Mom only informed Dad he was NOT the Biological Father when they Broke up | Paternity Court
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Friend of the Court show cause hearing regarding child support
Motion by presumed Father to determine child born out of wedlock
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CPS took Moms children we're taken away because of her being an unfit parent
If a man finds out a child does not belong to them, the mother should have to pay back all the child support that was paid & be fined. 💯
absolutly. It needs to be a crime if the mother misleads a man into believing he is the father when she knows/suspects he may not be with the intent to recieve financial help. Its the same as Fraud.
Yesss
These are the changes that need to happen to this bias system. Also if he had signed the birth certificate, should have his named removed as the legal father of the child.
It should. But in reality, all the soft pansies in todays society wouldn't support it because it could be argued that it would "hurt the kid." That's their reasoning for most of the silly child support laws.
Yes @mommyshark - but if she stayed with this poor bloke, he would have wasted half his life raising someone else's kids. The only regret for her is getting caught.
The woman needs to be jailed. Women get away with this kind of thing to much with no consequences.
Totally agree. It’s disgusting. If she had genuinely believed he WAS the father, that’s one thing. But this is another! To lie to a man about this is horrendous.
very selfish of that mother to do that to her child..
These nasty young women need to be locked up have to pay back the support money. Sad thing is that they don’t know who the father is. Daddy’s need to get together and have the law’s changed. But the same for men. Wow she lost her children so that say’s everything about her.
@MarySmith-bc7mf that would mean she would need to find a job first so they'd have something to garnish.... which probably isn't going to happen with a person so unfit that they can't even keep their own kids.
This happens more than people know... Friend of mine found out that both his kids are not his. He didn't find out till they were 10 and 12 years old. It should be criminal.
That's so sad
God reading this made my blood boil
That’s tough! You’re emotionally their “Dad” and now you’re supposed to cut ties with them. Real hard decisions to be made.
@@andrewcassidy2508at that age, the court would still make you financially responsible for those kids until they turn 18.
@@KL-pd7crdepends on your lawyer. I'm not paying another dime
Why isn't paternity fraud illegal? Why aren't women held criminally accountable for doing this, since they knowingly defraud everyone involved for money and resources? It destroys so many families and lives, and it can take years sometimes before everyone knows the truth. The children and the men are the victims here and yet the mothers are never really held accountable.
Exactly, the mother not the state has to pay back one penny of the money that was stolen. And did you catch the line about the child being born out of wedlock? That’s because had they been married the court wouldn’t care if he wasn’t the father the mother still would have gotten away with it. The entire system is BS. A man could finds out he’s the father 5 years later and owe 5 years of back child support. Make this nonsense make sense.
The feminist way yo.
Paternity fraud is illegal in most states but sadly the states don’t do anything about it they don’t care
It should be, its essentially fraud. They are defrauding the man with the intent of recieving financial help. They already get EVERYTHING handed to them the second they have a child.
Because the state collects fees and percentages of the child support.
When a woman pulls this type of crap, they should automatically be jailed for a least a year!💯🤦🏾♂️
Would that help the innocent child?
@@oldbatwit5102who cares? The kid isn’t his, so that doesn’t matter.
@@YouWokeMe The child matters.
@@oldbatwit5102 under this logic if a single mother who commits murder, she can’t go to jail because the child matters
@@henrypeterson7411 Please don't try to put words in my mouth. Things I never said or meant.
You will only end up making both of us looking dumb.
This is so sad , the mother needs to be held accountable for her lies.
Women privilege....
Whoa. Women should face charges 4 shiz like this.
After 8 years my grandson found out through a DNA test the little girl wasn’t his he was heartbroken, the woman walked away said “Oh well I knew she wasn’t yours from the beginning of the pregnancy “ she never apologized just walked away, our family was heartbroken and angry, we provided her with everything she needed from the beginning to the end.
There should be a law when a. Child is born even in marriages both parents should have to do a DNA test that way from birth you know..
They have changed some laws because of mothers lying. I have seen it on here. They do get jail time and have to pay back the child support.
@@jennb5884In South Carolina when a woman sues for child support a DNA test is mandatory.
Well legally he raised her and supported her, so if he really wants to be the father he would probably have a good chance. Is he on the birth certificate?
Her body, her choice right? Also she is free to manufacture whatever narrative she chooses to benefit her interests without regard for guys she screws over. This really ought not be encouraged, otherwise some people might not believe that all women are not perfect just the way they are ;) Mitch, Australia.
We need mandatory DNA paternity testing at birth.
Or people can behave better and not just unprotected random sex with unsuitable people. Who is going to pay for that DNA testing, BTW? Another tax funded government program?
I think that's alittle extreme, but if u have any doubt about the person you're in a relationship with you need to leave that relationship because it will not work.
@@susanengel-ix8blBy that logic the state shouldn't mandate that you should pay child support.
@geraldstone8396 what does paying for your kids have to do with leaving someone you don't trust?
@@mzskipwith it has to do with the word mandatory.
I think DNA testing should be done automatically after child is born, regardless of marital status. I cant imagine the heartache of a father finding out child is not theirs.💔
Giving the state rights to every citizen’s DNA is not a good policy. Not everyone wants a DNA test. They should give the man named as father the option though.
@@thepcal9654 Yes, If the father asks for it, it should be required.
@@thepcal9654 Blood type testing of both parents and child could be another option. Wont work for all cases though.
How about this? This will sound very extreme but as a society we are going down hill. What if all person at birth are sterilized, but the procedure was reversible, only after they reached the age of consent and passed a “certified” class on parenting. Sounds like a crazy idea but there’s too many people having children, that don’t want them and frankly shouldn’t (yeah I said it) because they’re basically POS in society.
mr cat you are correct!
10 words can clear all this nonsense up. MANDATORY DNA TESTING AT BIRTH PRIOR TO SIGNING BIRTH CERTIFICATE!!!
Not done at birth no child support, invitation for father or potential father needs to be sent out by a third party to be present when child is born so that women can’t begin alienating the child from birth, if father or potential doesn’t attend then you can go after him
Absolutely should be mandatory.
@@henrypeterson7411 all the more reason for father to establish his rights. Tennessee is already doing it by law.
Indeed. Married or not.
You do realize that you don't have to sign the birth certificate right? You can just say "no". I don't feel like the best solution to this is to give the government a mandate to perform genetic testing on people already acknowledging they are the father... Definitely a huge violation of a persons rights and unnecessarily invasive... Just don't sign the paper until you get a genetic test. No reason to force other people to unnecessarily give their genetic information to the government.
Gentlemen, in Illinois, if you sign the birth certificate paperwork you will be responsible for the child even if you found out you were duped. Do not sign unless you get a paternity test, there is no disputing it. So gross.
Are you serious!? That is ridiculous. Y’all should revolt and push to change the laws.
@@GrubbyPigeonIf lawmakers did that they would alienate a big voting block. Also, then how would the state rip people off if they can’t find out who daddy is. It is gross. Easiest solution is education for men on the laws.
Ive heard of that happening in PA when they are unable to find the real father.
I think the same in most state’s. Poor babies always suffer.
@@sylviacalderon2180 How about if the court cant find the father then the judge can pay support. They earn well, and are as good a choice as any other random dude.....
I've had to deal with this situation before personally. I'm disgusted that any person/parent in training, (gender equal) who conceives a child, and then causes nearly irreparable harm to that child, by lying about its parentage, or refusing to support them? Calling a person like that "Unfit" is an understatement! Last time I checked, that is pure and simple child abuse!! May God have mercy on that "parent", cause you won't find much from people. What a low life!
It's OK. You can say 'woman', we all know.
this happen to myself after Rasing my daughter for 2yrs her mother informed me she was not mine and Shure enough she was correct so what did i do ...... I adopted her raised as my own now her mother turned in to a scum bag junkie i own a small business and my daughter works for a large legal firm that was a long time ago karma does not forget
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Thank God for men like you. This is so sickening to do to a father bottom line.
Bravo
This guy is painful when he speaks
Our society is beyond troubled. This is just so sad… smh 😢
All states should have a law that makes it mandatory to do a DNA test at birth of EVERY child born. Regardless of whether the mother is married, just dating, or single. That would prevent the child and potential father from having to deal with heartache, trauma and financial issues resulting from a lie.
At the very least, women who pull this crap should be made to pay back any and all child support payments made to them.
At the least he should sue her for emotional distress, because the state is never gonna hold her accountable or lose that money they collected.
Hate Zoom calls but LOVE the idea of documenting court proceedings via Zoom court cases.
I went through this same thing, unfortunately I went to prison and was under the impression for 4 years that I had a daughter that is until I was released and seen the child for the first time......let's just say it was blatantly obvious this child wasn't mine, I did my own testing and as I thought she wasn't mine and when I told the mother she exploded and still tried taking me for child support because I thought I signed the birth certificate for my child and I was prepared to man up for what was mine, pretty crazy that I was the bad guy
She was a black child huh?
This should be criminal in the US.
Mr Roe needs a Red Bull... Bless his soul... 😂
I feel so bad for this young man, you can see and hear the pain in his voice. He had time to develop feelings for the child only to be betrayed in the worst way. Hopefully the biological father will step up since the mother allegedly is not able to parent.
it is if he wants custody.. I feel bad for the children
Think before you sign that dotted line🤔🤣
if you have ANY doubt get a dna test done before signing that birth certificate. you will have to go through the court like this young man did to have it removed if you are not. you can still be made to pay child support until you do. just fyi
Yeah there have been cases in michigan(think it was michigan). Where ladies just went on a couple of dates. Then put there name on birth certificate. Some of these men didn't even have relations. Court still forced them to pay.
My cousin passed recently. He was maybe 71. He died not knowing his monster of a father wasn’t his sperm donor. Everyone in the family knew but him. I wanted to tell him many times. I felt like it was his brothers place to tell him, but he chose not to.
if u knew nobody else was telling him why didn't u step up and tell him the truth? he had the right to know this info and it was unfair that the entire family knew but kept this info from him. in my opinion shame on all of u. how would u like this done to u?
@@shelleyg1836so easy for u to pass judgment from the comfort of your home.... you dont know the full dynamics of that family nor the psychological state of the said cousin that passed or anyone else involved for that matter
This is FRAUD. the court needs to charge these women with criminal fraud charges.
I feel for the children in this situation, it's obvious they don't have the best mother.
Eye opening!!!
Why aren’t these women charged for fraud & made to also pay the poor guy that is traumatised by bonding with & paying for a child that isn’t his.
DNA testing at birth should be mandatory
Why Play Games with an Innocent Child's Life? You have Problems, leave it on You, don't Involve a Beautiful Baby and start their Life with Lies!!!
Does he still have to pay child support or did they go after the real sperm donator?
Oh Yes you know they are going after him, Judge says it towards the end. 10:11
So sad
Its more about trying to find a home for the kids. He said CPS had contacted him because the kids were taken away from the mother because she was an unfit parent
Automatic paternity tests should be mandatory for every child born and prior to signing the birth certificate. It isn't calling every woman a cheater. It protects men against paying child support for children who are not their biological child until the child reaches 18. I also agree that women who commit paternity fraud should have to repay all child support paid by the non biological father.
I think that we live in a sad and cruel world that one now has to do a paternity test to find out who the father is ,I am a woman who knew and never had to lie about who my childrens father was.I think that it is cruel to fathers and the child to lie to one or the other .EVERYONE should know who their rightful parents are .
well the cost for the test is high.. unless you do this new DNA search..I think that's a couple hundred..it makes me mad when women claimsomeone is the dad knowing good and well there's a chance he isnt.isn't.. as my mom said and many others too
MAMAS BABY PAPAS MAYBE..
Then don'\ have sex with women who would do that. Is that so hard? If the man has paid for the child that is not his, she should have to pay it back, so it is on her too.
Paying child support for a child that is not yours is also expensive.
@saran.4001 women are conniving, liars, two faced and can be down right evil, they may be sweet and nice when you're together, but the minute she leaves or yall split, she becomes a monster, so you don't always know the type of person you're really with
This woman sounds like a real keeper 😂
Where's his default judgement? All that questioning was unnecessary.
It wasn't unnecessary: the court needs to know that he thought he was the biological father when he signed the birth certificate. If he signed knowing that he isn't the biological father, he cannot later change his mind.
It's called building a record, so if the woman and/or the state come along later and try to hit him for child support again, the later court will have all the information it needs to leave in place the ruling of the earlier one. Judges don't like getting reversed. The judge here is going way out of his way to protect the rights of the defendant, who is appearing without the benefit of counsel.
How sad but so many cases.
"She was a hoowah Tony".
Why don’t we hold women accountable to the standards of the law and also more accountable must be taken against the judges who allow this bc they are the gate keepers !
It's like they're all on qualudes or something they way they're speaking lol
Mr. Roe seems slow. And I would get that throat checked out.
Whew. Dodged a huge bullet. More like a missile.
Is the Government Return the child support to this Man? 🙏 Or any Crime for Women for lying to a Man!
All babies that are born in the hospital should have a DNA testing before any legal documents/birth certificate signed by the potential father. A couple can have a paternity even while she's still pregnant through one simple blood draw.
Hospitals and social services should administer DNA at birth, married or not.
They won't. Child support is too much of a racket, and in the end, the state only cares that somebody is paying it, and not so much who.
You can pay $100 to get DNA test done in almost all states from Walmart
the guy on the bottom has a nice head of hair.. rather cute to lol😊
Very nice hair
I used to bailiff in family law court. The vast majority of men would be better off getting themselves fixed upon graduation from high school. It would save half of the adult males out there a lifetime of trouble.
Why do women do this to children? Its got to be the worst thing ever.
Ol up! Sooo the police is looking for her and the judge knows where she is? Men my heart goes out to you good ones because you good ones needs the back up and feedback from us good women. Because that's messed up. The court needs to be charged for not releasing this felon to the police and withholding her and for allowing the kids to be with a felon and putting the kids in danger. The court is contradicting itself what hypocrisy and shame. Sue the city dude forget bout them they are not for y'all but destruction.
My friend son baby was born 2020 during covid and he wasn't even allowed pass the visiting area so he left before she had the kid. He never signed a birth certificate he wasnt allowed to see her the whole time she was in the hospital but during that time she fraudulently signed his signature on the hospital doc.
Why isn't adultery still punishable with imprisonment? If you break a creational law in marriage and betray the spouse you promised total love, commitment, loyalty and devotion for life then it is a breach of the biggest contract there is and should be seen as such. In wedlock or out of wedlock, if you are bound in a relationship and have children you are bound by moral obligation and promise to each other and the child/children to set the example and just as a marriage, you are no longer just two people courting therefore this paternity fraud should be punishable as adultery and fraud.
When my now ex-wife came up pregnant, the one thing that save me was I had a vasectomy 6 yrs earlier... otherwise I might have raised and loved another guy's child.. or ended up paying child support..
So many people showing up to court high as kites.
She didnt show up because she knew she was in the wrong.
So the case is in limbo . Sad
Be careful where you put your tool.
A third of men are raising kids that arent there's
What kinda judge says those monies 😂😂😂
She’s not a mom. This is what you call a “Mammy” people.
No wonder she not show up
Same thing happened to me… she just wanted $$
All things considered he's lucky not to be paying child support cause some women have guys paying even though the child isn't his.
Why DNA testing is Not Mandatory!
If she knew that entire time, that should be considered paternity fraud and she should be held to account. It's wild that something as important as paternity can be so wildly abused by women without any consequences and in an untold amount of situations the women actually benefits greatly. There is motive and intent to deceive for financial benefit, how is that not a crime?
I watched a thing about this. She lives in a story in her head that she is a victim, and she will pick and choose what she remembers and how she sees things to make this story she lives in her reality. So to her she is the victim, therefore it is acceptable to do whatever to the bad guy in her story, in this case its this dude. The only problem is not everyone lives in her story, some people live in reality.
I’d like to see this country get to the point where a father can’t even put his name on a birth certificate until DNA testing is done. Mothers just can’t be trusted.
Since the law won't protect men in any way then you need to protect yourselves. Even if you're married DO NOT sign the birth certificate without a DNA test. If she refuses and gaslights you then sorry but she probably cheated and isn't positive its yours. Let her take you to court for child support cause then you can get a court ordered DNA test. Under no circumstances sign that birth certificate without that DNA test. Ever.
He;s so lovely
Who would you sue? You cannot sue the government to the best of my knowledge. They don't care who pays since they get the money, take out fees, then send some to the mother and kids.
Make them payback all the money shouldn’t be able to lie about who’s the dad
Been a few years, but when I was stationed in Hawaii, the mother of my 3 children ran off to Las Vegas and remarried to another man without the benefit of divorce from me. She also had another kid with him. When I filed for divorce, my attorney advised me that I was legally considered the father of her fourth kid despite the fact that I was in Hawaii and she Las Vegas for the 2 years before the kid was born. So I had to deal with that, too. Hawaii ordered her to pay child support in the whopping amount of $25/mo per child. Never saw a penny of that.
That poor kid.
Isn't that Fraud?
Im sure everywhere will have a criminal offence of 'making a false statement for personal gain'. A police complaint should be made in all these cases. Whether the police take it further is upto them. But the police complaint could be used in court.
DNA testing should be mandatory!
This should be required viewing for all high school guys.
I'm so glad i never married.
That is when a DNA can be ordered to prove paternity.
He said they used a private Dna testing place or something
Paternity fraud should be a felony, the fact that women just do this willy nilly and face no consequences is disgusting.
those poor babies
Why do these people have so many issues answering questions. Its like there doped up or something...
Because they are. Dope and alcohol. He's probably less than 25 also.
Is it me or is that kid high af? Hopefully the real father is a better person then this cat or the mother.
Kind of sounds like the Birth Giver has a mattress tied to her back.
Isn't adultery still a crime in Minnesota? Yet, a married woman can commit adultery, and the man has to pay child support for the child she has by him. All the while, going back to her husband. The husband she took to court, for domestic abuse, and won . A court order if no contact .
The law should require DNA on all births.
Paternity testing should be mandatory at birth.
All unmarried men and women need to have babies tested at birth. This will stop a lot of unnecessary heartache later after years of bonding with child you believe go be yours. If she gets mad, so bad. This is the time it should be done. I think it should be mandatory if a child is born to unmarried parents.
Married women don't cheat?
It’s clearly only profitable to the court system to have these kind of cases exist at all.. as we can all see it’s time we hold these gang members accountable and yes it’s a gang bc we get held to jail and lose our freedom over these kind of cases
Children born out of wedlock are at a distinct disadvantage in life.
Bs once both parents are there no difference
Do you have a source for that?
@@jax3695 yes myself been together 33years
@@jax3695look up the graduation and arrest records...
@@brianbrian598stop that
Fraud
This is way federal and state government shouldn't be envoled in marriage, At all.
Pretty laughable you have to go through all of that when it's proven beyond any doubt you are not the dad. God gawd man.
Men get made dads by default when they dont turn up to court
Judge can't hear
It's hard to understand somebody who talks like they have marbles in their mouth.
Mandatory paternity tests at birth! Married or not.
At least the boy knows how to say “Yes” instead of yeah.
#respect
This young man appears to be on…something.
I think he is petrified
@@terriedotson7323nah he’s a druggie
How nuch drugs and alcohol that dude has been doing?
How do you conclude that he does drugs?