Yug Tau Menyuam Yuam Kev Tag. 6/13/23
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Truth is only a parent can love their own children, our kids won't love us the same way back. Good luck to us all when we are old and helpless 😢
Parents sometimes have a favorite and will always give credit to the favorites. One sided stories always have a hidden side not spoken .
Agree
I don’t think this is favoritism. She is helping the 2 in Laos more because they are less fortunate. If the siblings have a conscience, they would be more understanding.
I agree, she sends money oversea but expects her US kids to use their money on her. Like her kid said you can use your own money and throw your own party we just come and help, vim nws yeej faib nyiaj tsis tau caj.
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I am with the American children. I don’t see the purpose of bringing the children from Laos to the USA. If the parents miss the children, they should just go visit them or celebrate their retirement in Laos.
Its hardly ever the siblings that cause sibling rivalry (or jealousy amongst each other as stated by this mom). Its almost always caused by the parents playing favorites. This mom stated herself, she loves her two overseas children more.
Her kids in America as well as relatives have expressed to her what she's doing is unfair but she continues so what does she expect?
Every child wants to be loved equally regardless of gender, age, financial stability, etc. Additionally, no one sibling wants to be financially esponsible for another's life choices. Which brings to point, Ive visited Hmong people in Laos, Vietnam, and Thailand. Based on my experience, they see nothing wrong with sitting around and doing nothing to improve their situation, but merely ask and wait for US relatives to send them money.
Unlike Hmong people overseas, folks here have monthly bills. Sitting around waiting for some relative somewhere to send us money for our living expenses is not an option.
After learning what I learned from my travels overseas, I don't feel sorry for them. I feel sorry for those in the US who have to hustle daily to be able to just survive.
I agree. If I'm going to explain my reasons, I'll have to send in my story to May and it will counter attack this mother😂😂😂❤
The kids in America don't know how to love the two older ones in Laos, but it's understandable bc they didn't grow up together and didn't have that loving siblings relationship. U can't blame them entirely.
Agree
Yog Li ces kom lawv txhob hlub lawv cov xwb los mas peb ua niam ua txiv twb yog hlub2 lawv es thiaj muab lawv pus2 tuaj kom tau kev kawm kom muaj noj muaj haus ces twb yog hlub yog muab tso rau tom qab ces yeej kawg txom nyem ib yam li cov tom qab thiab mas ua cas siab yuav me ua luaj twb yog ob tug poob rau tom qab cov coob yog cov tuaj Tim no muaj kev khwv Es kav tsij sib pab hlub twb yog yus tus tij kiag ne
I have to side with her kids’ here in the U.S.
Everyone has their own lives, can’t always feel sorry for the ones that were left behind.
Cov kids no tsis tas xyom los twb tsis hlub niam txiv tseem xyom los tsis tau koob hmoov
Everyone needs to understand that each one struggles in their own way, some more than others. Sibilings have no obligation finanacially to help eachother as each one is an adult and need to find their own way of making a living. Waiting for handouts and waiting for those with more money to lend you a hand is not what are world is built on. Each person for their own.
Agree. The siblings are not obligated to do anything but they shouldn’t stop their parents from helping the other 2. It’s wrong to do that.
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@@ethankeukeu it is not wrong for the children in America to tell their parent to stop. Some parents sends all their money and savings then expect the children they live with to do everything for them without chiming in a dime. The jealousy will come out sooner or later. They live under the care and support of their children in America. They children in America gets the stress, pressure, obligation to take care, and support their parents. In good or bad health, they are the one to first responds?! Their responsibilities for their parent is more whether it is financially, mentally, and or making time to meet the needs of the parents.
So to say that they are wrong.... NO! Hmong have a saying
"Yuav tsum hlub koj tus ntawm taw ua ntej."
I'm sure the kids had their breaking point. The mom only talks about the big things she's done for her laos kids but I'm sure her kids in America have helped with all the small things and have had it. I know from experience with my mom's brother in laos. My mom helped him with a house, car, and land. Once we got older, she asked us to donate $ for things like money for pig for new year, car repairs, motor bike for his kids, hospital bills..etc. also one time they ran over someone's dog and had to pay restitution so they were begging us....always got a sob story. Us kids were helping at first but realized we couldn't even help ourselves being in school, living off student loans, driving 150k+ mile cars. Sad to say but I've blocked all my laos relatives...only want $$$
Yep just like my mother in law and her daughter from Laos my husband has a half sister from Laos and my mother in law always talk shit about my husband to her daughter in Laos plus my mother in law always sending money to her daughter every single month but she has never feed her own stomach she has me and me husband do everything to her but still talk shit about us to her daughter so yeah as a mother if you loves your kids from Laos more why don't you just to live in Laos with them?? We live here in U.S we have too much bills to pay we didn't get to live free at all? So people need to understand and that.
Exactly!!
Agreed! It's okay to ask once in a blue moon but when u have laos siblings/relatives who asked big and small monetary everytime is a no no for me. Also had first hand experiences. Did they ever help you? No!
How's that? The parents gave the money to all the children. Down payment to buy a house, to start their lives. The older son should've just come to the United States. WOW, talk about selfishness and greed.
There is too much favoritism and the older son use his having to stayed behind as a guilt trip to get the parents to keep giving them money.
1000% agreed! I believe there is more to this story then what the mom is sharing. I believe all of her kids in the US have reached their giving limits.
Koj cov minyuam no xam khib dhau lawm. Kuv kuj tshua ib tug niam laus poob rau nplog teb thiab peb sawvdaws yeej nrog peb niam hlub lawv los tau 30 xyoo no
Sister coj li koj vaj tswv foom koob hmoov rau koj os 🥰🥰🥰🥰
Mom...love yourself. Forgot the kids and grandkids no matter where they are. This is the time to self love. Even in Laos..they are not poor like you think...
This is the epitome of those Hmonge Meskas Hmong Nplog mentality where Hmg Meskas think Hmg Nplog are dirt poor but they be living better than Hmg Meskas.
IF, and this is a big IF everything were true in this story, these kids are greedy & selfish. But I feel like the story is only based on her perspective which is probably a bit skewed.
From the sound of the retirement party, the parents expected the kids to take care of their needs and wants even when they were able and capable themselves. Sad story though.
He does have a absolutely point. Hmoob nplog look like they r poor but they do have money's 😮😮😮 don't judge the way Hmoob nplog wear or dress, this is tiam 22 century.
The kids are right, it has to be equal
So true. Most Kids today are ungrateful. It doesn't matter how many kids you have the ones that will love you will love you the ones that don't won't. Don't worry mom you did the best you can.
If it’s the cousins living in Laos then I get it why they act like that but it’s your siblings in a poor country. Come on, siab loj tsis tau li lov .. so greedy towards your own blood brother/sister
Forreals smh
There's always two sides of every coin. According to the mother- the kids in America complained that when their siblings from Laos came to America to work- didn't give a dime earned to the parents and just took all their money home. Then when visited them in Laos, even if they can't throw a big feast- should at least cook a little of something and have better hospitality. In all honesty, Hmong-nplog are not all that poor or helpless. Most are middle-class considered where they live and others even richer than Hmong-Meekas. Most Hmong-Meekas are not rich. In fact, a lot of them are poor and stuck with bills and taxes. Laos doesn't have bills or taxes. Government even give out free land to some including free healthcare.
It's understandable the unconditional love she has for her first 2 love. The siblings need to understand that a mother has to split her love between her many children and if sending money to them is the only way she can show her love then so be it. Just sad for the sibling rivalry.
Being poor in Laos is different than being poor in America, but at the end, everyone is poor in their own ways. Just because someone lives in America and the lifestyles in America is a bit different than those who live in Laos, doesn't mean that the people living in America are well off. In America, there are debts for almost everything. Don't make excuses for those in Laos. Everyone is struggling in their own ways, and money doesn't grow on tree. It takes hard work to survive living in America.
Omg…this story is so triggering. Sounds. Exactly. Like. My. MIL!!! She has a son and daughter in Laos as well, and expects us to send them money EVERY MONTH!!! And those ppl over there have NO MANNERS!! They call every month crying with a new sob story asking for money. My mil is old and senile, so she thinks it’s the end of the world if we don’t meet their needs. It’s gotten to the point where we just ignore their calls now. We have a family to raise, bills to pay and we don’t live lavishly. There’s no such thing as a free lunch.
I'm tired of my first cousin back in lao too. When they call me ask 4 1k up.
Go to the mirror and watch your face then you see yourself manner.
@@vajthajyeeb712 I look in the mirror all the time. And I absolutely LOVE the way I look. But people in another country who I will probably never meet, is definitely NOT at the top of my priority list. Everyone was born with 2 hands and 2 feet. We all have a responsibility to raise our own family. Which is why I choose to raise mine. You do you 🤷♀️
Cov menyuam txheej tshiab no qia2 dub thiab yeej tsis txawj sib hlub, yug coob2 los yeej ua yeeb ncuab xwb, txhob vam txog lawv tej kev hlub thiaj tsis tu tu siab os
It's so very obvious that she is feeling guilty for leaving her son and daughter behind in Laos, especially knowing that life in the USA is better. She overcompensates and sends whatever finances she can to Laos.
She can feel guilty all she wants but it isn't her younger children's responsibility to financially support her older children (AND their families). When she tries to make it the younger siblings' responsibility, there's going to be resentment amongst ALL the siblings.
Tus niam tsev aws, yeej yog tim koj lawm os.
P.S. Why the heck are Hmoob people paying 100K for a funeral?!?
I agree. She can help her kids all she wants but she shouldn’t make her kids help the others. They should help willingly. If not, then she do it herself.
I agree...they feel guilty for leaving those 2 behind.
Wow!!!!
Kom koj cov menyuam Txhob hlub2 lawv ob tug hlob seb lawv ho xav li cas mas!!!
Kom lawv ho muab tig es lawv yog cov nyob tim ub es ob tug hlob ho yog ob tug nyob tim no seb lawv puas xav tau kev hlub kev pab maj!
Yog Lwm leej Lwm tua ces Kavliam mas tiamsis twb yog neb roj ntsha ne!
Smh 🤦♀️
I have to agree with her USA kids. I invite all of you who agree with her to go that country to see for yourself. People over there are not poor any more. They have US dollars in cash more than I have ever dreamed of in my life
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These people that bashing the kids, has never set foot in that country of Laos.
Them people there nowadays spend dollar bill more than they own kips. If they have relatives like the two brother and sister here, they live like kings and queens. Want a house, get a free house built from the ground up, want a car, get a free car with one command, want to have a baby, hospital bill is paid for, want a wife, bride price flies in clang clang clang.
Mé thaub aw ! raws li peb cov tuaj mloog koj zaj no ces yeej yog tim koj txojkev hlub 9 pluag tsis sib luag, 8 pluaj tsis sib nte koj thiaj li tau txais txojkev lwj siab, leej twg hais rau koj tias yug me nyuam los yuam kev ? koj ua niam yos tus ua yuam kev nkaus xwb.
Sounds like my disabled dad right now. Couldnt help us kids with anything but expects us to send money every month to his sister and her grown kids. Always guilt tripping us and gets mad and cursing us when we say no.
Koj ua niam koj tsis hlub kom sib paug koj thiaj tau kev tu siab.
Those kids are so ungrateful and greedy. they treat their brother and sister overseas like they are not their blood. They are the lucky ones but they have no love for their family members who got left behind.
Ungrateful children. How sad
Agree the kid in here usa very selfish n greedy
No body understands the shoes those US kids wears. They probably has their share of helped out all of those years and during the funeral and afterwards.
Yus niam yus txiv ces tus twg txom nyem dua ces lawv yeej yuav pab tus ntawv dua. Yus ib pab nus muag yuav tau txhob siab me. Good story. Thank you.
Some Kids Don’t Love A Good Mom & Some Mom Don’t Love A Good Kids! But, This Mom Love Her Kids!! She Help Buy A Car For Every Kid!!
That’s Love More Than Anything! Now That I’m In A Dark Place, My Mama Acts Like I’m Dead; In The Gutter! Sometimes, Love Yourself … Don’t Expect No One To Love You! People Love You When They Want!!
Niam Tais Koj cov tub cov Ntxais yeej hais yog lawm cov Nyob Tim nplog tsis muaj nuj nqis them tiag ne cov nyob tim no muaj nuj nqi them laiv Koj ua tsis yog lawm ne
They are all your kids. I understand that as a mother, you love them all equally but in reality, the ones in Laos, you can’t love them equally. Love them a little less. You can’t make them your priority because they are poor. Your kids in USA struggle just the same. I do kind of a agree with your middle son in this too because everything you say, you include them but when it comes to money. You want to exclude them out. To be real, It’s not fair to the ones in US.
So you don't love your kids equally? Let's say 1 is a millionaire and 1 is paycheck to paycheck.
She did love her children equally but she help her two older children in laos doesn't mean that stop loving to younger children in USA. The problems are that middle son is too jealousy....he want it for all to himself.
Doesn't matter where they live, as a parent I will help the one in need more.
@@vangxwb : That's just silly. Even if one is richer and more successful than the other, it's not their job or responsibility to constantly pay for the other's bills and fund them. They have hands and feet and if healthy and strong should put in the effort to help themselves too. Lots of Hmong-Laos are just lazy.
I agree with the kids. If I had a poor sibling that i had to spend a lifetime financially helping and being their bank account I would be pissed off too. I want my sibling to be independent and be able to support themselves at some point. This is a toxic life. I've Seen people who support siblings in laos and go on to support their nieces and nephews there because no matter what the majority who lives in laos will ALWAYS be poor because the country is broken. Thats why its a 3rd world country.
It's not that bad over there now that the country has some time to recover from the war. They now have opportunities too. May not be as much as we have in the US but many can live comfortably or get by as according to their own standard of living over there. Over there, if you have land, a home, crops and farm animals, you are considered as Middle Class. A lot of them are richer than a lot of Hmong-Meekas. They have even bigger and newly built houses and nicer cars, servants, even more lands but without the constant bills and taxes. At their New Year, everyone dress up just as nice as over here. They even have carnival rides. Some Hmong-plog are just as fat as the ones in the US. Just that some of them don't use and invest their money wisely- like into businesses, education and a trade skillset.
Koj cov me nyuam nyob meskas lawv tsis txawj xav os.
nco ntsoov tias cov nyob tim nplog txawm yog kwv yog tij yog nkauj muam nraug nus koom ib plab kiag los lawv tua tau yus no xwb mas. hlub lawv thiab los txhob xa tag nrog yus lub neej khwv nyiaj mus yug lawv
Dag dhau o feem coob hmoob me kas yeej hais lus thuam thiab saib g tau hmoob nplog plaws raws li kuv saib lo mus txhob hais li ko g yog lawm
I feel that it’s your kids, you have every right to love everyone. Your kids here in America are selfish, siab me me. They have kids of their own too, one day they will get 10 folds of what they did to you. Kuv niam kuv kij tseg tau peb tus niam laus nyob rau lub teb chaws nplog. Peb niam hais tias nws tsis tshua pab cov tiv vim lawv nyob deb2 lawv yuav tsis tau nrog peb cov nyob twb chaws no tus peb niam tab sis peb hais rau peb niam hais tias peb nyob lub tev chaws vam meej, kuv muaj hauj lwm zoo ua peb tsis txom nyem es kom peb niam kavtsij pab peb cov niam laus. Peb kuj pab lawv thiab. Xyoo no peb tos tau peb ib tug niam laus tuaj, peb zoo siab. Peb tsis muaj nus tabsis peb cov viv ncaus kuj is tau ib rooj mov ua kev zoo siab txhais tos peb tus niam laus. Peb tsis muaj qhov yuav khib txog hais tias peb niam hlub ib tug tshaj.
What she is saying is that: she knows all her kids r struggling but in the US they can provide for themselves and has opportunity.. where her other two kids live in a poor country and they will not have the opportunity or resources to be rich .. unless they become video vixen and scam others 🤷♀️😂
Oh, overseas they have plenty of ways to earn, they just don’t, when they know they have a welfare system over here calls relatives. I know it first hand.
In Laos.... they have it a lot easier than here in America. They don't have thousands in bills. And there are opportunities to earn a living. I've been to Laos....most of the ones that have American relatives that sends them money like this grandma. Are pretty well off....she said she bought cars for all her kids. The middle brother said....the siblings in Laos had homes and more land then the ones here in America.....mom's teaching her kids how to wait and rely on the kids and relatives here in America. Where they can teach them how to support themselves. Open up a shop....start a business. Come on now...they bought them a 12,000 used car.
Mom's a bank to the laos family but not the us.
As parents, we love all our children equally. At least, that's how I am. She may have a point why she loves her two oldest more, but the fact is,they are in a third world, and they are poor. She care for them because they are simply poorer. Her other children forget that their whole life they had both their parents love!! Day in, day out, they got their parents to help them!! To me, they are selfish. Simply selfish
I agree!
Cov neeg siab phem los mas....! Tiag22 lawv tseem yuav nrog lawv niam thiab txiv hlub 2 tug txom nyem...
I am not sure you heard the story correctly but any how go visit that country you will know what the US kids are up about
@@lubsiabzooyang2806 ua cas koj yuav hais mob lawv ua luaj os po phim koj lub npe os
They aren’t poor over in Laos. Over there they lives like kings and queens. It’s not 1975 anymore, y’all. They wake up when they want to and work or don’t work as they want to. No bills, no worries. If they make some money, they stack it away.
If they have relatives in America, it’s a welfare system. Y’all hmoob miskas needs to update your minds about them. Their iPhones are probably newer than yours.
You need to step over there to learn they facts.
All these kids they give birth to them, but they have their own hearts, and they can't never love one another due to their greed even though they are blood brothers and sister, sad but it's true.
This is what's called "spoiled " kids. These kids are all pretty lucky to have patents that buy them cars and help them down their houses. I wish my parents were able to do that for all my 10 siblings... sheesh...guess these kids don't love and respect their parents - they want everything equal...
It's understandable if they all weren't siblings, but c'mon...those are your siblings who are definitely less fortunate. There are many events we've done that I don't force the younger siblings who aren't well off yet to pay...these siblings in America should be more compassionate and empathize with the parents. I mean, the money being sent to the other 2 siblings are out of the parents pockets only....
Koj cov me nyuam yog ib co tsis txawj xav xwb os mog
Kids nowadays don't have love for nobody except for themselves.
Exactly...ungrateful
Tsis txawj sib hlub li cov menyuam
cov kwv tij tsis txawj sib hlub
The kids are not wrong though. I see their point of view. In Laos right now, they are not poor anymore like 20 years ago. Look at Win and other celebrities…they are well off and lived better then us too. They cash their car house and land versus us in debt for life. So we need to stop helping them too.
I have a sister In law and brother in law came to stay with us for 3 years. We take them to work everyday and provide for them and the last months before they left back home, they went and did Xa and got a lot of money and didn’t even give us any. Idc about me but her mom at least. Left home with thousands money. Until today, I never send money back if they ask for help. 😅sorry but not sorry too.
Exactly. It's exactly what I've always been saying. Hmong Americans think Hmong Americans are rich but Hmong Americans don't see that all Hmong Americans have is just a job. The house and cars belong to the bank. The job... you don't know when you'll get layoff. But Hmong Lao, they don't have a good job but they have hectares of farmland, not a great house but a house still and the land the house is on, hectares of rubber tree farms, fish ponds, rice paddies, cars and mopeds, cows, etc. Mostly importantly, they're all paid for. No Hmong American has all these things and paid for but most Hmong Lao do. The only reason Hmong Americans seem to have more money is because of the exchange rate with $1 equals 18,000 kip, $100 will get you 1,800,000 kip. If not for this, Hmong American will be much poorer than Hmong Lao because as I've said, Hmong Lao own so much more than Hmong American.
I went to Laos 10 years ago. Back then, most of them live in straw houses. Today, it's rare to see straw house. Laos has progress a lot in the last 10 years while the US is stagnated and in some cases, even worst then 10 years ago. When you're at the bottom, the only way to go is up. But when you're already at the top, the only way to go is down. Many Hmong Lao are richer and wealthier than Hmong Americans. More Hmong Lao can cash a $50k Toyota Tundra than Hmong Americans.
Hmong Lao, like all people from poor countries, plan to come to the US, make a lot of money then go back a rich man/woman. Hmong Lao come here, stay with relataives for a year, pay zero bills not even for food and gas, saves $50k+ in just 1 year, go back to Laos to buy land, house, rice paddies, cars... then they are set. With little to no bills in Laos, they then live better than Hmong Americans. What is sad is they don't remember who helped them. When you remind them it's you who helped them, they will even ntxub and get mad at you.
@@bvang8370 I totally agree with you!! We Hmong Americans are suffering. We need to stop bringing these people here and later they’ don’t appreciate us and down talk us. We just need to stop. I don’t know how but I hope one day we stop. Cuz I don’t want this for my kids when I am gone.
i take side with the kids n usa on certain points. i am sure parents favored kidz n laos out of guilt. u can only hold back for so long.
Yeej yog li koj cov tub hais thiab vim tim ub tim no los yog tub yog ntxhais neb twb hlub cov tiv dua cov tim no ces nuj nqis los yog nyiaj yuav tau faib sib luag thiaj ncaj ncees hos lawv haj yam muaj nyiaj tshaj peb cov tim no hos
Ab...Cas cov nus muag tebchaws no ho xam khib txog 2 tug poob qab. Ob tug tiv txomnyem dua twb tsimnyog pab rau 2 tug txom2 nyem na
Sounds like the parents weren’t fair. Sounds like she neglected the ones in the usa because they can take care of themself. Its not about money its the neglect. Its the parents fault that the siblings dont love each other. The kids can be less selfish but the parents can be less neglectful and favoring. Yug coob coob hlub tsis txhua ces txhob yug coob coob, thaum tsis txawm sib hlub, ces yus yog tus tu siab. Tabsi yog tim yus tsis txawj qhia tsis txawj coj. Too me sounds like an OG who doesn’t know her fault.
Wow... all of these fortunate kids don't really know to love their siblings at all. I don't know why there is so much Jealousy. If you give, just give out of your heart and love out of your heart. I'm sure as a mother, you want to be able to give to all your kids and wish that the two from laos were able to come to the USA. I'm sure the two from Loas would give if they were living in America too. Loving overseas, it is very poor country. When there's too much jealousy, there will never be any love.
I feel very sorry for these parents and kids. This is why I refuse to have a lot of kids. Never depend on your kids for anything. I know because we are in the same situation and I just say do my part, whoever doesn't want to do their part, just let it be.
Lam yug tau coob, tsis txawj sib hlub, ces zoo kiag li zaj story no. Tu siab tshaj, txhob hlub hlub tej menyuam tag tag thiab os nawb.
Koj cov me nyuam hais yog lawm nawbcas nej yuav hlub hmoob nplog ua luaj lau..
😢😢😢 nrog koj tus siab heev li os! Yog koj ywg tag nrho es koj lub siab tsis kheev tias koj tsis tau hlub ob tug poob tom qab li raws siab xav.
tshob cia tus loj ev2 tus yau os thaum lawv loj lawv tsis tsawj hlub tus loj
Phem th zoo los peb yug los koom ib plab lawm yuav tsum sib hlub os txhob siab me2 ma
Koj cov tub cov ntxhai lm hais yog lm Koj Txhim tub siab rau lm os peb lo kuj xav li lm thiab nawv
I wonder if this mom is sending all her money to her two kids in Laos because they are poor, and she pities them. I'm curious why all her children are angry with her. I need to hear the children side
Yeej yog li koj cov me nyuam hais lawm thiab ov.
No sibling love at all. You help one another without expecting anything in return. Expectations will always lead to disappointment.
Bas ham khaub hkuas
It's call bad parenting
I always tell my kids, I rather that they love each other than me. I will be very disappointed if they don’t love each other.
Tiam no ces zoo rau cov tsis muaj me nyuam xwb os
Cov mi nyuam no qias neeg thiab khib xuab dhau lawm. Ob tug tim ub los yeej yog lawd cov beother thiab sisters. Lawd ua cuag li niam yug rau lwm tus txiv. Kuv yog tus niam no los Kuv yuav hlub sib npaug zos yuav tsis cais vim tib qho nyias nyob nyias ib lub Yeng aws. Nyob Kuv twb chaws twg los puav leej yog yus yig tag nrho. Ib tug nyob tim nplog yog ob tug txom nyem dua ob tug tsis tau zoo li cov nyob tim no. Tus niam tais, yeej meem hlub ob tug tim ub, txhob cais vim cov tim no txwv2 Koj. Yeej meem ua Koj txoj hauj lwm ua ib leej niam Koj tau yog nkawd tso tseg rau tim ub lawm.
Niam tais pog Laus Aw koj Cov Nyob Nplog yeej muaj Nyiaj kawg Os koj muab hlub Dhau Lawm ob Tug Nyob Nplog kuv mloog mas koj Tus Tub nrab hais Yog lawm Vim koj Ua Niam pheej Haus ob Tug Nyob Sab Nplog xwb
Literally in the same boat as the kids in US right now. At first it was never an issue. Even helped chipped in money every time. But does become an issue when your in-law/parents send money over bi-weekly over $200 + each time and especially when they don’t pay for any bills. When you ask for help in regard of money-like a loan to buy a home, car, or start a business they reject and said they don’t have money yet gas-light you into chipping in money to send over to Laos to support the other sibling house, car, and so called business. Yet, no business was made nor home was never bought b/c they rather use the money to go vacay, eat good, hired workers to do their crop for the year because their too tired. 😤
I agree. That's what some stupid Hmong-Meekas don't get before they start pointing finger and calling others names and accusing "selfish". It's not because you don't want to help. It's because once you help, they overseas have no manners and the constant entitlement begins. It's not just a few needed items here and there anymore. They begin to demand for luxury items and the requests get bigger and bigger each time. Plus as you said, they don't invest those money coming in wisely but squander it on unnecessary things. And if they don't get exactly what they want anymore, they begin cursing and trying to do mean things- witchcraft, voodoo, even criminal activities like sending over drugs just to cause havoc for the ones over here.
Too much jealousy from the siblings in America. The two are not equal. As a parent you love all but the ones that struggle you will help them more which is still fair.
Yeap… and only the parents will know that they love them all the same. Her kids in America , gets them (their parents) everyday for 25-30 + years, where as the 2 in Laos only got their parents for 16 yrs. 😢
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It’s their choice to not come
Koj tus neej tsa hais yog lawm
Teach your kids to be successful, not to be greed!
It’s sad and unfortunate that her children in the USA don’t love their siblings. They don’t realize that because they are here in the USA with their parents, their siblings are like orphans living in a 3rd world country. If anything, the siblings here in the USA should help them out. I know that everything the overseas siblings have is provided by their parents only.
Nrog koj tu siab os niam tais. Koj cov menyuam tim no tsis txawj hlub lawv tus tij laug thiab tus muam hlob. Lawv tsis nco qab txog hais tias lawv tau tuaj nyob lub teb chaw vam meej es lawv khwv tau noj tau haus. Yog lawv yog cov poob tim ub los lawm yeej ntshaw kev paj cuam los ntawm niam thiab txiv thiab cov yaus. Lawv tsis txawj xav thiab tsis ua siab loj vim lawv tsis tau raug kev txom nyem.
Thov kom ib hnub twg lawv yuav txawj thim xav es txawj hlub lawv ob tug hlob tim ub. Muab xa hais tias lawv twb hlub tau cov tsis koom ib plab ces ob tig tim ub, lawv yuav tsum hlub
This story only from the mom side, I would love to hear from the sons side of the story
Nov ces koj Tab Tom Coj koj pab me Nyuam tuaj rhuav rau Neeg Ntiaj teb paub Tshaj Thaum koj Coj Lawv mus hais rau Neeg Nyob ze Koj Tshaj lawm thiab Os
Zaum no ces Yog koj pab me Nyuam ntawm ko hnov ces Lawv haj Yam tsis nug txog koj lawm Os
Pog laus aw thaum pub mloog mas zoo li yog cov me nyuam phem tab sis mloog mus mloog los ces Tim koj ua niam nkaus xwb os tsis tsim nyob koj yuav ua luaj li ko rau nkawv Tim ub thiab koj yuav tsum paub txog tias cov me nyuam tiam no tsis zoo li koj tiam lawm nawb koj cov lus ces mloog ces npau taws rau koj xwb os txhob nkhaus nkhaus tsam koj tsis tau chaw nyob xwb os
Cov me nyuam zoo li ko ces hlub tau li cas los yuav li ntawd xwb siab phem tshaj plaws yuav npam lawv rau lub neej tom ntej lawv cov mam tsim los pauj rau qhov lawv ua rau koj hnub no os tus niam tais lub ntuj yeej muaj qhov muag kawg
I think koj cov kids nyob teb chaws meka tsis txawj xav li os.
Yug coob coob ces noj qab los tsis txaus, nhav zoo los tsis txhua. Kev hlub los faib tsis txhua kev noj los faib tsis txhua es tej minyuam tu tu siab mas
Ob tug tim ub yeej txom nyem dua tiag, koj yeej hlub ob tug tim ub dua mas, tab sis cov tim no ho noj seem noj so, txawm yog kuv los ntshe yuav ua li koj thiab. Cov tim no yuav tau ua siab loj me ntsis.
I believe your kids here in the USA are right too lady
Tsis yog tuaj qhuab qhia koj tab sis tej zaum thaum koj cov me nyuam tim no tseem yau Koj tsis qhia lawv kom hlub ob tug tiv, koj tos lawv loj loj lawm ces koj ho kom lawv pab ces lawv thiaj cem koj. Ib qho tej zaum Koj yeej hlub ob tug tiv tshaj li koj hais thiab koj tus neej tsa hais ces cov me nyuam tim no thiaj tsis txawj xav thiab thiaj ua tau li ntawv rau koj. Tus txom nyem thiab tus mloog lus yeej raug tsim txom dua.
Ib pab kwv tij nu muag tsi txawj sib hlub ca ho sib khib li nej na pab me nyuam no tsi txawj xav....
Yg txawj xav mas geem yuav tos nkawv tuaj nrog nej nyb ma peb nplog no ce yeej txom2 nyem tiag2 hos
In this situation youre at fault. You force too much on your kids in Laos. My grandma she send all her ssi money to her kids in Lao. Always talkinh about them, so i understand your kids' situation koj coj tsis yog lawm tiag..this is why they react like that too. Lao ppl are not poor. They're make act poor but they're rich...
Your sons in America is not wrong. We are not rich in America
Koj tus neej tsa hais yog lawm. Tej no yog koj ua rau koj xwb txhob muab lub txim rau tej menyuam.
Pog laus aw, koj tsis yuV foom, foom li os tim koj xwb
The kids in America feels entitled and forgot to love others. They let their jealousy get in the way. The older siblings live in a poor country so of course they’re going to be poor and be dependent on others. As a parents, we can’t watch our children suffer. This is very sad.
Lawv nyob tiv lawm txom2 nyem lawv tsus muaj chaw khwv lawv twb Yog yus cov brother sister kiag twb tsim nyog yus nrog niam txiv hlub lawv thiab so sad
Ntuj aw...tu niam tais aw cas kj cov me nyuam tsi txawj sib hlub li o nkim zog kj pus tuaj nyob 6 me kas xwb o cas thaum i kj tsi muab nchuav nram naj khoos xwb os
Tai aw koj cov me nyuam nyob mes Kas siab me zog lawm os
I actually agree with the siblings on this one. Yes the older brothers and sil are in a third world country BUT they can hustle and earn $ as well. People in Laos just take and take. I tell my parents the same thing….
Kids in US were right….
I bet she always sending money oversea and always saying that her US kids gets it easy and hardly help her out. Dhuav qhov niam pheej hlub xa nyiaj tag li tamsi lub dag zog ces yog cov tim no, yog koj xav 500 tim ub koj yuav tsum muab ub leeg 500 tim nov. Ces cov laus yog hlub ib tug tshaj ces TXHOB YUG coob2.
I agree. Hmong-Laos do take advantage. Many now have more land, better houses and newer cars than Hmong-Meekas. Plus they don't even work or garden anymore. They even have servants like my MIL's relatives. Instead of investing in businesses, education, skill- set or something that can continue generating a flow of money coming in, they squander it, sit and wait for monthly paycheck and demand more when needed. They have no bills or taxes either.
@@monkeybanana9269 Hmong mekas are Hmong Laos banks to withdraw $$
@@monkeybanana9269 yep! They can afford to build a house from ground up and new cars. I myself can’t even afford it. 😂
Cov yaus nyob teb chaw vam meej e siab me ua luaj ma tsi txawj sib hlub li lawv yog cov coob na
Zoo siab qhov yu niam yu txiv ho yug tau yug coob leej e ua dab tsis los teb chaw thiaj lis qhua xwb ma yog lawv tsis txawj xav xwb os tu me niam tai koj txhob tu siab mog lwm hnub lawv cov mam lis tsim lawv os
Niam tais tej zaum koj ueej muab ob tug tiv hlub dhau heev lawm cov nyob tim no thiaj chim o
I must somewhat agree with your kids here in the US but I do disagree with some of the harsh words they use on you, your husband and your kids in Laos. The way I see it, if you can't help just say you can't help and if the parents can let them but remind them to leave some for themselves, too, because we each have our own debts and kids to pay and care for.
Doesn't matter who's the favorite child. At the end of the day, that's still your siblings. YOUR older brother and sister. So I don't get why they're being so greedy. If it was my brother and sister, I would help. Smh If anything, it makes you love them more.
I bet it’s just your pretty words here. When it’s your reality, your words wouldn’t be such pretty ones. I’m sure you don’t have anyone over in laos to be the welfare system for.
We don't know their financial situation.
I would help but I would have to draw my boundaries. I don't think I would dish out 5-10k to help my siblings in laos though. That's a huge ask when I'm struggling myself.
Agree 💯
Yep! Here or in the US if you know your sibling cannot afford to help then don’t feel some type of way towards them.
Love your space needle picture, May!
Niam tais pab koj tus siab os ib leej niam yeej hlub ntxhua tu mi nyuam kuv to taub li ntawv .
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Tsis ntev no ces koj cov meyuam nyob mekas no twb yuab npam os lawb taeem yuab txom nyem tshaj on tus tim nplog os.
I would have to agree with the kids. Kids can only do so much too. Hmong Americans are just as unstable as the overseas ppl. The only diff is that Hmong American have bi-weekly checks and that doesn’t mean they’re rich. USD money is worth a lot there and they can do soo much vs here. The mom need to be understanding too.
The parents need to back away a little bit too, I could see why the kids are they way they are. Its a sticky situation.
tu niam tai aw koj yuam kev loj tsi koj yug menyuam yuam kev os yog koj hlub menyuam yuam kev xwb os koj cov tub cov tub cov ntxhai nrog koj teb chaw meka no lawv hai yog lawm nawb cov lu koj tu tub hai ntawm yog lawm koj yeej hlub lawv tsi ncaj ncee lawm
tus me niam tsev txhob tu siab os mog. koj cov tub cov ntxhais lawv twb muaj lawv cov uas lawv yug thb. lawv ua li cas rau koj ces lwm hnub lawv cov yuav ua li ntawv rau lawv thb
Yug coob dhau lawm tsis ntshaw jwv tij viv ncaus lawm. Thiab yeej yog neeg tsis txawj xav.