Black ice. Just wanted to say being your age in the hetero dating pool is hard to navigate. Being a black, gay, known, male trying to navigate the dating world sounds INSANE. What I do know, is you’re an amazing person. Handsome, smart, funny, successful, empathetic and all the things. It will come in time. And it will come many times before you settle down. Take it all as a learning experience and do NOT take it as something being wrong with you. It just wasn’t a good fit and we move on. Thank you for sharing your experiences and being so vulnerable. You are helping people. ❤️
You're sooooo silly, Darius. I love your stories, and I love watching your videos!! Also, Sir, your hair looks great no matter how stiff you say they are!!✌🏾
Hey Darius! I just love your realness and intelligence on different subject matters! No rush to find someone,you are young handsome and a great catch so do not settle…because when you settle,you end up with even less than you settle for! Keep being true to yourself and never change for ANYONE!This is from a OG! BLACK ICE😘
Hi Darius, your hair looks great as always. I met a gentleman on plenty of fish site. Hopefully it will last. So far so good. This dating pool these days are complicated because people don’t want to pu much effort into it is what I’ve noticed these days. In the first few conversations you can tell what direction it’s going to go.
Heyyy Darius! You are too hilarious 😂😂😂. Any ways lol I am a lesbian and there is most definitely the heteronormative mindset amongst the lesbian community. I am a feminine woman who has had struggles to find other fem4fem lesbians. Typically it’s the stud and fem dynamics. It’s recently becoming more normal to see fem4fem or even stud4stud(which in itself there are biases with each) fem4fem people tend to not be taken as serious as much as they would with a stud and fem dynamic. Stud4stud sometimes can be taboo as well. It’s labeled as “too gay” or weird. But then you do have the lesbians who date women in general no matter the label. My struggle when I was younger was finding feminine women who, first and foremost dated other femmes and secondly who didn’t expect masculinity from myself at all times. It’s as almost I couldn’t be feminine ( because I tended to attract femmes that found me attractive but typically would only date studs- for them I was just something cute to play around with. The only time I ever displayed masculinity was in the bed or if I was upset lol. As I got older it did become easier to find other femmes4femmes. I hope this helps lol.. either way boo you have a new lesbian friend😘
Black Ice Lesbian here... We have some of the same issues over here with gender norms. However, it's starting to subside. There's plenty of fem on fem couples and now stud for stud couples as well. The stud for stud sometimes get a lot of flack but that's their lives and they should be able to do them. We also have Stems who are a mix between a stud and fem. I'm not sure they get flack but again I don't have a problem with them. Hope this has helped answer your question 🤷🏾♀️
I'm a feminine gay man, and the way I counter the whole femphobia thing, is by just posting fem pictures of myself, so people who don't like feminine men won't hit me up.
My son is your age and also in the 'community'...and the NUANCE within the community is actually wild. And hearing you talk about it, plus what he tells me...sheesh!! I thought I had it rough as a single hetero woman (which...I do 🥹) but WOW y'all be navigating soooo many dynamics. Also when you looked back and said you lost 8 subscribers I almost choked on my taco bell 💀💀💀💀 Also you're the funniest human alive lmao
Lesbian similar But for me fem presenting, I want a mix but fem looking, and I’m a thumb, but most fems want that masculine. So it’s more difficult when you don’t fall into that 🌈 it’s even harder in a smaller pool to not even fall into gay norms
Yes, I am neither fem. nor masc. I call myself verse if I have to put a term to it but most fems want masc and most masc want fem so it is kind of hard and I really hate the dynamic of it all🤦🏿♀️ oh Black Ice😊
No most of these “fems” want MEN. They cling to studs because that’s as close as they’ll ever get. So where does that leave the studs who aren’t as masculine as their shorty would want them to be? It’s all for show when it comes to lesbians wanting studs I promise you🥴💯
As a masc lesbian, heteronormative roles exist but its fems wanting mascs to ask like men and ignore their femininity. But more fems are starting to like feminine women
Darius you better be careful cause you take to many chances out there with all those diseases and you don’t have a clue about these men, it seems just so nasty, it’s really something I would not want my nephews or cousins to watch this on utube
The information he shares can help other gay guys. Maybe you shouldn't watch this part if your sensitive to these conversations. It should not bother you. TH-cam isn't for anyone under 18. So if parents allow they can control their children views. .✌🌺🙏🏼
The look back for the 8 lost subscribers took me out 😅😅😅😅.
I just love you.
I laughed out LOUD😂.
I’ve had a great week and I think it’s bc you’ve been dropping content back to back 🤭there’s a correlation somewhere lol
Not "bumping purses," I can't 🤣🤣😭 Darius literally has me crying, laughing
Black Ice❤
No ma’am, we are not meeting up at these people’s houses anymore lol.
Ikr...
Right!!!!
😂😂😂😂omg Darius vougue in the 6th dimension and in a tornado is crazy.😂😂😂😂 I love it..😂😂😂😂
Heavy on the "i dont want mcdonalds, i dont want Chickfila" cause nothing be sounding good no more fr lol
dont be cutting no eating part out we love ittttt😂😂❤ tell them watch somebody else !!!!
Black ice. Just wanted to say being your age in the hetero dating pool is hard to navigate. Being a black, gay, known, male trying to navigate the dating world sounds INSANE. What I do know, is you’re an amazing person. Handsome, smart, funny, successful, empathetic and all the things. It will come in time. And it will come many times before you settle down. Take it all as a learning experience and do NOT take it as something being wrong with you. It just wasn’t a good fit and we move on. Thank you for sharing your experiences and being so vulnerable. You are helping people. ❤️
The t.v. splitting in half 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂 right
The realness is refreshing and your personality is always entertaining.
Don’t overthink it! Men ghost most ppl they meet on apps even in the heterosexual community!
Also, I wanna say this, until people stop teaching men to look down on femininity, this problem probably won't end.
This!
I’m loving the back to back drops
Lesbian here. There are relationships between 2 masc women or 2 femmes... heteronormativity is present with some lesbians as well...
You're sooooo silly, Darius. I love your stories, and I love watching your videos!! Also, Sir, your hair looks great no matter how stiff you say they are!!✌🏾
Darius I'm loving the consistency keep em coming my favorite you tuber ....black ice!!!!
Dariuuuusssssss!!!!! 😂 when I say in hollering!!!!! Because not voguing in a tornado! 🤣🤣🤣 it makes me feel the same way, I absolutely hate it.
The zoom up is crazy 🤪 😂 u looked just like ur dad 😂😂
He does.
THIS TWO PIECE CAVALI HE EAT ME HIBACHI!! YOU GO GIRL! 💃🏽🥂
Hey Darius!
I just love your realness and intelligence on different subject matters!
No rush to find someone,you are young handsome and a great catch so do not settle…because when you settle,you end up with even less than you settle for!
Keep being true to yourself and never change for ANYONE!This is from a OG!
BLACK ICE😘
Darius, I'm laughing so hard, I had to pause the video to catch my breath 🤣. Okay I got it together.. .continue
Black ice
Lesbian gay women made me laugh. Someone once said ''You can't blend in when you were born to stand out.''
“Black Ice” just love you, Darius😂😂😂
Darius,the way you had me Heee eeeeeeeeeeeee heeeeeeee..it was crazy.😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🫠Your my fav... I swear,you are hilarious...Black Ice.
Black Ice👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽
Darius I love had you keep things so real.
Keep being you and keep doing you 😊.
You’re glowing in this video the jacket and the purse are giving! Black ice 🧊
i was just saying i was bored and you dropped a video 🎉🫶🏾
😂😂😂😭😭😭 Darius come get me off this floor
Black ice. You are so funny😅 always ready for a story time from you❤️
I enjoyed this video Darius, keep them coming. BLACK ICE🖤
Hi Darius, your hair looks great as always. I met a gentleman on plenty of fish site. Hopefully it will last. So far so good. This dating pool these days are complicated because people don’t want to pu much effort into it is what I’ve noticed these days. In the first few conversations you can tell what direction it’s going to go.
🗣This 2 piece Cavalli he eat me Hibachi 😩🤣
Black ice 😂 those fresheners smell good also very old school . Great video 🎉
😂😂😂it was one minute from being ashes 😂😂😂whoever watches your videos and don't laugh has got to be a miserable soul😂😂😂❤❤❤❤
Black ice and I always love your videos Darius.🙏🏾❤
The intro already got me crying 😭 “he eat me HIBACHI” lmaoo pls get in the studio sista
Dating apps sites are not way to meet people. Meet people naturally when your out going about your day. Old school way! Stay safe & blessed
Hi Darius! Your hair looks good 😊
Not a science test! I love u!! W video
You should try the Salmon with the roasted potatoes & rice with a side Greek salad! Fire Babyyyy 🔥👏🏽
HEYY DARIUS AND EVERYONE HAPPY SATURDAY HAVE A WONDERFUL WEEKEND
That black ice really do smell good. I use that in my bathroom too
You got nate wide head fasho
Black ice 🥰one thing about Darius his videos are always funny and interesting 😆 love all your videos 🙌
Not you bumping purses... We know what it means lol ... Love your vids - Black Ice.
This video was very insightful. I love learning the lingo. I definitely watched the whole thing. #blackice lol
Black ice!! Love your story times
Come through!!! Where are you in NY? You brought the snow? 😊
Heyyy Darius! You are too hilarious 😂😂😂. Any ways lol I am a lesbian and there is most definitely the heteronormative mindset amongst the lesbian community. I am a feminine woman who has had struggles to find other fem4fem lesbians. Typically it’s the stud and fem dynamics. It’s recently becoming more normal to see fem4fem or even stud4stud(which in itself there are biases with each) fem4fem people tend to not be taken as serious as much as they would with a stud and fem dynamic. Stud4stud sometimes can be taboo as well. It’s labeled as “too gay” or weird. But then you do have the lesbians who date women in general no matter the label. My struggle when I was younger was finding feminine women who, first and foremost dated other femmes and secondly who didn’t expect masculinity from myself at all times. It’s as almost I couldn’t be feminine ( because I tended to attract femmes that found me attractive but typically would only date studs- for them I was just something cute to play around with. The only time I ever displayed masculinity was in the bed or if I was upset lol. As I got older it did become easier to find other femmes4femmes. I hope this helps lol.. either way boo you have a new lesbian friend😘
You better not go back to the Bronx 😂😂😂😂
Black Ice
Lesbian here... We have some of the same issues over here with gender norms. However, it's starting to subside. There's plenty of fem on fem couples and now stud for stud couples as well. The stud for stud sometimes get a lot of flack but that's their lives and they should be able to do them. We also have Stems who are a mix between a stud and fem. I'm not sure they get flack but again I don't have a problem with them. Hope this has helped answer your question 🤷🏾♀️
Jesus christ darius so funny i would never smoke at all i heard stories about almost dying feeling on cloud 9 lol no thank you
Hey Darius, love ❤️ you sweetie keep grinding & keeping it 💯💥💥💥💥💥
Darius has entered a different dimension 😂😂😂
His definition screams Dalvin 😂😂😂
I don’t know much about the gay community so I learned a lot from you. 😊 Oh and black ice 😂
Not the coordinates! 😩😂
Lol you crack me up
Black Ice is the best smelling air freshener
Darius that jacket is very nice. You look so handsome. Hope you don't mind me saying so. Keep the laughs coming, you are hilarious 😅.
Black Ice ⚫️
BLACK ICE 🧊 my favorite car freshener
Black ice
You should do a small pop up meet and greet in NY.
I'm a feminine gay man, and the way I counter the whole femphobia thing, is by just posting fem pictures of myself, so people who don't like feminine men won't hit me up.
Darius you are so damn funny❤❤😂😂😂😂😂
Great discussion
Te other day I spent $2 on a large ice water from Burger King like water cups should be free. Imagine what a homeless person would do? Cruel world lol
Black Ice....😂😂😂
My son is your age and also in the 'community'...and the NUANCE within the community is actually wild. And hearing you talk about it, plus what he tells me...sheesh!! I thought I had it rough as a single hetero woman (which...I do 🥹) but WOW y'all be navigating soooo many dynamics.
Also when you looked back and said you lost 8 subscribers I almost choked on my taco bell 💀💀💀💀
Also you're the funniest human alive lmao
oh and Black Ice ✨🫶🏾✨
soon as i bite my tongue or cheeks it’s over i don’t wanna eat !! ( black ice )
Lesbian similar
But for me fem presenting, I want a mix but fem looking, and I’m a thumb, but most fems want that masculine. So it’s more difficult when you don’t fall into that 🌈 it’s even harder in a smaller pool to not even fall into gay norms
Yes, I am neither fem. nor masc. I call myself verse if I have to put a term to it but most fems want masc and most masc want fem so it is kind of hard and I really hate the dynamic of it all🤦🏿♀️ oh Black Ice😊
No most of these “fems” want MEN. They cling to studs because that’s as close as they’ll ever get. So where does that leave the studs who aren’t as masculine as their shorty would want them to be? It’s all for show when it comes to lesbians wanting studs I promise you🥴💯
Black ice. Your hilarious
Black ice ❤
Black Ice. Thanks for putting the start time: 11:00.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂Funny story time. Black Ice🎉
Love ur videos 😊black ice!
He’s one cool person personality smacks
Black ice is msdevup of what aromatic notes?
In texas they charge u 60 cents for sauce for ur nuggets at McDonald's
You are serving 🫖and I’m lovin it. I have been missin you.
Hi Darius. Shout out from Barbados. Black Ice ❤
Black ice 😂
Hey sweetie how you doing. I absolutely love your personality ❤❤ your a real sweetheart ❤
Hey D!! I'm here for the V!! Love you -MkwL
Black Ice !! Great vid :)
It’s been tooo many days!! Where the videos!!
Black ice sistaaaa🤸🏽♀️😙
Where are the new vidddoooeeess????!?!
black ice
love these vids
As a masc lesbian, heteronormative roles exist but its fems wanting mascs to ask like men and ignore their femininity. But more fems are starting to like feminine women
Hey Darius, hey peace and blessings to you
Darius you better be careful cause you take to many chances out there with all those diseases and you don’t have a clue about these men, it seems just so nasty, it’s really something I would not want my nephews or cousins to watch this on utube
The information he shares can help other gay guys. Maybe you shouldn't watch this part if your sensitive to these conversations. It should not bother you. TH-cam isn't for anyone under 18. So if parents allow they can control their children views. .✌🌺🙏🏼
Ummm… you have 12 more videos to post sir. Where are they? 😅
Love you so much ❤❤
Black ice silly goose. lol
Hey Darius! I be double dutchin’ waiting on your next video. BLACK ICE ❤
So again, WHY DON'T YOU BLESS YOUR FOOD BEFORE YOU EAT?????
😂😂😂Black Ice
I promise your brother knew babe!💯♥️👛
Black ice 🧊😂
Black ice . Love you Darius