One of your best videos, even though they are all great. The shift in self concept is truly the key. You already secretly know what you want, so when you just focus on being the best and knowing you are the best, all of the gaps fill themselves in naturally without even trying. You just have to keep going and everything starts to become favorable. Desires almost always come to us when we are not focusing on them, that is what makes them presents, , because we are simply existing in the present, not waiting into the future.
Here it's a sort of long comment. I poured my heart while drafting it. I'm not here for idealilzing my experiences with my person, just saying nothing is too good to be true and there is a wider spectrum of relationship dynamics and experiences. I’m happy to watch your videos and came across your channel through Brittany’s. I’d like to share my perspective based on personal experiences. It would be great if you could explore these SP topics with a broader outlook. Or else you would continuously likely to witness people who desperately needing their SPs only because of psychological limerence but not having genuine desire to experience unconditional love with them in the physical. It makes me smile a lot while watching your videos on SPs because your current version is my old version. Dear Bradley, I love your content, your attitude, and your way of presenting perception on oneness especially your love and care for others. However, I sense that you might be generalizing SP topics based on your experiences and the stories of others you’ve encountered. High self concept is not everything in successful harmonious relationship. Let me share what I’ve realized through my internal journey, following a weird yet serendipitous encounter with my fiancé, who is set to become my husband this March. Until the age of 31, I hadn’t been in any romantic relationship. From a young age, I was skeptical about marriage rituals (referred to as a sacred union in Hinduism). I often questioned: If people are made for each other, why do love, attraction, and respect fade over time? This skepticism led me to criticize romantic relationships and marriages severely. I focused entirely on myself and my creativity. Even before learning about reality creation, I had a strong self concept: no matter what, I could eventually achieve what I wanted. Despite this belief, I often felt unfulfilled, experiencing sudden heart palpitations. Though my parents were loving and supportive, I found myself irrationally resenting my father. I didn’t understand this behavior until I met him my fiancé (with whom I have deep soul connection) had issues with his father since his childhood. In 2022, my parents were actively searching for a groom to ensure my well being. They registered me on a matrimonial website and asked me to choose a suitable match. Reluctantly, I set the filters to ensure no one could match my criteria. But, to my surprise, his profile appeared. The moment I saw him, I thought, *This is just me.* I couldn’t take my eyes off his profile and felt an overwhelming urge to meet him. However, his profile only included his sister’s and mother’s contact details. When I expressed interest in him to my parents, they were stunned it wasn’t something they expected. Marriage wasn’t my focus; I just wanted to know more about him. A couple of days later, his family contacted mine. Yet, I was only eager to hear from him directly. Despite knowing nothing about reality creation, I confidently told myself, 'He feels the same way and will reach out to me.' That evening, he called, apologizing for contacting me without informing our parents. He confessed he had no intention of marrying but felt an unexplainable connection upon seeing my profile. As we got to know each other, I realized how deeply intertwined our lives had been, even before we met. For instance, he’s passionate about photography, while I knew nothing about it. Yet, I’ve had many experiences where people randomly asked me to take photos, and somehow, they turned out great, despite my lack of skill. On the other hand, I’m into sketching, and when he discovered this, he excitedly shared photographs of paintings he had taken. This was just one of many shared experiences spanning family, education, career, and even mundane daily activities. It felt as though our lives were divinely orchestrated. One uncanny incident occurred while we were on a call. I was washing clothes in an LG washing machine, which played its familiar tune at the end of the cycle. He heard the sound and asked if it was an LG machine. When I confirmed, he laughed and said he had the same model. Moments later, I heard the same tune from his end. He quickly switched to a video call, and I saw him doing the exact same thing: washing clothes with the same machine in his old house. He told me that from the moment he saw me, he couldn’t control the immense love he felt. Initially, he believed it was physical attraction, but the truth ran much deeper. This unconditional love threatened both our egos, leading to arguments and temporary separation. We prioritized our individual identities because the intensity of our connection felt overwhelming, like something out of a fairy tale. During our separation, I constantly thought about him and cried. That’s when I discovered content about the Law of Assumption while trying to understand how to maintain relationships. However, much of the SP related advice didn’t resonate with my experience. For example, the popular belief that making someone your entire world leads to them leaving didn’t align with what I’d experienced. Our separation wasn’t due to over prioritizing each other but rather due to fear, fear of losing our sense of self and other materialistic stuffs in such an intense connection. There’s a quote by Neale Donald Walsch: "You cannot know and become that which you are, in the absence of that which you are not." This resonates deeply with me. I had a realization while gazing at the clouds one day, I don’t actually like what I think I like; I genuinely like everything that is the opposite of what I hate. My higher self knew my heart better than my illusory self. It reminded me that nothing is too good to be true and that fairy tales can exist. Perfect love and soul connections do exist. While many in the Law of Assumption community and non duality teaching claim that we are the sole creators of our reality, I’ve found that this isn’t entirely true when it comes to my husband(another form of my own soul) in the physical realm and my higher selves in the spiritual dimension has their parts to play. Anyone in this community could say that you only experience what you assumed within as this physically focused individual personality. While that’s certainly true and something I can consciously do, I can't deny many things in my life have been deliberately presented and divinely orchestrated before I know about everything about reality creation. Even though we are all connected, as the God of my reality, I can still see many different interpretations of a single topic. It’s always better to take metaphysical teachings with a grain of salt. While we experience amnesia in this physical realm for specific theme and experiences, our higher self is the ultimate guide, revealing the unfiltered truth of our life experiences.
Thanks Brad, I have been and I am going all in on self, I am the most important person in my life. I would love a text from her or more job offers to come my way but I know it will get better…I’m really working on my self concept/ image, it was getting to me how I look
I did say it but sometimes it seems to simple. I get it. By realizing who you are. That everything is coming FROM YOU. That’s why you’re the most important person in your reality really. And By being there for yourself. Treating yourself with love and respect. Talking kindly to self. Focusing on what you like to do, hobbies, goals. AS WITHIN so without. Caring about your state of being.
@ I have both of them!!!! I read psycho cybernetics half way hahaha Neville I need to read too just for abit confusing 🥲 but maybe chat gpt can help explain
Yep everyone think about the times when before you knew about intentionally manifesting... As soon as you reach the place of not caring or at peace that's when everything always comes in... That's is Bec you release the need and your feeling so good about yourself that you don't need anything anymore.
My main prblm is not with my sp we are already together but sometimes he behave hot and cold bcz of my assumptions But main prblm is with my parents I can't explain how hard is to focus on my new reality while living with them I don't even have job They are literally so toxic I try not to focus but i can't explain this they are the reason I literally can't focus Please can u give any idea My environment is literally not good It feels it's impossible when I know it's possible When people are living in develop place it's easy for them to move on from their parents house bcz their are lots of opportunity But place like india it's hard to be independent on itself bcz here parents thinks that we should worship them bcz they brought us They doesn't see their mistake
This was fun to watch and so true! I def feel a shift. Have done for about a week after struggling most of this year learning about the LoA, trying to get into the knowing of who I AM and believing/trusting in it. Now, I feel different. I can’t really explain it: chilled, happy, calm, I guess. I’m actually starting to like me! I’ve no plans the entire weekend and I’m actually fine about it, when normally I’d be depressed not wanting to be on my own or feel like I’m missing out, but shockingly I feel totally fine! That’s a first😂🎉 Brill video. I’ll have to watch this again. Made me smile as so light, entertaining but to the point!
However Brad 😅I feel good when I watch these videos but then when I’m off it I feel like I spiral or think negative. How can I change this? Not identify with the minds thoughts? Robotic Affirmations? Then I feel like damn I wish I was with her
@@Iamtheiammartin ideally, I would advised to get out of mind entirely when you’re spiraling. I’m not a robotic affirmer so I don’t ever bring that up but You can do whatever feels best for you
I know and understand what you are saying 💗 but were you feeling like that before you knew you are safe and loved by her? Because loneliness it's a real feeling And when I am loved in a relationship I don't have despair on loneliness and therefore I just do what I like to do But now I miss doing things with someone and sharing things I mean I can be happy but I am eating my lunch alone and I don't have anyone to share my day with or thoughts or feelings and that hurts
I'm presently in one of the most romantic cities in the world, Venice, Italy. It's very quiet in winter. and so the locals have time to chat. I find that being alone is usually impossible because there are always plenty of friends or strangers to chat to. So, for example, I buy a pizza and chat to the server, or I chat to a friend online while eating out by the canal and so on. I often meet up with my friends or family when they are available. I socialise at work a lot, too. However, I don't judge myself and think I must be with someone to be acceptable to the world. I trust that nobody will judge me. What I'm trying to say is if you focus on not being lonely but instead, all the people you already know and meet and all the millions of friendly people that you created all around you as potential opportunities to meet, you will start to 'be' less lonely and more will appear as friends. Surely, that will make you feel independent and not even require an SP for that purpose. Although, logically, being in that state will make meeting an SP less resistant. In fact, since I started living in the state of being with an SP. I started to wonder if I'd lose my freedom and no longer be myself. That's how independent I am. Thankfully, Bradley reminded me that I must seek happiness through myself and not my SP. To be very loving to myself and know that I can remain true to myself and not have to depend on my SP but my own love and inner power. Then, I can feel free to truly enjoy a relationship.
Hi Bradley, I’ve only subscribed to your channel a week or two ago but you’ve quickly made it to the top 3 of my favorite creators. I love the no nonsense approach and also what you’re saying is true, even though it took me a while to understand that yes it’s that simple and yes it’s all about you. I’ve watched quite a lot of your videos and something caught my attention. Is there a reason why your approach to the SP subject has changed recently? It feels like you’ve kind of been advising people against doing this (which I totally get, most people who come to these teachings including myself at first are looking for “manifest your SP in 5 minutes” technique and don’t even want to hear that it’s all about them not the person). What I mean is that your videos from 2-3 months ago were kinda like no, don’t do it, boss yourself up etc which is amazing but lately you have had quite some SP dedicated videos and comparing your latest vids to the older ones I can feel the shift in approach? It’s not a critique at all, I’m just genuinely curious if something’s changed for you as a teacher that the approach changed (or maybe it’s just my perception!) Keep up the amazing work, lots of love from London! 🫶🏻
@@mrsanm3008 hi, thank you! Yes, there was a good 8 month period were I didnt talk about it too much because I didn’t want to be a “sp coach” but I also didnt have a lot of belief in self for being a teacher before. I had a story going about how I had a past and I wasn’t as put together as others maybe lol so why teach? But then I really came into self and embodied the fact that I most definitely could teach because I have 100 percent made every “mistake” or I would say decision that came from a state of not loving self and not knowing who I was , etc and experienced every circumstance that comes with those types of unfavorable beliefs about self and the world. And because of that I KNEW that I would be able to help. AND in this new state I remembered that even though I know it’s not about the “SP” and the real SP is me, i can’t forget that the reason I found out about his stuff in the first place was because I was tryin to manifest an SP lol. And I did so affirming without learning it was about me and I experienced what came with that. So I was like, I feel I have a duty to talk about it because I know people want their people. As they should but I wanted them to know they should want them from a place of preference. From a place of already being completez So that’s why o started talking about it.
One of your best videos, even though they are all great. The shift in self concept is truly the key. You already secretly know what you want, so when you just focus on being the best and knowing you are the best, all of the gaps fill themselves in naturally without even trying. You just have to keep going and everything starts to become favorable. Desires almost always come to us when we are not focusing on them, that is what makes them presents, , because we are simply existing in the present, not waiting into the future.
Yes!!! 💯💯💯 exactly!
This is one of my favorite videos from you. You explained it in a great way and I definitely had to hear this. Thank you
Thank you! ❤️
I have been independent for years now that is the point
I laughed when you said this SP stuff is cake 😂
Here it's a sort of long comment. I poured my heart while drafting it. I'm not here for idealilzing my experiences with my person, just saying nothing is too good to be true and there is a wider spectrum of relationship dynamics and experiences.
I’m happy to watch your videos and came across your channel through Brittany’s. I’d like to share my perspective based on personal experiences. It would be great if you could explore these SP topics with a broader outlook. Or else you would continuously likely to witness people who desperately needing their SPs only because of psychological limerence but not having genuine desire to experience unconditional love with them in the physical. It makes me smile a lot while watching your videos on SPs because your current version is my old version.
Dear Bradley, I love your content, your attitude, and your way of presenting perception on oneness especially your love and care for others. However, I sense that you might be generalizing SP topics based on your experiences and the stories of others you’ve encountered. High self concept is not everything in successful harmonious relationship.
Let me share what I’ve realized through my internal journey, following a weird yet serendipitous encounter with my fiancé, who is set to become my husband this March. Until the age of 31, I hadn’t been in any romantic relationship. From a young age, I was skeptical about marriage rituals (referred to as a sacred union in Hinduism). I often questioned: If people are made for each other, why do love, attraction, and respect fade over time? This skepticism led me to criticize romantic relationships and marriages severely. I focused entirely on myself and my creativity.
Even before learning about reality creation, I had a strong self concept: no matter what, I could eventually achieve what I wanted. Despite this belief, I often felt unfulfilled, experiencing sudden heart palpitations. Though my parents were loving and supportive, I found myself irrationally resenting my father. I didn’t understand this behavior until I met him my fiancé (with whom I have deep soul connection) had issues with his father since his childhood.
In 2022, my parents were actively searching for a groom to ensure my well being. They registered me on a matrimonial website and asked me to choose a suitable match. Reluctantly, I set the filters to ensure no one could match my criteria. But, to my surprise, his profile appeared. The moment I saw him, I thought, *This is just me.* I couldn’t take my eyes off his profile and felt an overwhelming urge to meet him. However, his profile only included his sister’s and mother’s contact details.
When I expressed interest in him to my parents, they were stunned it wasn’t something they expected. Marriage wasn’t my focus; I just wanted to know more about him. A couple of days later, his family contacted mine. Yet, I was only eager to hear from him directly. Despite knowing nothing about reality creation, I confidently told myself, 'He feels the same way and will reach out to me.' That evening, he called, apologizing for contacting me without informing our parents. He confessed he had no intention of marrying but felt an unexplainable connection upon seeing my profile.
As we got to know each other, I realized how deeply intertwined our lives had been, even before we met. For instance, he’s passionate about photography, while I knew nothing about it. Yet, I’ve had many experiences where people randomly asked me to take photos, and somehow, they turned out great, despite my lack of skill.
On the other hand, I’m into sketching, and when he discovered this, he excitedly shared photographs of paintings he had taken. This was just one of many shared experiences spanning family, education, career, and even mundane daily activities. It felt as though our lives were divinely orchestrated.
One uncanny incident occurred while we were on a call. I was washing clothes in an LG washing machine, which played its familiar tune at the end of the cycle. He heard the sound and asked if it was an LG machine. When I confirmed, he laughed and said he had the same model. Moments later, I heard the same tune from his end. He quickly switched to a video call, and I saw him doing the exact same thing: washing clothes with the same machine in his old house.
He told me that from the moment he saw me, he couldn’t control the immense love he felt. Initially, he believed it was physical attraction, but the truth ran much deeper. This unconditional love threatened both our egos, leading to arguments and temporary separation. We prioritized our individual identities because the intensity of our connection felt overwhelming, like something out of a fairy tale.
During our separation, I constantly thought about him and cried. That’s when I discovered content about the Law of Assumption while trying to understand how to maintain relationships. However, much of the SP related advice didn’t resonate with my experience. For example, the popular belief that making someone your entire world leads to them leaving didn’t align with what I’d experienced. Our separation wasn’t due to over prioritizing each other but rather due to fear, fear of losing our sense of self and other materialistic stuffs in such an intense connection.
There’s a quote by Neale Donald Walsch:
"You cannot know and become that which you are, in the absence of that which you are not." This resonates deeply with me.
I had a realization while gazing at the clouds one day, I don’t actually like what I think I like; I genuinely like everything that is the opposite of what I hate. My higher self knew my heart better than my illusory self. It reminded me that nothing is too good to be true and that fairy tales can exist. Perfect love and soul connections do exist.
While many in the Law of Assumption community and non duality teaching claim that we are the sole creators of our reality, I’ve found that this isn’t entirely true when it comes to my husband(another form of my own soul) in the physical realm and my higher selves in the spiritual dimension has their parts to play.
Anyone in this community could say that you only experience what you assumed within as this physically focused individual personality. While that’s certainly true and something I can consciously do, I can't deny many things in my life have been deliberately presented and divinely orchestrated before I know about everything about reality creation. Even though we are all connected, as the God of my reality, I can still see many different interpretations of a single topic. It’s always better to take metaphysical teachings with a grain of salt. While we experience amnesia in this physical realm for specific theme and experiences, our higher self is the ultimate guide, revealing the unfiltered truth of our life experiences.
Hey! Thank you for sharing this!
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@@theinternalgame That's my pleasure 🥰
I'm loving ❤️❤️❤️ this comment. This is exactly what I believe and you worded it perfectly. Thank you for this!!!
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You just gained a new subscriber. Thank you
@@these3cats ❤️
Oh my God there she is! Laughed a lot with this. That’s what we all doing kkkk.
@@goreteteixeira6099 😉
Thanks Brad, I have been and I am going all in on self, I am the most important person in my life. I would love a text from her or more job offers to come my way but I know it will get better…I’m really working on my self concept/ image, it was getting to me how I look
Thank you!
Thank you! ❤️
Your videos are great. I found your channel few days back.
I did say it but sometimes it seems to simple. I get it.
By realizing who you are. That everything is coming FROM YOU. That’s why you’re the most important person in your reality really.
And By being there for yourself. Treating yourself with love and respect. Talking kindly to self. Focusing on what you like to do, hobbies, goals. AS WITHIN so without.
Caring about your state of being.
Thanks man
@@sterlingpoff7551 thank you!
Wow so powerful!
@@cynthiayvette3861 ❤️
Love you Bradley❤
Love you Too!
I've just realized that I am actually my specific person haha.. I am the being of God in a specific person, me 😂
Much love Bradley! nice jacket btw
@@simonesilveira117 yes! That’s the realization. The specific person is YOU.
Thanks!
Thank you! ❤️
Thank you 🙏
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Hey could you share what books you have at the back? If you can of course ❤😊
@@Youreinternetbestie there’s lots of them! most of those ones are my wife’s books. All the good ones are mine though. Lol
@ 🤣🤣 I have the same get up as u just curious to know what’s you’re faves
@ lol The Power of Now, The Neville Goddard collection, Psycho-Cybernetics. As far as like man these are Gold
@ I have both of them!!!! I read psycho cybernetics half way hahaha Neville I need to read too just for abit confusing 🥲 but maybe chat gpt can help explain
@ ❤️
Yep everyone think about the times when before you knew about intentionally manifesting...
As soon as you reach the place of not caring or at peace that's when everything always comes in...
That's is Bec you release the need and your feeling so good about yourself that you don't need anything anymore.
Yes!!!! 💯
My main prblm is not with my sp we are already together but sometimes he behave hot and cold bcz of my assumptions
But main prblm is with my parents I can't explain how hard is to focus on my new reality while living with them
I don't even have job
They are literally so toxic
I try not to focus but i can't explain this they are the reason I literally can't focus
Please can u give any idea
My environment is literally not good
It feels it's impossible when I know it's possible
When people are living in develop place it's easy for them to move on from their parents house bcz their are lots of opportunity
But place like india it's hard to be independent on itself bcz here parents thinks that we should worship them bcz they brought us
They doesn't see their mistake
👑👑👑👑
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This was fun to watch and so true!
I def feel a shift. Have done for about a week after struggling most of this year learning about the LoA, trying to get into the knowing of who I AM and believing/trusting in it. Now, I feel different. I can’t really explain it: chilled, happy, calm, I guess. I’m actually starting to like me! I’ve no plans the entire weekend and I’m actually fine about it, when normally I’d be depressed not wanting to be on my own or feel like I’m missing out, but shockingly I feel totally fine! That’s a first😂🎉
Brill video. I’ll have to watch this again. Made me smile as so light, entertaining but to the point!
Yes!!! 💯
However Brad 😅I feel good when I watch these videos but then when I’m off it I feel like I spiral or think negative. How can I change this? Not identify with the minds thoughts? Robotic Affirmations? Then I feel like damn I wish I was with her
@@Iamtheiammartin ideally, I would advised to get out of mind entirely when you’re spiraling.
I’m not a robotic affirmer so I don’t ever bring that up but You can do whatever feels best for you
I know and understand what you are saying 💗 but were you feeling like that before you knew you are safe and loved by her?
Because loneliness it's a real feeling
And when I am loved in a relationship I don't have despair on loneliness and therefore I just do what I like to do
But now I miss doing things with someone and sharing things
I mean I can be happy but I am eating my lunch alone and I don't have anyone to share my day with or thoughts or feelings and that hurts
When we were split I didn’t put my focus on being safe and loved by HER.
I did by being safe and loved within ME.
I need to learn how to do this, focusing on my body as you were talking yesterday does bring some relief
Thanking you ❤️
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I'm presently in one of the most romantic cities in the world, Venice, Italy. It's very quiet in winter. and so the locals have time to chat. I find that being alone is usually impossible because there are always plenty of friends or strangers to chat to. So, for example, I buy a pizza and chat to the server, or I chat to a friend online while eating out by the canal and so on. I often meet up with my friends or family when they are available. I socialise at work a lot, too. However, I don't judge myself and think I must be with someone to be acceptable to the world. I trust that nobody will judge me.
What I'm trying to say is if you focus on not being lonely but instead, all the people you already know and meet and all the millions of friendly people that you created all around you as potential opportunities to meet, you will start to 'be' less lonely and more will appear as friends.
Surely, that will make you feel independent and not even require an SP for that purpose. Although, logically, being in that state will make meeting an SP less resistant.
In fact, since I started living in the state of being with an SP. I started to wonder if I'd lose my freedom and no longer be myself. That's how independent I am. Thankfully, Bradley reminded me that I must seek happiness through myself and not my SP. To be very loving to myself and know that I can remain true to myself and not have to depend on my SP but my own love and inner power. Then, I can feel free to truly enjoy a relationship.
@ Yes! Beautiful!
I think its not possible to make an healthy or good assumptions about sp or someone when we have a poor self concept. What do u think about that?
@@tuzzzz6 for the most part
Hi Bradley, I’ve only subscribed to your channel a week or two ago but you’ve quickly made it to the top 3 of my favorite creators. I love the no nonsense approach and also what you’re saying is true, even though it took me a while to understand that yes it’s that simple and yes it’s all about you.
I’ve watched quite a lot of your videos and something caught my attention. Is there a reason why your approach to the SP subject has changed recently? It feels like you’ve kind of been advising people against doing this (which I totally get, most people who come to these teachings including myself at first are looking for “manifest your SP in 5 minutes” technique and don’t even want to hear that it’s all about them not the person). What I mean is that your videos from 2-3 months ago were kinda like no, don’t do it, boss yourself up etc which is amazing but lately you have had quite some SP dedicated videos and comparing your latest vids to the older ones I can feel the shift in approach?
It’s not a critique at all, I’m just genuinely curious if something’s changed for you as a teacher that the approach changed (or maybe it’s just my perception!)
Keep up the amazing work, lots of love from London! 🫶🏻
@@mrsanm3008 hi, thank you! Yes, there was a good 8 month period were I didnt talk about it too much because I didn’t want to be a “sp coach” but I also didnt have a lot of belief in self for being a teacher before. I had a story going about how I had a past and I wasn’t as put together as others maybe lol so why teach? But then I really came into self and embodied the fact that I most definitely could teach because I have 100 percent made every “mistake” or I would say decision that came from a state of not loving self and not knowing who I was , etc and experienced every circumstance that comes with those types of unfavorable beliefs about self and the world. And because of that I KNEW that I would be able to help. AND in this new state I remembered that even though I know it’s not about the “SP” and the real SP is me, i can’t forget that the reason I found out about his stuff in the first place was because I was tryin to manifest an SP lol. And I did so affirming without learning it was about me and I experienced what came with that. So I was like, I feel I have a duty to talk about it because I know people want their people. As they should but I wanted them to know they should want them from a place of preference. From a place of already being completez So that’s why o started talking about it.
@ love that! Thanks so much for taking the time to respond. Appreciate you greatly! 🩷
Thank you ❤
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