As a young adult woman its inspiring and a great thing to hear when you guys spotlight hila and her growth as a woman. I am not a parent but we can all still relate in learning to trust ourselves and becoming more confident. Its beautiful to see hila blossoming and coming into her own!
That's about the only thing I can agree with what H3 has become, other than that Ethan is a touch too toxic nowadays. 😭 yes I'm crying about it, but I agree with you 100% nonetheless. 😊
absolutely killed by the crew being like "ethan do this later, sorry audio listeners" about him recording a tiktok as if we haven't had 20 minute silent subway/mcdonalds segments
I know right! It’s crazy how amazing she looks in plain casual outfits, but then also comes in with these high fashion outfits 😍 she’d look good wearing anything but I’ve been loving all her different looks
Feel like I'm transitioning lined up w hilas outfits and bravery 😂 truly tho seeing her so happy to this degree is amazing and we are like same age and I'm just living for every hola episode this year
The segment addressing mental health, suicide, and toxic masculinity was so important. Thank you for speaking on this, it could literally save someone’s life!!
No one should take advice from Ethan. Very positive thing he preached he does the exact opposite. Also there no such thing as toxic masculinity. Just toxic men.
Not to belabour the point, but Hila is an inspiration to shy guys as well. I've always identified with her. She also got me to appreciate fashion and helped me understand what being a good partner means. Though I miss when Hila was more involved with the show, I now cherish these Friday eps when she joins in ❤
@@lazylion420 tf are u talking about? just because someone is skinny doesn’t mean they are automatically going to be confident… when they first started h3 hila was absolutely terrified of being behind the camera and it’s amazing watching her go from that to this.
I’ve had two and my tits are completely lopsided. Saggy. Massive. I am covered in purple stretch mark scars. C section scars. My entire body is 100% different. Just because a super thin woman had babies and stayed thin doesn’t mean you should expect your pregnancy to be that way lol. Sorry but its not realistic
You have to have good genetics to not get stretch marks/breast problems. And you have to work VERY hard to stay in shape during the pregnancy, women only need apparently 300 more calories a day during pregnancy ONLY in the third trimester, which good luck with that. You have to workout every day and work very hard after the birth as well. And developing the energy or drive to do so while pregnant is extremely difficult.
i think what a lot of people don't understand about depression is that yes, it can be helped by changing your lifestyle, but some people are suffering so deeply they need to be medicated in order to even get themselves to a point where changing their lifestyle is a possibility.
I'm so grateful for a professional who explained to me there is "having depression" and there is "being depressed" some people can develop a full clinical depression, and others can go Through A depression. They are very similar but not the same, and we're treating as one
The alpha clowns don't understand that being very sad due to something bad in your life is not depression. Depression is a chemical imbalance in your brain. It can't be fixed by bettering your life. Sadness can, but not depression. A chemical imbalance is fixed by taking medication that balances those chemicals; not by getting a six pack. They simply don't understand what depression is, and think it just means very very sad, because they are very very dumb.
The biggest alpha move is to admit your weaknesses and your struggles and work through them. Thank you to the pod for always being so open and honest about mental health issues and inspiring us. ✌🏻❤️
Yeah, these guys are acting like Al Capone, which they would take as a compliment, but guess what? Al Capone died of untreated syphilis because it would have "made him appear weak" to seek treatment. Dude lost his mind and then died due to him being so "masculine". I fail to see how that is laudable.
As a male who lifts and does powerlifting, I found comfort in the gym it was my life it cured my depression UNTIL I got injured and I had to stop and I completely gave up on myself. The gym is a crutch to lean on and it helps but leaning on it too much and then having it stripped from you can send you into a downward spiral. I’ve loved this podcast for so long and Ethan speaks so many truths especially about toxic masculinity culture and how damaging it can be Edit: all of the comments I’ve gotten have been super supportive y’all are so awesome!
@@ricciamber I’ve been diagnosed since I was in 8th grade, cured isn’t the right term but it was a bandaid fix that worked for a year or so. Just putting my story out so people that feel like their depression is gone, fixed or lessened while they’re working out know that it isn’t permanent and it can cause a major crash.
My cousin is the same way. He says when he is not active he feels depressed and could be because I feel the gym is a nice form of meditation and grounding yourself because you have to focus on the body and in that moment free your mind of any troubling thoughts. But yes, it helps but sometimes you also need counseling or medication to fully confront the depression
you’re absolutely right that it alone is a bandaid! the long term solution is going to be multifaceted. exercise, therapy (or more generally just improving the way you think and your thought processes), diet (eat good, feel good), possibly medications (antidepressants or fixing an issue that can cause depression eg thyroid problems) or supplements (deficiencies can also cause depression), lifestyle changes (work, who you surround yourself with, hobbies) and SO much more.
@@btafbm since the dawn of time, makeup has been a form of self expression. From the ancient Egyptians using charcoal around their eyes, to Celtic tribes, Vikings, indigenous cultures from the Americas, Australia, Africa - my point is, that all cultures have used makeup in some way as a form of self expression, for literally thousands of years. It takes confidence to express yourself through style
I really loved how supportive and curious Ethan was about women’s products. After seeing men on other platforms try the same type of segment but make fun of the products or not try to learn, this was a breathe of fresh air! Thank you for taking a peak behind the curtain with an open mind. It’s super important to show. Love ya, keep it up!
loves little “to get list” was so cute - as a woman this podcast really makes me feel appreciated and listened too. I think a big reason why men don’t know a lot about women’s products/ inventions is because like the sebastian episode men just literally don’t listen to women or their contributions so why would we try to tell men about the cool stuff we have when they probably aren’t listening anyway
Goodness me, I teared up listening to that post from the mum. It is so so hard to feel weak, it is so hard to ask for help, it is just so hard. Having clinical depression, antidepressants saved me. Thank you Ethan for being the inspiring man we all need, I know you don’t think of yourself as inspiring but you are. Being so open, honest and vulnerable is hard, but it helps people more than you know.
Sending love ❤❤ I'm in the same boat, the decision to take anti depressants was hard and I definitely experience some pretty shit side effects but I'm still here and so are you 💕💕
Shootout to all the blokes who have been here from the laughing at buzzfeed sjw's to laughing at manosphere goofballs. We're in this h3 thing for the long term
Going on antidepressants was the worst time of my life. It literally made me have awful breakdowns. Like crying, rocking, incoherent for nearly an hour each time I had to take them for the first few days. And the journey to even get to that point was so long, it didn’t seem worth it until it started working. I was fragile for a long time afterwards still, but it gave me the baseline to fix what was wrong inside myself. I’ll probably be on them for the rest of my life and I’ve accepted that. At first, I felt weak for needing something more to function at 50% of what normal people function by themselves, but I realize now that it just gives me the ability to be on a level playing field with people who can just live and make serotonin themselves. I’m at a point now where I feel genuinely happy and like life is worth living. I never thought I’d be here. I didn’t even think I’d live past 18. I’m 24 in 6 months, seven years past my own expiration date, still kickin!!!!
We need to remember that fam that unalived themselves, that could have been any of us. We need to support each other so much more. Thank you Ethan for spreading awareness
Yeah we need to spread awareness but then there are some kids like Sebastian who think mental illness is a joke and can be gone if ignored or by going to the gym or else they will be “weak” if they seek help
This could have easily been me, and easily still could. I bawled listening to Ethan read her post. Make fun of me all you want, but at this point in my life, 99.95% of the time, this podcast is the only thing that stops me from ending it all.
I think it was hilarious on Wednesday how Sebastian kept telling Ethan to lose weight when he already has lost a ton of weight and is still in the process of losing weight and working out. Ethan didn’t even mention it he’s so humble lol
I mean to be fair Ethan stopped losing weight. He has mentioned recently he isn't really working out and eating as well lately. Hopefully he gets below 200 again one day. I'm not sure if it's his diet solely or something else, but he has seemed so unhealthy the past few years.
@@mrstarfishh33 It's definitely solely diet, maintaining a calorie deficit is a constant fight for some people. He's definitely at a much healthier weight than he was.
@@666slateran666 You don't speak for everyone lol, not even close. People can be inspirational for lots of different reasons to different people. Ethan is a very successful creator. Your sweeping statement is redundant.
as someone who goes to the gym 6-7 days a week. Exercise can help and be an outlet but therapy and medication has helped my depression and anxiety the most. Just like Hila said without it I couldn’t even get out of bed to make it to the gym in the first place 💕 Ethan is the new Alpha
Thank you for saying this! I was always told to exercise and meditate. But before therapy and meds, being alone, in silence, with only my thoughts was a terrifying endeavor. Its like being able to change a lightbulb. I can totally do it, I just need a boost from a step stool. Much love to you. Stay strong. ❤️
Being fat *is* alpha, historically obesity was a sign of wealth and status, while being fit was a result of toiling away at physical labor just to survive. Ethan's built like Henry VIII.
@@Louis-lr6pqYou might want to expand where you're getting your information! "White" people were the ones who learned about agriculture late, other cultures were already taking care of the planet in their regular existence :) and Henry was not athletic, he was fat
Ethan and Hila and their emotional maturity is something to truly look up to as a young person. I’ve been in toxic relationships, and the way they talked about love is exactly what i’ve learned and what I want. I have so much respect for them.
I don't think it was real. I don't want to believe there's a person out there who can have their partner speak like that, and then go "Ethan you ruined my relationship". A more appropriate title would be "Thanks Ethan for saving me from a toxic relationship".
@@LadyAurian you seriously don’t think domestic abuse is real? is that a joke? there are millions of couple just like this… it’s a very real and very serious issue in the world. always has been. just because you don’t like it, doesn’t make it any less real.
@@LadyAurian well my ex called me many many names like dumb c*unt for example and yet even when I finally broke up with him I was still sad the relationship was over. Kind of like abuse messes with your head….
@Vooknu Sheckler Doesn't seem you read either. When that abusive relationship finally did end, did you go around complaining that it ended and being upset about whatever it was that brought it about? Abuse is real. I never said it wasn't. I've been there myself. What I'd prefer to believe was fake, is the viewer blaming Ethan for their toxic relationship ending. I'd prefer to think they were glad to have seen to their partners core early so they can get away.
The Boomer Mom post was so heartbreaking. My brother was very fit, always played sports, he made good money, but that didn't make him happy. He appeared happy but deep down he wasn't. If we knew we would have encouraged him to get the help he needed. These alpha males "advice" that men just need to go to the gym is absolute bull. There is more help out there and no one should feel ashamed seeking it.
My brother passed away in a similarly unexpected way 3 years ago. Nobody knew he was struggling until he was gone. It's been really fucking hard. I'm so sorry that you understand that pain as well.
@@calvinlee8103 I'm sorry to hear that. It is crazy how the most happy looking people are sometimes the most depressed. When I look back I notice the signs, he just hid them very well that to me they weren't there at the time
This is why I watch this podcast bc I’m 23 and I honestly learn a lot from hearing people way older than me talk about issues. Gives me this new perspective on things and sometimes it helps me see how flawed my thinking can be at times and hearing them break it down helps me understand and stay open minded and even guide me to a better way of seeing and understand things.
I love how Olivia, Sam, Lena, and Hila have brought a female perspective to the show over the last couple years. I always felt like the female perspective was lacking years ago when the crew was predominantly male, so it’s so great seeing their contributions grow the show ❤ love all the guys too, just wanna shout out my girlies!
Reading that mom's statement and trying not to cry because that could have been my mom since I tried unaliving myself a few years ago. Your guy's content and Ethan openly speaking and bringing to light these subjects is so important! I'm glad I went to therapy and took medication because otherwise I wouldn't be living my best life today! Love you guys ❤
I just wanna say that im so thankful for this show! 💛 If i hadn't started watching in 2019 when i was 18 I would probably be a different person today like a Tate fan or smthing. Thank you Hila and Ethan and the crew for influencing me during my formative years. My irl friends from high school are all tater fans and i just feel like I would be in the same boat, being toxic and insecure. Ethan and this show have genuinely helped me "understand" women, be confident and trust my partner. Hila and Sam are especially SLAYING today. Absolute queens! Peace and love ✌️♥️
so thankful for Ethan speaking up about depression/mental health and defending medication. I didn’t have the courage to start medication until I hit my rock bottom. it has changed my life. I’ve struggled with mental health for almost a decade, and starting my anti anxiety meds was the best decision I’ve ever made. people like sebastian don’t understand that medication isn’t a cure-all type of deal. medication has to be used in combination with therapy and coping skills to manage your anxiety and depression. it’s hard work, but it’s worth it.
Even though the conversation with Sébastien filled me with a rage I've never known before, I loved that Ethan did not back down and challenged that harmful narrative him and too many others are spewing.
Everyone knows that warm feeling when you cuddle up with your pup, some snacks and a slug (or drink) for your favorite show and the fact that I get that now FIVE TIMES A WEEK with the new lore videos truly makes you guys the #1 show for me. You’ve surpassed Howard Stern in my book and that’s saying ALOTTT coming from me. LOVE THE FAMILY 🫶🏽🥹
for some reason i really love when the h3 crew partakes in "girly" stuff, like the time they all did their makeup together, and i loved today's segment when they reviewed women's beauty products. i find it really cute and i'm not sure how to articulate why, maybe it's the lack of toxic masculinity that i find comforting?? idk
After years of me watching your content alone, I found a guy 5 years ago who has had to over hear you guys, has fallen in love with you guys, and now actively watches you guys with me. He loves having a supportive couple to look up to and having a guy who puts words to his beliefs. So thank you guys for being there for both of us.
tbh I’m struggling with the idea of taking meds myself, so hearing ethan talk so candidly about mental health and medication is something i realllllyyyy appreciate as i try to come to my own terms with my feelings around it.
I struggled with starting mine too, but honestly the best choice I ever made! You can always stop these things if they don't work so don't be scared and do what's best for you❤
honestly it’s just different for everyone. any ssri i try and take has a bad effect on me physically bc i get serotonin syndrome but i think for most people it helps them
It almost never hurts to try & if it doesn’t work, don’t give up! If your doctor wants to try a different type, give it a shot. A lot of the commonly prescribed medications aren’t for everybody but there’s at least one that will help you a lot, or at least some
My 4 year old daughters father unalived himself last year. He was a marine veteran, constantly in the gym, had a beautiful family and even had his own non-profit for supporting veterans in their depression. Definitely what these idiots would have seen as “alpha”. He was always super against therapy and I really think it would’ve helped him unfortunately it’s too late. I seriously can’t believe they think depression is just a rut that you can somehow pull yourself out of by going to the gym and posting selfies of their gains… L O L.
Not sure how I went the past two years not knowing Lena had curly hair but I LOVE every time it cuts to her and she’s got the curls flowing, Such a stunning crew of women all around! ❤️🤩
Ethan’s testimony about depression, as well as that mother’s note about her son, brought me to tears. It’s truly something special to see someone so vulnerable and honest nowadays especially publicly and online. Thank you Ethan and Hila for cultivating such an open space for fans to connect and to hear from you guys when it matters most. Family ❤
Seeing Hila dress up and appreciate herself is really inspiring as someone who struggles with their appearance. I love this so much. Hila you’ve always been gorgeous but it’s awesome to see you happy! ❤
I just wanted to say that I really appreciate the openness about antidepressants. I was soooo depressed most of my childhood and into my adulthood. When Ethan started talking about antidepressants I began to consider talking to my doctor about it. When I eventually got up the courage to do that it took me an additional two years of eyeing the pills on my shelf before I took one. It has truly changed my life, and I wouldn’t be this happy had I not started taking them.
Hila has such incredibly deep set and beautiful eyes. Her makeup looks incredible. It really accentuates her natural features. It’s doing exactly what it’s suppose to do! Stunning. I love the blonde as well.
It’s so refreshing to hear someone talk so openly about depression. I went through my own struggle and spent an entire year trying to avoid taking medication because of the stigma behind it. Little did I know, it was the medication that allowed me to get up and exercise, allowed me to go for interviews and find a job I am passionate about. Medication isn’t the “easy way out”, it’s the push some people need to get back to a healthy mental state and take back charge of their lives.
I have been off my meds for a few weeks now and I was almost lying to myself, letting myself think that because I haven't had a severe anxiety attack or gone down a suicidal thought train (yet), that maybe I don't need them. This has inspired me to get off my damn ass and take my fucking meds. Cause I have a son, and a husband, and family and not only do they not deserve to chance my brain fucking me over like that... I deserve to be commited enough to myself to take what keeps me alive, keeps my mind clear, and makes me levelheaded. For ME. Thank you, Ethan.
Not to mention my Lupus meds I have also been avoiding. I fucking deserve to not have organ damage. Anyone who says taking meds is the easy path has no idea how much time, persistance, care, and effort goes in to taking them. ANY medication.
@@vntgKiss do what’s best for you and your family, these ignorant people don’t mean shit honestly. They can say what they want but don’t ever let it concern you. They’re literally idiots. You sound like a supportive and caring parent/partner.
I'm glad to be part of the H3 audience, and more cis males should be comfortable to be in other than boy's clubs. Seeing this community grow with more women made me feel confident in my own values, and treat my femininity and masculinity more fairly, not so rigidly. So big thanks to you , H3 family 💙
5:23 I remember in the first couple of years of the podcast, Hila was so shy and seemed to be uncomfortable speaking on camera. Any time she spoke it was always my favorite part. I absolutely love how much she has built confidence in herself, on camera and in her successful business. I'm so happy to hear Hilas input on topics, she's so much more comfortable with the platform now vs then. She's an inspiration. I'm starting a beanie business with my mom. I'm so uncertain about everything... I'm in charge of graphic design, photography, social media, web design, video editing... all of the things that include many types of media. My mom makes the beanies and works on finances. It is so inspirational seeing Hila start her own business that I wanted to help out my mom with hers. I'm finally using my college education after so many years in design and Hila making teddy fresh is my inspiration to do so.
I'm a relatively new H3 enjoyer.. I started watching on a regular basis because of that whole Crowder thing with Sam Seder and when Leftovers started. And I have to say, Hila is very comforting to listen to and I really appreciate her input, what she's adding to the pod and obviously what she represents and I really enjoy the vibe she brings into the crew. There are certainly some things I wholeheartedly disagree with her but that's fine and I appreciate her very much. She's a freaking firebrand and THE role model. Oh, best wishes for the business you started. Hope you'll have a lot of success and that you can enjoy doing it
I don’t watch consistently, but I have been a fan for a long time and it has been absolutely amazing seeing Hila’s growth as a person, as a woman, and as a mother. Seeing her go from a somewhat shy person who didn’t seem that comfortable on camera to a badass business owning mother who is constantly experimenting with her look/style has been awe inspiring. As someone who tends to be hyper-aware of my own thoughts which leads to feeling like I’m helplessly immersed in a sea of anxiety, the way Hila has gotten more comfortable in her own skin has really helped me feel better when I have those wonderfully bad days where I feel like all my hard work has been pointless.
I just need you guys to know how much this podcast means to me and how much I appreciate these 4 hour long videos 3x a week it really made its way into my routine and when I’m not listening live I’m playing reruns 24/7 you guys are literally my comfort voices my favourite thing to watch everyday idk what my mental health would do without you guys!!!! Lots of love from Canada 🇨🇦 peace and love always fam❤❤❤❤❤
That intro was so wholesome, seeing our boy Ethan hype up his lady. And seeing hila having fun with her glow up and struttin her stuff lookin absolutely killer
licensed skincare specialist here watching the ice globe segment 🥰 i would loveeeee to give ethan & hila + crew skin consultations & facials lol!! warms my heart seeing them talk about skincare lol
To go with the antidepressant meds...I want to say thank you for being so open about it and advocating for remedies such as medication. I have been diagnosed with Major Depression and Anxiety back in July 2022 and in my household, the mentality is, "you're young, what do you have to worry about" or "go to the gym, take a shower, clean the house" as remedies for my mental illnesses and medication is seen as something "weak" without them saying it point blank. Listeners, you are not weak, not crazy, not less-than. Please seek help, get that check-up, and diagnosis, and look for some remedies. Live this life out and see what happens! Love you & thank you for reading.
Just felt like i should mention this, probably about 6 months ago i was so lost in my life with a generalized anxiety disorder and at the time i didn’t know what it was and i could barley talk and form words because of so much bullshit that was going on in my head. I didn’t care about anything that i loved before i fell into it. I was so against and scared of medicine because of my dad and family told me that it was just some scam from the doctors and government to get money from me. I eventually had no other option because i was at the end of trying, so i tried different medicines until i found prozac that really saved my life. I couldn’t do anything so i started taking small steps after my mom pushing me to do better so i started washing the dishes and turning on y’all’s podcast. This podcast means the absolute world to me. I love you guys and i wish i had people like you guys in my real life. Thank you for everything you guys do and y’all truly are my family even if we never get to meet in person❤️ Peace and love, Peace and love 🥲❤️
Last year I was diagnosed with Bipolar which came as such a shock to me. I've been struggling with my mental health for years and Ethan and Hila have always made me feel confident in knowing it is okay to need the extra help in terms of medication. Just a little warning though for those who may have a family history of Bipolar- anti depressants can cause us to go into mania which is what happened to me, eventually sending me to the hospital. For a lot of people with Bipolar antidepressants can do more harm than good. So always speak with a psychiatrist for proper diagnosis before trying medications. Thank you so much Ethan for helping end the stigma surrounding mental health and medications. Peace and love to the family! ❤
Let me just say that this was one of the best episodes of the podcast! This was probably one of the most insightful episodes that i've watched from the H3 Family. Thank you for being a great inspiration to all of us! FAMILY FAMILY FAMILY! ✌&💖
I’m so glad they’re addressing depression and medication. As someone who’s struggled with anxiety and postpartum depression and think I have depression but haven’t ever had the courage to seek help it is an insanely important topic. I so appreciate this. I’ve been in a situation where my coworkers say that going to the gym has “cured” their depression when just like Hila said, it’s a funk they’re just going through. So It feels pretty shitty when people say that because the gym or meditation isn’t the answer to all the problems, talking to a professional is.
when I started my period for the first time, the only feminine products I had were a couple of 3 year old pad samples I had gotten in a lil care pack from a girl health lecture they made us attend one day in 5th grade. after I used up those I had nothing but toilet paper. took me bleeding through my clothes a few times for my mom to notice it in the laundry, she just bought me a pack of pads and left it on my bed, literally didn’t say a word about it. I really wish I had someone to ask about things back then
Wow. My experience was almost the same only it took longer for her to notice bc I had my older sisters pads…they were those thong ones tho! Like wtf, I was in sixth grade and very confused.
I love that Ethan is comfortable enough to play around with what he knows is a menstrual cup, doing things like sucking on it and putting it on his eye. I know so many men who would not even touch it, even though it's brand new and never used. We need more men who are that comfortable around the concept of menstruation and products used for them. That sort of thing does a lot to de-stigmatize periods and people who have them.
As a male Ethan has definitely inspired me. I took lexapro and it kinda help and then recently heard Ethan talking about adding Wellbutrin and decided to try! It has really really helped me. I’m an active guy but have a lot of trauma and ptsd from my childhood and this combo has been a literal blessing. Dudes also a good husband and father and business man who I’ve been watching since they were giving dunnies away and ducking air raids
Thank you guys for this podcast. Medication for my depression/anxiety was one of my hardest decisions I’ve had to make. It took me years and my parents telling me they couldn’t deal with it anymore to get me on it, I tried multiple till I found what meditation was right for me. It wasn’t until months later when it started working fully, that I realised what life COULD be like. It wasn’t the easiest way out, death would’ve been that for me, and for many others. Thank you Ethan for talking about the truths of it, and thank you Hila for being the amazing, supportive woman that you are. Family
I really wish the best for the sweet mother that lost her son. I’m glad she finds comfort in this podcast like her son and many of us do. Family💖
Family
couldn't help but cry a little when ethan read that, so sad
people like Ethan actually showing kindness, empathy & vulnerability is so important in a world that’s so messed up.
Thanks it was me
I cried when he read that
Rumor has it Sebastian’s still collecting his thoughts
l o l
😂😂
only 2 brain cells still buffering
There's no thoughts to collect. It's empty up there
@@KK-hc5oo lmao perfect
Ethan and Hilas relationship shows me to never settle🥺Love their support and gratitude and love for each other even after all these years❤
Fr though hat intro was so wholesome almost shed a tear
@@tomdean104 SAME
Their little kiss was so cute
Truly, I’m never settling ever again even if I end up alone 🥲
Lol
As a young adult woman its inspiring and a great thing to hear when you guys spotlight hila and her growth as a woman. I am not a parent but we can all still relate in learning to trust ourselves and becoming more confident. Its beautiful to see hila blossoming and coming into her own!
That's about the only thing I can agree with what H3 has become, other than that Ethan is a touch too toxic nowadays. 😭 yes I'm crying about it, but I agree with you 100% nonetheless. 😊
Love her! 🎉
absolutely killed by the crew being like "ethan do this later, sorry audio listeners" about him recording a tiktok as if we haven't had 20 minute silent subway/mcdonalds segments
Seeing hila go from beanies and cool T-shirt’s to experimenting with more art style fashion is so cool. She rocks both ❤
I know right! It’s crazy how amazing she looks in plain casual outfits, but then also comes in with these high fashion outfits 😍 she’d look good wearing anything but I’ve been loving all her different looks
Like she could wear a potato sack and look amazing
Confidence, happiness and kindness are So attractive and she’s got all three. ❤🧡💛
Feel like I'm transitioning lined up w hilas outfits and bravery 😂 truly tho seeing her so happy to this degree is amazing and we are like same age and I'm just living for every hola episode this year
I love Hila! Her saying with a big smile on her face, "I am having so much fun" is EVERYTHING! We love a queen!!!
I just watched that part as I read your comment and it made me smile so big. It was so freaking cute of her 💕
I remember when she used to be so shy and barley say anything when she was on camera with Ethan. Her evolution has been so beautiful and amazing
@@strawbunny99yeessss and she's so much more open to expressing herself now, truly an inspiration ❤
Zach’s “fill that bag up” sound bite during the diva cup bit didn’t get enough attention. Genius.
That made me laugh so hard it gave me a headache
2:17:35 for the clip with some context
All the girls covering their mouths when Ethan immediately puts the diva cup on his mouth 😂😂😂
The segment addressing mental health, suicide, and toxic masculinity was so important. Thank you for speaking on this, it could literally save someone’s life!!
No one should take advice from Ethan. Very positive thing he preached he does the exact opposite. Also there no such thing as toxic masculinity. Just toxic men.
@@joeydiaz5927 ???
@@raverdash92 what did you not understand? My little pony pfp mental illness for sure
@@joeydiaz5927 preach son... 😅
Holy Shit
Not to belabour the point, but Hila is an inspiration to shy guys as well. I've always identified with her. She also got me to appreciate fashion and helped me understand what being a good partner means.
Though I miss when Hila was more involved with the show, I now cherish these Friday eps when she joins in ❤
i love that!
Right! This is awesome to see 😊
Hear hear!! ✨✨
@@KK-hc5oo very cute🤭
You’re a king
it’s actually heartwarming watching how supportive ethan is of hila becoming more comfortable with herself😭
@@lazylion420 tf are u talking about? just because someone is skinny doesn’t mean they are automatically going to be confident… when they first started h3 hila was absolutely terrified of being behind the camera and it’s amazing watching her go from that to this.
it's so nice seeing Ethan kissing his caregiver so tenderly. But seriously, you two are so inspiring that any alpha male can't comprehend.
Old timey joke :’)
It's an old timey joke
Seeing Hila fall in love with her body postpartum has made me so much less nervous about pregnancy. Thank you queen❤
I’ve had two and my tits are completely lopsided. Saggy. Massive. I am covered in purple stretch mark scars. C section scars. My entire body is 100% different. Just because a super thin woman had babies and stayed thin doesn’t mean you should expect your pregnancy to be that way lol. Sorry but its not realistic
You have to have good genetics to not get stretch marks/breast problems. And you have to work VERY hard to stay in shape during the pregnancy, women only need apparently 300 more calories a day during pregnancy ONLY in the third trimester, which good luck with that. You have to workout every day and work very hard after the birth as well. And developing the energy or drive to do so while pregnant is extremely difficult.
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@@SarahbearJayne it’s not genetics, your just lazy and don’t work out/restrict calories, while Hila does.
@@NS-sx4dq shut up
The fact that Ethan almost cried made me cry I think you have a big influence on your audience n I’m thankful for you n the crew spreading good info
i think what a lot of people don't understand about depression is that yes, it can be helped by changing your lifestyle, but some people are suffering so deeply they need to be medicated in order to even get themselves to a point where changing their lifestyle is a possibility.
I'm so grateful for a professional who explained to me there is "having depression" and there is "being depressed" some people can develop a full clinical depression, and others can go Through A depression. They are very similar but not the same, and we're treating as one
The alpha clowns don't understand that being very sad due to something bad in your life is not depression. Depression is a chemical imbalance in your brain. It can't be fixed by bettering your life. Sadness can, but not depression. A chemical imbalance is fixed by taking medication that balances those chemicals; not by getting a six pack. They simply don't understand what depression is, and think it just means very very sad, because they are very very dumb.
Would lovvvve if Hila did temporary pastel hair colors while she has the platinum blonde.
Lavender would slayyyyy
esp purple bc it fades into silver. a vegan one like manic panic
She needs to let her hair heal. She destroyed it with the bleaching.
@@mrstarfishh33 with peace and love - how much time do you spend every day posting hate comments on this channel? 🤗
@@mrstarfishh33 semi dyes dont have oxydants in them therefore they just stain and dont harm the hair any further ✌🏻&❤
@@grantw9635 I'm just saying she shouldn't mess with her hair for a while. Don't think that's hateful.
The biggest alpha move is to admit your weaknesses and your struggles and work through them. Thank you to the pod for always being so open and honest about mental health issues and inspiring us. ✌🏻❤️
Yeah, these guys are acting like Al Capone, which they would take as a compliment, but guess what? Al Capone died of untreated syphilis because it would have "made him appear weak" to seek treatment. Dude lost his mind and then died due to him being so "masculine". I fail to see how that is laudable.
I love switching to Olivia and Loves shared camera, to see them both react at the same time has a great vibe
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As a male who lifts and does powerlifting, I found comfort in the gym it was my life it cured my depression UNTIL I got injured and I had to stop and I completely gave up on myself. The gym is a crutch to lean on and it helps but leaning on it too much and then having it stripped from you can send you into a downward spiral. I’ve loved this podcast for so long and Ethan speaks so many truths especially about toxic masculinity culture and how damaging it can be
Edit: all of the comments I’ve gotten have been super supportive y’all are so awesome!
Depression doesn't work like that. 🙃
@@ricciamber I’ve been diagnosed since I was in 8th grade, cured isn’t the right term but it was a bandaid fix that worked for a year or so. Just putting my story out so people that feel like their depression is gone, fixed or lessened while they’re working out know that it isn’t permanent and it can cause a major crash.
My cousin is the same way. He says when he is not active he feels depressed and could be because I feel the gym is a nice form of meditation and grounding yourself because you have to focus on the body and in that moment free your mind of any troubling thoughts. But yes, it helps but sometimes you also need counseling or medication to fully confront the depression
I hope you're doing better bud💓
you’re absolutely right that it alone is a bandaid! the long term solution is going to be multifaceted. exercise, therapy (or more generally just improving the way you think and your thought processes), diet (eat good, feel good), possibly medications (antidepressants or fixing an issue that can cause depression eg thyroid problems) or supplements (deficiencies can also cause depression), lifestyle changes (work, who you surround yourself with, hobbies) and SO much more.
Hila is so slay every single day I’m constantly impressed by her style
Kelsey YOU slay quaen! 👸
@@btafbm or maybe she’s just having fun?
@@btafbm wearing makeup shows you enjoy presenting yourself in multiple lenses because it’s.. fun? Grow upppp
I love watching how much she’s grown into her own over the past couple years. Slayyyyy mama
@@btafbm since the dawn of time, makeup has been a form of self expression. From the ancient Egyptians using charcoal around their eyes, to Celtic tribes, Vikings, indigenous cultures from the Americas, Australia, Africa - my point is, that all cultures have used makeup in some way as a form of self expression, for literally thousands of years. It takes confidence to express yourself through style
Hila's look this episode is by far one of my top 3 outfits she has ever worn, she's just stunning. Ethan blowing into the Diva Cup MADE MY DAY.
We are the 1%
“i’m back. i’m back on boba” at 3:23:20 💀 ethan completely switching sides about boba within the span of 2 minutes is so on brand tbh
I really loved how supportive and curious Ethan was about women’s products. After seeing men on other platforms try the same type of segment but make fun of the products or not try to learn, this was a breathe of fresh air! Thank you for taking a peak behind the curtain with an open mind. It’s super important to show. Love ya, keep it up!
loves little “to get list” was so cute - as a woman this podcast really makes me feel appreciated and listened too. I think a big reason why men don’t know a lot about women’s products/ inventions is because like the sebastian episode men just literally don’t listen to women or their contributions so why would we try to tell men about the cool stuff we have when they probably aren’t listening anyway
Goodness me, I teared up listening to that post from the mum. It is so so hard to feel weak, it is so hard to ask for help, it is just so hard. Having clinical depression, antidepressants saved me. Thank you Ethan for being the inspiring man we all need, I know you don’t think of yourself as inspiring but you are. Being so open, honest and vulnerable is hard, but it helps people more than you know.
Sending love ❤❤ I'm in the same boat, the decision to take anti depressants was hard and I definitely experience some pretty shit side effects but I'm still here and so are you 💕💕
@@bogw1tch you got this ❤️ we’re in this together
@@shaunsocha421 so so sorry for your loss. Proud of you for taking the steps to help yourself, you got this ❤️
Me too bc I imagine that if I had been successful in unaliving myself then that post would've been exactly what my mum would feel
@@shaunsocha421 I'm sorry for your loss
Hila takes my breath away recently with all the different looks she’s been serving. Super slayian form
super slayian is great lol
She looks like Jeffery star
Yeah. Shes got that boss mom energy. Its over 9000.
She makes me barf.
As a member of the 1% male audience this episode has been very informative.
thank you for being here 🥲
Yes also enjoyed the video
Shootout to all the blokes who have been here from the laughing at buzzfeed sjw's to laughing at manosphere goofballs. We're in this h3 thing for the long term
@@Cubeforc3 hell yeah! We have grown together into better people
Always a fun time to learn random shit lol
Going on antidepressants was the worst time of my life. It literally made me have awful breakdowns. Like crying, rocking, incoherent for nearly an hour each time I had to take them for the first few days. And the journey to even get to that point was so long, it didn’t seem worth it until it started working. I was fragile for a long time afterwards still, but it gave me the baseline to fix what was wrong inside myself. I’ll probably be on them for the rest of my life and I’ve accepted that. At first, I felt weak for needing something more to function at 50% of what normal people function by themselves, but I realize now that it just gives me the ability to be on a level playing field with people who can just live and make serotonin themselves. I’m at a point now where I feel genuinely happy and like life is worth living. I never thought I’d be here. I didn’t even think I’d live past 18. I’m 24 in 6 months, seven years past my own expiration date, still kickin!!!!
🙏 F A M I L Y 🙏
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Proud of you. You are brave and strong and it’s awesome that you are working on helping yourself and taking those scary steps. Hope you’re well
So so happy for you ❤
hila and ethans relationship truly is so iconic. they just fit each other so well and they have since the beginning i adore them so much
As a male member of the audience I'm taking the Ethan pill.
Don't take too many, they got hella calories 😂
You’re one of the good ones 🙌
male viewers rise up
Should be taking the diet pill.
@@Zack-504Brother you need to get a life and touch grass. Sending hate replies on every comment cannot be good for you
We need to remember that fam that unalived themselves, that could have been any of us. We need to support each other so much more. Thank you Ethan for spreading awareness
Yeah we need to spread awareness but then there are some kids like Sebastian who think mental illness is a joke and can be gone if ignored or by going to the gym or else they will be “weak” if they seek help
This was a beautiful statement ❤
yes yes and more yes
This could have easily been me, and easily still could. I bawled listening to Ethan read her post. Make fun of me all you want, but at this point in my life, 99.95% of the time, this podcast is the only thing that stops me from ending it all.
@@amandaohara9524 know you have the family. you can message me any time ❤️
I think it was hilarious on Wednesday how Sebastian kept telling Ethan to lose weight when he already has lost a ton of weight and is still in the process of losing weight and working out. Ethan didn’t even mention it he’s so humble lol
I mean to be fair Ethan stopped losing weight. He has mentioned recently he isn't really working out and eating as well lately. Hopefully he gets below 200 again one day. I'm not sure if it's his diet solely or something else, but he has seemed so unhealthy the past few years.
@@mrstarfishh33 ur such an obvious troll
@@mrstarfishh33 It's definitely solely diet, maintaining a calorie deficit is a constant fight for some people. He's definitely at a much healthier weight than he was.
@@666slateran666 You don't speak for everyone lol, not even close. People can be inspirational for lots of different reasons to different people. Ethan is a very successful creator. Your sweeping statement is redundant.
@@666slateran666If you feel torn down by the things Ethan says, maybe that's a sign you need to reevaluate how you see the world
Ethan: “what’s with people just reacting silently on IG reels?”
Also Ethan: ** spends 20 minutes silently reacting to a tiktok live on air **
😂 I love when I can’t tell if he’s being ironic or not, I usually just assume yes...but here I can’t tell
as someone who goes to the gym 6-7 days a week. Exercise can help and be an outlet but therapy and medication has helped my depression and anxiety the most. Just like Hila said without it I couldn’t even get out of bed to make it to the gym in the first place 💕 Ethan is the new Alpha
Yupppp I work out almost everyday and I still need my antidepressants
100% agree I think a balance of both allows for a strong body and strong mind
Thank you for saying this! I was always told to exercise and meditate. But before therapy and meds, being alone, in silence, with only my thoughts was a terrifying endeavor.
Its like being able to change a lightbulb. I can totally do it, I just need a boost from a step stool.
Much love to you. Stay strong. ❤️
ethan : i’m alpha we need to put it out there
also ethan : okay let’s get glammed 💅
being comfortable with his sexuality 🥰 king!
Alpha confidence.
@@Zack-504 damn the tatertots are here. Insecure child
@@Zack-504 found the incel
@@Zack-504 “dude has less T than the letter” makes absolutely no sense bro LMAO
Shout out to Hila for having fun with her new looks, it's so great to see her coming out off her shell 🐚 We Stan Ethan for hyping up his Queen ✌️ ❤️
Yeah she looks great😊
Simp simp simp king
Hilla is on her Jeffery star ark
@@ehcanadianguy27cod31 cope😂
@@emmyturner7385 Jeffery could never 🤢🤡
Being fat *is* alpha, historically obesity was a sign of wealth and status, while being fit was a result of toiling away at physical labor just to survive. Ethan's built like Henry VIII.
@Louis thank you for ruining a joke by trying to sound smart
@@Louis-lr6pqYou might want to expand where you're getting your information! "White" people were the ones who learned about agriculture late, other cultures were already taking care of the planet in their regular existence :) and Henry was not athletic, he was fat
@Louis you wrote a whole essay in response to a joke
Except Ethan has type II diabetes and heart disease.
@@Louis-lr6pq show me your pecs or stfu
Ethan and Hila and their emotional maturity is something to truly look up to as a young person. I’ve been in toxic relationships, and the way they talked about love is exactly what i’ve learned and what I want. I have so much respect for them.
Who the hell calls their partner a "dumb fuck" and "pathetic?" that girl dodged a bullet by uncovering this mindset in her partner
I don't think it was real. I don't want to believe there's a person out there who can have their partner speak like that, and then go "Ethan you ruined my relationship". A more appropriate title would be "Thanks Ethan for saving me from a toxic relationship".
@@LadyAurian you seriously don’t think domestic abuse is real? is that a joke? there are millions of couple just like this… it’s a very real and very serious issue in the world. always has been. just because you don’t like it, doesn’t make it any less real.
@@Justhppy2behere I get the feeling that you did not read my comment.
@@LadyAurian well my ex called me many many names like dumb c*unt for example and yet even when I finally broke up with him I was still sad the relationship was over. Kind of like abuse messes with your head….
@Vooknu Sheckler Doesn't seem you read either. When that abusive relationship finally did end, did you go around complaining that it ended and being upset about whatever it was that brought it about?
Abuse is real. I never said it wasn't. I've been there myself. What I'd prefer to believe was fake, is the viewer blaming Ethan for their toxic relationship ending. I'd prefer to think they were glad to have seen to their partners core early so they can get away.
The Boomer Mom post was so heartbreaking. My brother was very fit, always played sports, he made good money, but that didn't make him happy. He appeared happy but deep down he wasn't. If we knew we would have encouraged him to get the help he needed. These alpha males "advice" that men just need to go to the gym is absolute bull. There is more help out there and no one should feel ashamed seeking it.
I'm so sorry ❤❤❤
My brother passed away in a similarly unexpected way 3 years ago. Nobody knew he was struggling until he was gone. It's been really fucking hard. I'm so sorry that you understand that pain as well.
@@calvinlee8103 so sorry bro. Honestly. ❤
@@calvinlee8103 I'm sorry to hear that. It is crazy how the most happy looking people are sometimes the most depressed. When I look back I notice the signs, he just hid them very well that to me they weren't there at the time
@@amandaohara9524 thank you Amanda
sebastian: your brand is dying
also sebastian: oh there were 43k people watching?
yeah but ethan’s channel is OBVIOUSLY dying though
@@MenaRed OBVIOUSLY. it's SO OBVIOUS
This is why I watch this podcast bc I’m 23 and I honestly learn a lot from hearing people way older than me talk about issues. Gives me this new perspective on things and sometimes it helps me see how flawed my thinking can be at times and hearing them break it down helps me understand and stay open minded and even guide me to a better way of seeing and understand things.
Same here!! Its people like Sebastian that give young people a bad name, he genuinely believes that he knows more with less life experience.
family family family
The crew are all looking so healthy and snatched! It’s so cool seeing everyone feeling themselves and feeling strong - especially Hila 💪🏼🔥
shishter schnatched
I love how Olivia, Sam, Lena, and Hila have brought a female perspective to the show over the last couple years. I always felt like the female perspective was lacking years ago when the crew was predominantly male, so it’s so great seeing their contributions grow the show ❤ love all the guys too, just wanna shout out my girlies!
From the discussion about mental health, to Ethan learning about beauty products, this was an absolutely amazing episode! ✌&💖
The conversation Ethan had regarding men’s mental health is one of the many reasons why I love these guys ❤❤
Reading that mom's statement and trying not to cry because that could have been my mom since I tried unaliving myself a few years ago. Your guy's content and Ethan openly speaking and bringing to light these subjects is so important! I'm glad I went to therapy and took medication because otherwise I wouldn't be living my best life today! Love you guys ❤
Glad you're still here with us. Family ❤
Imagining Ethan saying the worst thing possible and then accidentally hitting the “dump him” button instead of THE button ☠️
bound to happen 😂 “no no no no I meant to dump the AUUUUDIIIOOOO”
I'm cackling 😂😂
I just wanna say that im so thankful for this show! 💛 If i hadn't started watching in 2019 when i was 18 I would probably be a different person today like a Tate fan or smthing. Thank you Hila and Ethan and the crew for influencing me during my formative years. My irl friends from high school are all tater fans and i just feel like I would be in the same boat, being toxic and insecure.
Ethan and this show have genuinely helped me "understand" women, be confident and trust my partner. Hila and Sam are especially SLAYING today. Absolute queens! Peace and love ✌️♥️
We Stan a confident, non-toxic king 👑
so thankful for Ethan speaking up about depression/mental health and defending medication. I didn’t have the courage to start medication until I hit my rock bottom. it has changed my life. I’ve struggled with mental health for almost a decade, and starting my anti anxiety meds was the best decision I’ve ever made. people like sebastian don’t understand that medication isn’t a cure-all type of deal. medication has to be used in combination with therapy and coping skills to manage your anxiety and depression. it’s hard work, but it’s worth it.
Even though the conversation with Sébastien filled me with a rage I've never known before, I loved that Ethan did not back down and challenged that harmful narrative him and too many others are spewing.
Hila looks like she could star in the movie clueless and I am LIVING for it !!! Love this look on her.
Yes!!
Yes! That outfit is soooo clueless!!
Olivia and love’s fist bumps melts my heart and Olivia’s little wink, I love them 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🖤🖤🖤
Time stamp? Please
h3 bachelor??
I always thought they'd be so cute together 🤭
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@@ms.bigbootylol that’s so random. Brother and sister vibes for sure
dan describing the diva cup as being “like a linebacker, baby” bc nothing gets past it was one of the funniest things i’ve heard this year
Everyone knows that warm feeling when you cuddle up with your pup, some snacks and a slug (or drink) for your favorite show and the fact that I get that now FIVE TIMES A WEEK with the new lore videos truly makes you guys the #1 show for me.
You’ve surpassed Howard Stern in my book and that’s saying ALOTTT coming from me.
LOVE THE FAMILY 🫶🏽🥹
I’m petsitting this weekend so I’m snuggled with dogs and a glass of wine watch h3. It is the best!!
For podcast members it's 6 times a week! I love almost every day having new h3 content to watch
for some reason i really love when the h3 crew partakes in "girly" stuff, like the time they all did their makeup together, and i loved today's segment when they reviewed women's beauty products. i find it really cute and i'm not sure how to articulate why, maybe it's the lack of toxic masculinity that i find comforting?? idk
maybe because youre a girl or gay guy with that interest/hobby and you find it familiar and comforting
Thanks so much for the shoutout!!🤩 it was so cool to see on the pod! this is really the best day ever, i appreciate everyone going to check it out ❤❤
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After years of me watching your content alone, I found a guy 5 years ago who has had to over hear you guys, has fallen in love with you guys, and now actively watches you guys with me. He loves having a supportive couple to look up to and having a guy who puts words to his beliefs. So thank you guys for being there for both of us.
Also Dan is his favorite with the dead pan stare as he claps, cracks him up everytime.
tbh I’m struggling with the idea of taking meds myself, so hearing ethan talk so candidly about mental health and medication is something i realllllyyyy appreciate as i try to come to my own terms with my feelings around it.
I struggled with starting mine too, but honestly the best choice I ever made! You can always stop these things if they don't work so don't be scared and do what's best for you❤
@@julieeedrumm thank you for your kind words of support, much appreciated! ✌️& ❤️
honestly it’s just different for everyone. any ssri i try and take has a bad effect on me physically bc i get serotonin syndrome but i think for most people it helps them
It almost never hurts to try & if it doesn’t work, don’t give up! If your doctor wants to try a different type, give it a shot. A lot of the commonly prescribed medications aren’t for everybody but there’s at least one that will help you a lot, or at least some
Ethan's curiosity through the whole girlie segment was so wholesome + funny 😂🥲
He’s proudly identifying the items, which is honestly so nice to see. ❤
My 4 year old daughters father unalived himself last year. He was a marine veteran, constantly in the gym, had a beautiful family and even had his own non-profit for supporting veterans in their depression. Definitely what these idiots would have seen as “alpha”. He was always super against therapy and I really think it would’ve helped him unfortunately it’s too late. I seriously can’t believe they think depression is just a rut that you can somehow pull yourself out of by going to the gym and posting selfies of their gains… L O L.
I really hope you and your daughter are doing okay ❤
Not sure how I went the past two years not knowing Lena had curly hair but I LOVE every time it cuts to her and she’s got the curls flowing, Such a stunning crew of women all around! ❤️🤩
Ethan’s testimony about depression, as well as that mother’s note about her son, brought me to tears. It’s truly something special to see someone so vulnerable and honest nowadays especially publicly and online. Thank you Ethan and Hila for cultivating such an open space for fans to connect and to hear from you guys when it matters most. Family ❤
You can tell that Ethan making hila laugh fills his heart up. Making her smile and laugh makes him so happy. He would do anything to make her laugh
Seeing Hila dress up and appreciate herself is really inspiring as someone who struggles with their appearance. I love this so much. Hila you’ve always been gorgeous but it’s awesome to see you happy! ❤
I just wanted to say that I really appreciate the openness about antidepressants. I was soooo depressed most of my childhood and into my adulthood. When Ethan started talking about antidepressants I began to consider talking to my doctor about it. When I eventually got up the courage to do that it took me an additional two years of eyeing the pills on my shelf before I took one. It has truly changed my life, and I wouldn’t be this happy had I not started taking them.
Hila has such incredibly deep set and beautiful eyes. Her makeup looks incredible. It really accentuates her natural features. It’s doing exactly what it’s suppose to do! Stunning. I love the blonde as well.
The fact that nobody told Ethan the sticky bras go by chicken cutlets AFTER he even said it looks like chicken made me so sad lol
It’s so refreshing to hear someone talk so openly about depression. I went through my own struggle and spent an entire year trying to avoid taking medication because of the stigma behind it. Little did I know, it was the medication that allowed me to get up and exercise, allowed me to go for interviews and find a job I am passionate about. Medication isn’t the “easy way out”, it’s the push some people need to get back to a healthy mental state and take back charge of their lives.
As a male watcher i can’t explain how much ethan helps me be okay with myself not being a manly man
Being yourself is manly x
I have been off my meds for a few weeks now and I was almost lying to myself, letting myself think that because I haven't had a severe anxiety attack or gone down a suicidal thought train (yet), that maybe I don't need them. This has inspired me to get off my damn ass and take my fucking meds. Cause I have a son, and a husband, and family and not only do they not deserve to chance my brain fucking me over like that... I deserve to be commited enough to myself to take what keeps me alive, keeps my mind clear, and makes me levelheaded. For ME. Thank you, Ethan.
Not to mention my Lupus meds I have also been avoiding. I fucking deserve to not have organ damage. Anyone who says taking meds is the easy path has no idea how much time, persistance, care, and effort goes in to taking them. ANY medication.
@@vntgKiss do what’s best for you and your family, these ignorant people don’t mean shit honestly. They can say what they want but don’t ever let it concern you. They’re literally idiots. You sound like a supportive and caring parent/partner.
I'm glad to be part of the H3 audience, and more cis males should be comfortable to be in other than boy's clubs. Seeing this community grow with more women made me feel confident in my own values, and treat my femininity and masculinity more fairly, not so rigidly. So big thanks to you , H3 family 💙
5:23 I remember in the first couple of years of the podcast, Hila was so shy and seemed to be uncomfortable speaking on camera. Any time she spoke it was always my favorite part. I absolutely love how much she has built confidence in herself, on camera and in her successful business. I'm so happy to hear Hilas input on topics, she's so much more comfortable with the platform now vs then. She's an inspiration. I'm starting a beanie business with my mom. I'm so uncertain about everything... I'm in charge of graphic design, photography, social media, web design, video editing... all of the things that include many types of media. My mom makes the beanies and works on finances. It is so inspirational seeing Hila start her own business that I wanted to help out my mom with hers. I'm finally using my college education after so many years in design and Hila making teddy fresh is my inspiration to do so.
I'm a relatively new H3 enjoyer.. I started watching on a regular basis because of that whole Crowder thing with Sam Seder and when Leftovers started.
And I have to say, Hila is very comforting to listen to and I really appreciate her input, what she's adding to the pod and obviously what she represents and I really enjoy the vibe she brings into the crew.
There are certainly some things I wholeheartedly disagree with her but that's fine and I appreciate her very much. She's a freaking firebrand and THE role model.
Oh, best wishes for the business you started. Hope you'll have a lot of success and that you can enjoy doing it
I don’t watch consistently, but I have been a fan for a long time and it has been absolutely amazing seeing Hila’s growth as a person, as a woman, and as a mother. Seeing her go from a somewhat shy person who didn’t seem that comfortable on camera to a badass business owning mother who is constantly experimenting with her look/style has been awe inspiring. As someone who tends to be hyper-aware of my own thoughts which leads to feeling like I’m helplessly immersed in a sea of anxiety, the way Hila has gotten more comfortable in her own skin has really helped me feel better when I have those wonderfully bad days where I feel like all my hard work has been pointless.
I just need you guys to know how much this podcast means to me and how much I appreciate these 4 hour long videos 3x a week it really made its way into my routine and when I’m not listening live I’m playing reruns 24/7 you guys are literally my comfort voices my favourite thing to watch everyday idk what my mental health would do without you guys!!!! Lots of love from Canada 🇨🇦 peace and love always fam❤❤❤❤❤
That intro was so wholesome, seeing our boy Ethan hype up his lady. And seeing hila having fun with her glow up and struttin her stuff lookin absolutely killer
how do all the ladies on the show keep getting prettier!? sam looked especially gorgeous today
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licensed skincare specialist here watching the ice globe segment 🥰 i would loveeeee to give ethan & hila + crew skin consultations & facials lol!! warms my heart seeing them talk about skincare lol
Genuinely, Ethan seems like an amazing friend and husband! The love, kindness, and respect he shows her is so SPECIAL!
To go with the antidepressant meds...I want to say thank you for being so open about it and advocating for remedies such as medication. I have been diagnosed with Major Depression and Anxiety back in July 2022 and in my household, the mentality is, "you're young, what do you have to worry about" or "go to the gym, take a shower, clean the house" as remedies for my mental illnesses and medication is seen as something "weak" without them saying it point blank. Listeners, you are not weak, not crazy, not less-than. Please seek help, get that check-up, and diagnosis, and look for some remedies. Live this life out and see what happens! Love you & thank you for reading.
Olivia and Love’s delayed fist bump was the cutest thing 2:23:00
The wink actually warmed my heart idk why
I loved that moment sm
Just felt like i should mention this, probably about 6 months ago i was so lost in my life with a generalized anxiety disorder and at the time i didn’t know what it was and i could barley talk and form words because of so much bullshit that was going on in my head. I didn’t care about anything that i loved before i fell into it. I was so against and scared of medicine because of my dad and family told me that it was just some scam from the doctors and government to get money from me. I eventually had no other option because i was at the end of trying, so i tried different medicines until i found prozac that really saved my life. I couldn’t do anything so i started taking small steps after my mom pushing me to do better so i started washing the dishes and turning on y’all’s podcast. This podcast means the absolute world to me. I love you guys and i wish i had people like you guys in my real life. Thank you for everything you guys do and y’all truly are my family even if we never get to meet in person❤️ Peace and love, Peace and love 🥲❤️
i swear hila just gets more fine with age i am in awe
She’s literally glowing! 27:15
Every time Ethan and Gabe smile at each other I lose it
Last year I was diagnosed with Bipolar which came as such a shock to me. I've been struggling with my mental health for years and Ethan and Hila have always made me feel confident in knowing it is okay to need the extra help in terms of medication. Just a little warning though for those who may have a family history of Bipolar- anti depressants can cause us to go into mania which is what happened to me, eventually sending me to the hospital. For a lot of people with Bipolar antidepressants can do more harm than good. So always speak with a psychiatrist for proper diagnosis before trying medications. Thank you so much Ethan for helping end the stigma surrounding mental health and medications. Peace and love to the family! ❤
Getting antidepressants was what gave me my bipolar diagnosis lmao 😂 oopsie daisy
@@LampshadeLadEddie same 😅
That's exactly what happened to me also
not even a minute in and I love how wholesome and loving ethan and hila are, my god you two deserve each other
Let me just say that this was one of the best episodes of the podcast! This was probably one of the most insightful episodes that i've watched from the H3 Family. Thank you for being a great inspiration to all of us! FAMILY FAMILY FAMILY! ✌&💖
1:41:19 Dan throwing shade at Zach's half-baked comments always cracks me up. Super big brother energy.
I’m so glad they’re addressing depression and medication. As someone who’s struggled with anxiety and postpartum depression and think I have depression but haven’t ever had the courage to seek help it is an insanely important topic. I so appreciate this. I’ve been in a situation where my coworkers say that going to the gym has “cured” their depression when just like Hila said, it’s a funk they’re just going through. So It feels pretty shitty when people say that because the gym or meditation isn’t the answer to all the problems, talking to a professional is.
when I started my period for the first time, the only feminine products I had were a couple of 3 year old pad samples I had gotten in a lil care pack from a girl health lecture they made us attend one day in 5th grade. after I used up those I had nothing but toilet paper. took me bleeding through my clothes a few times for my mom to notice it in the laundry, she just bought me a pack of pads and left it on my bed, literally didn’t say a word about it. I really wish I had someone to ask about things back then
Wow that is so sad 😞 I’m sorry
Ugh that is awful. I'm so sorry 😭 my parents never gave me any kind of sex talk, and it truly would've changed my life if they had.
I'm so sorry that was your experience. ❤
Wow. My experience was almost the same only it took longer for her to notice bc I had my older sisters pads…they were those thong ones tho! Like wtf, I was in sixth grade and very confused.
@@brittnay279 i never in my life knew thong pads exist until reading this
Fell asleep watching this and dreamt I was asking Ethan to hire me. As a senior citizen, I want to say this podcast inspires me.
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Ethan saying airdrop instead of dropship is making me cry lmao
i saw ethans toe jam while eating pasta and to be honest this is why I watch this show. Truly avant garde
I love that Ethan is comfortable enough to play around with what he knows is a menstrual cup, doing things like sucking on it and putting it on his eye. I know so many men who would not even touch it, even though it's brand new and never used. We need more men who are that comfortable around the concept of menstruation and products used for them. That sort of thing does a lot to de-stigmatize periods and people who have them.
The message from the mother broke me. So hard. Thank you Ethan for talking about REAL issues
The pod is slowly unpacking the challenges of loving someone with a personality disorder the bad ones always come back out the outlaw will never die
As a male Ethan has definitely inspired me. I took lexapro and it kinda help and then recently heard Ethan talking about adding Wellbutrin and decided to try! It has really really helped me. I’m an active guy but have a lot of trauma and ptsd from my childhood and this combo has been a literal blessing. Dudes also a good husband and father and business man who I’ve been watching since they were giving dunnies away and ducking air raids
the Viewer's Mom moment was a big deal and 100% on point
I wasn't expecting the stream to take that turn, but thank you for addressing it
Thank you guys for this podcast. Medication for my depression/anxiety was one of my hardest decisions I’ve had to make. It took me years and my parents telling me they couldn’t deal with it anymore to get me on it, I tried multiple till I found what meditation was right for me. It wasn’t until months later when it started working fully, that I realised what life COULD be like. It wasn’t the easiest way out, death would’ve been that for me, and for many others. Thank you Ethan for talking about the truths of it, and thank you Hila for being the amazing, supportive woman that you are. Family