People tend to not realize that the same red flags that were ignored at the beginning of a relationships will be the same red flags that are waved to end it.
That’s why we need to stop making it official during the honeymoon phase until we get to have legitimate conflicts, talk about family, politics etc. We hook up to quickly and resent each other later when we’re all trying to love ourselves and each other at the same time.
Exactly and what surprise me is people praising bambi to be the ex wife instead of erica. Erica warned her and gave back the ring coz she knows what os waiting for her but bambi acted as if she is the one and she can change him
If I was Rasheeda and I was discussing relationships/marriage problems with my friends, my response would always be, "I understand. I've been there before!" I wouldn't dare fix my mouth to speak negatively about ANYBODY'S situation! 😬😅
I never liked Rasheeda. She is fake AF. She thinks she is the best thing since sliced bread. She was telling K Michelle in the earlier seasons about how K was jealous of her because she has a husband. She ate those words real quick and looked like an asshole the next season.
Yea I feel ya. Also use that opportunity to tell ‘em how they cud manage that situation peacefully without letting in laws or single friends push u to do the wrong things n handle ish the negative way that could result in the termination of the marriage. And scrappy real humble he always apologize first. I wish Bambi was that humble n not so entitled that scrappy owed her his life. She don’t ever take accountability , it’s always scraps fault . Wish she was a wife n not a wanna be boss of the home. Stop ordering scrap around n talking to him like her boy. If she want a divorce let her have it then n see what a divorce does to she n her kids n scrap. Unnecessary evil due to just feeling called ego that comes n goes untangible. It take 2 to get married but 1 to get a divorce . Scrappy dint cheat it’s just Bambi overthinking the text message. She gon regret losing a helping man cos most men these days are looking for the women to help them instead !
Why is the music so loud?! We can barely hear them talking. Also, this just shows how Bambi is in the right for leaving. All the women say the same thing: Scrappy doesn’t pay bills. Erica said she helped him and Shay was even paying his bills. He has so many issues! Looking for the love of a mom from a partner because his mom wasn’t a good mom. He’s so immature and exhausting. Goodness!
Really sad that a lot of this could be avoided if they kept family and friends out of their business and learned to communicate and listen to each other about their needs. The WAY you state what you need help from a partner is crucial
Exactly, and I think it could have really worked out for them. The are both stubborn and places the blame on the other. They have 3 beautiful children, but hey, I guess it was too much. But I do hope they can remain friends and coparent together
It's so crazy how the moment Bambi didn't wanna deal with scrap no more he switched up fast and put a ring on her finger. Men can't stand to see you with somebody else.
Bambi isn't a victim she had plenty of chances to walk away before the marriage and kids but she choose to stay. So I don't feel bad for her or him. Accountability for her own choices is the name of the game.
From what I saw, he did that a lot, and I didn’t see one time where she apologized back for anything, admitted she did anything, but I did see after he apologized her continue to point out his failings and flaws
Yea my marriage counselor said 70 percent of marriages that last a lifetime experience some type of traumatic experience such as extended affairs or outside kids.
@@orawhorton8778cheating on your wife over 3 times and having a baby on her is not a challenge in marriage, and shouldn’t be the norm. It’s blatant disregard and disrespect for the marriage. No person should stay in a relationship where that occurs. If they choose to stay, then that’s some BS
@@vic902 that is her decision and not ours to decide whether she stays with her husband or not,there are so many women’s out there in her shoes and several singles ladies too,so the peoples should think about their own relationship
Actually they are the couple you want to listen to, because you know they have been there and their marriage isn't perfect. It's the ones who act like they are perfect and never been through anything that you don't want to listen to.
Yall wanna know whats funny bambi really held down scrappy and kept information from the cameras but its like scrappy was gaslighting her to spazz on him.
I was saying the same thing! We never knew their moms fought and all that other drama that came out! I was like damn they kept a lot of shit off camera which was a good thing
@@dionnepanton1831 NO they showed a few episodes with the mother's feuding, momma Dee just wanna be the ONLY momma, and she was so jealous of Bambi's mom
@@wendyjenkins8379She hide a lot because if it made her look bad she wanted no parts of it just like when they brought up her mother trying to fight his then 14 year old daughter and bam got mad and walked out on production. That’s why she’s told him to go to the public and help her with her image she’s more worried about how the public perceives her than how she is to friends and family behind the scenes.
@@LadyRedd09 There were plenty of things that made her look bad and not everything is meant to be public. They already painted her as a hoe because of that hot tub scene with Benzino which happened years ago. I'm over it and I wish her nothing but the best. At least her kids are by the same person, and she was married, now divorced but it happens. Mostly everyone wanna be team Erica, who has 3 kids, still not married....hmmm
Bambi looked very numb in the end when Scrappy was apologizing, and i felt that. like you’re sorry now that everything is over? i’m sure they both gave eachother closure but had he done that in the first place and had he been more attentive to Bambi, they would’ve worked.
Bam ran out of grace. Every woman has her breaking point. One small thing and the entire relationship could end and That's what scrappy dont get, his marriage was fragile. Even if he and Diamond didn't have sex, he still put himself in a compromising position
Y’all love the idea of marriage but one small thing and it’s over. Just don’t get married because it’s not romantic all the time, it’s hard work and a duty to God.
@@monih.1994theres marriages where none of that bs going on. on. If he saw her texting someone would he be so forgiving. 🙃 no he'd use it as a reason to cheat. Yall like to be married just to say you are and THATS WHATS SAD
@@MMJCREW Marriage is about grace and yes men forgive women for cheating too. What women fail to realize is there will always be something you have to work through and trust she will meet another man and go through the same issues because of her personality.
I agree. It wasn’t just Diamond it was the ex and then the mother in law disrespecting her and her mother. Throw years of miscommunication and her feeling unheard and vice versa. At some point it burns you out and it makes it too hard to salvage the relationship.
Exactly it's so weird it's because toxic lying manipulative Erica has created a false narrative and she has a cult going and she is the mean and spiteful one
@@angelhowell7760and that same daughter insulted her parenting by calling her step siblings bald headed. Yall pick and choose. That girl should have stayed in a child’s place.
This is so sad when you watch it all together. If Scrap could have controlled his emotions and communication and kept his mom out of things, that would have solved ALOT. When you watch this you can see that Bambi is a very calm person. She never made any situation worse. That is the kind of balance scrap needs because he is so fiery. I really wished they could have worked out.
And that’s why he said he NEVER wanted a divorce. He could always talk to bam. She really cared and fought just as hard as him. He said “i really believed you were the ONLY WOMAN for me.” I’ve never heard him say that about anyone else. 33:50
@@missy_SassI agree I think he really loves Bambi she was just a real challenge for him and he isn't used to that anyone who believes he loves Erica is just as delusional and desperate as she is Bambi is who he wants but can't have cause he's very CHILDISH!
Perfect example of when a woman thinks a man won’t do her like the last one 😅 Erica complained that she took care of him and their child. Bambi complained about taking care of him and their children. Wife or not, now she’s a divorced mom of 3. The cycle continues.
He said she’s tripping off of a couple of text messages. Lol not only was you laying with an ex you was talking shit about your wife, who wasn’t tripping, because you was in fact cheating. You can’t work nothing out with someone who won’t be honest. He has those kids I hope he grows up soon 😢
“I don’t have the opportunity to lay down and be soft with you. I don’t.” Okay 🦌🦌. Does that sound familiar to anyone? I’m not a fan of Bambi but no one deserves to be cheated on and the same thing she’s saying, it was the same things Erica was saying.
I agree with you. Bambi is hard-core, from Compton, I grew up in Watts, so you have to be even stronger when dealing with certain things, look how Scrappy gree up, in a whore house, so no man was around to help guide him. I was really rooting for them because you can see the love, but sometimes that isn't enough, she needed more support, especially after having kids back to back. No way he should have been communicating with washed up ass Diamond. Bambi just got tired of it, and rightfully so. I'm wishing them the very best💗💗
@wendy Yes I hate to see another couple break up due to issues they had prior to even meeting ! These issues doesn’t make either person a bad person , just wish they would have went to a great couple therapist first to fix their traumas .
He don’t love Bambi she just the more convient pick he loves Erica but Erica is always too much but the one he loves the most is Diamond because she’s the one he humiliates the most and downplays the most because he don’t want others to see her she has the bestfriend feel men love women who they can just chill and be themselves with
If any couple needed long-term individual and marriage counseling, it was Scrappy and Bambi. They both needed a better way to communicate their needs and relate to each other The love was there but the blaming, tit-for-tat, not listening and communication in general was horrible.
Scrappy got alot of love & compassion in his life. He’s a blessed dude bc alot of the rappers didn’t get that life. He has good ppl that truly love him
Bambi flexing she was a wife only for their relationship to end in a divorce is hilarious to me. Should’ve kept being nice to Erica, it would’ve been cool to see those two as friends 😅
@@quenquen200726 Erica dixion did with her uppity shade at the bam at momma dee wedding calling the bAm a bird all sorts awful name calls and disrespect with all if erica disrespect she will be getting her own karma soon
Yes in a normal relationship but Scrappy is a narcissist you will lose your mind if you don't vent to someone the ish a narcissist does is unreal literally
@@orianeasmore8941 that’s crazy. I’ve never experienced that and I hope I don’t. I’m pretty sure she’s done a lot for him. That’s what a relationship is essentially. So if he’s complaining or throwing it in your face, he’s not committed enough. (IMO)
I just want to say alcohol can be the most addictive substance on earth along with prescription drugs. I had a flashback watching this. My lovely mother passed away some years ago because of complications that derived due to excessive alcohol consumption. I just hope Scrapp is on top of his mother like I was while my mom had to go through chemo. She still would try and sneak drink and me as her youngest child/son would steal her liquor behind her back and pour it out. Nothing worse than being helpless to help the person that birthed you. I hope Momma Dee recovers well. Edit: I am now an addiction therapist.
I think they should have stayed together tbh. No relationship is ever gonna be without problems. And they both seem to still be very attracted to each other and love each other. They should have stuck it out and kept other people out of their business. Every couple gonna argue and have disagreements. They could have gotten a mediator or therapist to try some tactics to improve how they communicate when theres an issue. I don't know, I like them together.
That apology that Scrappy is so heartfelt💕💕I really wish they could've worked out they're marriage I love them as a couple & they have three beautiful babies
No most marriages are failing. The bible says in the end times the love of many will grow cold. That will lead to even more divorce than this 51% divorce rate we are currently at.
After being married over 30 years, husband left me for a white woman he met online, I was so devastated, sadly I did try to commit suicide because the pain was too unbearable. I'm better now and enjoying being single, but I do have a boo thang😛😛😛😂😂😂
Now scrap you know damn well if you saw Bam texting another nigga you definitely would go straight off the rictor like you said ! 🤣🤣 I know he meant rector y’all
After watching the first scene well technically 2nd scene, Mama Dee a always caused conflict. I’m not saying you can’t be apart of your adult’s child life but when she asked Scrappy to blow on her food. I was too through, but that was funny as hell when Bambi asked can black people be allergic to chicken. Scrappy’s reaction was hilarious!
I was routing for them. I don't really remember what happened in the earlier seasons but it's weird that some people think she deserves this. I will say though that she shouldn't have allowed her "friends" to have so much influence on her marriage.
I feel so bad for Bambi because I just know they were all ganging up on her. Erica gon come for her because she stuck on Scrappy and hate that he married someone else. Emani feel guilty because I believe she did tell the police that her mom hit her so now she hate on Bambi to make up for it. Momma Dee act like Scrappy can't do no wrong. And then Scrappy himself with all his narcissistic tendencies. They just formed a little Bambi hate squad. Who can behave perfectly when you under attack like that?
Saddest ending ever I wish they would’ve worked no one gets married to get a divorce 🥺 so it’s some type of love there I just wish it would’ve over powered all of this
I find his logic so funny, “it takes two to get married, two to ruin that marriage or two to get divorced” like, how is he pissed off at her asking for a divorce when she caught him cheating. Idk if he expected her to be like Rasheeda and forgive him for that but, I would file for divorce 2 days after finding out my partner cheated on me too. It’s not about love at that point it’s about trust and her trust must’ve been broken before this for her to reach her point. But even if something didn’t happen before, who wants to be with a cheater?
Everytime Love & hip hop uploads a video I'm reminded that they ain't give us that Masika and Moniece timeline lol. Love the videos though Still waiting on that video 😊
We grown adult children need to remember everything we tell our parents and everything we talk about with our parents, they will remeber. It could possibly and will probably affect their relationships with our significant others. Talk to your super close friends, talk to a therapist. Don't overshare.
Forget the red flags they have children together and I hope for Bambi and scrappy they pull through and make the best outcome for their children. I rebuke the negative energy in these videos. Amen
Bambi thought that Scrappy put a 💍 on her finger and married that she was better than Erica. That’s not the case. He just treated as bad (probably) worse than Erica.
She was/is better than Erica. Erica has been getting strung along for 20 years. Bambi got out and moved on to a better man meanwhile Erica is still getting played by Scrap.
@@a.j.c187that doesn’t make her better because she got a ring that foolishness to believe that. The only way that she would be better than her is if he treated her better by, loving protecting and providing which he did neither. So tell me how is she better just because she got a ring and a now a divorce?
Yandy was two faced on this season when it came to bambi.wheww this brung tears to my eyes at the end😢i could see the pain in scrappy eyes when he walked away.
@@dashiaamiracle9586 you gone have to go back and watch the show certain parts yandy was throwing shade everybody see things differently so I'm saying off of my own opinion of the way I viewed it she tends to throw rocks and hide her hands .
yea scrappy definitely wasn’t perfect but he always apologized and tried to take accountability. bambi never apologized not even for putting her hands on him in vegas
Bambi I really wish this could have worked out , stay strong and Beautiful , and give God some time ,and in him everything will be alright ,you Rise !!! Love you my lil sis🙏🏿❤️🙏🏿❤️
1:10 "You done moved way out here to no-man's-land" This lady just comes up with the most hilarious things off the top of her head. 🤔😂😂😭 She popped up over there looking for her grandson like she heard someone was over there doing him something. KMSL 🤞🏾😂😂😭🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
It is so very important to communicate with your spouse and not others and that would be the advice I would give a person feeling hopeless and drained in a relationship. Talk to your spouse, pray for him/her and keep your business your business!!!!
People tend to not realize that the same red flags that were ignored at the beginning of a relationships will be the same red flags that are waved to end it.
Wow you said that and I think everyone feel your comment!!
PREACH 🫡 you are absolutely right
That’s why we need to stop making it official during the honeymoon phase until we get to have legitimate conflicts, talk about family, politics etc. We hook up to quickly and resent each other later when we’re all trying to love ourselves and each other at the same time.
Wow wow wow wow all comments sooo sooo true God bless you all❤️🙏🌹
Exactly and what surprise me is people praising bambi to be the ex wife instead of erica. Erica warned her and gave back the ring coz she knows what os waiting for her but bambi acted as if she is the one and she can change him
If I was Rasheeda and I was discussing relationships/marriage problems with my friends, my response would always be, "I understand. I've been there before!" I wouldn't dare fix my mouth to speak negatively about ANYBODY'S situation! 😬😅
EXACTLY while Bambi was in the hot tub with Kirk (Rasheeda’s husband) and Benzino
I never liked Rasheeda. She is fake AF. She thinks she is the best thing since sliced bread. She was telling K Michelle in the earlier seasons about how K was jealous of her because she has a husband. She ate those words real quick and looked like an asshole the next season.
Yea I feel ya. Also use that opportunity to tell ‘em how they cud manage that situation peacefully without letting in laws or single friends push u to do the wrong things n handle ish the negative way that could result in the termination of the marriage. And scrappy real humble he always apologize first. I wish Bambi was that humble n not so entitled that scrappy owed her his life. She don’t ever take accountability , it’s always scraps fault . Wish she was a wife n not a wanna be boss of the home. Stop ordering scrap around n talking to him like her boy. If she want a divorce let her have it then n see what a divorce does to she n her kids n scrap. Unnecessary evil due to just feeling called ego that comes n goes untangible. It take 2 to get married but 1 to get a divorce . Scrappy dint cheat it’s just Bambi overthinking the text message. She gon regret losing a helping man cos most men these days are looking for the women to help them instead !
Much of it is scripted...
Facts, Rasheeda always does that, she’s delusional.
Kirk giving relationship advice is sending me 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Easy for him to say what NOT to do when he did it all🤣🤣🤦🏻♀️
@@Mello0315 bruh 🤣
Right
@@Mello0315 In life sometimes you can learn from OTHER peoples mistakes...
@@erik15th Hence telling them what not to do from his experience…
You know your relationship is in hell when Rasheeda and Kirk giving yall advice 🥴💀
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Yessssssssss they couldn't tell me shit lol
Lol 😊
😂😂😂😂 Yes! Kirk and Rasheeda both need to have several seats.
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Why is the music so loud?! We can barely hear them talking. Also, this just shows how Bambi is in the right for leaving. All the women say the same thing: Scrappy doesn’t pay bills. Erica said she helped him and Shay was even paying his bills. He has so many issues! Looking for the love of a mom from a partner because his mom wasn’t a good mom. He’s so immature and exhausting. Goodness!
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Indeed 💯
The music IS too fuking louddd😭😂😂
Right!
That sounds soooo sad😢
Really sad that a lot of this could be avoided if they kept family and friends out of their business and learned to communicate and listen to each other about their needs. The WAY you state what you need help from a partner is crucial
Exactly, and I think it could have really worked out for them. The are both stubborn and places the blame on the other. They have 3 beautiful children, but hey, I guess it was too much. But I do hope they can remain friends and coparent together
@@wendyjenkins8379 yuppppp wishing them the best
@@CharisMaggieTV 💗
They didn't need to be together from the start...
And bms out of it too!
It's so crazy how the moment Bambi didn't wanna deal with scrap no more he switched up fast and put a ring on her finger. Men can't stand to see you with
somebody else.
It’s the oldest story in the fuk boi book..as soon as u don’t want em, they want u and as soon as u back to wanting them, the cycle continues..
Lol she could’ve said no
@@TaShaBeNz85true girl
Bambi isn't a victim she had plenty of chances to walk away before the marriage and kids but she choose to stay. So I don't feel bad for her or him. Accountability for her own choices is the name of the game.
@@TaShaBeNz85 facts girl
Im so glad that scrappy went up to Bambi and apologized you can tell they both love eachother
no they don’t it’s for tv
girl khaotic had to convince him , scrappy is still a lil boy.
From what I saw, he did that a lot, and I didn’t see one time where she apologized back for anything, admitted she did anything, but I did see after he apologized her continue to point out his failings and flaws
He’s a manipulator
This is a prime example of keep everybody and I mean everybody out cha business
Kirk(with his musty 3 earrings) and Rasheeda are THE LAST couple to be giving marriage advice and speaking on anyones relationship🥴🥴😂
They can give advice as they have experience the up and downs
Yea my marriage counselor said 70 percent of marriages that last a lifetime experience some type of traumatic experience such as extended affairs or outside kids.
@@orawhorton8778cheating on your wife over 3 times and having a baby on her is not a challenge in marriage, and shouldn’t be the norm. It’s blatant disregard and disrespect for the marriage. No person should stay in a relationship where that occurs. If they choose to stay, then that’s some BS
@@vic902 that is her decision and not ours to decide whether she stays with her husband or not,there are so many women’s out there in her shoes and several singles ladies too,so the peoples should think about their own relationship
Actually they are the couple you want to listen to, because you know they have been there and their marriage isn't perfect. It's the ones who act like they are perfect and never been through anything that you don't want to listen to.
Yall wanna know whats funny bambi really held down scrappy and kept information from the cameras but its like scrappy was gaslighting her to spazz on him.
Yes she did, and all she wanted was for him to be mote present. Do your job and come home, but they wanna paint her as the bad person
I was saying the same thing! We never knew their moms fought and all that other drama that came out! I was like damn they kept a lot of shit off camera which was a good thing
@@dionnepanton1831 NO they showed a few episodes with the mother's feuding, momma Dee just wanna be the ONLY momma, and she was so jealous of Bambi's mom
@@wendyjenkins8379She hide a lot because if it made her look bad she wanted no parts of it just like when they brought up her mother trying to fight his then 14 year old daughter and bam got mad and walked out on production. That’s why she’s told him to go to the public and help her with her image she’s more worried about how the public perceives her than how she is to friends and family behind the scenes.
@@LadyRedd09 There were plenty of things that made her look bad and not everything is meant to be public. They already painted her as a hoe because of that hot tub scene with Benzino which happened years ago. I'm over it and I wish her nothing but the best. At least her kids are by the same person, and she was married, now divorced but it happens. Mostly everyone wanna be team Erica, who has 3 kids, still not married....hmmm
Mama dee walking in with that walker has me literally on the floor idk why 😂😂😂😂 edit: i’m glad she is okay dealing with her health issues
😂😂 Harpo Who dis woman???
I know she was in pain, but I can’t take her serious
Bambi looked very numb in the end when Scrappy was apologizing, and i felt that. like you’re sorry now that everything is over? i’m sure they both gave eachother closure but had he done that in the first place and had he been more attentive to Bambi, they would’ve worked.
The background music is too loud, we can barely ear what they say in some scenes. It's annoying.
💯🎯 i can't hear my own thoughts.
I thought I was the only one and why is there so much music either
I said the same thing.
I really liked them as a couple. And their kids are beautiful!
Bam ran out of grace. Every woman has her breaking point. One small thing and the entire relationship could end and That's what scrappy dont get, his marriage was fragile. Even if he and Diamond didn't have sex, he still put himself in a compromising position
Y’all love the idea of marriage but one small thing and it’s over. Just don’t get married because it’s not romantic all the time, it’s hard work and a duty to God.
@@monih.1994theres marriages where none of that bs going on. on. If he saw her texting someone would he be so forgiving. 🙃 no he'd use it as a reason to cheat. Yall like to be married just to say you are and THATS WHATS SAD
@@MMJCREW Marriage is about grace and yes men forgive women for cheating too. What women fail to realize is there will always be something you have to work through and trust she will meet another man and go through the same issues because of her personality.
I agree. It wasn’t just Diamond it was the ex and then the mother in law disrespecting her and her mother. Throw years of miscommunication and her feeling unheard and vice versa. At some point it burns you out and it makes it too hard to salvage the relationship.
@@MMJCREW EXACTLY 💯
Idk why Bambi gets so much hate, she’s seems like a nice person.
I love Scrappy but he needs help.
Because the haters identity with the bm and not her. I love Bambi.
I liked her up until what she said to his daughter.. she was wrong !
Exactly it's so weird it's because toxic lying manipulative Erica has created a false narrative and she has a cult going and she is the mean and spiteful one
@@angelhowell7760and that same daughter insulted her parenting by calling her step siblings bald headed. Yall pick and choose. That girl should have stayed in a child’s place.
@@orbius.6555half siblings not step, they have the same dad
If you think i am going to watch this shit can of a relationship for 33 minutes, you're damn right
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"Do you think Black People can be allergic to chicken" 🤣🤣🤣🤣Bambi was dead serious.
The response was hilarious as well “hell naw”
😂😂😂😂😂yes it was they funny ❤
This is so sad when you watch it all together. If Scrap could have controlled his emotions and communication and kept his mom out of things, that would have solved ALOT. When you watch this you can see that Bambi is a very calm person. She never made any situation worse. That is the kind of balance scrap needs because he is so fiery. I really wished they could have worked out.
And that’s why he said he NEVER wanted a divorce. He could always talk to bam. She really cared and fought just as hard as him. He said “i really believed you were the ONLY WOMAN for me.” I’ve never heard him say that about anyone else. 33:50
Tbh he never learned from how he treated Erica. She should’ve known he wasn’t it.
Tbh he never learned from how he treated Erica. She should’ve known he wasn’t it
@@0003-t6xneither did Erica, she fcking him again after 20 years of mistakes.
@@missy_SassI agree I think he really loves Bambi she was just a real challenge for him and he isn't used to that anyone who believes he loves Erica is just as delusional and desperate as she is Bambi is who he wants but can't have cause he's very CHILDISH!
Bambi knew who Scrappy was when she married him.
Exactly I do not feel bad fa the girl at all
Gbam… That’s the problem. SHE WAS CREEPING WITH A CREEP AND THOSE CANT BE TRUSTED
Bambi was his wife!
The only wife! No comparison!
Xactly
Bambi coving her babies eyes when scrap giving his mom a breathalyzer and her making him cool it down her food for her. I was so dead 🥴🤣🤣🤣💀
Their kids are so cute. They should stay together. They were a beautiful family.
Perfect example of when a woman thinks a man won’t do her like the last one 😅 Erica complained that she took care of him and their child. Bambi complained about taking care of him and their children. Wife or not, now she’s a divorced mom of 3. The cycle continues.
Right even Erica had sense enough to have only 1 child by scrappy mean while Bambi silly ass had 3
He said she’s tripping off of a couple of text messages. Lol not only was you laying with an ex you was talking shit about your wife, who wasn’t tripping, because you was in fact cheating. You can’t work nothing out with someone who won’t be honest. He has those kids I hope he grows up soon 😢
“I don’t have the opportunity to lay down and be soft with you. I don’t.” Okay 🦌🦌. Does that sound familiar to anyone? I’m not a fan of Bambi but no one deserves to be cheated on and the same thing she’s saying, it was the same things Erica was saying.
But when erica warned her she said baby mama can be side chick too..look how it ended
They aren't having sex with their man...wtf do they expect. They going to get cheated on.
@@rzworld228you a pick me.
@yourfavcontentcreator_ I'm a real wife 19 years and still going ❤
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the background music is WAY to loud
I thought I was just super stoned 😭 glad you mentioned it
LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOO i’m like wtf 😂😂😂😂😂😂
IDK what anyone says, I love these two together but Scrappy needs to grow up and Bambi needs to chill down
I agree with you. Bambi is hard-core, from Compton, I grew up in Watts, so you have to be even stronger when dealing with certain things, look how Scrappy gree up, in a whore house, so no man was around to help guide him. I was really rooting for them because you can see the love, but sometimes that isn't enough, she needed more support, especially after having kids back to back. No way he should have been communicating with washed up ass Diamond. Bambi just got tired of it, and rightfully so. I'm wishing them the very best💗💗
@@wendyjenkins8379 I say it's kind of like a Daddy's girl meet Momma's boy. Regardless these two together it's just puppy love.
@wendy Yes I hate to see another couple break up due to issues they had prior to even meeting ! These issues doesn’t make either person a bad person , just wish they would have went to a great couple therapist first to fix their traumas .
They were a much better fit!
He don’t love Bambi she just the more convient pick he loves Erica but Erica is always too much but the one he loves the most is Diamond because she’s the one he humiliates the most and downplays the most because he don’t want others to see her she has the bestfriend feel men love women who they can just chill and be themselves with
If any couple needed long-term individual and marriage counseling, it was Scrappy and Bambi. They both needed a better way to communicate their needs and relate to each other The love was there but the blaming, tit-for-tat, not listening and communication in general was horrible.
Bambi saying do you think black people can be allergic to chicken hahaha
And scrappy saying hell naw
Scrappy got alot of love & compassion in his life. He’s a blessed dude bc alot of the rappers didn’t get that life. He has good ppl that truly love him
Great point. 💯
The way he sippin on that apple juice when she dropped that info 😂
Like hold on lemme think of a rebuttal
The timeline gave as soon as she stopped praising him and being his mom then came the little boy inside throwing a tantrum
GOT DAYUUMMMM, THE MUSIC IS SOOOO LOUD!!!!!!🤯🤯🤯
& annoying 😢
“do you think black people can be allergic to chicken” “hell naw” ☠️☠️
😂😂😂😂😂😂
I love that Bambi looked all suprised and thought wverything was "alot" and weird at the mideviltimes restraunt, but she brought him there 😂
They got some cute babies btw 😊
Bambi flexing she was a wife only for their relationship to end in a divorce is hilarious to me. Should’ve kept being nice to Erica, it would’ve been cool to see those two as friends 😅
erica dixion never liked the bam you Erica dixion mini me cult member she always thought she was superior to the bam but we're she is at
@@yvonnecox7534Thought she was superior how? That was all Bambi. She didn't want to be cool with Erica and didn't want Scrappy to be either.
@@quenquen200726 Erica dixion did with her uppity shade at the bam at momma dee wedding calling the bAm a bird all sorts awful name calls and disrespect with all if erica disrespect she will be getting her own karma soon
They literally tried to have a sit-down with rasheeda and she lost her shit because Erica couldn't keep past issues to herself
They share the same child’s father they don’t need to be friends cordial will do.
3:18
Not Bambi covered up the baby's eyes. 🤦🏾♀️😂😂😂😂😂😂😭😭
This break up made me a little sad, Families are a testament to God. Their is no room for ego in marriage🙏
I totally agree with you 💯💯💯💯you could see the love they had for each others. It made me sad as well😔
Amen ❤
@@wendyjenkins8379 I cried lol
Yesss
These are how a typical “Atlanta” guy behaves. I wish I was trying to be funny but I’m not.
Lord..for real????😮😮
I live here and yes but Scrappy is a malignant narcissist he was always trying to gaslight and manipulate that girl
At least he's not sleeping with men and coming home having unprotected sex with my woman like the typical men in Atlanta!
When scrappy said, I got to be out to work the record
Bambi was looking like “ what record nicca” 😂
a relationship is two people. and this is a prime example of why your relationship needs to stay your business only.
Yes in a normal relationship but Scrappy is a narcissist you will lose your mind if you don't vent to someone the ish a narcissist does is unreal literally
@@armcandi36 yea you have a point. he never wanted to listen to
I love Scrappy and Bambi together. Too many outsiders. Mama Dee was the worst. His daughter and her mom add to the mix.
Thank you 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Emoney??? How so?
Bambi shape is absolutely amazing
Too skinny
If my husband brags about what he’s spent on me during an argument - I’m leaving him.
Men always do that even I a relationship. When mad day come out everything comes out. 😮😮
@@orianeasmore8941 that’s crazy. I’ve never experienced that and I hope I don’t. I’m pretty sure she’s done a lot for him. That’s what a relationship is essentially. So if he’s complaining or throwing it in your face, he’s not committed enough. (IMO)
@@puresuga219learn to be more appreciative then they wouldn’t be brought up in the first place
@@dezo6 👀
This relationship was red flag from the beginning.
How so?
I just want to say alcohol can be the most addictive substance on earth along with prescription drugs. I had a flashback watching this. My lovely mother passed away some years ago because of complications that derived due to excessive alcohol consumption. I just hope Scrapp is on top of his mother like I was while my mom had to go through chemo. She still would try and sneak drink and me as her youngest child/son would steal her liquor behind her back and pour it out. Nothing worse than being helpless to help the person that birthed you. I hope Momma Dee recovers well.
Edit: I am now an addiction therapist.
You're an awesome son. Stay strong 💪🏿
c'mon part2! but im still waiting on that moniece and masika friendship timeline 😔
I think they should have stayed together tbh. No relationship is ever gonna be without problems. And they both seem to still be very attracted to each other and love each other. They should have stuck it out and kept other people out of their business. Every couple gonna argue and have disagreements. They could have gotten a mediator or therapist to try some tactics to improve how they communicate when theres an issue. I don't know, I like them together.
Lamo how is Rasheed of all people telling Bambi what is and isn't ok? She stayed with he guy who cheated and had a baby on her
That apology that Scrappy is so heartfelt💕💕I really wish they could've worked out they're marriage I love them as a couple & they have three beautiful babies
Bambi and Scrappy's marriage would have survived had they quit the show.
Agreed, most failed reality show relationships probably had a chance without cameras. Pressure busts pipes.
No most marriages are failing. The bible says in the end times the love of many will grow cold. That will lead to even more divorce than this 51% divorce rate we are currently at.
Scrappy would have still cheated.
Probably not bc she said he kept cheating on her a lot.
I love being single
Facts 💯
After being married over 30 years, husband left me for a white woman he met online, I was so devastated, sadly I did try to commit suicide because the pain was too unbearable. I'm better now and enjoying being single, but I do have a boo thang😛😛😛😂😂😂
I love my boyfriend. Every relationship is not the same. Set your own tone.
Periodt
@@emayan06 girl we don’t care
They could’ve worked but they clearly don’t hear each other. The love is there, they just need to work at it if they really want to
Now scrap you know damn well if you saw Bam texting another nigga you definitely would go straight off the rictor like you said ! 🤣🤣 I know he meant rector y’all
It is Richter scale actually
23:06 Bambi called scrap in the room to pack the box just to argue wit him 😂😂😂
Bc thr camer people were there so they needed to do something exciting so why not argue. 😊
@ yep and it’s scripted :) it was funny tho 🤣🤣🤣
You’ll never have peace where you’re not supposed to be ✅🕊️
Not Rasheeda talking about “ stop going back to your mama” girllllll 🍵
After watching the first scene well technically 2nd scene, Mama Dee a always caused conflict. I’m not saying you can’t be apart of your adult’s child life but when she asked Scrappy to blow on her food. I was too through, but that was funny as hell when Bambi asked can black people be allergic to chicken. Scrappy’s reaction was hilarious!
Y’all need to do Princess and ray j
I think they have
I don’t know if it’s me but why does the music get louder when they start arguing on all the lhh videos???
TURN DOWN THE BACKGROUND MUSIC, UGH
That pregnancy announcement was sooooo EXXXTTTTRRRAAAA 😂😂😂😂 #butGoOFsis
Not how defensive scrappy got when Bambi asked for help ……
Right
ScraBam (Scrappy and Bambi) thizzo (thing) done fizznaee (fizzle)
I was routing for them. I don't really remember what happened in the earlier seasons but it's weird that some people think she deserves this. I will say though that she shouldn't have allowed her "friends" to have so much influence on her marriage.
Bambi really thought she won 🏆 😂
Mama Dee anit no joke did u brush yo teeth this morning 😂😂😂😂
VH1 ain’t ish! He’s currently in Hawaii with his “Babymama” Erica.
They Hell😂😂😂😂
@@msnet71 Facts 😂😂😂 I really hope she don’t take him back though. He’s embarrassed her
@@GiGiChosenthe daughter mistakenly said they were together on the live and tried to pull out the fire
@@GiGiChosenhe will continue to embarrass her!
I feel so bad for Bambi because I just know they were all ganging up on her. Erica gon come for her because she stuck on Scrappy and hate that he married someone else. Emani feel guilty because I believe she did tell the police that her mom hit her so now she hate on Bambi to make up for it. Momma Dee act like Scrappy can't do no wrong. And then Scrappy himself with all his narcissistic tendencies. They just formed a little Bambi hate squad. Who can behave perfectly when you under attack like that?
Come on bam 4 hours to get the kids ready big sis 😂😂😂😂
Right like WTF??? Why can't she bring them to see Momma Dee?? 😮😮
Yes I was thinking the same thing I have 5 kids and get them ready in half that time lol she funny and patty😂
Some kids take a lot of work. My niece is like 10 kids
Why is the background music so loud 😂😂😂
For the people that didnt have ear problems but now do😂😂
@@theiswithin3649 I’m telling you lol because I couldn’t even watch the whole video it’s so bad 🤣
I think Kirk and resheda can tell you how to get through tough times and I believe that’s one way to stay married
Saddest ending ever I wish they would’ve worked no one gets married to get a divorce 🥺 so it’s some type of love there I just wish it would’ve over powered all of this
I know, I feel the same way. They should have tried counseling 😔😔😔
Bambi always act like she doesn't do anything wrong!!
finally someone said it
Facts! She's always the victim
Turn the music down
Na fr I could barely hear scrappy in the beginning 😂
I find his logic so funny, “it takes two to get married, two to ruin that marriage or two to get divorced” like, how is he pissed off at her asking for a divorce when she caught him cheating. Idk if he expected her to be like Rasheeda and forgive him for that but, I would file for divorce 2 days after finding out my partner cheated on me too. It’s not about love at that point it’s about trust and her trust must’ve been broken before this for her to reach her point. But even if something didn’t happen before, who wants to be with a cheater?
Everytime Love & hip hop uploads a video I'm reminded that they ain't give us that Masika and Moniece timeline lol. Love the videos though
Still waiting on that video 😊
We grown adult children need to remember everything we tell our parents and everything we talk about with our parents, they will remeber. It could possibly and will probably affect their relationships with our significant others. Talk to your super close friends, talk to a therapist. Don't overshare.
Forget the red flags they have children together and I hope for Bambi and scrappy they pull through and make the best outcome for their children. I rebuke the negative energy in these videos. Amen
Bambi thought that Scrappy put a 💍 on her finger and married that she was better than Erica. That’s not the case. He just treated as bad (probably) worse than Erica.
Yes she thought she was better. He didn't treat her just as bad. He treated her better. She just isn't going to let the world know.
No she thought she had a husband. No one cares about Erica
@@meyou7990this
She was/is better than Erica. Erica has been getting strung along for 20 years. Bambi got out and moved on to a better man meanwhile Erica is still getting played by Scrap.
@@a.j.c187that doesn’t make her better because she got a ring that foolishness to believe that. The only way that she would be better than her is if he treated her better by, loving protecting and providing which he did neither. So tell me how is she better just because she got a ring and a now a divorce?
Why’s the background music so mdfn loud?
Bambi definitely was a part of Scrappy discovering himself as a man and a father.
I get where Bambi was coming from about the partying… but I feel like women want a man with money and don’t realize he’ll probably barely be home.
Not just the money that entire lifestyle.. scrappy seems to be the same person he has always been.. men usually want the women to get on their accord
Scrap is broke
Scrappy is rich??😂😂
Wtf!!!! Scrappy ain't rich
Yandy was two faced on this season when it came to bambi.wheww this brung tears to my eyes at the end😢i could see the pain in scrappy eyes when he walked away.
What part was this
@@dashiaamiracle9586 you gone have to go back and watch the show certain parts yandy was throwing shade everybody see things differently so I'm saying off of my own opinion of the way I viewed it she tends to throw rocks and hide her hands .
Yandy has always being a snake, a liar and a manipulator
That thumbnail got Bambi looking like momma Dee 😮
😂 true
PLEASE😭😭
yea scrappy definitely wasn’t perfect but he always apologized and tried to take accountability. bambi never apologized not even for putting her hands on him in vegas
Apologize and take accountability to not do anything to change wtf he apologizing and taking accountability for
Please he use to do the same with Erika lmao he full of ish
You don't know that u don't live with them
@@wellmindyourbusiness4409 Exactly 💯💯
The background music is WAYYYYY to damn loud and dramatic, I can’t even hear the argument. Fix it please
Bambi I really wish this could have worked out , stay strong and Beautiful , and give God some time ,and in him everything will be alright ,you Rise !!! Love you my lil sis🙏🏿❤️🙏🏿❤️
Yes that's sweet
The background music😢
1:10
"You done moved way out here to no-man's-land"
This lady just comes up with the most hilarious things off the top of her head. 🤔😂😂😭
She popped up over there looking for her grandson like she heard someone was over there doing him something. KMSL 🤞🏾😂😂😭🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Bam was on his ass in that one scene 😂
Who’s here after the Scrappy + Carlos King interview to analyze this?
Why is Kirk wearing a lace front crochet sew in?
😂
It’s like y’all are purposely making the music louder and louder in these clips…it’s absolutely ridiculous at this point
Music is too loud
It is so very important to communicate with your spouse and not others and that would be the advice I would give a person feeling hopeless and drained in a relationship. Talk to your spouse, pray for him/her and keep your business your business!!!!
I blame Scrappy for their marriage not working out.
it’s both their fault. bambi talks to him like he’s not a man and disrespects him ALOT
@venuswrld this is not a valid excuse
They both the problem. Both not listening to one another.
@@baqiahlimmy1141 that’s definitely a valid excuse. No man or YOU wants to feel disrespected by their spouse. Are you slow?
@baqiahlimmy1141 so do you think it's okay for your husband r wife too talk too you crazy in front of pplor behind close doors....😂😂
THE BACKGROUND MUSIC IS TOO LOUD!!!