I asked a few friends and acquaintances the same thing and their replies were that it’s his laugh that irritates them especially when wearing earbuds 😂
My wife and I saw him (Big Jay) with another couple. BIG mistake. Other couple got wasted and made a scene. He focused on our table and tore them up!! He's great! We don't talk to the other couple anymore.
@@shogunpla4388 Probably a good time. We were part of it in a bad way. He even pointed out how embarrassed my wife and I were. I don't drink, but the other couple got drunk and heckled. Syracuse Funny Bone. We have tickets to go back...just to two of us lol.
@@TheOutdoorDude oh shit I don't drink either dude, had pancreatitis out of the army and stomach hasn't been the same since. Last time we went he sang country to my girl lol. I watch the bonfire heavily so I always try to throw In a reference the few interactions we've had.
What's strange about that quote is..I find him to be one of the most intelligent comics out there. His way of describing situations, super quick comebacks, full 100% honesty, and just overall comfort within himself makes me believe his IQ is very high.
Really happy more people are getting to see Jay and experience him and his humor, he has always been not just one of my favorite comedians but also best podcast guest and host, it always gets said but his crowd work is some of the best in the world off the cuff, and he is just a really humble dude, that came up with some of the biggest comics in the world and he just still slugs it out , leaves a soft footprint wherever he goes, feel like he will be the next Dave Attell, the best comic in the room but happy to be at a level of fame where they can walk down the streets of NY and not get hassled to much.
Agreed. People who dont have kids Just dont know wht UNCONDITIONAL TRUE LOVE IS until the moment they see their child. I didnt want a kid until literally the second i saw my son. ( i was having non stop stress the whole time, also, i was thinking im way too selfish) Then the whole time im just wishing i had him sooner.
The View count the subscribers all of it is far too low. Ryan, you put on an amazing show and your podcast is second to none. Big Jay we love you, thanks for being you my guy
I'm ready for this one. 2 of my favorites. Really wish you would release the Mike Rainey episode on the main channel, not because I'm too good to pay for the patreon but the guy is a legend with On Perc's
For real. It was heartbreaking when Rainey realized Sickler had no idea who he was. I wish the LA comics would make more of an effort to learn about comics outside of their city.
My ex came out to me January 2020 and you support them because that’s what you do right? Keeping positive we tried an open marriage for the sake of our kiddos (now 8 and 10) and the stereotypical family unit. As a now divorced Dad, finding independence has been an unforeseen blessing as I am able to focus 100% when the kids and I are together without any distractions. Thank you Jay and Ryan for these conversations as a lot of the topics you discussed truly resonated.
Big Jay that's my dude. I was lucky enough to see him in Bristol TN on the dragstrip with Bert. I was close to the front and at the end he saw my LOS shirt and hit me with the skank sign which I politely returned. Legendary moment. I pee'd a little
I love Big Jay. I saw him at the Atlanta airport late last year and did the fan girl thing and told him he was my favorite, he was super cool, shook my hand, asked me where I was heading and general b/s for a minute. He looked like he’s been working out.
Big fan of the show from day 1, recent fan of Big Jay. As a 35 year old father of a 14 year old who has just moved in with me from his mothers, i really enjoyed this episode. Thanks Big Jay, I really needed to hear your perspective to know I’m on the right path. Thank you both 🙏🏻
Genuine good dude that got his foot in the door.. hes got a vibe that makes you want to hangout. Gravitated to him when i saw him on rogan tell the story about his skitzo cousin... soooo funny... and the laugh is one of a kind
That "what if I'm a runner too..." feeling is a heavy one. Thought about that numerous times when I've walked away from bad relationships and the prospect of having kids. The actions of parents cut deep.
Was in Philly for a wedding, go out for a smoke ,this fucking guy is outside my hotel, one pant leg rolled up (in winter) smoking a cig in fingerless gloves, this dudes the man
I love Jay. I listen to him probably 5 podcasts a week but if you have noticed what I have, he takes the longest route possible from point A to point B in an opinion or a story. I mean, it always pays off but zero brevity.
Sickler, even tho ur a filthy,soulless ravens fan, i have to say u got one of the best podcasts. The atmosphere u create brings a certain kind of honesty out of guests that ive heard countless hours of before. Many times, if i listed my favorite interview from alot of people, ur interview with them would be at the top. Salute my friend
I love big jay and the Legion of Skanks. y far one of the best storytellers and guest especially to your podcasting style/format and its loosing guided life narrative and origin story type of n its lightly guided n structured free-flow, reflective/ mild confessional authenticity. You NEED to get Luis J. Gomez on next, he's like a more down to earth Joey Diaz, in light of what your show brings out in your guests. that would be one of your best episode yet, or even next Saga guest haha but seriously lol he'd be perfect for your show and is one of the best people and helped so many other underground overlooked comics a place to grow, and sacrifices his own career & wealth out of his love for comedy/what it does for people who came from dark places like him, as well as, building a community for people where they can develop was/even is his choice and his priorities. Love the show Ryan, cant wait to see who your gonna talk to next! 🤘👍✌
Big Jay is easily one of the top five comedians right. Even comedians I like struggle to make me laugh, I’m really not an LOL-er, even if I find it really really funny. Jay is one of the few stand up comedians who can make me laugh out loud
Comrade, a majority of people making over 100k in America are living paycheck to paycheck. Minimum wage in like the 50s translates to 112k now. We are all broke, we have nothing to lose and the world to gain.
I'm from Detroit, MI. 30 years old. I've been addicted to Heroin, Crystal & Crack. Homeless on the streets in & out of jail & rehabs. But I was a baseball prodigy. My father was called up by the Detroit tigers to tryout to be 1st baseman. Blew his ACL 2nd tryout. Tried to play through me as I grew up & I didn't even realize it. He coached our travel teams & all. It was a lot of pressure. I caved. I pitched. Threw that heater. I always looked for a social crew to hangout with. Once I found my "crew" around highs school I dropped sports & completey abonded my studies & sports. I traumatized my Macedonian family because that was frowned upon to do such a thing, stray away from the family. I got into heavy drugs pretty early. Poppin pills and partying. I went to Macedonia at the age of 19 where I slept with my step sister. Ruined my father's marriage. If you want the rest of story. Come have me on Sick man. Huge fan 🧡
Thanks for this podcast. Being a newly single dad of 2 girls (10 and 12) who’s working on this whole co-parenting thing I related to alot of what y’all discussed. Thanks for making me laugh today.
I went from avg C/D student in high school until I started smoking weed to mostly B's with the occasional A. Definitely helped me but didn't pay any attention to it at the time
Sounds like she used you and can now get you for child support. It goes to show it's better to be manipulative than put in any honest effort into being self reliant.
I just started listening so I don't know if myncomment pertains to this episode, but one of the things I appreciate about Jay is that he mentions Patrice regularly. Aside from that, he's consistently funny. :-D
These days I bet some of these kids would rather have a parent leave over having a parent hand them a tablet and then ignore them their whole life I couldn't imagine being ignored by my parents and still living with them. That's why I'm a little nicer to this younger generation It's not really their fault necessarily, their parents somehow lost their natural instinct They're too busy taking Instagram ass pics and tick tock videos to pay attention to their kids these days
His latest podcast had me messed up… no one tells you how to deal with your parents when they get older divorced addiction and the last one really helped me thanks man
Why doesn't sickler have more subscribers. This is one of the best podcasts out there. And sickler is one of the best.
I asked a few friends and acquaintances the same thing and their replies were that it’s his laugh that irritates them especially when wearing earbuds 😂
His patreon is fire… he needs to share quarterly just one episode and more people would join/watch!
@@Tha1leeG how loud are these ear buds? Lol
Maybe because the guests are not known/famous.
@@brbapappa hes had quite a few celebs
Big Jay is one of funniest most humble dudes in the game. Love him
Really wish he had a podcast instead of that xm show.
He takes a basketball loss like a chump though
@@lj_hepp he has 2 podcasts, legion of skanks, and the sdr show. In addition to the bonfire on sxm
Jay is such a genuine dude. I'm stoked for his special!
My wife and I saw him (Big Jay) with another couple. BIG mistake. Other couple got wasted and made a scene. He focused on our table and tore them up!! He's great! We don't talk to the other couple anymore.
Great story. What a great way for a toxic friendship to end
Jay is a friend filter
I always get front row tickets whenever hes at the funny bone in albany , my girl and I are part of it almost every time.
@@shogunpla4388 Probably a good time. We were part of it in a bad way. He even pointed out how embarrassed my wife and I were. I don't drink, but the other couple got drunk and heckled. Syracuse Funny Bone. We have tickets to go back...just to two of us lol.
@@TheOutdoorDude oh shit I don't drink either dude, had pancreatitis out of the army and stomach hasn't been the same since. Last time we went he sang country to my girl lol. I watch the bonfire heavily so I always try to throw In a reference the few interactions we've had.
Sickler is such a positive and caring dude. He deserves all the praise and love. Also, he is definitely funny. Let's not forget that.
"I'm not an academic, I'm more of a creative" thank you for clarifying that Jay 🤣
🤣
Is that him right there
What's strange about that quote is..I find him to be one of the most intelligent comics out there. His way of describing situations, super quick comebacks, full 100% honesty, and just overall comfort within himself makes me believe his IQ is very high.
Really happy more people are getting to see Jay and experience him and his humor, he has always been not just one of my favorite comedians but also best podcast guest and host, it always gets said but his crowd work is some of the best in the world off the cuff, and he is just a really humble dude, that came up with some of the biggest comics in the world and he just still slugs it out , leaves a soft footprint wherever he goes, feel like he will be the next Dave Attell, the best comic in the room but happy to be at a level of fame where they can walk down the streets of NY and not get hassled to much.
As a new dad this episode was inspiring. The sum of her mistakes won't change my love. Thanks for a great episode. Happy toozdee yall.
Agreed.
People who dont have kids Just dont know wht UNCONDITIONAL TRUE LOVE IS until the moment they see their child.
I didnt want a kid until literally the second i saw my son. ( i was having non stop stress the whole time, also, i was thinking im way too selfish)
Then the whole time im just wishing i had him sooner.
As a dad of two lil daughters, just be there. Know you're not perfect, but strive to be for your kiddo ✨️ you got this 💪
I found it on Spotify. I wonder how good his audio only is
You'll be alright
Love listening to Jay talk. So much fun to listen to
Big Jay is an inspiration. Great comic and person
I listen to Big Jay a lot and I’ve always wondered more about his story. Sickler is so good at making these conversations normal. Great episode.
Big jay is one of the most underrated entertainers and comedians ever. Every time hes on screen he says something that genuinely cracks me up.
Good afternoon night pants family! I love you all this community brings me so much joy. I'm glad I get to be apart of it.
Big Jay is one of my top five favorite comedians
and top five podcasters
hardly can call him a podcaster.
@@lj_hepp LOS ???
The View count the subscribers all of it is far too low. Ryan, you put on an amazing show and your podcast is second to none. Big Jay we love you, thanks for being you my guy
Feels good to see two great dads of girls who want to keep spreading the good message. You guys are hilarious!
I'm ready for this one. 2 of my favorites. Really wish you would release the Mike Rainey episode on the main channel, not because I'm too good to pay for the patreon but the guy is a legend with On Perc's
For real. It was heartbreaking when Rainey realized Sickler had no idea who he was. I wish the LA comics would make more of an effort to learn about comics outside of their city.
RainTrain in da house
@@Ginnyjulep hard to when you got an entire life to focus on already
Should be a good one. Big Jay is hilarious. Get well soon Sickler
Big Jay's crowd work is impeccable
Love JO as a person so much
Oh my god, I'm so glad I saw this before work. Dream episode of Honey Dew right here.
The way that Shick beard story ends is hilarious. Thought the red carpet was being rolled out for him.
This is great! Now we need Sickler on LOS!
Hell yeah doggy
We will chant his name for sure
Sickler could have a Laugh off with awkward laugh guy
My ex came out to me January 2020 and you support them because that’s what you do right? Keeping positive we tried an open marriage for the sake of our kiddos (now 8 and 10) and the stereotypical family unit. As a now divorced Dad, finding independence has been an unforeseen blessing as I am able to focus 100% when the kids and I are together without any distractions. Thank you Jay and Ryan for these conversations as a lot of the topics you discussed truly resonated.
Big J is hilarious, is interesting has a good story. He deserves more love especially from philly
Big Jay that's my dude. I was lucky enough to see him in Bristol TN on the dragstrip with Bert. I was close to the front and at the end he saw my LOS shirt and hit me with the skank sign which I politely returned. Legendary moment. I pee'd a little
I love Big Jay. I saw him at the Atlanta airport late last year and did the fan girl thing and told him he was my favorite, he was super cool, shook my hand, asked me where I was heading and general b/s for a minute. He looked like he’s been working out.
lol. He looks as fat as he always has to me
i dont think i could love 2 people more than big jay and sickler. awesome pod
Jays fingernails are exactly how I imagined them to be 😂
Big fan of the show from day 1, recent fan of Big Jay. As a 35 year old father of a 14 year old who has just moved in with me from his mothers, i really enjoyed this episode. Thanks Big Jay, I really needed to hear your perspective to know I’m on the right path. Thank you both 🙏🏻
Genuine good dude that got his foot in the door.. hes got a vibe that makes you want to hangout. Gravitated to him when i saw him on rogan tell the story about his skitzo cousin... soooo funny... and the laugh is one of a kind
Loved the episode. I’m a Philly girl, so I especially enjoyed all the “local” chat.
Go Birds
Big Jay can do a solo podcast, he’s such a storyteller.
Crackle Crackle! Great to hear Ryan's Disney laugh to Big Jay stories.
That "what if I'm a runner too..." feeling is a heavy one. Thought about that numerous times when I've walked away from bad relationships and the prospect of having kids. The actions of parents cut deep.
Was in Philly for a wedding, go out for a smoke ,this fucking guy is outside my hotel, one pant leg rolled up (in winter) smoking a cig in fingerless gloves, this dudes the man
I already liked it just bc it’s Ryan but also expecting to like it bc of the guest🥰
he will get there , cream rises to the top baby!
More like other way around
IM LISTENING FOR BIG JAY
Jay and Ryan! I clicked so fast so I can kick it with these funny cuties!
Came here for Big Jay. I'll be returning for Sicklers laugh.
Bruh!! I needed this deep girl dad convo👏 thank you
Been waiting for this episode since day one of the Dew. Did not disappoint.
Love Big Jay. Love Sickler. Such a great podcast.
I love Jay. I listen to him probably 5 podcasts a week but if you have noticed what I have, he takes the longest route possible from point A to point B in an opinion or a story. I mean, it always pays off but zero brevity.
Seeing Big Jay Saturday in NashVegas!
Saw the thumbnail and “Oh shit…” this gonna be 🔥
Tooosssdeeeee!
This ep was a banger! I’m 24 atm and I could not even imagine having a newborn currently.
Sickler, even tho ur a filthy,soulless ravens fan, i have to say u got one of the best podcasts. The atmosphere u create brings a certain kind of honesty out of guests that ive heard countless hours of before. Many times, if i listed my favorite interview from alot of people, ur interview with them would be at the top. Salute my friend
As a huge skanks and honeydew fan this is amazing. You need to get Luis J on. Dude grew up in a crazy environment.
I love big jay and the Legion of Skanks. y far one of the best storytellers and guest especially to your podcasting style/format and its loosing guided life narrative and origin story type of n its lightly guided n structured free-flow, reflective/ mild confessional authenticity.
You NEED to get Luis J. Gomez on next, he's like a more down to earth Joey Diaz, in light of what your show brings out in your guests. that would be one of your best episode yet, or even next Saga guest haha but seriously lol he'd be perfect for your show and is one of the best people and helped so many other underground overlooked comics a place to grow, and sacrifices his own career & wealth out of his love for comedy/what it does for people who came from dark places like him, as well as, building a community for people where they can develop was/even is his choice and his priorities.
Love the show Ryan, cant wait to see who your gonna talk to next! 🤘👍✌
27 minutes in, and waiting for Jay to confess that he is still *TECHNICALLY* married. 😆
28:00 Ah, there it is. Just needed a little more patience. 😆
True skanks here. I was thinking the same thing. I'm so happy that you exist
Jay needs his own Crack Amico theme
Just realized Sickler is Big Jays perfect therapist. Big Jay should call in once a month
Shout out sickdog for the bo knows shirt. Bo knows tennis and bo knows big jay is the OG Philly dawg. War Mode
SODTAOE
Big jay is the nicest dude ever. Never fake, and in person is really the nicest guy. You hear it from anyone that knows him or meets him.
I love big Jay, good dude and killer comedian🤙🏼
Big Jay is easily one of the top five comedians right. Even comedians I like struggle to make me laugh, I’m really not an LOL-er, even if I find it really really funny. Jay is one of the few stand up comedians who can make me laugh out loud
7:35 Damn. Jay just informed me that I’m broke.
Comrade, a majority of people making over 100k in America are living paycheck to paycheck. Minimum wage in like the 50s translates to 112k now. We are all broke, we have nothing to lose and the world to gain.
This is the perfect podcast for Jay bc he has to talk and talk about himself
😂👏🏻
This guy is funny. Wish he had a podcast we could all listen to.
Yes please and thank you!!!
I'm a simple man. I see Big J, I click
As a man, I respect Jay just breezing past all the "grimey stuff" he did.
Lunch break Sickler, let’s go! Love Big Jay!
PunchLine Sacramento loves Big Jay!!
Big Jay is so amazing. What a story.
I'm from Detroit, MI. 30 years old. I've been addicted to Heroin, Crystal & Crack. Homeless on the streets in & out of jail & rehabs. But I was a baseball prodigy. My father was called up by the Detroit tigers to tryout to be 1st baseman. Blew his ACL 2nd tryout. Tried to play through me as I grew up & I didn't even realize it. He coached our travel teams & all. It was a lot of pressure. I caved. I pitched. Threw that heater. I always looked for a social crew to hangout with. Once I found my "crew" around highs school I dropped sports & completey abonded my studies & sports. I traumatized my Macedonian family because that was frowned upon to do such a thing, stray away from the family. I got into heavy drugs pretty early. Poppin pills and partying. I went to Macedonia at the age of 19 where I slept with my step sister. Ruined my father's marriage. If you want the rest of story. Come have me on Sick man. Huge fan 🧡
That introduction to HoneyDew, with that sultry voice got me JUICED UP! Holy shit!
Thanks for this podcast. Being a newly single dad of 2 girls (10 and 12) who’s working on this whole co-parenting thing I related to alot of what y’all discussed. Thanks for making me laugh today.
"You don't love her because of the sum of her mistakes." Big Jay fucking spittin
I went from avg C/D student in high school until I started smoking weed to mostly B's with the occasional A. Definitely helped me but didn't pay any attention to it at the time
Before even watching, I know this is going to be gold!
HoneyDew is that #1 hitter baby 🫡
My dad had the same "conversation" with me at that same age. "Pot never hurt nobody" and that kind of shit. Now at 43, I get it. It's never hurt me. 😆
I'm such a fan of him. I'm also from Philly. I have met Tom Kline so that's hilarious that he was talking shit about him. He was so spot on about him.
Been a fan of Big J forever! Love to see him on the HoneyDew 🤘🏼
Me and my girl just split and I have a lot of co parenting on the horizon. This podcast was cool really put things in perspective, thanks guys
Sounds like she used you and can now get you for child support. It goes to show it's better to be manipulative than put in any honest effort into being self reliant.
I'm stuck in an airport at 130 am after they canceled my flight but this conversation is keeping me cozy lol
I was so sure Big Jay had already been on the Honey Dew that I would have been willing to throw hands over it.
Love Big Jay!!
So glad to hear Ryan hit that Welcome Back!
Loved this ep, definitely have to have Big Jay back.
I see Big Jay, I click **throws up skanks hands**
Big Jay is one of the best at roasting.
The cab driver story is hilarious.
Big Jay, the 90s called. They want their frosted tips back.
Woohoo Big J =) It’s a good day!
Finally big jay 🙌 👏
Man I love big j.
Love Big Jay!
This gone be a good one. Lemme grab the popcorn.
Sickler MD is the best at this!...regardless what Sickler thinks. Lol I wish I laughed this much in therapy.....like a DOCTOR!...(Cocos voice)
Big Jay is great. My husband and I saw him in San Francisco in 2019. He just sat on a stool and dazzled, and then he watches as he kills the audience.
I'm so glad you are talking about being a parent and being split up. I'm currently going through this right now and it's something I'm terrified over.
A long time coming!! Now let’s get Stanhope!!!
Lol....”pot comes from the earth”. So does poppies, and cocoa trees.
As does cyanide and arsenic lol
I like his hey bear joke on this is not happening . Big Gay Jay has ring to it too, great show
I’m sad this episode is ending it was the best
I just started listening so I don't know if myncomment pertains to this episode, but one of the things I appreciate about Jay is that he mentions Patrice regularly. Aside from that, he's consistently funny. :-D
These days I bet some of these kids would rather have a parent leave over having a parent hand them a tablet and then ignore them their whole life I couldn't imagine being ignored by my parents and still living with them. That's why I'm a little nicer to this younger generation It's not really their fault necessarily, their parents somehow lost their natural instinct They're too busy taking Instagram ass pics and tick tock videos to pay attention to their kids these days
His latest podcast had me messed up… no one tells you how to deal with your parents when they get older divorced addiction and the last one really helped me thanks man
Great Episode. Keep em comin!