I have 3 siblings. I’m sure I’ll be making majority of decisions during my parents end of life care. You can still feel and be an only child with siblings 🤷🏻♀️
@@asimskentzos9231 True. It makes me think of that line “sometimes I’m lonely but never alone” I don’t know how it feels first hand what it’s like to be an only child.
I was a one and done. I always said that I never wanted kids at all, but things changed. I had my son at 29. Now that he's 18 and I'm dealing with health issues I do wish that I would have had at least one more. I'm so worried about him being alone in life.
@@madreep I understand your concern but just tell him to make great friends who will be there during difficult times, it’s also important to note that having a sibling doesn’t equal to being close as one can always end up being lonely even with bunch of siblings. Wish you all the best in getting better ❤️🩹 💕💕
I’m 1 and done, I wasn’t ready to be but life decided for me. I have life long chronic pain and fatigue illness and the child I have is autistic/PDA/ADHD and severe anxiety and takes all my time and energy. I love him to death, but it’s hard work and not fair to bring another child into the mix.
I'm in my mid forties and transgender. So, if I want to have a child, I would prefer to just have one child because of finances, no sibling rivalry as adults, and basic care need costs. I would rather adopt a preteen or early teen instead of birthing out a child to be honest, because I still fear pregnancy scares during pregnancy (especially if I got pregnant and was abandoned and then later on, having a miscarriage). However, if my partner and I are solid, will take care of us, then it is worth it to be pregnant and give birth at least once.
Are you not aware of childcare cost? Do you know children can make friends? Adults can make friends..Maybe it’s a cultural thing but in some places, close friends are the same as family.
Huh? I have 10 siblings. I’m one and done with my son. He has sooo many aunts, uncles, and cousins. Several sets of grandparents too. I also have several friends and siblings who all gave birth around the same year I gave birth. He’s growing up alongside them. Oh, and the possibility of fostering kids in the future is still there. But I will likely never give birth again.
Excellent conversation ‼️. My goodness the three ladies dropped entertaining pearls of wisdom today 🌟💜🌟
I have 3 siblings. I’m sure I’ll be making majority of decisions during my parents end of life care.
You can still feel and be an only child with siblings 🤷🏻♀️
you will really never know how that feels though.
@@asimskentzos9231
True.
It makes me think of that line “sometimes I’m lonely but never alone”
I don’t know how it feels first hand what it’s like to be an only child.
One and done is fantastic! 💯👌
I was a one and done. I always said that I never wanted kids at all, but things changed. I had my son at 29. Now that he's 18 and I'm dealing with health issues I do wish that I would have had at least one more. I'm so worried about him being alone in life.
@@madreep I understand your concern but just tell him to make great friends who will be there during difficult times, it’s also important to note that having a sibling doesn’t equal to being close as one can always end up being lonely even with bunch of siblings. Wish you all the best in getting better ❤️🩹 💕💕
Frankly how people even have the one is a wonder all on its own.
I don't see how ppl have the time or money for multiple kids. Lol
Fr are they all rich?😭
I’m 1 and done, I wasn’t ready to be but life decided for me. I have life long chronic pain and fatigue illness and the child I have is autistic/PDA/ADHD and severe anxiety and takes all my time and energy. I love him to death, but it’s hard work and not fair to bring another child into the mix.
I'm in my mid forties and transgender. So, if I want to have a child, I would prefer to just have one child because of finances, no sibling rivalry as adults, and basic care need costs. I would rather adopt a preteen or early teen instead of birthing out a child to be honest, because I still fear pregnancy scares during pregnancy (especially if I got pregnant and was abandoned and then later on, having a miscarriage). However, if my partner and I are solid, will take care of us, then it is worth it to be pregnant and give birth at least once.
canada is a great nation
Do whatever you need to do but rememeber , by having one your childs children will have zero aunts, uncles or cousins.
Are you not aware of childcare cost? Do you know children can make friends? Adults can make friends..Maybe it’s a cultural thing but in some places, close friends are the same as family.
Huh? I have 10 siblings. I’m one and done with my son. He has sooo many aunts, uncles, and cousins. Several sets of grandparents too. I also have several friends and siblings who all gave birth around the same year I gave birth. He’s growing up alongside them.
Oh, and the possibility of fostering kids in the future is still there. But I will likely never give birth again.
@@NotSoEntertaining.I’m not sure why people think they can’t have fulfilling relationships outside of blood. It makes no sense.
Because they only remember the sad stories and they want to make you miserable as they are with 1+ children 😂
Not everyone can afford to have mutiple kids do you even know that? 😂