP is a dope, hilarious comedian and he seems like somebody who would make an awesome friend...but he sees himself as a "real nigga" at the end of the day and you know what kind of things come with the concept of being a "real nigga"
I love the conversation & perspective that Tahir stays brining to his friend groups LOUD & PROUD! Much respect and so refreshing to see a black man living his truth, displaying growth & standing 10 toes down!!!
Ngl, Tahir is out here doing the Lord's work. These types of conversations really don't happen like that among black men. We need more of us to hear this. We've been living our lives way too rigid for way too long and need to start cutting loose, being our true selves, and welcoming other men that live as their true selves.
CP talking about the differences between men and women and calling it biology is wildly depressing.lmao like no CP, it’s a stereotype. Lol each individual is differently regardless of the genitals they have
@@RogueSoul73watch the pod an you're understanding. It's crazy because he just was calling negative stereotypes science. Like how white people think did with eugenics an black people. A lot of negative racial stereotypes of black people were pushed as scientific proof.
@@BurgtownheroThey don't want to deal with half the ish we have to go through as men so they need to stay on their side of street of double standards they are allowed to live with
I couldn’t make it through this one, sadly. Too much ignorance and misogyny. Talk of “genes” from someone who clearly knows nothing of genetics. Tahir, you are appreciated. That’s the only positive thing I can say
Same. When CP started talking about genes and how it’s their genes that makes then non-monogamous I turned it off. Proud of Tahir for pushing back against this nonsense. He was the only one with some damn sense. I was thoroughly annoyed lol
The patriarchy is an outgrowth of biology tho. The double standard just is, it isn't necessarily right or wrong. Equalizing sexuality between male and female will never work across the board, not naturally.
Shoutout to Tahir for coming to the convo with some sense. CP n the other 2 guys literally describing patriarchy n don't even understand it. Luckily for them (men) it's women who are okay and comfortable with feeding into the patriarch. A chick like me will have you crying n calling my daddy 😭 what's good for the goose is good for the gander 🤝🏾 The intro rap was dope or whatever tho
If men are supposed to be with so many women at once... Why does it always hurt so much and lead to so much destruction of entire fanilies and lifestyle qualities.
A lot of comments saying “double standards on both sides” and “women benefit from double standards too” as if a subset of men didn’t create the double standards to keep all of us down. Racism, sexism, it’s all class warfare designed to pit us against each other. Only good thing about this episode is Tahir pushing back on outdated and/or incorrect viewpoints and statements. CP really makes things hard to watch, and reading these comments it looks like some people found out why for themselves
This was the best no Pat episode I applaud yall for choosing these guest cause Pat has some big shoes to fill when it comes to being funny an interesting and hosting podcast
If your relationship consist of letting other people smash on your significant other, thats fine if it works for y'all. But y'all cant automatically slap a derogatory label on someone because they're not down with that stuff. Y'all the weird ones. I'm sure a good 95 percent of married people wouldn't be cool with that lifestyle.
i agree but tbh we really don’t know the percentage of who would be interested. but we also don’t know the intricacies of everyone’s relationship or what each person needs for love. communication with your partner is def key tho
The percentages don't really matter. The opinions of the people in the relationship are the only ones that matter. So if it works well for y'all, then go for it. I just don't like the constant attempt of people trying to make other people feel OK about it.
I was all in until about 42 minutes in… had to exit smh “Who wants a King who no one else is fuckin?” *insert meme of Homer Simpson disappearing into the shrubbery* I’m out.
Goodness I Had to fast forward to spare myself from the ignorance of CP talking loud and wrong. Men, please educate yourself because you're stunting your growth.
I stopped watching this ep, but came back after a day, cause I remembered Tahir is on here and he was going to come with the counter argument... I thought this was going to be an echo room
1. This was one of the best episodes (great guests and vibes beginning to end). 2. It's actually HILARIOUS hearing a man generalize women or speak on what we as women feel/want/need sexually.
It’s funny - I remember seeing Malcolm on Louie and Sunny but I know him from Better Off Ted. He was THE black guy on the show. With him talking about the strike and struggles back in the day, it’s nice to see he has a safety net but is diverse enough to keep working right now.
I feel they're swingers not poly Polyamory is having More than one emotional and physical relationship By their abundance of sharing what they did it sounds like swinging more than poly lifestyle. Unless they both have bfs/gfs outside the marriage it's just swinging And there's a huge difference. I'm poly and only am happy having more than one emotional relationship.
The amount of people getting upset about Tahir telling HIS story about HIS life amongst HIS friends on HIS platform is fascinating. Stop following the nigga if its that big of an issue to you, damn.
I love you all, the energy is great, you are so funny, so real, I can't stop laughing. We miss you, Pat!! CP, you always light up my life! This is the best Podcast out there. Keep it up, Fellas!!! 💗👑
Damn, I really enjoyed DMX growing up. He is definitely a really special person😢🎉❤thank you all for your time. With so much love respect and support from upstate NY ❤️💯💕
Same. I like his comedy. But he’s ashy and misogynistic and I’ll prob watch less of him cuz I don’t wanna hear his ignorance. Talmbout “genes” make men unfaithful. Wtf?! 🥴🙄😭lol
I definitely agree with Tahir on the sex part. I’d rather know who I’m getting with and have a connection. It’s better being a pleaser than doing smash and dash
Thank you, Tahir, for being aware that women are sexual beings too and being aware that many men crave intimacy and just aren’t comfortable saying that. CP is not only generalizing women, he’s generalizing men by inferring more than your fair share of men don’t value emotional connection.
Damn, it really kinda made me sad/disappointed to find out CPs way of thinking. I could barely make it through the episode.
It so harmful to our society, and negates the work that both men and women have done to educate the effects this kind of mindset has on all of us.
Thank you Tahir for being the kind of friend who tries to educate their friends. Hopefully maybe one day they will understand how this way of thinking is holds us all back.
😂😂😂😂 INTRO OF THE YEAR AND PAT MISSED IT!!!! IM APPALLED...
Top tier for sure! But why did they both look at Mike for approval of their Jamaican accents? 😂😂
@@IntrovertedVerbalist 😂😂😂 he's the token Jamaican
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Three niggas here..Ha na na..three niggaas here
Yeah Pat needs to go ahead and drop his verse
The way Cp was tlkin abt women and he's fully married whooo boy....dope ep
Anyways, thank you Tahir for pushing back in a room full of men who clearly refuse to comprehend their double standards and biases. We need more men like you knocking this shit down whenever it comes up. And I love hearing about you and Farrin’s intimacy and how it progressed your relationship.
Big facts!
This all the way!
Nahhhhhhhhhhh no ma'am...........he moves how his wife moves not all by choice.........
Double standards are real it's not right but it is what it is honestly when a woman says she fucks cause she wants and enjoys it / having multiple sex partners are respected and move around easier in life.....then the woman who hides her body count number and cares about society thoughts
CP only had pushback and that’s what dialogue is, that’s also how you get two different viewpoints to learn how each side feels, right or wrong, it’s healthy to hear both sides.
The other two men were quiet and agreed with Tahir at the end that it’s a double standard.
Thank you Tahir, the ignorance was super strong with this one. All of these thoughts these guys have are literally reasons why patriarchy is harmful. They have no reason, biologically or genetically to believe the things they do, it’s all BS and they don’t see it. It’s a damn shame, do better men.
One thing about my boy Tahir... He goin find a way to bring up his sex life 🤣🤣🤣
To be fair it's normally on some gem dropping points and he adds examples.
EVERYTIME! 😂
EVERY SINGLE TIME
And we saw it coming! The fellas fell for the trap
Dang, CP is my boy but I didn't realize he was chauvinistic. The idea that men are different from women when it comes to sexual desire and need is such an outdated view. SMH the double standards are real on this episode.
Tht part
Men and women are different…
Mike surprised me a little more than CP. CP is a dope, hilarious comedian and he seems like somebody who would make an awesome friend...but he sees himself as a "real nigga" at the end of the day and you know what kind of things come with the concept of being a "real nigga"
@@thickthicklyMisogyny Is What Comes With It
Yes, but can we objectively, scientifically prove what CP, and others, said.
As a Jamaican this has to be my favorite intro of all time 😂😂 Mikes accent and verse was straight 🔥
🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲
Same for me! 😂
I love how they used that "Murder She Wrote" melody. Fire!
This intro didn't have to go so hard🔥🔥🔥 😮
Ta👏🏽hir👏🏽 you stood your ground in this room and that's so damn commendable. This was a great conversation to listen to.
I love the conversation & perspective that Tahir stays brining to his friend groups LOUD & PROUD! Much respect and so refreshing to see a black man living his truth, displaying growth & standing 10 toes down!!!
Ngl, Tahir is out here doing the Lord's work. These types of conversations really don't happen like that among black men. We need more of us to hear this. We've been living our lives way too rigid for way too long and need to start cutting loose, being our true selves, and welcoming other men that live as their true selves.
I fell out laughing, a tear dropped , the intro was magical I LITERALLY HAVE TO GO BACK AND WATCH OLD EPISODES BECAUSE THIS MIGHT BE THE BEST ONE
This one had 0 flaws their have been funnier ones but their shit cane off so natural this is top 3 bare minimum
This is the best, kevonstage had the funniest and is second best
Me too, I enjoy the one with Dorm entertainment and with Kev with the sausage in his pocket was fire too!
A tahir*
CP talking about the differences between men and women and calling it biology is wildly depressing.lmao like no CP, it’s a stereotype. Lol each individual is differently regardless of the genitals they have
What are you talking about?
@@RogueSoul73watch the pod an you're understanding. It's crazy because he just was calling negative stereotypes science. Like how white people think did with eugenics an black people. A lot of negative racial stereotypes of black people were pushed as scientific proof.
Tht part
God bless Tahir for pushing back during the “pussy vs dick” argument cuz the way I was yelling at my screen😭😭😭😭
Theres double standards that benefit women also…
@@Burgtownhero when they said "ITS A BIG DOUBLE STANDARD" in unison I was like "i rest my case... court adjourned" lmao
@@BurgtownheroThey don't want to deal with half the ish we have to go through as men so they need to stay on their side of street of double standards they are allowed to live with
@@andrebryant5081women deal with more issues than men do. Y’all couldn’t imagine how hard it is being female in this world.
@@divamomj9187 lol 😂😆 women can't even deal with rejection from men.
"This is my job now that everyone is on strike"
Slept on line. 😆😆😆
Oh CP the misogyny JUMPED out this episode huh? 🤦🏾♀️
It’s not biological it’s mostly societal conditioning. Men justify the double standard by saying it’s biological but naw, It’s really not
PREACH! MY GOD U ARE SPITTIN!
Men bust a nut in their sleep if they don’t release. Biologically…
Why does male animals do it then ?
I agree though humans have enough sense to fight their temptations
@@Hinokami777 because they lack logical reasoning and only have biology to go on
I couldn’t make it through this one, sadly. Too much ignorance and misogyny. Talk of “genes” from someone who clearly knows nothing of genetics. Tahir, you are appreciated. That’s the only positive thing I can say
Same. When CP started talking about genes and how it’s their genes that makes then non-monogamous I turned it off. Proud of Tahir for pushing back against this nonsense. He was the only one with some damn sense. I was thoroughly annoyed lol
The patriarchy was deep in this episode. CP literally defined patriarchy while not understanding patriarchy.
Exactly this!!!
THANK YOU!!
They are so oblivious of it too. Glad Tahir was giving them pushback.
FACTS 😂
The patriarchy is an outgrowth of biology tho. The double standard just is, it isn't necessarily right or wrong.
Equalizing sexuality between male and female will never work across the board, not naturally.
Calling Malcolm a Great value Dave Chappelle is wild 🤣🤣
I mean not far off!
Best Intro by far!!! Y’all killed it seamlessly!🔥🔥🔥
Malcolm’s response is my response all day. Forget what folks overall think and do. What are you and your partner finna do is the only concern.
Always been a fan of Malcolm. He's hilarious in every role he's in.
Yeah so slept on
I am so proud as a black man to hear other black men can have a real conversation about these issues we face on a daily
Im SICK i missed this!! 😭😭😭 wat a cast! 💪🏽😂
6:32 Hands down BEST freestyle in DIYS history. It was too perfect.
Thanks for the replay button.
Tahir is right and CP is stuck in archaic beliefs.
Shoutout to Tahir for coming to the convo with some sense. CP n the other 2 guys literally describing patriarchy n don't even understand it. Luckily for them (men) it's women who are okay and comfortable with feeding into the patriarch. A chick like me will have you crying n calling my daddy 😭 what's good for the goose is good for the gander 🤝🏾
The intro rap was dope or whatever tho
I love how when CP is out he goes straight to the phone. Lol
If men are supposed to be with so many women at once... Why does it always hurt so much and lead to so much destruction of entire fanilies and lifestyle qualities.
I think men are biologically meant to “have” many women. But life is about fighting nature…being disciplined.
@@Burgtownhero just be single dudes ,🤣
Those who think like this are biologically not built for any type of commitment and shouldn't get the benefits either
@@mariahshepherd4733 happily married
You'll be on a rich nigga D if he paid all the bills and gave you somewhere nice to live
Already know off the strength CP and Mike damn this episode about to be Wild
Wen pat gone , Cp the only acceptable substitute
I love Tahir's mind and perspective, he's a role model for me fr 🙌🏾
I enjoy listening to him talk about different perspectives
That whole convo just feels like men have to make sure the women is lesser 4 them feel ok 😕😕
Learn grammar
100%
Men need to address their own lack of confidence and dissatisfaction in life with therapists and leave women the heck out of it.
I usually cringe at these intros but this one was a bop 🔥🔥😂😂
Same both waya
Yoooo that was the best intro!!!!🔥🔥🔥
Yea I’m going need that on a track please
A lot of comments saying “double standards on both sides” and “women benefit from double standards too” as if a subset of men didn’t create the double standards to keep all of us down. Racism, sexism, it’s all class warfare designed to pit us against each other. Only good thing about this episode is Tahir pushing back on outdated and/or incorrect viewpoints and statements. CP really makes things hard to watch, and reading these comments it looks like some people found out why for themselves
Malcom does resemble Dave Chappelle. Now I can’t unsee it. Thanks CP for calling him Doug Chappelle 🤣🤣
This was the best no Pat episode I applaud yall for choosing these guest cause Pat has some big shoes to fill when it comes to being funny an interesting and hosting podcast
If your relationship consist of letting other people smash on your significant other, thats fine if it works for y'all. But y'all cant automatically slap a derogatory label on someone because they're not down with that stuff. Y'all the weird ones. I'm sure a good 95 percent of married people wouldn't be cool with that lifestyle.
i agree but tbh we really don’t know the percentage of who would be interested. but we also don’t know the intricacies of everyone’s relationship or what each person needs for love. communication with your partner is def key tho
The percentages don't really matter. The opinions of the people in the relationship are the only ones that matter. So if it works well for y'all, then go for it. I just don't like the constant attempt of people trying to make other people feel OK about it.
The derogatory label is probably from the way you talk about these relationships bruh😂
You right bro. Weird society nowadays. The agenda tho is to emasculate men and normalize poly relationships which ultimately ruins families.
The double standard is real in every society from the beginning of time
That man Tahir really tried to justify dude flirting with CP.. CP was not having 😂💀
As he should
CP is the Sergeant of Arms for the Guy Code 😂
I was all in until about 42 minutes in… had to exit smh “Who wants a King who no one else is fuckin?” *insert meme of Homer Simpson disappearing into the shrubbery* I’m out.
I WANT YALL TO KNOW I WENT BACK AND LISTEN TO THE SONG 3 TIMES BEFORE I FINISHED THE EPISODE 😂😂😂😂😂🔥🔥🔥
Goodness I Had to fast forward to spare myself from the ignorance of CP talking loud and wrong. Men, please educate yourself because you're stunting your growth.
wow - y'all DID THAT intro!
Edit: FANTASTIC show and conversation - thank you to Tahir for trying to work it out for safe spaces ❤
I stopped watching this ep, but came back after a day, cause I remembered Tahir is on here and he was going to come with the counter argument... I thought this was going to be an echo room
BIG props to Tahir for being able to give a different perspective with 3 other people telling you you're wrong.
This intro and when Pat did Mystikal! These are the top two
*Top 3 Hits:*
1 International Playas Anthem
2 If I Ruled The World
3 Ambitionz Az A Ridah
So we just gon act like we didn’t hear Tahir say “ladies and gentlemensonin” during that first ad?
This episode turned out to be Really insightful... Seemed like it should have been on Moore To The Story than DIYS. #Salute
I don't understand how men want a saint while they got hundreds of bodies.
I normally fast forward the freestyle but im glad i didnt today! That was gold! 😂😂
1. This was one of the best episodes (great guests and vibes beginning to end). 2. It's actually HILARIOUS hearing a man generalize women or speak on what we as women feel/want/need sexually.
Glad they discussed the double standard, this been setting my heart a fire 😩
It’s funny - I remember seeing Malcolm on Louie and Sunny but I know him from Better Off Ted. He was THE black guy on the show. With him talking about the strike and struggles back in the day, it’s nice to see he has a safety net but is diverse enough to keep working right now.
I can't be the only one left my desk chair, that Intro Was HARD !!! 🔥🔥🔥
When DMX said, “when they start catchin feelins, I start stealin they ish”😂
This is one hell of a group
18:09 CP is fuckin hilarious man! 😂
Tahirs Poly Rants have been getting longer and longer and longer 😅😊😂 we get it, enjoy
It's getting so played out. He talk so emotional about it makes me think he really doesn't like it. Just dealing with it. Cuck tales
I feel they're swingers not poly
Polyamory is having More than one emotional and physical relationship
By their abundance of sharing what they did it sounds like swinging more than poly lifestyle.
Unless they both have bfs/gfs outside the marriage it's just swinging
And there's a huge difference.
I'm poly and only am happy having more than one emotional relationship.
@@angelh6345yea I’ve thought that too.
@@angelh6345tahir as mentioned a separate girlfriend, if I'm not mistaken
Best freestyle intro ever 🤣🤣 CP killed it
Classic episode! That ending made my eyes water from laughing so much! 😂🤣
Y’all done got Dave Chappelle on here🙌🏾
😂😂
Intro song was the best one ever!!!!! CP never disappoints 😂😂😂
Great convo Tahir… Gotta go talk to Wifey!!
My guys all activated when that beat dropped!! This is my 3rd time rewatching.
This is Def Top 10 pods of all time.
"fade braids"😂😂😂😂
Cooked him right quick 😂😂
The amount of people getting upset about Tahir telling HIS story about HIS life amongst HIS friends on HIS platform is fascinating.
Stop following the nigga if its that big of an issue to you, damn.
💯
Shit got weird in this one
I love you all, the energy is great, you are so funny, so real, I can't stop laughing. We miss you, Pat!! CP, you always light up my life! This is the best Podcast out there. Keep it up, Fellas!!! 💗👑
usually i hate the song intros because they're always so choppy, but this one was actually pretty good!! lol
Thank you tahir!!!
definitely one of the best intros by far
Damn, I really enjoyed DMX growing up. He is definitely a really special person😢🎉❤thank you all for your time. With so much love respect and support from upstate NY ❤️💯💕
*Definitely* top 3 intros of all time!🤣👌🏾
The episode when KevOnStage freestyle is my favorite intro this one is number 2 ❤
YES!!!!! Kev was definitely the best!
Tahir tell me you're light skin without telling me your light skin 🤣
Nah that intro song is freaking insane 😂😂😂
Daaaaaaaaawg! That intro song was 🔥🔥🔥🔥!!😂😂🤣
This intro was 🔥🔥🔥
That "Boooya-clot" adlib by CP 🤣🤣🤣
Till this day I still watch that TGT good morning America profomance 😂😂😂
Cp kinda lost cool points w me today
Seriously me too
Mike dressed like Crocodile DunDre
I can’t even tell y’all how many times I’ve gone back to this freestyle!! 😂😂😂😅😅
Black comedic & creative excellence💯
Mikes hat drippy!!!!
He look like a zesty explorer
Best rap intro so far 🙌🏾🙌🏾
One of the best intros ever!!!
Nobody:
Tahir: I have lots of sex toys…
😂😂😂😂
hella good episode
love cp but he very much lost me at the misogynistic shit…
Same. I like his comedy. But he’s ashy and misogynistic and I’ll prob watch less of him cuz I don’t wanna hear his ignorance. Talmbout “genes” make men unfaithful. Wtf?! 🥴🙄😭lol
Best intro award! And excellent convo. Chemistry was on point! 👌🏽
Best intro song by far..it was like y'all practiced that ish..great job..I know pat bout to be dying laughing when he see this
I definitely agree with Tahir on the sex part. I’d rather know who I’m getting with and have a connection. It’s better being a pleaser than doing smash and dash
16:04 rest in peace to one of my fav artist DMX🙏🏽🙏🏽
Im a lil different was the realest quote said 😂