Queen Val my dear. No apologies. The pain of losing a mother never goes away; it only lessens with each day. You will have those moments. I lost my mother 36 years ago; I still have those moments when I tear up when I hear her favorite song or see someone in the store who resembles her. Your TH-cam Kings and Queens are praying for you and your entire family. Love you, Miss P in NY
I understand sis. It hits you in the oddest moments. You can be standing in the grocery store and tears will began to flow. Grief has no timing. Just let it happen. I promise you will learn to maneuver through life but of course it will never be the same. God has you in his trusting arms. It hurts I know, I really do. 🙏🏽
You don't have to say sorry for your tears. You are gonna have those moments. Let it happen. You miss your mom and we totally understand. Here's a virtual hug from me to you. My mom has been gone since 2014 and I still have those moments. Love the decor.
Yes Queen, those triggers will hit you when you least expect it. My son passed 8 yrs ago and his room is untouched. I keep it neat and clean. When my heart is ready, me and his twin sister will do what needs to be done. But I’m not ready yet….. Let them tears flow Queen. We love you. 💜
While you were involved with your mom's arrangements, you showed a Christmas video from the pass. Everything was so lit, shining, bright, beautiful, and the warmth of your home came out through the video. Val, I cried! I cried! It reminded me how my mom cleaned and decorated our home for Christmas just like you did. Christmas was her favorite season. And right now, I'm crying with you. My mom pasted away 26 years ago 8 days before Christmas...and I am 73 years old now. All I'm saying you will have these moments. You have my condolences. May God continued to bless you, dad, and your family. Love. 💔❤ M's. Deborah 🙏
Hello from Boston Praying for you friend. I understand what you're going through I buried my mom last year December 2024 and I find myself picking up the phone to call her and then realize that she's not here. So we're going to have those emotional days it will come out of nowhere. and they say it won't get easier but it'll get bearable. You may hear a song that reminds you of your mom. See someone that reminds you of your mom smell something that reminds you of your mom. I thank God for my family and friends It's hard. And grieve the way you want to grieve and as long as you need to grieve, there's no time limit on it I'm praying for you Friend🙏🏾♥️
God love you Val. First year is the worst. It’s all still very raw. Grieve sweet lady this too will pass but precious memories will stay in your heart. Dining room look gorgeous. Thanks for sharing. See you next time. 🤓🇬🇧❣️
You’re so welcome Val. You have been so strong through all of this. God is now letting you take time to grieve. Grieving is healing. So happy you have a wonderful man to help you get through the days ahead. Your “special someone” , your dad, your brother and your children are so blessed to have you in their lives. Thank you for letting us into your life to care and share❤ Miss P
It’s ok to cry this is your mother my mom gained her wings 24 years ago and I still cry for-my mother and still really miss her so much and so will everyone ❤ who has had A wonderful mom !
Sweetheart, it's OK. Take your time. You will be on a roller coaster of emotions for a while. I started watching you right after I lost my daughter in 2021. You doin good Val❤❤❤❤
Hello Valerie. You and your entire family are Lifted up in my prayers. Honey you don’t have to apologize or say anything to that effect. This type of pain doesn’t magically go away. For those of us who have stood where you are standing knows that. God will continue to cover you and renew your strength. Your home is beautiful .🙏🏽
Hey sis. Enjoyed the video. I completely understand about the emotional part. My Mom passed November. Still do knew. I just threw the flowers I got from her ceremony 3 days ago. I got emotional too. But you will still have them moments. I do always. I cry from time to time always. I have her as my screensaver on my phone and I find myself saying hi to her. We only have one Momma. And we all grieve differently and at different times is what I’m learning. Give yourself some grace sis. It will never go away. We just learn to live with it❤
Val you are going through the normal process of grief. Yes, my mama has been gone since 1997 the first few years are hard but it does get better in time. God bless you. He has you in His hands❤
❤ wall rack. for the wine looks great. 😢 it's okay to be emotional about getting rid of the flowers you know it's expected Human Nature you got this queen❤💋🙏🏾👼🏾🙌🏾
It's ok Val,the flowers are gone, but mom's there in spirit...Healing takes time..give yourself time..The grace of God be with you...🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼SENDING YOU A BIG HUG..❤❤❤❤
Hey Val! Everything looks beautiful. And it’s okay, are going to have those moments. You don’t have to explain, we definitely understand. 🫶🏾 Love you girl! 🤍
That is because it’s final 😢 and it’s okay to feel the way your feeling, your a very strong women Val. When my mother passed in 2012 I was a mess i really felt like an orphan 😢 but you will go through this now and even a years later ! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Val I feel you truly I do my MOM been gone for 11 years & I'm still grieving it took me 10yrs 2visit her grave site so be easy on yourself it takes time ❤ 21:10
Val, my dear. " only time and tears take away grief; that's what they're for. When it's all said and done, grief's the price we pay for love. 💓....your dinning room, is looking beautiful.👌🏼.... Thanks for sharing.💞🤗
Just know that I’m here for you if you need to talk about anything and shoulder to cry on I’m here for you queen how do you say your crown 👑 may tilt but it damn show won’t fall
😊 happy Friday queen val i love thewineholde4s on the wall its different how you mix gold and silver together uts goid to see you smile have a great weekend 😊
😢😂 I am crying with you Val it is so hard.I lost my Da last October and even just today I broke down I miss talking to him so much on the phone I'm giving you a hug.
Hey val, How you and the family doing? I felt for you when you was bussy with the flowers. You keep holding the one from the table. There you got me 😢 i saw youre face for a moment and i think my sissy. Ive been here for a while and you take us along with you. This feel like a family moment. Hold on my sister❤we here for youre support.. Hugs from the netherlands
Val, it’s ok for him to see you cry. Just tell him it’s because you miss your mom. Kids need to know it’s ok to show emotions when you are hurt or sad.
It's okay sweetness it's going to go and come your emotions won't get no better for the will get easier when you cry you are cleansing yourself and healing praying for your queen just give it to God 🙏❤
It hurts me to see you cry but I know your pain is real. Val I hope God comforts you in this of mourning and sorrow. Your yt family is stretching all our arms out to give you the biggest virtual hug ❤❤❤
It's OK, MY BEAUTIFUL BLACK QUEEN. It will take time for you to heal so my baby sister, go ahead and CRY. It's a big part of heath healing ~ YOU ARE BORN STRONG, BUILT TOUGH, STRONGER THAN YOU THINK AND MADE WITH LOVE ~
Yes raise the canvas up a lil...the clear candle vase holder is gorgeous. Where did u get it from? I like the crown on da plate and the napkin ring beautiful❤ like yo pretty nails...u did a awesome refresh everything is classy glam gorgeous tfs enjoyed the content. Have a YAHWEH Blessed Nite❤🎉😊🙌🏾👼🏾🙏🏾💋💜👸🏾😴
I am so sorry because I feel you my mom passed December twenty eighth and I feel every emotion you feel. They say this to shall pass ,but I don’t want it to pass 😢❤my heart hurts. Love you and your family Vale
Hi Val, I’ve been watching you for a little bit now and for some reason I feel we got a connection now now that your mom passed and my mom passed a year ago November 15 and the same way and you know just made me relive it all over again not that I left, but you know I was saying you heard I know you’re feeling in the pain you’re going through because we definitely went through the same situation with each. You know what make your mom and my mom so I wish I could meet you one of these days and we could have a long long talk and be able to share each other moment you know the good memories as well as the bad love you keep your head up. It’s gonna be hard but get ease up a little bit but most part we end for a long ride together
Val im so sorry I know how hard it is I lost my mom 20 years ago and she was still young but I have happy tears but sad ones some times..had val have you every thought of buying a bartesian I would look good in your apartment on a small bar cart
You cry it take time to heal and I know you may not want to cry in front of Andre but sometime or other it will come out let it especially when the kids start crying for grandma and sometimes you may get mad at your boo. it hit me hard when my mom passed and we had to go clear out everything in her apartment me and my sister kinda fell out but we made up.Your was flowers mind was when I tried calling my mom phone
Hey Val ,I know how you feeling about Momma B , my mom's Birthday was yesterday and she been passed in 2018 but It's feels bad to me until this day. You only gets 1 mother and 1 Dad.😢😢😢
Hi Val, I’ve been watching you for a little bit now and for some reason I feel we got a connection now now that your mom passed and my mom passed a year ago November 15 and the same way and you know just made me relive it all over again not that I left, but you know I was saying you heard I know you’re feeling in the pain you’re going through because we definitely went through the same situation with each. You know what make your mom and my mom so I wish I could meet you one of these days and we could have a long long talk and be able to share each other moment you know the good memories as well as the bad love you keep your head up. It’s gonna be hard but get ease up a little bit but most part we end for a long ride together
Hey Val ,I know how you feeling about Momma B , my mom's Birthday was yesterday and she been passed in 2018 but It's feels bad to me until this day. You only gets 1 mother and 1 Dad.😢😢😢
Queen Val my dear. No apologies. The pain of losing a mother never goes away; it only lessens with each day. You will have those moments. I lost my mother 36 years ago; I still have those moments when I tear up when I hear her favorite song or see someone in the store who resembles her. Your TH-cam Kings and Queens are praying for you and your entire family. Love you, Miss P in NY
Thank you for the kind words, Miss P. I appreciate the love and support.
I understand sis. It hits you in the oddest moments. You can be standing in the grocery store and tears will began to flow. Grief has no timing. Just let it happen. I promise you will learn to maneuver through life but of course it will never be the same. God has you in his trusting arms. It hurts I know, I really do. 🙏🏽
You don't have to say sorry for your tears. You are gonna have those moments. Let it happen. You miss your mom and we totally understand. Here's a virtual hug from me to you. My mom has been gone since 2014 and I still have those moments. Love the decor.
I no I commented last night but I want you to see this put 2 of ur moms roses 🌹 in a picture frame
Yes Queen, those triggers will hit you when you least expect it. My son passed 8 yrs ago and his room is untouched. I keep it neat and clean. When my heart is ready, me and his twin sister will do what needs to be done. But I’m not ready yet….. Let them tears flow Queen. We love you. 💜
While you were involved with your mom's arrangements, you showed a Christmas video from the pass. Everything was so lit, shining, bright, beautiful, and the warmth of your home came out through the video. Val, I cried! I cried! It reminded me how my mom cleaned and decorated our home for Christmas just like you did. Christmas was her favorite season. And right now, I'm crying with you. My mom pasted away 26 years ago 8 days before Christmas...and I am 73 years old now. All I'm saying you will have these moments. You have my condolences. May God continued to bless you, dad, and your family. Love. 💔❤ M's. Deborah 🙏
Hello from Boston Praying for you friend. I understand what you're going through I buried my mom last year December 2024 and I find myself picking up the phone to call her and then realize that she's not here. So we're going to have those emotional days it will come out of nowhere. and they say it won't get easier but it'll get bearable. You may hear a song that reminds you of your mom. See someone that reminds you of your mom smell something that reminds you of your mom. I thank God for my family and friends It's hard. And grieve the way you want to grieve and as long as you need to grieve, there's no time limit on it I'm praying for you Friend🙏🏾♥️
God love you Val. First year is the worst. It’s all still very raw. Grieve sweet lady this too will pass but precious memories will stay in your heart. Dining room look gorgeous. Thanks for sharing. See you next time. 🤓🇬🇧❣️
You’re so welcome Val. You have been so strong through all of this. God is now letting you take time to grieve. Grieving is healing. So happy you have a wonderful man to help you get through the days ahead. Your “special someone” , your dad, your brother and your children are so blessed to have you in their lives. Thank you for letting us into your life to care and share❤
Miss P
I like your place mats
You can save some of the memorial roses and let them dry out and add to pretty bowl.
It’s ok to cry this is your mother my mom gained her wings 24 years ago and I still cry for-my mother and still really miss her so much and so will everyone ❤ who has had A wonderful mom !
Sweetheart, it's OK. Take your time. You will be on a roller coaster of emotions for a while. I started watching you right after I lost my daughter in 2021. You doin good Val❤❤❤❤
Prayers to you as well 🙏🏽
Hello Valerie. You and your entire family are Lifted up in my prayers. Honey you don’t have to apologize or say anything to that effect. This type of pain doesn’t magically go away. For those of us who have stood where you are standing knows that. God will continue to cover you and renew your strength. Your home is beautiful .🙏🏽
Hey sis. Enjoyed the video. I completely understand about the emotional part. My Mom passed November. Still do knew. I just threw the flowers I got from her ceremony 3 days ago. I got emotional too. But you will still have them moments. I do always. I cry from time to time always. I have her as my screensaver on my phone and I find myself saying hi to her. We only have one Momma. And we all grieve differently and at different times is what I’m learning. Give yourself some grace sis. It will never go away. We just learn to live with it❤
Val you are going through the normal process of grief. Yes, my mama has been gone since 1997 the first few years are hard but it does get better in time. God bless you. He has you in His hands❤
Love the dining room. Never be ashame to let your emotions show.
❤ wall rack. for the wine looks great. 😢 it's okay to be emotional about getting rid of the flowers you know it's expected Human Nature you got this queen❤💋🙏🏾👼🏾🙌🏾
It's ok Val,the flowers are gone, but mom's there in spirit...Healing takes time..give yourself time..The grace of God be with you...🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼SENDING YOU A BIG HUG..❤❤❤❤
Hey Val! Everything looks beautiful. And it’s okay, are going to have those moments. You don’t have to explain, we definitely understand. 🫶🏾 Love you girl! 🤍
That is because it’s final 😢 and it’s okay to feel the way your feeling, your a very strong women Val. When my mother passed in 2012 I was a mess i really felt like an orphan 😢 but you will go through this now and even a years later ! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Your dining room is beautiful. I will continue to lift you and your family in my prayers.
Thank you so much, I appreciate the prayers!
Val I feel you truly I do my MOM been gone for 11 years & I'm still grieving it took me 10yrs 2visit her grave site so be easy on yourself it takes time ❤ 21:10
Val, my dear. " only time and tears take away grief; that's what they're for. When it's all said and done, grief's the price we pay for love. 💓....your dinning room, is looking beautiful.👌🏼.... Thanks for sharing.💞🤗
Awesome job Val Blessings GOD is with you 👏🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🥰🥰
Remember Our Crown 👑 may Tilt…..But it Damn Sho Won’t Fall❤❤❤❤❤
🎉 Hey Val your son is a cutie ,God bless you all 🎉
Just know that I’m here for you if you need to talk about anything and shoulder to cry on I’m here for you queen how do you say your crown 👑 may tilt but it damn show won’t fall
My dear grief is a process. I pray for your strength each day and healing. Those moments will come. Much Grace 🙏💚🌺♥️
Thank you so much for your kind words. 🙏
When you want to cry do so better to get it out then hold it in you are strong and awesome God bless❤
Hey Val Your Dining Room Is Beautiful. I Like The Wine Racks. Blessings To You And Your Family.
That's beautiful Valerie take your time with healing. Sending love and prayers 🙏
😊 happy Friday queen val i love thewineholde4s on the wall its different how you mix gold and silver together uts goid to see you smile have a great weekend 😊
Love your dining room my continued prayers go out to you and your family 🙏🏾❤️
Looks beautiful Val. Nice to see Andre, too.
❤❤❤ and strength also Big Hugs 🤗 I’m sending your way Sister Val. Take your time, praying 🙏🏾 for you ❤ love you Sis❤
I really like the browns and grays/silver and cream with pops of gold. Nice!
Thanks, I was going for a warm, cozy vibe! 😊
Everthing looks fabulous.
It’s okay to cry God got you. Wine wall looks nice, dining room table looks gorgeous love it🌹
Val maybe start the wine holders at the same height as the door next to it
😢😂 I am crying with you Val it is so hard.I lost my Da last October and even just today I broke down I miss talking to him so much on the phone I'm giving you a hug.
❤I feel your pain, I lost my mom and son. Praying for you. You have me crying
Hey val,
How you and the family doing?
I felt for you when you was bussy with the flowers.
You keep holding the one from the table. There you got me 😢 i saw youre face for a moment and i think my sissy. Ive been here for a while and you take us along with you.
This feel like a family moment.
Hold on my sister❤we here for youre support..
Hugs from the netherlands
Hello 👋🏾 and thank you so much for your support and 💕. I really appreciate it. 😌
And that way you’ll still have some item from your mom sister flowers meant so much to you
Val it's OK Waves of emotions will come but remember that you are not alone Jesus will never leave you or forsake you❤❤❤
As always beautiful decor!
Everything looks nice I like
Val, it’s ok for him to see you cry. Just tell him it’s because you miss your mom. Kids need to know it’s ok to show emotions when you are hurt or sad.
It's ok Val were here for you.❤️🌹
Happy Friday baby girl beautiful home you got this baby love you ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thanks so much, I appreciate the love! 🥰
It’s okay!!! Grieve as long as it takes!!! Save the flowers 💐 for potpourri!!!
❤️🩹❤ 🙏🏾🙏🏾God Bless Queen Val.
Looking good, little sis 😍 😘 the wine 🍷 wall is going to be the bomb 💣 wish I could come over for a glass of wine 🍷 ❤❤❤ love you guys 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜
Hi Queen! Looks so cozy and. Pretty. ❤❤❤❤❤❤ Take care and Tfs
DINING ROOM IS BEAUTIFUL,SENDING YOU AND THE FAMILY PRAYERS,PEACE AND BLESSING❤❤❤❤❤
You decorate it very nice.. nice with a Val touch❤😊
Thank you! 😊
Everything looks great!!
Praying for you 🙏🏽
Thank you so much! 🙏🏽
Hello❤ from a older white women in D C who loves your channel😊
😊🥰 hello Queen 👋🏾
Continued prayers for your strength 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Love your dining room and all your decorating designs🫶🏽
Sending you love hugs and prayers 🙏🙏🙏
It's okay sweetness it's going to go and come your emotions won't get no better for the will get easier when you cry you are cleansing yourself and healing praying for your queen just give it to God 🙏❤
Heyyy Beautiful Queen!.....
I had to pause the video and cry with U!😪
Take care, Queen, I know this pain all so well!🙏🏽🫶🏽
Take your time,my mom been gone 4 years and it still hurts..praying for your strength.
Hey Family❤. Dining room looks nice!.
Thank you so much! I'm glad you like it.
Im sorry I didnt get to complete my comment but just remember God's Got You
We love you Val. 💕🙏💕
And I love you all 🥰
It hurts me to see you cry but I know your pain is real. Val I hope God comforts you in this of mourning and sorrow. Your yt family is stretching all our arms out to give you the biggest virtual hug ❤❤❤
Hope I’m not too late but I saved some of my father’s roses and put them in a small box and placed it in my closet.
It's OK, MY BEAUTIFUL BLACK QUEEN. It will take time for you to heal so my baby sister, go ahead
and CRY. It's a big part of heath healing ~ YOU ARE BORN STRONG, BUILT TOUGH, STRONGER THAN YOU THINK AND MADE WITH LOVE ~
Yes raise the canvas up a lil...the clear candle vase holder is gorgeous. Where did u get it from? I like the crown on da plate and the napkin ring beautiful❤ like yo pretty nails...u did a awesome refresh everything is classy glam gorgeous tfs enjoyed the content. Have a YAHWEH Blessed Nite❤🎉😊🙌🏾👼🏾🙏🏾💋💜👸🏾😴
Yes, Momma is gone. But, she'll never leave your heart. May God give you peace. 💕🙏💕
👍🙏🏿🙏🏿💗💗 queen your home looks like something out of a magazine simply stunning.😊😊😊
Hi Val bless you pretty dining room you always come through with it keep pressing
I am so sorry because I feel you my mom passed December twenty eighth and I feel every emotion you feel. They say this to shall pass ,but I don’t want it to pass 😢❤my heart hurts. Love you and your family Vale
Love the wine rack idea.
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🎉hey queen c u in good spirits❤u bac wit another 1 fo us👍😂lol u know betta Andre...da tiktok ok 😅👍
Love it
Beautiful
Thanks! 😊
Queen maybe you can take some of the petals and press them into the Bible scripture you dug from one of your subscribers if it’s not too late❤️❤️❤️👑
There’s no time limit on grieving.
Hi Queen I love your background music who's the artist.
Val I’m here
Hi Val, I’ve been watching you for a little bit now and for some reason I feel we got a connection now now that your mom passed and my mom passed a year ago November 15 and the same way and you know just made me relive it all over again not that I left, but you know I was saying you heard I know you’re feeling in the pain you’re going through because we definitely went through the same situation with each. You know what make your mom and my mom so I wish I could meet you one of these days and we could have a long long talk and be able to share each other moment you know the good memories as well as the bad love you keep your head up. It’s gonna be hard but get ease up a little bit but most part we end for a long ride together
I wish I could just hug you 😢
👍🏽
Val im so sorry I know how hard it is I lost my mom 20 years ago and she was still young but I have happy tears but sad ones some times..had val have you every thought of buying a bartesian I would look good in your apartment on a small bar cart
I'm continuing to pray for you it's not easy at all It will be four years I February that my daughter has been gone she passed the day
👍🏾🤗🌿🍀⚘️
You cry it take time to heal and I know you may not want to cry in front of Andre but sometime or other it will come out let it especially when the kids start crying for grandma and sometimes you may get mad at your boo. it hit me hard when my mom passed and we had to go clear out everything in her apartment me and my sister kinda fell out but we made up.Your was flowers mind was when I tried calling my mom phone
I’m so sorry sweetheart 🙏🏽♥️🙏🏽♥️.
Hey Val ,I know how you feeling about Momma B , my mom's Birthday was yesterday and she been passed in 2018 but It's feels bad to me until this day. You only gets 1 mother and 1 Dad.😢😢😢
🫶🏾🤎🫂
I want you to not throw at least three of them away your mom’s flowers put them in a frame
Hi Val, I’ve been watching you for a little bit now and for some reason I feel we got a connection now now that your mom passed and my mom passed a year ago November 15 and the same way and you know just made me relive it all over again not that I left, but you know I was saying you heard I know you’re feeling in the pain you’re going through because we definitely went through the same situation with each. You know what make your mom and my mom so I wish I could meet you one of these days and we could have a long long talk and be able to share each other moment you know the good memories as well as the bad love you keep your head up. It’s gonna be hard but get ease up a little bit but most part we end for a long ride together
Thank you for sharing your story and for the support. 💕
Hey Val ,I know how you feeling about Momma B , my mom's Birthday was yesterday and she been passed in 2018 but It's feels bad to me until this day. You only gets 1 mother and 1 Dad.😢😢😢