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"firstly... FIRSTLY the intention is misrepresented, then the act is greatly exaggerated, and THEN it becomes pluralized? what a NARC" suddenly I understand how Dan could've been a lawyer
i find it interesting that phil says he notices when people don’t ask questions about him when getting to know him BECAUSE what i’ve always noticed about dan and phil is that they are always very attentive and interested in each other’s little tangents and experiences (like in the what dan and phil text each other videos, when one of them has a good meal, etc)
yesss, "bids" aka "the building blocks of emotional communication"; when a partner says/does something, does the other partner engage with it or not. dan and phil are excellent at responding to each other's bids and it's so satisfying to watch
@scarlettbat yess. i'll never get over the bit about how one will text the other a silly made-up word and it's just understood that it means they want some attention. like nothing says a relationship, platonic or otherwise, is solid like being able to blatantly ask for attention and have that be understood and attended to. i love
I think it makes sense in the context that he's the one that carries the conversation in groups of people. That takes effort, and when someone is consciously doing that and actively ensuring everyone is getting attention and having a good time, a lack of reciprocation is quite apparent.
Okay but Phil talking about how he’s not actually “shy…” I always phrase it as “I’m friendly, not social. I won’t start a conversation, but I can and will contribute to one.”
@@DannyViTaylor THATS MY DAD EVERY CHRISTMAS AND BIRTHDAY 🤣🤦 LIKE SAM PLEASE IT'S BEEN 5 YEARS THANK YOU FOR YOUR SUPPORT BUT PLEASE TRY USING MY PRONOUNS I HAVE SO MANY SOCKS🙃🙃🙃
Dan buying Phil 3 lamps because he forgot he bought the first one by the time he bought the last one, and just thought the mini lava lamp was cute is hilarious
OMG THANK YOU. this just made me realize why this video is so comfort energy, it gives the same vibes as the pizza mukbang where they just sit there, eat their pizza, and move topic to topic.
Phil PLEASE keep doing your hair like this, you look so beautiful. the natural hair colour quiff could be your final form, like danny boy embracing his curls
The quif AND the new bangs both look so good on him. Just switch between the two whenever he gets bored and wants to switch it up! BIG agree on the natural ginger-brown color
I was reading Dan's book on the train once and as I turned a page an old man in a kilt stopped me because he "hadn't finished reading it yet", and so we silently read the book together for the rest of the journey - Dan's book truly is for everyone 😂
@@Gr95dceveryone is diff and if op didnt have an issue with it then it wasnt a problem for them, i personally wouldnt have an issue having quality time with an old person, u dont know when the last time it was someone was kind and patient with them. its better to just be kind to people and let them read with you than get upset.
You're trying to make me believe Dan would sleep in Ebenezer Scrooge PJs instead of a black mesh robe with feathers, perfect to open the door to welcome the cops asking about his freshly dead husband?
This video has huge Mukbang energy, and loads of us seem to agree that the Mukbang was one our favourite videos ever. This is so comforting and fun. I beg you PLEASE play more of this game!!!!
Phil really hit the nail on the head at the end of the video talking about the misconception that introverts are all shy or that we can't be friendly in social situations. The *only* thing that makes someone an introvert is that we recharge by being alone and thus need to rest after social interaction, while extroverts recharge by being in social situations and feel drained if they're alone for too long. Introverts can be friendly and outgoing. Extroverts can be shy and socially anxious.
Honestly!! Also I hate the idea that being introverted means you have to 'come out of your shell'. Sure, I have anxiety around socialising (which is also based in other issues) but I love my friends so much, I just am fine with being alone to recover and do my own thing. I just hate that anxiety around people and being introverted get seen as THE EXACT SAME THING. I hate introverts being seen as losers who have no friends and need to just open up more.
WE NEED TO NORMALIZE SHY/SOCIALLY ANXIOUS EXTROVERTS!!!!!!! I am terribly afraid of how I appear or if I'll say the wrong thing, but I love being around people even if I do. I need to be around other people or hang out with someone or else I will simply perish.
For me it was 11, but when I turned 14, my sister turned 11. And apparently for her, the worst age was 11 too, so 14 got to be my second-hand go at misery.
Phil’s friends: Wow, Phil is so shy. How does he do his job? Phil: *doing a back handspring on his way to ask you about your life while simultaneously narrating his friend’s audiobook*
Especially when you remember that Phil was out with his friends and family but kept it secret for Dan so it wouldn't put pressure on him 😭😭 literal angel
Ok, but can we talk about phil saying fuck, marry, kill without hesitation even though the card didn't even say that; absolutely here for the character growth
Dan roasting Phil for describing the *normal* sleepover experience and then proceeding to describing the most theater kid sleepover experience PLZ DANIEL
I watched this on my PJs while having dinner and talking to the screen like "yea that's a huge red flag you're so right girl" and it was lovely, I think we should have a parasocial slumber party once a month
Phil is amazing at carrying conversation. When i met him, we had a conversation for like 10 minutes and he carried most of the conversation 😂😂 so thanks for not letting me awkwardly stand there Phil.
I agree so much with Phil about the off-handness of people thinking that you're SHY?? i went to a party once, i danced, i cracked jokes but maybe i didn't engage much in conversation because i was feeling a little bit off thanks to too much beer and a little bit of dissociation but i tried my best! and at the end of the night this friend of a friend just goes to me and tells me he thinks I'm too shy, I'd never felt more insulted or misunderstood bc i tried sooo hard that night to be nice to everyone and that just ruined my entire night and i just went home immediately after :(
Same. My theory is that I simply have quiet energy. I can interact with people and joke around, but it seems understated to people, so I am labeled as shy.
I appreciate Dan and Phil trying to do games about "how well do we know each other" as if they haven't been together practically 24/7 for like 15 years now. Thanks for still sharing these anecdoterinos with us tho.
THIS! I live in Dublin so there’s people from all over the country here working and whatever, and there’s some accents that are lovely and some that aren’t quite as nice on the ears. I personally love Donegal’s accent so much, but there are some that aren’t as nice.
Forgive me, but your friendship is so amazing. I love the supportive atmosphere you have with each other and how you stand up for each other. I think it is something we should all aspire to: to be so honest and supportive with the people in our lives. I have social anxiety so I don't have "friends" other than the acquaintances I work with; but, when I watch your videos, it makes me hopeful that maybe I can have a friendship like yours one day.
I need to let you know that my early 60s italian mum loves your house tour video from a few years ago where you put subtitles for all the rooms she said it was very educational and she wants me to put it on for her every once in a while so she can refresh her english
so obsessed with phil just dropping the legal name of his friend who snitched on him. James Stevenson will never run from the sins he did when he was eight years old
It was really gratifying to hear that phil hates when people don't reciprocate questions and that he generally carries group social interactions because that is SO me. Some people aren't incurious they just don't know how to come up with questions, but most people don't come up with questions because they aren't thinking about you even in one on one interactions 🙃
@@Noahhhhhhh10THIS like I’d love for them to start a podcast and I don’t even podcasts because I can’t pay attention to them, but I have their videos on in the background whilst I clean my room and stuff and it’s so comforting and I can actually listen except I get distracted by the video so a Phan podcast would solve all my problems
this was SO FUN and is totally going on the comfort video playlist but also i'm gonna be honest i'm pleasantly surprised at how genuine you both were in this?? it's so cool to see you be real people (if that makes sense! i know you're obviously real but in the sense that before there was a pretty fixed set of topics and anecdotes that were approved and everything outside of that was seen as taboo to ask) like phil talking about people's perception of him and his personality is FASCINATING to hear!! thanks for sharing a bit more about who you are with us (while also being very entertaining)
when i was probably like 16 dan tweeted “don’t trust people who tell other peoples secrets” and i genuinely found that so profound and eye opening and it genuinely made me reevaluate the way conversation is perceived and cut off a lot of toxic ‘friends’ and i am grateful still got extremely traumatized in hs anyway but not from that thanks dip and pip for the life advice
I feel like a lot of people confuse introversion for shyness, or think they’re all shy, which is why people assume that introverts like Phil are quiet. In reality, being an introvert vs an extrovert has nothing to do with your personality; it’s just about what drains you vs what helps you to recharge. Lots of introverts carry a conversation, but need to be alone to recharge after. And lots of extroverts are quiet when with other people, even though it’s replenishing their energy!
Oh gosh, I relate to Phil on the conversational thing so much. I’m “shy” in the sense that I’m quiet in new groups. But with established friends I am chatty but POLITE, like I think they’re describing Phil to be ie; not interrupting someone in conversation, not dominating the conversation, making everyone who speaks feel heard, and knowing socially when to just be quiet. We’re polite introverts who can make conversation, that doesn’t mean we’re inherently super shy!!
You guys just made me so nostalgic for tween sleepovers in the 2000s. I 100% want to stay up until 1am listening for the next existential question to come out of the dark loungeroom covered in sleeping bags. I wanna do sleeping bag caterpillar racing immediately
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Dan: "alright Phil's family and friends someone's about to get offended"
dan: *gets offended*
my favorite part 😭
DANYOUGOTMETHREELAMPS
@@CM-ss5pephil said calmly
@@CM-ss5pe YOOUUUUASKEDDDD FOR A LAMP
Dan forgot that he is very much included in Phil's family and friends
"firstly... FIRSTLY the intention is misrepresented, then the act is greatly exaggerated, and THEN it becomes pluralized? what a NARC" suddenly I understand how Dan could've been a lawyer
wait where'd he say that lolll 😭😭😭
@@cinnamonro3344 when phil's talking about his laser pen detention!
@@cinnamonro3344 around 12:11!
Honestly what a beautifully crafted phrase and he just spits that shit out casually
@@AdamZugoneyou’re so right he should write a book or something
dan keeps coming at phil for the "bizarre childhood anecdotes" ok mr christian puppet show champion
Dan aggressively agreeing with nearly all of Phil’s answers was so sweet and funny, bro is truly never beating the #1 Phil supporter allegations
phil👏trash👏number👏one👏
i find it interesting that phil says he notices when people don’t ask questions about him when getting to know him BECAUSE what i’ve always noticed about dan and phil is that they are always very attentive and interested in each other’s little tangents and experiences (like in the what dan and phil text each other videos, when one of them has a good meal, etc)
yesss, "bids" aka "the building blocks of emotional communication"; when a partner says/does something, does the other partner engage with it or not. dan and phil are excellent at responding to each other's bids and it's so satisfying to watch
@scarlettbat yess. i'll never get over the bit about how one will text the other a silly made-up word and it's just understood that it means they want some attention. like nothing says a relationship, platonic or otherwise, is solid like being able to blatantly ask for attention and have that be understood and attended to. i love
I think it makes sense in the context that he's the one that carries the conversation in groups of people. That takes effort, and when someone is consciously doing that and actively ensuring everyone is getting attention and having a good time, a lack of reciprocation is quite apparent.
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We love to see it, honestly so sweet @@kkkkaaaatttt
dan when he has the opportunity to talk about how well he and phil know each other:
This is the one
*phil voice* oppERtunity??
dan when he has the opportunity to talk about how well he knows phil:
Ik they won't admit it but they look good together
@@liro6996 Made it weird bro
Dan saying "bizarre childhood anecdotes that Phil keeps dropping" like he didn't come out swinging with Jesus Puppet Competitions awhile back
PREACH
this was absolutely wild and he dropped it so casually
I was thinking the same thing😂
I HAD REPRESSED THAT
Jesus Puppet what now?
Dan being so ready to diss whoever gave Phil the worst gift and then realizing Phil’s talking about a gift HE GAVE HIM 😂
Okay but Phil talking about how he’s not actually “shy…” I always phrase it as “I’m friendly, not social. I won’t start a conversation, but I can and will contribute to one.”
every time phil drops the full government name of a childhood associate an angel gets its wings
Sarah Rose Sullivan salutes you
Dan buying Phil three lamps has the same energy as your mom hearing you like something once then getting it for you for the next 10 years.
it gives me the same vibes as coming out to your mom and one day she randomly buys you rainbow socks
@@DannyViTaylor THATS MY DAD EVERY CHRISTMAS AND BIRTHDAY 🤣🤦 LIKE SAM PLEASE IT'S BEEN 5 YEARS THANK YOU FOR YOUR SUPPORT BUT PLEASE TRY USING MY PRONOUNS I HAVE SO MANY SOCKS🙃🙃🙃
@@DannyViTaylor my mum has consistently got me something rainbow for my birthday every year since i came out so this is very much accurate
A family friend bought me watermelon themed gifts for 6 years because it was my favourite fruit 😭😭
me with crochet gifts lmaooo i have so many crochet books and i love it lmao
Phil going OFF about his red flags was amazing please yell about more annoying people king
it was kinda hot ngl im sorry
@@gourangiverma3947Real
@@gourangiverma3947right 👀
I love how Dan just supports all of his red flags too lol
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Never thought Phil could look even more like a gay vampire than he already does, but here we are...
Ngl it’s a LOOK, hell yea Phil
Dan was probably onto something in the urge
Astarion who?
😂
@@elliehenning3442 It's giving Astarion so much, he needs to cosplay him honestly
I love how Dan just turns into phils hype man when he starts complaining
i love when they maintain their boundaries while still respecting us as an audience, it means the world! we love you both a healthy parasocial amount!
you liking loona, dan & phil, AND SHINee is a huge W!!
Phil trying to rizz up Dan with his terrible irish accent and Dan not being able to take it is amazing
No fr the switch up was so entertaining and obvious like absolutely not subtle whatsoever and Dan was not biting 🤣🤣🤣🤣
My favorite accent is sign language 💀💀
it doesnt help that phil's irish boy is also on a bit of helium lol
Dan buying Phil 3 lamps because he forgot he bought the first one by the time he bought the last one, and just thought the mini lava lamp was cute is hilarious
“i’m gonna unalive p-star” is not a sentence i thought i’d ever hear leave your mouth danny boy
A video of just them talking? Truly giving us what we want
Dan and Phil: We will GIVE the PEOPLE what they WANT no matter how painful it is
The people: Can you like hang out together and chat about stuff
OMG THANK YOU. this just made me realize why this video is so comfort energy, it gives the same vibes as the pizza mukbang where they just sit there, eat their pizza, and move topic to topic.
Phil PLEASE keep doing your hair like this, you look so beautiful. the natural hair colour quiff could be your final form, like danny boy embracing his curls
AGREED im floored every time he brings out the quiff like this
Literally he's so pretty and red is amazing on him
Honestly side swept natural hair philly is EVERYTHING to me 100% agree he is too pretty 🥰
The quif AND the new bangs both look so good on him. Just switch between the two whenever he gets bored and wants to switch it up! BIG agree on the natural ginger-brown color
@@slitheen3phlonde quiff when
The brown hairstyle, the red pajamas, neon blue eyes, the pale complexion. Phil looks like a fabulous vampire straight out of a Wattpad story
The chest hair!
the urge
@@amandaconnor5874omg he has chest hair! I don’t know why I’m surprised, he’s in his mid-late 30s… but still!
@@-sof.you’re giving me flashbacks lmao
"his oceanic orbs pierced through me like a knife" 😭😭😭😭
dan looks like he should wear a night cap. scrooge core
“🕯️Honk shoo mimimi” ahh fit
serving snrrrrrkk mimimimimimi
I THOUGHT THE SAME THING
twitter mutual in the comments section
@@mxaio omg ew look away
Phil being perceived as "shy" when really he's just kind is too real. It's such a frustrating experience lo.
3:14 Dan (correctly) saying Irish is the hottest accent and then phil jumping straight into an irish accent himself is sending me😂
the dan and phil resurgence is truly the most joyful content on youtube right now
Considering the whole Watcher drama, I could not agree more!
the inclusion of ‘unproblematically’ when talking about exotic animals god dammit THAT IS MY KING
such a subtle thing but it made me so happy dan KEEPS THE FUCK UP
“How good are you at keeping secrets” idk I’d bet Dan’s pretty good at it 😭💀
Both of 'em are actually xd except one tries too hard and the other doesn't care
Its not funny and i shouldnt laugh but 😭
@@gahtheonetried so hard but ended up doing a 180😭😭
@@neehaa he tried so hard and got so far but in the end it didn't even matter 👉👉
I think Phil tried just as hard to keep that secret (if not harder)
you're fully giving rich gay uncles with these pajama outfits!! slay
Phil said "🚩 Overcorrectors" and the zoom in I Dan's side eye LMAO HE'S JUST LIKE ME
I can’t believe no one is talking about how hilarious the line “that made me gay I wasn’t gay before that” is. Phil is a comedy icon
if phil never saw that movie we might be watching phil and susan games
8:51 I love the audacity of “I’m gonna send this to whoever this is” when it’s him lol
I was reading Dan's book on the train once and as I turned a page an old man in a kilt stopped me because he "hadn't finished reading it yet", and so we silently read the book together for the rest of the journey - Dan's book truly is for everyone 😂
That’s such a cute story
that is so lovely! old kilty men can learn about mental health too
am I weird or... because I don't find this to be cute but rather a bit disrespectful of personal space 😭
@@Gr95dcit's a bit weird but no harm done either.
@@Gr95dceveryone is diff and if op didnt have an issue with it then it wasnt a problem for them, i personally wouldnt have an issue having quality time with an old person, u dont know when the last time it was someone was kind and patient with them. its better to just be kind to people and let them read with you than get upset.
You're trying to make me believe Dan would sleep in Ebenezer Scrooge PJs instead of a black mesh robe with feathers, perfect to open the door to welcome the cops asking about his freshly dead husband?
LMAO
🤣🤣🤣
someone more talented than me needs to draw this
Crying 😭😭
Yes. Because that's Phil's outfit (I know that's not his vibe)
This video has huge Mukbang energy, and loads of us seem to agree that the Mukbang was one our favourite videos ever. This is so comforting and fun. I beg you PLEASE play more of this game!!!!
Phil really hit the nail on the head at the end of the video talking about the misconception that introverts are all shy or that we can't be friendly in social situations. The *only* thing that makes someone an introvert is that we recharge by being alone and thus need to rest after social interaction, while extroverts recharge by being in social situations and feel drained if they're alone for too long. Introverts can be friendly and outgoing. Extroverts can be shy and socially anxious.
Honestly!! Also I hate the idea that being introverted means you have to 'come out of your shell'. Sure, I have anxiety around socialising (which is also based in other issues) but I love my friends so much, I just am fine with being alone to recover and do my own thing. I just hate that anxiety around people and being introverted get seen as THE EXACT SAME THING. I hate introverts being seen as losers who have no friends and need to just open up more.
WE NEED TO NORMALIZE SHY/SOCIALLY ANXIOUS EXTROVERTS!!!!!!!
I am terribly afraid of how I appear or if I'll say the wrong thing, but I love being around people even if I do. I need to be around other people or hang out with someone or else I will simply perish.
Was suicidal at 14 and dnp got me through it. Them acknowledging 14 is the worst age really is such a full circle moment.
true bc it’s such a suicidal age to be, kinda wild how universal that is
For me it was 11, but when I turned 14, my sister turned 11. And apparently for her, the worst age was 11 too, so 14 got to be my second-hand go at misery.
same hat 😎
Yup.❤
LITERALLY
Oh my god I can’t believe Dan is the dad who when you say you like a thing will buy you copious amounts of that thing forever
I believed y'all except I just know Phil is saving some aunt's feelings with that gift answer 😂
10 0000%. he even said he liked the lamps
Love heart boxers, right?
Very proud of Phil who managed to stay in frame all of the video despite his crippling shyness!
And RIP James Stevensson who died of laser-leg🙏
not Phil name dropping the dude who got him detention 😂🫣
i love when phil randomly name drops people like sarah o’sullivan girl who got a concussion lmao imagine they see this
Dan is serving Oliver Twist child and Phil is serving Playboy Mansion.
😭
LMAOOOOO
Serving *snore* mimimimimi and serving *moan*
@@maitesoto1953 you get it
It's literally that one pajama meme
Except we all thought dan would be the one wearing pink robes with feathers, and phil would be in the nightcap
God I love how Dan is just Phil’s biggest supporter ever, it’s so clear he’s inspired him so much 😭 im emotional
Its adorable
his reaction to the laser pen detention story just says it all 😭 he's 1000% on phil's side beefing with a teacher from years ago
Phil’s friends: Wow, Phil is so shy. How does he do his job?
Phil: *doing a back handspring on his way to ask you about your life while simultaneously narrating his friend’s audiobook*
dan talking about phil’s “wacky” childhood lore like okay mr jesus puppet competition
their ways of being funny are so different yet they're both like the funniest people ever
yesss, exactly
I think the fact that you were both closeted for most of your TH-cam careers should give you ultimate bragging rights re your secret keeping skills.
Especially when you remember that Phil was out with his friends and family but kept it secret for Dan so it wouldn't put pressure on him 😭😭 literal angel
Props to the game maker for helping unlock previously unexplored levels of Dip & Pip lore 😂
Yesss, 22 minutes of dan and phil yapping about how well they know each other
They're both giving "Well excuse the shit out of me, I didn't realize you slept in a fucking tux."
Phil getting IMPASSIONED about his red flags list was everything
Who authorised phil to look this good oml
he's distractingly pretty here, lethally so
Ok, but can we talk about phil saying fuck, marry, kill without hesitation even though the card didn't even say that; absolutely here for the character growth
Dan roasting Phil for describing the *normal* sleepover experience and then proceeding to describing the most theater kid sleepover experience PLZ DANIEL
I watched this on my PJs while having dinner and talking to the screen like "yea that's a huge red flag you're so right girl" and it was lovely, I think we should have a parasocial slumber party once a month
YES, AGREED
That lamp thing was such a cop out, there's no way that was his worst gift ever. GIVE US THE TEA PHIL
phil in red with a brown quiff is beautiful af
It truly is
And his hair is grown out a little bit, makes the quiff even more stylish!
his hair is srsly immaculate rn
Phil is amazing at carrying conversation. When i met him, we had a conversation for like 10 minutes and he carried most of the conversation 😂😂 so thanks for not letting me awkwardly stand there Phil.
That seal got a longer hug in this video than I got combined from my father my whole life
💀💀💀
That seal got a longer hug than all the hugs in my entire life combined.
@@MoonchildDontCry bruh 🥲🥲🥲 are you okay
Same.. same.
12:20 dan being a lawyer finally adds up
Phil’s worst gift being Dan giving him too many gifts is hilarious
I agree so much with Phil about the off-handness of people thinking that you're SHY?? i went to a party once, i danced, i cracked jokes but maybe i didn't engage much in conversation because i was feeling a little bit off thanks to too much beer and a little bit of dissociation but i tried my best! and at the end of the night this friend of a friend just goes to me and tells me he thinks I'm too shy, I'd never felt more insulted or misunderstood bc i tried sooo hard that night to be nice to everyone and that just ruined my entire night and i just went home immediately after :(
Very relatable! People often said the same to me when i was a child/teenager and its so incredibly unhelpful
And when you don't talk to people and have a rbf you're aloof... 😂
Same. My theory is that I simply have quiet energy.
I can interact with people and joke around, but it seems understated to people, so I am labeled as shy.
“forming thoughts? difficult. being interesting? YIKES”
story of my life
Sleepover with DnP??? That sounds terrifying and chaotic, I'm here for it
and very very gay
Hahah agreed 😂😂😊
i'll bring some wine
dan realizing his status as a potential overcorrecter at 17:21 will never not be funny
I appreciate Dan and Phil trying to do games about "how well do we know each other" as if they haven't been together practically 24/7 for like 15 years now. Thanks for still sharing these anecdoterinos with us tho.
This needs to be one hour and more.. 22 minutes is not enough
it's a spiritual successor to the mukbang vid for me, i agree it needs to be that long
@@cr1s1s0ff41th Now i'm off to watch that one again
I am an Irish person. 2:48 The "sexiness" of the accent varies WILDLY depending on what part of the country it comes from 😂
THIS! I live in Dublin so there’s people from all over the country here working and whatever, and there’s some accents that are lovely and some that aren’t quite as nice on the ears. I personally love Donegal’s accent so much, but there are some that aren’t as nice.
Cork 💀 thats all i have to say
also irish, i agree with this SO much 😭😭
Tallaght all the way
YUP TALLAGHT @@faybo1
Forgive me, but your friendship is so amazing. I love the supportive atmosphere you have with each other and how you stand up for each other. I think it is something we should all aspire to: to be so honest and supportive with the people in our lives. I have social anxiety so I don't have "friends" other than the acquaintances I work with; but, when I watch your videos, it makes me hopeful that maybe I can have a friendship like yours one day.
I need to let you know that my early 60s italian mum loves your house tour video from a few years ago where you put subtitles for all the rooms she said it was very educational and she wants me to put it on for her every once in a while so she can refresh her english
Dan loving irish accents tells me everything that i need to know about whether he likes hozier or not
Dan in little old man pyjamas contrasting beautifully with Phil the vampire is a serve
Phil really be slaying that vampire core
HE BROUGHT BACK THE SEAL!!!
I’ve only recently become a fan of Dan and Phil… the vibes are immaculate
Same!
welcome to the community!!!
Welcome to the insanity
@@PanicBasedRiot glad to be here
so obsessed with phil just dropping the legal name of his friend who snitched on him. James Stevenson will never run from the sins he did when he was eight years old
The matching mugs are killing me
they look so comfy and pretty here 😭😭😭
i love phil’s story time telling skills he is such a genuinely good story teller lol
It was really gratifying to hear that phil hates when people don't reciprocate questions and that he generally carries group social interactions because that is SO me. Some people aren't incurious they just don't know how to come up with questions, but most people don't come up with questions because they aren't thinking about you even in one on one interactions 🙃
As an autistic I loved Phil's conversation advice lol genuinely very helpful
This format makes me think that they'd make an amazing podcast even more. I just love to listen to them chat, it soothes me.
Ikr I still listen back to the stereo shows
@@mediamom27 same I love having them on in the background while I'm doing stuff around the house
@@Noahhhhhhh10THIS like I’d love for them to start a podcast and I don’t even podcasts because I can’t pay attention to them, but I have their videos on in the background whilst I clean my room and stuff and it’s so comforting and I can actually listen except I get distracted by the video so a Phan podcast would solve all my problems
this was SO FUN and is totally going on the comfort video playlist but also i'm gonna be honest i'm pleasantly surprised at how genuine you both were in this?? it's so cool to see you be real people (if that makes sense! i know you're obviously real but in the sense that before there was a pretty fixed set of topics and anecdotes that were approved and everything outside of that was seen as taboo to ask) like phil talking about people's perception of him and his personality is FASCINATING to hear!! thanks for sharing a bit more about who you are with us (while also being very entertaining)
Phil just trying to talk in an Irish accent after Dan said it was the hottest 🤣👏🏻
Why is this something my best friend and I would do
get dan one of those handheld candles and those sleepy time hats and he will be doing an ebaneezer Scrooge cosplay and tbh I'm here for it
PHIL WAS PREPARED WITH THOSE RED FLAGS. we love acknowledging unhealthy behavior
when i was probably like 16 dan tweeted “don’t trust people who tell other peoples secrets” and i genuinely found that so profound and eye opening and it genuinely made me reevaluate the way conversation is perceived and cut off a lot of toxic ‘friends’ and i am grateful
still got extremely traumatized in hs anyway but not from that thanks dip and pip for the life advice
phil you can't twunk this hard. they'll kill you.
I love how Dan actually got mad with Phil abt his detention LMAO
It's the repressed defense attorney in him coming out
That silk red on Phil with the hair is killing it💅🏽✨️ chefs kiss
this has honestly been one of my fav vids from this comeback plz do this again
the talks at sleepovers when all the lights are off, everyone but 3 people are asleep and you've already said goodnight are always the deepest talks
Dan to Phil: “you ASKED for THREE LAMPS”
OH THE FITS SERVED
The animal crossing sounds are absolutely sending me
I feel like a lot of people confuse introversion for shyness, or think they’re all shy, which is why people assume that introverts like Phil are quiet. In reality, being an introvert vs an extrovert has nothing to do with your personality; it’s just about what drains you vs what helps you to recharge. Lots of introverts carry a conversation, but need to be alone to recharge after. And lots of extroverts are quiet when with other people, even though it’s replenishing their energy!
Dan saying the worst age is 14 was scary accurate bc thats the exact year when my life took a TURN and suddenly my childhood was ripped away
same! ... sadly
Mine was a bit earlier than that, but 14 wasn’t great either.
these are my favourite type of dan and Phil videos
Oh gosh, I relate to Phil on the conversational thing so much. I’m “shy” in the sense that I’m quiet in new groups. But with established friends I am chatty but POLITE, like I think they’re describing Phil to be ie; not interrupting someone in conversation, not dominating the conversation, making everyone who speaks feel heard, and knowing socially when to just be quiet.
We’re polite introverts who can make conversation, that doesn’t mean we’re inherently super shy!!
You guys just made me so nostalgic for tween sleepovers in the 2000s. I 100% want to stay up until 1am listening for the next existential question to come out of the dark loungeroom covered in sleeping bags. I wanna do sleeping bag caterpillar racing immediately