Absolutely, that's a key characteristic of narcissists. They often see relationships as a means to an end, focusing on what they can gain rather than genuine connection. Thank you for your insight!
A very fascinating video, this brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldn't just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
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Mine actually showed genuine, loving care at times for me. It's very easy to be mislead. Be careful. She's hoovered 2x in 8 mos. Behind her new supply's back
It's understandable to feel misled, especially when there are moments of seeming genuine care. Narcissists can be very manipulative, and it's wise to stay vigilant. Thank you for sharing your experience, and I hope you're prioritizing your well-being!
You're absolutely right. for narcissists, it's often about what they can take rather than a genuine connection. It's important to recognize that your worth goes far beyond what they tried to extract. Thank you for sharing this important insight!
That is absolutely true! I learned this after GOD HIMSELF Performed a REVERSE DISCARD FOR ME. I have been in NO CONTACT FOR 10 MONTHS NOW, with no intention of ever returning to my female covert NARCISSIST. The PINNACLE OF INDIFFERENCE HAS BEEN REACHED!
That's a powerful observation! It's true that the ego can be both a shield and a downfall for narcissists, often leading to their own self-destruction. Thank you for sharing your insight!
Honestly I don't think they care. They are cold unfeelingless people so why would they care. They care if they are in a rut, they have no shame they will try anyone for help.
You bring up a valid point! Narcissists do show concern, but it's often not about your feelings or well-being. Their primary focus is on how losing you affects their sense of self and the supply they rely on. Thank you for sharing your perspective!
Thank you for your kind words! I'm really glad to hear that you found the video helpful. Your support means a lot, and I appreciate you taking the time to share your feedback! ❤️
Peace and blessings to you too! It's wonderful to connect with such a supportive community of survivors. Together, we can keep healing and growing. Thank you for spreading positivity! ❤️
You raise an important point! The nuances of covert narcissism can be complex, and it's essential to consider how societal changes impact behavior and recognition. Evaluation in today's context is crucial for understanding these dynamics. Thank you for sharing your insight!
Mine tried hoovering me 3 months after the discard. Crying. Telling me she had something good and ruined it. Kept saying sorry. She is a screw up etc Her new supply wasn't as good as she hoped.
It sounds like you’ve been through a lot with her hoovering attempts. It's common for narcissists to try to pull you back in when their new supply doesn’t meet their expectations. Stay strong in your decision to move on, and remember that your well-being comes first. Thank you for sharing your experience!
You raise an important point! It's true that narcissists often glamorize their traits and behaviors, which can make it difficult for others to see the harm they cause. Recognizing this is crucial for understanding and healing from their manipulation. Thank you for sharing your perspective!
Their is a diagnosed narcissist with a TH-cam channel by the name of Leon R Walker Jr who said the total opposite. He said narcissists emotions are different from actual people but they do miss some supply and love some supply but don’t know how to show it because they have a personality disorder. He said in these exact words narcissist have a child mindset like how a little boy likes a girl that constantly hits and picks on her because he likes her but doesn’t know how to show it. Its the same with a narcissist. Many narcissists just miss the supply but there are a few women he constantly do miss and think about til this day. He said narcissists know when you’re a good women or man especially if you’re an empath they regret and miss you later on. They want to love and be normal but don’t know how so they run away from their past and run away from love because they don’t want to get hurt because most narcissists dealt with abandonment and neglect as a child. So them running away is discarding you and ghosting you and blocking you and going silent. Even if they say mean things or verbally abuse you they don’t mean it it’s because they are jealous and wish they knew how to love like we do. He said they constantly battle demons inside of them but they do feel and have emotions they just don’t show it especially the covert narcissist. I believe that’s true my father is a malignant narcissist him and by mother separated when I was 16 til this day he still talks about her and regrets and says he misses her that she was the best women he ever had. Narcissist know when they lost someone good and they do miss us and of course the supply we gave.
You are missing the forest for the trees. He is clearly central at all times. He is actually focused exclusively on the sad sausage which is himself. You are being gaslit trying to achieve a belief that what you wish actually exists. It’s like, “look….Santa was here because there are bite marks in the cookies”. Not trying to be insensitive, but, your narration clearly demonstrates what is visible.
Thank you for sharing your perspective and insights! It’s interesting to hear different viewpoints on narcissism, especially regarding their emotional experiences and struggles. Your personal story adds depth to the discussion, and it’s important to acknowledge the complexities of these relationships. I appreciate you contributing to this conversation!
@ I am not missing the forest for the trees. And no I’m not gas lighted it is true. Narcissist do think differently from us because they are battling a demonic spirit it is a spiritual warfare in which Leon admits. Leon is a diagnosed narcissist who admitted a lot. He have gotten counseling he recognized and accepted he was a narcissist and got help. Narcissist don’t admit and get help and counseling that’s a step of growth. Leon spoke about before he was healed which he stalked about the gas lightening and the abuse and discard he did that in the past. Reading is fundamental bet you didn’t read the whole comment but you were so quick to respond
@ how I believe a story I wish exist when it’s not my story or my testimony it’s Leons testimony perhaps you should watch his videos before you jump into conclusions. He talks about how he use to be before he got help.
That's a powerful way to put it! Sometimes a single experience is enough to realize the importance of self-preservation. Thank you for sharing your thoughts!
It sounds like you’ve been through a lot, and it’s often revealing when a narcissist shows their true colors by disappearing. It can be painful, but this distance may also be an opportunity for you to focus on your own healing and growth. Thank you for sharing your experience!
You’ve highlighted an important aspect of narcissistic behavior! They often distract themselves to avoid facing their own thoughts and feelings, which can lead to a cycle of unhealthy relationships. Understanding this can help us recognize their patterns and focus on our own healing. Thank you for sharing your insights!
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This all depends on how successful they were in replacing you. If all they needs are being met, they won't give a rats ass if you there are with them or not.
That’s a powerful observation! It’s true that when they find a replacement that meets their needs, they often become indifferent. Recognizing this can be a crucial step in reclaiming your own worth and moving forward. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!
Absolutely, a permanent discard can be a significant turning point. It's important to recognize that moving on is a healthy choice for your well-being. Thank you for sharing your perspective!
And what if after many months of confrontation, they still don’t reach out or contact? Does this mean they will ever come back or contact? Or does this mean they won’t ? Bcz it has been a lot of time after the confrontation, that person did not respond and reply in any way, gave no reaction to my insult but also didn’t block me… what can this mean? It has been 22 days almost since I have ended but there was no response and still that person did not block me… initially that person was giving me silent treatment since many months
It’s tough to navigate silence after a confrontation, especially with someone who exhibits narcissistic traits. Their lack of response might indicate that they’re maintaining distance to protect their image or avoid accountability. Not being blocked could mean they want to keep the option open for future contact, but it’s essential to focus on your own healing and boundaries. Ultimately, prioritizing your well-being is what matters most. Thank you for sharing your experience!
@@NarcPedia yes this person used to be defensive before like whenever I would say anything, she would fight back or atleast say something in return and she used to block me too but this time I have said worst and ugliest things and of fronted her but there was no response yet I am still not blocked I don’t even know if my msgs were effective enough to hurt the ego bcz my limit was finished now I could not bare with this silent treatment and shit anymore.. but I don’t know how she didn’t bother to atleast say 1 thing or word
You make a valid point! Narcissists may not engage in hovering, especially if distance is an issue. Their focus often shifts to new sources of supply instead. Thank you for sharing your perspective!
It sounds like you've set clear boundaries, which is crucial for your well-being. It's great to hear that you're feeling confident in your decision and moving forward. Thank you for sharing your thoughts!
I'm sorry to hear that he left. It can be really painful when someone you care about chooses to walk away. Remember, this might be an opportunity for you to focus on your own healing and growth. Thank you for sharing your feelings!
You make a great point! The traits and behaviors of covert narcissists can evolve over time, influenced by societal changes and new understandings of mental health. It's crucial to evaluate them within the context of today’s world. Thank you for sharing your thoughts!
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They are just out for who they can use.
Absolutely, that's a key characteristic of narcissists. They often see relationships as a means to an end, focusing on what they can gain rather than genuine connection. Thank you for your insight!
A very fascinating video, this brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldn't just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do I reach her?
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
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Mine actually showed genuine, loving care at times for me. It's very easy to be mislead. Be careful. She's hoovered 2x in 8 mos. Behind her new supply's back
Same thing going on with my ex
It's understandable to feel misled, especially when there are moments of seeming genuine care. Narcissists can be very manipulative, and it's wise to stay vigilant. Thank you for sharing your experience, and I hope you're prioritizing your well-being!
the only thing they miss, is what they were extracting from you. you never mattered from day one.
You're absolutely right. for narcissists, it's often about what they can take rather than a genuine connection. It's important to recognize that your worth goes far beyond what they tried to extract. Thank you for sharing this important insight!
That is absolutely true! I learned this after GOD HIMSELF Performed a REVERSE DISCARD FOR ME. I have been in NO CONTACT FOR 10 MONTHS NOW, with no intention of ever returning to my female covert NARCISSIST. The PINNACLE OF INDIFFERENCE HAS BEEN REACHED!
@@ronaldschlager4888 they are sooooo toxic. not only to you, but themselves.
@@lilfairycupcake SUCH A BRUTAL TRUTH
It is their ego they try so hard to protect that eventually destroys them.
That's a powerful observation! It's true that the ego can be both a shield and a downfall for narcissists, often leading to their own self-destruction. Thank you for sharing your insight!
Honestly I don't think they care. They are cold unfeelingless people so why would they care.
They care if they are in a rut, they have no shame they will try anyone for help.
You bring up a valid point! Narcissists do show concern, but it's often not about your feelings or well-being. Their primary focus is on how losing you affects their sense of self and the supply they rely on. Thank you for sharing your perspective!
Thank u so much for this video
Very helpful❤
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Peace and Blessings my family of Survivors and Thrivers. May we all continue healing❤
@@KLS-s5z Amen!
Peace and blessings to you too! It's wonderful to connect with such a supportive community of survivors. Together, we can keep healing and growing. Thank you for spreading positivity! ❤️
Diagnosing a Covert Narcissist in these days need to be Evaluated in TODAYS TIMES
You raise an important point! The nuances of covert narcissism can be complex, and it's essential to consider how societal changes impact behavior and recognition. Evaluation in today's context is crucial for understanding these dynamics. Thank you for sharing your insight!
Your message is always on point!
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Mine tried hoovering me 3 months after the discard.
Crying. Telling me she had something good and ruined it.
Kept saying sorry. She is a screw up etc
Her new supply wasn't as good as she hoped.
It sounds like you’ve been through a lot with her hoovering attempts. It's common for narcissists to try to pull you back in when their new supply doesn’t meet their expectations. Stay strong in your decision to move on, and remember that your well-being comes first. Thank you for sharing your experience!
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Thank You
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It's all glamourization of the conartists, if when not criminals.
You raise an important point! It's true that narcissists often glamorize their traits and behaviors, which can make it difficult for others to see the harm they cause. Recognizing this is crucial for understanding and healing from their manipulation. Thank you for sharing your perspective!
Their is a diagnosed narcissist with a TH-cam channel by the name of Leon R Walker Jr who said the total opposite. He said narcissists emotions are different from actual people but they do miss some supply and love some supply but don’t know how to show it because they have a personality disorder. He said in these exact words narcissist have a child mindset like how a little boy likes a girl that constantly hits and picks on her because he likes her but doesn’t know how to show it. Its the same with a narcissist. Many narcissists just miss the supply but there are a few women he constantly do miss and think about til this day. He said narcissists know when you’re a good women or man especially if you’re an empath they regret and miss you later on. They want to love and be normal but don’t know how so they run away from their past and run away from love because they don’t want to get hurt because most narcissists dealt with abandonment and neglect as a child. So them running away is discarding you and ghosting you and blocking you and going silent. Even if they say mean things or verbally abuse you they don’t mean it it’s because they are jealous and wish they knew how to love like we do. He said they constantly battle demons inside of them but they do feel and have emotions they just don’t show it especially the covert narcissist. I believe that’s true my father is a malignant narcissist him and by mother separated when I was 16 til this day he still talks about her and regrets and says he misses her that she was the best women he ever had. Narcissist know when they lost someone good and they do miss us and of course the supply we gave.
You are missing the forest for the trees. He is clearly central at all times. He is actually focused exclusively on the sad sausage which is himself. You are being gaslit trying to achieve a belief that what you wish actually exists. It’s like, “look….Santa was here because there are bite marks in the cookies”. Not trying to be insensitive, but, your narration clearly demonstrates what is visible.
Thank you for sharing your perspective and insights! It’s interesting to hear different viewpoints on narcissism, especially regarding their emotional experiences and struggles. Your personal story adds depth to the discussion, and it’s important to acknowledge the complexities of these relationships. I appreciate you contributing to this conversation!
@ I am not missing the forest for the trees. And no I’m not gas lighted it is true. Narcissist do think differently from us because they are battling a demonic spirit it is a spiritual warfare in which Leon admits. Leon is a diagnosed narcissist who admitted a lot. He have gotten counseling he recognized and accepted he was a narcissist and got help. Narcissist don’t admit and get help and counseling that’s a step of growth. Leon spoke about before he was healed which he stalked about the gas lightening and the abuse and discard he did that in the past. Reading is fundamental bet you didn’t read the whole comment but you were so quick to respond
@ how I believe a story I wish exist when it’s not my story or my testimony it’s Leons testimony perhaps you should watch his videos before you jump into conclusions. He talks about how he use to be before he got help.
For both of us a ONE AND DONE
That's a powerful way to put it! Sometimes a single experience is enough to realize the importance of self-preservation. Thank you for sharing your thoughts!
Mine couldn't give 2 hoots about me. Not heard nothing for 18 months now.
It sounds like you’ve been through a lot, and it’s often revealing when a narcissist shows their true colors by disappearing. It can be painful, but this distance may also be an opportunity for you to focus on your own healing and growth. Thank you for sharing your experience!
They cannot be alone as they will ruminate so to avoid this they keep busy on the device if alone or out with supply. They avoid ruminating.
You’ve highlighted an important aspect of narcissistic behavior! They often distract themselves to avoid facing their own thoughts and feelings, which can lead to a cycle of unhealthy relationships. Understanding this can help us recognize their patterns and focus on our own healing. Thank you for sharing your insights!
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Oh. I meant narcissists don't care enough!
This all depends on how successful they were in replacing you. If all they needs are being met, they won't give a rats ass if you there are with them or not.
That’s a powerful observation! It’s true that when they find a replacement that meets their needs, they often become indifferent. Recognizing this can be a crucial step in reclaiming your own worth and moving forward. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!
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Oh yes it is a permanent discard
Absolutely, a permanent discard can be a significant turning point. It's important to recognize that moving on is a healthy choice for your well-being. Thank you for sharing your perspective!
And what if after many months of confrontation, they still don’t reach out or contact? Does this mean they will ever come back or contact? Or does this mean they won’t ? Bcz it has been a lot of time after the confrontation, that person did not respond and reply in any way, gave no reaction to my insult but also didn’t block me… what can this mean? It has been 22 days almost since I have ended but there was no response and still that person did not block me… initially that person was giving me silent treatment since many months
It’s tough to navigate silence after a confrontation, especially with someone who exhibits narcissistic traits. Their lack of response might indicate that they’re maintaining distance to protect their image or avoid accountability. Not being blocked could mean they want to keep the option open for future contact, but it’s essential to focus on your own healing and boundaries. Ultimately, prioritizing your well-being is what matters most. Thank you for sharing your experience!
@@NarcPedia yes this person used to be defensive before like whenever I would say anything, she would fight back or atleast say something in return and she used to block me too but this time I have said worst and ugliest things and of fronted her but there was no response yet I am still not blocked I don’t even know if my msgs were effective enough to hurt the ego bcz my limit was finished now I could not bare with this silent treatment and shit anymore.. but I don’t know how she didn’t bother to atleast say 1 thing or word
They don’t care , STOP that doesn’t happen IN THESE DAYS . She or they don’t hover that far out no more
You make a valid point! Narcissists may not engage in hovering, especially if distance is an issue. Their focus often shifts to new sources of supply instead. Thank you for sharing your perspective!
She lives out of state without a car, doesn’t matter she will not hover in any shape or form or come back here Period
It sounds like you've set clear boundaries, which is crucial for your well-being. It's great to hear that you're feeling confident in your decision and moving forward. Thank you for sharing your thoughts!
But he left anyway!
I'm sorry to hear that he left. It can be really painful when someone you care about chooses to walk away. Remember, this might be an opportunity for you to focus on your own healing and growth. Thank you for sharing your feelings!
Diagnosing a Covert Narcissist in these days need to be Evaluated in TODAYS TIMES , they are NOT THE SAME AS THEY WERE BACK IN THE DAY
You make a great point! The traits and behaviors of covert narcissists can evolve over time, influenced by societal changes and new understandings of mental health. It's crucial to evaluate them within the context of today’s world. Thank you for sharing your thoughts!
@NarcPedia Peace and Blessings
Thank you for watching!
They are just out for who they can use.
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