Bullies are bullies. Please don't even try to whitewash saying the victims should understand and forgive and give warped logic of bullies did not have it easy.
The parents also got the responsibility to teach the kids not to bully. The parents also got the responsibility to communicate with the kids more frequently to know what's happening in school or did they got bullied in school.
y'all have a unique personality guys... match one another well... hope y'all know this and treasure it! Btw I agree with Simon that sometimes teachers can feel too impersonal and uncaring in just teaching the "books" and not holistic education of students... I had great pri sch teachers who cared but not sec sch ones. Teaching is one of those professions where it's not "just a job", because to your students you are the role model and one of the few adults they should be able to trust
I rmb when I was in my sec sch, I got bullied by a guy from a gang. Everyone in my class don't dare to defy him and so I got outcast by them. At first i ignored him until one day he said bad things abt my mum, being in a divorce family, I was really upset so I told my teacher. My teacher scolded him then he got more angry. The next morning after assembly period, I recalled him running behind me trying to catch up to me when we were climbing the stairs and luckily the teacher stopped him, otherwise I do not know what will happen to me. And so the teacher asked him to go somewhere and talk. After talking, he came back to the class, and walked past me and "spit" saliva to my side. After that he still continue to bully me, i try to act like nothing happen and continue to live my school life, but deep down I really hate my life and hate to go to school but no choice.. After months, he finally stopped bullying me. And my normal life went back It's been 20 years but every now and then I still recall this incident. And I will forever rmb that bully name!!! 😡
when victim take revenge on the bully in near future it might happen, but I personally feel that if want to bully make sure to be prepared when the time comes the bully be prepared to be bullied
Thats what my mom used to say, ended up I kena bullied even more because I was powerless. got one time I just whack the bully once, never come disturb me already haha. Honestly looking back, should have set the boundaries once he started bullying, would have save me a year of suffering, lifetime of trauma.
IMO, victims dont feel safe speaking out because they might be targeted outside or the next day. Not many people knows about PPO. We adults will ask them to inform someone but in victims mind, the bullies will always be there. remember, bullies is always multiple people. not 1 or 2. That's why there are close to zero chance that bullying will ever end.
Okay, but what are you even supposed to do if the bully is your TEACHER?? Like, who’s the victim supposed to go to? Back in primary school, one of the head disciplinarians (yep, the dude who’s supposed to keep us in line 💀) went full WWE on my classmate-let’s call him B. This guy legit shoved B so hard he knocked over three rows of desks. 😳 And another time? He CHASED B WITH A CANE, from the classroom all the way to OUTSIDE THE SCHOOL GATE. Bro thought he was auditioning for a horror movie villain role. 💀 So the school counselor got involved, but guess what? Things got worse for B. The teacher was like, ‘Oh, you thought THIS was bad?’ and leveled up. B’s parents tried to step in, but B begged them not to because he was terrified it’d get even worse. (Spoiler: it probably would’ve.) The worst part? The reason for all this? B’s grades weren’t great. That’s it. No attitude problems, no drama-just a quiet kid minding his own business. But still, he got roasted DAILY. We’d hear him screaming from the next class over-it was heartbreaking. And as much as we wanted to help, we were all just kids. 🫠 And here’s the real kicker: the principal and other teachers were covering for this dude. There was this unspoken rule that if you snitched to your parents, you were DONE. Like, life = ruined. One time during assembly, this teacher even said getting your parents involved meant you were weak. 😤 And honestly? The students played along too because NO ONE wanted to get lumped in with the victim or become the next target. People would start ostracizing the poor kid to stay in the clear. It was like some weird survival game-stay quiet, stay invisible, and maybe you won’t be next. 🫠 This school was straight-up a toxic drama series with zero redemption arcs. 😭
I’ve been bullied from a teacher before too. It’s been so long but I still remember it like it just happened. I wanted to take my own life because life was already hard. But luckily one of my friend saved me and reported everything to the school’s principal. I’m so lucky and blessed right now to be alive and embracing life ❤ Is not like forget or anything but I treasure what I have now deeply
Really good intentions by the 3 of you. Got touch me inside. But the 'call to realisation' part kan pua funny. Luke keep on shouting non stop. I am a primary school teacher for almost 20 years already. Maybe i show some parts of this video to my students.
Maybe I'm bias. I only click the timestamp and watch Simon part. But i am upset there is so much gaslighting and whitewashing about bully. Guilty? What about the victim? And same like Simon, in fact worst childhood than him. Keep change primary school, both father mother abusive. Dad wanna sell me away pay debts, mum literally put me outside window wanna throw me down when i am 5yo. Family poor, but i remain obedient, work hard and studious. Since secondary school i got bullied non stop, i still maintain my results, work part to not burden family. Grow up work and take care of my abusive parents, study part time uni at night morning work full time job. Yet this simon go jail few times due to drug addiction come out become a national hero say turnover be a better person caz God bless him. What about honest hardworking people like us who suffered all forms of bully? Parents abuse, school bully, financial stress due to work etc. This is why a lot of people are bitter because many of us despite hardship remain the right path and trying but will never get as much opportunity as these so called content creator. Not being self righteous but being honest. Since i always see simon post on social media why people always suan him. This is why caz we are just upset why nowadays seems like so long get viral anything can be whitewash. Do wrong can huat. Do right stay as peasant get exploited.
Totally felt your frustrations. Everything just seemed unfair right? But you did really well given your circumstances and what you experienced. The traumas just don't seem to go away and people just don't seem to understand the agony and struggles we get through and are still going through in our everyday lives whereas the others are thriving and telling us to grow up move on and let go 😂 I feel you I feel you. I can only hope that we will heal so we can find peace in ourselves instead of constant fears and anxieties ❤
Bullies are bullies. Please don't even try to whitewash saying the victims should understand and forgive and give warped logic of bullies did not have it easy.
When bullies put a "dent" in the victim's life, this dent stays in their heads forever. No amount of forgiveness can mend the damage.
I swear this is not a funny matter, but damnnn these guys! I love the chemistry and humour 😂 keep it up 🎉
The parents also got the responsibility to teach the kids not to bully. The parents also got the responsibility to communicate with the kids more frequently to know what's happening in school or did they got bullied in school.
I think most wasn't aware their kids were bullying others in school.
Office toxicity exists as well. Be it in public service or private sistersss and brotherssss
Maybe school can make a QR code for the one get bully to report ? Cos sometimes the students scare to voice out 😢
y'all have a unique personality guys... match one another well... hope y'all know this and treasure it! Btw I agree with Simon that sometimes teachers can feel too impersonal and uncaring in just teaching the "books" and not holistic education of students... I had great pri sch teachers who cared but not sec sch ones. Teaching is one of those professions where it's not "just a job", because to your students you are the role model and one of the few adults they should be able to trust
I rmb when I was in my sec sch, I got bullied by a guy from a gang. Everyone in my class don't dare to defy him and so I got outcast by them. At first i ignored him until one day he said bad things abt my mum, being in a divorce family, I was really upset so I told my teacher. My teacher scolded him then he got more angry. The next morning after assembly period, I recalled him running behind me trying to catch up to me when we were climbing the stairs and luckily the teacher stopped him, otherwise I do not know what will happen to me. And so the teacher asked him to go somewhere and talk. After talking, he came back to the class, and walked past me and "spit" saliva to my side. After that he still continue to bully me, i try to act like nothing happen and continue to live my school life, but deep down I really hate my life and hate to go to school but no choice..
After months, he finally stopped bullying me. And my normal life went back
It's been 20 years but every now and then I still recall this incident. And I will forever rmb that bully name!!! 😡
when victim take revenge on the bully in near future it might happen, but I personally feel that if want to bully make sure to be prepared when the time comes the bully be prepared to be bullied
Sialahh simon n luke. U both funny sia!!! Esp luke, the way u talk ahhh walao! 😂😂
great content ,guys ! keep them coming .
Agree that pschool should educate on bullies.
If you are getting bullied. Just don’t give the Bully any reaction and ignore them all the time. They just want the attention
Thats what my mom used to say, ended up I kena bullied even more because I was powerless. got one time I just whack the bully once, never come disturb me already haha. Honestly looking back, should have set the boundaries once he started bullying, would have save me a year of suffering, lifetime of trauma.
@@peampam if its one bully but if its a group bully its a different ball game
True..
But also depending on the bully.
If you ignore them, their ego cannot take it.
Then they will escalate.
37:31 Noah.. remember to change your group of friends 🤣
please share this to your kids. ❤️
Noah yap lighting part really quite solid xD but abit too chaotic la too many parts talking over each other
That's why we all go to church when we get older our younger days too much sins
IMO, victims dont feel safe speaking out because they might be targeted outside or the next day. Not many people knows about PPO. We adults will ask them to inform someone but in victims mind, the bullies will always be there. remember, bullies is always multiple people. not 1 or 2. That's why there are close to zero chance that bullying will ever end.
Okay, but what are you even supposed to do if the bully is your TEACHER?? Like, who’s the victim supposed to go to? Back in primary school, one of the head disciplinarians (yep, the dude who’s supposed to keep us in line 💀) went full WWE on my classmate-let’s call him B. This guy legit shoved B so hard he knocked over three rows of desks. 😳 And another time? He CHASED B WITH A CANE, from the classroom all the way to OUTSIDE THE SCHOOL GATE. Bro thought he was auditioning for a horror movie villain role. 💀
So the school counselor got involved, but guess what? Things got worse for B. The teacher was like, ‘Oh, you thought THIS was bad?’ and leveled up. B’s parents tried to step in, but B begged them not to because he was terrified it’d get even worse. (Spoiler: it probably would’ve.)
The worst part? The reason for all this? B’s grades weren’t great. That’s it. No attitude problems, no drama-just a quiet kid minding his own business. But still, he got roasted DAILY. We’d hear him screaming from the next class over-it was heartbreaking. And as much as we wanted to help, we were all just kids. 🫠
And here’s the real kicker: the principal and other teachers were covering for this dude. There was this unspoken rule that if you snitched to your parents, you were DONE. Like, life = ruined. One time during assembly, this teacher even said getting your parents involved meant you were weak. 😤 And honestly? The students played along too because NO ONE wanted to get lumped in with the victim or become the next target. People would start ostracizing the poor kid to stay in the clear. It was like some weird survival game-stay quiet, stay invisible, and maybe you won’t be next. 🫠 This school was straight-up a toxic drama series with zero redemption arcs. 😭
I’ve been bullied from a teacher before too. It’s been so long but I still remember it like it just happened. I wanted to take my own life because life was already hard. But luckily one of my friend saved me and reported everything to the school’s principal. I’m so lucky and blessed right now to be alive and embracing life ❤
Is not like forget or anything but I treasure what I have now deeply
done sub and commented on the IG.. great content guys :)
21:44 😂 omg I cannot
Well can talk about racism it's also a problem which is also apart from bullying
I have been bullied by everyone especially Malay. Does this consider racist?
Really good intentions by the 3 of you. Got touch me inside. But the 'call to realisation' part kan pua funny. Luke keep on shouting non stop. I am a primary school teacher for almost 20 years already. Maybe i show some parts of this video to my students.
Lucky got beep out the vulgarities. great job so i can use the video
Maybe I'm bias. I only click the timestamp and watch Simon part. But i am upset there is so much gaslighting and whitewashing about bully. Guilty? What about the victim? And same like Simon, in fact worst childhood than him. Keep change primary school, both father mother abusive. Dad wanna sell me away pay debts, mum literally put me outside window wanna throw me down when i am 5yo. Family poor, but i remain obedient, work hard and studious. Since secondary school i got bullied non stop, i still maintain my results, work part to not burden family. Grow up work and take care of my abusive parents, study part time uni at night morning work full time job. Yet this simon go jail few times due to drug addiction come out become a national hero say turnover be a better person caz God bless him. What about honest hardworking people like us who suffered all forms of bully? Parents abuse, school bully, financial stress due to work etc. This is why a lot of people are bitter because many of us despite hardship remain the right path and trying but will never get as much opportunity as these so called content creator. Not being self righteous but being honest. Since i always see simon post on social media why people always suan him. This is why caz we are just upset why nowadays seems like so long get viral anything can be whitewash. Do wrong can huat. Do right stay as peasant get exploited.
Totally felt your frustrations.
Everything just seemed unfair right?
But you did really well given your circumstances and what you experienced.
The traumas just don't seem to go away and people just don't seem to understand the agony and struggles we get through and are still going through in our everyday lives whereas the others are thriving and telling us to grow up move on and let go 😂
I feel you I feel you.
I can only hope that we will heal so we can find peace in ourselves instead of constant fears and anxieties ❤
good one 👍
love this episode! keep up the good work!
Just suggestion. Simon's and Luke's foundation would look better if it is 1 or 2 tones darker. Sorry it is non related to the topic.
tell teachers discipline master or police its useless, the bullies are good in acting in front of them.
Last time when I in school 20+ years ago, we had a term call “face problem” I think luke had face problem when he young 😂
Best yt channel 🎉🎉🎉
aaron lim jun jie bullying noah on tt live
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GREAT SKIT!!
Piang ooi.. why u all always make serious topics become so comedy. 😅 I wanna listen seriously but kept laughing coz u guys damn nonsense. 😅