I overdosed on heroin and as a result, lost both of my legs above the knees. I was in the hospital for nearly three months. When I was released and on the way home, this was the first song I heard on the radio and I immediately broke down. I’ve been sober ever since. 2 years 5 months. Stay strong, everyone! You got this!
My father has been using what seems like my entire life, we left him, and now im left to recover from my parents mistakes, paired with being newly single, I feel like im crumbling and breaking down every day.
I've overdosed 3 time was pernounced dead once I've never told any one till now. But my dumbass still keeps goin back I still can't stop..started at 11 I'm 40 now glad u were able to over come it..
Going to rehab tomorrow on the road of recovery no more cocaine I'm kicking this addiction time to reclaim my life. Thank you for being so supportive of my journey through my recovery. I am proud to say that I have been clean for 14 months! If you’re struggling with addiction just know their is a solution and recovery is possible. Stay blessed! Update* I relapsed back in July last year starting smoking meth and fentanyl went back to treatment then relapsed again and was on the streets for 5 months but I have just alittle over 90 days coming up on 4 months here in the next couple of weeks
My friend died today. He was only 43. This was his favorite song. God bless him as he leaves this cruel world to a better place. I hope he’s at peace...
@@felicianafullmer8552 I know you do. Just thought I would tell you since I to have lost friends that I will always believe for them because they know I would anyway. It's tough l know and I know, you know. Just keep believing in then and don't forget to keep believing he appreciates it and he knows you would regardless if he wanted it or not.. Just know I'm glad we met. You are a rare person and friend these days. Not many will honor their friends and family when they leave this world and us behind. It makes you question the meaning of things and why you are part of it.. Your friend is proud of you and this is the reason he picked you to be friends with. He knew you were the real deal.
My friends parents died his dad well I don’t want to say it but he left a little early and his mom died of corona now he is with his big sis and small sis he is the same age as me 16 I think maybe a year older by a few months I went to see his mom at the funeral and when they took her to the grave I couldn’t get off the car I had really bad allergies and I don’t think he saw me and I feel as he thinks I didn’t care showing up or couldn’t or just wasn’t there idk if he hates me or not and idk where he lives now without parents I know with an aunt but I’m scared to think well to see what he thinks of me, does he hate me I hope not I wanted to invite him over but can’t because of corona. I hope I can find him this summer
I've never been a drug addict but as someone who suffers with mental Illness it hits hard when he says everything going to be fine something I've told myself over and over
Same man, same. Never done drugs myself, except drinking, and there are times where it does make me feel better. But then there are times where it makes me think of bad decisions I have made in life with past love and what not. I already have a negative self image and can be hard on myself at times, so sometimes I have to keep telling myself "everything is gonna be fine".
@Steven Assanti how about Pantera, Nirvana, Alice in Chains, Pearl Jam, pretty much anything grunge, Slayer, Red Hot Chilli Peppers, I could go on.... and on.....oh yeah even Country wasn't too bad then either.
I agree. It touches the heart deeply. especially mine as I'm still trying to cope with certain things in a positive way which songs like this make that a little better since I struggle with mental illness
Brandon Ryce I found this song through a tribute to a man named Ricardo Lopez. He was plagued with mental illness, and ended up killing himself at the age of 21. He documented his final year of life. The song fit perfectly; since then, I've been in love with it. It's a funny thing, when you're sad, you want to listen to songs like this - they have the dual effect of speaking to you in some way, but also make you sadder. If you haven't already, I'd suggest listening to The Gift, also by Seether.
this is one of those tunes that helped me surpass my addiction to pain killers. helped me believe everythings going to be fine, one day. without my rock music, i know i would be 6 feet under by now. truly thankful for this song.
Man, it makes me happy reading all these comments of overcoming addiction and suicide. Just gives you an example of what music can really do. It really helps you out.
I've never been a drug addict, but I suffered being addicted to self-harm. I've relapsed a few times over the years, but I've been 6 years clean and this song hits in ways no other songs can. I know self-harm is so different than being addicted to drugs, but it's very difficult to overcome it. Bless this song.
I know this comment was a long time ago, but I hope you're doing okay. I'm here listening to this song now, and seeing someone who has had the same struggles who has managed to fight through it and stay clean really motivated me. I have been clean from self harm for about 4 months or so.
I agree.......if one does not have music......to listen.....learn....think.....it helps me everyday......this is my meditation.......... You are 100% spot on
@@hattmoffman90 i feel that shit man, i hope you dont, but if you do i get it, because I'm way past what anybody's breaking point should be, and thats really saying something considering i hung myself 2 years ago and was dead for almost 10 minutes, i should be gone or brain dead
Fell in love with this song when I first heard it in high-school, the best years of my life. Who would have thought I wouldn't truly understand its meaning until years later. Thank God songs like this exist. Sometimes it's like only the music gets you and let's you open up
Those of us that have gotten out of real deep drug addiction like crack, heroin and meth. No just how powerful this song is. It made me cry in relief.. I'm soooo ready for life now but two months ago I was soooo ready for a 45" !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! GOD BLESS SEETHER ! .
Sir I'm so glad you have allowed positve music to influence you to move forward in life. I will continue to pray you trust in the Lord for strength daily. EVERYTHING IS GONNA BE FINE...!!!! Love you bro!!! :)
Thanks for the incurgment and lift up. I really am so shocked that my 10 years of hard crack use has come to a end. My nightmare is finally over. And I have no way to explain how it happened. My detailed testimony would not do it justice..... So we'll just call it for what it is.. A gift from God !!!
Hell yeah!!! Grew up listening to it when I was becoming an adult and it helped me figure things out . I was emancipated at 16. This song helped me figure out that I needed to make choices to succeed I went to college ! I’d fly on the highway in my Jetta just thinking
Really underrated song. Never forget going through shit with my sobriety and this song got me through. Much props to Seether on putting together the perfect song. 💜
It's really complicated to explain what I'm going through. But it is really hard for me. But I'll be fine. My favorite saying is " Life is like a dick. When it gets hard fuck it. " that always makes me smile. And I also have people to help me too. But if I may ask why do u want to know my problems ? Lol
This was my song while rehabbing my dislocated knee in 2002/2003. Watching everyone else still able to do what I loved while I rehabbed on my own at 17. Very humbling experience at an early age and a period i will never forget. May 2003 I was fine.....again....
...was in the dark hell of my addiction when this came out, reminded me of the stupid rehabs telling me I'm fine after 30 fucking days. going on 8yrs clean now...there is hope
@@PressinPickle 350zs are for feminine pussies toking on ecigs who can't handle a real mans sports car hence the name fairlady z. Rehabs for people with REAL DRUG addiction LOOKING FOR HELP not pussies like you who can't put the damn bottle down long enough to go to Alcoholic Assholes Anonymous as part of your 2nd dui im sure your right around the corner from.
This song has described my messed up school days in detail for years, and probably these of millions of other people's live. God I love this song, even thought I hated myself listening to it back then. Eventually that person I was really died, I said goodbye to being weak long time ago.
4 years and counting battling addiction for many years... I think i finally got it this time. But this song was always there to let me cry during my shame.
this song reminds me of driving in the car with my mom. I remember she had a bunch of cds in the glove box and I always picked this one. This song brings back amazing memories that I had dug deep in that I’ve forgotten. I love this song and I’ll never stop listening to it.
I've been stuck on this song all day. Its so relate-able to many things. For me, like depression. When people say it will be fine one day...well, its been more than 10 years and I'm still fucked up. Still waiting for that one day.
I feel the same. I've had OCD for 10 years now. Ppl keep saying it will get better and I will get over it but I feel the same thing like when is that going to happen? I've been in therapy for over a year now. Some things have gotten better but it's still so so hard. I would advise you seek help though. Life is too short to be suffering.
Willow Fitzgerald alcohol's been my curse. heard this song on the way home from work today.. Hits spot on. liver is not right.. Can't sleep confused during the day. at an age now. where I could not think of taking a healthy liver from someone who really needs it after partying for 40 years.. guess it'll be my swan song when it gets bad enough.. Handful of Xanax and a bag of helium. night night..
im not gonna try to tell you to be happy im just a dude u dont know but life is a up and down emotional Rollercoaster homie just do what makes u happy life to depressing to be stressing all the time u could drink a beer like me haha good luck random person
I've never done drugs or been an alcoholic, but I know the pain of feeling like the help promised is going to come too little to late. I suffer because of life of hardships and mental abuse. The resulting depression has made normal life nearly impossible and made the world look at me like I'm no good. I still fight tooth and nail even though I'm screaming for help inside.
People Put in your search bar on TH-cam. Fine again Seether Fine Again Military Tribute. Then this song will make more sense. Soldiers standing at the corner of a big building. I was in the 82nd AIRBORNE and this song I played over and over It Helped 😮
I love this song. I haven't listened to seether in a while maybe a year and a half? But, this is a good song to drink to. I love it. Alcohol does great things brings you back to the music ya used to listen to.
This song has a Melancholy vibe to it. But it speaks to the suffering that I've went through and can relate to, like some kind of recognition of the pain inside, telling me that i'm not alone in my suffering, transforming that pain into something beautiful, sad Songs to a heavy Heart, a Spirit that longs is soothed by Art
Been clean off heroin for 1 year and 8 months quit drinking 2 months ago have been complete sober since it’s very hard on me getting fucked up is all I’ve known for over half my life 13 years I’ve abused drugs alcohol I’ve been trying to find a way to make this easier but the struggle is real I honestly feel a relapse coming but I’m trying to stay strong music always seems to make me understand the way I’m feeling and this is it to a T
This song helped me get past and live with my demons after I left the Army. I wouldn't wish what I experienced on anyone especially a 19 year old kid like I was. Then at 22 I considered myself dead or at least the person I was. This song helped me find that kid again.
My Dad was in army also at 19 and was a POW in Germany. He never got help or told my mom or us anything until he was in his 70s... I wish he did not suffer all those years. I hope you will realize you are not alone in any struggle you may face. I understand completely how things we experience change who we are and our perspective on life. I am here for you! Ann
This is my favorite song of all time i love the musical and guitar aspects of it but i also love the lyrics they are so relatable especially when i have depression thank you Seether, very cool
Alot of my friends recently have been making bad decisions, like sadly suicide and cutting I've been listening to this everyday to try and remind myself itll get better, thank you sm seether u deserve so much more credit
the song is supposedly about someone killing them self after something big like someone dieing. the song touches on the 5 stages of grief. "they say it's over and I'm fine" means that people are telling him to get over the death of his loved one (s). and "why try to stay sober when I'm dieing here" means that hes try to fake being ok when he's not. "and I am aware now that everyone's gonna be fine" trying to convince himself he can die and escape. "and I'm not scared now" casting aside his final doubts about staying "I am prepared now" he is finally ready to leave the world. "and I am fine.... again..." he is in now starting a new happy life, though killing yourself isn't the solution and is not an escape.
+Chad Kirby Ive always related to it as a song about addiction. I mean, this song describes my life EXACTLY. the counselors tell u it fine again.. I try to stay sober.. feel like I'm dying. it's over when it's too late n u od! but, that's the great thing about music! it helps n reaches SO many ppl!
Never did drugs but was in an emotionally mentally abusive relationship and still somehow relate... ig after a while the toxic thoughts become its own addiction assuming you actually don't go back to the one who broke you to begin with and try to heal all will be fine and then one thing reminds you and you're back in that cold dark place alone again with your own doubts... you worry if you're getting back into the same situation if you're the toxic one or if this time you're still overreacting then everything's fine
People ask me why I prefer music like this instead of other genres and I always answer them by saying this type of music has so much more meaning and makes much more sense to me. Either way I think this song is awesome, Seether himself is awesome.
Rock/metal isn't just guys yellin and getting angry like everyone thinks. Its about people who know the hurt, they know the pain and they write music to let others know that they're not alone in that struggle. They write this so we know that no one is alone in their endeavors and that we've all been to a point we never thought we'd come back from
The ending; I can't help like feeling it should be: "For me, for me, for myself / For me, for me, here in hell" I almost get a little upset when people say "Good on you, staying sober!" - When my reality is an endless well that I'm stuck in and can't feel real feelings...everything is just a towering beast of trauma, and I just feel sober for others; others that are waaay more fine then I'll probably ever be. Thanks for coming to my Ted-talk! -;P
@@averageamerican1236 Thanks for the care, but that's like the thing for me; I can't feel better *again* , since I felt this way before I started to drink too. I have done programs for sobriety, talk to psychologists, I'm on anti depressants and so on. It have Never felt right except when drunk and/or high, and I am certainly not trying to dismiss your comment or be some kind of edge-lord. It just is what it is.
6 years clean... I almost lost my life several times to my addiction, it cost me many things including my own liver but I eventually found my way from songs like this
This song helps me cope with my abuse a lot better. I'm in a better situation, but I feel sometimes as though people expect me to just automatically be better because I'm not in that situation anymore. It's been over a year and a half and I'm slowly getting better. Hang on, you can make it. You'll be fine again, and even if it's a day late, better late than never.
Fine again. Makes me think of a addition that want go away no matter what you do.. the simple hardest thing that is so small but keeps creeping in on you..
Man who would've guessed that I would end up relating to this song so much. I was jus a punk kid that smoked a lot of weed back when Madden 03 came out and featured this song. Hits way harder now that I'm a punk kid in a 33 yr old body that has struggled with heroin addiction for over decade. But I will prevail
I loved this song as a kid but never really understood its meaning, now as an adult with severe PTSD and depression i love it even more, it helps me alot
I was wondering what Madden this song was on. Used to play the sht out of that game in college! Playing seasons, making trades, passing out, etc. This damn song seemed like it was always on!! It's good though.
This song really makes me FEEL. I remember what it was like to be in active addiction and this song really takes me back. I was addicted to heroin and crack for YEARS but there is a better way. Celebrate recovery and na helped me, but God is the only one who can really save you. There is hope. I'm living the life of my dreams and i was homeless on the streets jyst a few years ago. He can transform your LIFE. TO ANYONE STILL SUFFERING... DON'T GIVE UP YOU CAN DO IT!
Terra Alvarado I've been struggling for 8 years now relapse again and again Treatment 6 times and Im so scared that I don't have another recovery in me and I'm so greatful to this song and others like it for helping me through the days were I can't do it on my own loving life again and still sober 94 days
The two that can kill you cold turkey. I had three seizures cold turkeying a Benzo 10 bars a day addiction and I honestly pray for you to do it right when you're ready. .The sooner the better. Cold turkey heroin too but that won't kill ya you'll just feel like you're dying. Those two will and its scary shit. 10 years clean. I guess not clean I do smoke my herb but don't touch other bullshit never was a drinker. But you gotta be ready and do it for your self. God bless
It seems like every day's the same And I'm left to discover on my own It seems like everything is gray And there's no color to behold They say it's over And I'm fine again, yeah Try to stay sober Feels like I'm dying here And I am aware now Of how everything's gonna be fine One day, too late, I'm in Hell I am prepared now Seems everyone's gonna be fine One day, too late, just as well I feel a dream in me expire And there's no one left to blame it on I hear you label me a liar 'Cause I can't seem to get this through You say it's over I can sigh again, yeah Why try to stay sober When I'm dyin' here? And I am aware now Of how everything's gonna be fine One day, too late, I'm in Hell I am prepared now Seems everyone's gonna be fine One day, too late, just as well And I'm not scared now I must assure you You're never gonna get away And I'm not scared now And I'm not scared now, no I am aware now Of how everything's gonna be fine One day, too late, I'm in hell I am prepared now Seems everyone's gonna be fine One day, too late, just as well I am prepared now Seems everything's gonna be fine For me, for me, for myself For me, for me, for myself For me, for me, for myself I am prepared now for myself I am prepared now and I am fine again
I knew it! You have no need for me or anyone else. I will live with the memories and move on with pleasure; knowing you are going to finish with what makes you the happiest. My health isn’t great and I will finish as I have planned. What an adventure huh? God bless us both.🙏
I LOVE Seether since the first time I heard them and I am really into their lyrics especially though they deliver the whole package with their great music . . . . .
This song was with me through my divorce. I lost a beautiful girl and a son behind my alcohol/meth addiction..but im proof that there is a light on the other side and i am fine again
Secondary drug of choice....the love of my life for over 20 year’s.I kicked the H and moving towards kicking the man who never appreciated me.Again...... Love and light to All overcoming AnY and ALL obstacles in their way😍😍😍
yes, one day it will really be too late and ill be in hell but ive prepared myself for years. It's difficult to stay positive when everyone tries to tear you down and u don't even feel like a person anymore.
Sending strength and love to all of you battling hard everyday! So hard to fight the demons day in and day out but we are prepared now for ourselves and everything's gonna be fine.
I hate it, but it’s got me. Heroin had me since I was 17 years old and I’m 41 now. I’m just amazed I’m still here. I also enjoy speedballs, fentanyl and crack at the same time.
Everyone's talking about getting over their addiction, but for me I just went through a break up with someone I loved very much. She's gotten back with me and then broken up with me for the 3rd time and it hurts. The lyrics "You say it's over, I can sigh again" are really speaking to me. This is only the second Seether song I've heard but I already love the band and their music. Thank you Seether, and everyone out there stay cool 💞💕💞
you know what's pretty fucked up ? this world. you make the stupidest mistakes knowing you're gonna have these dumb ass consequences. you gotta live you're life. I found myself in a depressed state of mind about a month ago. Dakota broke up with me shit happens you know , when you fall in love with someone after only a couple months ,its hard to get over them, finding out you're losing everything.. got in a wreck lost my job life is hell. its hard to stay sober. over and over again. you keep doing what you do best, I wish there was a way to get these dumb thoughts out of my head. that's the only way is not to stay sober. I wish someone would understand me. so much pain and hurt inside of me. not to minchion my brother passed away a couple weeks ago my life has gone down hill and no clue. all I can say is a bottle would be good right now
Astoria Jones Drugs and Alcohol are great ways to assist you, but they are not the true solution to your problem. You need to find things in your life that actually make you HAPPY. Things that full fill you and keep you inspired. Find your passion, if your depressed, there's a reason for it, it doesn't just come out of no where. You need to stop doing things that keep you down, and do things that keep you up. Stop putting yourself through shit that's painful, boring, exhausting, and uncomfortable. People get addicted to drugs and alcohol because they are trying to fill up their happiness gauge with small things that don't truly satisfy. Their like bandages that help a little bit, but don't actually cure the disease. Your trying to fill a void that can't be done, without feeling REAL emotions. What's more satisfying for example? Eating a really good meal to satisfy your hunger? Or to take pain meds to suppress your stomaches nerves? I think you know what it is, now apply that analogy to everything else in your life. And I know the negative thoughts you experience while your depressed are fucking terrible. But they are only more signs to your depression just like the pain. Don't take them to heart and believe in them. Just watch as they go by, and only take in the thoughts that really matter and help you. You know when good ideas come along, because of how they make you feel when you think of them. Stop ignoring the warnings, the anxiety and negative emotions are there for a reason. To keep your ass happy! If you don't want to do something, stop doing it! Your pretending to be happy when your not! Let your emotions guide you, and have some critical thinking to help support your decision making. And you will be happy. 😀 Good luck, and have an amazing life. ♥️
Astoria Jones I understand. I lost the love of my life that I have known for over 12 years to just see her with some other asshole. I lost all of my close uncles in a row. I have lost all my best friends due to bullshit. and I lost my baby. its hard to simply sugar coat something and go on with life its been over a year and everything feels like yesterday. why should we stay sober? I understand everything you mean and I hope you read this and do not feel alone may god be with you and have a good year.
I overdosed on heroin and as a result, lost both of my legs above the knees. I was in the hospital for nearly three months. When I was released and on the way home, this was the first song I heard on the radio and I immediately broke down. I’ve been sober ever since. 2 years 5 months. Stay strong, everyone! You got this!
i'm really sorry! i hope you're okay now
I'm sorry to hear that. Your story got me teary eyed. I'm almost 10 years clean. We got this my friend.
My father has been using what seems like my entire life, we left him, and now im left to recover from my parents mistakes, paired with being newly single, I feel like im crumbling and breaking down every day.
I've overdosed 3 time was pernounced dead once I've never told any one till now. But my dumbass still keeps goin back I still can't stop..started at 11 I'm 40 now glad u were able to over come it..
@@TweakoTheSecond qqa
Going to rehab tomorrow on the road of recovery no more cocaine I'm kicking this addiction time to reclaim my life. Thank you for being so supportive of my journey through my recovery. I am proud to say that I have been clean for 14 months! If you’re struggling with addiction just know their is a solution and recovery is possible. Stay blessed!
Update* I relapsed back in July last year starting smoking meth and fentanyl went back to treatment then relapsed again and was on the streets for 5 months but I have just alittle over 90 days coming up on 4 months here in the next couple of weeks
Good shit man, hope it goes well for you and you clean up
You got this
Hope your doing good
Support is all you have behind you
You got this!! I hope all's well now :)
My friend died today. He was only 43. This was his favorite song. God bless him as he leaves this cruel world to a better place. I hope he’s at peace...
Believe he is!!
@@620hickory aww thank you, I do. Gotta believe there’s something better than this life...
@@felicianafullmer8552 I know you do. Just thought I would tell you since I to have lost friends that I will always believe for them because they know I would anyway. It's tough l know and I know, you know. Just keep believing in then and don't forget to keep believing he appreciates it and he knows you would regardless if he wanted it or not.. Just know I'm glad we met. You are a rare person and friend these days. Not many will honor their friends and family when they leave this world and us behind. It makes you question the meaning of things and why you are part of it.. Your friend is proud of you and this is the reason he picked you to be friends with. He knew you were the real deal.
@@620hickory you are the sweetest. Thank you for touching my heart and giving me comfort in these dark times. Appreciate you.... 💖
My friends parents died his dad well I don’t want to say it but he left a little early and his mom died of corona now he is with his big sis and small sis he is the same age as me 16 I think maybe a year older by a few months I went to see his mom at the funeral and when they took her to the grave I couldn’t get off the car I had really bad allergies and I don’t think he saw me and I feel as he thinks I didn’t care showing up or couldn’t or just wasn’t there idk if he hates me or not and idk where he lives now without parents I know with an aunt but I’m scared to think well to see what he thinks of me, does he hate me I hope not I wanted to invite him over but can’t because of corona. I hope I can find him this summer
I've never been a drug addict but as someone who suffers with mental Illness it hits hard when he says everything going to be fine something I've told myself over and over
Many kinds of addictions some are substances some are people some are own negative thoughts
@@raerae886 WORD💯💯💯💯
Agree
It does hit hard especially when you have PTSD.
Same man, same. Never done drugs myself, except drinking, and there are times where it does make me feel better. But then there are times where it makes me think of bad decisions I have made in life with past love and what not. I already have a negative self image and can be hard on myself at times, so sometimes I have to keep telling myself "everything is gonna be fine".
90's babies were truly spoiled with music. we are so lucky and yet, nobody knows it.
@Steven Assanti how about Pantera, Nirvana, Alice in Chains, Pearl Jam, pretty much anything grunge, Slayer, Red Hot Chilli Peppers, I could go on.... and on.....oh yeah even Country wasn't too bad then either.
@Steven Assanti if that's what you know then you were hanging with the wrong people.
facts
Nirvana says it all
@@DciZNoble6
Please dude, don't even bother posting,if IQ is under 20! If not sure, just don't Do it;,,, Thank you
Such a powerful, melancholic song. The lyrics... The arrangement. Everything is fantastic. A fitting song to be paired with any troubled soul.
I agree. It touches the heart deeply. especially mine as I'm still trying to cope with certain things in a positive way which songs like this make that a little better since I struggle with mental illness
Brandon Ryce I found this song through a tribute to a man named Ricardo Lopez. He was plagued with mental illness, and ended up killing himself at the age of 21. He documented his final year of life. The song fit perfectly; since then, I've been in love with it. It's a funny thing, when you're sad, you want to listen to songs like this - they have the dual effect of speaking to you in some way, but also make you sadder. If you haven't already, I'd suggest listening to The Gift, also by Seether.
+DribbledBabble haha same here just watched his tribute video
DribbledBabble isn't that the guy who stalked Björk and tried to mail her a dirty bomb because he didn't like her boyfriend?
That's right. He was a very interesting guy. I'd suggest watching his video diary. Most of it is on TH-cam.
this is one of those tunes that helped me surpass my addiction to pain killers.
helped me believe everythings going to be fine, one day.
without my rock music, i know i would be 6 feet under by now.
truly thankful for this song.
You nailed it........I DIDNT LISTEN YO MUSIC .......FOR A LONG TIME........THIS .........MUSIC IS WHAT HOLDS ME TOGETHER....
Few years late here hoping you are still good!
Xo
Man, it makes me happy reading all these comments of overcoming addiction and suicide. Just gives you an example of what music can really do. It really helps you out.
I've never been a drug addict, but I suffered being addicted to self-harm. I've relapsed a few times over the years, but I've been 6 years clean and this song hits in ways no other songs can. I know self-harm is so different than being addicted to drugs, but it's very difficult to overcome it. Bless this song.
Hope all is well brother
Self harm is an addiction. It was my first addiction. It releases endorphins just like drugs
I struggle with that sometimes it's a hard battle to win at times. -Alyssa (A1) -
I know this comment was a long time ago, but I hope you're doing okay. I'm here listening to this song now, and seeing someone who has had the same struggles who has managed to fight through it and stay clean really motivated me. I have been clean from self harm for about 4 months or so.
Songs like these that have such powerful lyrics and pull people through hell don't hardly exist anymore.
I agree.......if one does not have music......to listen.....learn....think.....it helps me everyday......this is my meditation..........
You are 100% spot on
But, sadly enough, the hell still lurks in the shadows.
Madden 02 brought me here. It was my favorite song on the soundtrack. I’m an old black man
Been 28 months clean from heroin and this song is so damn true it is sickening. I love it.
Kyle Rumph keep going Kyle!
You got this Kyle, just find yourself again, trust me!!!!
Kyle Rumph Congrats and keep on the str8 and narrow
Ur already fine again its pure hell at first stay around the right people and make urself accountable to someone.
That's great Kyle. We are stronger than anything we come across or fall into.
This songs really helping me thru the tough times I'm currently facing , stay strong and keep pushing everybody . We got this !
My late husband sent me this song the day before he took his life at the age of 37. Rest In Peace James.....
I hope he and you are at peace....
Thinking about doing the same thing thing
@@hattmoffman90 No, Matt there is hope and you'll find your path eventually. You just have to keep on going
May James rest in a better place and you find your happiness again
@@hattmoffman90 i feel that shit man, i hope you dont, but if you do i get it, because I'm way past what anybody's breaking point should be, and thats really saying something considering i hung myself 2 years ago and was dead for almost 10 minutes, i should be gone or brain dead
Fell in love with this song when I first heard it in high-school, the best years of my life. Who would have thought I wouldn't truly understand its meaning until years later. Thank God songs like this exist. Sometimes it's like only the music gets you and let's you open up
Those of us that have gotten out of real deep drug addiction like crack, heroin and meth. No just how powerful this song is. It made me cry in relief.. I'm soooo ready for life now but two months ago I was soooo ready for a 45" !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! GOD BLESS SEETHER ! .
Sir I'm so glad you have allowed positve music to influence you to move forward in life. I will continue to pray you trust in the Lord for strength daily. EVERYTHING IS GONNA BE FINE...!!!! Love you bro!!! :)
Thanks for the incurgment and lift up. I really am so shocked that my 10 years of hard crack use has come to a end. My nightmare is finally over. And I have no way to explain how it happened. My detailed testimony would not do it justice..... So we'll just call it for what it is.. A gift from God !!!
This song does hit harder being a heroin addict. I just left detox just 3 days in and Im kicking myself in the ass for it
It’s now 2022. This song will always be one of my favorites. Thank you Seether!
Hell yeah!!! Grew up listening to it when I was becoming an adult and it helped me figure things out .
I was emancipated at 16. This song helped me figure out that I needed to make choices to succeed I went to college !
I’d fly on the highway in my Jetta just thinking
Really underrated song. Never forget going through shit with my sobriety and this song got me through. Much props to Seether on putting together the perfect song. 💜
I love this song!! It always helps me through hard times. Especially right now.
Keep your head up and never let them see you duck and run
Alyssa Faye Good luck. :)
Alyssa Faye What kind of hard times are you going trough, if I may ask?
6th You asked that which shall not be asked. Spoke that which shall not be spoken.
It's really complicated to explain what I'm going through. But it is really hard for me. But I'll be fine. My favorite saying is " Life is like a dick. When it gets hard fuck it. " that always makes me smile. And I also have people to help me too. But if I may ask why do u want to know my problems ? Lol
This was my song while rehabbing my dislocated knee in 2002/2003. Watching everyone else still able to do what I loved while I rehabbed on my own at 17. Very humbling experience at an early age and a period i will never forget. May 2003 I was fine.....again....
Addiction isn’t a weakness or moral failure , it’s an obstacle we all can overcome . ❤️ you are not alone , you are loved .
...was in the dark hell of my addiction when this came out, reminded me of the stupid rehabs telling me I'm fine after 30 fucking days. going on 8yrs clean now...there is hope
Deep! Good for you!!! Is it 11 years now?(:
Rehabs are for the mentally weak
Congrats good job staying clean!
@@PressinPickle 350zs are for feminine pussies toking on ecigs who can't handle a real mans sports car hence the name fairlady z. Rehabs for people with REAL DRUG addiction LOOKING FOR HELP not pussies like you who can't put the damn bottle down long enough to go to Alcoholic Assholes Anonymous as part of your 2nd dui im sure your right around the corner from.
Amy theirs cbd and thc dumb bitch!!
I love this song so much! Especially when he says “For me, for me, for myself” ❤️❤️ I get down to it all the time
This song has described my messed up school days in detail for years, and probably these of millions of other people's live. God I love this song, even thought I hated myself listening to it back then. Eventually that person I was really died, I said goodbye to being weak long time ago.
4 years and counting battling addiction for many years... I think i finally got it this time. But this song was always there to let me cry during my shame.
This was my song while getting clean from propane
lmao
Omfg lolololol
Haha 69 likes
Trevor Murray 👌
Oof
this song reminds me of driving in the car with my mom. I remember she had a bunch of cds in the glove box and I always picked this one. This song brings back amazing memories that I had dug deep in that I’ve forgotten. I love this song and I’ll never stop listening to it.
Honestly through and through this is one of my favorite songs from these guys
Whether from drunk to high to heartache... This song is meant for us all
I've been stuck on this song all day. Its so relate-able to many things. For me, like depression. When people say it will be fine one day...well, its been more than 10 years and I'm still fucked up. Still waiting for that one day.
I feel the same. I've had OCD for 10 years now. Ppl keep saying it will get better and I will get over it but I feel the same thing like when is that going to happen? I've been in therapy for over a year now. Some things have gotten better but it's still so so hard. I would advise you seek help though. Life is too short to be suffering.
Willow Fitzgerald
alcohol's been my curse. heard this song on the way home from work today.. Hits spot on. liver is not right.. Can't sleep confused during the day. at an age now. where I could not think of taking a healthy liver from someone who really needs it after partying for 40 years.. guess it'll be my swan song when it gets bad enough.. Handful of Xanax and a bag of helium. night night..
I have depression. People say everything will be fine, I've waited for 2 almost 3 years....for that one day to come.
+Vincent Bromley ive been waiting 6 years and still im fucked up
im not gonna try to tell you to be happy im just a dude u dont know but life is a up and down emotional Rollercoaster homie just do what makes u happy life to depressing to be stressing all the time u could drink a beer like me haha good luck random person
Iraq veteran this song helps me get through life when nightmares and flash backs hit hard
Thank you for fighting for us.....mean that..... hope you are still here
Your so strong brother, from the bottom of my heart thank you for your sacrifice for us all.. You have my utmost respect man.. Thank you truly
Thank you so much for your Sacrifice sir your a real honest to god hero. God bless you.
Thank you so very much for your service #malcomturner I wish you nothing but love and happiness.. keep fighting brother. Moment by moment.
I'm sorry, Sweetie. I hope you feel better. Thank you for your service.
I've never done drugs or been an alcoholic, but I know the pain of feeling like the help promised is going to come too little to late. I suffer because of life of hardships and mental abuse. The resulting depression has made normal life nearly impossible and made the world look at me like I'm no good. I still fight tooth and nail even though I'm screaming for help inside.
U got this brother u just gotta make it through today let tomm orow come wen it comes
Damn I feel ya
People Put in your search bar on TH-cam. Fine again Seether
Fine Again
Military Tribute. Then this song will make more sense. Soldiers standing at the corner of a big building. I was in the 82nd AIRBORNE and this song I played over and over
It Helped 😮
This song continues to heal me to this day.
I love this song. I haven't listened to seether in a while maybe a year and a half? But, this is a good song to drink to. I love it. Alcohol does great things brings you back to the music ya used to listen to.
This song has a Melancholy vibe to it. But it speaks to the suffering that I've went through and can relate to, like some kind of recognition of the pain inside, telling me that i'm not alone in my suffering, transforming that pain into something beautiful,
sad Songs to a heavy Heart,
a Spirit that longs is soothed by Art
Been clean off heroin for 1 year and 8 months quit drinking 2 months ago have been complete sober since it’s very hard on me getting fucked up is all I’ve known for over half my life 13 years I’ve abused drugs alcohol I’ve been trying to find a way to make this easier but the struggle is real I honestly feel a relapse coming but I’m trying to stay strong music always seems to make me understand the way I’m feeling and this is it to a T
This is one of my favorite songs being an addict and when I was at my worst. Every lyric fit my life.
Now is a great time to fall off the proverbial wagon 🎱💉💊🌡🧪⚗️🚬🎈
Listening to this while going to MEPS in the military. Got it memorized so good. I'll play it in my head when in boot camp for Marines.
This song helped me get past and live with my demons after I left the Army. I wouldn't wish what I experienced on anyone especially a 19 year old kid like I was. Then at 22 I considered myself dead or at least the person I was. This song helped me find that kid again.
Thank you for your service and sacrifice brother. God bless 🙌🏼
You're not dead, friend. You need to re-discover yourself and accept the scars. I'm sorry.
@@jacobc2756 what sacrifice? People need to realize military guys volunteer lol
My Dad was in army also at 19 and was a POW in Germany. He never got help or told my mom or us anything until he was in his 70s... I wish he did not suffer all those years. I hope you will realize you are not alone in any struggle you may face. I understand completely how things we experience change who we are and our perspective on life. I am here for you!
Ann
This is my favorite song of all time i love the musical and guitar aspects of it but i also love the lyrics they are so relatable especially when i have depression thank you Seether, very cool
Alot of my friends recently have been making bad decisions, like sadly suicide and cutting I've been listening to this everyday to try and remind myself itll get better, thank you sm seether u deserve so much more credit
There are a couple of songs in this world that touch my heart in a way I can't explain to anyone, and this is one of them
I feel the dream in me expire, and there's no one left to blame it on....some real shit right there.
Indeed...
Yup.
the song is supposedly about someone killing them self after something big like someone dieing. the song touches on the 5 stages of grief. "they say it's over and I'm fine" means that people are telling him to get over the death of his loved one (s). and "why try to stay sober when I'm dieing here" means that hes try to fake being ok when he's not. "and I am aware now that everyone's gonna be fine" trying to convince himself he can die and escape. "and I'm not scared now" casting aside his final doubts about staying "I am prepared now" he is finally ready to leave the world. "and I am fine.... again..." he is in now starting a new happy life, though killing yourself isn't the solution and is not an escape.
+Chad Kirby Ive always related to it as a song about addiction. I mean, this song describes my life EXACTLY. the counselors tell u it fine again.. I try to stay sober.. feel like I'm dying. it's over when it's too late n u od! but, that's the great thing about music! it helps n reaches SO many ppl!
+Chad Kirby "and I'm not scared now. I must assure u. ur NEVER gonna get away.
Never did drugs but was in an emotionally mentally abusive relationship and still somehow relate... ig after a while the toxic thoughts become its own addiction assuming you actually don't go back to the one who broke you to begin with and try to heal all will be fine and then one thing reminds you and you're back in that cold dark place alone again with your own doubts... you worry if you're getting back into the same situation if you're the toxic one or if this time you're still overreacting then everything's fine
I’ve got major depression and have struggling to stay away from heavy drugs and don’t know how much longer I’ve got. This song helps
I've forgotten how much I used to need this song. I'm about to remember again.
I love how music brings people closer together :)
This song is a constant reminder to me. For a life that can not be held rn. A love thats so deep and strong. Yet still can not be.
The acoustic version to this song is amazing!
I can play on both electric and acoustic :)
Darren Thackray
I'd like to hear :)
Desiree Marshall omg is that you in that pic? i think im in love
Desiree Marshall yes it is..its perfect
Desiree Marshall you’re so adorable!
People ask me why I prefer music like this instead of other genres and I always answer them by saying this type of music has so much more meaning and makes much more sense to me. Either way I think this song is awesome, Seether himself is awesome.
Rock/metal isn't just guys yellin and getting angry like everyone thinks. Its about people who know the hurt, they know the pain and they write music to let others know that they're not alone in that struggle. They write this so we know that no one is alone in their endeavors and that we've all been to a point we never thought we'd come back from
This has been my favorite song since 2009
WesleyAPEX - This song & “The Gift” get me through..
WesleyAPEX madden football. Blew this song up
WesleyAPEX Same
WesleyAPEX Damn straight
WesleyAPEX same here bro
The ending; I can't help like feeling it should be:
"For me, for me, for myself / For me, for me, here in hell"
I almost get a little upset when people say "Good on you, staying sober!" - When my reality is an endless well that I'm stuck in and can't feel real feelings...everything is just a towering beast of trauma, and I just feel sober for others; others that are waaay more fine then I'll probably ever be.
Thanks for coming to my Ted-talk! -;P
Hey no judgement but you should probably seek help. Thats a very sad way to see things. I hope you get to live for yourself again one day
@@averageamerican1236 Thanks for the care, but that's like the thing for me; I can't feel better *again* , since I felt this way before I started to drink too.
I have done programs for sobriety, talk to psychologists, I'm on anti depressants and so on.
It have Never felt right except when drunk and/or high, and I am certainly not trying to dismiss your comment or be some kind of edge-lord.
It just is what it is.
6 years clean... I almost lost my life several times to my addiction, it cost me many things including my own liver but I eventually found my way from songs like this
This song helps me cope with my abuse a lot better. I'm in a better situation, but I feel sometimes as though people expect me to just automatically be better because I'm not in that situation anymore. It's been over a year and a half and I'm slowly getting better. Hang on, you can make it. You'll be fine again, and even if it's a day late, better late than never.
Damn, how I miss my life in the 2000's. Music is 95% shit today just like everything else now.
Truer Words were never spoken before
1998-2008 man what a time to be alive ...
@@crimson1718 As much as everyone wants to revise history, 80's clearly is the most influential decade...
@@RetroMMA I don't know, I didn't exist back then.
@@crimson1718 And yet you surely must know about the remixes, games and TV shows that all point back to that better era...
Fine again. Makes me think of a addition that want go away no matter what you do.. the simple hardest thing that is so small but keeps creeping in on you..
Such an underrated song. Been one of my favorites for years.
2020?
"And I Am Prepared Now, Seems Everyone's Gonna Be Fine"
Hits hard!
@@scania774 reminds me of the dog in the house on fire meme, "This is fine"
One day too late
when you torture yourself with feels but its just such a damn good song.
this is literally me. I could continue on in a good mood...or I could listen to this
perfectly put
i wanted to like this but i already did shits to real of a statement
when you just need that to remember you still feel like that
Yes
Crazy how life can do that to you. I’ve heard this song a million times but just recently actually listened to the lyrics and fell in love with it.
SAME
Man who would've guessed that I would end up relating to this song so much. I was jus a punk kid that smoked a lot of weed back when Madden 03 came out and featured this song. Hits way harder now that I'm a punk kid in a 33 yr old body that has struggled with heroin addiction for over decade. But I will prevail
I loved this song as a kid but never really understood its meaning, now as an adult with severe PTSD and depression i love it even more, it helps me alot
"I feel the dream in me expire, and there's no one left to blame it on..." Jesus man...
Kudos for not blaming Trump or racism.👊
Hits hard after you've done things to be able to relate, doesn't it? Yeah.
The relevance & parallels hit hard
@rob dabank they're puppets not leaders. Visade of leadership& good intentions
Gay
Staying busy....with great tunes like this.....2 yrs. sober 8/12/2020🤘🏻
such an amazing song ♥
Shaun morgan has an amazing voice !!!
Madden 2003 baby! Got me into following a great band
1080 avalanche for me.
Me to bill
itunes! XD
Bill Cipher 1080!
I was wondering what Madden this song was on. Used to play the sht out of that game in college! Playing seasons, making trades, passing out, etc. This damn song seemed like it was always on!! It's good though.
This song really makes me FEEL. I remember what it was like to be in active addiction and this song really takes me back. I was addicted to heroin and crack for YEARS but there is a better way. Celebrate recovery and na helped me, but God is the only one who can really save you. There is hope. I'm living the life of my dreams and i was homeless on the streets jyst a few years ago. He can transform your LIFE. TO ANYONE STILL SUFFERING... DON'T GIVE UP YOU CAN DO IT!
Terra Alvarado I've been struggling for 8 years now relapse again and again Treatment 6 times and Im so scared that I don't have another recovery in me and I'm so greatful to this song and others like it for helping me through the days were I can't do it on my own loving life again and still sober 94 days
Terra Alvarado Victor topa mais músicas
Terra Alvarado Victor topa mais músicas
Terra Alvarado congrats
Not even a huge rock fan but I heard this song on madden back in the day and never forgot about it. Dope song!
Bro me too! I get in the comments and it’s all this drug addiction talk. I never got that out of the song.
this was my favorite song while getting clean off of meth
recovery is hell but worth it. 19 months clean from heroin crack and meth
you're a fuckin soldier!
one day at a time.
im gonna get off these engery drinks one of these days
lmao fuck off buddy! energy drinks are a joke
Hermosa canción no paro de escucharla, gracias Seether
Im an alcoholic and a benzo addict...im 31, never understood this song until now...
I'm a recovering benzo (among other drugs) addict. This was my song in 2013 during in patient rehab for 6 months. Good song
I'm a heroin benzo coke head alchaulic loser.... I hate life ... I'm So pathetic to say it on a TH-cam chat... Who cares .....
I’m going through some drinking shit and just being lonely. This song is the truth
The two that can kill you cold turkey. I had three seizures cold turkeying a Benzo 10 bars a day addiction and I honestly pray for you to do it right when you're ready. .The sooner the better. Cold turkey heroin too but that won't kill ya you'll just feel like you're dying. Those two will and its scary shit. 10 years clean. I guess not clean I do smoke my herb but don't touch other bullshit never was a drinker. But you gotta be ready and do it for your self. God bless
i feel you.
16 years clean I still ROCK this jam takes me back to the 90's out in NORTHERN CALI....💉
1080 Avalanche was my life when I was kid.
Shit gotta go replay it now.
Amen to that.
Ricky Winterborn op.
get dat mario board and you win
Rocket... best snowboard! :D
Yonturionshu nah, rocket is too hard to control, you'll crash and burn.
I had a quite easy time controlling it... It's only hard if you use the acceleration all the time if you ask me
this is like pouring salt on a wound. great fucking song.
it really is...
right dude
+Daniel Smith hahaha... I literally just listened to nutshell right before listening to this
the wound of a freshly ripped off scab
great song for fucking? :p
I'll have days where it just looms around in the back of my head, like some kind of mass of misery, and this song just brings it all out.
Not sure I'm gonna make through this. This song speaks to me
Sometimes after things happen, you can't just be fine again like how you use too.
The opening already pulls you into the song, letting you know to be fully aware of the emotions to come.
It seems like every day's the same
And I'm left to discover on my own
It seems like everything is gray
And there's no color to behold
They say it's over
And I'm fine again, yeah
Try to stay sober
Feels like I'm dying here
And I am aware now
Of how everything's gonna be fine
One day, too late, I'm in Hell
I am prepared now
Seems everyone's gonna be fine
One day, too late, just as well
I feel a dream in me expire
And there's no one left to blame it on
I hear you label me a liar
'Cause I can't seem to get this through
You say it's over
I can sigh again, yeah
Why try to stay sober
When I'm dyin' here?
And I am aware now
Of how everything's gonna be fine
One day, too late, I'm in Hell
I am prepared now
Seems everyone's gonna be fine
One day, too late, just as well
And I'm not scared now
I must assure you
You're never gonna get away
And I'm not scared now
And I'm not scared now, no
I am aware now
Of how everything's gonna be fine
One day, too late, I'm in hell
I am prepared now
Seems everyone's gonna be fine
One day, too late, just as well
I am prepared now
Seems everything's gonna be fine
For me, for me, for myself
For me, for me, for myself
For me, for me, for myself
I am prepared now for myself
I am prepared now and I am fine again
16 months clean from meth and the needle with 13 months of complete and continuous sobriety. This song has helped me through some tough times ❤
Now is a great time to fall off the proverbial wagon 🎱💉💊🌡🧪⚗️🚬🎈
Dam it I caught the feelings..... Being a widow sure changes the way you look at life.
I am sorry for your loss.
Best Seether Song ever.
I think broken(the version without amy lee is best) is better but a great song nontheless
I, personally, think the version with Amy Lee is even better than the other version.
Sean Taylor I peronaly think broken ft amy lee was the best
Driven Under
riot
Use me as an "I'm emotionally tired" button
That's kinda funny/shrug eh
I can’t do that to anyone
I knew it! You have no need for me or anyone else. I will live with the memories and move on with pleasure; knowing you are going to finish with what makes you the happiest. My health isn’t great and I will finish as I have planned. What an adventure huh? God bless us both.🙏
Most underrated band ever
Why try to stay sober
When I'm dying here?
Now is a great time to fall off the proverbial wagon 🎱💉💊🌡🧪⚗️🚬🎈
I LOVE Seether since the first time I heard them and I am really into their lyrics especially though they deliver the whole package with their great music . . . . .
This song was with me through my divorce. I lost a beautiful girl and a son behind my alcohol/meth addiction..but im proof that there is a light on the other side and i am fine again
Guitar breakdown kills me
"I am aware now. How everythings going to be fine. One day, too late. I am in hell now."
omg
what happen cassie??
are you alright??
hangouts me Rajat Kumar
okay
+Cassie Dixon im here
+Cassie Dixon I've always been in hell.
Secondary drug of choice....the love of my life for over 20 year’s.I kicked the H and moving towards kicking the man who never appreciated me.Again......
Love and light to All overcoming AnY and ALL obstacles in their way😍😍😍
yes, one day it will really be too late and ill be in hell but ive prepared myself for years. It's difficult to stay positive when everyone tries to tear you down and u don't even feel like a person anymore.
Get it I feel same
Laura Smith it’s hypocritical of me to say this but, stay strong.
God damn, you intrigued me so well but above it all, keep your head up and keep moving forward. It's all we humans can do at the end of the day.
Be water....fuck what everyone says...be you not what people want you to be....GOD BLESS YOU....
Don't go out like that it gets better
Heard this song getting clean from booze. This and “It’s been a while” hit like a truck
Sending strength and love to all of you battling hard everyday! So hard to fight the demons day in and day out but we are prepared now for ourselves and everything's gonna be fine.
I hate it, but it’s got me. Heroin had me since I was 17 years old and I’m 41 now. I’m just amazed I’m still here. I also enjoy speedballs, fentanyl and crack at the same time.
Anyone else taking a trip back to that Madden 03 nostalgia?
Yes
For me it was 1080 Avalanche
I love this song, it’s my favorite!
This is the jam 🎹🤘 but you must hear “Live Not Survive” by SLT 🎸🎧🥁!!!
i love this song.. it always pops into my head XD
Everyone's talking about getting over their addiction, but for me I just went through a break up with someone I loved very much. She's gotten back with me and then broken up with me for the 3rd time and it hurts. The lyrics "You say it's over, I can sigh again" are really speaking to me. This is only the second Seether song I've heard but I already love the band and their music. Thank you Seether, and everyone out there stay cool 💞💕💞
Same. To me it’s relationship related.
you know what's pretty fucked up ? this world.
you make the stupidest mistakes knowing you're gonna have these dumb ass consequences. you gotta live you're life.
I found myself in a depressed state of mind about a month ago. Dakota broke up with me shit happens you know , when you fall in love with someone after only a couple months ,its hard to get over them, finding out you're losing everything..
got in a wreck
lost my job
life is hell.
its hard to stay sober.
over and over again. you keep doing what you do best, I wish there was a way to get these dumb thoughts out of my head. that's the only way is not to stay sober. I wish someone would understand me. so much pain and hurt inside of me.
not to minchion my brother passed away a couple weeks ago my life has gone down hill and no clue. all I can say is a bottle would be good right now
Astoria Jones
Drugs and Alcohol are great ways to assist you, but they are not the true solution to your problem.
You need to find things in your life that actually make you HAPPY. Things that full fill you and keep you inspired.
Find your passion, if your depressed, there's a reason for it, it doesn't just come out of no where. You need to stop doing things that keep you down, and do things that keep you up.
Stop putting yourself through shit that's painful, boring, exhausting, and uncomfortable.
People get addicted to drugs and alcohol because they are trying to fill up their happiness gauge with small things that don't truly satisfy. Their like bandages that help a little bit, but don't actually cure the disease. Your trying to fill a void that can't be done, without feeling REAL emotions.
What's more satisfying for example?
Eating a really good meal to satisfy your hunger?
Or to take pain meds to suppress your stomaches nerves?
I think you know what it is, now apply that analogy to everything else in your life.
And I know the negative thoughts you experience while your depressed are fucking terrible. But they are only more signs to your depression just like the pain.
Don't take them to heart and believe in them. Just watch as they go by, and only take in the thoughts that really matter and help you. You know when good ideas come along, because of how they make you feel when you think of them.
Stop ignoring the warnings, the anxiety and negative emotions are there for a reason. To keep your ass happy!
If you don't want to do something, stop doing it! Your pretending to be happy when your not!
Let your emotions guide you, and have some critical thinking to help support your decision making. And you will be happy. 😀
Good luck, and have an amazing life. ♥️
I understand you. Addiction is hitting me like a brick and theres no where to turn
Jdabomb93 yes they are.
Beer monster Yes they are what?
Astoria Jones I understand. I lost the love of my life that I have known for over 12 years to just see her with some other asshole. I lost all of my close uncles in a row. I have lost all my best friends due to bullshit. and I lost my baby. its hard to simply sugar coat something and go on with life its been over a year and everything feels like yesterday. why should we stay sober? I understand everything you mean and I hope you read this and do not feel alone may god be with you and have a good year.