Are You Even Alive????? [Hello Counselor Sub : ENG,THA / 2018.02.12]
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i think, it's about time for hello counsellor to invite a psychologist/counsellor as well
I heard that they do have one backstage
They actually go through it with them and show if they needed them
They have it backstage
@@sashia9919 maybe the psychologist writes some questions for the interviewees?
@@과일-s6oㄹㅇ?
I'm glad that they blurred the daughter's face because children that age can tend to be very mean and they might make fun of her because of her family problems so I'm glad they protected her.
Chelese Hernandez agree. It's so true. I feel relieved too. I worry if she get depress more because of the problem.
True
@@ichaaisyah5387 She deserved it being that immature,the family should have just disowned her
Jimin has all my Jams. I totally agree with you. Me and my brother grew up in the arms of my parents but my family fell apart when my parents got divorced. My brother has always had problems with drugs and alcohol but my parents never left him. Of course it’s easy to say you can disown your family when you’re angry but you can never totally let go of someone that is your own blood. I’m glad you have supportive parents and that you realized that now.
I don't see that they blurred her face?
That 11yo girl they said so mature... she will be very upset as adult realizing she matured too fast.. missing the chances being a kid.. i grew up similarly as her.. being told my face remind them of my father and how they hate him.. tip toeing around uncles and aunts when u hv to ask for favors they hate to do.. staying in their place knowing u r not welcome... crying silently... all this will scar for life.. but once u learn not to self-pity, everything will be just a meaningful experiences that helped u grow.. then hardest to overcome---- comparing your unusual life with peers at very young age, which she have to go through... wish u all the luck in the world
the fact that her daughter is the one telling her/the mom "to be a good girl and listen to her parents" speaks volumes on the situation for both the child, parent & grandparents. it sucks for all parties involved and most have their own issues/fault in the matter except the child of course.
I feel you bud I am very similar I hope the best for you its very important for ppl like us to be positive by ourselves and strong:)
I honestly grew up like that as well and it's really stressful to me, I really do hope that she grows up to be the best version of herself and lives a great life, I wish that for all of you as well,,❤️❤️
I relate with you. Stay strong too :)
I grow up in same situation...and it's hard to grow up.😊
It's really a concern. The problem is psychological, in one side the older sister can't take pressure from others or environment, other side the parents takes a hard way treating their daughter. Poor the granddaughter that takes thr hate from her grandparents.
The solution is I think that the older sister could start prioritize her daughter, since she is her responsibility. And endure the stress from works, because she needs to pay a lot of debt. If she still can't endure it, there's no solution for it, to make she pay the debt. Since she wants to pay it first. Sorry bad English, and please take no offense.
I really started crying after I saw the father crying. When the older sister came in, it looked like he wanted to act like they were already losen up their trust and hope of her. But then he started crying which made me realize, he really still loves her and it looks so much like he’s in emotional pain about seeing her daughter living like that. Everything good to their family!❤️😭
How could u not know ur daughter doesnt like u? U abandon her and left her. This is so frustrating. A 33yrs old acting like this is so selfish.
It’s not selfish, rather there’s a mental illness somewhere.
@@moimoiyoop if you think of it, she didn't have proper education + bad crowd after middle school. Adding the underlying problem from her childhood, don't expect her to develop a good thinking pattern and capabilities. She might be just a middle schooler in a body of a grown woman (with a child) until she learn something valuable from her life.
@@moimoiyoop
If you only knew what you were talking about...
@@swirlybun9616 well everytime this excuse don't work.. She's gotten that habit
This is so sad. Her daughter even had to tell her to grow up. Everyone is suffering because of her actions. Her parents make her daughter cry because they are overwhelmed by the similarities she has with her mother facial wise. It's just not right.
So like in the end, when she met her daughter. She didnt look happy or like she was grateful. Its my opinion
bts bangtonboys Sameee I noticed that too.😓
bts bangtonboys but her daughter seems very happy when she meet her mother
I think it might have to do with how she was burned, as her expressions seem limited. Possibly due to the scar that she mentioned.
She seemed not to express much emotion throughout the entire episode. Maybe that’s just how she is, I don’t know
bts bangtonboys I think this was a very overwhelming experience and there was still cameras around.
I cried after heard her daughter's thoughts and the fact that Woohyun cried too its so heartbreaking 😭😭
when she was talking with her mom I cried 😢 that’s so emotional. She probably loves her mom so much but her mom isn’t making her a priority and that is so sad. My son is my first priority, not even just one of them.
She cannot accept criticism. It's all about her. so frustrating, she doesn't even care about her daughter
This concern was.. exhausting. It's probably one of the most serious on the show, I was surprised.
It's one thing to make a debt for your old sick parents and still want to drink with friends and not work, because it's hard. It's a whole another thing to also have a child at the age of 11, so mature and understanding. I can't blame her parents for telling the girl they hate her sometimes, they have so much on their heads. They can't even take it out on their own daughter, because she's somewhere living her life. Hope everything was resolved and she does what she said she would, gets a proper job and takes some of that stress of her parents and daughter's shoulders.
One of the best shows in Korea. I still watch the old episodes. It's very nice and relatable with social and family issues🥰
Woa, i just really want to apreciate the staff / production team for bring her there
I'm actually curious to the reason why she ran
She said she meet bad people, so she was probably influenced? When you feel like nobody loves you, whoever comes with a tiny bit more seems like the best person you ever meet and you fall for things easily.
Mariana Yeah and besides, even if she had a good and loving family, the bad friends will trick her into thinking nothing or nobody cares for her and shit.
Her father, probably. He looks very strict and seems to get easily angry. As her mother wasn't often at home, the father was in charge to take care about them. She probably had to take care about the home, herself and her younger sister by herself. They mentioned she got often beaten and felt lonely so she maybe just felt betrayed by her family, because they were supposed to love her.
she just wanna have fun and be free
Her sister said that she was really naïvely nice before all the bad friends. Listening to some of the story, she also properly has issues with addiction
my mother left me with my grandparents when i was a year old and she had similar reasons with this woman but i never really understood why. she brags about me to her friends and social media accounts about me receiving medals as the top of my class every year, and her friends praise her without knowing that i never bonded with her and i always think that she doesn't deserve the praises. i am not even comfortable when im with her.
This is the most serious concern I've watched and this is the first time I cried watching this show
This show have taught me alot.
How precious moms are,how much our parents worked for us,how cruel parents can be and how ignorant they can be,how precious siblings are,how mean siblings can be,how much people love their friends,how spoilt can a child or your kids can be,how parents discriminate their children and so many other things too....this show needs to come back asap
돌아갈 곳이 있다는 것에 감사하시길 바래요..
진짜 맏딸이 저러면 마음이 무너지지 부모님 입장으로서...어휴 언니분 정신차리고 가족한테 잘하세요 나같으면 호적팠다
I love how she came here to resolve the concern, but In those years she felt suffocated, she could've talked with her family instead of just leave without any reason.
She's crazy, leaving home withount any words and come to program tv after 5 years
It seems like she liked the freedom from everyday life she got when she ran away, but clearly she’s got herself in a complete mess. But when she had her daughter she started to get back on track and stuck around for 3 years, but sabotaged herself and left again. From what she’s said it seems like she feels like a burden to her family, but instead of trying to change and turn things around she just carried on with the way she was living. I hope this has given her the push to change things and the family becomes closer.
No doubt she's probably gonna run away in 1 month probably feeling suffocated.
For the work that the MCs and guests have done on this case and others, I salute them
I cry so many times while watching this show. There are so many broken hearts it just sucks
This hit so close to home its unreal. I was in tears the while time 😢
I'm crying while watching this
I hope they're happy now and can solve their problem together.
Everytime I come back here, I can’t hold my tears. I hope they resolve everything and live happily.
I think I cried so much on this concern. This is the serious concern ever I've watched.
Entire family has communication issue.
I cried a river while watching ths😢😢😢
If I was in that panel, I don’t know how I would’ve kept my cool like them
She have a understanding and good daughter❤
"Shocking ! I ran away from home"
Damnnn i choked up hahahahahahahhaahahahhahahaha
The older sister’s the embodiment of bad choices you couldn’t get out of. It would take such great understanding from her parents and sister to support her change from now on. If she wants to change, she can. But I think it’s also good for her to see a psychologist.
The father is so cute. Very charming. 😍😍😍😍
자기 상황 파악 못하고 그와중에 웃는거며 아빠 눈이 사시라느니,엄마 목소리가 크다느니,뇌 필터링 없이 멘트 날리는것도 그렇고 정신과적 치료가 필요한게 아닌가 싶음.사고 수준이 대책없이 솔직한 유아기를 못벗어났음.자기 잔소리 듣는게 시러서 혈육을 떼놓은게 사람이 할짓인가?엄마 아빠 동생 보니 되게 멀쩡하고 화목한집인데 왜 중딩때
그리 됐을까?지금은 딸 보니 좋아서
집에 들어간댔지만 쉽지않아보임
사람은 못고쳐쓰죠 몇십년동안 밖에싸돌아다니는게 습관이됐을텐데 집에들어왔다가 또 나갔을꺼같네요
I used to have fun watching this show but sometimes i cant help but cry with this kind of concerns. Imagine the Kid living with out a mother, thats the saddest. :((((
No matter how wrong a child do, parents should never say they hate them.
This is the most touching case ever. I hope this family have happy ending.
I honestly feel so bad for the little girl. No one askes to be born. Being born to a mother that would rather drink and be with friends than be your mom is unfair but that little girl is so mature. She has her auntie and her grandparents so that at least was a blessing. As for the woman, she needs to start serious counseling and address the issues she is having. Maybe it's a cultural difference but I believe that there's comes a time when you have to take responsibility for your life. Things may have been bad and people could've wronged you but as you grow older you have move on and overcome for yourself. Not for them but for yourself or you'll be in such a miserable place. I have a lot of hope for her. I hope she's doing better.
Such a shame to see this, but every time the father made any sudden movements the daughter next to him would shudder or shiver, I am making a big assumption here, when he said he beat her... I think he did so more violently than led to believe and it could have been part of why she was distant and always away from home...
I could be very wrong of course, but when I seen her do that several times... I knew she was really scared of him.
It's 10h54 pm and I have school tomorrow but here I am . Am sad bcse I can somehow relate to the little daughter. She must really miss her mom.
I literally lost myself when he asked "when you are pregnant for 100 days?!".
"No one celebrates that"😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I hope it turned out well...made me miss my kids even more 😭😭😭😭
I feel SO bad for the kid. What's poor kid's fault to go through this level of suffering? Just cause she was born to a woman who is selfish and is struggling herself? The child's mental health suffers the most. Lord give strength to the child!
I knew something must have happened when she was young, and it turned out that she had an unplanned pregnancy. There was no way a person behaves like her unless there's an incident that makes her overridden with guilt and eventually decided to run away. Esp for a woman, pregnancy will change a lot part of her life. Even in the normal pregnancy, the ones you expect to happen within marriage, with a caring husband and welcoming grandparents, a mother still need to prepare herself. This is just terrible and reminds me of other victims of violence I meet through work.
I guess working out this situation with the family is the hardest part. Although she herself is a victim, her family will not only deal with her problem but also their own problems. There are hints of a toxic family environment too so it might be difficult for her to rely on the family for moral support.
Honestly, I still have no idea to work this out. One thing for sure is that they all have to work together as a family, but that's the ideal situation, and more often than not, it doesn't go that way. If there's anything I admire, it's the fact that all of them come to this program; it takes a lot of courage to do so. The older sister does have a lot of things to change, but first off, I am proud of her for not being in denial. I hope you'll have the strength to heal and stand on your own, so later you can help other people too. I'll pray for you and your family.
I was so heartbroken when they were talking to her daughter and saw the grandmother . The grandmother was so heartbroken and hurt
Lol dongwoos reaction throughout the whole vid bare sweet
I hope she really change for the sake of her family and most of all her young and innocent daughter...I don't know if HELLO COUNSELOR have a follow up program on all the people who appear in their show with their problems. I hope they do, its just to see whether those people who have family/relationship issue that was brought up in their programme have made any progress and if all the promises made were really fulfilled.
I really want to ran away too because i have issues, and it caused me to be mentally illed to but everytime i see my mom and dad working hard. I just end up crying at night...
You are lucky they are not giving up on you, yet. You are blessed to have a family that others don't have and what others wishing for to have... And Infinite (i can't remmber his name, im sorry) is right, you have a lot of time and opportunity, grab it and treasure the moment while you still have it...
다른가족들이 너무 안쓰럽다. 다들 엄청 착하고만... 저 민폐딸은 절대 정신못차릴듯..
No tears at all from her, I don't think she is regret about what happen to her family , when she spoke to her daughter also no tears, I doubt she will change
I can't say more than bad friends grief your life .. 💔 so heartbreaking
this is heartbreaking. I'm shock when she mention her daughter.
I was ready to cuss her out but it is clear to me that she suffers from depression and anxiety. She doesnt want to be the way she is. It's common for people to file this under selfishness but she is truly messed up in the head. Her illness doesnt absolve her from some the stuff she has done though. She has a long road to follow to make amends to not only her parents but especially her daughter.
so i got addicted to this show. infinite was here so i clicked(i watched the first concern as well) and as i watched so many of these videos my eyes is now probably tired from crying or im starting to become emotionless again so IS NO ONE GONNA TALK ABOUT DONGWOO? HE'S JUST ASDGJKSHJAHSAHAHGAHASHAJAHA HILARIOUS 20:13 19:57
ye i dont make sense..
probably y i dont have friends
@@morpheus6129It’s been 5 years. But I think you need IDGAF spirit.
"It looks like she's eating well"
KSKSKNS WAY TO LIGHEN UP THE MOOD
it really hurts when her daughter called :(
It's hilarious to hear that her daughter said that her mother should be a good girl to her parents.However,Im glad that its a misunderstanding that she took the accessories of her father.But the older sister should be mature and make decisions with her family since all of them are suffering and sacrificing their health.Especially her father.Remember that health comes first to live longer with your families.She must have time for her daughter too and at least she should tell whats her job and where she is.
This is a very serious concern, she needs to get real counseling. For me her behavior pattern sounds very much like the borderline illness or something in that direction (though I’m no psychiatrist) where ones emotions are very unstable, you have problems with intimate relationships and often harm yourself through drugs or something. I really hope she can get better and learn to be happy again!ㅠㅠ
it's quiet hard to solve this problem. the main point here actually is the way they communicate with each other that becomes the problem. they cant speak honestly to each other, older sister chooses to run away and the parents dont know how to be sweet towards their children (when they're kids). sometimes, time can heal, but for their case it just makes it worse. it becomes really serious this time. all they have to do is sit down in one room, talk heart to heart to each other, even arguing is better, so they know what they dont really like towards each other. all members in family no exception.
Thank God thats her kid got sent to her younger sister. Thats why she is so mature and nice :)
I have never seen woohyun this quiet before 😔 is he ok?
nah, he's the hearts expert so... XDD
this is really the most serious concern here
19:00 Woohyunie's reaction cute cute cute
How did this not get 200
I understand the older sister.. and i hope that she is doing well right now..
Wow this is just heartbreaking 😢
I broke into tears seeing the dad cry 😭
I LOVE HER BUSAN SATOORI XD SO CUTE
I don't think people are truly considering the older daughter's situation. She was beaten and abused as a child, clearly, and then neglected by her mother(even if it was for good reason). If you have any doubts that she was abused notice her RELIEF that her parents were treating her daughter well - ie way better than they ever were to her AND how even now they tell the 11 year old they hate her for looking like her mother. Imagine the damage such comments from your caregivers would have on a young mind and her self esteem/ These parents are NOT innocent victim but perpetrators of terrible parenting and this is the result of their actions coming home to roost. Any person with a basic understanding of developmental psychology, medicine or trauma can see that this woman has become this way due to her parent's treatment. Her sister is probably not innocent either - in abuse siblings are either also victims or they become the favoured child and join in. What I see here is a very damaged woman in need of help from mental health professionals, someone who can help her with her debt and alcoholism and not being forced back into the home of the people who abused and neglected her for years. Yes, her daughter is suffering and she shouldn't leave her child but that "suffocation" she's talking about it called anxiety/PTSD - she literally cannot breath - and it is incredibly damaging and overwhelming. No wonder she has turned to substance misuse. If you haven't experienced PTSD then you cannot understand how it feels - your body and mind are tricking you into thinking you are in grave danger and awful things are going to happen even if they're not. Every time it is triggered you are reliving the ABSOLUTE WORST moments of your life like they were still happening. One thing I hate about this is that I have no idea if they offer ACTUAL professional help outside of the show - this women needs medical and psychological intervention, and the family probably needs social work involvement. But nah, instead let's all just sit in a semi-circle and let entirely unqualified people criticise in the name of "support". It's incredibly damaging and thinly veiled voyeurism. I am sickened by the sheer ignorance in this episode and I wish the producers of the show would have proper training- a genuine professional on team, a post-show mediator, anything to actually help these people instead of profit from their suffering - this show on it's own will not resolve anything for these people and they have been fully taken advantage of for entertainment value and it is disgusting. On top of this, EVEN the show's solution is very poor. They have not offered a middle ground whatsoever. Instead of having to move back into the house where she feels suffocated, why can't she move closer to them and visit more often? Why can't they support her while she's not at home as long as she visits regularly, every week etc and stays in touch by coming in person? There are so many other options available to this family that they don't offer. Why? Because as I said before - this isn't actually here to help - the show is for entertainment value, not for genuine conflict resolution and helping people. You can see it in the editing tricks whose side they take. It's just all so wrong
but don't forget about her being bullied at school either, i mean you can blame her parents but you can't fully blame them. it's really complicated this case because it involves the way she got raised but also the way got treated by her friends. at the end it's just so frustrating to see how the society and the parents have raised such a selfish yet miserable person.
I love the Dad so much ❤️💙🤗
In the philippines there are similar cases but worst.
I couldn't help but cry...
I rarely cried but i cried 😭
Im not crying, u r
Explains all those drama scenes with rain and no umbrella at schools.
Whatever difficult your problem that you faced don’t you ever leave your family. How good your relationship with your friends it not same the love vibes from our families. This person not thinking very well about her problems. If she stressed she must tell all her problem to her family. Did she thinks that all their family members are her cabinet that you can takes and give all your prob 😒
when the daughter is more mature than the 30 year old mom
It's a coincidence that blue jacket member of this group did a drama where he was also abondened by his mother 😢😢😢 high
high school love on
"I like the way things are right now".... Ok.
i hope she was changed today
Honestly she needs to get her shit together, she’s a mother, she has a child! She’s at the point where she doesn’t acknowledge her child when that’s supposed to be her top priority, and it saddens me.
이영자와 아이들ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
for heaven's sake don't have kids if it means giving them up afterwards. God sees everything
i'm so tired..... that took 10 years off ㅠㅠㅠㅠ
I'm just curious about who didn't press the button, it's a very serious concern.
She's the cute chubby version of Jeon Ji-woo, well they're both cute in my opinionss~
tbh, I can’t really seem to hate her. :( but I do think the part with the daughter is a bit too much, the poor girl is so mature.
Lmao not her forgetting about winter break 😭
How can you not cry 😭😭😭
저 사람을 낳은 부모님도 저사람의 딸도 너무 불쌍하다 자식이 뭔지 철딱서니가 없는 ..
Do you guys know if this show ever goes back and checks on their guest
Wow... Sad and shocking. Speechless.
Not really want to brag about this but the same thing happened to my cousin's family. She was a nice girl but ended up acted out because her parents were busy and her siblings didn't live with them. She got pregnant, her mother didn't want the child because she resent both of them. Finally when i turned 16 (legal to have a child in our country) I adopted my niece when she was just 14 days. It has been 3 years, we lost touch with my cousin's family, my cousin moved to another state but we still keep in touch although her daughter can't recognize her now. She is growing up well with us (especially my foster family) but I often remained speechless whenever she asks about her father. I mean, I adopted her and I'm just 19 now. I'm engaged since 6 months ago (don't judge, I love being young mother and wife) and my fiance is totally fine with my baby, he even said that she's a blessing for both of us. I could careless about the past but I couldn't help the thoughts of telling her the truth when the time is right, someday. Because I don't want my cousin to think that I seize her daughter, that she will come back someday and tell everything to her. I don't want my daughter that I raised ever since I was very young to resent me and act out just like how her real mother did.
Channel앤티아 that's very wonderful of you. Anyway I wonder where you live that you could adopt a baby at 16?
Channel앤티아 you are an angel and I hope you and your niece have the best lives.
how did this only get 161 votes?!?!
this made me cry omg
man, this episode is tough to watch.