Oba Elegushi 2nd Wife, Queen Hadiza Glues to Her King At 70th Birthday Of the King' Mother
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- Elegushi 2nd Wife, Queen Hadiza is seen around her husband at the 70th Birthday of the king's mother. It was a time to showcase her relevance in the Elegushi.
Sekina,wise up. Anger is written all over you Your cowife is very mature.
I like Queen sekinat because of her boldness and she is beautiful
He is a King as can marry as many wives as he wants.
A mature first wife is gracious and accommodating. There are worse things in marriage than a second wife o!
you pple should leave olori sekinat alone !!! olori mi go on we dey ur back anytime anyday ❤❤❤❤❤
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Both oloris are beautiful
We are not talking about beauty here abeg.
@@oluakinwale4859 who cares?! My view, my data!
@@bisola7775 l do, your data!
Olori Seki is a strong woman.
Did anyone else notice the second wife did not wear aso ebi? The first wife need to show maturity o! All eyes are on you.
I so much feel for Olori Sekinat, but she has to accept now, nothing she can do now, anyway God will uphold you Sekinat
Olori Sekina needs to chill, her body language speaks volume..its written all over her. Olori Haziza is calm and classy and well mannered. I love her.
Her calmness and been well mannered failed to get her a husband in Hausaland but Yoruba Oba is her choice. Foul game be that o.
@@lolaolarinoye1940 Maybe she doesn't want to marry from her tribe? She's pretty enough for anyone to have as a wife..my opinion though.
She will be calm what do you expect, she’s is the intruder, third wheel, foreign body
She’s just trying to make herself known, noticeable. Home wrecker
Classy my ass
Olori Aramide Sekinat dance jor, you are our Nr. 1 Olori in yoruba land
Ur head dey there jare
She is the hostess she really can't until everything is successful which she later did
All I know is that Oba Elegushi don marry olori hadiza so nufin anybody can do about dat, if una like cry till next world nufin is going 2 change that
Well said, I support, they can do nothing
Yes nothing
It’s her that knows what she is facing in the palace
Coupled with the fact that she came like a guest to her in law party alone will tell you things aren’t fine. I am sure you saw lot of the videos of the birthday
How many of hadiza pictures were posted
The first wife own the territory and the palace self
She is jsut an intruder
She will always be the other woman in the palace
@@liya8070 las las what do u refer her as , Olori hadiza Elegushi
@@morenikejiibiyade2790 I am sure you know the obvious 😂 judging from this party alone you know who the olori is and you know who the second one is
She is the other woman and will always be
Seki Rules she follows !
@@liya8070 do u know d king and olori hadiza spend more time 2gether, cos of one day event una dey shout nah she get d king isokay oooo continue
She knew that she was in the Original Queen's territory. She was scared naa ni. Aramide owned that party. Go ahead jare, Olori Aramide. No shaking.
Exactly 🙌
What are you people saying. Queen Hadiza have a total different culture so she was trying to blend and respect herself too. She is not contending the 1st wife position. Pls, let her beee.
That is why you stay single and peaceful than to go and marry someone's husband. They can never be friends. Hadiza will always be afraid and confused even if she pay all the big ladies to come with her to the party. She's still forcing herself to take pictures 🙈🥺😁😁😁. I see her leaving that marriage soon. Olori sekinat was cheated and betrayed. They say for every successful man, there is a woman. Thank God for Olori Sekinat. God will fight for you. Take away this pain from you forever. Amen.
@@julietogbari8806 Na lie, Queen Hadiza no dey leave the marriage. Olori Sekinat get too much hot pepper for body like Yoruba people will say " ara e gbona ju i.e too much igbonara". She is married to a Muslim and thank God this 2nd wife is not Yoruba she for go frm mountain to mountain .
Absolutely 💯
It’s clear the first queen dislikes the second wife! She’s not hiding it, but her rage shouldn’t be towards her! I’ve watched all the videos and she controlled everything, she gave no chance to the second wife. First will alway be first, but her behaviour is very wrong, it’s not nice! Would you show hate to someone forever? It takes two! Honestly I have more respect for the second wife, regardless of how she feels, she’s not showing it, she maintained herself! Life is to short for all of this, you never know what can happen tomorrow. God forbid the one you hate so much could be the one to save you…
Honestly you nailed it. Olori sekinat is doing all this because the 2and olori is nit yoruba. She can never behave this way if olori hadiza is from yoruba race
You can't tell people how or how long they should be upset when they are hurt. I don't pity any woman that marries someone else's husband and I don't pity the man too because he brought trouble by his own hands. No woman likes to share her husband Muslim or not.
It's very obvious Sekinat is well loved by her mother in law and her other in laws.
@kim Ross I hail you you've said it all
@ kaosara you have said it all, had it been the 2nd wife is yoruba she will behave that way towards her. The king, king's mother and others are afraid of that Aramide. When will triberlism stop in Nigeria.
What pains me most is that innocent baby that dried, it's suspicious.
My advice to kabiyesi marry two more wifes! 😆 🤣 this will force the 1st two to like each other by force by fire!
You people are not in their lives, you all are clueless about what’s going on behind closed doors! Be mindful of what you write on social media!
We are just chatting now. Expressing ourselves. No problem. We keep.learning everyday. Anybody that now carry other people's issue on his.head, l pity am o.
I don’t like olori sekina behavior to worth olori adisa if olori sekky don’t like olori Addi that’s her own problem but this life is vanity upon vanity,, all children’s are girls y are too harsh on olori Addi you don’t know we’re your kids are going to married. You hv to be very careful if they say you’re beautiful Addi she too was indeed a beautiful Queen. Is not like olori adisa is afraid of her but the queen respect king husband, queen sekina is to much.. the first can be last it happens,... olori adisa make it clear to us that oko lo wa fe ati ebi oko tio ba fe tie ko fe whala. You will see that queen adisa don’t like make up she’s epitome beautiful queen
What do you want from our Olori Sekinat? Not that she doesn't like her,but the point is,why did he go to North to bring wife that will born Aremo? Why can't he marry 2nd wife in Yoruba land, our culture should not be tamper with.How many Hausa Emir do such.They are looking at what may happen in future.Yoruba land have culture 🤔
Is not easy ,so don't condemn olori sekinat
Rasheed Baliqis bawa. Humm! Polygamy is like that o, just relax yourself and de look especially with this type that Hadiza put her head for another land not Hausaland. Even with all what is happening now in Nigeria. Na wa oh. Banditry, Terrorism, Kidnapping and slaughtering of people like animal originating from Hausaland. Everything requires alot of patience, l know all will later be well. All l know by the grace of Almighty God, Olori Sekinat is a foundation and a pillar in that kingdom with her husband Oba Elegushi, no shaken for her at all o. Let us all remember them in prayers for peace to reign among them and in the kingdom. I need to let you that in situations like this we need to take caution in our response because you are not directly affected but you are already taken it personal. Why on earth shd you even mention that the children are girls. Is God that give children and you may invite the wrath of God upon yourself or your children. Be careful pls.
@@lolaolarinoye1940 sure my sister polygamy home is not easy if the 1st calm the 2nd May be harsh.. may Allah bless our home, Wueen Sekinah should take it easy on olori adisa so peace can be rain or else the king may take 3rd wife if two of oloris no make peace and if you Queen adisa you see her as a calm person I pray all shall be well
I think She feels insecure sort of during the party, She's Just trying to blend. Olori seki did well during this party.
Yes Seki is always looking spiteful and insecure , makes her look very childish . Shame...
It was a successful event.
It wasn’t spiteful. I know when you love someone you tend to take their side, but look at the videos, you’ll see differently
th-cam.com/video/P2XYAuIoFUQ/w-d-xo.html watch this video closely, she tried to hold back the tears, I felt it for her
@@funmidawodu2766 wen u marry ur own and overnight another woman comes in pls be very accommodating n laughing all over
The first wife Dey vex you can the anger for face.
Too obvious. She needs to calm down.
The first wife is trying to keep it together and is focusing on looking after the mother in law and the other guests it’s not an easy situation, and it’s not something you get used to. Any women olori or not will feel the same I dare any woman out there who will feel happy the husband is bringing another woman into the home regardless if religion permits it or not.
I feel for the 2nd wife as she has just recently lost her child I’m sure she is only there because of the celebrant and it’s good that she bought her own support group. The husband seems to be enjoying himself especially with all the women clamouring around him anyone of them who will be willing to be his 3rd and 4th wife.
My dear, I bet you on any given day she would not pay that much attention the mother inlaw. She controlled and showed who was in control . At the end of the day we’re all women, how would she feel if someone treated her daughter like that! I’m a mother and wife, no marriage is perfect! Hadiza May or may not have gone looking for the king, but he went looking and he married her. Your hate shouldn’t be towards her, The more hate you build up in you heart , the more poisonous it gets! The look alone she gives Hadiza would make anyone enter ground, it’s not nice. I looked at so many videos, Hadiza had no opportunities. I even looked at the wedding of Hadiza and the way the sister in laws were all over her, now they hardly acknowledge her. I’m not saying Hadiza is perfect, no, but you can look at her and the pain in that party, the tears she tried to hold back! No seating, so embarrassing and hurtful! We are all women, treat another the way you’d want to be treated or your daughters to be treated. I lost a lot of respect for the queen, regardless of what. Deal with the man , not the woman, he’s the one that’s stepped out, and bought Hadiza in.
Well said, I salute the two of you, I really feel for Hadisa. I don't like the way they are treating her outside and inside. I really commend Hadisa for her courage, calmness and her humbleness she maintained her line, even the king is at fault, he cannot manage is home, he shouldn't let Aramide to control him, his mother should not be control bas well. I love the way she brought her group if not Aramide and her group would have subject her to inferiorrity complex and shame. I salute you Hadisa my respect for you is high
@@kimross3378 all i know is dat las las what will be will surely be, u have said it all
@kim Ross you are right, on a norms she will ever pay attention to her mother_in_ law and others, she is doing EYE SERVICE AND NOTICE ME but I really love Hadisa she was not doing EYE SERVICE AND NOTICE ME, she knows her boundry. Come to think of it, Hadisa is from a wealthe family a princess, from my own perspective, she is not a gold digger, Rest my case!!!
This woman had been married to the king for 19 years. They've been together right from university days. What do you expect? No woman wants to share her man.
Besides, in yorubaland, the wives run around during a party to make sure everything is going on smoothly but Hadiza was just seen sitting with friends, she only stood up during the mother in law's entry dance and during photo shoot. Olori Sekinat was everywhere.
Hadiza brought this upon herself. She accepted to marry someone else's husband, if the man came to you, it's her choice to accept him or not and since she accepted, let her face it
I don’t know what u people want the first wife to do should she be kissing Hadiza or what it’s not easy to share ur man o
Please does anyone know an Emir from the north with a yoruba Queen,am just asking.
The current emir of kano and his brother who is also an emir and the father of zara, president buhari daughter in law) are from an iloriin woman, (some part of ilorin consider themselves as fulani others yoruba, the emirs mother was a princess of the emir of ilorin, royal marriage between 2kingdoms). But one thing with Hausa is if u want dem to accept u, u most be like them instantly and it's still not a guarantee they won't turn against u.
@Abiodun Moctar So Sekinat is a Christian name
Abi o,never.They are really bringing our royal culture down.Himself and Oba iwo. Heirs should be completely Yoruba proper without any mix-up
There are several. The northerner man can marry from anywhere
She has to be careful. So the first, don't become the last.
Gbayi jare..
The second wife shouid be careful as not to leave the palace too.
@@liya8070 am with you thiis time, vou know what's on my mind, you just balance the equation
no one can take her place
Exactly!!! Enough with her foolery whenever she sees Hadiza in a function. She need to respect her position and get over it already!
She was not even given the uniform gele
@abosede more like she didn't wear it because all her guest wore it, that wS a choice she made.
Man, king can be so funny, you have diamond , you went about looking for trouble. For what? Olori Sekinat, omoge ni e jo!
Sekinat is a diamond right??? To you but there is more to marrying a woman beyond optics. Sekinat might be good to look at but for the King, I’m there must be something super special about Hadiza that made him to marry her behind superficial
@@truth4815 special or no special, the thing don dey clear from the king eye small small, every body has a place and a role to play hadiza can't be seki o, d king knows that. And he knows why he married her out of all his side chics, but even him knows that his circle can't roll with her. She is too subtle. She can't run a yoruba large family with her character n behaviour, so he seperates roles wella. Hadiza just needs to learn to relate better with the family and just surrender all respect to seki. (Take a queue from shade okoya, dat one doesn't joke with d 1st wife)She is no more a side chick but a yoruba man's wife, her life should not revolve around small vacations and trips. Make she borrow herself brain and start taking her child into the palace. U born family no dey see pikin, u come marry abi u come spend money.
@@maybabs4666 What money? Get your facts right as Hadiza is from a rich family and everyone is not cut for being loud and doing eye service. As I have said before, there must be something special for the King to marry Hadiza and there is nothing that vitriolic people like yourself and others can do about it unfortunately. If you have issue with the king marrying Hadiza, why don’t you go to Oba Gushi palace and talk to him about it if you have the guts? Bunch of jobless hypocrites taking medication for other people headaches
@@truth4815 I know you all are being paid. I don’t know either of them. Still stand by my opinion. Do not hate Hadiza ,Still you can never compare Compare them. If the first wife did not build him right,but the second wife will not look his way. Give honor to the one that labor and build him to where you are able to see him and adore him. If is easy why is it that Hadiza did not find one to build from start?
When you are an elegant woman you dress modest by not exposing your cleavage.The second wife is from the north and she knows her limit the first wife is the mother of the house she dare not do anything without her permission. The second wife is well behave.
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The Oba Elegushi the husband like am now, he no complain about the little cleavage showing now. Why the complain?
Big problem she have different cultures, tradition and language, is not easy joor, all 99 percent yoruba race don't want fulani hausa as olori in any yoruba royal home
Thank goodness God is not man
God bless you, that's real issue they are complaining about.How many Emir marry Yoruba lady to come and born Aremo in the north.If he marry Yoruba,Sekinat will like her better.Hadiza will continue to have this problem there.Our young King doesn't understand culture,he taught everything is about fashion but he is slipping the crown to Northerner but in future there may be setback 😉
Olori Sekinat is the Queen of the house. 90% of women there came because of her. She cannot be replaced and even Oba knows that. The Hausa Olori is just there and can only find peace next to the Oba. She knows her boundary. Olori Sekinat said “ let her Dance! Lol let mama dance and her tone of voice made the Hausa woman to just walk away lmaooo
Yes oo,,,well said
People like you is Nigeria problem
She walked away because Olori Sekinat was acting like a fool. Either she likes it or not but unfortunately for her , her husband has not only married her but she already has a child for him and that is a fact and a bond between them forever and in as much as it is not t an easy pill to swallow but it is what it is and she need to stop embarrassing herself before the public whenever there is a function and Hadiza is there.
@@truth4815 that is how olori sekinat has always been when it comes to families functions
She has always been here and there tending to all she is not embarrassing her self by doing that
Hadiza shouid loosen up and mingle too and stop being irrelevant
@@liya8070 Really? I’m not a fan of any of the Olori but just saying it as it is. The only one acting ghetto and trying to show her relevance is Sekinat!!! And truth be told,Is not that deep as the man not only married Hadiza but she has his child too and Sekinat need to accept it and behave like a civilized woman after all, her mother in law she was doting on has senior wives and junior wives. Royal family in Nigeria is associated with polygamy. Period!
The king will marry another wife again, no stress.
1st is always FIRST o. Always in charge by the grace of God.
No normal woman will want to be in that position. Sekinat will make that person insignificant. See how Hadiza is invisible.
You should be careful of what you write, both Oloris are beautiful. Men are men Kabiyesi is young and handsome he is not stopping at number two so Sekinate be ready to fight and fight is not the best but is the truth. So please stop this is Hausa this is ibo what ever. If he was married to a Yoruba lady Sekinat will still jump is normal. 🤷🏻♀️what can she do men are slippery.
Oh please go with this “ men are men” . I swear it be the single ladies on here talking like this.
Polygamy is not easy, but when things are not done properly, there will be issues. What i see is that hadiza was not handed over properly to seki and she wasn't given orientation on how to behave in a yoruba family, hadiza may appear calm in nature and all but afojudi e po. Yorubas love respect alot and she isn't given it to the family enough. Even if she was yoruba it may not stop the fight, but with time I pray they all find there peace.
Please Hadiza should just go back to her father,s house ,she just look out of place here.Oba,s family doesn't like her.I feel for her.Even the king,s mother.
Haaa that is not nice she make sure the second wife is not in the dancing picture she said only the king immediately the second queen detangle from the King 🧐😁😁😁.
You got it really well o. I thought I was d only one that got that.
@@biodunajayi2858 🤣🤣 the second queen has come to stay she can't do anything about she should allow peace to rain btw herself and the junior wife.
My own is that all these men are not worth fighting for, they're just like butterflies that kisses every flowers.its true men are important in our life but our lives as a woman is more important than them,
My pray for the first olori is to find peace of mind and enjoy her life and children till old age 🙏.
@@solamary94 she have to accept her destiny as a Yoruba Queen the king will still marry more olori she must learn how to accept them in.
@@lolaogunbolude2938 Yes sis, queen or no queen, men are not worth fighting for if a woman wants to live good and for the children.
I'm once in her shoes before nobody preach to me, I focused on my children, glory be to God I'm really enjoying my children and keep still praying for my husband for God's guidance, because they are butterflies like I said.
God shall continues to put the first olori through 🙏
I don’t know what is wrong with these men! How can you marry someone that is less beautiful than the wife of your youth! Sekinat is a paragon of beauty. The Hadzat, noooo. Sekinat, you have no rivals
That’s not true. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. It depends on what you classify as beauty. Every woman is beautiful in their own way. Hadiza is very pretty if you see her in person. She’s also calm, cool & classy.
Haba she's fine too nah.
Exactly my thoughts. Nothing against the Hadiza. For any ordinary man's wife, you would consider her fine. But for a King if such a glamorous city as Elegushi in the Island, Sekinat carries all that luxury and charisma. Almost like he married hadiza for political reasons. If she can be considerate and know she came in as a visitor and Sekinat is the 1st and even finer& classier than her, there will be a flow. Well wish them all the best.
Maybe she’s not as beautiful in your eyes. She’s really pretty and her husband finds her so which is all that matters. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
@@jumidosunmu4975 Thank you. Skin cancer is and is sad that everyone is going crazy bleaching their skin just to be called beautiful. Sekinat is just ok even with her bleached out skin. Hope they can Google her wedding picture and see how dark skin she was in her wedding pictures. So ghetto
I don’t know what u people want the first wife to do should she be kissing Hadiza or what it’s not easy to share ur man o