Sorry to hear you guys split up. Seems to be the way things usually go nowadays; most people I know have been through a breakup or divorce of one or more long-term relationships. My personal experience is that it takes me at least a year to get over it, so give yourself time and be kind to yourself. You aren't alone, and we're rooting for you!
I was hoping your title was clickbait, but alas...it wasn't. Sorry to hear; you two made an amazing channel. Look forward to whatever new content you bring us with life's change.
Of all the names mentioned so far, I love “Clark’s Temptress”! It can go so many ways: 1) Literally, she’s your vessel; 2) Your future partner(s); 3) Your various entrepreneurial ideas/ventures. Good luck landing on your feet again. I’ve always applied the “one year rule” to my personal traumatic events. That is, after the distance from a key event afforded by one year, one almost ALWAYS can look back and, with gratitude, understand exactly why that event was perfect for your future outcome. In my experience, this especially applies to break-ups. No matter how heartbroken I’ve been in the moment, there hasn’t been a single break-up I don’t see as a blessing, now. It’s opened doors to new relationships, new opportunities, and new happiness. It leaves no room for being a victim. I wish the same for you, Clark.
I went thru the same thing 6 yrs ago. Your're certainly not alone in this. I had good close friends and my (adult) kids to help me get past the first 6 months. After that I was pretty good. Moved permanently to Mexico. I date also, but tbh not much interested in a long-term relationship. I have discovered I love a drama free, single life. Honestly? I'd recommend you stay single for at least a year...get to know yourself. Lost my sailboat to the divorce...currently looking for another in Mexico. Best of luck to you. "Clark's Adventure" probably makes the most sense.
@@auttiman5591 bad advice...you dont want someone running back out of jealousy, not the right reasons and he will be in same rut soon enough, be single travel and meet people
Sorry to hear this. To be honest I had also left your channel about 2 years ago. You originally said the channel was about sailing the world, then you got stuck in luperon for about 3-4 years it seems. Anyway, sad Emily is gone. Maybe now you’ll scrape the barnacles off your hull and get traveling again. You don’t need a woman to go exploring, you might meet her on your way. Drop the lines and go.
I work at a hotel and often make connections with guests. Sometimes they're just passing through, and sometimes they stay for a while. I get to hear lots of different life experiences and stories. Many people will just tell me what is going on in their life, kind of like a mini therapy session. I can tell you this, wanting to be loved is universal. For a long time I felt ashamed for wanting to be loved and married, especially because I could not seem to find anyone who wanted that with me. Was I broken? No, it just takes time and yes, it's absolutely hard to be alone sometimes. Sometimes being alone doesn't feel freeing, it feels... well, alone. For me, I let my mind spiral and can end up in some pretty low places. Some thoughts for you: - It's okay to have waves of grief - It's okay to feel whatever feelings you feel - I find a lot of solace in being out in the community, volunteering, going to lectures, hell sometimes I just walk around the grocery store to feel like I had some human contact. - Be careful with your heart. You deserve to be loved well. Its hard to know how to protect your heart and allow someone in simultaneously...its something I'm still trying to figure out. I'm a fan of Embark With Clark Much love your way.
Gotta give you props for your 2nd help request being so public. Wish I was able to do that. I'm a bit like you, I love going places, but it seems like a joy multiplier to have someone along with.
Sorry to hear this news Clark. I have been following your channel for a while (discovered you through your amazing life-changing finance videos) and really enjoy seeing your updates. I think Clark's Adventure is a great name! Or what about "Embark with Clark" so we can join along? Can't wait to see your Greece videos 😊
I’m sorry to hear that Clark. As someone that’s been where you are now I feel your pain. I’m wanting your AC system for my camper. PLEASE keep us informed.
After thinking about it for a while I feel like your strength is in meeting people and fixing their problems, like "This Ol House" for boats. You show up on oyur dingy with a bag of tools and you tell the story of helping people fix their problems with their boat.
I’m so sorry Clark to hear you two split up. While we love Temptress (such an awesome boat) the channel has never been just about Temptress, it’s been about you, your life and your adventures as well as your generous sharing of your valuable knowledge. “Sailing Temptress” as the channel name in my opinion doesn’t do it justice. As others have said, you said it in the beginning of every video “Clark on Temptress” is the most fitting I think. However “Clarks Adventures” works too. But I think it’s important to be “Clarks”. I’m really looking forward to the coming Greece adventure. It’s been a bucket list place to sail for me!
I was about to post "Stop the click bait" Sadly, it wasn't. It is hard to separate from someone who has been an integral part of one's life. Wishing you both healing and to find happiness again.
I'm sorry you going through this but it will pass as they say. I know it's strange to say but thank you for the title not being clickbait. There are so many other sailing channels that do that. You are refreshing and honest and appreciated.
you're free! enjoy it. lots of people are leaving at this time, also lots of partnerships ending. keep the faith and know that everything is perfect. "don't cry cause its over, smile because it was", took me a year to get that after my partner left me. good luck!
I like the channel name, "Clark on Temptress". I knew something was up but didn't know what. I thought it was odd you two stayed put that long in one place. Hopefully we can get back to sailing and adventuring. That's how I found you, that's why I subscribed. Either way, women come and go. Most go. Usually their idea. That's just how it works.
It’s hard to find anyone anymore at our ages. Men don’t trust women and women don’t trust men. This division is by social media placing views, influencers creating divide. Then there is financial hypergamy, kids, grand children, changing life priorities as health life issues awaiting to die. Loneliness is real out on the water vs docks. I’ve had many quit sailing to return to dwellings to in a hope to find a mate that never materialized. It’s very very very hard. So dysfunctional like millions of people wanting to connect but repelled each other like magnets pushing away from each other. It’s a small 🔑 key to the right door that may be a lifetime now in search after 60 years old. It’s like the planets and the solar system has to align. 1 in a million, trillions to a possibility of connecting. Good luck though.
The teak deck did it. I knew it would. I think "The Log of the Temptress" or "S.V. Temptress" - something along that line. "Clark on Temptress" is something you've said in videos dozens of times, and might be good. Sadly, sailing itself is nowhere near the eye-draw that maintenance is, but instruction is always good, so maybe sail to Greece - get the boat ready for an offshore passage - make a log day by day - problems, ups, downs, etc. Then arrive in Greece and show your viewers what you see. Best of luck.
Here are a few suggestion for the name. I am in the camp that you need to maintain some form up historical familiarity rather than a totally new brand: (1) Clark & Temptress's Adventure (2) The New Clark and Temptress Travels (3) SV Temptress and YOU (4) Clark's Journey with Temptress Continues. Here is what Gemini suggested: Keeping the Adventure Theme Clark's Adventures: (Straightforward and maintains the core brand identity.) Solo Adventures with Clark: (Clearly indicates a solo venture while keeping the adventure theme.) The Next Chapter with Clark: (Suggests a new beginning while referencing the past.) Building on the Existing Brand Clark's World: (Implies a broader scope of adventures.) From Emily & Clark to Clark Alone: (Acknowledges the past while emphasizing the new direction.) Clark's Journey: (Simple, yet effective in conveying the idea of a personal exploration.) Creating a New Identity Clark Unleashed: (Implies a new sense of freedom and exploration.) No Limits with Clark: (Suggests a fearless approach to adventures.) Clark's Wild Ride: (Conveys a sense of excitement and unpredictability.)
Sorry to hear of the breakup, it's not easy unless you simply don't care about the other person. Hopefully what you have left are some great memories. I can honestly say, I have been with some amazing women, and one lousy one. You know, when you are driving down the freeway and you look up at a billboard and there is an ad for a gym and the woman on the ad is wearing a bikini and you smile and think, "ya, that's my girlfriend", well, you have to say to yourself, you have been a pretty lucky guy. It gets harder as we get older, when you are 20 all that matters is you like them and you have fun, then in your 50's, 60's, there are a lot more boxes to check. Hopefully, you get your bearings and find someone whose company you enjoy.
Hi Clark, I'm sorry to hear about your break up. I met you and Emily in early 2018 in the Bahamas. Now it seems we have more in common. My significant relationship ended about 2 years ago and I'm trying to move on. It's not easy, but you're doing the right thing. Have fun and you will meet the right person.
Clark, Ran across your videos just a couple of days ago while researching a battery plant for my van. Was binge watching them & was sad to see, that this one's title wasn't clickbait. Women usually get into camping, sailing, & sports, because their husband, boyfriend, or children are into it & would not be interested on their own. It's difficult to tell the difference, as ostensibly they could show equal enthusiasm. Might be good for you to go old school & have a "woman in every port", rather than searching for that rare woman who likes camping, sailing, & sports on her own. Eventually, you might just run into one. Easy to say but not easy to feel, but for Emily to abide the lifestyle for 9 years is pretty good, so she was pretty fond of you, so it's great, that you can still respect one another & help one another as friends. When I was growing up in the 1960's & 1970's, I had 4 brothers & we did a lot of outdoor things & sports . It wasn't until, I was in my 40's, that I fully appreciated the fact, that my mother actually liked doing sports & camping type things on her own, & that Dad had recognized this, & that's why he married her & stayed married to her, for almost 60 years, until she passed away. I feel blessed as a man to have had such a mother, but admittedly, it probably delayed me a bit in figuring out "normal" women!
Its rare to find someone who wants the sailboat life full time, especially a lady. Everyone wants to go for a couple of weeks before returning to their normal life. Consider offering to let patreons cruise for a week or two before another one comes for a visit. You will get more patreons as people sign up for the "reality TV vacation" and you will get some help running the boat and a companion to impress with your travels. It can work until some lady comes along.
I have been watching (and learning from) your videos for many years. Sorry to hear of your split up with Emily, but it has been a good run as they say. I wish you both happiness. Clark’s Adventures is a good name for future videos- it’s been a good run with Temptress as well, but I get the vibe you are ready for whatever comes next in your adventure. Thank you for sharing so much knowledge- I’ll keep watching and routing for you, Clark!
Greece is the most amazing country and a land of sailors. It is a magical place for an adventure - especially when your life foundations have been shaken. Hope everything works out. Wishing youmuch happiness
I know change can feel uncomfortable as you are going through it...... but it's truly amazing how new situations bring Peace to previous experiences and memories. I hope you understand what I'm trying to communicate. Every day is a Grand new opportunity filled with potential !! Stoic philosophy recommends a little thought on the future and to primarily be focused on today and living your best present moments. Wishing you continuous health and happiness. Your friend, Jeff 🌞⛵🌴
Wow, such a shock to hear this news. I remember meeting you and Emily in Florida in 2019 at that Thai restaurant and helping you with your dingy and visiting Temptress. I was so envious of your life together. Now a wonderful love and relationship has ended and a new chapter has started and I've been in that boat too. Take time to do things that make you happy and enjoy the things that being single can only bring. You are an inspiring, educated and worthy of love man and you deserve the best in life and it will come. Some of the most wonderful memories I have are from when I was single. Embrace the moment! Remember you deserve the best! See it in your minds eye everyday! As far as the name of the channel, we'll follow you no matter what, but I do like 'Clark on Temptress" or the continuing adventures of "Clark on Temptress". You have so many wonderful adventures ahead of you. I wish you the best and can't wait to see what comes next!
I feel you, man. Same thing happened to me in February. Good luck moving forward. If you end up in Croatia, hit me up. The sailing here is epic. So many islands, such nice people.
We found your videos so helpful! Saw Temptress here in Luperón and were disappointed to hear what happened. Best wishes to you both on your new adventures, wherever they take you!
Oh Clark, that is tough news. I've struggled with much the same issue as I prefer to travel as well. Just purchased a 16' trailerable sailboat (so I can raise and lower the mast on my own) in addition to my Tartan 37 just for fun and to explore small lakes in the US. Sending positive thoughts your way. Your viids are a great education, honestly, I look to your playlist 1st. Be well.
Instead of finding a love interest to share your next adventure, why not take on a First Mate and crew? Your soulmate is probably located in a foreign port so don't restrict yourself to locals.
@@Clarks-Adventure me, too, Clark but… gobs of foreign women speak superb English.. I met my soulmate in Ukraine and now happily married 17 years with no end in sight!
Sorry to hear your news. But you are right - life goes on. Everything for a reason - take the moments to cherish and leave the not so good behind. Life is one big adventure. Enjoy it. I was going to suggest a name change to Clark on Temptress (as that is your catch phrase). However, if you are looking at various modes of traveling, such as sailing, cars, trains, planes, hiking, or whatever may be - perhaps 'Clark takes on the world'?
How about "Clark on Temptress?" Temptress is the only name I remembered from your previous videos 😂 And aww mate, if I was your age I'd be right over 😄 Good luck with your adventures!
"Clark's Adventures" isn't the most riveting name, but it does free you up for non-boat related stuff. I really have nothing to add, other than good luck on your future adventures.
Thanks for the update. Glad to hear you’re coming back. You’ve been missed. Look forward to seeing what you got for us next. Hope to see you on the water one day!
@@Clarks-Adventure Yes. I have seen a lot of your videos. I try to keep up and support the best I can. You’ve been a huge help to me as I have been learning to care for my boat. I was really just referring to on the water. 😅
Clarks Temptress! Been watching since the beginning and can only say I feel ya. She’s always been a wildcat. Hope life becomes good for her. I am certain you will push through and come out of the darkness and be smiling again. Storms come and storms go. Be patient and get busy. This was the right video to put out. Be well!
Sorry to hear Clark! I always enjoyed your videos and the products you developed. BTW, you might want to look at the name change and the commercial impact it's going to have in the future. I'm quite interested in your AC system and I'll look at the website you mentioned in this video. Anyhow, best of luck!
Sorry to hear of the breakup! Thought you two were tight. Best of luck on your own and new adventures. I am done sailing. At 64, need new joints etc. selling my Tartan 34. Maybe won’t watch sailing TH-cam anymore. I been married 33 years.
Clark, I always enjoyed your videos. You are a natural teacher, sharing your knowledge and experience. I'll keep watching as long as you keep providing. Best wished for the next chapter in your life.
I vote for "Clark on Temptress"...keep on moving forward, bright days ahead. I just retired and bought a Gozzard monohull. Looking forward to getting out there:)
Sorry to hear that. You need to get your butt over to S.E. Asia. The dating scene here is amazing in the Philippines, Cambodia and Vietnam! These women love the simple life like you do. When I was living in Cambodia so many of my roommates had babies with Cambodian and Vietnamese women. They are all so happy! I can't wait to start a family of my own! You can extend your visa forever in Cambodia. Philippines lasts 3 years. I was living on $500/month in Cambodia and my girlfriend was paying only $65/month for her apartment including water and electricity in Phnom Penh.
I’m sorry to hear that! I’ve always admired the channel you’re on, which is why I reached out to see if you’d be interested in testing our marine radio. Anyway, take care and keep moving forward in your life!
No need for apologizes Clark, any viewers who feel it's required aren't worth paying attention to. From experience, fortunately no kids involved, much easier to get over a long relationship without them, but still tough & emotional all the same. I also held onto the "friendship" idea with the ex, wasn't healthy. Dated, searching to replace/rebound the companionship lost, met many still dealing with their own breakup emotions, lacking trust, plus others who were simply losers, wanting someone to take care of them, incl financially. In the end like any habit, one day I just gave up, got over it, been on my own for nearly 20 years, & love it. No one criticizing me, not cleaning up after anyone, do & watch what I like when I like, wouldn't have it any other way. But like anything, getting good at it comes with time. 💜
Since Emily has left and Clark is continuing the adventure with his boat "Tempress," it would be a good idea for Clark to rebrand his channel to reflect his personal journey and sailing lifestyle while still maintaining his established brand recognition. Here are a few ideas that keep the essence of his sailing adventures and his boat, Tempress: 1. Clark's Tempress Adventures This name highlights Clark as the primary figure of the journey while incorporating the boat's name, Tempress, as a key part of the identity. 2. Sailing with Clark and Tempress A straightforward rebranding that emphasizes both Clark and his boat Tempress as the new focus of the adventures. 3. Clark’s Nautical Odyssey This evokes a sense of grand adventure while still keeping it personal to Clark and his journey. 4. Tempress Sailing Chronicles Focusing more on the boat's name, this option suggests ongoing stories and adventures aboard Tempress, with Clark at the helm. 5. Tempress Voyages with Clark A slightly more classic feel, focusing on the voyage aspect and the partnership between Clark and his boat. 6. Clark and the Tempress - Sail and Beyond This gives a sense of future possibilities, highlighting that the journey is far from over and can evolve over time. These suggestions maintain the core of Clark’s sailing brand while allowing for the departure of Emily without losing too much continuity. It's also important for Clark to update his channel description to reflect the change in crew while still focusing on the exciting and adventurous content his audience loves.
"Clarks adventures"is good as it is! Enjoy Sweden 🇸🇪 (left it for 🇺🇸 at 20 years of age). The west coast is awesome and east coast too, but I'm biased being from the west coast of Sweden. Thanks for making sense of electricity. And other topics.
Sorry to hear about the split😕 I suggest “Clark’s Adventure on Temptress”. This captures all relevant keywords and tells us you’re still there.👍 Best of Luck! I’ll be watching😊
I always thought your personalities were very different, so it's no surprise to me. You will find that woman who is more chill like you and wants to adventure life.
All the best to you and Emily. You shared your nomadic magic with us and brightened our lives through your adventures. Glad you can remain friends and I am sure you will both flourish in new and as yet unknown ways. That’s what makes a well-lived life - highs and lows, pain and pleasure, light and dark. You are a great man. Looking forward to what’s ahead for you.
Your videos have been a great source of valuable information from a hands on guy which is great. Completely agree on the Clark on Temptress which is simple and straightforward. Hope you have a great time in Europe. If you come by a little town south of France on the Med called la Ciotat, I'll be glad to meet you and show you around. Thanks for your great help in all what you share with people loving boats and seas as much as you do!
Sorry to hear that. Just remember: grief is a process. She is a splendid woman, just might have outgrown eachother. I hope to see some of your new adventures and hopefully you two can remain great friends.
I think "Clark's Adventures" can expand your channel and give you optionality outside of the sailing genre where ever your wanderings take you, no matter what you do and where you take us. People who know you, trust you and like you will follow your journey, some will leave and new ones will join in. The algorithms will adjust just like we will and things may get uncertain at times, but that's the nature of adventure. See you when we see you !
Clark- here is your new channel name- **Clark on Temptress** It’s simple but yet retains your past historical achievements (as well as name/brand recognition) while indicating a new chapter in your life of adventures. Just a thought- Dan
Sad to hear about your "Newest Adventure" and no sappy advice about one door closing. I wanted to express my thanks for your direction on testing my alternator last week, turns out the gauges aren't reading correctly, along with other gauges on the dash. Fixing that is the next step. Keep up with all your advice and inspiration.
"Clark's Reboot". Sorry about the split and wish Emily well. If you find the right lady, you can reboot again. Good luck friend, I've followed you awhile now and thanks for sharing.
Sorry to hear that, but like you said life goes on and for both of you. Best of luck for you both . Since you travel a lot my suggestion would be to find someone that can travel without a visa, which is a pain. American, Canadian since your American but the country that needs the least visas is Finland. Not too far from Sweden where you're going and a lot of blondes there. :) Everybody or lots want to live on a boat and cruise the world, but boats are not a small condo and yes at some time you will be in a big storm and boats are like little prison once at sea you cannot go for a walk to cool off. Make sure the potential girl friend knows this and also knows that when at sea the captain is a dictator and to not question but to act immediately because all life on the boat depends on swift responds.
Somethings just end, not the way we ever thought it would end. Getting over it? I don't think anyone gets over a relationship that was a long term one. You move on, but you always take that glance behind you and wonder of what could have been. Women seem to handle it better in most cases, not sure why but they do. You are an excellent teacher in your video's, and I have learned plenty on subjects I thought I knew. Rest, regroup and take it slow. As the song goes, hold on loosely but don't let go. Be well, John
Sorry to hear, I've been in the single life for a lot of years. I wish you better luck than I have with trying to find a gal that would sail away with me. I don't know the secret, unfortunately. I retire in less than a year and figured I'd be off on my own. I recently met a Thai gal that's been in the States for 6 years. So far so good. Got my fingers crossed. Wish you all the best.
Keep up your good work just like all of those battery manufactures and fish in the sea. There’s many out there. I just found your videos about a week or two ago and I’ve been looking at the batteries and I found this one on Amazon. It’s called XRH new energy. and they seem like they’re pretty good and it said 280 W hour 24 V battery and I’m sure you’ll find whoever you’re looking for. And you being on the sailing boat, you can go wherever in the world to.👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽
The good news is: You are wicked smart, you have regained your physical health, mental will be easy with each day you get up with a positive mental attitude, and your heart seeks adventure. With all those things going for you the future is so bright you are going need shades!
Keep all the names the same and make a life-size scarecrow named Emily that you talked to on occasion.😂 Sorry to hear of your loss Clark. I think you're going about steering your life in the right direction in a good way. I wish you all the best. If I think of someone that would be a good fit for you, I won't hesitate to speak up.
If you're gonna do other types of adventures not just aboard Temptress, best not to call the channel Sailing Temptress coz that's gonna limit you. Clark's Adventures Then have Playlists 1) Sailing Europe 2) Boat Maintenance 3) Battery Systems Etc ... Sorry to hear about the split up. I believe there are more and more women out there wanting to explore an alternative lifestyle. Be patient, she'll usually show up when you least expect it. 😊
Hello from Greece! I would go with "Clark's Temptress". As for coming to Greece, you will be welcomed by the people in whatever place you decide to settle. However, dealing with the officials, acquiring living permit, Is a totally different ball game! Yes, you can apply, and (at some point) you'll get it but you really have to prepare yourself for TOTALLY DIFFERENT level of bureaucracy!!!
Sorry to hear that Clark, I've been watching you both for years and wish you both well. Must say i suffered the same experience in a similar situation 12 years on. Finding the next partner hasn't been easy so still looking 5 years on and have very different expectations. Shared adventures are much better. Maybe i should try TH-cam? 😂I suggest Clarks Tempting Adventures as you may not be sailing as much. Good luck. Wish i had the time for your business ideas, im def a business guy.
Saddened to hear ya’ll have split, but we love you both still and look forward to more news. When you are planning Greece, let us help you. We know tons of folks on Crete and I took 3 ladies on a two week tour in Sept ‘22 for very reasonable cost. I’d love to suggest your agenda. In the meantime, hugs to you both. As for names, I think Clark’s Adventures would describe it, but I’d like to see Temptress in there somehow so we know she’s still in the picture. How about Temptress and Clark’s Adventures?
Sorry to hear you guys split up. Seems to be the way things usually go nowadays; most people I know have been through a breakup or divorce of one or more long-term relationships. My personal experience is that it takes me at least a year to get over it, so give yourself time and be kind to yourself. You aren't alone, and we're rooting for you!
Nine year relationships are not 'gotten over' in a few weeks or months! Strength to you (and her) for your new adventures! Be kind to yourself!
I was hoping your title was clickbait, but alas...it wasn't. Sorry to hear; you two made an amazing channel. Look forward to whatever new content you bring us with life's change.
I was thinking/hoping the same thing, clickbait title. But they don't do that. This was a real shock to me to hear this.
Of all the names mentioned so far, I love “Clark’s Temptress”! It can go so many ways: 1) Literally, she’s your vessel; 2) Your future partner(s); 3) Your various entrepreneurial ideas/ventures.
Good luck landing on your feet again. I’ve always applied the “one year rule” to my personal traumatic events. That is, after the distance from a key event afforded by one year, one almost ALWAYS can look back and, with gratitude, understand exactly why that event was perfect for your future outcome. In my experience, this especially applies to break-ups. No matter how heartbroken I’ve been in the moment, there hasn’t been a single break-up I don’t see as a blessing, now. It’s opened doors to new relationships, new opportunities, and new happiness. It leaves no room for being a victim. I wish the same for you, Clark.
You already said it - "It's Clark on Temptress"
Yep. It possesses all the magic before, carrying on into the future.
I just Left this comment I think it's a good idea
I went thru the same thing 6 yrs ago. Your're certainly not alone in this. I had good close friends and my (adult) kids to help me get past the first 6 months. After that I was pretty good. Moved permanently to Mexico. I date also, but tbh not much interested in a long-term relationship. I have discovered I love a drama free, single life. Honestly? I'd recommend you stay single for at least a year...get to know yourself. Lost my sailboat to the divorce...currently looking for another in Mexico.
Best of luck to you.
"Clark's Adventure" probably makes the most sense.
Don't rush into a new relationship.
Wise words from Steve
THIS!
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Wrong. The sooner he finds someone new the sooner she’ll come running back.
@@auttiman5591 bad advice...you dont want someone running back out of jealousy, not the right reasons and he will be in same rut soon enough, be single travel and meet people
Sorry to hear this. To be honest I had also left your channel about 2 years ago. You originally said the channel was about sailing the world, then you got stuck in luperon for about 3-4 years it seems. Anyway, sad Emily is gone. Maybe now you’ll scrape the barnacles off your hull and get traveling again. You don’t need a woman to go exploring, you might meet her on your way. Drop the lines and go.
A lot of old lonely sea dogs out there on the waters. A single woman living that life is a unicorn.
I work at a hotel and often make connections with guests. Sometimes they're just passing through, and sometimes they stay for a while. I get to hear lots of different life experiences and stories. Many people will just tell me what is going on in their life, kind of like a mini therapy session.
I can tell you this, wanting to be loved is universal. For a long time I felt ashamed for wanting to be loved and married, especially because I could not seem to find anyone who wanted that with me. Was I broken?
No, it just takes time and yes, it's absolutely hard to be alone sometimes. Sometimes being alone doesn't feel freeing, it feels... well, alone. For me, I let my mind spiral and can end up in some pretty low places.
Some thoughts for you:
- It's okay to have waves of grief
- It's okay to feel whatever feelings you feel
- I find a lot of solace in being out in the community, volunteering, going to lectures, hell sometimes I just walk around the grocery store to feel like I had some human contact.
- Be careful with your heart. You deserve to be loved well. Its hard to know how to protect your heart and allow someone in simultaneously...its something I'm still trying to figure out.
I'm a fan of Embark With Clark
Much love your way.
Well said!!
Gotta give you props for your 2nd help request being so public. Wish I was able to do that. I'm a bit like you, I love going places, but it seems like a joy multiplier to have someone along with.
Sorry to hear this news Clark. I have been following your channel for a while (discovered you through your amazing life-changing finance videos) and really enjoy seeing your updates. I think Clark's Adventure is a great name! Or what about "Embark with Clark" so we can join along? Can't wait to see your Greece videos 😊
I’m sorry to hear that Clark. As someone that’s been where you are now I feel your pain. I’m wanting your AC system for my camper. PLEASE keep us informed.
After thinking about it for a while I feel like your strength is in meeting people and fixing their problems, like "This Ol House" for boats. You show up on oyur dingy with a bag of tools and you tell the story of helping people fix their problems with their boat.
I’m so sorry Clark to hear you two split up. While we love Temptress (such an awesome boat) the channel has never been just about Temptress, it’s been about you, your life and your adventures as well as your generous sharing of your valuable knowledge. “Sailing Temptress” as the channel name in my opinion doesn’t do it justice. As others have said, you said it in the beginning of every video “Clark on Temptress” is the most fitting I think. However “Clarks Adventures” works too. But I think it’s important to be “Clarks”.
I’m really looking forward to the coming Greece adventure. It’s been a bucket list place to sail for me!
I was about to post "Stop the click bait"
Sadly, it wasn't.
It is hard to separate from someone who has been an integral part of one's life.
Wishing you both healing and to find happiness again.
I'm sorry you going through this but it will pass as they say. I know it's strange to say but thank you for the title not being clickbait. There are so many other sailing channels that do that. You are refreshing and honest and appreciated.
you're free! enjoy it. lots of people are leaving at this time, also lots of partnerships ending. keep the faith and know that everything is perfect. "don't cry cause its over, smile because it was", took me a year to get that after my partner left me. good luck!
I like the channel name, "Clark on Temptress".
I knew something was up but didn't know what. I thought it was odd you two stayed put that long in one place. Hopefully we can get back to sailing and adventuring. That's how I found you, that's why I subscribed.
Either way, women come and go. Most go. Usually their idea. That's just how it works.
It’s hard to find anyone anymore at our ages. Men don’t trust women and women don’t trust men. This division is by social media placing views, influencers creating divide. Then there is financial hypergamy, kids, grand children, changing life priorities as health life issues awaiting to die. Loneliness is real out on the water vs docks. I’ve had many quit sailing to return to dwellings to in a hope to find a mate that never materialized. It’s very very very hard. So dysfunctional like millions of people wanting to connect but repelled each other like magnets pushing away from each other. It’s a small 🔑 key to the right door that may be a lifetime now in search after 60 years old. It’s like the planets and the solar system has to align. 1 in a million, trillions to a possibility of connecting. Good luck though.
Oh Clark, I'm sorry to hear this. You're looking great and we can't wait to watch your solo adventures. Chin up, friend. ❤
The teak deck did it. I knew it would. I think "The Log of the Temptress" or "S.V. Temptress" - something along that line. "Clark on Temptress" is something you've said in videos dozens of times, and might be good. Sadly, sailing itself is nowhere near the eye-draw that maintenance is, but instruction is always good, so maybe sail to Greece - get the boat ready for an offshore passage - make a log day by day - problems, ups, downs, etc. Then arrive in Greece and show your viewers what you see. Best of luck.
Here are a few suggestion for the name. I am in the camp that you need to maintain some form up historical familiarity rather than a totally new brand: (1) Clark & Temptress's Adventure (2) The New Clark and Temptress Travels (3) SV Temptress and YOU (4) Clark's Journey with Temptress Continues.
Here is what Gemini suggested:
Keeping the Adventure Theme
Clark's Adventures: (Straightforward and maintains the core brand identity.)
Solo Adventures with Clark: (Clearly indicates a solo venture while keeping the adventure theme.)
The Next Chapter with Clark: (Suggests a new beginning while referencing the past.)
Building on the Existing Brand
Clark's World: (Implies a broader scope of adventures.)
From Emily & Clark to Clark Alone: (Acknowledges the past while emphasizing the new direction.)
Clark's Journey: (Simple, yet effective in conveying the idea of a personal exploration.)
Creating a New Identity
Clark Unleashed: (Implies a new sense of freedom and exploration.)
No Limits with Clark: (Suggests a fearless approach to adventures.)
Clark's Wild Ride: (Conveys a sense of excitement and unpredictability.)
Sorry to hear of the breakup, it's not easy unless you simply don't care about the other person. Hopefully what you have left are some great memories. I can honestly say, I have been with some amazing women, and one lousy one. You know, when you are driving down the freeway and you look up at a billboard and there is an ad for a gym and the woman on the ad is wearing a bikini and you smile and think, "ya, that's my girlfriend", well, you have to say to yourself, you have been a pretty lucky guy.
It gets harder as we get older, when you are 20 all that matters is you like them and you have fun, then in your 50's, 60's, there are a lot more boxes to check.
Hopefully, you get your bearings and find someone whose company you enjoy.
Keep being positive Clark! We love your videos, keep them coming.
Hi Clark,
I'm sorry to hear about your break up. I met you and Emily in early 2018 in the Bahamas. Now it seems we have more in common. My significant relationship ended about 2 years ago and I'm trying to move on. It's not easy, but you're doing the right thing. Have fun and you will meet the right person.
Clark, Ran across your videos just a couple of days ago while researching a battery plant for my van. Was binge watching them & was sad to see, that this one's title wasn't clickbait.
Women usually get into camping, sailing, & sports, because their husband, boyfriend, or children are into it & would not be interested on their own. It's difficult to tell the difference, as ostensibly they could show equal enthusiasm.
Might be good for you to go old school & have a "woman in every port", rather than searching for that rare woman who likes camping, sailing, & sports on her own. Eventually, you might just run into one. Easy to say but not easy to feel, but for Emily to abide the lifestyle for 9 years is pretty good, so she was pretty fond of you, so it's great, that you can still respect one another & help one another as friends.
When I was growing up in the 1960's & 1970's, I had 4 brothers & we did a lot of outdoor things & sports . It wasn't until, I was in my 40's, that I fully appreciated the fact, that my mother actually liked doing sports & camping type things on her own, & that Dad had recognized this, & that's why he married her & stayed married to her, for almost 60 years, until she passed away. I feel blessed as a man to have had such a mother, but admittedly, it probably delayed me a bit in figuring out "normal" women!
Good luck to both of you on your new adventures. And I’m happy that the friendship still exists. We need more of that behavior in our world.
Clark and Emily, thank-you for sharing your experiences with us. Best wishes to you both!
Its rare to find someone who wants the sailboat life full time, especially a lady. Everyone wants to go for a couple of weeks before returning to their normal life. Consider offering to let patreons cruise for a week or two before another one comes for a visit. You will get more patreons as people sign up for the "reality TV vacation" and you will get some help running the boat and a companion to impress with your travels. It can work until some lady comes along.
I have been watching (and learning from) your videos for many years. Sorry to hear of your split up with Emily, but it has been a good run as they say. I wish you both happiness.
Clark’s Adventures is a good name for future videos- it’s been a good run with Temptress as well, but I get the vibe you are ready for whatever comes next in your adventure. Thank you for sharing so much knowledge- I’ll keep watching and routing for you, Clark!
Hey Clark, happy to hear you have projects and looking forward to your adventures - a change of scenery will surely do you good. Hold fast!
Greece is the most amazing country and a land of sailors. It is a magical place for an adventure - especially when your life foundations have been shaken. Hope everything works out. Wishing youmuch happiness
I know change can feel uncomfortable as you are going through it...... but it's truly amazing how new situations bring Peace to previous experiences and memories. I hope you understand what I'm trying to communicate. Every day is a Grand new opportunity filled with potential !! Stoic philosophy recommends a little thought on the future and to primarily be focused on today and living your best present moments. Wishing you continuous health and happiness. Your friend, Jeff 🌞⛵🌴
Channel Name obviously “Tempting Clark!” , sorry for your pain, II have been there, keep your eyes to the horizon, another gift is on the way!!
Wow, such a shock to hear this news. I remember meeting you and Emily in Florida in 2019 at that Thai restaurant and helping you with your dingy and visiting Temptress. I was so envious of your life together. Now a wonderful love and relationship has ended and a new chapter has started and I've been in that boat too.
Take time to do things that make you happy and enjoy the things that being single can only bring. You are an inspiring, educated and worthy of love man and you deserve the best in life and it will come. Some of the most wonderful memories I have are from when I was single. Embrace the moment! Remember you deserve the best! See it in your minds eye everyday!
As far as the name of the channel, we'll follow you no matter what, but I do like 'Clark on Temptress" or the continuing adventures of "Clark on Temptress". You have so many wonderful adventures ahead of you. I wish you the best and can't wait to see what comes next!
I feel you, man. Same thing happened to me in February. Good luck moving forward. If you end up in Croatia, hit me up. The sailing here is epic. So many islands, such nice people.
In case you wonder where in Croatia I am, I'm in Split. 😅 Great place for singles. lol
We found your videos so helpful! Saw Temptress here in Luperón and were disappointed to hear what happened. Best wishes to you both on your new adventures, wherever they take you!
Clark's Temptress
Oh Clark, that is tough news. I've struggled with much the same issue as I prefer to travel as well. Just purchased a 16' trailerable sailboat (so I can raise and lower the mast on my own) in addition to my Tartan 37 just for fun and to explore small lakes in the US. Sending positive thoughts your way. Your viids are a great education, honestly, I look to your playlist 1st. Be well.
Good for you man, that's tough. "It will take some looking" 👍
Instead of finding a love interest to share your next adventure, why not take on a First Mate and crew? Your soulmate is probably located in a foreign port so don't restrict yourself to locals.
I just have such a brain barrier to learning new languages
@@Clarks-Adventure me, too, Clark but… gobs of foreign women speak superb English.. I met my soulmate in Ukraine and now happily married 17 years with no end in sight!
My heart goes out to you Clark. So sorry to hear.
Sorry to hear your news. But you are right - life goes on. Everything for a reason - take the moments to cherish and leave the not so good behind. Life is one big adventure. Enjoy it.
I was going to suggest a name change to Clark on Temptress (as that is your catch phrase).
However, if you are looking at various modes of traveling, such as sailing, cars, trains, planes, hiking, or whatever may be - perhaps 'Clark takes on the world'?
How about "Clark on Temptress?" Temptress is the only name I remembered from your previous videos 😂
And aww mate, if I was your age I'd be right over 😄 Good luck with your adventures!
Hang in there Brother Clark! Best wishes to you and E!
"Clark's Adventures" isn't the most riveting name, but it does free you up for non-boat related stuff. I really have nothing to add, other than good luck on your future adventures.
I am sorry guys 😢
You are right, you have to keep your joy and adventure.
Sorry to hear about your and emily's break up. It's always sad to watch relationships end and wish you well in your new adventures.
Thanks for the update. Glad to hear you’re coming back. You’ve been missed. Look forward to seeing what you got for us next. Hope to see you on the water one day!
I put out a video every week. You may have missed a few. Maybe you should check the channel page
@@Clarks-Adventure Yes. I have seen a lot of your videos. I try to keep up and support the best I can. You’ve been a huge help to me as I have been learning to care for my boat.
I was really just referring to on the water. 😅
@@Clarks-Adventure I have missed a few. 🤦♂️
Clarks Temptress! Been watching since the beginning and can only say I feel ya. She’s always been a wildcat. Hope life becomes good for her. I am certain you will push through and come out of the darkness and be smiling again. Storms come and storms go. Be patient and get busy. This was the right video to put out. Be well!
Enjoyed all of your previous videos. Way to be honest and put it all out there. Well done.
sorry to hear, a break up is hard to deal with
Sorry to hear, and also welcome to Sweden / Finland :)
Sorry to hear Clark! I always enjoyed your videos and the products you developed. BTW, you might want to look at the name change and the commercial impact it's going to have in the future. I'm quite interested in your AC system and I'll look at the website you mentioned in this video. Anyhow, best of luck!
Sorry to hear of the breakup! Thought you two were tight. Best of luck on your own and new adventures. I am done sailing. At 64, need new joints etc. selling my Tartan 34. Maybe won’t watch sailing TH-cam anymore. I been married 33 years.
Clark, I always enjoyed your videos. You are a natural teacher, sharing your knowledge and experience. I'll keep watching as long as you keep providing. Best wished for the next chapter in your life.
Tempting Clark.
Sorry to hear about the breakup. Good luck on life's next adventures.
Sailing in Sweden is amazing. The girls are super pretty too so have fun!
I vote for "Clark on Temptress"...keep on moving forward, bright days ahead. I just retired and bought a Gozzard monohull. Looking forward to getting out there:)
Sorry to hear that. You need to get your butt over to S.E. Asia. The dating scene here is amazing in the Philippines, Cambodia and Vietnam! These women love the simple life like you do. When I was living in Cambodia so many of my roommates had babies with Cambodian and Vietnamese women. They are all so happy! I can't wait to start a family of my own! You can extend your visa forever in Cambodia. Philippines lasts 3 years. I was living on $500/month in Cambodia and my girlfriend was paying only $65/month for her apartment including water and electricity in Phnom Penh.
I’m sorry to hear that! I’ve always admired the channel you’re on, which is why I reached out to see if you’d be interested in testing our marine radio. Anyway, take care and keep moving forward in your life!
No need for apologizes Clark, any viewers who feel it's required aren't worth paying attention to.
From experience, fortunately no kids involved, much easier to get over a long relationship without them, but still tough & emotional all the same.
I also held onto the "friendship" idea with the ex, wasn't healthy. Dated, searching to replace/rebound the companionship lost, met many still dealing with their own breakup emotions, lacking trust, plus others who were simply losers, wanting someone to take care of them, incl financially.
In the end like any habit, one day I just gave up, got over it, been on my own for nearly 20 years, & love it.
No one criticizing me, not cleaning up after anyone, do & watch what I like when I like, wouldn't have it any other way. But like anything, getting good at it comes with time. 💜
Clark on Temptress, you said it yourself. Hope things work out for you both. Keep doing your thing.
Since Emily has left and Clark is continuing the adventure with his boat "Tempress," it would be a good idea for Clark to rebrand his channel to reflect his personal journey and sailing lifestyle while still maintaining his established brand recognition. Here are a few ideas that keep the essence of his sailing adventures and his boat, Tempress:
1. Clark's Tempress Adventures
This name highlights Clark as the primary figure of the journey while incorporating the boat's name, Tempress, as a key part of the identity.
2. Sailing with Clark and Tempress
A straightforward rebranding that emphasizes both Clark and his boat Tempress as the new focus of the adventures.
3. Clark’s Nautical Odyssey
This evokes a sense of grand adventure while still keeping it personal to Clark and his journey.
4. Tempress Sailing Chronicles
Focusing more on the boat's name, this option suggests ongoing stories and adventures aboard Tempress, with Clark at the helm.
5. Tempress Voyages with Clark
A slightly more classic feel, focusing on the voyage aspect and the partnership between Clark and his boat.
6. Clark and the Tempress - Sail and Beyond
This gives a sense of future possibilities, highlighting that the journey is far from over and can evolve over time.
These suggestions maintain the core of Clark’s sailing brand while allowing for the departure of Emily without losing too much continuity. It's also important for Clark to update his channel description to reflect the change in crew while still focusing on the exciting and adventurous content his audience loves.
This reads like AI wrote it…
"Clarks adventures"is good as it is! Enjoy Sweden 🇸🇪 (left it for 🇺🇸 at 20 years of age). The west coast is awesome and east coast too, but I'm biased being from the west coast of Sweden. Thanks for making sense of electricity. And other topics.
The fact that you continued to produce content (work) in the face of that shows character.
Sorry to hear about the split😕
I suggest “Clark’s Adventure on Temptress”. This captures all relevant keywords and tells us you’re still there.👍
Best of Luck! I’ll be watching😊
Clark's Adventures. All the best, to you both.
I always thought your personalities were very different, so it's no surprise to me. You will find that woman who is more chill like you and wants to adventure life.
You know trees lose there leaves like relations but spring new ones in sprig! Boats are a blessing!
With out a vision people are likely to perish! You be just fine my man~ The Swede~
You said it, Clark on Temptress.
Sorry about the break up but such is life and a new door has opened up for both of you. Cheers
All the best to you and Emily. You shared your nomadic magic with us and brightened our lives through your adventures. Glad you can remain friends and I am sure you will both flourish in new and as yet unknown ways. That’s what makes a well-lived life - highs and lows, pain and pleasure, light and dark. You are a great man. Looking forward to what’s ahead for you.
Sorry to hear Clark. Hoping for you fabulous times ahead.
Your videos have been a great source of valuable information from a hands on guy which is great. Completely agree on the Clark on Temptress which is simple and straightforward. Hope you have a great time in Europe. If you come by a little town south of France on the Med called la Ciotat, I'll be glad to meet you and show you around. Thanks for your great help in all what you share with people loving boats and seas as much as you do!
Sorry to hear that. Just remember: grief is a process. She is a splendid woman, just might have outgrown eachother. I hope to see some of your new adventures and hopefully you two can remain great friends.
Sorry for you both, hoping you will retain some Good Memories, a loving companion is hard to find. Looking forward to the next journey you share.
seems like people change a lot over time and the differences in interests part our ways,
I think "Clark's Adventures" can expand your channel and give you optionality outside of the sailing genre where ever your wanderings take you, no matter what you do and where you take us. People who know you, trust you and like you will follow your journey, some will leave and new ones will join in. The algorithms will adjust just like we will and things may get uncertain at times, but that's the nature of adventure. See you when we see you !
Clark- here is your new channel name- **Clark on Temptress**
It’s simple but yet retains your past historical achievements (as well as name/brand recognition) while indicating a new chapter in your life of adventures.
Just a thought- Dan
Sad to hear about your "Newest Adventure" and no sappy advice about one door closing. I wanted to express my thanks for your direction on testing my alternator last week, turns out the gauges aren't reading correctly, along with other gauges on the dash. Fixing that is the next step. Keep up with all your advice and inspiration.
That clip on amp meter in my Amazon store is my greatest debugging tool.
Thanks.
"Clark's Reboot". Sorry about the split and wish Emily well. If you find the right lady, you can reboot again. Good luck friend, I've followed you awhile now and thanks for sharing.
clark's adventure is good. Find you a nice Thai lady, she will take good care of you.
Sorry to hear. On to the next chapter.
Sorry to hear that, but like you said life goes on and for both of you. Best of luck for you both . Since you travel a lot my suggestion would be to find someone that can travel without a visa, which is a pain. American, Canadian since your American but the country that needs the least visas is Finland. Not too far from Sweden where you're going and a lot of blondes there. :)
Everybody or lots want to live on a boat and cruise the world, but boats are not a small condo and yes at some time you will be in a big storm and boats are like little prison once at sea you cannot go for a walk to cool off. Make sure the potential girl friend knows this and also knows that when at sea the captain is a dictator and to not question but to act immediately because all life on the boat depends on swift responds.
Somethings just end, not the way we ever thought it would end. Getting over it? I don't think anyone gets over a relationship that was a long term one. You move on, but you always take that glance behind you and wonder of what could have been. Women seem to handle it better in most cases, not sure why but they do. You are an excellent teacher in your video's, and I have learned plenty on subjects I thought I knew. Rest, regroup and take it slow. As the song goes, hold on loosely but don't let go. Be well, John
Sorry to hear, but such is life. As far as the name of the channel goes, you've said it so often already... "Clark on Temptress" :)
Sorry to hear, I've been in the single life for a lot of years. I wish you better luck than I have with trying to find a gal that would sail away with me. I don't know the secret, unfortunately. I retire in less than a year and figured I'd be off on my own. I recently met a Thai gal that's been in the States for 6 years. So far so good. Got my fingers crossed. Wish you all the best.
Keep up your good work just like all of those battery manufactures and fish in the sea. There’s many out there. I just found your videos about a week or two ago and I’ve been looking at the batteries and I found this one on Amazon. It’s called XRH new energy. and they seem like they’re pretty good and it said 280 W hour 24 V battery and I’m sure you’ll find whoever you’re looking for. And you being on the sailing boat, you can go wherever in the world to.👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽
The good news is: You are wicked smart, you have regained your physical health, mental will be easy with each day you get up with a positive mental attitude, and your heart seeks adventure. With all those things going for you the future is so bright you are going need shades!
Keep all the names the same and make a life-size scarecrow named Emily that you talked to on occasion.😂 Sorry to hear of your loss Clark. I think you're going about steering your life in the right direction in a good way. I wish you all the best. If I think of someone that would be a good fit for you, I won't hesitate to speak up.
Thanks
Warned decades ago-a woman is never yours, it's just your turn.
If you're gonna do other types of adventures not just aboard Temptress, best not to call the channel Sailing Temptress coz that's gonna limit you.
Clark's Adventures
Then have Playlists
1) Sailing Europe
2) Boat Maintenance
3) Battery Systems
Etc ...
Sorry to hear about the split up. I believe there are more and more women out there wanting to explore an alternative lifestyle. Be patient, she'll usually show up when you least expect it. 😊
You sound philosophical about it Clark. And excellent points on the naming. I’d say Sailing Temptress or some version thereof is good.
Hello from Greece!
I would go with "Clark's Temptress".
As for coming to Greece, you will be welcomed by the people in whatever place you decide to settle.
However, dealing with the officials, acquiring living permit, Is a totally different ball game! Yes, you can apply, and (at some point) you'll get it but you really have to prepare yourself for TOTALLY DIFFERENT level of bureaucracy!!!
Sorry to hear of your turmoil. Good luck going forward.
Sorry to hear that Clark, I've been watching you both for years and wish you both well. Must say i suffered the same experience in a similar situation 12 years on. Finding the next partner hasn't been easy so still looking 5 years on and have very different expectations. Shared adventures are much better. Maybe i should try TH-cam? 😂I suggest Clarks Tempting Adventures as you may not be sailing as much. Good luck. Wish i had the time for your business ideas, im def a business guy.
Sorry to hear Clark. You could call the new channel - Clark's further adventures.
Sorry to hear the sad news Clark. You both are standup people..
Saddened to hear ya’ll have split, but we love you both still and look forward to more news. When you are planning Greece, let us help you. We know tons of folks on Crete and I took 3 ladies on a two week tour in Sept ‘22 for very reasonable cost. I’d love to suggest your agenda. In the meantime, hugs to you both. As for names, I think Clark’s Adventures would describe it, but I’d like to see Temptress in there somehow so we know she’s still in the picture. How about Temptress and Clark’s Adventures?
Thanks Jeanne
Captain Clark Club. Goodbye Emily, thanks for the memories.
sorry ti hear, a positive is that you guys are still friends, stay strong