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Your X posted on her site two hours ago that visitation is granted "pursuant to permanent protection order" that could be a threat so be careful...it means that she is going to pursue this further to prevent you from seeing your child... meaning she will conjure up a lie to get you banned...
hi joe, sorry to hear about your troubles, been watching the last few videos, but didnt know what to say, anyway glad everything is being sorted and you get to see bella now, all the best mate, hope the new year is a good one for you
Glad things have finally been settled and it seems for the most part to have been in your favor. Mate you have done very well and were a very good husband and still a fantastic Father. Robert might wan't to think about hiring you to make sure his home is being built properly, i wish the best for Robert and Elvi they seem like such a lovely couple. Take care my friend and thanks for the video, i really enjoy watching. See you on Sunday, cheers.
You should sell the house as is. The restriction on you staying there is ridiculous. Sell it and pay her off and be done with it. Then you are free to do what you want.
...yes God is always watching and always hears prayers, but sometimes He loves you so much, He will not grant them for he knows what pain they will cause...keep your eyes focused on Him and all will be ok...God bless, Merry Christmas
Good morning Joe that's good Joe sale you house it's better to give her only 20 or 30 % of your property and do not go back to depolog forget everything there find another woman that can be trusted not a goung woman they only after ur wealth.
So sorry to hear your seperation from your X nd child U did the most for them. Such trend، happening a lot lately in Pinas with Expats nd filipina wife. Again hand tight things shall be okay. We support your laons against you.
The one takeaway I’ve gotten from these channels, is keep the wife off TH-cam. I think the wife getting her own channel, or even appearing on the channel frequently is as risky as taking them back to the US. There’s always someone younger, and richer ready to swoop in. Hypergamy is real.
I don’t think that the Settlement is a Fair One and restricting who can be in your home would be a deal breaker for me. It’s like you’re being held hostage with what you can do in a house you own 60 percent of. The next thing will be even though you comply she will not and will find excuses for your time with Bella. Hope it works out for you but I think in the Long Run it’s just more trouble than it’s worth. You Got a Raw Deal Joe…
I’m glad it’s all settled. What comes next? Little girl will always need her dad forever. No rush to sell the house if you use it instead of paying rent. Leave it all for kid so nothings lost? Definitely no rush to find another companion/wife. Lots of substitutes and replacements available whenever you ready. Most important thing now is physical health. Exercise and health checks. Mental health can be religion, a dog, a motorcycle, good food, and good friends. Can be the road or anything. Money isn’t that important bec you got that already. And can make more. Retired means you have a choice to take it easy, not you had to give up. Lots of places to go, food to try, and people to meet. Thailand, Vietnam Nam, South Korea, South America.
😢 so sad how your relationship ended.. But the life must go on.. I think you deserve a good woman to care about you at any time just make sure to find a real working woman who knows what is mean about sharing.... About to SPLIT the house when you selling 60/40 is a offence for who worked hard to build and put all the money ( YOU) but this is the Philippines and as foreign people we must follow the rules.... GOD KNOWS HOW GOOD MAN YOU ARE.. DON'T WORRY ABOUT KARMA COMING.. HOPE YOU WILL FIND A GOOD LIFE AGAIN...🎉 MERRY CHRISTMAS AND A HAPPY NEW YEAR 2025 IS YOUR YEAR 🎉🎉 CIAO.. FROM A ITALIAN GUY LIVE IN MANILA..
HI JOE, The BEST NEWS IS YOU CAN SEE BELLA. I HAVE NOT seen my daughter in 25 years and I was the one to DIVORCE HER. I was on REBOUND after my divorce and met a FILIPINA with 2 kids , can t tell story here BUT BIGGEST MISTAKE OF MY LIFE. Lost $300,000 US dollars BUT worse never saw my daughter again , even with visitation and me sending her money , only saw her once. PlLEASE be careful , don t rush into anything. I may make some dumb comments , however not DISRESPECTFUL , maybe some people did not have a good upbringing. Be safe. GOD BLESS CIAO here near NYC , east coast USA
Not as such. That was her request for some reason surely not because I will mistreat my daughter and I accepted for Bella feeling happier being with both parents.
I’m surprised at all the rain in your area, also the the other islands in the area,,up north we have lovely weather cool and sunny,,rain long gone ,,ask Santa for a umbrella 😊take care,, and enjoy your day,,😊
Injoy ur self my friend b cuz we don't know tomorrow, love ur self. That's a lot of money 7k a month not fair for u. The rest of that money is going to the mother and buy for her needs.
Visitation with order of protection the court order it if theres abuse or safety of the mom and child it usual comes with restraning order be very careful how you deal with ex
Joe you should offer a cash payment to sign over ownership of the house to you. Get a loan and pay her off. She will be pushing for the sale to get money. Where will you live?
Money is the problem.just keep what you are doing Joe for the sake of Bella. I've watched and followed a canadian couple separated..and the woman got a younger man but the man gets good karma and now he has a rest. business.
Hello Joe. I have noticed the area in northern Mindinao often has bad weather. Here in Davao we escape the bad weather often. Yes sometimes here we have earthquakes but where we live we feel only slight tremors. The house we rent is built well and we would be safe if a stronger earthquake hit the Davao area. Merry Christmas and a happy New year. Good that everything has now been settled in regards to your marriage. Do not understand why you are not allowed to have a new partner living in the house you built.
It is with great sadness I see that you have split up. Sadly I see all these relationships on TH-cam with Filipinas and they are all falling apart but a select few. Western influences have ruined what men were looking for in a Filipina. So so sorry you are going thru this.
3:50 did you say your house will be sold with a 60/40 split in proceeds? And why can’t you have any one live there with you if the house is going to be sold? I’m glad that your wife is willing to negotiate and us being somewhat “reasonable” in her demands.
You're lucky with the 60 - 40 deal. Your lawyer is probably a good negotiator. Back in the days it's automatic that everything is 50 - 50 doesn't matter if only the husband earns and pay for the property or brings money or property he earn when he was single. The wife by just being the wife without working or earning or contributing anything automatically gets half of absolute community property or conjugal property as determined by courts. But depends on the lawyers too. I have these feelings that lawyers of both sides are secretly talking what to tell their clients. Regarding child support the lawyers may tell you that you can compromise giving one Lump sum and no more future obligations. But in truth the Philippine law at least at that time says that child support never stops despite judicial settlement and compromise it can still be reopened from time to time if the child needs more while he or she is below 21 or even if older if he has not yet finished reasonable education.
what if she is with another person providing money for her, do you still have to pay? I know you want to care for your child, but, does your obligation for school and medical get reduced?
salut Joe, tu es marié depuis plus de 3 ans. il faut du temps pour guérir, un an à un an et demi pour s'en remettre et passer à autre chose. alors prends ton temps Joe
WHAT IS YOUR VISITATION?!!!! IT SHOULD BE EQUAL, YOU HAVING BELLA 50% (OR MORE) OF THE TIME, ANYTHING LESS IS STRAIGHT BS, UNLESS YOU'RE OK BEING A WEEKEND DAD, I WOULD NOT BE ESPECIALLY THE WAY THIS ALL HAPPENED!
@@retiringinparadise If you're in a new beginning, why in the world would keep that huge reminder of that disaster on your channel? I I would change it in an instant.
@jjamericanbulldogsander6718 yes marriage is not a game, but when your ex partner is seeing someone else like Joe's is? Hence my question why would you want to stay married? Do you think it can be saved? I doubt it she has made up her mind and already moved on.
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Your X posted on her site two hours ago that visitation is granted "pursuant to permanent protection order" that could be a threat so be careful...it means that she is going to pursue this further to prevent you from seeing your child... meaning she will conjure up a lie to get you banned...
hi joe, sorry to hear about your troubles, been watching the last few videos, but didnt know what to say, anyway glad everything is being sorted and you get to see bella now, all the best mate, hope the new year is a good one for you
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I’m glad things are sorted out. Move on with your life. Mental health and spiritual health is as important as physical health. Happy holidays Joe.
@@kawarps thank you
Hi Joe, happy you're getting your important things done. Very nice of Robert lending his car to you and his house is coming along real nice. Take care
Yes, very helpful. Thank you Linda
Money was definitely a motivation in the relationship.
Oh yes
@@Im_Tellin_Ya That's always be the case.... sorry.
@@lolamelecia yes, but she wanted more than Joe could provide.
@@Im_Tellin_Ya I think most women are like that no matter how much money you have. It is truly a broken dream.
@@thomasfarley6052Anybody that’s honest, given to exact examples Ie same guy one rich and one poor..ya pick the rich guy. It’s not rocket science.
Leosánchez here... Better be a broken dream than a broken life... keep yourself going... thousands have faced what you did.
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Morning Joe, so glad everything is working out for you stay focused and your be ok.
Thanks 🙏
Glad things have finally been settled and it seems for the most part to have been in your favor. Mate you have done very well and were a very good husband and still a fantastic Father. Robert might wan't to think about hiring you to make sure his home is being built properly, i wish the best for Robert and Elvi they seem like such a lovely couple. Take care my friend and thanks for the video, i really enjoy watching. See you on Sunday, cheers.
@@thomasfarley6052 thank you I am glad viewers saw that 👍
@@retiringinparadise Great livestream today, i have been traveling and may have missed a video. God bless you mate
@thomasfarley6052 thank you my friend
I'm glad it's over. Stay safe. God bless you.
🙏🙏🙏🇺🇸🇺🇸
Joe good to see you moving on mate, keep it going.
God will blessed you even more, Joe ♥️
He's been looking after🙏👍
Joe you got the right attitude. And your child is the reason. Keep up with good work mate!
@@MrJohnthegreat22 thank you
I prayed that you and your wife be together again
I am not good enough. Gods watching
When the age gap is 25 to 30 years difference, do not have high expectations
You should sell the house as is. The restriction on you staying there is ridiculous. Sell it and pay her off and be done with it. Then you are free to do what you want.
Absolutely
Agree
...yes God is always watching and always hears prayers, but sometimes He loves you so much, He will not grant them for he knows what pain they will cause...keep your eyes focused on Him and all will be ok...God bless, Merry Christmas
@@katolau 🙏👍
Good morning Joe that's good Joe sale you house it's better to give her only 20 or 30 % of your property and do not go back to depolog forget everything there find another woman that can be trusted not a goung woman they only after ur wealth.
@rowenalacho5655 👍
Good to see you moving around.
best of luck.
Glad to see you're doing better.😊
Thanks. I am
So sorry to hear your seperation from your X nd child
U did the most for them.
Such trend، happening a lot lately in Pinas with Expats nd filipina wife. Again hand tight things shall be okay. We support your laons against you.
The one takeaway I’ve gotten from these channels, is keep the wife off TH-cam. I think the wife getting her own channel, or even appearing on the channel frequently is as risky as taking them back to the US. There’s always someone younger, and richer ready to swoop in. Hypergamy is real.
I real woman will stick to his man
@@retiringinparadise You are right mate, a women who serves God will serve her husband.
@thomasfarley6052 absolutely
true
@@retiringinparadise100%
We’re glad things are sorted out.. and you can see now your lovely daughter Bella 👍👍
"A broken dream....." that hit hard.
😢
Most philipinas would expect her farang to build a lovely house. Other expats did it so now it is the norm. Believe what you want.
We are not farang here. She always loved the house until....
Farang is a term used in Thailand. Other names for that one in the Philippines 😂
Keep up brother, you really doing the right thing. Time for a new chapter, and Bella is a part of it 🎉🎊🏅
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Joe stay single, never a live in. Once bitten twice shy mate. Wish you the best.
👍 yes no more
I disagree if you find the right woman it will change your life. Never give up.
I don’t think that the Settlement is a Fair One and restricting who can be in your home would be a deal breaker for me. It’s like you’re being held hostage with what you can do in a house you own 60 percent of. The next thing will be even though you comply she will not and will find excuses for your time with Bella. Hope it works out for you but I think in the Long Run it’s just more trouble than it’s worth. You Got a Raw Deal Joe…
@@worldlydestinations as bad as western divorce. How can they tell you who is in the house.she is not a good person
Am so happy you get to see bella you are a good day and god will see you true
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Evening Joe
Yo😊
I’m glad it’s all settled. What comes next? Little girl will always need her dad forever. No rush to sell the house if you use it instead of paying rent. Leave it all for kid so nothings lost? Definitely no rush to find another companion/wife. Lots of substitutes and replacements available whenever you ready. Most important thing now is physical health. Exercise and health checks. Mental health can be religion, a dog, a motorcycle, good food, and good friends. Can be the road or anything. Money isn’t that important bec you got that already. And can make more. Retired means you have a choice to take it easy, not you had to give up. Lots of places to go, food to try, and people to meet. Thailand, Vietnam Nam, South Korea, South America.
😊🙏yes
😢 so sad how your relationship ended..
But the life must go on..
I think you deserve a good woman to care about you at any time just make sure to find a real working woman who knows what is mean about sharing....
About to SPLIT the house when you selling 60/40 is a offence for who worked hard to build and put all the money ( YOU) but this is the Philippines and as foreign people we must follow the rules....
GOD KNOWS HOW GOOD MAN YOU ARE.. DON'T WORRY ABOUT KARMA COMING..
HOPE YOU WILL FIND A GOOD LIFE AGAIN...🎉
MERRY CHRISTMAS AND A HAPPY NEW YEAR 2025 IS YOUR YEAR 🎉🎉
CIAO.. FROM A ITALIAN GUY LIVE IN MANILA..
Thank you kindly😊👍
What exactly happened why you separated? I hope you both are well and can have a better life. Merry Christmas!
Hello
HI JOE, The BEST NEWS IS YOU CAN SEE BELLA.
I HAVE NOT seen my daughter in 25 years and I was the one to DIVORCE HER.
I was on REBOUND after my divorce and met a FILIPINA with 2 kids , can t tell story here BUT BIGGEST MISTAKE OF MY LIFE.
Lost $300,000 US dollars BUT worse never saw my daughter again , even with visitation and me sending her money , only saw her once.
PlLEASE be careful , don t rush into anything.
I may make some dumb comments , however not DISRESPECTFUL , maybe some people did not have a good upbringing.
Be safe.
GOD BLESS CIAO here near NYC , east coast USA
Yes. God bless my friend 👍
I heard that you got supervised child visits ?
Not as such. That was her request for some reason surely not because I will mistreat my daughter and I accepted for Bella feeling happier being with both parents.
Ok@@retiringinparadise
Best of luck
I’m surprised at all the rain in your area, also the the other islands in the area,,up north we have lovely weather cool and sunny,,rain long gone ,,ask Santa for a umbrella 😊take care,, and enjoy your day,,😊
Injoy ur self my friend b cuz we don't know tomorrow, love ur self. That's a lot of money 7k a month not fair for u. The rest of that money is going to the mother and buy for her needs.
Bella is so cute
♥️
That's the only successful build we made
Visitation with order of protection the court order it if theres abuse or safety of the mom and child it usual comes with restraning order be very careful how you deal with ex
All protection orders have been lifted and dismissed
Joe you should offer a cash payment to sign over ownership of the house to you. Get a loan and pay her off. She will be pushing for the sale to get money. Where will you live?
Thinking something like that, maybe
I thought no divorce in Philippines. How did they come to that judgment?
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I’m being serious. This could help some of us including myself.
Joe don't have a problem she doing wor k an a youtube channel she will serveive
Money is the problem.just keep what you are doing Joe for the sake of Bella.
I've watched and followed a canadian couple separated..and the woman got a younger man but the man gets good karma and now he has a rest. business.
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Hello Joe. I have noticed the area in northern Mindinao often has bad weather. Here in Davao we escape the bad weather often. Yes sometimes here we have earthquakes but where we live we feel only slight tremors. The house we rent is built well and we would be safe if a stronger earthquake hit the Davao area. Merry Christmas and a happy New year. Good that everything has now been settled in regards to your marriage. Do not understand why you are not allowed to have a new partner living in the house you built.
Best Wishes 🤞
It's the law in the Philippines that's all there is to it. He is still legally married.
@@Gurkha9 Exactly. So this is why I didn't care about it
My wife told me it's always 50 50 in the philippines.
Aah 60 40
Correct
I asked
That’s a nice car Robert has glad he let you use it
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Hi. Isn’t the house for Bella?
It was but she asked to be sold. I am ok with that
It is with great sadness I see that you have split up. Sadly I see all these relationships on TH-cam with Filipinas and they are all falling apart but a select few. Western influences have ruined what men were looking for in a Filipina. So so sorry you are going thru this.
No need to be sorry. God will give me a better happy life, because I haven't broken his path👍😊
@@retiringinparadise your 100% correct the best part of your life is coming. Turn a negative into a positive
3:50 did you say your house will be sold with a 60/40 split in proceeds? And why can’t you have any one live there with you if the house is going to be sold? I’m glad that your wife is willing to negotiate and us being somewhat “reasonable” in her demands.
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sell the shack. get a condo live a new life.vist child when allowed,
Its crazy all the vloggers are getting married and divorced over there
Being popular is not always a good thing. Jackass looking for any opportunity
It's not all of them but getting married is not a good thing anywhere for men . I stay single here but with the same pilipina woman 10 years .
Mate your free
Just outside is a smorgasbord waiting for you
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You're lucky with the 60 - 40 deal. Your lawyer is probably a good negotiator. Back in the days it's automatic that everything is 50 - 50 doesn't matter if only the husband earns and pay for the property or brings money or property he earn when he was single. The wife by just being the wife without working or earning or contributing anything automatically gets half of absolute community property or conjugal property as determined by courts. But depends on the lawyers too. I have these feelings that lawyers of both sides are secretly talking what to tell their clients. Regarding child support the lawyers may tell you that you can compromise giving one Lump sum and no more future obligations. But in truth the Philippine law at least at that time says that child support never stops despite judicial settlement and compromise it can still be reopened from time to time if the child needs more while he or she is below 21 or even if older if he has not yet finished reasonable education.
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what if she is with another person providing money for her, do you still have to pay? I know you want to care for your child, but, does your obligation for school and medical get reduced?
Nothing changes
salut Joe, tu es marié depuis plus de 3 ans. il faut du temps pour guérir, un an à un an et demi pour s'en remettre et passer à autre chose. alors prends ton temps Joe
Oui Merci. Cela va mieux
WHAT IS YOUR VISITATION?!!!! IT SHOULD BE EQUAL, YOU HAVING BELLA 50% (OR MORE) OF THE TIME, ANYTHING LESS IS STRAIGHT BS, UNLESS YOU'RE OK BEING A WEEKEND DAD, I WOULD NOT BE ESPECIALLY THE WAY THIS ALL HAPPENED!
Capital letters not required. I can see the lower case. a child needs more her mother at tender age
Hi. I see. Now you are following her needs not your vision for Bella’s future. Ok I understand
I want to put Bella first 👍 not like some
In what time frame you have to sell your house to give your wife her share 40%?
No time frame
She will get 40% of your earnings?
Nope on the sale of the house
She has income from her own business.
I doubt. Not sure
Sorry not my business
Do you really have your own lawyer sounds like you have her lawyer?
Of course everyone has his own lawyer
And change your theme song! You need a new song!
This was always the theme song and will remain so. Maybe I can do a vote about it
@@retiringinparadise If you're in a new beginning, why in the world would keep that huge reminder of that disaster on your channel? I I would change it in an instant.
💰💸💷💳💶💵💴=🍭🤫✌🏽
You lost half of your retirement savings because she committed adultery I’ still don’t understand why?
No evidence. Let's move on
Paternity test should be taken..just sayin'
We stack together since met😛
Why divorce if nobody have done anything wrong???
Exactly
Why stay married to someone you don't see
@@scottlyons8304 well there has to be a reason why is like that marriage is not a game?
@jjamericanbulldogsander6718 yes marriage is not a game, but when your ex partner is seeing someone else like Joe's is?
Hence my question why would you want to stay married?
Do you think it can be saved?
I doubt it she has made up her mind and already moved on.
@scottlyons8304 mate. You got it wrong. WE are not seeing anyone else, but some need financial assistance...
Did you guys get divorced? Happy you get to see Bella. That’s all that matters.
No she backed off🤔 yes very happy
She should receive zero if all according to Filipino law? Of course for Bella that’s ok
The law is 50/50
Stay in Philippines sooner you will finds lifetime partners older women's..
Thank you