“Cause the $hit be working” 😂😂😂😂 facts! I realize these guys are good at that game! When you actually work on yourself, no sex read your bible your vision become so clear! I realize the game stop when you stop playing. I hold on to that saying. It’s as simple as that.
Unready and ready men are going to approach women. Women have to see the signs and actions not words. He looking for fun, just kicking it, net flix and chill, want to sleep with you without knowing much about you or you knowing about him-NOT READY. He defines plans, he supports you, he is intentional in making plans for the future with you that are mutually beneficial-READY! If he's inconsistent in general-NOT READY
Some men have done it for more than 3 months. My ex did it for three years. After a three year long distance and my traveling 90% of the relationship. I am grateful I am done and I met a wonderful that was ready for me. Truly not expected.
(31:27) Ladies, PLEASE listen to Ace! He is telling the truth! I tried to love someone who was "hurt", and it was the most difficult relationship I had ever been in. The more you try, the more they will hurt you. They need to seek a professional therapist to resolve his unhealed issues. You cannot "fix" them. Period. (I later found out he was molested by his uncle as a child. He told his mother, she didn't believe him, called him a "liar" and protected her brother instead. He began to HATE women. Going from one woman to another using/hurting them. Today, he has numerous s3xual harassment charges at work. One more, & he's out the door!)
What about someone tells you up front ,he's not ready ..then later on he said he's ready ...that's good right but I cant help to think he trying something cause he know I feel for him
Keep enlightening us women! Women set your standards and boundaries and don't settle. Ace, you looking like a snack respectfully! Love the sensitive side❤.
Some of ghese wmen dont want to block them cause they enjoy seeing the calls and text. They enjoy the entertainmeent, the fake validation about themself. Great info Ace!!!❤
Around the 35 minute mark there is this rant about what a “good woman” is. There is this correlation made to how a woman who has allowed poor treatment to herself cannot in fact be a “good woman.” I say “screw that notion!” As a person speaking from experience. I “selected” my now “ex” at NINETEEN! There was sooooo much for me to learn and much that was negatively imposed into my thinking from past trauma in childhood. My decision to give MORE than deserved grace. My gullibility to the man who did not deserve me. My unskilled ability to implement boundaries….DOES NOT MAKE ME A BAD WOMAN or anything contrary to a “Good Woman!” I don’t agree with choosing to remain in a situation where you’re repeatedly disrespected once you in fact are clear on the reality of inadequacies stemming from pure reluctance and foolishness! But I wouldn’t go so far as to say “that’s not a good woman.” A person is going through ENOUGH just to have to come to grips with the fact that they are sleeping with the enemy. Not a burden I would place additionally onto anyone. Definitely not a burden I will allow myself to pick up. IM NOT PICKING UP WHAT YOU’RE PUTTING DOWN 👎
Omg I got a best friend who’s credit score is under 500 but she’s trying to help a man who won’t even make her his girlfriend get his business together 😭and I told her she’s broken trying to fix another broken person 🙄
ACE YOU ARE THE MAN!!! I BEEN SAYING CAN WE CLONE YOUR MIND! I AGREE WITH EVERYTHING YOU SAY CUZ YOUR RIGHT AND YOUR SO REAL! YOU BEEN HELPING ME FEEL BETTER ABOUT MY BULLSHIT!! THANK YOUUU FOR DOING WHAT YOU DO!!! ❤ YOU ALWAYS BE LOOKIN GOOD JS!
Fine dude Wednesday, I'm here for it!🎉😎 Adorable dog Wednesday too, what type of dog is that? The first 5 minutes was a heavy dose of truth and reality. That is the realization I had to come to. I ultimately kicked the dude out of my life for good last month, praise God.
I hear you man. I do. It makes it even more difficult to navigate this dating shit when ive only experienced toxicity and broken men.. fuck lol. But everything you say is 100% correct.. ladies listen to him and take his warnings. Watch actions not words and do not rush into SHIT!!!!!
The truth hurts but there’s no lies detected here. Unready men babyyyy. This touched home. When u know better u do better. I knew it but I was ignoring all the red flags just like he said.
Ace you gotta understand these woman… really gotta understand who they are and heal so they can attract higher because the way energy works is you are what you attract And most broken homes had bad examples of love just repeating the cycles Ask me how I know 😏
I’m learning to hold myself more accountable for the decisions to stay in toxic and unhealthy relationships. These conversations and platforms you have help me to reflect on making better decisions for the future. So, thank you for pouring into us as a community. Some of us need a lot of healing and it’s not always easy to admit that. Have a blessed one and I found this video today right on time for a reason….I just got that double back message😒. So thank you!💪🏾🎯
Ace... I'm behind and just watching this video. So you're AMAZING ACE. I speak for many. I just started watching your channel a few months ago. I wish I knew about you many years ago. I was with my husband 19 years and married 9. You are a Man that speak the truth to women and men alike. We're going to continue to ride this train with you. Thank you for what you do 👑👏👏👏
I’m not a good woman. I never let go of my father’s abuse, my brother’s abuse on me….Ace you are hitting every damn point possible in this one….my mind is like….God sent this video to me right now in this moment. Let me give you an affirmation: YOU ARE THE ONLY PODCASTER THAT GOT ME OUT OF MY FANTASY LAND AND LEFT HIM!!!!!! It’s painful goes without saying, I wanted to FIX him. You have nailed him on the point I’ve never heard before. My Lord I STILL want to contact his a$$ and fix him. You’re doing the right work THANK YOU 🙏🏼
😮"Damn" God bless you for being who you are. The truth hurts huh? Well, All I can honestly say is your right. Thank you for telling me what I needed to hear. Wish I would of seen you 5 years ago. But know, I finally broke off a 6 year toxic relationship and your words of wisdom are greatly appreciated.
Ace you’re doing a phenomenal job!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 You keep dropping gems 💎. Looking forward to seeing you in person this June in Charlotte!!! 🙌🏽♥️ You’re helping many Women out here. Keep doing what you’re doing. God bless 🙏🏼
Baby, that was the night I unsubscribed from Tony because I was planning on doing it since he became problematic. That night he showed his insecurity when Ace peacefully challenged him.
This hit's home for me. You are speaking nothing but facts I appreciate you speaking to us so harshly, it shows passion in what you're saying to us. Thank you, thank you, thank you!!!
Ace, I needed to hear this! I stopped messing with an F*boy who made me an option. I always allowed him to walk over me until I could no longer allow my self-esteem to be shattered! I blocked him for good, and I act like I don't know him when I see him out! Thank you, big brother❤
Thank you for speaking truth & helping us out! ❤ I am currently working on my codependency issues that I adopted from childhood & I go to counseling to heal this aspect of myself. I never realized that I had this issue, I was just always trying to be there for someone & help fix them, didn't realize how big of an issue it was. Where were you when I was younger? 😅 You are appreciated 🙏
Thank you!!! Your videos help, they truly do, encouraging words and harsh truths is exactly what some of us women need. 👌 remember your power to all the ladies in difficult situations. Sending healing and peace
This is a man’s problem. He’s got a problem. If he pretends, he has a lot of shortcomings and issues of self-worth. Men I’ve dated, actually dated. They weren’t liar so let’s not normalize bad behavior because HE wasn’t raised right.
My name isnt Fiona, and I don't want no dern Shrek. A man should automatically come with character, not be one. Q: What makes them think it works, trying to make a female gullible and override our security system? This is my 2nd Mr. Unready Man: one too many. I've asked said question "What are we," "What are we doing" and I was accused of being insecure. However, I just said this to God a few minutes ago because I'm tired of hurting myself, being seen as a sexual object by unready men. My dad was / is an unready man, that was very lustful. I came to this conclusion recently that I'm not quite ready yet. Guess there was reason why I didn't want to come out the birth canal when I was born: I was by my mom's ribcage. I didnt want to fix a damn thing! Im not going to fix a damn thing from a man; I will tell you so succinctly to get outta my face. Thank you, Ace!
“A man can’t lie to you if you’re not in his presence.” Goodness!
Ladies stop being afraid of being alone. If you are you’ll take anything.
I’m standing up for my self this year
Same! At 28 days no contact!
Me too.. I'm going to pay more attention.. After this last heartbreak.. 1st sign I'm out
If he isn’t ready to date, then he shouldn’t ask any woman for a date.
I agree but these type of guys are looking for their next victim so it's up to us ladies to set those boundaries and see those signs/red flags. 😘
And...unready men are still going to date because how else he gonna get it? Ready or Not.
Ace explained it all already🙄🙄 They dont care! Its up to us woman to make an end of this and choose peace!
💯💯🔥
@@kettanistarYep. They want sex so they have to pretend they are “dating”.
“Cause the $hit be working” 😂😂😂😂 facts! I realize these guys are good at that game! When you actually work on yourself, no sex read your bible your vision become so clear! I realize the game stop when you stop playing. I hold on to that saying. It’s as simple as that.
Agreedddddddd❤
Facts
I agree totally with u
The clarity and peace that comes when you do leave is Priceless
The lie detector test determined this is the truth!
No liesssssss detected
No contact is powerful.
Unready and ready men are going to approach women. Women have to see the signs and actions not words. He looking for fun, just kicking it, net flix and chill, want to sleep with you without knowing much about you or you knowing about him-NOT READY. He defines plans, he supports you, he is intentional in making plans for the future with you that are mutually beneficial-READY! If he's inconsistent in general-NOT READY
Some men have done it for more than 3 months. My ex did it for three years. After a three year long distance and my traveling 90% of the relationship. I am grateful I am done and I met a wonderful that was ready for me. Truly not expected.
At some point a man needs to take responsibility for what he says. It’s not my job to determine if he is lying or not.
Selfish people don't care. You have to protect yourself. Period!
Exactly! If they were honest it would be simpler than being a therapist for a loser
Ma’am the only person that can watch out for you is yourself.. if his words or actions don’t match.. he be lying
(31:27) Ladies, PLEASE listen to Ace! He is telling the truth! I tried to love someone who was "hurt", and it was the most difficult relationship I had ever been in. The more you try, the more they will hurt you. They need to seek a professional therapist to resolve his unhealed issues. You cannot "fix" them. Period. (I later found out he was molested by his uncle as a child.
He told his mother, she didn't believe him, called him a "liar" and protected her brother instead. He began to HATE women. Going from one woman to another using/hurting them. Today, he has numerous s3xual harassment charges at work. One more, & he's out the door!)
Wow that deep
What about someone tells you up front ,he's not ready ..then later on he said he's ready ...that's good right but I cant help to think he trying something cause he know I feel for him
Or just stop dating. It’s the most wonderful peaceful thing ever. JS
You ain’t never lied ain’t got to worry about no cheating, catching nun, what nobody else got going on
We gotta stop asking the same question in a different way
Reason men date…TO GET LAID. PERIOD.
PERIOD!!
Control your own urges, women.
Keep enlightening us women! Women set your standards and boundaries and don't settle. Ace, you looking like a snack respectfully! Love the sensitive side❤.
He’s definitely handsome ❤
I love his advice because he is absolutely right.
YOU SHOULD OF BEEN MY BIG BROTHER 💪🏾 OR IN THE FAMILY PERIOD. YOU KEEP IT SO HONEST AND I LOVE IT 😂❤🏆💯👆🏽
All I can say is thank you. I am a woman of a more mature age. Wish I would have come across you many years ago. I’ve wasted too much time
Some of ghese wmen dont want to block them cause they enjoy seeing the calls and text. They enjoy the entertainmeent, the fake validation about themself.
Great info Ace!!!❤
I actually pitty myself that at my age im still being deceived.
But thank you for the GOOD advice
Divorcee after 20 years, and I thought Inknew better until I k ow now. I have no time fornthese bums that don't mean me any good! Lesson learned!
It’s the truth say.🔥🔥🔥 If you dating unhealthy men Is because you unhealthy also. We attract what we are.
Whispering Little Sweet Nothings, is just that. Nothing.
Facts! Focus on you ladies, the right man will come❤
Ace go live everyday. I’ll watch 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Around the 35 minute mark there is this rant about what a “good woman” is. There is this correlation made to how a woman who has allowed poor treatment to herself cannot in fact be a “good woman.”
I say “screw that notion!”
As a person speaking from experience. I “selected” my now “ex” at NINETEEN!
There was sooooo much for me to learn and much that was negatively imposed into my thinking from past trauma in childhood.
My decision to give MORE than deserved grace. My gullibility to the man who did not deserve me. My unskilled ability to implement boundaries….DOES NOT MAKE ME A BAD WOMAN or anything contrary to a “Good Woman!”
I don’t agree with choosing to remain in a situation where you’re repeatedly disrespected once you in fact are clear on the reality of inadequacies stemming from pure reluctance and foolishness! But I wouldn’t go so far as to say “that’s not a good woman.”
A person is going through ENOUGH just to have to come to grips with the fact that they are sleeping with the enemy. Not a burden I would place additionally onto anyone. Definitely not a burden I will allow myself to pick up.
IM NOT PICKING UP WHAT YOU’RE PUTTING DOWN 👎
Ace never said "Bad Woman" he said "Are you a Good Woman to YOURSELF?"
@@MT-hk9cp
The implication is there and that is undeniable. He is not a bad guy. I simply do not agree with his notion in this instance.
Omg I got a best friend who’s credit score is under 500 but she’s trying to help a man who won’t even make her his girlfriend get his business together 😭and I told her she’s broken trying to fix another broken person 🙄
ACE YOU ARE THE MAN!!! I BEEN SAYING CAN WE CLONE YOUR MIND! I AGREE WITH EVERYTHING YOU SAY CUZ YOUR RIGHT AND YOUR SO REAL! YOU BEEN HELPING ME FEEL BETTER ABOUT MY BULLSHIT!! THANK YOUUU FOR DOING WHAT YOU DO!!! ❤ YOU ALWAYS BE LOOKIN GOOD JS!
Fine dude Wednesday, I'm here for it!🎉😎 Adorable dog Wednesday too, what type of dog is that?
The first 5 minutes was a heavy dose of truth and reality. That is the realization I had to come to. I ultimately kicked the dude out of my life for good last month, praise God.
This made my mfn day 😂 and It's been a long one too. Needed to hear this. Got yourself a new subscriber ❤
I hear you man. I do. It makes it even more difficult to navigate this dating shit when ive only experienced toxicity and broken men.. fuck lol. But everything you say is 100% correct.. ladies listen to him and take his warnings. Watch actions not words and do not rush into SHIT!!!!!
The truth hurts but there’s no lies detected here. Unready men babyyyy. This touched home. When u know better u do better. I knew it but I was ignoring all the red flags just like he said.
Sweety im so glad i stumbled up on your TH-cam channel. I follow you on FB. But i have been on there in awhile.. im a Subbie here now 4/ sure👌🏾💯🤗 😍🙏🏾
Im going through this right now. You are absolutely right
I missed this live, but Ace…fr your figure is APPRECIATED! A++
Ace you gotta understand these woman… really gotta understand who they are and heal so they can attract higher because the way energy works is you are what you attract
And most broken homes had bad examples of love just repeating the cycles
Ask me how I know 😏
Ace, thank you for helping me to be a better me. Thank you for being a mental nurse.
🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽💯✨🙏🏽
I’m learning to hold myself more accountable for the decisions to stay in toxic and unhealthy relationships. These conversations and platforms you have help me to reflect on making better decisions for the future. So, thank you for pouring into us as a community. Some of us need a lot of healing and it’s not always easy to admit that. Have a blessed one and I found this video today right on time for a reason….I just got that double back message😒. So thank you!💪🏾🎯
You are Speaking Facts! And I've been There! And it Took the Creator to Pull me, Through/Out! Thank God!!!🙌🏾
ACE, 😂THANK YOU, YOU ARE SO WISE AND FUNNY!!!!!!
Ace... I'm behind and just watching this video. So you're AMAZING ACE. I speak for many. I just started watching your channel a few months ago. I wish I knew about you many years ago. I was with my husband 19 years and married 9. You are a Man that speak the truth to women and men alike. We're going to continue to ride this train with you. Thank you for what you do 👑👏👏👏
Well there's none here in my state.... I have given up!!!!
Match my fly or pass me by ✨💆🏾♀️✨
I’m not a good woman. I never let go of my father’s abuse, my brother’s abuse on me….Ace you are hitting every damn point possible in this one….my mind is like….God sent this video to me right now in this moment. Let me give you an affirmation: YOU ARE THE ONLY PODCASTER THAT GOT ME OUT OF MY FANTASY LAND AND LEFT HIM!!!!!! It’s painful goes without saying, I wanted to FIX him. You have nailed him on the point I’ve never heard before. My Lord I STILL want to contact his a$$ and fix him. You’re doing the right work THANK YOU 🙏🏼
This video is absolutely great! Laughed my heart out when you stood up a couple of times!🤣
Keep it up! You are very helpful. ❤
😮"Damn" God bless you for being who you are. The truth hurts huh? Well, All I can honestly say is your right. Thank you for telling me what I needed to hear. Wish I would of seen you 5 years ago. But know, I finally broke off a 6 year toxic relationship and your words of wisdom are greatly appreciated.
Amen Ace I Feel you this is so True but for me no losses just lessons learned
Keep these coming Ace....I swear I'm tuned in❤
Ace you’re doing a phenomenal job!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 You keep dropping gems 💎. Looking forward to seeing you in person this June in Charlotte!!! 🙌🏽♥️ You’re helping many Women out here. Keep doing what you’re doing. God bless 🙏🏼
You're a real brother, thank you Ace❤. It hurts to acknowledge the truth, but goddammit - it's Worth It!!!
Preachhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh Ace!!!!!!!!!!!!😮😮😮😮😅😅😅😂😂😂😂😂😂so many facts he droppin here....we thank you for this channel #AceMetaphorRocks...
I was too good for all the men I had in my past so now not settling for anyone … I choose me now
Yes!!! You go be his friend ❤ it👏🏾
Been seeing your clips on facebook.... I appreciate your insite and gems that you drop! Bless your heart Ace! A lot of what you say be needed.
When a man says he enters relationships with no expectations, what is he saying to you?
This made my break at work awesome,ace I needed to hear them words more then you might know!! Keep it up for us man!!
Ever since Tony played with you, you’ve been my favorite. You are a naturally good man, not hiding behind a religion.
I was waiting for it 🤣
Baby, that was the night I unsubscribed from Tony because I was planning on doing it since he became problematic. That night he showed his insecurity when Ace peacefully challenged him.
I m just gonna take a long break from dating for alongtime it's better to be alone than to go though all this ...maybe I just need to heal myself
Not maybe. You do. How is it going? It's been 7 months now.
Amen! I have someone I have known for years that just lead me on. I can't even get a date with him, and he says he loves me and wants to be with me
I BELIEVE LISTENING is skill. Not everybody listens they just hear just to get ready for their rebuttal
You tell the truth brother Thank you
This hit's home for me. You are speaking nothing but facts I appreciate you speaking to us so harshly, it shows passion in what you're saying to us. Thank you, thank you, thank you!!!
You ain’t lying!! Bro you know it!! I know it!! everybody know it!!
Ace, you are the Truth!!!! Thank you
Ace smiling but he dead serious
So are we to assume when a man contacts us, he really isn’t interested?
Thank you Ace for doing what you do. You helped me break a generational curse.
This made my day Ace! U looking like a snack Ace😉
You are so right again I just got out of this you have been telling us this.
Preach 🙌 brother preach 🙏👏👏 yes
Thanks, Ace for speaking the truth
Ace, I needed to hear this! I stopped messing with an F*boy who made me an option. I always allowed him to walk over me until I could no longer allow my self-esteem to be shattered! I blocked him for good, and I act like I don't know him when I see him out! Thank you, big brother❤
I'm in same thing as u
I appreciate and receive this message
Yes, you are great and we do appreciate it!!!❤
Thank you for speaking truth & helping us out! ❤ I am currently working on my codependency issues that I adopted from childhood & I go to counseling to heal this aspect of myself. I never realized that I had this issue, I was just always trying to be there for someone & help fix them, didn't realize how big of an issue it was. Where were you when I was younger? 😅 You are appreciated 🙏
Now I’m with ya when you’re right!!!! 🫰🏾🫰🏾🫰🏾🔥
Awesome video Ace. You on fire!! Handsome as always ❤
Thank you!!! Your videos help, they truly do, encouraging words and harsh truths is exactly what some of us women need. 👌 remember your power to all the ladies in difficult situations. Sending healing and peace
Lawd...I always tease u saying u be sounding like u crying😅😅😅Gold.
This is a man’s problem. He’s got a problem. If he pretends, he has a lot of shortcomings and issues of self-worth. Men I’ve dated, actually dated. They weren’t liar so let’s not normalize bad behavior because HE wasn’t raised right.
Love watching you. Yes you are looking good. Keep up the great work for us women ❤️
Thank you Ace. I wish I knew this before today
Amen Talk Your Real I Love it ❤❤
Love this lives, you look good Ace, and the merchandise is tight!! Keep it coming, wishing you the best day!!❤😂❤
You are so right on!!!!!
I appreciate ur thoughts. about restraints on dating unready men.Its gold and valuable.I want to also tell u ,u r handsome and gorgeous
omg your speaking true factors.
Ave you were just in nyc my apologies for not bringing you food. Lol😂
Thank you Ace you are much appreciated
You don't just make my day you make my life so much better and I thank you
We love you Ace! Thanks for being real with us. ✊🏾
Ace you are doing a good job
Yea ase. I’ll watch you everyday ❤
Thank you Brother
Ace you looking like a snack!!!!! 🎉
I agree a person should be blocked but if financial situation have to be resolved we all should be mature enough to settle the business of life
❤❤❤ go live dude you have the gift #blessings
I love watching your videos ❤❤❤ I'm glad that u can verify my thinking 😂😂
I am so happy I found you. You have made me cry, but omg 😂 funny
Speak the truth!
@ 56 I Needed to hear that!!!!
My name isnt Fiona, and I don't want no dern Shrek. A man should automatically come with character, not be one.
Q: What makes them think it works, trying to make a female gullible and override our security system?
This is my 2nd Mr. Unready Man: one too many. I've asked said question "What are we," "What are we doing" and I was accused of being insecure. However, I just said this to God a few minutes ago because I'm tired of hurting myself, being seen as a sexual object by unready men. My dad was / is an unready man, that was very lustful.
I came to this conclusion recently that I'm not quite ready yet. Guess there was reason why I didn't want to come out the birth canal when I was born: I was by my mom's ribcage.
I didnt want to fix a damn thing! Im not going to fix a damn thing from a man; I will tell you so succinctly to get outta my face.
Thank you, Ace!