We Suffered from infertility for 8 years...... we finally adopted an 11 day old baby boy from Catholic Family and Child Service, in 1982. We now have been blessed with an Amazing Son, and his girlfriend, and their three Wonderful Grandchildren!
I didn't have infertility but didn't have our first child til we were married 6 and a half years, then a miscarriage 2 years later then 10 years with no pregnancy, then another miscarriage, then 2 years later our last baby was born. So it was almost 20 years to have our two amazing miracle babies💕
Britt& Jared, So sorry for everything you’re going through. My husband and I adopted. My doctor found a large tumor that was wrapped around both of my ovaries. They had to give me a whole hysterectomy. I haven’t had any children yet and was hoping they could save 1 ovary. My doctor even had the lab. to double check for cancer. We did adopt a beautiful baby girl. She was born 2 months early. We got her at 1 month old. She was so tiny. Even had two buy preemie size diapers. Now she is a beautiful 27 year old woman. Going for her Masters degree and working hard I wish you lots of Prayers, Luck, Strength and Happiness going forward.
The two of you have some kind of inner strength that I don’t think you realize. What could be crushing to some you are turning around into an opportunity to help others. I have no doubt that will eventually come back to you in such a positive way that you won’t be able to comprehend it.
I have cried with you & for you many times because it hurts my heart! Oh how I remember those videos so well & I broke down & bawled, it was terrible watching you two so heartbroken! I remember all the pain you had Jared & I can’t even imagine what you were feeling! Y’all have gone through so much pain & heartache! Sending prayers, love & hugs! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🐾❤️
I am so sorry. God has a plan and everything will work out. I will be praying for you. I suffered from Endometriosis for over 20 years. I had several surgeries and it would come back. I was tired of suffering and frustrated from the pain. I finally had a Total Hysterectomy. When I was younger I wanted kids when the time came. No kids for me but I spoil everybody else’s💜
First: glad to see Britt got her nails taken care of. Second: you two are an inspiration to so many out there seeking and wanting to expand their families. Hopefully you will touch them as well as giving yourself comfort and assurance that life goes on as God has you in the palm of his hand and you are steps away from your blessings. 😊
You two are the only couple that I know of that have shared your experiences with male infertility. That tells me a lot about your caring natures. Jared, you are blessed to have Britt by your side and wonderful doctors. Who knows how many couples that you are helping by putting this information out there. 🥰
You two, oh my goodness! You are so precious, sweet, compassionate and generous to offer the gift of sharing your infertility journey! Thank you! I have shared with you before: I am now a healthy, very active 74 yr. old who experienced two failed IVFs and 9 IUIs. We adopted two infants, 4 3/4 yrs. apart. Waaaay back then, in the 1980s, who knows how little was known or explored regarding male infertility issues or female issues that may have been at issue for us! Here’s to you and the healing you’ve gained through loving each other, hope and faith that you will have a family. XO
Well done Jared for sharing, I’ve watched all your videos, your ‘bundle of joy’ will come 😊😊. Mine came via IFV, she’s 32, a Lecturer in Anatomy now, then 2 years later, my miracle, no IFV for my second daughter, worth the wait.
I'm so hopeful for you two and one day you'll look back and know why this happened the way it did ❤ God has you 🙏 sending all my love and support and many prayers your way ❤❤❤
Good on you guys for doing this. There is a lot of men and families go thru this. I love that you are wrapping it together today. Male factor infertility is on the rise. Thank you for sharing.❤❤❤❤❤
Thanks so much for your honesty and candidness. I know it must be so hard sharing such personal information, but I am sure you'll touch many lives. May God continue to bless you both. I'm excited for your future! ❤️
I'm so sorry that y'all had to experience this sad loss 😢. I'm praying for the Holy Spirit to be with you guys constantly and I look forward to hearing what direction you turn to, to grow your family 🙇🏼♀️🤲🏼🙏🏼
Im sorry to hear this . I was one of the people judging for you guys to have a baby and not a dog been treated like a "baby" . Now i understand . Again im sorry for judging you guys . Pray to Jesus God himself the only one that can make the miracle come true .
I dealt with infertility for 2 1/2 yrs then finally got pregnant! Was thrilled as were all our families, but unfortunately it was an ectopic pregnancy that wasn’t diagnosed and it ruptured and I was bleeding internally. My local hospital told me to go home and come home the next day but I insisted that I was really sick and told them I was going elsewhere. Luckily I did b/c by the time that hospital got me in for an u/s and called in a surgeon (less than a hour!) I had 3 litres of blood in my abdomen and I definitely would have died before the morning. During the surgery they also found that I had many large fibroids as well and since they were causing me so much pain, I had to have another surgery to remove them. We tried fertility meds but were unable to afford IVF and sadly, we were never able to have children. We have had dozens of wonderful pets to love though. They aren’t a replacement for kids but a good place to give all that love you have to give
You two are very strong individuals and you are blessed in so many ways and I know when the time is right you will be awesome parents. Furthermore, it doesn’t matter whether it’s biological child or not when all children need a home with lots of love and when that time comes you two will love that child no matter what! Like you said it’s all going to work out the way it’s suppose too. Keep your head high!!
We had the same issue, which was even worse is at the last minuet before my surgery they called and said we were both positive carriers for cystic fibrosis.. so that changed all of all plans. We have a strong healthy son 11 years later. Our family saying has always been “It all works itself out in the end”
You will be a mom and dad I know that. God will choose how that happens. I was lucky to be adopted at five months old and brought up by the most wonderful parents I could ever have asked for❤.
I Jared and Britt, I think it is such a beautiful thing you are sharing YOUR personal story because like you say maybe there are others out there who are going through a similar thing and we can share your story with them❣️🙏🏼 I watch every upload and always leave my like and sometimes comment, Mucho Love❣️🙏🏼🤗
So sad to even be here watching this video 😢 me and my fiancé have just heard back that the 2 semen samples he did have zero sperm, so many emotions and feelings, it is such hard news to take 😢 and to top it off the doctors have told me i have endometriosis. Currently waiting for our fertility referral. Thank you for being so open about this topic, it helps a lot xx
I wish you guys nothing but the best and like you said God is in control. We may not think so at times but he really is thi. Enjoy your channels so much. I have been going through a really rough time. The last few months and your videos put a smile on my face😊❤
You are so awesome for sharing your journey, and mostly all the information you can impart to those on a similar journey. There will be many tuning into your videos once they realize how special you are, and also what fun you are!! Thanks for what you're doing!!
Good Luck with whatever is the right choice for the both of you! We chose to go the donor sperm, we finally got our daughter, and now that daughter is a few weeks from giving us our first granddaughter! So excited and I know whatever you decide, will bring you so much happiness and I can’t wait to watch it all on your channel! ❤️🤗
I have Turner Syndrome I was born without ovaries. Even though it too is genetic I wasn’t diagnosed until I was 17. Praying God will use his guiding hand to show you other beautiful ways to build a family.
I ve always thought that maybe one of the other 3 good looking Bingham brothers could help. That way it’s a Bingham baby and Britt can experience pregnancy and childbirth. It’s a win win
Like they did on Sally Field's show Family! They all donated and had no idea which one they used! That way it should have a good success and known medical background!
Happy Tuesday evening Jared, Britt & Finley. 🐕🐕 You two are simply amazing. And I feel it deep down that you're going to be the best parents. 👍👍 And there's absolutely nothing wrong with taking the time you need to make sure you're doing what's right for you. I've got to ask. How are your fingers feeling a few days past Britt? I'm still grimacing 😵with what happened to your nails. I have gel nails and it beyond hurts when you jam them into something. Are your fingers still tender to the touch? 💅💅
I felt so bad for both of you, that all times were Brittney and never Jared at 1st. I couldn't figure out why your doctors waited so long to test Jared. We went to a Fertility Specialist the fall of 1986. They did a few initial tests on my wife and then tested me( I was healthy and in my 20's). After my diagnosis, there was no need to keep seeing a fertility specialist, as our chances of a natural birth were zero. We were told our best chance for a family was to adopt. We found an an adoption agency and started the process, finally, qualifying and making it on their list in early 1989. We were able to adopt two beautiful children, 2 years apart. I have a genetic condition that causes male infertility. I won't mention what's it called, but its not azoospermia.
I had been tested in my teens, and knew what genetic condition, I had; however, my doctor never told me I was infertile. I don't know if it was because I was young and single or what. My parents were told; but encouraged by the doctor not to tell me. They never confirmed it until after I was in late 20's, married, and we had the results of my test from the Fertility specialist. I was never a wild child, so I have no idea why no one thought I should know.
@@wjutjck1as cringeworthy as this is, I want to believe that your parents thought withholding the information was in your best interest. In reality, this is information one should know before they start seriously dating!
@@catherinefinken2294 All I knew was I had a 50/50 chance, but nothing solid. My wife knew about the 50/50 chance, but we wish my parents had told us, when we got married in our mid-20's that having children naturally was a "NO". We tried for 2 years to get my wife pregnant, before we went to a Fertility Specialist. If we had known up front, we could have worked on adopting or IVF initially. The Fertility specialist after testing both me and my wife, told us IVF probably wouldn't work.
It’s so irritating that I watched y’all through all of this and I believe it was the second appointment when Britt would come home and beat herself up. I wrote on every video “please have Jared’s sperm checked” it does not take a specialist merely a lab. I know I went through this, it saved so much heart break and beating myself up. For two or more years I watched Britt do this to herself and it’s frustrating because so much time could have been saved. All 3 brothers could have donated, spun them together and used britts egg or adopted by now. Don’t think I’m not sympathetic, I am because I lived this but I didn’t just think it was me. Like you said 50/50 good luck
Have you talked about the genetic condition causing this? I was curious if it is Klinefelter. It is a lot more common than people think and there are different presentations of this condition too.
I don't know how you would feel about this but I'm going to put it out there. Why not use one of Jared's brother as a donor if they would be willing, that would be the closest to having a child of your own. I know it's a little weird but why not consider it.
It makes me so sad to think about how many people abort their babies as a form of birth control, when there's so many people who would LOVE to have a baby in our arms. I wanted to s a mom so bad, but due to multiple birth defects I'm unable to conceive. LOVE, PRAYERS, and HUGE ALWAYS!❤🙏🤗🙏❤
We Suffered from infertility for 8 years...... we finally adopted an 11 day old baby boy from Catholic Family and Child Service, in 1982. We now have been blessed with an Amazing Son, and his girlfriend, and their three Wonderful Grandchildren!
I didn't have infertility but didn't have our first child til we were married 6 and a half years, then a miscarriage 2 years later then 10 years with no pregnancy, then another miscarriage, then 2 years later our last baby was born. So it was almost 20 years to have our two amazing miracle babies💕
Britt& Jared,
So sorry for everything you’re going through.
My husband and I adopted.
My doctor found a large tumor that was wrapped around both of my ovaries. They had to give me a whole hysterectomy. I haven’t had any children yet and was hoping they could save 1 ovary.
My doctor even had the lab. to double check for cancer.
We did adopt a beautiful baby girl. She was born 2 months early. We got her at 1 month old. She was so tiny. Even had two buy preemie size diapers.
Now she is a beautiful 27 year old woman. Going for her Masters degree and working hard
I wish you lots of Prayers, Luck, Strength and Happiness going forward.
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Still praying for you guys! I just can’t wait to see you guys become parents in whatever way it’s meant to happen. 💕
The two of you have some kind of inner strength that I don’t think you realize. What could be crushing to some you are turning around into an opportunity to help others. I have no doubt that will eventually come back to you in such a positive way that you won’t be able to comprehend it.
I have cried with you & for you many times because it hurts my heart! Oh how I remember those videos so well & I broke down & bawled, it was terrible watching you two so heartbroken! I remember all the pain you had Jared & I can’t even imagine what you were feeling! Y’all have gone through so much pain & heartache! Sending prayers, love & hugs! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🐾❤️
Bless you all for speaking about something so incredibly personal. You will help many people by sharing this.
I am so sorry. God has a plan and everything will work out. I will be praying for you.
I suffered from Endometriosis for over 20 years. I had several surgeries and it would come back. I was tired of suffering and frustrated from the pain. I finally had a Total Hysterectomy. When I was younger I wanted kids when the time came. No kids for me but I spoil everybody else’s💜
First: glad to see Britt got her nails taken care of. Second: you two are an inspiration to so many out there seeking and wanting to expand their families. Hopefully you will touch them as well as giving yourself comfort and assurance that life goes on as God has you in the palm of his hand and you are steps away from your blessings. 😊
You two are the only couple that I know of that have shared your experiences with male infertility. That tells me a lot about your caring natures. Jared, you are blessed to have Britt by your side and wonderful doctors. Who knows how many couples that you are helping by putting this information out there. 🥰
Jared you are very blessed to have a brilliant wife and families but you are also extremely humble about your condition thanks for sharing both ❤
You two, oh my goodness! You are so precious, sweet, compassionate and generous to offer the gift of sharing your infertility journey! Thank you! I have shared with you before: I am now a healthy, very active 74 yr. old who experienced two failed IVFs and 9 IUIs. We adopted two infants, 4 3/4 yrs. apart. Waaaay back then, in the 1980s, who knows how little was known or explored regarding male infertility issues or female issues that may have been at issue for us! Here’s to you and the healing you’ve gained through loving each other, hope and faith that you will have a family. XO
Well done Jared for sharing, I’ve watched all your videos, your ‘bundle of joy’ will come 😊😊. Mine came via IFV, she’s 32, a Lecturer in Anatomy now, then 2 years later, my miracle, no IFV for my second daughter, worth the wait.
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This is so sad to hear. You two would make the best parents. All in GOD'S hands. Don't give up.❤
AMEN
Thank you! Azoospermia is so shocking. Your encouragement helps so much!!
I pray the best for whatever the future holds for you both.
I'm so hopeful for you two and one day you'll look back and know why this happened the way it did ❤ God has you 🙏 sending all my love and support and many prayers your way ❤❤❤
Love to you guys. I remember how heart breaking that time was just watching let alone living it. Praying for you guys always x
Good on you guys for doing this. There is a lot of men and families go thru this. I love that you are wrapping it together today. Male factor infertility is on the rise. Thank you for sharing.❤❤❤❤❤
Thanks so much for your honesty and candidness. I know it must be so hard sharing such personal information, but I am sure you'll touch many lives. May God continue to bless you both. I'm excited for your future! ❤️
I'm so sorry that y'all had to experience this sad loss 😢. I'm praying for the Holy Spirit to be with you guys constantly and I look forward to hearing what direction you turn to, to grow your family 🙇🏼♀️🤲🏼🙏🏼
Im sorry to hear this . I was one of the people judging for you guys to have a baby and not a dog been treated like a "baby" . Now i understand . Again im sorry for judging you guys . Pray to Jesus God himself the only one that can make the miracle come true .
I’ve watched you for quite a while and this is the first I’ve heard of it. I always wondered why you didn’t have children. Godspeed in your journey! ❤
I dealt with infertility for 2 1/2 yrs then finally got pregnant! Was thrilled as were all our families, but unfortunately it was an ectopic pregnancy that wasn’t diagnosed and it ruptured and I was bleeding internally. My local hospital told me to go home and come home the next day but I insisted that I was really sick and told them I was going elsewhere. Luckily I did b/c by the time that hospital got me in for an u/s and called in a surgeon (less than a hour!) I had 3 litres of blood in my abdomen and I definitely would have died before the morning. During the surgery they also found that I had many large fibroids as well and since they were causing me so much pain, I had to have another surgery to remove them. We tried fertility meds but were unable to afford IVF and sadly, we were never able to have children. We have had dozens of wonderful pets to love though. They aren’t a replacement for kids but a good place to give all that love you have to give
I’m glad I found this video. Thank your for sharing ❤ My husbands microtese is scheduled for Monday and we are so anxious
You are such a lovely couple. ❤❤
You two are very strong individuals and you are blessed in so many ways and I know when the time is right you will be awesome parents. Furthermore, it doesn’t matter whether it’s biological child or not when all children need a home with lots of love and when that time comes you two will love that child no matter what! Like you said it’s all going to work out the way it’s suppose too. Keep your head high!!
We had the same issue, which was even worse is at the last minuet before my surgery they called and said we were both positive carriers for cystic fibrosis.. so that changed all of all plans. We have a strong healthy son 11 years later. Our family saying has always been “It all works itself out in the end”
Listening to you reminds me of when my brother died young unexpectedly. Same kind of grief.
So sorry for your loss 😢
You will be a mom and dad I know that. God will choose how that happens. I was lucky to be adopted at five months old and brought up by the most wonderful parents I could ever have asked for❤.
I have prayed for the healing of your hearts this matter.
I Jared and Britt, I think it is such a beautiful thing you are sharing YOUR personal story because like you say maybe there are others out there who are going through a similar thing and we can share your story with them❣️🙏🏼 I watch every upload and always leave my like and sometimes comment, Mucho Love❣️🙏🏼🤗
So sad to even be here watching this video 😢 me and my fiancé have just heard back that the 2 semen samples he did have zero sperm, so many emotions and feelings, it is such hard news to take 😢 and to top it off the doctors have told me i have endometriosis. Currently waiting for our fertility referral. Thank you for being so open about this topic, it helps a lot xx
I wish you guys nothing but the best and like you said God is in control. We may not think so at times but he really is thi. Enjoy your channels so much. I have been going through a really rough time. The last few months and your videos put a smile on my face😊❤
I'm so so proud of you both you. A Beautiful couple you are even your personalities. I wish you all the Best in your quest.
You are so awesome for sharing your journey, and mostly all the information you can impart to those on a similar journey. There will be many tuning into your videos once they realize how special you are, and also what fun you are!! Thanks for what you're doing!!
Good Luck with whatever is the right choice for the both of you! We chose to go the donor sperm, we finally got our daughter, and now that daughter is a few weeks from giving us our first granddaughter! So excited and I know whatever you decide, will bring you so much happiness and I can’t wait to watch it all on your channel! ❤️🤗
Love you guys so much!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😃😃😃🐶🐶🐶🐶🐶🐶🐶
These two are amazing..one day there dreams will come through..
Hello how are you doing today I always look forward to watching your videos ❤
When Jared looks away toward the balcony, his expression reminds me of Papa.
You guys are amazing! thank you for being so open and vulnerable with all of us. 💔❤️❤️ Big hugs!
Keeping you both in my prayers. Stay strong and know that God is with you. ❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻
I am so sorry …🌸❤️
Thank you for sharing 🌸❤️
Blessings to a fantastic couple!
My heart has hurt so many times for you both as you’ve traveled your journey. I am excited to celebrate with you when the time is right xox
❤ enjoyed this so much. Really enjoy your videos
I’m sorry for anyone who has to go through infertility. I/we were never blessed with children. I understand. ❤ 🙏
I can't wait to see the next step! You guys look so happy and at peace! ❤ you guys ❤
I have Turner Syndrome I was born without ovaries. Even though it too is genetic I wasn’t diagnosed until I was 17. Praying God will use his guiding hand to show you other beautiful ways to build a family.
Thank you for the information. Very eye opening. Wishing you both a good outcome from your decision.
I ve always thought that maybe one of the other 3 good looking Bingham brothers could help. That way it’s a Bingham baby and Britt can experience pregnancy and childbirth. It’s a win win
Like they did on Sally Field's show Family! They all donated and had no idea which one they used! That way it should have a good success and known medical background!
we maybe on different paths to the same God but I'm praying for you
Happy Tuesday evening Jared, Britt & Finley. 🐕🐕
You two are simply amazing. And I feel it deep down that you're going to be the best parents. 👍👍
And there's absolutely nothing wrong with taking the time you need to make sure you're doing what's right for you.
I've got to ask. How are your fingers feeling a few days past Britt? I'm still grimacing 😵with what happened to your nails. I have gel nails and it beyond hurts when you jam them into something. Are your fingers still tender to the touch? 💅💅
Goodluck, I had a lot of miss carriages, but I won I got a boy, and 2005 got a boy again so don't give up...they look alike too 👍 😊😊😊 positive..
❤❤ love you guys xx
I felt so bad for both of you, that all times were Brittney and never Jared at 1st. I couldn't figure out why your doctors waited so long to test Jared. We went to a Fertility Specialist the fall of 1986. They did a few initial tests on my wife and then tested me( I was healthy and in my 20's). After my diagnosis, there was no need to keep seeing a fertility specialist, as our chances of a natural birth were zero. We were told our best chance for a family was to adopt. We found an an adoption agency and started the process, finally, qualifying and making it on their list in early 1989. We were able to adopt two beautiful children, 2 years apart. I have a genetic condition that causes male infertility. I won't mention what's it called, but its not azoospermia.
I had been tested in my teens, and knew what genetic condition, I had; however, my doctor never told me I was infertile. I don't know if it was because I was young and single or what. My parents were told; but encouraged by the doctor not to tell me. They never confirmed it until after I was in late 20's, married, and we had the results of my test from the Fertility specialist. I was never a wild child, so I have no idea why no one thought I should know.
My condition is rare. I come from a large family and none of my siblings have it. In fact none of my close relatives that I know of have it, either.
@@wjutjck1as cringeworthy as this is, I want to believe that your parents thought withholding the information was in your best interest. In reality, this is information one should know before they start seriously dating!
@@catherinefinken2294 All I knew was I had a 50/50 chance, but nothing solid. My wife knew about the 50/50 chance, but we wish my parents had told us, when we got married in our mid-20's that having children naturally was a "NO". We tried for 2 years to get my wife pregnant, before we went to a Fertility Specialist. If we had known up front, we could have worked on adopting or IVF initially. The Fertility specialist after testing both me and my wife, told us IVF probably wouldn't work.
It’s so irritating that I watched y’all through all of this and I believe it was the second appointment when Britt would come home and beat herself up. I wrote on every video “please have Jared’s sperm checked” it does not take a specialist merely a lab. I know I went through this, it saved so much heart break and beating myself up. For two or more years I watched Britt do this to herself and it’s frustrating because so much time could have been saved. All 3 brothers could have donated, spun them together and used britts egg or adopted by now. Don’t think I’m not sympathetic, I am because I lived this but I didn’t just think it was me. Like you said 50/50 good luck
Have you talked about the genetic condition causing this? I was curious if it is Klinefelter. It is a lot more common than people think and there are different presentations of this condition too.
Why did you have to fly out to Utah? There were no good clinics in Florida?
Are you guys gonna be okay ? You can start adopting like me
🎉🎉🎉🎉hi finn ❤❤❤❤
Jared and Britt for everything you are going through trying to have a baby i know it’s for you i think you and Jared should try to adopt a baby
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Hello
I don't know how you would feel about this but I'm going to put it out there. Why not use one of Jared's brother as a donor if they would be willing, that would be the closest to having a child of your own. I know it's a little weird but why not consider it.
Praying for you guys that you become parents some day. Please try a donor sperm!❤❤❤❤
Jared did they put you under for the surgery
I know you are strangling with conceiving but have you thought about adopting ?
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Oh I got a boy 1999 sorry... Prince song ..be positive 😂😂😂
Being able to make a baby does not define you as a person.
Are you almost gonna find out that you’re gonna have a baby?
It makes me so sad to think about how many people abort their babies as a form of birth control, when there's so many people who would LOVE to have a baby in our arms. I wanted to s a mom so bad, but due to multiple birth defects I'm unable to conceive. LOVE, PRAYERS, and HUGE ALWAYS!❤🙏🤗🙏❤
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