When Your Ex Is Back After No Contact

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  • @CoachCraigKenneth
    @CoachCraigKenneth  วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Happy holidays everyone! Make your New Year’s resolution personal growth. It will change your life! Check out my The Knowledge Creative Healing Course and Knowledge Workbooks!

    • @medusagorgon9227
      @medusagorgon9227 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Happy Holidays Coach Craig and Coach Victoria!! Wishing you both a blessed, and beautiful 2025! Thank you both for all your care, support, and knowledge!

  • @EE_Lopez
    @EE_Lopez วันที่ผ่านมา +21

    So many “get your ex and no contact” videos out there but I have to admit that you, Victoria, & the late Margaret are the best. The “don’t reach out” is the best method. But what I appreciate even more about your channel is the humor. I always feel like I’m listening to friends who have my best interests in mind. Happy Hannukwanzamas.

  • @michaelod324
    @michaelod324 วันที่ผ่านมา +26

    I survived Christmas yesterday and stayed in no contact!
    I thought I was going to lose my mind tho, especially spending it alone.
    Anyway, this is an awesome video and very motivational

    • @CoachCraigKenneth
      @CoachCraigKenneth  วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      You didn’t sign up for a coaching recently did you? If so, check your spam

    • @michaelod324
      @michaelod324 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@CoachCraigKenneth Hey coach! I haven’t signed up for one recently, but I’ll check my spam folder

    • @deedeebrecca8645
      @deedeebrecca8645 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I'm proud of you. Happy Near Year!

    • @CoachCraigKenneth
      @CoachCraigKenneth  วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      No need. I thought you might have signed up for a coaching. Different Michael!

    • @michaelod324
      @michaelod324 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@CoachCraigKennethI will be signing up soon for sure, right now just staying busy in the work books and staying in no contact

  • @Naksu_99
    @Naksu_99 วันที่ผ่านมา +22

    Wow Craig I’m really loving the clarity in your videos I’ve been following you for 4 years and you’ve upgraded video quality too drastically 😅

  • @GB-fj6wh
    @GB-fj6wh วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I love you Craig, you are my peace during this painful time

  • @ayrthonperez2989
    @ayrthonperez2989 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    It’s been about 6 and a half months of strict no contact and if I’m being brutally honest, it’s a bit demoralizing. We weren’t together for too long (only a couple of months), but I really thought we forged a genuine connection and she has history of spinning the block with her other ex’s. If I am a betting man, I don’t think she is coming because if she wanted to, she would’ve by now and that’s ok. As much as it hurts, I am a big boy and I will be alright. Still can’t help to think what went wrong, the switch up was insane

    • @ayrthonperez2989
      @ayrthonperez2989 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I wished I said it in the original comment but that’s all to say that your videos have really helped me process the breakup, so thank you Craig! Genuinely speaking, your vids and knowledge have helped me understand that things are sometimes out of my control and it’s ok to want more and to move on. I hope you had a great Christmas!

    • @costarika100
      @costarika100 19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Might happen when you least expect it. Mine reached out after 10 months, but at that point I already found someone 10x better and moved on. So I told her off and it felt good Lol. You’ll find someone better man I promise. Don’t let the pain fool you. There’s better out there.

  • @roberthutchison9904
    @roberthutchison9904 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Well, my ex with untreated BPD came back recently, and discarded me after a couple weeks. Victoria warned me to put boundaries in place. I didn't see it coming, especially after being love bombed and being told how much she missed me. It turned FAST, and now she's gone again. It's ridiculous.

  • @stephaniek2018
    @stephaniek2018 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Mine is back after YEARS. Wild!

  • @Zemohc
    @Zemohc วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    After two years. She still ain't back. Got back into trucking. Traveling the country again and not looking back.

  • @mxrsfx6930
    @mxrsfx6930 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Craig, I know this should be an email coaching. But could you do a video about navigating reconciling after they’ve been with a rebound and not being up negative thoughts?

  • @MikaelZodok
    @MikaelZodok วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you, this puts things in a better perspective 😊

  • @gregggaldo9181
    @gregggaldo9181 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Merry Christmas Coach....well...i did hear from my ex for my Birthday this past Nov. ....but not on Thanksgiving nor Christmas yesterday....do you see that often in your coaching practice....it was hard for me yesterday....but i managed.....thank you for the great video's 👍 👌 😉....

  • @BonjourBijou445
    @BonjourBijou445 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    No contact is killing me. I can’t imagine my ex reaching out. I’m going to therapy and have a life/relationship coach and even then I feel like a mess. I just don’t see him reaching out.

    • @CoachCraigKenneth
      @CoachCraigKenneth  วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Check out my Creative Healing Course! It will really help you process the breakup and get to a good place!

    • @abdominalsnowmansamak9950
      @abdominalsnowmansamak9950 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Maybe he won't. Don't change what your doing though. Good luck.

  • @jasoncleveland5490
    @jasoncleveland5490 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    So, yesterday I broke the no contact after 3.5 months. She did respond back on email. She said she is glad I am doing good. She then stated she’s taking it a day at time. Her and her son. I reached out and I told her I am there for her if she needs me. I miss my best friend and I hope she finds some peace. I am hoping I didn’t love bomb too much. Idk she didn’t say she missed me? Or loved me? I did say that at the end. Thoughts?

  • @SCnative64
    @SCnative64 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    People are telling me to move forward. Some skillfully, others in a mean way and I had to block her.
    Anyway I'm not wanting to do online dating and all this work and start over, butI also don't want to be single and celibate. And I want someone special to go to concerts with!

  • @Conefone
    @Conefone วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I keep silent , i really love her , i want her to be happy even if it cost my happenies

  • @ajfedz
    @ajfedz วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Why do you need personal growth and to work on yourself when someone walks out of your life? That makes it sound like something is wrong with you, that's why they left!

  • @20alpha20
    @20alpha20 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    After 3 months of no contact, my ex reached out to wish me and my family merry Christmas, we exchanged a couple messages, then she finished it with take care, I guess that's it

    • @priscillarodrigues7599
      @priscillarodrigues7599 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      same after 3 months of no contact he reached out to wish me a merry christmas i replied wishing him as well and he finished it with thanks and a hug emoji. i dont know if he will reachout again or not

    • @20alpha20
      @20alpha20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @priscillarodrigues7599 best thing to do is carry on and live your life, I know it feels sad, but it's probably for the best

    • @carlrav5660
      @carlrav5660 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      so lame... whats the point when people do that?

  • @lorddevin6314
    @lorddevin6314 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’m in no contact, but my mom reached out to my ex and told her that “She still thinks about her and wished her a Merry Christmas.” I’ve ask my mother in the past not to do this. Even though it’s not from me, I feel like it’s hurt my efforts and I’m extremely disappointed.

    • @lorddevin6314
      @lorddevin6314 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I am the dumpee, by the way.

  • @gowreeshp1317
    @gowreeshp1317 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hello coach. Can you make a video on why hasn't my ex returned my gifts/clothes after they break up with you?

  • @siangabrielmasupat674
    @siangabrielmasupat674 วันที่ผ่านมา

    She reachout to me this Chirstmas after 5 months of No Contact, I didn't expected it because she is in reboud relationship right now (one of the reason she broke up with me). We talked a bit in chat

  • @AlphonseG-p2z
    @AlphonseG-p2z วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    No contact has helped me level up and made me bigger savage than what I was already. The problem with relationships is that the guy lost his masculine frame and became complacemwnt with the woman. Woman love to be challenged and want a man they can admire and respect. Men must always be about their purpose and never ever let the woman know his emotions too much because then she looses sexual attraction plus he must show her that if she leaves he will be fine because he has options. Woman react to emotions of a roller coaster and you can be always cool. Have to show them you don’t f around.

  • @Kickz2323
    @Kickz2323 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My ex reached out after 6 weeks of no contact i thought she was going to wanna talk about us she called me to help her out After helping her I asked.
    If she was open to reconnect and after the holidays, she looked at me and said maybe I never got a text saying merry christmas (she's FA me AP)

  • @vixter28
    @vixter28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I got through Christmas
    Still didn’t unblock !
    Last time he contacted me was Thxgiving after 4 months NC only to say he is still angry
    I’m working on myself
    & trying to move on
    I don’t think he will reach out again

  • @DonaldMeyers-v8c
    @DonaldMeyers-v8c วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hey! I love Dunkin donuts. That's an important for me to know if someone is making a run there. I'll have an order for them lol

  • @whatwhat3432523
    @whatwhat3432523 วันที่ผ่านมา

    She do reach out, i am calm and polite. Then it stops for a while. Then she pop up again. Evetytime i slowly and light heartedly bring up something shes gone.

  • @JESUSanew
    @JESUSanew วันที่ผ่านมา

    Amen 👍

  • @gilbertaponte722
    @gilbertaponte722 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    1st